March 12, 2026 • 36 mins
The girls reunite after some time apart, and the chaos jumps out immediately—just how we like it. In What Irritated Me This Week, Jerrilyn kicks things off by reliving a 15‑hour hostage situation disguised as a braid appointment, complete with the stylist dipping out mid‑head to pick up her kid. Meanwhile, Lynee’ is fed up with everybody trying to scare her out of going to Thailand as if TSA is checking for “orange man activity.” She’s going regardless—passport in hand and peace in her spirit—because one thing she’s not about to do is let global foolishness keep her off a beach. From there, the ladies ease into Girl, What Happened, where they honor Women’s History Month by spotlighting the legendary Barbara Jordan, the political trailblazer who helped send Nixon packing and walked so today’s chaos agents could run.
Together they dive straight into the Dwight Howard/Amy saga, complete with shared toothbrushes, baggies of mystery substances, and public meltdowns no one asked to be included in. They break down why oversharing on the internet is ruining lives, why Royce deserves her vindication tour, and why some folks need to keep their marriages off Instagram Live. And just when you think it can’t get wilder, the ladies stumble into the bizarre trend of “Alpine divorces”—men abandoning their wives in foreign countries like it’s a team-building exercise. Throw in a Serial Killer Museum review that neither of them had any business attending, plus a hilarious conversation about red flags, dating preferences, and why neither of them should date anyone who resembles themselves, and it’s a full ride.
Episode 91 is classic She Said It First: joyful, chaotic, insightful, and very Black. Between the jokes, the gems, and the girl talk, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ remind listeners that boundaries matter, delusion is sometimes self-care, and life is too short not to laugh—even when the content is unhinged.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Help you. What the down that brothers came in with
his God damn.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
What's up? Everybody? It's your girl.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
In describing for a k a Jerly and Lake checking
in with none other than my bestie for the rest
of the Eveland name on name and you all listen
to this, she said the first podcast in Urban one podcast.
On the Urban one Podcast, we got rid A guess.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
It's been so long.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
It's been so long, but we await how you automatically
sorry throwing.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
At I called it.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
We're only two seconds in, baby. Let me tell you
what's making from this episode. Okay, it's been a minute.
Me and my girl ain't seen each other in a minute.
Were about to get off us on the right a rug, Honey,
it's about to be supposied, I told her on the way,
I said, Dreling, we're gonna stick to the scrap. Okay,
we're gonna do everything we're supposed to do. And I said,
who that our who hoo oh, who's.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Gonna do that? We got to kick this show off
like we kick off every other show. Friend, I just
compose yourself before I us No, no, you.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
See my eye Twitter, cause you see on my eye twitching.
I'm gonna take a sip on my cough. What what
irritated you this week?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
I'm gonna be honest, y'all. I'm like, no, I ain't
gonna be that honest. Tell it, but no, for real, y'all.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I don't get braised often, and I don't think I
ever will again.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It took fifteen hours. No, that's crazy. It's it's crazy.
Fifteen hours is just your first time here? Okay, it's
damn it, man, it was just one person. There was
one person hours to do my hair is crazy. I
would have left.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I wanted to, but halfway through I would have said,
just do the parameter and we're gonna wear a bun
all week. That was the most irritating thing I said.
I had to cancel the day, but they look great.
And then she had to go pick up her son
in the middle of the middle of my head because you.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Did not plan accordingly.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Shout out to my girl Janelle and Marietta Georgia because
it don't take Caro.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
A long to do.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
But she whipped them braids together, baby, she'd be ready.
How to come to Atlanta and get your hair braid?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
How about I moved to Atlanta. I'll do you one better.
You there.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
I kind of liked it. I had to let it
simmere on low for a minute. Okay, I think I
think we can work with it. You know, it's tea
when you feed it.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I hand out, hang out come ye Oh my god,
she sat up there.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You when you see them, she said, she said this
one gonna that I'm gonna f them up with this line.
And you know she wrote it. You know how people
have ghost writers and you're like, who wrote wrote that?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
For sure? That was all her? That that Oh my god,
friend had to beat for nothing, honey.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
You know what irritated me is though, very pretty, very
much pretty. What irritated me this week people that have
tried to scare me out of going to Thailand. I'm
going to Thailand. I don't care what that orange man
is doing. I'm getting on that plane if it's my
time to go.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
So bid. Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I've lived a great life. I lived a great life,
done everything I wanted to do. My family loved me,
my friends. It is, don't I've accomplished some things.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
A lot of things.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I thought you were saying four things going out, some
things going out.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
With a bang, yet for show for show.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Okay, I agree, but it's it's like it's like my
thing is either I'm going to live in fear or
I'm just gonna live my life. I'm not gonna not
live my life. The man is crazy. We've already established that.
We we don't never never know what's going on. But
you know he's one monkey don't stop no show. That
right there, folks, Okay, one orange won't stop no show.
(04:23):
Big chimp, big chimp behavior, big big chimp behavior.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Us in that office, monkey business, all the monkey business.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But as we move into uh, you know, March's Women's uh,
and so we're celebrating women all month long. You know me, I,
I just preferred the Black's for women's history. We want
to highlight a woman and she ain't been in the
studio on salon. You got to say, girl, I thought you.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Was just going right into it. Girl, because I've been
waiting for you. I said, Oh, she's gonna go ahead
and do her own thing.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
But girl, a girl, it's women's used to be moved. Yeah,
that was a bit of thick question. So today we're
gonna talk about miss Barbara Jordan. She was a politician.
She is a politician. She was the first black woman
elected to the Texas State Senate and the first black
woman from a southern state to serve in the US
House of Representatives.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
As a member of the Judiciary.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Committee, she gave a fifteen minute opening address at Nixon's
seventy four impeachment hearing and in defense of the constitution,
led to his resignation.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
So not only did she make history.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
As the first in her position, she also got got
that man up out of there.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
And sometimes as a black you got to get them.
And that's Barbara. Let's this is Shirley. That's the barber
from me. The clothes he did.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
I don't know if you're gonna be cool, how you're
gonna come out of the bag on me.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I don't know. My baby.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Shout out the shout out to shout out to Barber,
and also shout out to Michelle Obama because she is
me first lady. Michelle Obama said, I don't care who
passed away. I'm not going to the service, and I
don't blame her. I'm not going to stuff anymore either.
I'm sick of my agree. I'm sick of Yeah. I
appreciate her saying Barack, tell me how it go. Who
(06:17):
did the body?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Let me know? Okay, they looked like who was on there?
How was the funeral? Okay? Okay? What did they serve?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
It?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Agreed, because I would be so tired of entertaining that circus.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
And I know I know she.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
I know she appreciates her husband's legacy and being an
integral part of history.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
But oh my, this is a clown show. American is
a clown on tour? Why did he go on tour?
I've never seen no funeral for tour? What's my first
time realizing that?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
To Jessey, remember when they the funeral lasted?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Business?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Love niggas, Boy, niggas are so extra it's gonna take
us two business days to put you in the ground.
That is crazy, baby. White people they die on a Thursday,
they're in the ground Saturday. I'm telling you, because maybe
their bodies don't. They don't in the middle of black history.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Why in the world was buried woman's mother? Jesse been
live and steak for week?
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Okay, Oh Jesu, Oh my god, I say we're not
laughing at the day.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I say, I love black people. I don't care. I
wouldn't trade it for nothing. When I die, I want
to be reincardinated as a black heir woman.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Make me dark, scared lord man, I mean purple, I'm
I'm talking about. I want to come back as anything black.
