December 4, 2025 • 25 mins
Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off with What Irritated Me This Week, where makeup struggles take center stage. Jerrilyn vents about the emotional trauma of doing her brows and realizing they’re more like “second cousins” than twins, while Lynee’ confesses her fear of permanent lashes and the ongoing war with chin hairs that just won’t retire. The ladies turn their collective beauty pain into comedic gold, reminding listeners that getting older is wild — one day you’re blending foundation, the next you’re Googling if that new mole is a medical emergency.
In Girl, What Happened, things shift from cosmetics to celebrity chaos as they unpack the rumored breakup between Big Sean and Jhené Aiko. The ladies dissect whether long-term relationships without marriage are a red flag or simply realistic in today’s world, all while dropping gems about toxic love, personal growth, and why “leaving quietly” is an underrated skill. Their conversation flows seamlessly into discussions about marriage not being for everyone, the importance of protecting your peace (and your assets), and why women shouldn’t have to lose themselves in the name of commitment.
By the end, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ circle back to self-worth with their signature humor, reminding women to stop giving their energy (and coochie) away for free. Whether they’re joking about “accidental celibacy,” side-eyeing messy marriages, or clowning Dwight Howard’s PR apology tour, the two make it clear: know your value, sell it high, and never offer your peace at a discount.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Make sure we focus. Well how I'm looking look at me? Okay?
All right? That what's up everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
It's your girl Indescribable aka Jerlyn Lake checking in with
none other than my bestie for the rest of eat
nao nae, and you're listening to this, she said, the
first podcast in Urban one Podcasts.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
On the Urban one Podcast Network period. Yes, ma'am, Yes, ma'am.
We're back in the building. Hey, y'all know it's.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Holiday time and it's a lot going on. Okay, so
we're gonna kick this off like we always do. Friend,
I gotta know, I gotta ask you what irritated you
this week?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Everything? What don't that can't be your answer everywhere.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Because it's like, how I'm irritated every week while y'all
doing stuff like that, Like it's.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
It's y'all irritating me every week. That's irritating me. That'd
be pissing me old. But for reperal, when I do
my makeup and they don't come out, it's twinsday come out.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
It's cousins that heaven, these brows they related somehow, Or
when you do your mask cart again, oh my god,
it's like it just ruins you you just, oh my god,
make up really irritate.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It's a lot, it's a lot, you know what I'm saying, Like, you.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Can't mess up, especially when it comes to anything like
mess car Eelana.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
The eyebrows, those are things that will make or break
your man. Don't don't let that face not match that neck. Hello,
you got to do this part. That's that's some of
y'all problems. Y'all, don't get down lending it. You know
what I'm you got to hit one of these a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Make sure you get it all yellow together and stuff,
because if it's untogether, no facts, I feel you so
much more than I really wish I had you, because,
oh my god. And then for somebody who has one
and a half eyebrows gets over here, does whatever it
(01:47):
wants to do, has already decided. Girl, by what's some
makeup up here? If you want to write, I don't
care put it up here. But that micro blading, oh,
same time, that's the thing I ever held my did.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I'm telling you if you got just haven't gotten into all.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I love micro blady and like I wish I could
put y'all onto my girl, But you gotta come over
to my page so I can tell y'all about her.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
But I did a whole video.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Make sure take out the videos. We both have videos
of people that we work with. So I mean, I
think it's a time saver. It's a game changes really
because I you know, I was insecure about my eyers
for a while, but I was like, girl, I'm just
gonna tatto them on, yeah and every day hello hello,
because that gonna make sure it's right. And then I'm
trying Chrelyn trying to help me with this eyelash thing.
