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April 2, 2026 41 mins

In Episode 93 of the She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake and Lynee’ Monae come in hot and immediately get into what irritated them this week—from jet lag struggles to internet nonsense that absolutely did not need to happen. Things really take off when they break down the Tank vs. Tyrese Verzuz, where the vocals were strong, the side‑eye was stronger, and Tyrese’s turtleneck somehow became the loudest participant in the battle. What was supposed to be a celebration of R&B turned into a masterclass in musical confidence, bruised egos, and one man refusing to let his neck breathe. Was it all jokes, or was some old TGT tension sneaking out? Either way, the ladies agree: the turtleneck did not help his case.  

From there, the conversation takes its signature left turns—covering a jaw‑dropping news story that had everyone asking “how??,” unpacking post‑breakup glow‑ups (and why women always seem to level up once they let dead weight go), and debating how old is too old to be outside for Spring Break. Let’s just say: if you need knee braces, PTO, and a recovery day, the answer might already be clear. As always, the episode blends humor, honesty, and a little tough love, reminding listeners to protect their peace, read the fine print, and maybe think twice before going viral for the wrong reasons. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You gonn suffocate in this verse? Is that turtle.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Nicky girl, if your ass had a turtle neck on,
I'll be dying.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
I thought about it, but it really is too like, seriously,
what's up, everybody? It's your girl, indescribabley aka Jerlyn make
checking in with none other than.

Speaker 3 (00:30):
My best seat for the rest Monet, and you.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Are listening to this, she said the first podcast and
Urban one podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
On the Urban one podcast.

Speaker 4 (00:37):
Never oh yes, friend, yes, jeez, you can't.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
You can't.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
You better sing it looking like Janet up in that
movie Michael Nasty.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Ma'am, ma'am.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
You'll be so quick through it, my girl, and we're
only two seconds. Hey, I love a little shimmy. Ain't
a little breath out? I love shimmy a little breath out.

(01:28):
Y'all already said the meat. But I beg to different.

Speaker 5 (01:33):
Right here?

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Got it like get out a little back as an
elder millennium, that's all I got, okay.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
And the picture doing this, okay, Lord saying friend, I
love this is my saying that what.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Got to I got to It's a universal symbol of
not really sure what to do with my hands.

Speaker 6 (01:58):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
So it's like it's so cute that I was like,
when you get into.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
It, yeah, I think I knew. Is that what irritation?
Because girl, yes, I.

Speaker 5 (02:13):
Digress.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
No, girl, we're saying to me this week frid coming
back from talent, I couldn't not.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
To get it.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Going through a swell different time zones had.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
Your girl, saggeny. I was sad, Honey.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
I could not move, I couldn't blink, I couldn't do nothing.
Is it time yet?

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Is there another way in that?

Speaker 1 (02:44):
I'm like, friend, I couldn't I get it together to
save my life. I was trying. Thank god, we recorded
so much content that I really didn't have to do
much of anything. But girl, that that that trip took
it right on the eue of me.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
That took it right on me, right there with you.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
Because I just started waking up on time like Sunday,
so like like two days ago, I just got in
there to get out of the bed before like eleven thirty,
twelve o'clock, say and I And one day I got
up at one thirty. I said, this is ridiculous.

Speaker 6 (03:16):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
One day I didn't get up it on I said,
you have to charge it to.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
The sheets to me, charge this one to the sheet.
I was laid out. It's wrong not I like not.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
I like to sleep in a starfieh shape. Just everything's out,
butt up, face a found face up. I'm like, uh,

(03:51):
oh my god, I hear you on that girl. That
irritated me too. But you know what irritated me, probably
probably more than anything has ever irritated me. Rozanda Chili
Thomas getting on beyonces in there to trying to convince
us that she didn't repost that that stuff about Michelle Obama,

(04:12):
and she said, out there and did.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
That, ma'am, we got you on record.

Speaker 5 (04:14):
Don't like treating me, thank you?

Speaker 3 (04:18):
And she said, well, I thought I was donating to veterans.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
Man.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
We are too old to not be reading the fine print.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
And if you donated to something like that, it came
straight from somebody's campaign trail.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
I don't want to hear it.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Go on on the hell.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
You need to stick to the rivers and the lakes
that you're used to. Hello, go chase on foaks.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
Please see to the rivers and the lace that she
adn't used to.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
I know that shit done. I was right there, Richmond.
That's how we do because that's how we do.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
If you want to go to the third versus whatever,
that's what I.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
Yeah, I miss that's who I missed.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Lisa left that low pez because she was not afraid
to tell you I burned all of this ship that man.
All right, Okay, I love that one. Yeah, she'sh I mean, girl,
it's been so much going on, and since we got
back from Tyller.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
We was gone for a long time.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
Fred I didn't realize we was out of pocket for
a couple of weeks, and so a lot of foolishness
has been happening, and you caught her up.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
Listen, it's a lot, got it's a lot for talking
about to Baker.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
I'm glad you asked me because, first of all, they
revived the versus battles.

