April 23, 2026 • 30 mins
In Episode 96 of She Said It First, Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off exactly how you’d expect: jet-lagged, slightly irritated, and already over everybody. From messy travel stories and bodies forcing rest whether you like it or not, the ladies ease into a much bigger conversation about why modern dating (and men, specifically) seem determined to stress Black women out. The phrase “the way I be leaving these men” quickly reveals itself as less of a joke and more of a survival tactic, with Jerrilyn unapologetically standing ten toes down on disappearing when disrespect shows up.
The tone shifts as they dig into the very heavy reality of violence against women, asking the uncomfortable but necessary questions about accountability, rejection, and why abuse is so often dismissed as “mental health” instead of addressed as unchecked entitlement and rage. With sharp insight and zero sugarcoating, they call out society’s tendency to center abusers while expecting women—especially Black women—to carry caution manuals for simply existing. It’s sobering, but the honesty cuts through, making space for real talk about protection, public accountability, and why “just leave” is never as simple as it sounds.
True to She Said It First fashion, the episode balances deep commentary with humor and cultural side-eyes—from celebrities still getting too many passes, to church folks doing Olympic-level judging, to people being way too loud and wrong on the internet. Whether they’re unpacking faith, freedom, or why some people simply need to mind the business that pays them, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ remind listeners that love, boundaries, and discernment can (and should) coexist. Equal parts funny, fiery, and affirming, Episode 96 makes one thing crystal clear: behind every “disappeared” man is a woman who chose peace—and probably sleep.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:21):
What's if everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
It's your girl Indescribable aka Jerlyn Lake checking in with
none other than my bestie for the rest of em
the name Onnette and you are listening to the said
First podcast and Erworld podcast on the podcast network. Here
me yay, guys, Hey, you know it's team when you
see all right?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
All right? Because I can't wait to tell you what
kissed me off this week?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Will people go to Jamaica and they go let you
go with them, and then they gave you a hard
time about hanging out with our friends from Thailand in
Atlanta like they was not going to Jamaica with somebody
else in away. And I'm not saying nobody in particular,
I'm just saying I hate when people do that.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Fray, who did that? Tell Tell me who it was?
We could beat the mud because that was not right
that they had did this like this is this a
girl on Instagram? I don't really know? Stop playing with me?
Friend Jamaica was lit. I wish she was there with me.
Girl would have cut up too bad though.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
We Girl, I'm not trying to get it out of
the people country because me and Jerline, when we get together,
we are like, we never gonna see each other again.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I don't don't. She was like, girl, we got to
get in that out. We got literally cut up so
so so so so bad. Girl, it was fun. I
wish she was dead out girl, we.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Would have been tagged it up them Jamaican minute something
else though, I heard to stay away from them, so
I didn't talk to nobody because I was like, I'm scared.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
They said Jamaicans is scary, girl. I don't listen. I'm cool.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I watched School Runnings in high school, and that's enough
for me because I.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Was alright with that right there. Leon.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You know he already realed me the wrong way. He
Didne did a long string of black films. He always
got a toxic character.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
So you know, I'm cool on that. But I did.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
But speaking of irritation and me coming back and waking
up the saxophones was crazy. Friend, I woked up the
time I was similar, Oh my Godfriend, I got back
from and get sick as a I'm sick y'all under
(02:41):
the weather like I don't know what happened. I think
it was the Thailand, from Thailand to Atlanta, from Atlanta
to Jamaica, now back home.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
I think my body said it's your ass, dad. How
about that? Since you and.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Me and the body is on the same we like
the week sympathical because your ass sound.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Down.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
It said, Okay, she's gonna keep moving. We gotta slow
her down. We gotta slow her down. Baby sick sick.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
As I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
So that's what irritated me for because I don't even
get sick like that. I like to think I have
a strong immune system.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
You know what I'm saying. I like to think that
I have a strong immune system, honey. The crazy part
is that it don't even be your immune system.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I think I think it really be your body is like, hey,
I need to rest, and so it starts like semi
failing in other areas. Your body probably like, hey, I
don't want to go on another flight. Okay, I don't
want to. I don't want to pawn another river.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Okay, I can't. I can't pon another river.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I was okay then okay, and and now you're fighting
for your life.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
My god, on today like that? Sometimes Well, I mean,
at least you.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Had a blast and you you came back, and I
know you got amazing kind I've seen some of the videos,
so I know they're gonna be funny and engaging, and
so that is the upside of it.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
But girl, while he was gone, it was a lot
of popping off. Girl, what happened? Oh my god, I'm
so glad you inquired.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Chah.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
So violence against women, of course, we know, is nothing new.
But just recently, former v A Lieutenant governor justin Fairfax
actually murdered his wife in the home while their two
children were there. Uh and this is a pretty you know,
popular case, unfortunately, but he then went upstairs and killed himself.
(04:37):
He also had some sexual assault allegations surrounding him, and
I believe uh they she asked him for a divorce
and the judge ordered him to leave the home.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
So that added to it.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
The mass shooting in Shriveport, Louisiana, where the man shot
two women, one of them being the mother of his children,
and then killed eight children and s my god, yes
seven of them were his own children. And then fourteen
year olds celest Hernandez that was murdered by singer I
think you pronounce it's his name, David. He was dealing
(05:12):
with her. Obviously she's a teenager, she's a child. So
this is even more illegal. And so violence against women
has been running rampant, and I feel like black women,
uh specifically are under attack, but also just women of color.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Like I feel like we are being targeted.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
And so I guess a good question is is the
violence becoming worse or are we just.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Seeing it more?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
And and what do we what do we do to
come back this because I've always just heard, well, don't
go nowhere by yourself at night, you know, don't wear
these kind of clothes, don't don't take drinks from strength, Like,
there's so many things that women can do to protect ourselves.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
But when are we going to start shifting the conversation
to who are these niggas? The man exactly?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Yet these niggas away from me? You think it's for
real I think, Yeah, I don't know. Friend, that's a
good question. Are we just saying more of it or
is it actually getting worse? Because I genuinely think when
you think about like back in the day and things
like that, it was like, whatever happens in this house
stays in this house.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
We're very secretive.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
You're not allowed to talk about what's going on in
the house whole, whether it's the massive violence, if somebody
hurt someone, you know, sexual assault and things like that.