(02:34):
I really haven't gotten into the permanent eyelashes yet. I
just do strips because like, I have a hard time
sleeping with stuff on my face. That's my only do
glue this week, because like girl, I got to well.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's not as I think that people.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
People have misconceptions about it, but if they haven't done
it before.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
When I first got them done, it was an adjustment.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
But now that I keep them done, it's like I
go outside with no makeup and I still feel feel
like I have kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Like that done up.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Look. Yeah, I just don't be cause you know what
our lashes I look like, kyu no, because just be
ball right across the ground.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So now you can't go without. I grow hair everywhere
but my face. I think that's a good thing. Think
about it, Think about it, Think about it. Do you
need it grown everywhere on your face?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I mean, because they're all when we were walking around
with we need it grown everywhere else.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I'm just id you.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
I'm gonna tell you. Having to pluck the same three
chin hairs every four to five business days, Oh my god.
They said agent was gonna look different, They said Agent
was gonna look different for every woman. But it's okay.
So it's that plucking the chin hairs. It's the random
molds that keep popping up. Because at this time, I'm like,
(03:50):
is it cancerous or not?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
It isn't, Nigga. That's the thing. Got to know because
it be too much going on. I didn't been on
web MD and they told me I got sixty left.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I'm stre Oh my god. And then the random pains.
It's no reason for me to wake up in pain.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Girl, because why what is happening? What are we doing?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I was fighting in our sleep, girl, I got to
be fighting in our sleep and lost, Sharkisha not and lost.
I'm telling you got to be getting woke out. That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
That's my mother. That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I don't answer that. Let me, I don't speak of it.
Let's let's see what's going on. Let's see Hello. Hey mama,
mah mammy, I remember me?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
No, she wild girl, because you don't, you'll be busy.
My guess, mam, mat I'm in Atlanta. What we'd have
gave your mother?
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I thought you was in Orlando. I was, and then
I had to come to Atlanta. And actually you will
be featured on the podcast because I picked the phone
up literally in the middle of recording, so you will be.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
On this episode.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Tell the people, hey, woman.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Thank you so much for letting us borrow your daughter.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
She has been nothing but a ray of sunshine and
such a blessing to work with.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
You did your big one.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Ma.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
I'm gonna finish recording, but I'm gonna call you when
I get off set.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Okay, okay, all right, by Sam. Do you know you
have a mother that's crazy?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
That is.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Why you will right exactly. I don't even tell her.
I was moving so much.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
I was in Orlando, and then I had to come
right to Atlanta, so we ain't That's why I said
do you.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Know you have a mother? Like, do you call her
the c right on thegether your eye told she wasn't
even there for the pleasantries. Hey my, that's loud. You
know I'm existing. That is Linda. Listen, listen, listen, not Linda.
Oh that's crazy. But what a.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Blessing, What a blessing. I'm sorry, what a blessing it
is to have a mom? You know that a call
and check on your Absolutely, I know mine.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
She do the same thing. I just wanted to, you know,
I just want to hear your boys. I'm like, girl,
you've seen my videos every day. You know I'm faye.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
She's like, that ain't enough. That's that's I got your number.
That's your mama. You gotta call your mama. But yeah,
so I'm glad. I'm glad that we both was irritated
by the same same type of things this week. But
we got to get into girl, it's some mess happening
in the streets and friends, Girl, what happened?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Oh my god? Girl, why you ain't ask me sooner? Girl?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
The rumor mill is churning. Janea Echo and Big Sean
half split what now? We went a second time? Because girl,
she got that moral. There's no reason it's a moral.
She got a more right, I said, Lord, I said,
the cucumber must be avon.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
It's got to be immaculate. Okay, give me two of
them shut because of a miss me.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Then, Baby, if I tattoo a man's whole face on
my body, I.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Want you to know that Schlong is ding dog guy.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I cannot yesterday because that's some crazy stuff. But they
say that they split up. You know, they just had
a baby. Well he's three, and they you know, officially
broken up. And people are saying, if y'all been together
that long, why y'all not getting married? And I just
have to remind people that marriage is not to go
for everybody. It's not especially the way y'all hop in
and out of it. Like, baby, I can tell you
(07:40):
stories about my last marriage. I don't desire it at all.
