Sex Playlist, Zach's Family Reunion, Posting Your Partner On Social Media & More

Tone Kapone, KeKe, and Zach Boog talk Sex Playlist, Zach's Family Reunion, Posting Your Partner On Social Media & More!

Episode Transcript

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What's up y'all? Welcome to itand what more can I say? Podcast?
I have one of your host toneof phone. This this episode one
sixties one sixties and I was twobehind. That's all right, let's go
ahead and get to the other membersof the pod. She is the first
Lady of the Pot, the olderLady of the Pot. She fluffy and
fine and got a gray see hername. Woo. Friends, what's what's

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up? Are you feeling I'm feelinggood. I'm so good. I'm so
good. I'm a little overwhelmed withlife, but it's all good stuff.
So it's like you can't you knowwhat I'm saying. That's good. Yeah,
just keep going. He's asking forplentiful blessings. Yes, there you
go. I gave it to you. Dad is Yes. Let's go ahead.

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Man, little bro the Poe alsothe funny man of the Pot.
His dame is Zach Bug whoa whoawho who whoot. Yeah, wa woo
woo. Sorry that was terrible.You don't like my my harvy you went
off script. Zach's upset because he'sthe only one that's allowed to sing on

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the part. Everybody can sing.Everybody can sing. Sing It makes you
feel good. Okay, Yeah,anybody can sing. I sing, I
just sing the best. What Yeah, let me hear what you want me
to sing? Sing? Sing jodasyOkay, that's a joasy song. What
I'm trying to think of music beforeI know ive sing sing pretty Ricky.

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I know you know that. Yousay it's because of min Go, but
he ain't nothing but the numboy.It ain't nothing about the no bad baby.
Yeah, sorry, that's exact.The body roll to shirt off,

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but take your shirt off, thatis wild. I never was on one
of them. Yeah body roll.I used to make fun of them,
really yeah, but I did.Used to play Petty Ricky in the car
when I picked up girl and Iwould like go to the song right before
they got Like if I saw themwalking to the car, be like I
started at the beginning, they openingthe door. It's mandatory. You gotta

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playing now. Look, that wasthe thing you got you You had to
whood be in your car. Youhad to have the playlistre you have to.
You had to, especially back thenbecause you have the CDs you made.
Yeah, I think the biggest complimentis like you had the CD.
You put the CD you made andthen the girl be like, who what

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mixed? Safe? Is that whatused to be on your CD? Cool
moment, cooling the game? IO, god, imagine what was on

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your c D? Miss right hereis not a that's not Look. I
came up and during the Golden ageof R and B nineties, RMB is

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considered the golden age of RBS.I had all of the good groups jo
Jo Toasy, Guy, Bobby Brown, Janet Jackson. Look, Luther was
he was too young. I didMy mama loved Luther, but I did
put on a good hair and nowit was that's a commercial with the complex

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CD. Oh god, see,this is the thing. This is why
you guys don't respect Nelly. Nellyget it, they don't respect Nelly.
Man, this is the thing.This is what not look think about this.
Okay, Nelly went diamond physical sales. That means all those people went

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and grabbed those albums. Yes,people went gold platinum. Those were a
million hand in hand. I gottahave this, I gotta have this,
I gotta have this. That's whythose artists could sell out arenas. They
could sell out a five thousand personvenue quick, because you if you win,
go Now what you got is abunch of people out that. Really

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you're gauging them on listens. Itain't even just think about that. It's
not I grabbed the album. Theygauge you. How many times you listen
to a song that that ain't?That ain't Really That's why you can't really
mess those artists against like Annelly.Annelly sold so many albums, Jay z
sole albums you got people right nowto stream do you think do you honestly

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think by hisself the Future could sellout that the United sent by yourself with
what he has never not by itself. Never He's literally on an arena tour
right now. He's not yes heis, he's not. He's not by
he's not by no, No,he got day's got canceled. He's not

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on a tour by his self.I don't know how Nelly in Future got
here specifically, but since we arehere that the tour was, it has
been a little effected by some youknow, some dates being canceled just since
we hear. I don't know howwe got you because I was excited to
say what was on my cities,But I don't know. I don't even

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want to do this we're not.I'm not gonna do it. I'm not
fighting about them, fight about anyother artists today, but you're not getting
me into another I've said what Ihad to say about future and that's it.
Okay. You know what I'm saying. If you want to keep bringing
up Nelly in this diamond record thathe has, that's perfectly fine album,
that's what I mean. That's whatI mean by record, the diamond album

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that he has. I respect Nelly. I love Nelly. I love what
he's doing now with a shanty perfectlike. I think Nelly's dope. You
know what I'm saying. And Iknow Nelly a real one too. He'll
fight you. So. I loveeverything about Nelly, Okay, but you
just got to quit bringing them upout of nowhere. Like Nelly was not
on the c Nelly was not onyour Luther Se you was forty when Nelly

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came out, it was not there. Nelly came out and win who yo?
Who was on your CD? Kiki, go ahead, I'm gonna let

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you do it. Do you wantme to do yours? No? It
ahead? We just made fun ofit. No, UK, My list
was lit. I had three pieceOkay, Okay, pretty Ricky Okay,
Mario, y'all remember Willie, YeahWilly if these walls now now he buck

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he's the Willie Moore Show. Doy'all know that's the same pretty Willy.
I don't know, I don't.You don't know. I don't know either
one of those, you know,pretty Willy. No, And I was
on the radio during that time.I ain't don't lie. Pretty Willy songs
did not sound mixing mastic like Ican't. I don't know how we got