People are very tight about a lot of things. And
I think people are just starting to become more careless
and more vogue. That's literally what I think. I think
people are don't care no more about whether they smacked
up girl.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Why.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I've seen this dude proposing to this girl, proposing to
her and she said no, girl, he pushed her in
the face, like literally about that. It was a white
guy and it was like security footae from a restaurant
or something like that.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yes, I saw that.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I said this, Why she's saying no, like you pushed
her in the face. So it's like careless, That's what
I mean about, like people just don't care you're out
in you're outside on the panio in front of everybody,
and you crushed this girl in the face immediately, and
now we all can see it.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
So it's just like, I think people have just stopped
caring about an audience. I think it's that too. I
think it's that.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
And when you see so many abusers get off Scott free,
men tend to think that they're safe as well.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
And I, you know, like the thing that pissed me.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I did a video about this, but I'm glad we're
talking about it today so I can go really more
in depth and use big words because on that video
I was cussing and I was act like I salked
to my hunger or my cousin or somebody. But uh,
you know, for for the for the Urban One podcast company,
I would love to just point out the fact that
this man was a member justin Fairfax, was a member
(07:45):
of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Incorporated, which prompted a lot
of members other members to speak out about the murder
suicide and Roland Martin, who I've long since seen as
killer in the community.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
He's a voice for the people and all these things.
And then he gets up there and he.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Writes this long paragraph with his picture all these pictures
of him and his strap brother. This long paragraph about
Justine's political aspirations, everything that he wanted to do in life.
How damn And then and then girl, there's just one sentence.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
This one sentence. His wife's Serena was a psychologist.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
And then went on to tell us more about about
his friend, his Hollie.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
That and I and then when we said, hey, we.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Think you are centering the murderer in this discussion and
not focusing on how this life was taken. Allow people
to grieve the victim before you shove in to their face.
How we can help this person who was acting out
because he didn't like the divorce proceedings like that's and
people are saying, well, it's mental health issues. He was
(08:50):
struggling with mental No, this nigga was upset because this
lady was about to leave him.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
And in the case of Shamar Elkins.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
The thirty one year old man from Shreveport, Louisiana, he
was also going through a divorces.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Few so we have.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
To shift the conversation for from because yes, people do
need mental health resources, but also we cannot dismiss every
case of domestic violence as a as a result of
mental illness or lack of resources to support them, because
a lot of these men are just unhinged, unchecked, and
(09:23):
abusive and.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Have emotional disfunction.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
They are emotionally dysfunctional, and when you see people act
out and do certain things, it's just to me. I'm
once again, I'm not gonna say that mental health is
not a real thing.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
It's a real thing.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
But I do think y'all open the door so quickly
for them to go through it to say for they're
dealing with what they could be dealing with mental health.
I don't think that we need to leave that door
wide open before we address the fact that people cannot
take rejection. You do not know what to do when
someone no longer wants you.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You literally think.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Acting out, showing your full on ass is going to
allow them to get back with you. What happens when
you do Let's say it wasn't you know what I'm saying.
Let's say it was an abusive relationship and it wasn't
a murder suicide?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Is this supposed to keep her? When you do it?
Speaker 2 (10:11):
So?
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I just don't understand.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
You are emotionally dysfunctional, and you think by doing these
things keeps the person.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Dude, what is the plant? I don't understand it. I
don't think they think they're keeping anybody.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
I think it's about control and unchecked rage, and I
think that's the problem. I can give you guys some
statistics right now, About thirty two percent or fifty percent
of all homicides against women are committed by women that
they had or i'm sorry, are committed by men that
they have.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Either previously had or currently hav an insterment relationship with.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Also, about six percent of those homicides are the cause of.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Are the direct result of mental health illnesses.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
So six percent is not a large number for us
to be broadly stroking situations and saying, oh, we got
to increase mental health resources.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
No, we need to start putting these niggas in the dirt.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Hello, Hello, Hello, because I'm with that would getting them
out of here, because we were quick to dismiss it
as mental health, when what we should be doing and
mental health in the twenties and the thirties, when what
we should be doing is as.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Children, we should be instructing these men on how to
accept rejection and also how to communicate emotional emotions with
people of the opposite text like, it's you think because
you big and bad. Oh I'm gonna show her, or
ain't nobody gonna take half of what I got? Or
ain't nobody gonna take my house? Ain't nobody gonna divorce?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
You leave me?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You just can't leave me, period, like or you just
can't leave me, and that's crazy because anybody can get you.
And I was thinking about leaving in the middle of
this conversation. I'll show you who can't leave Nigga.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
I disappeared.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I had a man text me, dang, you really be disappearing.
Boy stopped texting me. He's now been blocked. But sometimes
it was around to imagine and they will get around
that forcing you to talk to them because you can't
leave them. That is psychotic, it is, that's psychotic. I
don't want to be with nobody who don't want to
be with me? And I, well, hold on, let's reframe
it because we can't say that's psychotic. Psychosis is a
(12:16):
form of mental illness. What we can say is it's childish.
I can say it's it's ego driven. I can say
it's probably sociopathic. Give it that it's narcissistic. I think narcissistic.
But I don't want it to seem like these people
are having a mental breakdown when they respond to rejection
with murder.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
That's crazy, right, agreed, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
And you know they mentioned, you know, he had at
least Shamar Elkins had a history of drug abuse and
run ins with police and stuff like that. And so
men who have long standing histories of domestic violence and abuse,
especially among women or against women. I'm not interested in
hearing your dissertations about how to get him more mental
health resources. He's been whooping ass for a decade. Hello,
(13:04):
and nothing was done, Like nobody cared until this man
did a murdered suicide. Now you're coming out with long
paragraphs and tign how all these accolades and everything that
he had, why he ain't doing while he was alive.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
It's just weird.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Well, with just a fan facts may be had a
failing political career anyway, So let's start there. Okay, them
sexual assault allegations added up, and I think that's what
we really.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Need to be discussing.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
What we really need to be talking about is how
men get just free reign sometimes to abuse women.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
We know this because and I'm judging. I don't care.
I'm judging. We know this because Chris Brown and USh
are going on tour and.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Women are buying, women are buying tickets, they're going to
the concert. And I've seen people in my comments say
I don't care how many people they hurt or abused.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
They never abused me.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I've also seen people saying, well, I've been abused and
I don't care. And I've also seen people saying, well,
if they just throw R Kelly or Trey Sauce on there,
I said, not more, Oh no, oh no, not R
Kelly and Trey Sauce on it, and shesus, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
So there's it's twofold. I think that men are being
allowed to get away with it, and then there are
women who do the bidding of massa. Well, the massa
is it don't matter who the oppressor is. Like, you
cannot oppose rape culture and then actively support abusers.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
And rape box. You can't do it. Yeah, and I
think you Box.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
But I'm glad you wanted up.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I might have been a problem problem because I did.