If I do it again, it's it's gotta make sense.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Yeah, agreed.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
And on top of that, it's like, if you gonna
be that flip floppy and wish washy, I do want
you to just be able to leave what I'm having
to spend thousands and thousands and thousands.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Of dollars to divorce you. That's like the divorce CAUs
him or than the marriage.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
So it's like, if it's just a toxic situation and
we don't really know and we ain't really figuring it out,
then yeah, I don't want to marry you. I want
us to be able to go ahead and split and
move on to people who we actually were designed for.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Because I'm good. Now, when do you split?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Because you said if it's toxic, then yeah, I want
you to be able to leave. In my mind, I'm
hearing I'm gonna waste time because I know that you
flip flopping and I would rather you just walk away.
I don't think everybody know when it's actually toxic, though
I do think I will tell you this. People have
different meters for toxic. Right, there's things that you can
(08:35):
experience that I could be like girl, you know what
I'm saying, right, and it's things that I would experience what.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
You know, Please please don't do it like this. I
national TV, Okay, not in front of my fans. Don't
let me knows that she wouldn't never deal with you
know what I'm saying. But it takes you to get
to a certain point. It takes a woman in DV
to leave.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Seven times before she actually want average to take That's
what I'm saying. And so like your meter is different.
You know, sometimes it's not healthy, but then sometimes you
don't know, and then you get to that seven time
when you have like a wake up call and you like,
this is just not for me.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I need to get out of here. So it be
like that sometimes hopefully.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
You're able to get out before you lose too much. Yeah,
because once the steaks get too high, you know, it's
kind of hard to back out of it.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
And so just I mean, and we don't know what's.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
Going on in Janet and Big Shawn's relationship. We don't
know how they parent or if marriage was even on
the table that part. But I know I'm not gonna
sit up with no man have his babies and be
ten years in without some type of stability.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
And at this point, like marriage is not People love
to say, oh, it's just a piece of paper. Well
imagine this.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I'm gonna paint the scene for you. Your grandfather just
passed away and you didn't know that he had a
child around your age, which is crazy. You can do
the mask, don't you don't know he had a child
around your age who's now showing up to the funeral.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
And y'all are argan over who gets his land, his house,
all his cars, you know, his businesses?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
If yeah, baby, marriage is a lot more than just
a paperwork. Definitely, And let's take it a step further.
If you have assets, and you have trust, and you
have bank accounts, please don't leave your grieving widow or
child or somebody to be fuckling through logins and passed
and we can't even figure out how we're gonna raise
(10:27):
the money to bury you because we can't get access
to the fund that we're supposed to provide relief during
this time, exactly percisely. And now you if you get
in a horrible accident or something, you need somebody, a
girlfriend can't insist that they do surgery or.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Pull the blood. You allow a returning. You need a
power of retorney get your affairs in order to get
your affairs.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
But once again, back to your original statement, marriage is
just not everybody's goals. It's not you know what I'm saying. Like,
whether or not you believe it's just financial or whatever
the case may be, that might not be their story.
They just realized, like that's not something they want to do,
you know, Jenay, I go kind of vibrate on that
Erica by New level where they is what it is, Yeah,
and it ain't what it ain't at that part, you
(11:09):
know what I'm saying. That's just how they feel like
they vibrate. They not really pressed to be married.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
They don't. She don't give me that.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
So you can't speak for somebody else relationship on what
you think they should do. You just make sure you
do what you're supposed to do when you get in
that situation. Yeah, because it's I mean, it's ugly out here,
and I don't want nobody rushing into something because we
have a bad That's the worst scenario I can think of.
We got married because she was pregnant, and that's why
y'all are at each other's throats every day. Y'all got
(11:35):
pregnant before y'all knew each other. Y'all had no business
being married, let alone dating. That part that probably should
have left each other alone in the club.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Oh my gosh, she got you. You should have let
it go home.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
But men ain't no better, honey. They will tell you
they want a baby by you that in the heat
of the moment. And I'm glad you brought that up, friend,
because this brings me to my next topic. But get
up out of that girl's coaching. Okay, stop giving it up, ladies.