Speaker 3 (05:43):
I'm in this.

Speaker 5 (05:43):
I'm so mad I past week.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Oh I love that you because I can't wait to
give you a play by play. Yeah right here today, babe,
Tank versus Tyrese. And let me preface this conversation by
saying Tyres had no business up there. Okay, Tyree had
no business up there. Because if you are a music fan,
if you are a musician, if you are a singer,
if you are a songwriter.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
You know exactly why ty Reson had no being up there.
Tyre sing, We're not taking the chops.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
From a young man, but the same you not You're
not an artist with with multiple number ones like and
with the writing and the production and the singing and
the background vocals and the stacking. And there's a lot
of things that that contribute to Tank's musical genius. In
my now, obviously I'm biased. I love telling I love
but I also am a fan of music.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Yeah, I wouldn't. I want to see my son.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
But that's why a lot of people, a lot of
people gave ty Reese extra in that because I feel
like he is a super Now, let's let's be very clear,
tyres is a mega superstar. Yeah, I'm not taking that
from him. He didn't need to be on that stage
of tarres though, because first of all, coming out there
with that the difference, the difference between ty Reese and

(06:59):
Tank is that Tank came out there to put on
a show and tyree came out there with a chip
on his shoulder. And when Tank got to talk about
that turtle neck, I was done.

Speaker 3 (07:10):
I said, you know, when he was already winning, I go,
what's this home? I'm glad you're ex friend.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Anytime you feel like it, take off that turtle neck,
you go suffocate in this versus that turtle neck.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
Suffoque versus.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
It didn't help. It help that the background vocalists harmonized
it all through the ass I.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
Said, oh my god.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
And then you know, Tyree's was a fitting no, pull
my car right, I'm ready to go. I won the verses,
and I'm like Tyre's, you didn't. You didn't wear anything actually,
and I think just watching it, I think the fans won.
I love that it was for the culture. These are
two of the Meigg's R and b I couns of
our time, you know, specifically. And I enjoyed watching it,

(08:03):
but at a point it became hard to watch because
I felt like Tyres was genuinely struggling with feeling like
he wasn't the winner, and he was making these just
not he was making unnecessary comments. He was being mean.
He tank did come over by Aliyah and Tyree's busted
out while you just singing songs that don't nobody know

(08:27):
what WHOA I was sure you and your feelings, Yeah,
so your feelings.

Speaker 3 (08:35):
He was very nasty to me.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
I thought he was being very nasty, and I think
Tank was giving him, you know, giving it back to him.
And that's what a like a musician, a person who's
used to doing shows and headlining and putting on the
show and things like that, Like they're used to improvisational
you know, tactics like that. So him bringing in the
turnick ed lifts, it was hilarious, but it also just showed,

(08:57):
you know, even further how much of a music is, yeah,
because he couldn't even bounce back from it, like, oh,
that's so embarrasseding and you not want to show you
don't show your cards like that, like when you upset,
like just still trying to put on a good face.

Speaker 5 (09:12):
Why would you.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
Really show that you upset? And then had he had
like a bunch of wardrobe changes? Did he have a
lot of wardrobe changes? Girl, that Nigga switched outfit three
times and still didn't take off that turtle neck.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
He came up there. At first it was black, then
it was white, then it was green.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
And because Tank started the song, that's why he was funny.
Because Tyree had went to the back and changed the
outfit and that's why Tate was cloud to him. He
was like, you went to the bank. He said some
about him having a new shiny lapel. He was like, oh,
you changed to the shiny lapel, but you still didn't
take off that turtleneck. And that's how that ended up
turning into a thing. And I'm like, why do you
need to go change? I think the nigga was hot.

(09:50):
I really do think. I think that he gets the problems.
One thing you can't change and overheat and girl, he
was sweating too at the by the end of the song.
You know, he got in on it too. But people,
a lot of people were speculating. They were saying, uh that, well,
they were split. People were saying that it was jokes,

(10:11):
and then some people were saying, now that looked a
little too serious for me. And I don't know if
we're watching, you know, a downfall or something like that.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
And I do think I think.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
They have a camaraderie that extends, you know, multiple decades.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
But I also do feel like, from what what is
this gonna stop? Why is there?

Speaker 1 (10:26):
Well, you know, they were in a they were in
a group with genuine do you remember that long time?

Speaker 4 (10:32):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (10:32):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (10:33):
And they ended up falling out. Now people have said
that Genuine was.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
The problem, but the problem because I got I think
it was Tyre.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
I can see both of them being an issue. I
can't agree you. Why ain't nobody see you?