I want to be black, black, black, Eyela, black, black,
black man, black man.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
We're kind of forever. I need it. I did it?
Make me a nigga times too?
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Okay, scary?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Okay, hold, I mean, oh, I love that I'm not.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I love being black so much, and I think that's
the perfect way to end black history.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
But because the.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Way y'all played this February was ridiculous, But you know,
I'm gonna let you out slide because we have our
own buffoonery to address in our community.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
And I knew when I saw.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Them on Instagram sharing this too brush, I knew it
was gonna go left. Who's sharing a two brush? Your
girl Dwight Howard and his wife, I mean your girl
Amy and her husband.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
You know what look like siblings? They look just alight.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I would try to figure that out. It's a striking
resemblance that means unbelievable. Because Turners winset is the cat
out of the hat about the candy already being a candy,
was it caddy?
Speaker 1 (09:14):
I don't understand it.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Baby. The way these people are first of all, her
run into the internet at every indiscretion is crazy crazy.
It is keep us out of your business.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Ms.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Brown was on the Internet with a bag of coke,
I said, Amy, and then put it in her hand.
She said, this is this is what's breaking up my marriage.
And this it around, she said, I said, in my face,
doing drugs for cameras. Whenstram get up, man back in dry,
I said, Baby, when he come home and he see
and he weighed. When that nigga gets back and he
(09:46):
weigh that hip, that's your ass, ain't ma, because you
don't crack heads.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
No, he gonna know, he gonna know. Three. I need
my steps back.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I need them. I need them. I come in with
my in my head. No oh no, why cannot I
need I'm saying, well, my god, the way the way
this has played out, and I like you remember when
she got on the internet that she was telling us, Hell,
(10:22):
y'all ain't never been buried before. Y'all don't know how
you gotta let go on your whole identity. That's literally
what she said in the video. When you was live,
my wife, you gotta let go on your whole identity,
I said.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Who the hell was lying about it? Who?
Speaker 2 (10:33):
She merged, Well, then I gotta let go on my
whole identity. Allegedly somebody that needed them kids taken away.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
You've been lying to the police. My thing is why
they take the kids from both of y'all. Usually that
usually they leave.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
That's why I said, Usually they leave the kids in
custody of somebody.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Now if neither one y'all can't see them kids. Girl, Yes,
that his bad, okay? Or is it yours?
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Because I'm telling you when he when he gets home,
he realizes some mississ, some slashing, I mean, why is it?
I guess this is a good This is a good
conversation and a segue into another segment we'll talk about later.
But when you're in a relationship like this, she's saying that,
you know, she filed for divorce last year, and everybody
told her stay with your man, you know, work out
your marriage.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
And I think you.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Don't tell nobody. You just do if you gonna be
with him, be with him. But you knew this was
going on, and you didn't say anything. And now you
want to run to the internet and tell all y'all business.
And it's a it's a classic case of whoever gets
their story out first is right. That man went right
onto that and did not care. I know, he got
a round of a plot standing ovation and I'm like,
(11:39):
and then he filed for divorce, because why would you
in the car talking to us and not filing for
a divorce.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
At this point, I'm confused. Take me out there. I
don't care.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
I'm unsubscribing. I don't care about nothing they take. And
then you know, Royce, Royce tried to tell y'all, she
tried to tell y'all did and they they demonized her,
they villainized her, they called her and her crazy.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
They did all that, they did all her.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Their son got on the internet and said, it's like
a split replica of same.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Why he looks just like a horse. What's the donkey
on Shrek? What is his name? Eddie Murphy played him?
Give them to me. His name was donkey? I said,
what was the donkey name? Donkey?
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Man? I don't know that dad like that. I can't
be in here with you genuinely getting on, sir, But
his name like donkey, I mean the white Howard gives horse,
he do. It's it's like he gives, he gives, he
gives expensive horse though he don't just look like.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
He looked like a shepling pony. It don't give.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Stallion, No, it don't give no, say it gives majesty.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
I wouldn't expensive.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Have you been to a horse rice before? Look like
the bread He looked thoroughbred. That's right, he's like here.
You could put him on Lacey.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Yeah, break in the back, all the way in the back.
He's rounding third.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
It looks like a photo finish coming up behind the
light around your mouth. You know, we might have to
scrap this whole episode. That's all right, that's.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Oh Jesus, okay. You know at this point, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I keep talking about the way that man look, but
I don't see what people see outside of the money.
He's tall, he's tall, got money. I don't care about
no tall because I gotta look at better than now.
I mean, you don't have to if you stay then
you don't got to see you're right, If you just
stay right in here, I don't really got to look.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
You got a locked hands win. But when it comes
down the kitchen got God God forbid, has got you,
God forbid. It wants some attention every time soon as
we have company.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
I can't can you imagine, Oh my god, every time
my house she's like, I'm outside, you can just hear
people shuffling trying to get Jesus closing.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
So, like, what was that? Nothing? Nothing? I think we
got a marriage.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Rose Voyce did try to tell y'all, y'all, she did,
she did, and they they they called her every name
in the book. But you know, she also felt very vindicated,
and I don't think it's fair for people to try
to try to tell Royce how she should respond to
this information. Y'all dragged her when she said what was
going on? And now she's she's saying, I don't have
(14:55):
a career no more. That man basically took everything from him,
and so I and they want her to be nice.
She's not in a place to be nice. I don't
have to do anything because she genuinely was trying to
warn her before it even get She tried to warn
everybody before it got to this point. So like, yeah,
however she responds how she respond because y'all wasn't really receptive.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
To her when she actually was telling the truth.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
But then everybody want to be super nice to Amy
and what she's going through, and you know, you know, compassionate,
which is not right. But she was up there saying
bitter baby mama did and nothing like. This is why
I keep my mouth off stuff. If you want to
date that man after me, you go right in here.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
I ain't never in my life trying to stop nobody
from nothing. I know that man is crazy. But you
if you need to go over there and see that,
if you need a life like a life lesson, who
am I to stop you? Character development? Yeah, yeah, do
it for the plot, do it for them. Got to
go through. If you can't go over it, you can't
go under it. Got to go throught to see you
(15:57):
got to see it through and it'd be like that
sometimes you know his tea when.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
You see them two fingers touching my friend?
Speaker 2 (16:14):
How the kids, I'm not I can't character what does
that mean?
Speaker 1 (16:22):
What is? What is it? Is it? Something?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Something saying that fan in it that the kids say,
this means sharking, and sharking mean you're trying to you're
trying to pick somebody up like a I like him.
Leave me alone if a man come up to me
at the bar, said Nick, and I just throw crazy. Yeah.