Everybody got to be We got to be a little
(12:07):
more accountable. Yeah, okay, because here's the thing. They're gonna
blame you anyway, regardless. It don't matter what kind of
situation you get in. They're going to blame the woman.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
So what I need you all to do is just
stop giving these me a kuchie. Okay, that's not realistic.
It's not realistic.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
It is realistic. But you know what those listening with.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
The quality and the caliber of options, thank you. I
didn't know I was selibate until I was celibate.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
I have been celebate for three years. I woke up
one day I said, damn, I am cellab it on accident.
I'm not mad.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
I'm honestly not mad because sometimes you just like like I,
like I said about marriage. The next time I do anything,
it gotta make sense. Yeah, And I'm not laying down
with somebody just because they cute or just because they
gave me some other because the dates are nice and fun,
Like we're not there anymore. We've grown past that, And
don't you want someone who can assess the situation and
learn from.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
It in a thousand percent? And if you're not celibate
and you need to be selling it.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
You need to, okay, and it needs to be at
a high piece of okay, Okay, you have to get
those numbers up there, okay, because y'all selling it for
hot cheetos and a seafood boil is not.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Even that what's going on? Not even that?
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Okay, sometimes not having it, But you know what, it's
one of those things where you know, it's all about
how you perceive yourself. And I think that when you
get to the place where you're comfortable in solitude and
you're happy with where you're at, that's when you be like, Okay,
I don't really have to tolerate that.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
That part, that part that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
You see what keep coming up projection, you attracting what
it is that you feel on the inside. This has
come up multiple Absolutely, that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
It's a lot of stuff you got to unlearn.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
And I'm glad we we down this, going down this
vein of thinking because child what, it's a lot of
stuff we got to unlearned, just in interal with dating
and in life, but the marriage. People don't be acting
right when they get married. And prime example Amy Luciani
and Dwight Howard. You know, they ended up filing for
(14:13):
divorce within six months of their marriage. Then they got
back together and in a recent post, Amy said that
she was just being silly, and you know, it was
really no reason for to do that. So she even
went on to say that some things that you you know,
have to unlearn when you become one with somebody. So
we got a little clip here that I'm gonna play
for y'all, and y'all give me your take.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Let me hear what she said. I honestly don't even
want to talk about these, but we're here.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
I met the love of my life and I almost
divorced his ass in six months being real stupid and silly.
Actually we both filed for divorce. Let's talk about the
struggles of being a new young wife. First thing I
can see as a new wife. I know it's gonna
be your hard practice, but shut your mouth.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Shut up now. I know some of y'all gonna say Oh,
you gotta shut up as you married. What is he
silencing you? No, sis, I'm not seeing shut up.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
I'm seeing pick your battles sometimes pick them quietly. Understand,
when you became one with your husband, that means you
became one.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Y'all are one.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
You have to literally die to your old self. You
don't want to do that yet. What is died to
my old self mean? Because I'm very much still alive.
Simply means adjustments. You gotta make a lot of adjustments again,
heavy on your one. Now, know your spicy attitude is
in passion. It's a nasty attitude that has to die
for your husband. Confrontational spirits hidden by passion. You're not passionate, sist.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
You just got an attitude problem. Lose it quick, gem successful.
Talk to your men.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
They just want peace. They don't want anything else. You
can't do anything else for them besides bring them peace.
Mistake I made me and my husband going through issues
telling my friends about it. Don't do it.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
Dying to yourself is hard. Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
You spent your whole life talking, probably talking too much,
getting the last word, being overly opinionated, being emotionally unstable.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Some people settle for that, but this person married you,
they're not going for it.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, cause we're done. Is Dwight Howard behind the camera?
Is he did he have a script for her to read,
I'm done? It does sound very much like I overreacted,
he said, I did too much. Let me come clean
it up, and let me be very clear. We are
(16:15):
giving this opinion because this was on the run of show.