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this record, but it just cameout. And know, it never sounded
like the other songs on your CD. It was like to turn it up
a little bit. It was alittle cloudy. Four Walls was cloudy,
so I could see how you didn'tsee it. It never made it to
the radio and it was just justa burner CD song. Yeah, yeah,
that was my list. Oh mygod, Yeah, that's a bad
street pieces strong what rappers is?You listen to? Kik Lil Wayne,

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Little Wayne right, exactly, YoungMoney. I was a barb. I
am a barb. Okay, I'ma barb. So I was definitely was
Nikki mixtapes heavy like would do allthe verses when Monster came out. I
thought I was about to win,and Grammy like it was serious. Was
twenty seven when I wasn't not there? Twenty I was in college, thirty
five with you? Was thirty fivewith you know that? And I was

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because I was in college. Iwasn't. No, I ain't know if
I'm aunt you big on because we'reyoung. I'm younger than you. Three
months to get out of here withthat. That's three months younger than me.

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I'm young, I was like Iam. I just act more mature
than him. So it's but threemonths, not three months. I swear
something like six months. It's notapart. We're not a year or two
apart out of you. Not not. Your age should be the same age.
You're thirty five, and I'll giveit. You gonna tell me how

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old I am? You thirty three? Well you graduate high school? Oh
eight? I graduated? Oh seven? Okay, we did a year apart.
I birth my birthday late. Youjust got late birthday. You're graduating,
oh eight, I got seven.I'm thirty four. You can wait
turn thirty five, remember my bad? So we're a year apart. We
were lied about our birthday that long. We're ten months apart. We are

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a year apart, Zachary, Iwasn't around long enough to learn anything else
in life than you knew so far. I don't care what you're saying.
You to say you I know.When Nigma was out, I was grown,
you were. I had already hadthe boys. That's now that now
that it's too aware, it's toofun. Whoa and some of us are

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just late bloomers. I was noton that. Wow, that got real.
Do you want to talk about Ohdon't. I ain't know. It's
gonna hit you all like that nownow, everybody up tight? Yeah?
Yeah, I mean okay, yeah, we're fighting for those rights all on
TV. Now. If I saythe word now, y'all look at me
like we're voting for it. Alltypes of Second Amendment, okay, whatever,

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the second Amendment, another right tocarry states at university. You should
never started with him the future nowhe on one, he on one,
he one, All right, man, y'all would say, except to me,
guys on the pod. They wouldtalk to me about some type of

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boat party. I have no ideawhat's going on with the boat. What
are y'all talking about? What itwas Zack's idea so I'll let him start.
Well, I saw black Boats blackscene week, yeah, and I
was I was mad, I wasn'tthere, you know, And then I
was thinking about it. I waslike, I want to throw a boat
party. It's got to have,Like we should throw a boat party.

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And Keiki was saying that she wantsto throw a boat party. And then
I said, well, we shouldthrow one together for our birthday. Both
of our birthday is at the endof the year, so we might as
well. Just boats is overweight bythat time, exactly, So we're going
to do our half birthday, yes, And we wanted to know if you
would host it and not hosted sucha ridiculous idea a half birthday party.

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When he came to me where Iwas like, at his very big age,
he asking for a half birthday partyis crazy. So I thought that
I would make it softer for himand throw myself in the mix so that
way he's not alone and asking forhis birthday party, you know what I
mean. Said, So, Ijust know, I'm trying to be a
supportive friend. So I know weboth too brong for half birthday parties.

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But since Zach wont one, youknow, he just saw the little photo
shoes with the baby with the halfa cake and that he won't one,
so I'm just here to support him. Half birthday party is crazy too grown
for that. I'm not partaking anda half. Why didn't you just say
I want to go have a minkick you want to have a boat party
and invite people? Bro? That'sthat's that's it. Hey, look know

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what we're gonna have a one more? Can I say boat party? We
could? No, Zach wants thehalf cake with the candle. If you
blow out a half cake, I'llkick you in your head. Bro,
you want a half cake, You'vegrown as hell. I kind of wanted
like a dress code and stuff.No, not a dress y'all? Well

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like red like the you know,like the birthday boy were like white.
Wow. Wow. I kind ofwanted to celebrate like it was my birth
Why did just wait hit birthday?Because we can never have a Remember I'll
never have a birthday party at theend of December unless we go to Miami.
Yeah, who's gonna be there?You know how hard it is to

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get black people to go on thetrip. Oh my god, it's that
sight full of tea. Yes,yeah, that that is what kept me
from traveling. A lot of times. I was like, man, we're
gonna go. We go, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're gonna go.
All right, look all right,and I'm I'm the I'm the planner,
Like all right, cool, We'regonna I found a hotel that's cheap
for everybody. Man's body this thiscools right by. I got a hook

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up, okay, Like yeah,yeah, yeah, all right. Hey
man, it's about like two monthsout. Anybody else bought they ticket,
they got this stuff to get Ohman, I need a couple more weeks
next. You know, about amonth before the trip start, everybody started
hitting you with excuses. Now youjust stuck with the hotel. You didne
got your hookups down in Miami,Like, hey, look, I got

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a big group coming. You don'tgot everything You've been telling them For two
months. We've been a tad upthere, twelve of us, and I
would cancel. I would cancel somany because I was scared to travel by
myself, not to say scared,but uncomfortable to go to go to another
city and then like try to kindof figure it out without your guys.
Now it's almost to the point whereI for her not to have anybody with