Speaker 5 (10:47):
Why no better?

Speaker 3 (10:49):
Like what happened? He was showing some socks the other day.
I said, what's happening? Look at these dog on socks.
He was so proud of them socks.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
Oh, and that's how Tyris was acting. He said, make
sure y'all go buy my n and then it thanks said,
please make sure y'all go by this ship. Oay, I'm
crying laughing because at it's hilarious to me because Tyres
is just taking shots and he does not have the
catalog to back up what he's singing. Like it's okay

(11:25):
for you to be a singer turned major actor. Will
Smith did it by being the first rapper to win
a Grammy, and now he's the biggest biggest movie star
in the world, probably arguably so Queen Latifa, l ll Cool,
j Ice Tea Ice.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
You plenty of people who was Ice back then? Who
was going on with the Ice? It was Chili. It
was like, why was already on Rose?

Speaker 1 (11:53):
They had a lot going on back in the day,
but it's nothing wrong with transitioning to that. And I
mean we loved to see I think I don't think
anybody was upset that Tyreese was there. I think we
was just like, why are you acting like this? This
is a this is an honor to be selected to
do this, both of them, both of them should have
been honored to do it. And I thought that, my

(12:14):
personal opinion, Tank represented very well.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
He was very He was a stand up guy. He
was an artist. He's a difference between an artist and
a singer.

Speaker 1 (12:22):
So I a winner, this is not this is all
just audience like you just listen and.

Speaker 3 (12:27):
Then you choose, like who the winner?

Speaker 1 (12:29):
Oh okay, okay, yeah, because I can't remember girl. I
was during COVID that I just have no recollection. How
like the winner was chosen. I felt like a lot
of times it was just obvious you And it was
because why was ray J on that stage with Mario?
And when Mario said y'all niggas sound crazy? I said,
I didn't want to say it because.

Speaker 5 (12:50):
He's still from Baltimore.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
You can't remember, Maria. I feel like he said y'all
niggas sound crazy straight up, and ray J was up
there with the baby.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
I'm like, bro, just go to them, because you really
shouldn't be up here like you, out of all people,
really didn't have a leg, didn't have a leg to
stand on, speaking of speaking of girl, what, oh my god,
Apparently a man named Dayton James Webber who was a

(13:22):
quadriplegic means doesn't have any arms, doesn't have any legs,
and he's also a professional courn hall player. This in
itself is a miracle and a feat right. Apparently he
was driving apparently fla the wrong questions I have already,

(13:48):
there are so many cool girl, I had to just say,
let that so can't Apparently he was driving with three
other people in the car who all had arms and legs.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
And just please.

Speaker 4 (14:05):
Please stop, girl.

Speaker 3 (14:08):
They got the tussling up in there now.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
I don't know, I don't know how crazy, just stomach
to stomach in there, tustling, and Dayton pulls out.

Speaker 3 (14:22):
A gun from where and how listen, I'm just reading
the story to you.

Speaker 1 (14:37):
I don't know what this man mechanical makeup is. I
just know, uh, I just know that apparently he pulled
out a gun. He asks the two people in the
backseat to help him dispose to the body because apparently
he killed the man. And when he was caught trying
to dump the body, the body in Virginia, he was
caught by the police. Now people are in shock because

(14:58):
obviously who would, where and how and why?

Speaker 3 (15:02):
We got a lot of questions going on, and.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
People are exactly people are jumping to a lot of conclusions,
you know, because the case really doesn't make any sense,
and so what what was your obviously your first reaction is.

Speaker 3 (15:17):
How that part? How is he so savvy with with
no lambs?

Speaker 1 (15:23):
Like, while there's a will, there's a way.

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Where there's a will, there's a way, and tongue it's different.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
Different now he used he used, he used the the
can we say love? Is that political career? I know, Johnny,
I did not want to see. For those of you
listening at home, our producers asking do.

Speaker 3 (15:44):
I want to see the clip?

Speaker 1 (15:45):
Hell no, that's gonna be a hell known for me.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
I don't want to see it, Okay. I just feel
like it's a set up.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
They're already gonna call us ablest by laughing at this content. However,
did see him make the news and I ain't. I'm
not getting in the car with somebody who don't have
no limbs.

Speaker 3 (16:03):
Hello, you cannot drive.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
This vehicle, sir. You can sit in the back. And
it's not that I am not saying that you aren't capable.
I'm saying I would feel more comfortable.

Speaker 3 (16:14):
How can a car.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
And not and shoot a gun and not dispose of
a body? Like how are you able to do all
of these other things? But that, uh, this is why
I do AB day because you've got to have a
strong core. You got every day is a torso every
day is AB day when you go to the gym.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
Because this is the stuff that I be talking about.