Yeah right, I genuinely do not care about this nigga,
And I just want to make that clear because you
be in situations where the video will come back up
and folks like you was talking trash about So listen,
I don't care what these people do. I just think, honey,
Sam stam behind what you're doing. Yeah, if you want
(16:37):
to get the horse, get doors. If you want to
be married, get married. But you ain't got to come
on here and tell us every time you change your
mind about yourn. I think that's where my issue lies,
not with what she said, because that's her marriage. Okay,
we know that that person allegedly got a lot of
skeletons in the closet because she got on here and said,
did she call him in a bed with a man
who had a wig on agend. That's what she had
told us, right, So we know that that person do
(16:59):
want you to be We do know that they want
you to silence it and stop talking because you came
online and you exposed them and you were supposed to
be their wife.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
So like, we get why you need to be quiet in.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
A relationship because you came online and hold their business, right,
But I think that's your punishment.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
The rest of us we got those problems, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
And if somebody married me, I would hope that they
married me because they knew how I was.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
I'm not saying that you need to fight every single
little teeny thing either, but I would praise that they
would know that your girl is a little spicy, Yes,
but that don't take away from the love that I
have from you. I would never degrade you. I would
never down if you might, I would never do that. Now,
these boyfriends, listen, I know how to walk a dog. Okay,
(17:49):
all right, okay, I can treat you that getting husband's treatment.
I can't treat you the nicest. Oh my god, you
will think, oh this girl is in love with me.
And if you get too far off that leash.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
I know how to walk a dog. Okay, you'll be
astray and believe it. That right, believe it. And it's
getting called out. Okay, No, it's good and cold. These shows.
It gave dad ass for real.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
So it's getting scary out here, and I just want
everybody to as far as their marriage is concerned, I
don't care what you want, but general rule of thumb
is stop running to the internet with all your business.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Hell, im running to your friends with all your business,
like these are things that we know.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
We know this already information. Every time you black out
and you you know I'm talking crazy and I'm mean,
my bad. I didn't mean to say that.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
You did mean it.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
And that's the route that I want people to deal with,
because every time I've ever went back and apologize for
something I said, I realized.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I was gonna say it again. Yeah, I was gonna
say it again.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
Not because I'm mean and I'm spiteful and I hate you,
but because once I lose respect for you, and I
think that's what happened.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
And when people get online and you do not respect,
that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
You have lost already, Like I said, I am still
holding secrets for women who have done me wrong in
friendships to this day.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
I don't respect you, but I would never come like
here and no, I just don't do stuff like that.
And that goes for any relationship that I'm in as well.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
And also another thing she said was about friends, like
don't tell them I you need friends that say you
got to pick your friends. That's what I'm saying. You
don't have the right type of friends because I can't
say it. Yeah, but every I I need to be
able to not necessarily download everything to you, but I
need to know that friend my trip, I thank you
(19:38):
all and nay and be like friend and my tripping
like all I'm saying at my tripping.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
And you have to be strategic about this.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Choose your friends better because a friend that is truly
there for you is not gonna.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Be judgments you know, right, thank you. They just gonna
hear what you gotta say.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
And if you want them to give their opinion, they can,
or they could just be a listening sounding board for
you just to get it off, you know what I'm saying.
But like I don't know what you're telling your friends
to the point where It's like, why do they feel
like they can tell you whether or not you need
to say a leave now this.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
If it's so domestic, I'm going to encourage you to
leave every single time.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
And that's one of them cases because you know, sometimes
you you tell your friends something about your partner and
then they act weird around you.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
I would never do nothing like that. But if I
know you beat my girl, bro, it's up every time
I see mean, I don't care. I dare you to
hit me, hit me, hitt me, hint me? Did what happened?
I got hit that y'all about my brother and me?