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me because it's easier to move.It's easier to move. Like when I
was in Vegas, it was easyto move, it was easy to move.
I knew they ain't gonna say noto one person. They're not saying
no to one person. Well,if you didn't want us to go,
you couldn't. That was it.I think. I think I was about

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a plus three possible four, Butthat's it. I love moving around by
myself. Yeah, I like doingit here. It's just so much easier.
You can get more access by yourself. Zach like a little sniper.
Just he'd be everywhere. Bro.He showed up. I showed him in
the cup with him. Yeah,he was in the club. I came
in late. I'm a little nice. Zach over there in the section with
his family reunion. This we gotto find out about that. All his

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cousins I'm talking, they were like, hey, we'll jump you. What
a family friend. But that Kentucky, Atlanta and Miami. Okay, they
definitely told me they was gonna jumpme. They didn't. They would talk.
It was like, hey we'll jumpyou. Like girl cousin was all

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over taked. Oh my god,she was so hot. You know,
the ladies love to I know,but that's my brother. You can't do
that. Yeah, okay, whateveryou No, I just I would never
talk to one of his asks cousins. I said they were attractive, but
I just wouldn't do that too.You do it to me, I do

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with your cousin. That was yourbig nasty friend. It doesn't matter.
You don't care. No, Ido care your big nasty friend. I
don't mean to call her that.She's probably a great person. But we
we wear leopard print and you gota tug ring. I don't know.
You kind of fall into my bignasty friend, my big nasty friend that

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is a family member. And oh, I just don't appreciate how you have
all this respect for that's some bignasty cousins, But you don't discriminate when
it comes to me. That wasyour family member. I apologize, that's
too late. I thought it wasa friend. I would never talk to
her that. I never would.I didn't even say nothing to her.
In I got out of the shestarted. She started looking crazy at me.

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I was like, lady, yougotta go. Leopard print and a
tug ring is something crazy to me? Something about this leopard print and this
tug red. This lady got gotme excited. Shout out to my stud
cousin. She turned she my studcousin lit the whole party up. Oh
God, I love my stud cousinfrom now on out, I don't want

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to go out without my stud.She's shorter than me. She got like
a loafer cup. She had herhat on backwards, fitted cap on backwards.
I turned around cousins standing up onthe couch for licking girls. I
was like, I love, Iwould love to see you. Before I
should have known it was gonna beup, because before we went in the

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club, she said, hey,cuz, I said, what's up?
She said, they got white girlsin him. And at that moment I
should have known my stud cousin's gonnatake it up, specifically asking for white
girls. Where is she from?White girl? They got white girls in

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here? I said, I thinkit's a little bit of head thing in
him. Cups. She knew shewas finna win. Oh man, she
got in that booth. No,I love the fact that she has this
white girl's here. You can alwaystell your friends they want to know if
you're going to diverse club or somethinglike that. They try not to say

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not everybody in the car is quiet. They wait and they hit you up
right before you go in where everybodyelse He got in front, like,
hey they got some latinos. Ohmy god. You know, you know,
I ain't not if it's all black, I ain't tripping. But you
know, if it's some Latin girlsare here, that'll be cool. That
said. Then my other cousin,he's from Kentucky too, he hit me

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up on Saturday because we're supposed togo out Saturday night. I was too
tired to go. I didn't haveit in me. He called me,
he said, cause, can youmind recommending some spots? I think I'm
gonna go out? Like will whitegirls be? Oh God, with your
family? It took me to allthe black stuff. Now that's the truth.

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My my cousins from Kentucky love whitewomen. Yeah, they married to
a lot of white women. Andbecause that's what they see though, but
that's what they say. Like anythingaround any black men who leave him mew
to Minnesota or like Muda, youknow Kentucky. They do. They get
them in white. It's like apackage, like you get a white girl
and y'all get pregnant, y'all.Baby, you know what it is.

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No, I'm about to I'm gonnakeep it up. What it is is
Illinois is hella racist. And becausewe didn't grow up around each other,
Like think about how Illinois set up, think about how Chicago is set up,
we didn't grow up a lot ofaround each other. So a lot
of places white and black people wereright on top of each other. They
pretty much not all, but alot like a New York, like a

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Miami, like a Minnesota. Thoseplaces, it's in close proximity, and
it's just for some reason, it'sjust really taboo. I mean, the
first time I ever ever talked toa white girl out of was out of
state. I'm in LA, andshe came like hollered me like a sister
wood or it came and was likelook. I was like, wait,
like, y'all don't do that.But other places, in other cities,

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white women will talk to you thesame way, and I think it's just
something new for a lot of blackguys that just grew up around predominantly black
neighborhoods. Y'all not going. Itried to follow that, but it's it's
you saying Kentucky is less racist thanIllinois. I ain't say it was less
racist. I ain't say it wasless racist. But it seemed like they

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be around each other more. Okay, I don't know. I could be
wrong. Yeah, I think you'rewrong. Let me tell you something.
We vote Illinois. Always gonna beblue, always gonna be ready. Way
more racist in Kentucky. Illinois.Bro, Like you can live on the
south side, bro, and maybeonly see three white people. I think
that on the west side you can, you could go, you could be

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a pilster and only hang around.You go up north and like it's a
type of city, bro. It'sdefinitely segregated. Chicago is the most segregated
city I've ever lived in. Thatthat's that's the most That's what I'm saying.
The most live in the south.I'm only living in the on the
south side, and all I seeblack black black, and then i'm all