Speaker 1 (16:36):
So that's crazy that I'm taking that. Say, okay, I
am taking it's that story for sure. I have no
idea how this how you let somebody even get mad
enough at you, because I know he had to fumble
and fidget with it just a little absolutely and in

(16:58):
that time frame you couldn't or you know, it's just
or just throw.

Speaker 3 (17:01):
Them because this is not a we just pick it
up and throw it.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
That's it.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
Sorry, have to edit that out. We're not gonna pick
the little fellow up and try to shoot me.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Umny, Hey, hey, hey, hey, all that's wrong. Hey, I say,
wait a minute, hold on, we don't want to forget
that this person is literally trying to kill you. He's
an active threat, thank you. He is honestly a live
bomb at this point.

Speaker 3 (17:30):
Right, And so.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
If he has a gun and he is actively trying
to shoot me.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
Yes, I will pick you up and throw you.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
Yes, I am going to do that. Yes, one hundred
and ten percent.

Speaker 3 (17:42):
That's gonna happen.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
Anytime my life is in danger do to something, and
especially sometime I feel like I could do something about
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (17:49):
There have many situations where you.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
Feel like I don't know.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
One he was like four hundred pounds, five hundred pounds,
sixty seven. I might, I might not.

Speaker 4 (17:58):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (18:00):
Sixty seven? That's both times.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
Okay, So okay, now thanks, I'll put you on that.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
I feel you on that.

Speaker 1 (18:12):
It's just one of those situations where it's kind of like,
how did this even happen? So I don't know, speaking
of girls, speaking of how the things happen, sometimes we
end up in.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
Some crazy situations.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
And the whole so switching gears just a little bit.
The whole Tianna Taylor and Aaron Pierre. That's moved us
off that whole thing. I loved them together so bad,
and when I found out they was broken up, I
was disgusted with them because what do you mean?

Speaker 3 (18:41):
I had hope?

Speaker 1 (18:42):
Yeah, y'all was my happily ever after type situation.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
And I can't prove it, but I know Emmon Shampa
is the problem.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
And so when I get down to the nitty gritty,
yeah he's a man, I'm gonna pick it out.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
But no hair.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
Girl is that?

Speaker 3 (19:00):
Is that what he looked like?

Speaker 1 (19:02):
They look like together, and it's very sexy.

Speaker 3 (19:06):
It's very sexy, And that's what I want to say.
SIB's cats, I think they're simee Is. I think a
face shape, I don't.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
I don't find those cats unattractive or anything like that.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
I don't want him in my house.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
But however, when you look at them, they look so
exotic together like their they do. They do, They're they're
very exact, heavily featured. I think they're gorgeous. I just
hated when they I thought they looked I thought they
complimented each other well, and I was upset when they
broke up, and apparently they didn't stop Tiana because she
went on to clean up during Oscar season, and I

(19:43):
mean just glowing, you know, getting their flowers, constantly working.
And I want to talk about that post breakup blow up,
because there is one and everybody goes through it. I
feel like so many times we're in situations where people
and we allow what they got going on to override.

Speaker 3 (20:00):
What's best for us.

Speaker 1 (20:02):
And so coming out of something myself, I was like, Okay,
I got to figure out who I am. I got
to figure out me. And I think that that's one
of the best places for a woman to be. Male
center women are so discussing because they will have you
in some.

Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yeah that's what they do.

Speaker 6 (20:21):
Girl.

Speaker 3 (20:22):
They make your.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Scalp but too but just be itchy when I think
about how some of these women center men.

Speaker 3 (20:28):
But I think that once you, once you let go.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Of something that's not for you, you can really start
to receive the things that are for you. And I mean,
have you ever left somebody and they ended up being
the best thing you got rid of you let go of. Yes,
it's on the run of show.

Speaker 3 (20:47):
I can't this is what ya he said.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
We need to talk about today, I try to get
around it.

Speaker 3 (20:52):
I look for yes, I have.

Speaker 1 (20:56):
I mean, yeah, you know, I actually get along with
all of my exes except for one, and I wish
all of them the best except for one.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
Yeah, I want I too.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
Hope this hurts, and I wish you.

Speaker 3 (21:12):
I wish you unwell.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
Just in case there was any confusion about where I
stood at the end of y'all's relations.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
Okay, I don't know, right for girl, the band look
for me.

Speaker 4 (21:25):
Yeah, y'all go okay, so.

Speaker 5 (21:29):
Let's be for real.

Speaker 3 (21:31):
But yes, girl and they all are doing very well.

Speaker 1 (21:34):
Now what I say they're doing better than me, I
don't know because I don't count their pockets.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
But we are in contact enough where one of them
owns an amazing.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Like Candle business and Charlotte Innitt booming like literally taking off,
going viral all the time making money. The other one
is a teacher at the school but also opened up
their own school like a monastery school.