(16:47):
So with this whole amy and the white situation, like girl,
good luck. Keep us out of it, though, please just
keep us out of it. And I think the lesson
here is when you see some stuff that don't look right,
that's not the time to hit the gas.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Let's back it up, Back it up like a true
get all up out of there. Why do we.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Stay in things longer than we should Why are we
saying things longer than we should? Have you heard about
I've been waiting to talk about this, but there's a
trend now and I don't know why it's a trend,
but there is a trend now where people women are
getting on the internet and explaining their alpine divorce.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
What I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
An alpine divorce is basically when your husband abandoned you
and that's his way of divorcing you.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
In the Geese and content.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yeah, so apparently it's not a legal divorce, but it's
just basically when like women are saying that they went
on a camping trip, the guy left him in the woods,
or we went to Europe, he took my passport and
disappeared on me. Got a hotel in another city, never
heard from him again, had to find my had to
go to the consulate, get an emergency pet like, oh no,
(17:58):
you lie straight up up beettery than them. So they're
calling it relationship danger in the wilderness is what they're
calling it.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
By so long it's white, Damn.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I was like, yes, so long, now white if I
got to explain it, but I gotta get through the
title first, then tell you I'm happen. But my thing is,
you didn't know he might do something like this, But
was y'all on good terms before this? So when you
hearing it, are they making it seem like it just
came out of nowhere? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Like that. We was on a cruise.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
This one lady said that they were on a There
was on a fishing trip or a snorkeling trip. They
were on a snorkeling trip, and the tour guide was
rounding everybody up to get back on the boat. They
were getting He was getting up on the boat, he
pulled the rope up. She had gone out too far
and nobody knew that she was still out there. He
pulled the rope up and said Yeah, she's on the
boat and they went on back to shore. She just
(18:49):
happened to get picked up by somebody else's screw girl. What,
oh my god, that's terrifying. I know one thing, when
I get back to that room, you better not being there.
I'm telling you better not be in that room when
I get back. And you're not gonna know because because
you too will be experiencing it. I almost feel like
(19:09):
I want a kid and lock you up by Alpine.
I'm going to get a two by four. I'm gonna
wear you.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
You're gonna feel this worm.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
But it's it's this is the type of stuff that
that's weird.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
It's very weird. It's weird energy. But this is the
type of stuff that some of these men be doing.
And I ain't heard.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
I have not seen one story where a man has
has said it. I'm not gonna put it past my
because you know, I went to the Serial Killer Museum.
I've seen some women up in the.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Earth that was crazy.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
When you went to that, I I could not watch it, Gerline,
I was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
It was uncomfortable anything. Then you started with a clown,
and I don't really like clowns. Girl.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
They had scary music playing. The ac was crazy. It
sounds like all rickety, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
It was just dark.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
It was dark and armed. And then they had like,
you know, they had staged crime scene. No, Charlie's why
why did you go there?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Don't you know why? I don't know because he was free.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
But they wanted me to do some content, which I
did not mind doing. It was actually very informative. It
was educational. They did teach a lot about the psychological
aspect of like what actually goes on in the mind
of a serial killer, because you know, they don't just
lock these people up.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
They study them. Oh, they grill led them through therapy.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
They have doctors come and assess them, and they asked
them them questions about why they killed. This man was like,
I can tell you exactly what I did where all
the bodies are buried.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
I just can't tell you why. He just was doing that.
He just was doing it.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
This one lady said this one lady said, I need
to protect my children from this curse. She for whatever reason,
she thought her children were cursed, drowned all three of
them in the bathtub.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
What curse are we talking about? I think she was
the curse. I think she needs medication. Oh, well, she's
in prison, so can she get medication there? Try to
do it too. I mean, I don't know if it's
relevant at this point. It's you know, it doesn't even matter.
Some of them are still alive. A lot of them,
you know, have died.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
What's crazy is the craziest thing I saw was one
of the men who killed Jeffrey Dahmer, who is a
serial killer. Yeah, that's the dude who was eating but
a freezer. I didn't have to see it, Like, is
crazy that really did have But at the house he had.
But at the house he didn't never need a strip flood. Yeah,
(21:30):
but at the house, right, And one of the men
who killed him ended up in the museum.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I foun killing Jeffrey Dahmer. Oh wow, I said, that's how.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
And I thought a serial killer had to be someone
that committed a series of killers.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
Yeah, it was people in that that killed two people.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
I'm confused how so, like, did they study them and
see that they had the same like you know, wave
patterns and kept going or something like that. I just
display like that. I don't either, because we was what
if you know what I'm saying, they killed your family
member and they got a whole museum and now playing
on displays sell forty dollar tickets. I'm shooting it down,
(22:09):
bombing man. Your you's gonna be in that museum. But
at that point, yes, mum, you're gonna go to the
last face. All right, y'all, this is the last little
tour stop. And it was two black women up.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
In there too, I said, And then it's black woman.
The lady that drowned the kids was black. Dang, your
really think? I just can't see it. I said. My
sister was going through post.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
She was going through post, and y'all wasn't helping my
good seats.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
She ain't had no That's what that was.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Y'all was not helping my good I didn't like that,
but it was it was another.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
One in there. WI what she doing?
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Now?
Speaker 1 (22:44):
What she now? She had got fired and she went
up there and she smoked that you smoked.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
See bills were due, and and I think, job, this
is what happens when you put too much stress on.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Thank you exactly, she snapped, she.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Ain't had no job, shein't had no money to kids,
He fed gas, don't handle games like yeah, I can
see you understand why she did Frankie go on blood.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
What's the.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
I was just in the mind. And then they picked
the dirtiest looking me. They couldn't give her a little
more as chances. Filthy dirty, your filthy animal was supposed
to feel like, oh my god, now that's an alpine divorce.
Abandoned me, please drop me, drop me off, please Nate,
(23:39):
drop me of child. But these people, so this has
been a trend. Women have been coming out telling their
stories and it just makes me wonder. Jamel Hill asked
the question and it was just right on part. But
if you dated women, what kind would you want to
not date? And I got a list. I'm gonna tell
(24:01):
you right now. I don't want no tauruses. Why I'm
a taurust I to agree there, and we be tourists.
I don't want no touristy. We be tourists. Citt and
I mean, I don't care what the argument is. You're
not gonna win. Okay, go to hell, even after being embarrassed,
go to hell. We're not to the death.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
We gotta be deaf of it. We got to fighting
to death. I'm sorry. And that's just that. On that Yeah,
I would not date anybody who was influence. So I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
I'm not dating. No, I'm not dating Baddy. I need
you a strong six or seven? I six or seven.
I don't want no baddies because I wo for THEA
pay for Harry Nilson girl by.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
Why gotta be up to me? I got no money?
Speaker 2 (24:47):
Well, I mean you know I don't have money. Oh
you want to be like, are we not baddy?
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I could be a sugarman, but the baddy's in the
room with that. I said, I would want to take
no baddy, but we have money and we're baddies.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
So yeah, But I mean, well that's his problem.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
You know.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Okay, that's okay, go ahead, that's his problem. He got
to deal with that. You know, he don't he's not complaining.
But I'm just as soon I'm done nothing, okay. I
mean I wouldn't want to know to Eddie, okay. And
then he asked me to when I got my nails,
and he was like, how much does it cost me
get your nails? And I said one hundred and fifty dollars?
He said I thought it was forty. I said forty.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Dollars dollars how long have you been? I said, what
the last time you say? Somebody tonight? I ain't spend
forty dollars on no nails in a minute.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
And I'm just if you want to go ahead and
zooe me in on them.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Thank you, friends.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
We're going to tieland I wanted to stay on things, okay,
because it's gifted.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
It looks very tired, thank you. I am tired. Lish,
I'm tylish.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
Ma'am ma'am going ahead, go right off here, go go
go gon go hell, okay, go go ahead. Fine, you
can be out here, girl. But yes, I don't want
no baddy. I don't want no influencer. I don't want
the stress of it. I'm not gonna be every night
fighting for my love. I'm not you kind of feel
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like you describing yourself.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
I don't really like I like with it.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I wouldn't take me because everything your name is, everything
you are and I'm.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
Just hearing about like why you winning day shit?
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I would not day me. It's given how madenance. It's annoying.
Talk too much, do too much? My god, I would
I would never. Okay, girl, the way't me and myself
be arguing in the house you. You ever noticed how
crazy you are when you being full blown?