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black women talking to me, oryou know, the one or maybe the
mixed girl. But then you goout of town and they're like everybody's mingling,
everybody mingling. And the thing isyou've always it ain't like beauty is
beauty, So you see a prettywhite girl. But you just know it
ain't going You ain't finna be.They ain't wasting your time. That makes
that makes a world because I usedto live in the North Suburbs at one
point, and when I would goto my cousin house in the city,

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I was like, I was like, I love it here, Like I
love the West Side of Chicago,Like, oh my god, I can't
even go to the corner store.It's spy dudes lined up, you know
what I'm saying. But in theNorthwest Suburbs, that ain't funny, right,
So I to the West Side byninety I swear to god, I
love it over there. Okay,whoo babey. I feel safe, I

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feel protected everything when I go overthere. So it's it's definitely I get
that it's gentrified. It's segregated.Yeah, the Chago is the most segregated
city. That's all okay, becauseI'm not completely segregated. Definitely racist And
on top of I think with Chicago, on top of the segregation, people
don't don't go out like it canbe segregated in other cities, but you

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go to different parts, like youshare a Walmart, you share this in
Chicago. People don't go outside ofwhere they're in their little bubble. They
do everything within that bubble. Church, club, party, they don't leave
the area in Chicago. And that'sthat's the difference. I think that's more

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different than any I've noticed that herethan anywhere else I live. Like,
if some is across town, youjust go across town and go to it.
They're doing its fifteen minutes down thestreet. Do you think it's a
such as a black Walmart at ablack black grocery store, like or different

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than it could be a Walmart ina hood and in a Walmart, let's
say North Suburbs. Different. Yeah, because the white people got neighborhood Walmarts.
Everything in our is locked up.We got super can't get you can't
get the similar, the past,the dish soap. You got to get
a key for everything in our walkmarksin Walgreens. Yeah, that's what I'm
saying. So, like, it'sdefinitely a difference. So y'all take it

(23:10):
back, y'all. I'm sorry.I mean, yeah, it wasn't racist,
it was segregated. Okay, thankyou. But you were right though,
And once we understood she was talkingabout that's why I was trying torupt
because I wanted to be right.Okay, you're right, brother, anything
else you want to be right about. I would like to hear more about

(23:32):
the recap of the family reunion.How to go oh man. So look,
as y'all know, the family reunionwas exactly how I wanted it to
be. My vision with the familyreunion, I wanted it to feel like
an old school homie family reunion,not no bells and wheel so it was
just a traditional family reunion. SoI got shirts made. You know,
we hadn't done t shirts in likeyears, So we had shirts and it

(23:56):
was at my house in the backyard. Yeah. I had a shout out
to Rocco Rico, whoever Rico Ithink is his name, the tent man.
Tent man came set everything up,tables and chairs, shout out to
DJ Prince. DJ Prince came out. It's fun I had. We had.
It was lit. You know,we did regular family reunion stuff.

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We had cards, We gambled,and you know what black people do when
they when they ain't got no activitieslike basketball and nothing, they race.
So we had races in the middleof the street. That's what black people
do. Now they compete. Doyou ever race at your family reunion?
So your cousin ain't gonna race you. That's his African side. Ain't nobody

(24:40):
racing at our family reunion side?Y'all tell how faster than you? And
that's how that's how he be aroundhere. Zach always want to race somebody.
Yes, I don't know what marathonyou're trying to win, but that's
crazy that y'all was racing at thefamily reunion in the middle of the street.
That's nuts. That's that's your DNA, and you definitely want to race
people. So here's the thing.I didn't want to race people. They

(25:02):
started off racing the kids. Itstarted off with the kids. The kids
was racing. And then I'm gonnatell it cuz I'm sorry, I gotta
tell your business. I have acousin that brought a white boy to the
reunion. It's her boyfriend. Cool. She's mixed, so sorry, perfectly
cool and everything's fine, right thewhite boy, the white boy race.

(25:22):
So the white boy races one ofmy cousins. So you know, they
come in. I'm inside while thisis going on, but I saw the
video they race cuz beats them.They were racing on the sidewalk. He
beat them. Boom. White boyssay, I want to rematch, but
I ain't have enough space on thesidewalk, So let's race in the street.

(25:45):
So they take the street. Theytake the race to the middle of
the street. Boom on your market, set go, they take off.
Cuz pull up, pull a wholemuscle, whole quad, pull up.
At the end of the race,a white boy win. So now I'm
inside with all this happening. Ididn't know this was going down. Cuz

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come in lipping and just lay inmy living room and back. I said,
cous what's wrong he's talking about Ipulled a muscle? Cause I said,
you pulled a muscle? What happened? He was Then my other cousins
like, now he ain't telling thetruth. That white boy beat him in
a race. I said, thewhite boy beat you. Oh God,
Now I gotta go out here andget your revenge. No race. I

(26:33):
had to go redeem him because whatI cannot have at the Faring Union I'm
hosting is a white boy come inmy family and be like I beat them,
boy man. I told him inthe foot race, I had to
race the boy. You won,didn't you what I don't? And I

(27:00):
just don't real you get from racing. You take it so serious, like
debting music or like something out atthe table. You would just be like,
who want to race? Who wantto race? Why? He gets
serious about it, like it's dadserious, like what I told him I
could. I could beat him insomething. His whole face. You chased