I did check out them tickets. I did. I was
very interested.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
I was very interested to see what was going on
over there, you know what I'm saying, But like that
always gonna you know, it's like when you put it
like that, it's like, damn, I need to probably re
evaluate that.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
I'm not gonna lie. I was gonna go see who
Wall was over there. I'm not gonna lie to you
a little bit.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
I got here all friend. And then and here's also
the thing. You can do what you want to do, right.
People can do what they want to do. This is
just my opinion. But my mindset is if I can
avoid doing something that is wrong or that is immoral
to me, then I will do that. There are plenty
of people who don't see nothing wrong with you, and
that's fine. Like, there are plenty of people that are
(15:22):
gonna go to the concert and they're gonna have a blast,
and they're gonna put it on their stories and they're
gonna really enjoy themselves and it's gonna be a pivotal
moment in their lives. There are some women, though, who
have maybe been abused by one or more of the
people that will be on the stage, and the constant
support from people that look like them.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Might be triggering.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah, I feel that I wow, you definitely gave me something,
you know, and that's why we had these conversations.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
You know. Sometimes that's why she do need to be
saying first, you know.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Because if I had said it first, we would have
been at the concert.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Talks about some.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Come and get get off the damn down.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
It would have it would have been bad.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Bron I'm sorry. Well, you know what to each his own,
you know, I'm just giving my opinion. I'm not gonna
tell you that if you want to go and have
a good time, friend, go and have a good time.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
I won't be making a dollar point. No, you make
a valo point. No, I'm serious.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Calculated well, and then I saw maybe I saw in
this economy, can we have for Chris Brown Usher tickets?
Speaker 1 (16:32):
But people, that is true? But I clean the girls, Beyonce,
I mean, it's crazy. And Kanye. Let's not even get
on Kanye. What's just crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I've been seeing people say they will sell some crazy things,
including but not limited to Kochie and Crack.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
So hey again, I'm not telling you what you should
should not do.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
You won't see my ass either way at the concert
orf for Crack or anyway.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Let's let's transition here and speaking of transitioning h.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
keV on stage is getting torn to pieces in the
comments for his.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Comments about the lgbt Q I A.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Plus community, And you know, before I get off into
it good, I just want to say them people can
go to hell.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Not because not because we have talked to keV. LGBTQ community. No,
not them, everybody who's everybody who's in disagreement.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
No, no, no, of course, and my followers, no, I ride
for any and everybody and I and I truly believe
none of us are free until all of us are free.
Specifically because what lgbt Q I A plus people do
in their bedroom, in their home and their and their lives, like,
none of that has nothing.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
To do with me. It just doesn't concern me.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
And essentially, keV on stage was saying, you know, if
I call myself a Christian, then God has called me
to love everybody regardless.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Now now, the only thing I did have a problem
of is was people.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
You know, people do like to say, well all said
is wrong, and not necessarily keV specifically, but sometimes people
Christians specifically, they'll be like, well, everybody, see it is
wrong to kind of justify why they're condemning someone else
as if they're not actively cheating on their spouse or
beating their children or committed tax fraud or Ponzi like whatever.
(18:18):
The case may be, very simple Gluttingess, you sent up
there eating three Popeye's dinners and four milkshakes and think
that you sent it too?
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Okay, you ain't saying about you. He didn't say nothing
about you. You didn't have to.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
You didn't have to because I know what you're talking about,
and that man was nothing behind you, and.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
You didn't have to do that big bottle. But yeah,
I just think that.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
It was so it was so un It was so
unfounded because people we know who.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Kevi on stage is.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Anybody who's been in contact with him for more than
two minutes knows that he's kinds. He can't wait to
tell you about how faithful and loyal he is to
his wife.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
And I think even that's an.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Added layer of why I love and respect him so much,
because he's not afraid to do the right thing out loud,
and so when he says it's okay to love people,
and he shared a story about his brother and how
Christ caused us to love everybody regardless of what we
think about their lifestyle. Christians was like, I know you
lying love everybody. Now I'm gonna stop you right there.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
That's crazy. So that is essentially what happened.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And I can't understand why, you know, everybody would be
so angry, But that really just exposed to me yet
again that the Christian community is not always a safe
space for people, especially queer folk, especially black folk, especially women.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I just died a video about that about women. So
what you think.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I definitely think that it just exposes who is the
judgmental one.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Like you say, oh, we're not judgmental. Anybody can come
over here. We accept everybody. And then you hear someone
go on a platform and say I accept everybody for
exactly where they are.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
You're like, oh, hold on wait, we can't everybody but them.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
And to be that gun hole on the LGBTQ plus community,
like I feel like everybody is.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
So infatuated with them.
Speaker 2 (20:13):
What is this infatuation with the LGBTQ community. Like everybody
had politics, have something to say, Christians have something to say,
heterosexual men have something to say. Everybody is obsessed with
that community as well as women like you said, because
they try to take away our rights. They don't want
us to you know, they try to keep us at
a certain level when it comes to women, especially black women.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
And so I'm just trying to understand the fatuation.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Sometimes I feel like it's from a place of I
wish that I could.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Live that freely.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Absolutely I cannot. I'm going to condemn and shame anyone
who does. And that's a problem to me.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
I one agree with you.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
I think it's stems from people not being able to
live in their truth because the religion that they cling
to say is that they can't be themselves. They can't
have a drink with their friends, they can't go you
know apart like they have all these staunch rules surrounding
Christianity that essentially force people to be small a lot
of times. And I'm not saying that this is what
(21:15):
Christianity was intended to do. I'm saying there are a
lot of people speaking from the pool pit. They will
tell you, oh, you're welcome to come, come as you are,
and then when you get in there, now, I ain't
tell you to come like that, And they are they
staying you in front of the pool pit to tell
you about yourself because I remember the closer, that girl
who was pregnant or something like that, yet her standing
in front of the pool pit talking down on her
(21:36):
and talking about her situation and what happened her.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
It's like, I don't understand how you stand behind something
like that.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
And I am a Christian. I'm someone who loves the Lord.
I pray all day long every day. But what I
don't do is judge people. And it's very interesting to
see that, depending on the situation, you guys will really
take it there, like y'all will take care every time
to make someone feel less dead. And I'm almost certain
that's not what you're supposed to be doing. I'm almost
(22:01):
certain God didn't tell you to do that. I'm almost certain.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Yeah, because why would he?