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Have you ever been in a full blown conversation with yourself? Yes,
I can talk to the dollar.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
I cussed myself out the other day in the Marria, Gerland.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I went and sat on the bed and cried. I
heard my.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Old I really heard my feelings, like I cussed myself out,
real bad friend.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I just sat on the bed. When it took you.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Girl, when your shoulders go like this is you?
Speaker 1 (26:56):
You really hurt your feelings?
Speaker 2 (26:59):
I don't want don't matter because now I feel like
when I started, like da, you put a lot.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Of effort in it.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
You can do it. Put your back into it. You
can do it with your back into We can do
it with your back into Bob's Burgers. Bobs Burgers, Bob's Burgers.
What is the episode.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Makes sense to y'all? I mean laughing, enjoy it? You
know about that? Oh you know what she said at first?
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Ain't no saying what she said after that, But we
don't know, but she did say. I mean, you know,
I think there's a lot of let's since we're talking
about relationships, let's let's let's keep it going.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
You know, well, wait, you gotta tell me what kind
of girl you wouldn't date. Hm hmm.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
I definitely want somebody that's attractive. But who wouldn't you date?
Don't tell me who you would, tell me who you
would like, who's absolutely off limits.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
I didn't think that far Chelanne. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
I just don't want nobody broke, miserable, don't have nothing,
can't take you out on dates, don't buy you no flowers,
always made things about them, completely, a victim, anything else.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
You would like to know. It's crazy. You didn't have
a whole lot of time to think.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
I didn't, but someway, reculously, it all just came to me.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
I don't want nobody brow broke.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Self centered, A narcissist, yeah, pola PTSD. Okay, wait, those
are medical condition some people. Yeah, personality, it's a few.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
It's a few. It's a gang, a cheater, aceiver.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Break and I won't tell you that in my life.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Okay, So I'm taking okay, Okay, you know, and sometimes
it just be like that.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
It just be like that sometimes, And I understand, I too,
don't want nobody like that, because that sounds like that.
I don't want a man like that either, Thank you.
I don't want to deal with nobody like that on
no level. I don't want you to be my friend,
business partner, family member. You can't even be my cousin, girl,
get it away from me. You can't even be my
cousin like that. Family unit t shirts gonna look at
(29:14):
different this year. We crossed the names off the sure,
Yeah you think that tree gonna be skimpy with the branches.
They love a branch, They love a tree on that girl,
They love a family reunion. Snap them branches right, get
it up out of here, because that get it right,
been in the family affing up for you, okay, and we're.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
Sick of it, tied of that man. But yeah, I
can agree. I don't want a body like that either.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
So with that being said, what is the difference between
a red flag and somebody just being human? Because you
know we all have flaws, Yeah, we have flaws. We
living in a time where you know, everybody's called everything
a red flag. Everybody know these new terms, and you
know everybody's in psychology, everybody's there. So in a relationship,
(30:03):
alcoholism can be you know, a red flag.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Yeah, drugs of course, Oh sorry, I'm sorry too soon.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
And her and her prize prize value the don't key
begin a prize, not the blue ribbon, not the blue ribbon,
don'key Okay, all right, But sometimes people have, you know,
(30:34):
trauma and some things emotional triggers that show up in relationships,
and I think that a lot of times we excuse
red flags as that, and so you need to exercise
a lot of determments. So how do you determine when
something is becoming unhealthy when you shrink yourself when you
(30:55):
get around that person and you have to shrink yourself
and convince yourself that it is not what it is.
If you got to convince yourself that you're that the
reality is not really reality, and you find yourself making
more excuses for the behavior than just accepting the behavior
for what it is and addressing it. In that problem,
they're probably a, yeah, I can see it being a
red flag. I think that's a that's a very key marker.
(31:16):
I think if you find yourself not not wanting to
talk about it with your closest people, I think that's
a red flag.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Or when you do.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
Talk about it with your closest people and they're like,
that's not normal. Yeah, and you still trying to convince
yourself that will maybe if you gotta. If you talk
to your close friends and they like that ain't right.
You shouldn't be treated like that or whatever whatever, and
you still in your head are like, but what if?
Speaker 1 (31:37):
But what if? But what if? Or maybe maybe maybe yeah,
wrap it up? Wrap it on up. Yeah, So I
mean it.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
I think that there are things that people just do
like sometimes people aren't good at communicating. I think I
don't think I'm a good communicator. I've found this out
in a very strange way for real. Yeah, I don't
think I'm a good communicator depending on this situation. I
can tell you what I need up front, but when
it's if it's an argument or a disagreement, I need
(32:06):
a little time.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
I'm the same way. I need to gather myself before
I communicate with you, because I and that too.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
For the first thing, if I can't tell you the
first thing because you don't really want to hear that,
I don't think I gotta put that through a few filters.
I need to chat GPT first. We gotta put that professionalized.
That too, is also what you're saying that you need
time being with somebody who respects your boundaries, Like if
you say if they they may be a conversation your
list right right off the back some how, and they
want to talk immediately. But if you not like that
(32:33):
and a person is still forcing themselves on you to talk,
like no, I need to talk right now, we need
to talk, We need to have a conversation.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
That's a red flag.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
If I'm telling you that I need face and I
need time to process my thoughts and you are extra
adamant about getting what you need and getting your knees met,
because now you're mad because I called you a young
mouth dog and you could have just let me go
taken oap gues that right, just need to sleep it.
I might have just needed a sandwich, okay, you know
(33:04):
you're not yourself when you don't. I mean, you could
have just got a snicker. Silence was always an option.
It was always And that's why I know that I
be needing time. I don't like to communicate when I'm angry.
I just let me just let me be to myself.
And it's like and if you take, if you allow
me the time, I feel like we could just have
a better conversation.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
My thoughts are more organized. I know exactly what I
want to say and how I want to respond. Because
here's the thing. If you love somebody, I don't want
to call you a young mouth dog.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
You know what I mean. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
I don't need to call your right right. I love
you all, don't want you to even think that. But
if you push me, I ain't no killing, but don't
push you might You might be one for real. So
just let me let me back up off that, you know,
give me some time, give me some But I don't
think that's a reflect I do think that people that
don't want to communicate at all, that's a real for it.
Because if you shut down and you can't articulate anything
(33:57):
at any time.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
Give me a timeline.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Yeah, I'll say, hey, let me let me call you
around eight o'clock to night, yeah, or let me hit
you back tomorrow, sleep on it.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
I said something like that. But somebody that is like, I.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Don't want to talk about it at all, and then
that just it's been three days and you don't know
what's going on. That's kind of scary. And I've had
that before. I don't think people, you know, people weaponize
that silent treatment. The thing about me is stay silent, right,
never from you a game once you ont you think
you're gonna withhole commits for me as a punishment.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
Yeah, that part.
Speaker 2 (34:30):
And I want to say something real quick segue because
you know, you never know who might be watching.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Okay, and so what we want.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
What I want to say is if you have explained
yourself multiple times and you said something multiple times, and
that person still feels like you're giving them the silent
treatment because you're not saying what they would like you
to say, that's not the silent treatment. That it's not
because you've articulated yourself.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Multiple Hey I need space, Hey I need time. That's
them refusing to understand and not under in your boundary.
That's what that is. That's all, okay, just in case
people whoever, look, we just needed to treatment. That has
been told. Now your havings been silent enough.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
Actually, okay, Side Lands, Side Lands, Okay, I'm so sorry, y'all.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
I don't I don't really know what this episode is.