(27:22):
it what you're talking about? No, you can't, you can't, don't
you. I'm strong, that's it. You ran track. But okay,
it's just like, okay, that'swhat I'm good at as a little guy.
You don't have many wins growing up. Okay, I wasn't gonna beat
nobody in basketball, wasn't gonna beatyou in a fight. But a race

(27:45):
is where I thrive. So anytimeI can get back into just winning and
being dominant, I'm gonna do it. If we can. If the conversation
goes to a race, I'm gonnachallenge you, okay, because I want
to win. Have you seen themdudes to like to fight? Oh?
Yes, No? Why do theylike to fight? Because they know they
can win, they can beat people. The same reason I like to race,

(28:07):
Wow, the same reason I don'tlike to play basketball so much.
I mean, I played, I'mdecent. I'm decent. Oh, I
played in Rossmax game. Did acelebrity game. I played in there,
and I was scared. I ain'tgonna lie because I played in another game
and I was scared. It wasenough. It was some different people,
some people in there. There's alot of girls in there. And I

(28:30):
was like, all right, I'mnot starting, which I got. Which
is I gotta get used to notstarting it used to every celebrity game.
I will start, but it's notgood. Gott I come off the bench.
Shame coming off the bench when you'reolder? Are you come come off
the bench? Now? Are youaccepting that role? I've accepted it because
really I don't want a lot ofminutes, just a few, just a

(28:52):
couple of show your highlights. Iwant. I know, somebody gonna get
a picture of me doing something likeI'm in shape now. So it looked
like when I take the picture,I'm good. But anyway, so I
was I and I had just gotoff the plane. I was definitely afraid
of going over again. I waslike, please don't go over means not

(29:14):
hitting no shots. Okay, yousaw me? Thank you thank you,
and I was like, man,I first half nothing, how many shots
did you take? I didn't takea lot. I'm not I don't want
to tell you I haven't shot.I saw that like three, so you
were oh for three the first half. In the first half, I was
for one. I took one shot. They pulled me when I missed it.
But I thought I was was agood shot. And that's the worst

(29:37):
getting took out the game when youshoot a shot and missed. Was ever
turned it ever turned? I said, I'm I saying I got come somewhere
you'd be good. Ever was nicethough. I mean for the NBA playing
to bring your hands out the game, you got like you're like okay.

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If it had been like a regularcoach, I would have argued with him
like, man, wait, man, I just missed a shot. But
the dude who used to play inthe NBA that got the creditions ever turned
a hand. You kind of likeokay. Yeah. So the second half,
I'm I'm scared, man. Iwas like I said, the first
open one I get, I'm lettingit fly. I gotta let it and
I hit it. I was likeI hit a really deep three and that

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was it? I shot again missed? That was cool? Okay, but
you got your three. You gotgot my three. Now I'm about to
playing a celebrity softball game. Nowthat one I should be okay, it's
softball, yeah, softball, okay, Yeah, don't get struck out though.
If I no, now that's whenI now I'm an athlete. Bro,
I'm not getting and a sixteen insoftball. I'm gonna hit a sixteen

(30:47):
in softball. Okay, don't getstruck out. That'll be a terrible look
though. No getting struck out insoftball. I'm telling you, if I
keep playing horrible in these games,it's over. You're gonna quit. I
was done. Yeah, it's done. I'm done, and it doesn't mean
as much to me anymore. Uh. Let's go ahead and get to this

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with black scene boat seeing Kiki asyou get on the boat, do you
on the boat yet? Oh?Yeah, I know you don't want to
have the boat party, So Iguess that's kind of dumb question. I
don't have no boat friends. You'rethe only friend I know who with the
potential to buy a boat. Yeah, absolutely not. I don't have no

(31:27):
boat friends, you know, sonobody invited me to nobody's boat. Why
not? What? Why not?I don't know. Probably did not think
I'm gonna bring the gin. Youknow what I'm saying. I don't,
Zach, I don't know why I'mnot getting invited on boats. Kiki.
You didn't you act like you don'twant to go on no boat. People

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would invite you to the boat anyday you want to go. Okay,
I just got on a boat.You just on at work. You're not
said, that's the only boat youget on in the summer is for your
company. And then y'all got onthat little ass boat all that. Oh
yeah that one time. Yeah,yeah, he was scared on that boat.
I was You had a life jacketout, but I still had fun.

(32:09):
How you did, bro, You'vegot in that corner and didn't move
or talk to nobody. I'm readyfor this. She got on that sea,
that sweat. She didn't even turnaround. It's like, hey,
y'all turned right back around, andshe knows she was scared to death.
I was terrified. I think,really, I want to get on the

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First of all, I don't trustnobody in Chicago to drive me on the
boat. That's the problem. SoI don't want the boat to move.
I just want to go get onit docked right there at the little thing.
We could stay right there. Wedon't need to go. We in
the water, we do not needto move. That's my thing. I
don't trust none of them. TheyI don't know what y'all doing. Yeah,
so that was mine, Zach.What about you as far as what

(32:53):
black scene? Did you think abouttaking cousins out there? Yeah? I
think if I would have known,I would have extended it with extended family
reunion. I would have said,y'all leave on Monday instead of Sunday.
We got some big on Sunday.Bring it, we're getting on the boat.
I would have told everybody, andI would have probably rented a boat
for them for black scene. IfI would have known it was that Sunday,

(33:13):
that would have been perfect. Hey, I had my daughters. I've
been gone all month. I hadI got a pretty good July essence,
Fast League and then New York rightright right. I meant I had pretty
lit July. But I was like, man, so I had seen my
daughter. I had seen my youngest, who doesn't really play about not seeing

(33:34):
me. She don't play about thatI started getting text visage early. Am
I coming this weekend? But sometimesshe don't get busy. She don't get
busy and be like dad, Iknow I said I was coming, but
you know I'm gonna go spend thenight in my friends. All right?
Cool? And I love my babyso much. I love her so much,
but I never wish for somebody tocancel on me so bad. You

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start calling out friends, parents likey'all have no sleep bathers this weekkid.
But and then it got worse.It got worse, like Sunday, like,
I'm like, man, I'm lookingat all of them. I'm looking
at all of the boats. I'mlike, damn, I'm looking at people's
stories. I'm like, I'm like, I called her mama, like,
what time you coming? You knowshe gotta get up? She wow time?