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Why would he tell you to come over here and
mind my business. I don't understand why people feel like them,
and I think a lot of it comes from this
like moral high ground that they've given themselves. People more
are Christians think that they're better than other people because
of the perception that they don't do the sins that
they think that we're doing. You know, you understand what
I'm saying, Like I'm using this verbage verbage specifically for
(22:28):
a reason, because Christians would have you believe that they
don't fornicate. They'll have you believed that they don't put
things in their body, uh that they that they shouldn't
because you know, your body is a temple. They would
have you to believe that they don't cheat. Yeah, they
don't blaspheming.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
The Lord, and they do, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
So because because your sins are hidden, you feel like
you see a gay person with pink hair or nose
ring or crop top shirt or whatever whatever people want
to look like. I ain't got nothing to do with you.
First of all, what you think when you see that,
Oh they're gay? God, hey, step, they're gonna burn in
it first of all. And that don't got nothing to
do with you either, because you won't do it, don't
(23:07):
matter whatever. God, you know, they feel like it's their
job to go and tell the Lord said, go into
all the corners of the earth and tell them that
Jesus is Lord. And they use this to go on
mission trips, to go mind other people's business. And I
understand you tell me another religion that does that as
much as people in the Christian faith, excluding Mormons and
(23:27):
Jehovah's witness I'm about to say, girl, because don't even
get me started on Mormons.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
They at that front off, that front off, you're gonna come.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah, Mormons are a lot, and Jehovah Witnesses too, But
I do feel like Mormons are almost like worse. Girl,
it's just a going to find people that weren't interested.
Like I understand, you feel like you're doing what you're
supposed to do, but when people tell you they don't
want to. I had a girl tell me, I hope
you're convicted to change some of the things you comment
on social media, and I hope you can.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
Shut the hell up talking to me.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
That's what I hold to go there, girl, I hope
you go to hand so fast because God ain't never
told you to tell me nothing. And I think that's
the part that Christians don't like to sit with. You
think you're doing the Lord's work, but what you're really
doing is imposing. You're imposing your judgmental, your judgmental ideas
and assumptions onto other people. You can't stand for somebody
(24:22):
to be gay because you wish you could be probably
probably and them thoughts never leave you trying so hard
to get rid of them. Thoughts, you having thoughts, you
having dreams, You really over there fighting demons for real.
You're righting for real and you're so mad?
Speaker 1 (24:37):
How did you do there? Losing hello? So all you
do is.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Attack somebody else for them living out loud, and I
just don't. I don't subscribe to that. I really do
love everybody. That's I'm working on that. I'm in therapy
for that because I can't no more. Jer Lynne said,
I'm too nice and I just like to see the
good and everybody, everybody don't have good in them.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
So now you're not friend.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Hold on, now, get on some content. I didn't say
we're gonna get give you some context. I didn't say
the neighbor was too nice. I said my one of
my favorite things about her is that she is able
to see beauty in every situation. The problem with that
is that people understand that about you, and they they
would like to take advantage of that. And so what
we need to do, me and you together in our friendship,
we need to ensure.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
That when people like us, they like us for us.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
Yeah, I bite I bite people, okay, And I don't
want you to come over if she tell me you
did something she didn't like, it's a rap.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Don't think we ever gonna be friends.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Don't think you and these Teopley, why you look like
the mask baby, this is gonna leave a prince for her.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
She did, and she's right, she's right.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
But you know what, change don't change you are, Yeah,
don't change who you are. Who you are is truly
a gift from God, and He is going to continue
to send you people to come in your life and
nurture that gift.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Who aren't trying to bleed you dry and take stuff
from you.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
You know what I'm saying? Like people, People aren't weird
like that. And I think that's a big problem in
the Christian community as well. Like they they always just
got some negativity to bring you about what you should
be doing. Why don't you start with Kevin on stage
said leave with love. Why don't you start there instead
of coming to me and trying to judge and condemn me.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
How about you start with love? And they always start
with hate. The hate they always well, you know, they
just doing their job.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
I just I have to do my partner behind you
that everybody like, let me see the application. What are
the qualifications? I mean to know, girl, that the qualification
is I'm a hating asshole. And I could have waited
to get over here and project my insecurities on you
(26:48):
them the qualifications, that's the only thing on the resume.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
And so I applaud Kevi on stage for standing up
and doing the what I can see that right thing.
And his you know, his walk with God is his own.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
I get to heaven and the Lord tell him, hey, bro,
I don't really appreciate you rocking for gay people, so
you got to go to hell.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Even that is his walk, you.
Speaker 2 (27:07):
Know what I'm saying, like that, let people do what
people want to do.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
The I think the consistent thing is that people want
to be left alone.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Let us live our lives, and so shout out the keV.
I do appreciate the dialogue. There have been a bunch
of thing pieces, but I saw keV was saying, you
know the reason why I can't nobody get close to
him because his wife be helping him close them deals baby,
And so that's that's another thing I love. I mentioned
him briefly, but I love that he is very much
team Melissa and I love that her brand is flourishing
(27:37):
and growing now as well too, because I love to
see her conscience beautiful.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Like that, let that man I love his wife and
his kids out loud, y'all is attacking the wrong person.
Take this smoke and turn it toward the president his cabinet.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
Did he aroun Epstein?
Speaker 2 (27:57):
The people in the files, the people in the fouls
is our part.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
So yeah, I don't have no problems with Kevi on stage.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
I wish people, you know, would give him a break
because we have more pressing issues to worry about.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Honey.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
There is an influencer on social media go on viral
talking about how he's micro DOSINGMTH What who is that?
Speaker 1 (28:20):
A white claiming that.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Claiming that it is the perfect drug and there are
no downsides, no disclaimers, absolutely no accountability, just loud and
confident and the algorithm is rewarding it.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
So free speech is a thing, but why do they
be so free with it? Though?
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Girl, it's some stuff you can't be ast me, woul,
it's still built. I would never tell nobody about that, like, like,
why do we wanting everybody to know?
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Please?
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I don't want to know this about you? And why
do you want us to know this about you? Is
another thing, like what are you trying to prove? He said,
I'm diet meth head, That's what he said. He said,
I only do I do light mas. That's crazy, as
if the word myth is not doing the heavy lifting.
My you're a crackhead.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
You're a junkie, sir, You're a junkie.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
And the fact that he's on the internet promoting it
and possibly monetizing his channel from it, you know, like
it's the wild behavior. And while this is going on,
people are arguing with Kevi on stage about gay people.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Because he accepts who they are.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
That's why he didn't even say that crazy. He just said,
I accept people for who they are, Like I love everybody,
and they like, you love everybody, not everybody. Now, you
can't love everybody now because because you can't be Jesus now,
well they aren't we supposed to be christ you know what.