(20:42):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
But nah, I feel I feel like you just gotta
you gotta pick and choose your friends. You definitely need
a support since you keeping all that. So not only
do you gotta be quiet, but.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
In your relationship you say you say nothing to your
dude and you ain't got no outlet nowhere else? What
is this given control? That sounds like narcissists? Yikes? What
spikes when you really break this thing down? Hold on,
cause it's and here's another thing. It's the way you communicate.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
I have a relationship with you where even if you
were to call me and go off on somebody.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
I can read through your tone. I know that you're
just angry right now.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
I know that you actually love this or you actually
like it's not one of them things where you just
dragging somebody. Yeah, so I think too. It just goes
back to picking your friends. And there's a lot of
nuances that go into a female conversation. I think, like
I might say, oh my god, this he got one
more time. Realistically, he probably got six more time, I'm
(21:41):
telling you, and she's going to be there for the
next five times, and what's.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
Wrong with that? And I guess that's what I'm trying
to talk about.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
When it comes to friendship, it's like, so you can't
talk about your marriage with your friends.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
It's like, don't tell them. It's like, so who are
you talking to? Are you going to therapeus?
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Dude?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
That's controlling you.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
This is where I have a rob That's what I'm saying,
Because then you end up with people like young thug
who's offended by you going to a therapist.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Like what what's happening all?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
You end up with people like Cam Newton who want
to listen all the people you ever had sex with
when he was having sex. When he said that in
the in the middle of sex, they said, hold on,
write the list down right back, all right. This is
the type of dude you end up with when you're
giving away all of your power. I just want you
to remain in power through these situations and not lose
yourself so much to people and what they think you
(22:29):
should be or how you should conduct yourself. Because if
you married me, there was something about who I originally
was that you loved because you married me. So I'm
not going to get rid of all of the things
that caused you to get down on one knee like.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
That, ain't it. Now? That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
But if that's what to see, that's some manipulation tactic
because I married you because I wanted to control you.
And now you love me so much and you love
your ring so much, and you wanted to be married
so much that you'll do whatever I say.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
No, thank you, no, thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I don't mind compromising, I don't mind being understanding. I
don't mind hearing you out.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
I am not completely changed who I am, and I'm
not being looking in the mirror and saying who the hell? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Some of the Christina Christine City is going to be going. Okay,
She's going to be gone if y'all keep playing them
games with these men. And it's about mutual respect. You
need to be with somebody who respects you and who
respects themselves. It's actually very simple. Men who respect you
just ain't gonna play with you a certain type of way.
And I think that's where we add a lot of times.
So I mean, good luck to that that couple. Yeah,
(23:27):
I hope they figure it out and and wish y'all
nothing but the best. As we get ready to close,
I just want to recap a couple of episodes because
I feel like we got some favorites.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Yes and I I I feel like we got the
same I know, the same time.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
So we're gonna say it all three. Oh my god, wait,
I think the favorite episode. Come on, you notice, all right?
I think so on three our favorite, she said, the
first episode ever of all time.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
This is a lot of rusher. It's nice, Okay, it's
my friend. Look, friend, we've done this before, all right, one, two, three, Daddy,
we tell you.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
That.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
All yeah, I'm just playing this. We are a communicate
with words. I was not scared. I had total faith
in your booth. I already knew because the way we
fried that Christickun.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
We go ahead and insert it so y'all can really
get into we you got to, So do us a
favorite in the comments of this video.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
Go ahead and let us know what's your favorite? She
said the first moment.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
Yes, we have so many, but I know that y'all
have probably a different perspective abou which ones were your favorite,
So we would love to hear that.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
And also we want to hear some of your favorite lines.
Me and Lerland are always dropping lines every time. What
was the.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Funniest line or something that stick out to you or
something that you use in your every day Can I
say mine, We're gonna be up in the work truck.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
We're gonna be up in the work truck. Then baby
playing about?
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Then yes, I love it, love it, love it, love it.
We are always so happy to be here every Thursday.
I is youone's wondering on YouTube? If you want the audios,
just listen to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Make sure you like, comment and subscribe. Hit that notification
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All right, y'all, we'll see you in the next one.
Peace
Make sure we focus. Well how I'm looking look at me? Okay?