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You know what's going on? Lady? That's funny. It's crazy.
You miss mommy, you miss her. I'm about to take it to you.
Yeah, man, it was oneof them. Also, this this
is something I saw and I wantedto ask you guys this question. Do
you think of twenty twenty four youshould keep your relationship off of social media?

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Yes? Can you do that?Right, yes, absolutely, So
why do people say that it's notreal unless you put somebody on social media.
I don't know. I didn't saythat because that ain't that ain't sound
like I don't know. I don'tknow. I just feel like when you

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start saying that you know your partnershe you know what I'm saying. When
you started being like why you ain'tposting me, it's because you know,
like you know why I didn't postyou. So it's like, why even
have that debate, why even argue? So for me, what works best
in the relationship is if we're notmarried, you don't need to be nowhere
on my social media because at anymoment in time I may have to replace

(35:37):
you. God forbid. You knowwhat I'm saying, we may not work
out, And now I got toexplain to my followers who this new person
is. When if I just nevertold them who you was in the first
place, they don't miss nobody.So it's just it's crazy, Like I
tell my boyfriend Hall saying, likethey know of Big Ten. Everybody know
Big Ten. You can't point themout in the lineup. Why because at

(35:58):
any moment, if God forbid,I have to switch Big Tims. That's
a new man is still gonna benamed Big Tim. Y'all would never know
that it was. You know what, She's gonna have another if I gotta
switch Big Tims. If I haveto, and you've talked about me,

(36:19):
that's real though, you gotta respectthat. I'm what. That's just keeping
your record. I don't need nobodykeeping record of how many what I got
going on. That's what social mediado. We keep records like we keep
records. So will you pop outwith somebody that goes on your record?
If you never pop out with nobody, your record is clean until you don't

(36:43):
want it to be. And whenI pop out, it's gonna be engagement
pictures or a wedding. That's whenyou pop out. Crazy you telling it?
I can't wait. We said exactlywhat you said? You would tell
us up? Yeah, what whatthe hot boy? Squeak that lineass squeak?

(37:05):
What say exactly what she said?Tone from now? Tone's gonna say
what you say? Okay, allright, I don't post women just because
you know, I don't want anybodyto keep track of what's going on with
me. In mind? What's wrongwith that? You would tell me you
would be. You act like youdon't you wait a minute. You are
a person that just wait a minute. Oh my god, I'm just it

(37:29):
just popped in my head. Lookat this. Look at how she fliped
flopped. I said hey, Isaid, hey, I'm seeing you now,
and you are like now you wantto announce you single? You ain't
never want to announce you was ina relationship. That's true. What do
you mean I'm keeping my my relationshipto myself now. I tell people all

(37:49):
the time I'm in a relationship,but I'm single. I tell people this
all the time. Do I nottell y'all this? Is this the first
time y'all hearing this for real?No? We still think it's record every
time. Just reckless. No,it's not the first time. But you're
very reckless. And that's what wealways get on you about. How is
that reckless? You gonna stay single? Keep talking like that? My god,
when you file your taxes, whatdo you put on your taxes?

(38:14):
Look single? Okay? You getready to get your head knocked between the
wash it and dry up when youget home if you don't stop talking like
this, because you just you justbe talking so reckless, right, I
really not though, and I wishmore women would accept that. Y'all running
around here talk about y'all in arelationship with a single man. You know

(38:37):
what I'm saying, The man bereal single and you and you, you
is tied down since fighting for yourlife. You should be, you should
be you want to be a wifetoday? Like this is the funniest thing.
If you start dating me, andyou start dating let's say we're not
we're not even in a relationship,we just date, but you're still throwing

(38:57):
up advertisement pictures on your it's theground. Then I can't really that that
I'm ever gonna take you serious advertisementpictures like you still showing the cuff of
ass you steal, heavy cleavage leaninginto the phone. You are? Why
am I finna? Why Why wouldI'm gonna wipe the woman and everybody trying
to get to Was I advertising beforeyou got with me? Exactly? And

(39:21):
once once I get with you,you need to stop. If you want
me to stop, make me anhonest woman, Nona. I gotta figure
out what your creditionals is though,I gotta find out to get a good
credit score, pay some bills.We know what you're gonna pay somebody got
mad at me about that, aboutwhat about the bills paying? And I
got I keep telling y'all, I'mnot gonna explain it like he can't explain

(39:44):
the future. Like dog, I'mgonna tell any man in his face.
Bro If you trying to take careof a woman and yourself and have her
not paid for nothing, and whenyou make seventy thousand dollars a year,
your ass going broke. Your assgoing broke. You want to do it