(29:53):
And see if I really get down to the nitty gritty,
they'll kick me off the platform. So I'm gonna just
say I think the common theme here is love everybody.
You know, you don't have to you don't have to
be belligerent. And even if you do want to share
your walk with Christ with someone else, just get their
consent first. You know, don't don't go out your way
to bullet people to God, because I'm gonna tell you
(30:13):
right now, I'm gonna ask.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
You to go to hell. You can tell it. Everybody
to go. You got to go. You gotta don't go
over there and doing too much.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Well, look y'all, weren't gonna and wrap this up and
you want to see the vigitals. We will be here
every Thursday on YouTube. If you're all about the audio though, Okay,
you can listen to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit
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Speaker 1 (30:39):
All right, Y'ALLU till next time.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
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What's if everybody?
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It's your girl Indescribable aka Jerlyn Lake checking in with
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me yay, guys, Hey, you know it's team when you
see all right?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
All right? Because I can't wait to tell you what
kissed me off this week?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Will people go to Jamaica and they go let you
go with them, and then they gave you a hard
time about hanging out with our friends from Thailand in
Atlanta like they was not going to Jamaica with somebody
else in away. And I'm not saying nobody in particular,
I'm just saying I hate when people do that.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Fray, who did that? Tell Tell me who it was?
We could beat the mud because that was not right
that they had did this like this is this a
girl on Instagram? I don't really know? Stop playing with me?
Friend Jamaica was lit. I wish she was there with me.
Girl would have cut up too bad though.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
We Girl, I'm not trying to get it out of
the people country because me and Jerline, when we get together,
we are like, we never gonna see each other again.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I don't don't. She was like, girl, we got to
get in that out. We got literally cut up so
so so so so bad. Girl, it was fun. I
wish she was dead out girl, we.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Would have been tagged it up them Jamaican minute something
else though, I heard to stay away from them, so
I didn't talk to nobody because I was like, I'm scared.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
They said Jamaicans is scary, girl. I don't listen. I'm cool.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I watched School Runnings in high school, and that's enough
for me because I.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Was alright with that right there. Leon.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You know he already realed me the wrong way. He
Didne did a long string of black films. He always
got a toxic character.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
So you know, I'm cool on that. But I did.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
But speaking of irritation and me coming back and waking
up the saxophones was crazy. Friend, I woked up the
time I was similar, Oh my Godfriend, I got back
from and get sick as a I'm sick y'all under
(02:41):
the weather like I don't know what happened. I think
it was the Thailand, from Thailand to Atlanta, from Atlanta
to Jamaica, now back home.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
I think my body said it's your ass, dad. How
about that? Since you and.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Me and the body is on the same we like
the week sympathical because your ass sound.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Down.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
It said, Okay, she's gonna keep moving. We gotta slow
her down. We gotta slow her down. Baby sick sick.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
As I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
So that's what irritated me for because I don't even
get sick like that. I like to think I have
a strong immune system.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
You know what I'm saying. I like to think that
I have a strong immune system, honey. The crazy part
is that it don't even be your immune system.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I think I think it really be your body is like, hey,
I need to rest, and so it starts like semi
failing in other areas. Your body probably like, hey, I
don't want to go on another flight. Okay, I don't
want to. I don't want to pawn another river.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Okay, I can't. I can't pon another river.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I was okay then okay, and and now you're fighting
for your life.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
My god, on today like that? Sometimes Well, I mean,
at least you.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Had a blast and you you came back, and I
know you got amazing kind I've seen some of the videos,
so I know they're gonna be funny and engaging, and
so that is the upside of it.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
But girl, while he was gone, it was a lot
of popping off. Girl, what happened? Oh my god, I'm
so glad you inquired.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Chah.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
So violence against women, of course, we know, is nothing new.
But just recently, former v A Lieutenant governor justin Fairfax
actually murdered his wife in the home while their two
children were there. Uh and this is a pretty you know,
popular case, unfortunately, but he then went upstairs and killed himself.
(04:37):
He also had some sexual assault allegations surrounding him, and
I believe uh they she asked him for a divorce
and the judge ordered him to leave the home.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
So that added to it.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
The mass shooting in Shriveport, Louisiana, where the man shot
two women, one of them being the mother of his children,
and then killed eight children and s my god, yes
seven of them were his own children. And then fourteen
year olds celest Hernandez that was murdered by singer I
think you pronounce it's his name, David. He was dealing
(05:12):
with her. Obviously she's a teenager, she's a child. So
this is even more illegal. And so violence against women
has been running rampant, and I feel like black women,
uh specifically are under attack, but also just women of color.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Like I feel like we are being targeted.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
And so I guess a good question is is the
violence becoming worse or are we just.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Seeing it more?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
And and what do we what do we do to
come back this because I've always just heard, well, don't
go nowhere by yourself at night, you know, don't wear
these kind of clothes, don't don't take drinks from strength, Like,
there's so many things that women can do to protect ourselves.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
But when are we going to start shifting the conversation
to who are these niggas? The man exactly?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Yet these niggas away from me? You think it's for
real I think, Yeah, I don't know. Friend, that's a
good question. Are we just saying more of it or
is it actually getting worse? Because I genuinely think when
you think about like back in the day and things
like that, it was like, whatever happens in this house
stays in this house.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
We're very secretive.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
You're not allowed to talk about what's going on in
the house whole, whether it's the massive violence, if somebody
hurt someone, you know, sexual assault and things like that.
People are very tight about a lot of things. And
I think people are just starting to become more careless
and more vogue. That's literally what I think. I think
people are don't care no more about whether they smacked
up girl.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Why.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I've seen this dude proposing to this girl, proposing to
her and she said no, girl, he pushed her in
the face, like literally about that. It was a white
guy and it was like security footae from a restaurant
or something like that.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yes, I saw that.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I said this, Why she's saying no, like you pushed
her in the face. So it's like careless, That's what
I mean about, like people just don't care you're out
in you're outside on the panio in front of everybody,
and you crushed this girl in the face immediately, and
now we all can see it.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
So it's just like, I think people have just stopped
caring about an audience. I think it's that too. I
think it's that.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
And when you see so many abusers get off Scott free,
men tend to think that they're safe as well.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
And I, you know, like the thing that pissed me.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I did a video about this, but I'm glad we're
talking about it today so I can go really more
in depth and use big words because on that video
I was cussing and I was act like I salked
to my hunger or my cousin or somebody. But uh,
you know, for for the for the Urban One podcast company,
I would love to just point out the fact that
this man was a member justin Fairfax, was a member
(07:45):
of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Incorporated, which prompted a lot
of members other members to speak out about the murder
suicide and Roland Martin, who I've long since seen as
killer in the community.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
He's a voice for the people and all these things.