All right? That what's up everybody?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
It's your girl Indescribable aka Jerlyn Lake checking in with
none other than my bestie for the rest of eat
nao nae, and you're listening to this, she said, the
first podcast in Urban one Podcasts.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
On the Urban one Podcast Network period. Yes, ma'am, Yes, ma'am.
We're back in the building. Hey, y'all know it's.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Holiday time and it's a lot going on. Okay, so
we're gonna kick this off like we always do. Friend,
I gotta know, I gotta ask you what irritated you
this week?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Everything? What don't that can't be your answer everywhere.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Because it's like, how I'm irritated every week while y'all
doing stuff like that, Like it's.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
It's y'all irritating me every week. That's irritating me. That'd
be pissing me old. But for reperal, when I do
my makeup and they don't come out, it's twinsday come out.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
It's cousins that heaven, these brows they related somehow, Or
when you do your mask cart again, oh my god,
it's like it just ruins you you just, oh my god,
make up really irritate.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It's a lot, it's a lot, you know what I'm saying, Like, you.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Can't mess up, especially when it comes to anything like
mess car Eelana.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
The eyebrows, those are things that will make or break
your man. Don't don't let that face not match that neck. Hello,
you got to do this part. That's that's some of
y'all problems. Y'all, don't get down lending it. You know
what I'm you got to hit one of these a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Make sure you get it all yellow together and stuff,
because if it's untogether, no facts, I feel you so
much more than I really wish I had you, because,
oh my god. And then for somebody who has one
and a half eyebrows gets over here, does whatever it
(01:47):
wants to do, has already decided. Girl, by what's some
makeup up here? If you want to write, I don't
care put it up here. But that micro blading, oh,
same time, that's the thing I ever held my did.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I'm telling you if you got just haven't gotten into all.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I love micro blady and like I wish I could
put y'all onto my girl, But you gotta come over
to my page so I can tell y'all about her.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
But I did a whole video.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Make sure take out the videos. We both have videos
of people that we work with. So I mean, I
think it's a time saver. It's a game changes really
because I you know, I was insecure about my eyers
for a while, but I was like, girl, I'm just
gonna tatto them on, yeah and every day hello hello,
because that gonna make sure it's right. And then I'm
trying Chrelyn trying to help me with this eyelash thing.
(02:34):
I really haven't gotten into the permanent eyelashes yet. I
just do strips because like, I have a hard time
sleeping with stuff on my face. That's my only do
glue this week, because like girl, I got to well.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's not as I think that people.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
People have misconceptions about it, but if they haven't done
it before.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
When I first got them done, it was an adjustment.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
But now that I keep them done, it's like I
go outside with no makeup and I still feel feel
like I have kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Like that done up.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Look. Yeah, I just don't be cause you know what
our lashes I look like, kyu no, because just be
ball right across the ground.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So now you can't go without. I grow hair everywhere
but my face. I think that's a good thing. Think
about it, Think about it, Think about it. Do you
need it grown everywhere on your face?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I mean, because they're all when we were walking around
with we need it grown everywhere else.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I'm just id you.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
I'm gonna tell you. Having to pluck the same three
chin hairs every four to five business days, Oh my god.
They said agent was gonna look different, They said Agent
was gonna look different for every woman. But it's okay.
So it's that plucking the chin hairs. It's the random
molds that keep popping up. Because at this time, I'm like,
(03:50):
is it cancerous or not?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
It isn't, Nigga. That's the thing. Got to know because
it be too much going on. I didn't been on
web MD and they told me I got sixty left.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I'm stre Oh my god. And then the random pains.
It's no reason for me to wake up in pain.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Girl, because why what is happening? What are we doing?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I was fighting in our sleep, girl, I got to
be fighting in our sleep and lost, Sharkisha not and lost.
I'm telling you got to be getting woke out. That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
That's my mother. That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I don't answer that. Let me, I don't speak of it.