(40:05):
at eighty ninety Your ass going broke, You're going broke, or you're gonna
live in something really really small.Stop Stop with all that. This lady
got mad at me, being man, I was like, what I'm just
telling you the real I'm telling youreal, real life stuff. If you
cannot cheat the number, If youtrying to live up to what these women

(40:27):
telling you to do and you makeseventy thousand dollars, your ass going broke.
Bruh, flat out. So youwant you want a fifty fifty lifestyle
forever. No, I don't wanta fifty fifty lifestyle, but I do
want somebody that's gonna make my situationand her situation go up. We both
shouldn't be crippled. One of usshouldn't be living good, and I'd be

(40:47):
like, and I'm stressed, Like, ah, I gotta we both should
come together and you should want toget with somebody else and make stuff bigger.
Yes, Like if you you gota three hundred thousand dollar house that
you paying for on your own,and I got a three hundred thousand dollars
house and I'm paying for my own, it ain't about going fifty to fifty
at that point. It's about lookingat what's best. Okay, cool,

(41:09):
Let's see all right, let's let'sdo let's get it. Let's get a
Let's get a four five hundred thousandour house, because we obviously trying to
have a family. Let's look atyou gotta look at the numbers. That's
all I'm saying. I've been there. Death Stoppers is real. Bro He
never going back to Death Stoppers though. That was the most embarrassing time of

(41:35):
my life. My I'm telling y'all, do you know how it is to
be a radio personality in Chicago yourwhole life? It be broke, It
be broke as hell, But nonobody knew I was broke until I walk
my ass and the death stoppers,and that lady said, it's okay,
baby, happening to everybody. Whatoh time. Well, that's why I'm

(42:00):
not against what you're saying. Ihear what you're saying, and I'm not
it's not totally wrong. But Ido think Tom, you a little hard
on the women, like you wantthem to work and be homemakers. No,
no, no, no no,I don't. I want you to.
I want you to care about Iwant us to figure it out,
right, okay, care about useating. So say, y'all got kids

(42:21):
together, and y'all move in together, and you want her to work and
to provide just as much as youprovide. But somebody got to take care
of these kids. Somebody got soship it shifts its ships. Like when
I honestly, when I live andI was working at night, she had
our son the whole the whole day, the whole day. And when I
and you know, buddy gonna getup. He got me, got his

(42:43):
blood, he got my blood andhim so he up at nighttime. Guess
who had the night shift? Meand folks was up watching ESPN, playing
the game. I fed them andno, she was sleep so she could
get a good, nice sleep,get in there. When she had to
get our ass up in the morning. I was like, yo, shift
over. I need to sleep becauseI gotta get up and do the radio.
But she also had to go towork. But she had she had

(43:06):
to go to work. She hadto go to work, but no week.
But I paid for the for thedaycare during the day. So it's
like I said, like, ifyou just running it and she telling you
everything, you're supposed to be doingfolks, you supposed to be paying this,
and you've supposed to be doing this, and you're doing that on seventy
bucks, your ass going broken.You're gonna end up in desk stoppers.
And then and she gonna leave yourass and take you, take her and

(43:29):
your shorty and be able to dudeagain. And she might go fifty to
fifty with that dude. Fid youain't right. I ain't gonna stop you,
like I ain't know. That's allI'm saying that I'm passionate about that.
Lady came to me and she I'mpassionate about it because at the end
of the day, people hearing thesemixed messages and being like I get it.

(43:52):
In the fifties, and when Iwas growing up it was it was
in the fifties you could go getyou or some bread for a quarter.
That ain't hattening no more, gasle, I'm gonna keep it a buck,
gass a dollar when I was growingup, a dollar, bro. You

(44:12):
can feel and people complain about feelingthat they take with twenty bucks. Yet
it ain't none of that stuff happeningno more. You gonna go boke,
And like I said, I've been, I've been boked. It ain't cool.
I ain't gonna let not a womanin this world put me in a
situation. I want a woman that'sgonna say, hey, look you got
this, I got this, let'smake it shape. I respect that and

(44:34):
I agree with that. Just tobe clear, I played devil avocate,
but I totally agree with that.You cannot. You cannot have a good
lifestyle off one salary. And somebodyain't gonna be happy neither I actually,
neither one of y'all gonna be happybecause you're gonna feel like he don't pay
attention to you, that he gonnafeel like he working too much. It's
just both people need to bring someto the table. So y'all could prosper
together and everybody could be happy.I believe in that. I do believe

(44:57):
that when the money right, whenthe money right in a relationship, and
y'all ain't got to really worry aboutthat. That that's that relationship is tough
anyway. But you add money problemson some stuff, it aint gonna last.
Yeah, smoked, super smoke.Nobody liked feeling somebody gonna feel slighted.
Yeah, how did you feel youlike because you was a provider?