And then he gets up there and he.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Writes this long paragraph with his picture all these pictures
of him and his strap brother. This long paragraph about
Justine's political aspirations, everything that he wanted to do in life.
How damn And then and then girl, there's just one sentence.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
This one sentence. His wife's Serena was a psychologist.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
And then went on to tell us more about about
his friend, his Hollie.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
That and I and then when we said, hey, we.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Think you are centering the murderer in this discussion and
not focusing on how this life was taken. Allow people
to grieve the victim before you shove in to their face.
How we can help this person who was acting out
because he didn't like the divorce proceedings like that's and
people are saying, well, it's mental health issues. He was
(08:50):
struggling with mental No, this nigga was upset because this
lady was about to leave him.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
And in the case of Shamar Elkins.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
The thirty one year old man from Shreveport, Louisiana, he
was also going through a divorces.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Few so we have.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
To shift the conversation for from because yes, people do
need mental health resources, but also we cannot dismiss every
case of domestic violence as a as a result of
mental illness or lack of resources to support them, because
a lot of these men are just unhinged, unchecked, and
(09:23):
abusive and.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Have emotional disfunction.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
They are emotionally dysfunctional, and when you see people act
out and do certain things, it's just to me. I'm
once again, I'm not gonna say that mental health is
not a real thing.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
It's a real thing.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
But I do think y'all open the door so quickly
for them to go through it to say for they're
dealing with what they could be dealing with mental health.
I don't think that we need to leave that door
wide open before we address the fact that people cannot
take rejection. You do not know what to do when
someone no longer wants you.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You literally think.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Acting out, showing your full on ass is going to
allow them to get back with you. What happens when
you do Let's say it wasn't you know what I'm saying.
Let's say it was an abusive relationship and it wasn't
a murder suicide?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Is this supposed to keep her? When you do it?
Speaker 2 (10:11):
So?
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I just don't understand.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
You are emotionally dysfunctional, and you think by doing these
things keeps the person.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Dude, what is the plant? I don't understand it. I
don't think they think they're keeping anybody.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
I think it's about control and unchecked rage, and I
think that's the problem. I can give you guys some
statistics right now, About thirty two percent or fifty percent
of all homicides against women are committed by women that
they had or i'm sorry, are committed by men that
they have.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Either previously had or currently hav an insterment relationship with.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Also, about six percent of those homicides are the cause of.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Are the direct result of mental health illnesses.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
So six percent is not a large number for us
to be broadly stroking situations and saying, oh, we got
to increase mental health resources.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
No, we need to start putting these niggas in the dirt.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Hello, Hello, Hello, because I'm with that would getting them
out of here, because we were quick to dismiss it
as mental health, when what we should be doing and
mental health in the twenties and the thirties, when what
we should be doing is as.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Children, we should be instructing these men on how to
accept rejection and also how to communicate emotional emotions with
people of the opposite text like, it's you think because
you big and bad. Oh I'm gonna show her, or
ain't nobody gonna take half of what I got? Or
ain't nobody gonna take my house? Ain't nobody gonna divorce?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
You leave me?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You just can't leave me, period, like or you just
can't leave me, and that's crazy because anybody can get you.
And I was thinking about leaving in the middle of
this conversation. I'll show you who can't leave Nigga.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
I disappeared.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I had a man text me, dang, you really be disappearing.
Boy stopped texting me. He's now been blocked. But sometimes
it was around to imagine and they will get around
that forcing you to talk to them because you can't
leave them. That is psychotic, it is, that's psychotic. I
don't want to be with nobody who don't want to
be with me? And I, well, hold on, let's reframe
it because we can't say that's psychotic. Psychosis is a
(12:16):
form of mental illness. What we can say is it's childish.
I can say it's it's ego driven. I can say
it's probably sociopathic. Give it that it's narcissistic. I think narcissistic.
But I don't want it to seem like these people
are having a mental breakdown when they respond to rejection
with murder.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
That's crazy, right, agreed, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
And you know they mentioned, you know, he had at
least Shamar Elkins had a history of drug abuse and
run ins with police and stuff like that. And so
men who have long standing histories of domestic violence and abuse,
especially among women or against women. I'm not interested in
hearing your dissertations about how to get him more mental
health resources. He's been whooping ass for a decade. Hello,
(13:04):
and nothing was done, Like nobody cared until this man
did a murdered suicide. Now you're coming out with long
paragraphs and tign how all these accolades and everything that
he had, why he ain't doing while he was alive.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
It's just weird.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Well, with just a fan facts may be had a
failing political career anyway, So let's start there. Okay, them
sexual assault allegations added up, and I think that's what
we really.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Need to be discussing.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
What we really need to be talking about is how
men get just free reign sometimes to abuse women.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
We know this because and I'm judging. I don't care.
I'm judging. We know this because Chris Brown and USh
are going on tour and.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Women are buying, women are buying tickets, they're going to
the concert. And I've seen people in my comments say
I don't care how many people they hurt or abused.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
They never abused me.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I've also seen people saying, well, I've been abused and
I don't care. And I've also seen people saying, well,
if they just throw R Kelly or Trey Sauce on there,
I said, not more, Oh no, oh no, not R
Kelly and Trey Sauce on it, and shesus, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
So there's it's twofold. I think that men are being
allowed to get away with it, and then there are
women who do the bidding of massa. Well, the massa
is it don't matter who the oppressor is. Like, you
cannot oppose rape culture and then actively support abusers.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
And rape box. You can't do it. Yeah, and I
think you Box.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
But I'm glad you wanted up.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I might have been a problem problem because I did.
I did check out them tickets. I did. I was
very interested.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
I was very interested to see what was going on
over there, you know what I'm saying, But like that
always gonna you know, it's like when you put it
like that, it's like, damn, I need to probably re
evaluate that.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
I'm not gonna lie. I was gonna go see who
Wall was over there. I'm not gonna lie to you
a little bit.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
I got here all friend. And then and here's also
the thing. You can do what you want to do, right.