I don't know. I don't know if we'll be back
next week or not.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Actually, and that's the problem. I think it was amazing.
We had a blast, not a ball what busted?
Speaker 1 (35:33):
It was crazy? Yeah, a store y'all.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
Man said he thought we were six years younger, and I
said no. Well when we walked we went up there
with all that alchohol. That man said, I'm gonna need
to see you ladies. I d I said, oh, busted,
and I said, was cracking up.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
You owe his head something saying that young rising this busted. Jesus.
It's the cherry types, guys. The funds is on our masks,
hot on our trails, step on it, cholenne. What else
(36:18):
did all people be saying? All right, y'all, Look, y'all can.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Tune in every Thursday, every Thursday, individuals on YouTube okay,
or you can listen to us wherever you listen to
your podcast. Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe.
If we're gonna catch y'all in the next one Bang
Help you. What the down that brothers came in with
his God damn.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
What's up? Everybody? It's your girl.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
In describing for a k a Jerly and Lake checking
in with none other than my bestie for the rest
of the Eveland name on name and you all listen
to this, she said the first podcast in Urban one podcast.
On the Urban one Podcast, we got rid A guess.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
It's been so long.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
It's been so long, but we await how you automatically
sorry throwing.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
At I called it.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
We're only two seconds in, baby. Let me tell you
what's making from this episode. Okay, it's been a minute.
Me and my girl ain't seen each other in a minute.
Were about to get off us on the right a rug, Honey,
it's about to be supposied, I told her on the way,
I said, Dreling, we're gonna stick to the scrap. Okay,
we're gonna do everything we're supposed to do. And I said,
who that our who hoo oh, who's.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Gonna do that? We got to kick this show off
like we kick off every other show. Friend, I just
compose yourself before I us No, no, you.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
See my eye Twitter, cause you see on my eye twitching.
I'm gonna take a sip on my cough. What what
irritated you this week?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
I'm gonna be honest, y'all. I'm like, no, I ain't
gonna be that honest. Tell it, but no, for real, y'all.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I don't get braised often, and I don't think I
ever will again.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It took fifteen hours. No, that's crazy. It's it's crazy.
Fifteen hours is just your first time here? Okay, it's
damn it, man, it was just one person. There was
one person hours to do my hair is crazy. I
would have left.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I wanted to, but halfway through I would have said,
just do the parameter and we're gonna wear a bun
all week. That was the most irritating thing I said.
I had to cancel the day, but they look great.
And then she had to go pick up her son
in the middle of the middle of my head because you.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Did not plan accordingly.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Shout out to my girl Janelle and Marietta Georgia because
it don't take Caro.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
A long to do.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
But she whipped them braids together, baby, she'd be ready.
How to come to Atlanta and get your hair braid?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
How about I moved to Atlanta. I'll do you one better.
You there.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
I kind of liked it. I had to let it
simmere on low for a minute. Okay, I think I
think we can work with it. You know, it's tea
when you feed it.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I hand out, hang out come ye Oh my god,
she sat up there.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You when you see them, she said, she said this
one gonna that I'm gonna f them up with this line.
And you know she wrote it. You know how people
have ghost writers and you're like, who wrote wrote that?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
For sure? That was all her? That that Oh my god,
friend had to beat for nothing, honey.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
You know what irritated me is though, very pretty, very
much pretty. What irritated me this week people that have
tried to scare me out of going to Thailand. I'm
going to Thailand. I don't care what that orange man
is doing. I'm getting on that plane if it's my
time to go.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
So bid. Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I've lived a great life. I lived a great life,
done everything I wanted to do. My family loved me,
my friends. It is, don't I've accomplished some things.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
A lot of things.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I thought you were saying four things going out, some
things going out.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
With a bang, yet for show for show.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Okay, I agree, but it's it's like it's like my
thing is either I'm going to live in fear or
I'm just gonna live my life. I'm not gonna not
live my life. The man is crazy. We've already established that.
We we don't never never know what's going on. But
you know he's one monkey don't stop no show. That
right there, folks, Okay, one orange won't stop no show.
(04:23):
Big chimp, big chimp behavior, big big chimp behavior.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Us in that office, monkey business, all the monkey business.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But as we move into uh, you know, March's Women's uh,
and so we're celebrating women all month long. You know me, I,
I just preferred the Black's for women's history. We want
to highlight a woman and she ain't been in the
studio on salon. You got to say, girl, I thought you.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Was just going right into it. Girl, because I've been
waiting for you. I said, Oh, she's gonna go ahead
and do her own thing.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
But girl, a girl, it's women's used to be moved. Yeah,
that was a bit of thick question. So today we're
gonna talk about miss Barbara Jordan. She was a politician.
She is a politician. She was the first black woman
elected to the Texas State Senate and the first black
woman from a southern state to serve in the US
House of Representatives.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
As a member of the Judiciary.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Committee, she gave a fifteen minute opening address at Nixon's
seventy four impeachment hearing and in defense of the constitution,
led to his resignation.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
So not only did she make history.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
As the first in her position, she also got got
that man up out of there.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
And sometimes as a black you got to get them.
And that's Barbara. Let's this is Shirley. That's the barber
from me. The clothes he did.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
I don't know if you're gonna be cool, how you're
gonna come out of the bag on me.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I don't know. My baby.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Shout out the shout out to shout out to Barber,
and also shout out to Michelle Obama because she is
me first lady. Michelle Obama said, I don't care who
passed away. I'm not going to the service, and I
don't blame her. I'm not going to stuff anymore either.
I'm sick of my agree. I'm sick of Yeah. I
appreciate her saying Barack, tell me how it go. Who
(06:17):
did the body?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Let me know? Okay, they looked like who was on there?
How was the funeral? Okay? Okay? What did they serve?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
It?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Agreed, because I would be so tired of entertaining that circus.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
And I know I know she.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
I know she appreciates her husband's legacy and being an
integral part of history.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
But oh my, this is a clown show. American is
a clown on tour? Why did he go on tour?
I've never seen no funeral for tour? What's my first
time realizing that?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
To Jessey, remember when they the funeral lasted?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Business?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Love niggas, Boy, niggas are so extra it's gonna take
us two business days to put you in the ground.
That is crazy, baby. White people they die on a Thursday,
they're in the ground Saturday. I'm telling you, because maybe
their bodies don't. They don't in the middle of black history.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Why in the world was buried woman's mother? Jesse been
live and steak for week?
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Okay, Oh Jesu, Oh my god, I say we're not
laughing at the day.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I say, I love black people. I don't care. I
wouldn't trade it for nothing. When I die, I want
to be reincardinated as a black heir woman.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Make me dark, scared lord man, I mean purple, I'm
I'm talking about. I want to come back as anything black.
I want to be black, black, black, Eyela, black, black,
black man, black man.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
We're kind of forever. I need it. I did it?
Make me a nigga times too?
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Okay, scary?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Okay, hold, I mean, oh, I love that I'm not.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I love being black so much, and I think that's
the perfect way to end black history.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
But because the.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Way y'all played this February was ridiculous, But you know,
I'm gonna let you out slide because we have our
own buffoonery to address in our community.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
And I knew when I saw.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Them on Instagram sharing this too brush, I knew it
was gonna go left. Who's sharing a two brush? Your
girl Dwight Howard and his wife, I mean your girl
Amy and her husband.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
You know what look like siblings? They look just alight.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I would try to figure that out. It's a striking
resemblance that means unbelievable. Because Turners winset is the cat
out of the hat about the candy already being a candy,
was it caddy?