Speaker 5 (21:55):
Like bomb going amazing.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
Another one that has about four kids. Now when i'm them,
they only had one. I don't know why you go down.
They've been busy. They've been busy. They have been busy.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
However, definitely we talk and they take care of on
the bills, take care of the kids.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
That girl don't have to lift a finger, she don't
have to do nothing.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
And that person is very much a provider because when
I was with them, they was the same way.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
So I think that they're.

Speaker 5 (22:20):
All doing you know, like I said, well.

Speaker 6 (22:25):
You know, so it's just misting on. I hate you big,
I hate you big.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
Throw it back to zero, y'all don't know about this
before y'all time. Okay, just in case there was any.

Speaker 1 (22:42):
Confusion about how I feel, please let me know who's
whose side I'm on.

Speaker 3 (22:47):
Can't stand you, hope the worst? Are you all right?
You can't go out?

Speaker 1 (22:53):
Okay, let's be cleare And now look, and now that
the take the tackles off my feet, so I can
say I just wall on a brasier knowing Jesus, I
just don't know, but I feel it in my gonna
say hey, okay, And that's how I now that them

(23:15):
shackles have broken off. Since m M, I'm feeling like girlfriend,
the girl is outside less exactly and bring her outside
the spring breaker.

Speaker 3 (23:26):
And he used to look for food. Girlston looking fool?
Did you see thembody else?

Speaker 1 (23:30):
Friend craziness and and somebody on feeling grand Dator was
out there. I've seen some some elderly people. I just
got to tell you about one thing because I know
nobody talk about something else. But I need to tell
you this.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
Oh lord, y'all have to be so careful. I have
to talk to the older general, I mean younger generation
real quick.

Speaker 1 (23:48):
I know that when a weather break, you automatically get
in heat. You know what I'm saying. You just start
feeling yourself. You need you got to get that off.
But I'm gonna tell you, and I don't know if
they're gonna put it in or not, but the Rose,
get understand, the Rose will send it.

Speaker 3 (24:09):
You get a few taking what you want, different types.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Because the white guys seen that girl in the back
seat with the windows down while people was all gathered
around watching her go up and down on somebody in
the back seat she just met in Houston her first
day there. Friend, I said, it can't be that bad.
It can't be to the point where you just not
need I need this video right now, just not not
because I actually want to see it. I want to
see who this young lady is. I need to slide

(24:33):
to her days and talk to her. Because girl, first
day in Houston is a handshat on TikTok. It's people
literally meet and people on the first day. The guys
are recording the girls while they knocked outsleep. The girls
are recording the guys while they knocked atsleep. These people
got girlfriends and boyfriends. They putting it online. Girl.

Speaker 3 (24:49):
One girl got put online and then had child. They
was in there talking in the comments like, oh you got.

Speaker 4 (24:53):
My old Oh she done?

Speaker 3 (24:56):
She had ten out of ten. Oh did you get
the hand service?

Speaker 5 (24:58):
Did you get disservice?

Speaker 3 (24:59):
She do this?

Speaker 4 (25:00):
Brother?

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Girl? They writing reviews? Why are they writing reviews not the.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
Coucie Facts report. I don't want nobody's couchie facts. I
need y'all to get some vibrators. I need y'all to
get some toys. I need y'all to handle that before
you go out in these streets and you get the
humming on anything. And they said that STD ray in
Houston is crazy, So y'all.

Speaker 3 (25:21):
Have an unprotective act and then you're going home with
something you wasn't supposed to go homewood? What's going on?
I just need y'all to take better care of yourself.

Speaker 5 (25:27):
I don't understand it.

Speaker 3 (25:28):
I don't get it.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
And here I was about to say, Babe, we're too
old to be out in the streets anyway. And I
to your point, to your point, this is not an
older woman conversation. Y'all had no business being out there.
Let them kids have fun, but have fun responsibly, because.

Speaker 3 (25:45):
I shouldn't wake up our girl.

Speaker 1 (25:49):
Just thinking about it, just just thinking about it. I
got to be active at all my social media.

Speaker 3 (25:55):
I asked you, what.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Because everybody, how many people that seen me bouncing up
the grid have to go and I mean getting full
citizenship in another country immediately.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
What that is insane? Every time you get on the internet,
they're gonna ask you about it.

Speaker 1 (26:12):
Every single time you can NAVI shot and the girl
the camera they be sleep the camera, be in it.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
It don't be to the side, it don't be down,
old girl, and be right.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
Here so you can see exactly who it is and
posting it to your And let me just tell you
another thing, that's christ you deal with no man, that's press,
that's press. You're gonna take a video of me and
put it on your social media.