People can do what they want to do. This is
just my opinion. But my mindset is if I can
avoid doing something that is wrong or that is immoral
to me, then I will do that. There are plenty
of people who don't see nothing wrong with you, and
that's fine. Like, there are plenty of people that are
(15:22):
gonna go to the concert and they're gonna have a blast,
and they're gonna put it on their stories and they're
gonna really enjoy themselves and it's gonna be a pivotal
moment in their lives. There are some women, though, who
have maybe been abused by one or more of the
people that will be on the stage, and the constant
support from people that look like them.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Might be triggering.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Yeah, I feel that I wow, you definitely gave me something,
you know, and that's why we had these conversations.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
You know. Sometimes that's why she do need to be
saying first, you know.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Because if I had said it first, we would have
been at the concert.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Talks about some.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Come and get get off the damn down.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
It would have it would have been bad.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Bron I'm sorry. Well, you know what to each his own,
you know, I'm just giving my opinion. I'm not gonna
tell you that if you want to go and have
a good time, friend, go and have a good time.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
I won't be making a dollar point. No, you make
a valo point. No, I'm serious.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
Calculated well, and then I saw maybe I saw in
this economy, can we have for Chris Brown Usher tickets?
Speaker 1 (16:32):
But people, that is true? But I clean the girls, Beyonce,
I mean, it's crazy. And Kanye. Let's not even get
on Kanye. What's just crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I've been seeing people say they will sell some crazy things,
including but not limited to Kochie and Crack.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
So hey again, I'm not telling you what you should
should not do.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
You won't see my ass either way at the concert
orf for Crack or anyway.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Let's let's transition here and speaking of transitioning h.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
keV on stage is getting torn to pieces in the
comments for his.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Comments about the lgbt Q I A.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Plus community, And you know, before I get off into
it good, I just want to say them people can
go to hell.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Not because not because we have talked to keV. LGBTQ community. No,
not them, everybody who's everybody who's in disagreement.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
No, no, no, of course, and my followers, no, I ride
for any and everybody and I and I truly believe
none of us are free until all of us are free.
Specifically because what lgbt Q I A plus people do
in their bedroom, in their home and their and their lives, like,
none of that has nothing.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
To do with me. It just doesn't concern me.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
And essentially, keV on stage was saying, you know, if
I call myself a Christian, then God has called me
to love everybody regardless.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Now now, the only thing I did have a problem
of is was people.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
You know, people do like to say, well all said
is wrong, and not necessarily keV specifically, but sometimes people
Christians specifically, they'll be like, well, everybody, see it is
wrong to kind of justify why they're condemning someone else
as if they're not actively cheating on their spouse or
beating their children or committed tax fraud or Ponzi like whatever.
(18:18):
The case may be, very simple Gluttingess, you sent up
there eating three Popeye's dinners and four milkshakes and think
that you sent it too?
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Okay, you ain't saying about you. He didn't say nothing
about you. You didn't have to.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
You didn't have to because I know what you're talking about,
and that man was nothing behind you, and.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
You didn't have to do that big bottle. But yeah,
I just think that.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
It was so it was so un It was so
unfounded because people we know who.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Kevi on stage is.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Anybody who's been in contact with him for more than
two minutes knows that he's kinds. He can't wait to
tell you about how faithful and loyal he is to
his wife.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
And I think even that's an.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Added layer of why I love and respect him so much,
because he's not afraid to do the right thing out loud,
and so when he says it's okay to love people,
and he shared a story about his brother and how
Christ caused us to love everybody regardless of what we
think about their lifestyle. Christians was like, I know you
lying love everybody. Now I'm gonna stop you right there.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
That's crazy. So that is essentially what happened.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And I can't understand why, you know, everybody would be
so angry, But that really just exposed to me yet
again that the Christian community is not always a safe
space for people, especially queer folk, especially black folk, especially women.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I just died a video about that about women. So
what you think.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I definitely think that it just exposes who is the
judgmental one.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Like you say, oh, we're not judgmental. Anybody can come
over here. We accept everybody. And then you hear someone
go on a platform and say I accept everybody for
exactly where they are.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
You're like, oh, hold on wait, we can't everybody but them.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
And to be that gun hole on the LGBTQ plus community,
like I feel like everybody is.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
So infatuated with them.
Speaker 2 (20:13):
What is this infatuation with the LGBTQ community. Like everybody
had politics, have something to say, Christians have something to say,
heterosexual men have something to say. Everybody is obsessed with
that community as well as women like you said, because
they try to take away our rights. They don't want
us to you know, they try to keep us at
a certain level when it comes to women, especially black women.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
And so I'm just trying to understand the fatuation.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Sometimes I feel like it's from a place of I
wish that I could.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Live that freely.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Absolutely I cannot. I'm going to condemn and shame anyone
who does. And that's a problem to me.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
I one agree with you.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
I think it's stems from people not being able to
live in their truth because the religion that they cling
to say is that they can't be themselves. They can't
have a drink with their friends, they can't go you
know apart like they have all these staunch rules surrounding
Christianity that essentially force people to be small a lot
of times. And I'm not saying that this is what
(21:15):
Christianity was intended to do. I'm saying there are a
lot of people speaking from the pool pit. They will
tell you, oh, you're welcome to come, come as you are,
and then when you get in there, now, I ain't
tell you to come like that, And they are they
staying you in front of the pool pit to tell
you about yourself because I remember the closer, that girl
who was pregnant or something like that, yet her standing
in front of the pool pit talking down on her
(21:36):
and talking about her situation and what happened her.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
It's like, I don't understand how you stand behind something
like that.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
And I am a Christian. I'm someone who loves the Lord.
I pray all day long every day. But what I
don't do is judge people. And it's very interesting to
see that, depending on the situation, you guys will really
take it there, like y'all will take care every time
to make someone feel less dead. And I'm almost certain
that's not what you're supposed to be doing. I'm almost
(22:01):
certain God didn't tell you to do that. I'm almost certain.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Yeah, because why would he?
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Why would he tell you to come over here and
mind my business. I don't understand why people feel like them,
and I think a lot of it comes from this
like moral high ground that they've given themselves. People more
are Christians think that they're better than other people because
of the perception that they don't do the sins that
they think that we're doing. You know, you understand what
I'm saying, Like I'm using this verbage verbage specifically for
(22:28):
a reason, because Christians would have you believe that they
don't fornicate. They'll have you believed that they don't put
things in their body, uh that they that they shouldn't
because you know, your body is a temple. They would
have you to believe that they don't cheat. Yeah, they
don't blaspheming.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
The Lord, and they do, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
So because because your sins are hidden, you feel like
you see a gay person with pink hair or nose
ring or crop top shirt or whatever whatever people want
to look like. I ain't got nothing to do with you.