Speaker 1 (09:14):
I don't understand it.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Baby. The way these people are first of all, her
run into the internet at every indiscretion is crazy crazy.
It is keep us out of your business.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Ms.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Brown was on the Internet with a bag of coke,
I said, Amy, and then put it in her hand.
She said, this is this is what's breaking up my marriage.
And this it around, she said, I said, in my face,
doing drugs for cameras. Whenstram get up, man back in dry,
I said, Baby, when he come home and he see
and he weighed. When that nigga gets back and he
(09:46):
weigh that hip, that's your ass, ain't ma, because you
don't crack heads.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
No, he gonna know, he gonna know. Three. I need
my steps back.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I need them. I need them. I come in with
my in my head. No oh no, why cannot I
need I'm saying, well, my god, the way the way
this has played out, and I like you remember when
she got on the internet that she was telling us, Hell,
(10:22):
y'all ain't never been buried before. Y'all don't know how
you gotta let go on your whole identity. That's literally
what she said in the video. When you was live,
my wife, you gotta let go on your whole identity,
I said.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Who the hell was lying about it? Who?
Speaker 2 (10:33):
She merged, Well, then I gotta let go on my
whole identity. Allegedly somebody that needed them kids taken away.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
You've been lying to the police. My thing is why
they take the kids from both of y'all. Usually that
usually they leave.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
That's why I said, Usually they leave the kids in
custody of somebody.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Now if neither one y'all can't see them kids. Girl, Yes,
that his bad, okay? Or is it yours?
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Because I'm telling you when he when he gets home,
he realizes some mississ, some slashing, I mean, why is it?
I guess this is a good This is a good
conversation and a segue into another segment we'll talk about later.
But when you're in a relationship like this, she's saying that,
you know, she filed for divorce last year, and everybody
told her stay with your man, you know, work out
your marriage.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
And I think you.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Don't tell nobody. You just do if you gonna be
with him, be with him. But you knew this was
going on, and you didn't say anything. And now you
want to run to the internet and tell all y'all business.
And it's a it's a classic case of whoever gets
their story out first is right. That man went right
onto that and did not care. I know, he got
a round of a plot standing ovation and I'm like,
(11:39):
and then he filed for divorce, because why would you
in the car talking to us and not filing for
a divorce.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
At this point, I'm confused. Take me out there. I
don't care.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
I'm unsubscribing. I don't care about nothing they take. And
then you know, Royce, Royce tried to tell y'all, she
tried to tell y'all did and they they demonized her,
they villainized her, they called her and her crazy.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
They did all that, they did all her.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Their son got on the internet and said, it's like
a split replica of same.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Why he looks just like a horse. What's the donkey
on Shrek? What is his name? Eddie Murphy played him?
Give them to me. His name was donkey? I said,
what was the donkey name? Donkey?
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Man? I don't know that dad like that. I can't
be in here with you genuinely getting on, sir, But
his name like donkey, I mean the white Howard gives horse,
he do. It's it's like he gives, he gives, he
gives expensive horse though he don't just look like.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
He looked like a shepling pony. It don't give.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Stallion, No, it don't give no, say it gives majesty.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
I wouldn't expensive.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Have you been to a horse rice before? Look like
the bread He looked thoroughbred. That's right, he's like here.
You could put him on Lacey.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Yeah, break in the back, all the way in the back.
He's rounding third.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
It looks like a photo finish coming up behind the
light around your mouth. You know, we might have to
scrap this whole episode. That's all right, that's.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Oh Jesus, okay. You know at this point, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I keep talking about the way that man look, but
I don't see what people see outside of the money.
He's tall, he's tall, got money. I don't care about
no tall because I gotta look at better than now.
I mean, you don't have to if you stay then
you don't got to see you're right, If you just
stay right in here, I don't really got to look.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
You got a locked hands win. But when it comes
down the kitchen got God God forbid, has got you,
God forbid. It wants some attention every time soon as
we have company.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
I can't can you imagine, Oh my god, every time
my house she's like, I'm outside, you can just hear
people shuffling trying to get Jesus closing.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
So, like, what was that? Nothing? Nothing? I think we
got a marriage.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Rose Voyce did try to tell y'all, y'all, she did,
she did, and they they they called her every name
in the book. But you know, she also felt very vindicated,
and I don't think it's fair for people to try
to try to tell Royce how she should respond to
this information. Y'all dragged her when she said what was
going on? And now she's she's saying, I don't have
(14:55):
a career no more. That man basically took everything from him,
and so I and they want her to be nice.
She's not in a place to be nice. I don't
have to do anything because she genuinely was trying to
warn her before it even get She tried to warn
everybody before it got to this point. So like, yeah,
however she responds how she respond because y'all wasn't really receptive.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
To her when she actually was telling the truth.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
But then everybody want to be super nice to Amy
and what she's going through, and you know, you know, compassionate,
which is not right. But she was up there saying
bitter baby mama did and nothing like. This is why
I keep my mouth off stuff. If you want to
date that man after me, you go right in here.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
I ain't never in my life trying to stop nobody
from nothing. I know that man is crazy. But you
if you need to go over there and see that,
if you need a life like a life lesson, who
am I to stop you? Character development? Yeah, yeah, do
it for the plot, do it for them. Got to
go through. If you can't go over it, you can't
go under it. Got to go throught to see you
(15:57):
got to see it through and it'd be like that
sometimes you know his tea when.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
You see them two fingers touching my friend?
Speaker 2 (16:14):
How the kids, I'm not I can't character what does
that mean?
Speaker 1 (16:22):
What is? What is it? Is it? Something?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Something saying that fan in it that the kids say,
this means sharking, and sharking mean you're trying to you're
trying to pick somebody up like a I like him.
Leave me alone if a man come up to me
at the bar, said Nick, and I just throw crazy. Yeah.
(16:47):
So with this whole amy and the white situation, like girl,
good luck. Keep us out of it, though, please just
keep us out of it. And I think the lesson
here is when you see some stuff that don't look right,
that's not the time to hit the gas.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Let's back it up, Back it up like a true
get all up out of there. Why do we.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Stay in things longer than we should Why are we
saying things longer than we should? Have you heard about
I've been waiting to talk about this, but there's a
trend now and I don't know why it's a trend,
but there is a trend now where people women are
getting on the internet and explaining their alpine divorce.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
What I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
An alpine divorce is basically when your husband abandoned you
and that's his way of divorcing you.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
In the Geese and content.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yeah, so apparently it's not a legal divorce, but it's
just basically when like women are saying that they went
on a camping trip, the guy left him in the woods,
or we went to Europe, he took my passport and
disappeared on me. Got a hotel in another city, never
heard from him again, had to find my had to
go to the consulate, get an emergency pet like, oh no,
(17:58):
you lie straight up up beettery than them. So they're
calling it relationship danger in the wilderness is what they're
calling it.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
By so long it's white, Damn.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I was like, yes, so long, now white if I
got to explain it, but I gotta get through the
title first, then tell you I'm happen. But my thing is,
you didn't know he might do something like this, But
was y'all on good terms before this? So when you
hearing it, are they making it seem like it just
came out of nowhere? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Like that. We was on a cruise.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
This one lady said that they were on a There
was on a fishing trip or a snorkeling trip. They
were on a snorkeling trip, and the tour guide was
rounding everybody up to get back on the boat. They
were getting He was getting up on the boat, he
pulled the rope up. She had gone out too far
and nobody knew that she was still out there. He
pulled the rope up and said Yeah, she's on the
boat and they went on back to shore. She just
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happened to get picked up by somebody else's screw girl. What,
oh my god, that's terrifying. I know one thing, when
I get back to that room, you better not being there.