Speaker 5 (26:32):
Now, granted these are younger.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
But you know when I was younger, Yeah, I didn't
do A nigga would never.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
A nigga would never. Let's be for real, like no.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
Now, I mean you just never know these and these
these I hate to say. It's not just me, and
these people are sick. A lot of people are so
hungry for clout and attention and they chase this this
high that they get from having a lot of views
and a lot of followers and you but I we
know what this space is actually like. People don't understand that,

(27:05):
who don't live it. Every day. There is a wave
of support that comes when you see something on social media.
Oh people love this, blah blah, and then they start
slowly attacking you every time you go viral, and you
know you're outside, you're you know, like these my fans
my father was.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
They like this type of content. But now it's grown up.
It's too big. It's going outside of my sphere.

Speaker 1 (27:28):
And other people who don't know me, who don't know
the nuances, don't understand my humor, who don't who haven't
grown with me, they don't see this type of stuff.

Speaker 3 (27:38):
So for people that just looking for clickbait, I would.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
Suggest that you do something different with your life and
your time, because you're gonna get your feelings hurt. And
this is I would me personally if I showed up
on somebody's timeline like that, I'm swing everyone involved.

Speaker 3 (27:55):
Oh my god, yes, yes, I'm seeing.

Speaker 1 (27:59):
Everyone involved, and then I will be relocating. But then,
you know what's scary about this friend, is that as
grown woman, because I know that movie was going about
you know, whether you're outside or not or should have
been there or whatever.

Speaker 3 (28:10):
As grown woman, we was sill. We might even be up. Yo.

Speaker 4 (28:15):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
They can't get real domestic, you know, because how dare
you violate me?

Speaker 3 (28:23):
I'm a grown woman.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
You know what I'm saying. My integrity? Come on now,
you know what I mean. But it's scary to think
that the video without and like you said, even though
she looks like the victim, she's actually excited because she too,
is more viral.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
He put it up to humiliate you, but in return
you getting all these followers people comment.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
On your stuff.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
Now, you got a lot of dudes coming after you
want to see what you and if you don't have
enough self validation or self work or know who you are,
and then you would look at that as I'm pumping, yeah,
everybody want me.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
And that's sad too. That's sad too because this was
done as something.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
To hurt you, and you're looking at it as an
opportunity to continue to give you a body away for free.

Speaker 3 (29:04):
And now you can't.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
You can't se because what's gonna happen? Like some of
these people are like, this is the thing that I
that I love and hate about being a parent, right,
not me having a kid.

Speaker 3 (29:15):
I'm saying about parenthood.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
You can protect your child and want the best for
your child and not want them to have to go
through certain things. But if they run out in their
them streets and they do something like that, Like if
something like that happened to me, my parents would want
to sue somebody, especially if I was under age, because
you know everybody out there eight eighteen or twenty one, you.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
So some of them, some of the people are still
legally minors, your parents would want to take you know,
legal action.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
But if you're on the internet.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
I book me and like, man, I got to dismiss
your claim now because you.

Speaker 3 (29:52):
Know, like and I hate that for us.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
I hate that attention has become such a drug and
the wrong people are getting famous using the term very
loosely because they just.

Speaker 3 (30:02):
Be wanting the wrong things.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
And you don't You don't even know that you don't
want that kind of attention until it gets you. Ain't
never been somewhere and somebody walked up on you and said, yeah,
what about that video you posted?

Speaker 3 (30:13):
Or I think I thank you, corny, or ain't you
the girl from so and so? You don't know.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
What that feeling is like to have your privacy invaded
in mass So, yeah, trade lightly. Use the Internet with
a lot of discretion, because when we was, I feel like,
I'm so glad we didn't have the internet.

Speaker 6 (30:34):
Girl.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
Oh my god, girl, same the girl, same same money.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Because please, why was we up in them clubs dressed
like we was dressed, acting like we was acting and thank.

Speaker 3 (30:49):
You there acting like that in business attire.

Speaker 1 (30:55):
Business clothes, no business whatsoever, no business, no desire.

Speaker 3 (31:00):
No business. Girl, And I get it.

Speaker 1 (31:04):
Kids should have fun, I understand, but we're just not
in that space no more. Everything can be shared instantly
and forever. The Internet is forever, folks. If y'all are listening.
The internet is forever. Please be careful what you put
on it and what you're doing, say in front of
the camera, because once it's out there, you can't take
it back, and you do not get a take a
chance to make a first impression. Because now you are

(31:24):
the girl who's bouncing up and down in the back
seat of that car with the windows down, everybody around
recording you. I'm so confused. I'm just so confused.