First of all, what you think when you see that,
Oh they're gay? God, hey, step, they're gonna burn in
it first of all. And that don't got nothing to
do with you either, because you won't do it, don't
(23:07):
matter whatever. God, you know, they feel like it's their
job to go and tell the Lord said, go into
all the corners of the earth and tell them that
Jesus is Lord. And they use this to go on
mission trips, to go mind other people's business. And I
understand you tell me another religion that does that as
much as people in the Christian faith, excluding Mormons and
(23:27):
Jehovah's witness I'm about to say, girl, because don't even
get me started on Mormons.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
They at that front off, that front off, you're gonna come.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah, Mormons are a lot, and Jehovah Witnesses too, But
I do feel like Mormons are almost like worse. Girl,
it's just a going to find people that weren't interested.
Like I understand, you feel like you're doing what you're
supposed to do, but when people tell you they don't
want to. I had a girl tell me, I hope
you're convicted to change some of the things you comment
on social media, and I hope you can.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
Shut the hell up talking to me.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
That's what I hold to go there, girl, I hope
you go to hand so fast because God ain't never
told you to tell me nothing. And I think that's
the part that Christians don't like to sit with. You
think you're doing the Lord's work, but what you're really
doing is imposing. You're imposing your judgmental, your judgmental ideas
and assumptions onto other people. You can't stand for somebody
(24:22):
to be gay because you wish you could be probably
probably and them thoughts never leave you trying so hard
to get rid of them. Thoughts, you having thoughts, you
having dreams, You really over there fighting demons for real.
You're righting for real and you're so mad?
Speaker 1 (24:37):
How did you do there? Losing hello? So all you
do is.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Attack somebody else for them living out loud, and I
just don't. I don't subscribe to that. I really do
love everybody. That's I'm working on that. I'm in therapy
for that because I can't no more. Jer Lynne said,
I'm too nice and I just like to see the
good and everybody, everybody don't have good in them.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
So now you're not friend.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Hold on, now, get on some content. I didn't say
we're gonna get give you some context. I didn't say
the neighbor was too nice. I said my one of
my favorite things about her is that she is able
to see beauty in every situation. The problem with that
is that people understand that about you, and they they
would like to take advantage of that. And so what
we need to do, me and you together in our friendship,
we need to ensure.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
That when people like us, they like us for us.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
Yeah, I bite I bite people, okay, And I don't
want you to come over if she tell me you
did something she didn't like, it's a rap.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Don't think we ever gonna be friends.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Don't think you and these Teopley, why you look like
the mask baby, this is gonna leave a prince for her.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
She did, and she's right, she's right.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
But you know what, change don't change you are, Yeah,
don't change who you are. Who you are is truly
a gift from God, and He is going to continue
to send you people to come in your life and
nurture that gift.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Who aren't trying to bleed you dry and take stuff
from you.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
You know what I'm saying? Like people, People aren't weird
like that. And I think that's a big problem in
the Christian community as well. Like they they always just
got some negativity to bring you about what you should
be doing. Why don't you start with Kevin on stage
said leave with love. Why don't you start there instead
of coming to me and trying to judge and condemn me.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
How about you start with love? And they always start
with hate. The hate they always well, you know, they
just doing their job.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
I just I have to do my partner behind you
that everybody like, let me see the application. What are
the qualifications? I mean to know, girl, that the qualification
is I'm a hating asshole. And I could have waited
to get over here and project my insecurities on you
(26:48):
them the qualifications, that's the only thing on the resume.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
And so I applaud Kevi on stage for standing up
and doing the what I can see that right thing.
And his you know, his walk with God is his own.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
I get to heaven and the Lord tell him, hey, bro,
I don't really appreciate you rocking for gay people, so
you got to go to hell.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Even that is his walk, you.
Speaker 2 (27:07):
Know what I'm saying, like that, let people do what
people want to do.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
The I think the consistent thing is that people want
to be left alone.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Let us live our lives, and so shout out the keV.
I do appreciate the dialogue. There have been a bunch
of thing pieces, but I saw keV was saying, you
know the reason why I can't nobody get close to
him because his wife be helping him close them deals baby,
And so that's that's another thing I love. I mentioned
him briefly, but I love that he is very much
team Melissa and I love that her brand is flourishing
(27:37):
and growing now as well too, because I love to
see her conscience beautiful.
Speaker 1 (27:40):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Like that, let that man I love his wife and
his kids out loud, y'all is attacking the wrong person.
Take this smoke and turn it toward the president his cabinet.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
Did he aroun Epstein?
Speaker 2 (27:57):
The people in the files, the people in the fouls
is our part.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
So yeah, I don't have no problems with Kevi on stage.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
I wish people, you know, would give him a break
because we have more pressing issues to worry about.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Honey.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
There is an influencer on social media go on viral
talking about how he's micro DOSINGMTH What who is that?
Speaker 1 (28:20):
A white claiming that.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Claiming that it is the perfect drug and there are
no downsides, no disclaimers, absolutely no accountability, just loud and
confident and the algorithm is rewarding it.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
So free speech is a thing, but why do they
be so free with it? Though?
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Girl, it's some stuff you can't be ast me, woul,
it's still built. I would never tell nobody about that, like, like,
why do we wanting everybody to know?
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Please?
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I don't want to know this about you? And why
do you want us to know this about you? Is
another thing, like what are you trying to prove? He said,
I'm diet meth head, That's what he said. He said,
I only do I do light mas. That's crazy, as
if the word myth is not doing the heavy lifting.
My you're a crackhead.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
You're a junkie, sir, You're a junkie.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
And the fact that he's on the internet promoting it
and possibly monetizing his channel from it, you know, like
it's the wild behavior. And while this is going on,
people are arguing with Kevi on stage about gay people.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Because he accepts who they are.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
That's why he didn't even say that crazy. He just said,
I accept people for who they are, Like I love everybody,
and they like, you love everybody, not everybody. Now, you
can't love everybody now because because you can't be Jesus now,
well they aren't we supposed to be christ you know what.
(29:53):
And see if I really get down to the nitty gritty,
they'll kick me off the platform. So I'm gonna just
say I think the common theme here is love everybody.
You know, you don't have to you don't have to
be belligerent. And even if you do want to share
your walk with Christ with someone else, just get their
consent first. You know, don't don't go out your way
to bullet people to God, because I'm gonna tell you
(30:13):
right now, I'm gonna ask.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
You to go to hell. You can tell it. Everybody
to go. You got to go. You gotta don't go
over there and doing too much.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Well, look y'all, weren't gonna and wrap this up and
you want to see the vigitals. We will be here
every Thursday on YouTube. If you're all about the audio though, Okay,
you can listen to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit
that notification go so you know every time your girls friend.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
All right, Y'ALLU till next time.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Bye,
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