I'm telling you better not be in that room when
I get back. And you're not gonna know because because
you too will be experiencing it. I almost feel like
(19:09):
I want a kid and lock you up by Alpine.
I'm going to get a two by four. I'm gonna
wear you.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
You're gonna feel this worm.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
But it's it's this is the type of stuff that
that's weird.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
It's very weird. It's weird energy. But this is the
type of stuff that some of these men be doing.
And I ain't heard.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
I have not seen one story where a man has
has said it. I'm not gonna put it past my
because you know, I went to the Serial Killer Museum.
I've seen some women up in the.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Earth that was crazy.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
When you went to that, I I could not watch it, Gerline,
I was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
It was uncomfortable anything. Then you started with a clown,
and I don't really like clowns. Girl.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
They had scary music playing. The ac was crazy. It
sounds like all rickety, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
It was just dark.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
It was dark and armed. And then they had like,
you know, they had staged crime scene. No, Charlie's why
why did you go there?
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Don't you know why? I don't know because he was free.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
But they wanted me to do some content, which I
did not mind doing. It was actually very informative. It
was educational. They did teach a lot about the psychological
aspect of like what actually goes on in the mind
of a serial killer, because you know, they don't just
lock these people up.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
They study them. Oh, they grill led them through therapy.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
They have doctors come and assess them, and they asked
them them questions about why they killed. This man was like,
I can tell you exactly what I did where all
the bodies are buried.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
I just can't tell you why. He just was doing that.
He just was doing it.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
This one lady said this one lady said, I need
to protect my children from this curse. She for whatever reason,
she thought her children were cursed, drowned all three of
them in the bathtub.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
What curse are we talking about? I think she was
the curse. I think she needs medication. Oh, well, she's
in prison, so can she get medication there? Try to
do it too. I mean, I don't know if it's
relevant at this point. It's you know, it doesn't even matter.
Some of them are still alive. A lot of them,
you know, have died.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
What's crazy is the craziest thing I saw was one
of the men who killed Jeffrey Dahmer, who is a
serial killer. Yeah, that's the dude who was eating but
a freezer. I didn't have to see it, Like, is
crazy that really did have But at the house he had.
But at the house he didn't never need a strip flood. Yeah,
(21:30):
but at the house, right, And one of the men
who killed him ended up in the museum.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I foun killing Jeffrey Dahmer. Oh wow, I said, that's how.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
And I thought a serial killer had to be someone
that committed a series of killers.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
Yeah, it was people in that that killed two people.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
I'm confused how so, like, did they study them and
see that they had the same like you know, wave
patterns and kept going or something like that. I just
display like that. I don't either, because we was what
if you know what I'm saying, they killed your family
member and they got a whole museum and now playing
on displays sell forty dollar tickets. I'm shooting it down,
(22:09):
bombing man. Your you's gonna be in that museum. But
at that point, yes, mum, you're gonna go to the
last face. All right, y'all, this is the last little
tour stop. And it was two black women up.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
In there too, I said, And then it's black woman.
The lady that drowned the kids was black. Dang, your
really think? I just can't see it. I said. My
sister was going through post.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
She was going through post, and y'all wasn't helping my
good seats.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
She ain't had no That's what that was.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Y'all was not helping my good I didn't like that,
but it was it was another.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
One in there. WI what she doing?
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Now?
Speaker 1 (22:44):
What she now? She had got fired and she went
up there and she smoked that you smoked.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
See bills were due, and and I think, job, this
is what happens when you put too much stress on.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Thank you exactly, she snapped, she.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Ain't had no job, shein't had no money to kids,
He fed gas, don't handle games like yeah, I can
see you understand why she did Frankie go on blood.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
What's the.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
I was just in the mind. And then they picked
the dirtiest looking me. They couldn't give her a little
more as chances. Filthy dirty, your filthy animal was supposed
to feel like, oh my god, now that's an alpine divorce.
Abandoned me, please drop me, drop me off, please Nate,
(23:39):
drop me of child. But these people, so this has
been a trend. Women have been coming out telling their
stories and it just makes me wonder. Jamel Hill asked
the question and it was just right on part. But
if you dated women, what kind would you want to
not date? And I got a list. I'm gonna tell
(24:01):
you right now. I don't want no tauruses. Why I'm
a taurust I to agree there, and we be tourists.
I don't want no touristy. We be tourists. Citt and
I mean, I don't care what the argument is. You're
not gonna win. Okay, go to hell, even after being embarrassed,
go to hell. We're not to the death.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
We gotta be deaf of it. We got to fighting
to death. I'm sorry. And that's just that. On that Yeah,
I would not date anybody who was influence. So I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
I'm not dating. No, I'm not dating Baddy. I need
you a strong six or seven? I six or seven.
I don't want no baddies because I wo for THEA
pay for Harry Nilson girl by.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
Why gotta be up to me? I got no money?
Speaker 2 (24:47):
Well, I mean you know I don't have money. Oh
you want to be like, are we not baddy?
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I could be a sugarman, but the baddy's in the
room with that. I said, I would want to take
no baddy, but we have money and we're baddies.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
So yeah, But I mean, well that's his problem.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
You know.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Okay, that's okay, go ahead, that's his problem. He got
to deal with that. You know, he don't he's not complaining.
But I'm just as soon I'm done nothing, okay. I
mean I wouldn't want to know to Eddie, okay. And
then he asked me to when I got my nails,
and he was like, how much does it cost me
get your nails? And I said one hundred and fifty dollars?
He said I thought it was forty. I said forty.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Dollars dollars how long have you been? I said, what
the last time you say? Somebody tonight? I ain't spend
forty dollars on no nails in a minute.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
And I'm just if you want to go ahead and
zooe me in on them.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Thank you, friends.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
We're going to tieland I wanted to stay on things, okay,
because it's gifted.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
It looks very tired, thank you. I am tired. Lish,
I'm tylish.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
Ma'am ma'am going ahead, go right off here, go go
go gon go hell, okay, go go ahead. Fine, you
can be out here, girl. But yes, I don't want
no baddy. I don't want no influencer. I don't want
the stress of it. I'm not gonna be every night
fighting for my love. I'm not you kind of feel
(26:10):
like you describing yourself.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
I don't really like I like with it.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I wouldn't take me because everything your name is, everything
you are and I'm.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
Just hearing about like why you winning day shit?
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I would not day me. It's given how madenance. It's annoying.
Talk too much, do too much? My god, I would
I would never. Okay, girl, the way't me and myself
be arguing in the house you. You ever noticed how
crazy you are when you being full blown?
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Have you ever been in a full blown conversation with yourself? Yes,
I can talk to the dollar.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
I cussed myself out the other day in the Marria, Gerland.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I went and sat on the bed and cried. I
heard my.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Old I really heard my feelings, like I cussed myself out,
real bad friend.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
I just sat on the bed. When it took you.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Girl, when your shoulders go like this is you?
Speaker 1 (26:56):
You really hurt your feelings?
Speaker 2 (26:59):
I don't want don't matter because now I feel like
when I started, like da, you put a lot.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Of effort in it.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
You can do it. Put your back into it. You
can do it with your back into We can do
it with your back into Bob's Burgers. Bobs Burgers, Bob's Burgers.
What is the episode.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Makes sense to y'all? I mean laughing, enjoy it? You
know about that? Oh you know what she said at first?