Speaker 3 (31:34):
Out of her mind. I wanna say, how out of your.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
Mind do you have to be to think that's okay?
Where do you have to go to think that that's okay?
And you know, she don't have to go far because
if you listen, I'm so serious, if you listen to
the music that is being played today, if you look
at the shows that are being marketed to black people,

(31:57):
these love and hip hops, the housewives and all the
baddies and all of that studies, all of that stuff
is just black women arguing, she and lyon being messy.
It's nothing positive to come out of those shows anymore,
even if they you know, the first intention was to
be something positive or whatever. I don't think so, I

(32:18):
don't think Baddies was ever even Jocelyn's cabaret. I don't
think any of those were ever designed to be anything good. Like,
I just can't see it.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
I'm so sorry. Reason is what's her name? Diamond? Is
her name?

Speaker 1 (32:32):
Diamond?

Speaker 3 (32:34):
Oh god? She used to she used to sleep with
Stevie and Jocelyn.

Speaker 5 (32:37):
She was on it.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
She had the pink hair. What's her name?

Speaker 5 (32:39):
I don't I.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
Don't watch you out of the TV sign and I
can't remember her name.

Speaker 4 (32:43):
I got it.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
The only few.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
People that I do know is because I've been in
Atlanta so long that I come across certain people. I
watched Love and hip Hop maybe like the first season
when Kaman show was on. There after that, I just stopped,
so I don't know people.

Speaker 3 (32:56):
I wish I knew her name, but she came out
with a show.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
And the only reason I like her show is because
she said I stopped doing that. Like the girls was
telling me I inspired them, and she was like, I
don't want to spy nobody to be no stripper, Like
that's not what I want to do. Girl, she stopped
doing the show. I respect her so much because she
was like girls was really coming on there because they
was like, I want to be a striper, I want
to do this, and she was just like, I don't
want to inspire girls to do that.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
Stop the show. What is her name? Name was stripper
Diamond or it's in home things.

Speaker 5 (33:26):
I'm sorry?

Speaker 1 (33:27):
Related with the pink hair who chose to give her
life to Christ Okay, sorry girl? Why losing her rabbit
ass mine on the internet and and giving out speaking
actual threats ma'am you can be charged. She arge, she

(33:47):
needs to be charged. I was so triggered, Drelian, I
was so triggered by that whole video because I'm like,
this is textbook narcissism.

Speaker 3 (33:57):
This is exactly how it is.

Speaker 1 (33:59):
They do something to you or you don't give them
what they want, and then she shows evidence of her
being crazy. It's almost like a sick delusion.

Speaker 3 (34:08):
They do all of this to you. Literally, China only
wrote back.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
I love you, and she said, and I don't know
what type of sarcastic, sick twisted that's that?

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Wasn't you trying to be funny? Girl goes on to
write a freaking fifty.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
Seven dissertation to her and tell her how much she
hates her, how she don't need nothing from her, how
she's jealous and envious to her. I said this right
here is text book.

Speaker 5 (34:29):
It was so bad.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
Want to say that she was gonna treat her like Marvin?
I just I can't hear. It was too much. And
then she looked demonic. First of all, why do you
look like that in the face? You literally don't even
look human anymore. I just wanted to look at her.
That's the drugs.

Speaker 1 (34:46):
Actually, that's so that part's yeah, okay, yeah, it's insane.
You're right, there's no excuse.

Speaker 3 (34:57):
Donny got it, yont you got in that ass.

Speaker 1 (34:59):
Yeah. I did see her say something to her, and
now I just think it's so sad. But videos like
that make me really appreciate the relationship I had with
my mom.

Speaker 3 (35:06):
It's not perfect, and she's not.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Perfect, and I'm not perfect, but thank god, she wasn't
my first bully, and she didn't she was jealous of me,
and she didn't talk to me like that like thank god,
she encouraged me, and I always knew that I could
do whatever I wanted to do with her love and support,
and even if I did stuff that she didn't want
me to do, I still had her love and support agreed.

Speaker 3 (35:25):
I agreed.

Speaker 1 (35:26):
Same with my mom, Like she's just super supportive, she's
super sweet. She get on my nerves a lot, but
she's still a.

Speaker 3 (35:31):
Really good person.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Am Let me tell you about these people were in
the middle of a war, right, Why why they went
on a cruise.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
To Mexico as you're in or was this before or
after you went?

Speaker 1 (35:49):
I want to just say, Mama, Papa, I got your back.

Speaker 3 (35:55):
Because you don't even know them. People like that.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
And then and then and then you know, we're not
talking about me.

Speaker 4 (36:02):
Let's about like when you got your mask.