(45:17):
Was that tough? Yeah? Iwas a full provider. It didn't work.
Was it tough though? The stress? Yeah, you always feel like
you should be doing more, youknow what I'm saying. So or do
you feel like the other part youdo you resent the other person? Like?
Yeah, yeah, I feel likeyou live in a good life and
I'm working my ass off and itjust it's just not a I don't want

(45:38):
that feeling ever again. But isthat fair though? Because you offered it,
well, I didn't know. No, I didn't offer it. I
didn't offer It was something I wasforced into. Mm hmmm. It was.
It was something that I was like, no, I don't think you
should quit your job. And thenyou did it anyway? You know we
together were married. What do Ido? I have to just pick up

(45:59):
the slack because the next bill cycleis starting regardless of what you do.
You know what I'm saying. SoI had to just do it so I
don't mess with any woman to do. I have a good work. Yeah.
But now, but that's what youwant them, quitting jobs, taking
too much yours. I have tosee now. Now, it's like if

(46:20):
you don't got no job consistently,I'm like, I'm like an application if
you're trying to get a credit.How long have you had your last whom
was your last employer? And wasdeployer behind that? When did you do
before that? How long you've beenat this job? Eight years? Okay?
Someone be like you off again?Vacation days? You got no If
I start hearing, I'm about toquick yeah, right, break for a

(46:46):
little while, right, I don'twant to hear. Break for a little
while, lady, how your lifeset up? No, I'm sorry,
ladies, I can't. I loveit. I love a hard working woman.
Now, I don't know nothing else. And you know, just when
I wash dishes, I clean up. But do you really though, because
like I feel like me and don'twatch y'all don't do chores right. Y'all

(47:07):
could do them, but y'all don'tdo them right. And you know how
many women I had given terrible headsthey doing it, They ain't doing it
right. That a chore. It'sa chore. That's crazy being mad left,
I mean, And you don't belike you gotta act like you gotta

(47:29):
like, oh yeah, that wasgood, you really like? Come on,
man, turn off? You knowthat real crazy, real, yes,
real, be terrible. If it'sif you're if head and your relationship
is a chore, you in thewrong relationship. It's not even it's nothing
about it being like you can kissgood, you act like it's good and

(47:50):
you appreciate it. You have toappreciates effort of the bad head. So
you need to appreciate the effort ofme watching these dishes, even if it's
not to your liking. That's sadup. I mean to make sure it's
cool. You're cool, you knowwhat I mean? You get somebody that
could clean up I be personally,I'm not. You're not clean. He
ain't either, That's what that's whatlike I be with y'all to y'all lie,

(48:10):
you know what I'm saying. Icleaned up, ain't washing dishes?
No you weren't. You're not you. You're not home to clean, You're
not going home to cook. Y'allbe wanting. That's why I can ride
with y'all on the two people shouldbe equal, but we're not equal.
But because me, it's never gonnabe equal. I don't. I don't
want that. Let me be clear, ladies. I'm not saying we need
to be fifty fifty, but Ithink you should contribute. Y'all say that,

(48:34):
and then y'all still expect all theother stuff that come with being a
stay at home mom. No,we expect all the other stuff that comes
with being a woman. It's like, y'all come and washing dishes don't come
with being a woman. What itwas just because cutting grass come with being
a man. Yes, y'all ain'tcutting grass? Y'all are not you somebody

(49:07):
that come with being a woman washingdishes? I never said watching this comes
with I'm just saying, move itopen cares women looking up. Women love
to talk about these chores that comewith just in y'all's natural essence, just
as certain things that come with beinga man. That's in a man's natural
essence. When there's a knock atthe door and don't nobody know who it
is, I'm never gonna say.I'm never gonna send my woman. I

(49:29):
don't care how long I work thatday. I don't care if I got
off an eighteen hour shift. I'mgoing that's not it's not I'm going to
the door because that's what a manis supposed to do. Okay, And
it's yeah, I ain't gonna belike, you know what, I just
got off. You go ahead,you you you rested today, You was
off today, so you go checkthat. That's how y'all be. No
stuff come with being a man thatyou're gonna do. You open yeah can

(49:59):
Now, we can't act try toopen cans exactly. That's my point is
it doesn't matter. Certain stuff justcomes to me and a man, and
certain stuff just open that can foryou. Crazy, Okay, how tired
I am? Them groceries in thecar. I gotta go out there,
find me some slippers on my houseto go get them. It's part of

(50:21):
my life. I'm not gonna bringin the groceries. No, it's not.
She just bought them, went sentthem to the stove, stopping these
top of these stairs. I'm notthat's crazy. If we did that,
it is, But I just canonly go with y'all so far. I

(50:42):
know tribute can contribute. We shouldall contribute to the relationship, but y'all
be taking it a little far,because y'all be one person to contribute just
as much and then work do workround houses as much. Now, we
want you to do exactly what we'redoing. We want you to do the
things that men are supposed to do. We're doing the things I mean you
supposed to things women supposed to do, and we do the things that men

(51:04):
supposed to. Don't say that,then me and are technically supposed to provide.
And then we got there, wego and then we gotta come home
and like y'all say, we gottago and break your back. Don't let
us be tied tied. Okay,because the same way y'all act like y'all
like yeah, the same way womenact like they like that sex, y'all
be giving. So I appreciate it. Thank you if you can fake that,

(51:24):
good baby, to go ahead,please please, we got your time.

(51:45):
Your time fight. I don't knowlove y'all. Pot feel see y'all.
So yeah tomorrow, Yeah yeah,when you see this will be going
tonight. Yeah, if you seethis will be actually going to the Live
Pod. So see y'all tonight atthe Live Pod. Yes, gonna talk
about this again. Now we havesome new stuff, Zach. Any final

(52:06):
thoughts is it? That's it?See y'all. Oh, get your merch.
Yeah yeah, get your merch.That'll be We do have merch at
the Live Pod. We will seey'all tonight. Thank y'all for supporting us
for sure. We got nothing withoutthe podfam. And yes, I was
able to keep a secret for amonth and I did not give you guys

(52:29):
a hint on what was going on. So those people that don't know what's
going on with us, or it'llkind of late to the party, we
will announce it tonight at the LivePod. With that being said, what
more can we say