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Ain't no saying what she said after that, But we
don't know, but she did say. I mean, you know,
I think there's a lot of let's since we're talking
about relationships, let's let's let's keep it going.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
You know, well, wait, you gotta tell me what kind
of girl you wouldn't date. Hm hmm.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
I definitely want somebody that's attractive. But who wouldn't you date?
Don't tell me who you would, tell me who you
would like, who's absolutely off limits.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
I didn't think that far Chelanne. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
I just don't want nobody broke, miserable, don't have nothing,
can't take you out on dates, don't buy you no flowers,
always made things about them, completely, a victim, anything else.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
You would like to know. It's crazy. You didn't have
a whole lot of time to think.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
I didn't, but someway, reculously, it all just came to me.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
I don't want nobody brow broke.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Self centered, A narcissist, yeah, pola PTSD. Okay, wait, those
are medical condition some people. Yeah, personality, it's a few.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
It's a few. It's a gang, a cheater, aceiver.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Break and I won't tell you that in my life.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Okay, So I'm taking okay, Okay, you know, and sometimes
it just be like that.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
It just be like that sometimes, And I understand, I too,
don't want nobody like that, because that sounds like that.
I don't want a man like that either, Thank you.
I don't want to deal with nobody like that on
no level. I don't want you to be my friend,
business partner, family member. You can't even be my cousin, girl,
get it away from me. You can't even be my
cousin like that. Family unit t shirts gonna look at
(29:14):
different this year. We crossed the names off the sure,
Yeah you think that tree gonna be skimpy with the branches.
They love a branch, They love a tree on that girl,
They love a family reunion. Snap them branches right, get
it up out of here, because that get it right,
been in the family affing up for you, okay, and we're.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
Sick of it, tied of that man. But yeah, I
can agree. I don't want a body like that either.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
So with that being said, what is the difference between
a red flag and somebody just being human? Because you
know we all have flaws, Yeah, we have flaws. We
living in a time where you know, everybody's called everything
a red flag. Everybody know these new terms, and you
know everybody's in psychology, everybody's there. So in a relationship,
(30:03):
alcoholism can be you know, a red flag.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Yeah, drugs of course, Oh sorry, I'm sorry too soon.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
And her and her prize prize value the don't key
begin a prize, not the blue ribbon, not the blue ribbon,
don'key Okay, all right, But sometimes people have, you know,
(30:34):
trauma and some things emotional triggers that show up in relationships,
and I think that a lot of times we excuse
red flags as that, and so you need to exercise
a lot of determments. So how do you determine when
something is becoming unhealthy when you shrink yourself when you
(30:55):
get around that person and you have to shrink yourself
and convince yourself that it is not what it is.
If you got to convince yourself that you're that the
reality is not really reality, and you find yourself making
more excuses for the behavior than just accepting the behavior
for what it is and addressing it. In that problem,
they're probably a, yeah, I can see it being a
red flag. I think that's a that's a very key marker.
(31:16):
I think if you find yourself not not wanting to
talk about it with your closest people, I think that's
a red flag.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Or when you do.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
Talk about it with your closest people and they're like,
that's not normal. Yeah, and you still trying to convince
yourself that will maybe if you gotta. If you talk
to your close friends and they like that ain't right.
You shouldn't be treated like that or whatever whatever, and
you still in your head are like, but what if?
Speaker 1 (31:37):
But what if? But what if? Or maybe maybe maybe yeah,
wrap it up? Wrap it on up. Yeah, So I
mean it.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
I think that there are things that people just do
like sometimes people aren't good at communicating. I think I
don't think I'm a good communicator. I've found this out
in a very strange way for real. Yeah, I don't
think I'm a good communicator depending on this situation. I
can tell you what I need up front, but when
it's if it's an argument or a disagreement, I need
(32:06):
a little time.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
I'm the same way. I need to gather myself before
I communicate with you, because I and that too.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
For the first thing, if I can't tell you the
first thing because you don't really want to hear that,
I don't think I gotta put that through a few filters.
I need to chat GPT first. We gotta put that professionalized.
That too, is also what you're saying that you need
time being with somebody who respects your boundaries, Like if
you say if they they may be a conversation your
list right right off the back some how, and they
want to talk immediately. But if you not like that
(32:33):
and a person is still forcing themselves on you to talk,
like no, I need to talk right now, we need
to talk, We need to have a conversation.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
That's a red flag.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
If I'm telling you that I need face and I
need time to process my thoughts and you are extra
adamant about getting what you need and getting your knees met,
because now you're mad because I called you a young
mouth dog and you could have just let me go
taken oap gues that right, just need to sleep it.
I might have just needed a sandwich, okay, you know
(33:04):
you're not yourself when you don't. I mean, you could
have just got a snicker. Silence was always an option.
It was always And that's why I know that I
be needing time. I don't like to communicate when I'm angry.
I just let me just let me be to myself.
And it's like and if you take, if you allow
me the time, I feel like we could just have
a better conversation.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
My thoughts are more organized. I know exactly what I
want to say and how I want to respond. Because
here's the thing. If you love somebody, I don't want
to call you a young mouth dog.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
You know what I mean. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
I don't need to call your right right. I love
you all, don't want you to even think that. But
if you push me, I ain't no killing, but don't
push you might You might be one for real. So
just let me let me back up off that, you know,
give me some time, give me some But I don't
think that's a reflect I do think that people that
don't want to communicate at all, that's a real for it.
Because if you shut down and you can't articulate anything
(33:57):
at any time.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
Give me a timeline.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Yeah, I'll say, hey, let me let me call you
around eight o'clock to night, yeah, or let me hit
you back tomorrow, sleep on it.
Speaker 1 (34:07):
I said something like that. But somebody that is like, I.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Don't want to talk about it at all, and then
that just it's been three days and you don't know
what's going on. That's kind of scary. And I've had
that before. I don't think people, you know, people weaponize
that silent treatment. The thing about me is stay silent, right,
never from you a game once you ont you think
you're gonna withhole commits for me as a punishment.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
Yeah, that part.
Speaker 2 (34:30):
And I want to say something real quick segue because
you know, you never know who might be watching.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Okay, and so what we want.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
What I want to say is if you have explained
yourself multiple times and you said something multiple times, and
that person still feels like you're giving them the silent
treatment because you're not saying what they would like you
to say, that's not the silent treatment. That it's not
because you've articulated yourself.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Multiple Hey I need space, Hey I need time. That's
them refusing to understand and not under in your boundary.
That's what that is. That's all, okay, just in case
people whoever, look, we just needed to treatment. That has
been told. Now your havings been silent enough.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
Actually, okay, Side Lands, Side Lands, Okay, I'm so sorry, y'all.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
I don't I don't really know what this episode is.
I don't know. I don't know if we'll be back
next week or not.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Actually, and that's the problem. I think it was amazing.
We had a blast, not a ball what busted?
Speaker 1 (35:33):
It was crazy? Yeah, a store y'all.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
Man said he thought we were six years younger, and I
said no. Well when we walked we went up there
with all that alchohol. That man said, I'm gonna need
to see you ladies. I d I said, oh, busted,
and I said, was cracking up.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
You owe his head something saying that young rising this busted. Jesus.
It's the cherry types, guys. The funds is on our masks,
hot on our trails, step on it, cholenne. What else
(36:18):
did all people be saying? All right, y'all, Look, y'all can.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Tune in every Thursday, every Thursday, individuals on YouTube okay,
or you can listen to us wherever you listen to
your podcast. Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe.
If we're gonna catch y'all in the next one Bang
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