Speaker 1 (36:08):
It was when I got back. I didn't know they
was going to war, but they had a blast. That
sent me pictures and I love to see them having,
you know, having fun and stuff like that. But I
wish that for everybody, Like I don't understand why this
lady is on the internet, Like.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
It's one thing to not like me and let me know, but.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
You get on the internet every day and you trash
talk your daughter, your seed.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
You gave this girl.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
Life and she looked just like you, identical to you,
and you'll get her face and fifty dollars because we
really want to make sure that we don't why she's
so was upset. She's mad because she did not give
her two hundred and fifty dollars. No, she's not mad
about that. She's mad because she's mad because despite every
negative thing she said Angelo, she could not break her.

(36:55):
That's why she's mad two hundred and fifty dollars and
got nothing to do with it.

Speaker 3 (36:59):
That is just true.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
Don't just say say that was the trigger for her.

Speaker 5 (37:04):
She didn't feel it, because the.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
Thing is, these don't just hoppen overnight.

Speaker 1 (37:08):
These feelings and all of this stuff don't just happen overnight.

Speaker 3 (37:10):
They it's always brewer, you know what I'm saying. It's
always like, well, let me see if I can get this.

Speaker 1 (37:15):
And then when that person doesn't even acknowledge your existence,
and don't let you ignore, because not acknowledging them only
triggers them more, for them to do more to you,
for them to go behind your back, or even try
to do a smear campaign, talk bad on your name,
say crazy things about you, fabricate lies, honey, tell everybody
you jealous of them when they ain't got to pop

(37:36):
the pissing on a window to throw it over.

Speaker 3 (37:38):
Because she always is she in a hotel that almost
because what are you sleeping at? Hotel Oka?

Speaker 1 (37:45):
And let me hudge because if you see this video
and she trying to say to the mean number, baby.

Speaker 3 (37:50):
Girl, we just got to fight it out. And I
don't care, but one thing I want. One thing.

Speaker 1 (37:54):
I'm not gonna do a fist fight, no crackhead, because girl,
why why did Netflix just release promo for it's a
documentary or a mini see a mini doc about the
untold story of what's the guy's name, Chloe Kardashian's lamar odom,
his drug use and stuff like that. And Chloe is

(38:14):
sitting there talking about, well, I smelled crack, and I
went upstairs and and I saw him smoking crack on
the bed, and I just punched him in the face.
I said, that's how I know you not, That's how
I know you're not from the streets. But you're never
gonna beat them allegations, because why the get you punching
a crack head?

Speaker 3 (38:29):
Wait? And why you smell you know, and crack smell
like I have so many questions, she said.

Speaker 1 (38:38):
She said she knew what it smelled like then, and
so I smelled the only things that I smell. You know,
people smell weed or whatever. Yeah, the one thing I've
ever smelled was myth. I smelled somebody who had a
myth they had they had a meth lab in there
then the house and I went in there after they
moved out. I went in there and I was like, Oh,
this is what that smells like. And I said, I

(38:58):
see how this be eating them teeth up because this
smelled like something this would take a paint straight off
the chevy. Okay, oh my god, it was that. Oh
it's bad, girl, Like when you're cooking drugs and stuff
like that, stuff don't smell good. That's why they be
having them gas masks and stuff on because it can
not only would you get high, people overdose this way.

(39:21):
And I don't know if folks like I get it,
people like, oh it's fun to do drugs. It's actually
not fun to do drugs at all. And you could
kill yourself, that's right. So let's all stop doing drugs.

Speaker 3 (39:31):
If we can.

Speaker 1 (39:34):
If you still want to do drugs, that's fine. But
I think that this is a wonderful way to wrap
up this episode. Don't do drugs, don't please? Where is
there when you need them?

Speaker 5 (39:43):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (39:43):
I'm saying that where is there when you need them?
Ain't gonna say you like I ain't never smell.

Speaker 5 (39:47):
No weed them.

Speaker 3 (39:49):
I too to dabble in the greens.

Speaker 1 (39:55):
But you know, like I think, I think anything that
you have to manipulate, Like I don't like when people
I just be feeling bad for people when I see
them do more things like people doing the drug here
and there.

Speaker 3 (40:05):
If you see somebody on crack, that's different. That's a different.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
Like you, you surpassed whatever we thought about you. You're
too far gone if you're doing crack, Okay, don't know
and beyond like that, I mean, how don'd you do that?

Speaker 3 (40:22):
Okay? Who are child? That?

Speaker 1 (40:26):
Right there is exactly how we should end it. Okay,
don't do drugs. You need something to do in between time.
In the meantime, watch is every Thursday on right here
you want, Okay, We're gonna give you more than enough entertainment.
If you looking for a little hit a dope me,
I'm your girl, okay, and there's my.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
Okay, come see us okay.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
And you can listen to the audio wherever you listen
to your podcast. Just make sure you like, comment and
subscribe and hit that notification bill, so you'll know every.

Speaker 3 (41:00):
Time your girls are round. Alright, Chap, it's bye

Speaker 6 (41:06):
Mhm.
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