Let's let's see what's going on. Let's see Hello. Hey mama,
mah mammy, I remember me?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
No, she wild girl, because you don't, you'll be busy.
My guess, mam, mat I'm in Atlanta. What we'd have
gave your mother?
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I thought you was in Orlando. I was, and then
I had to come to Atlanta. And actually you will
be featured on the podcast because I picked the phone
up literally in the middle of recording, so you will be.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
On this episode.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Tell the people, hey, woman.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Thank you so much for letting us borrow your daughter.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
She has been nothing but a ray of sunshine and
such a blessing to work with.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
You did your big one.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Ma.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
I'm gonna finish recording, but I'm gonna call you when
I get off set.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Okay, okay, all right, by Sam. Do you know you
have a mother that's crazy?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
That is.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Why you will right exactly. I don't even tell her.
I was moving so much.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
I was in Orlando, and then I had to come
right to Atlanta, so we ain't That's why I said
do you.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Know you have a mother? Like, do you call her
the c right on thegether your eye told she wasn't
even there for the pleasantries. Hey my, that's loud. You
know I'm existing. That is Linda. Listen, listen, listen, not Linda.
Oh that's crazy. But what a.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Blessing, What a blessing. I'm sorry, what a blessing it
is to have a mom? You know that a call
and check on your Absolutely, I know mine.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
She do the same thing. I just wanted to, you know,
I just want to hear your boys. I'm like, girl,
you've seen my videos every day. You know I'm faye.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
She's like, that ain't enough. That's that's I got your number.
That's your mama. You gotta call your mama. But yeah,
so I'm glad. I'm glad that we both was irritated
by the same same type of things this week. But
we got to get into girl, it's some mess happening
in the streets and friends, Girl, what happened?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Oh my god? Girl, why you ain't ask me sooner? Girl?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
The rumor mill is churning. Janea Echo and Big Sean
half split what now? We went a second time? Because girl,
she got that moral. There's no reason it's a moral.
She got a more right, I said, Lord, I said,
the cucumber must be avon.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
It's got to be immaculate. Okay, give me two of
them shut because of a miss me.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Then, Baby, if I tattoo a man's whole face on
my body, I.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Want you to know that Schlong is ding dog guy.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I cannot yesterday because that's some crazy stuff. But they
say that they split up. You know, they just had
a baby. Well he's three, and they you know, officially
broken up. And people are saying, if y'all been together
that long, why y'all not getting married? And I just
have to remind people that marriage is not to go
for everybody. It's not especially the way y'all hop in
and out of it. Like, baby, I can tell you
(07:40):
stories about my last marriage. I don't desire it at all.
If I do it again, it's it's gotta make sense.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Yeah, agreed.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
And on top of that, it's like, if you gonna
be that flip floppy and wish washy, I do want
you to just be able to leave what I'm having
to spend thousands and thousands and thousands.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Of dollars to divorce you. That's like the divorce CAUs
him or than the marriage.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
So it's like, if it's just a toxic situation and
we don't really know and we ain't really figuring it out,
then yeah, I don't want to marry you. I want
us to be able to go ahead and split and
move on to people who we actually were designed for.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Because I'm good. Now, when do you split?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Because you said if it's toxic, then yeah, I want
you to be able to leave. In my mind, I'm
hearing I'm gonna waste time because I know that you
flip flopping and I would rather you just walk away.
I don't think everybody know when it's actually toxic, though
I do think I will tell you this. People have
different meters for toxic. Right, there's things that you can
(08:35):
experience that I could be like girl, you know what
I'm saying, right, and it's things that I would experience what.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
You know, Please please don't do it like this. I
national TV, Okay, not in front of my fans. Don't
let me knows that she wouldn't never deal with you
know what I'm saying. But it takes you to get
to a certain point. It takes a woman in DV
to leave.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Seven times before she actually want average to take That's
what I'm saying. And so like your meter is different.
You know, sometimes it's not healthy, but then sometimes you
don't know, and then you get to that seven time
when you have like a wake up call and you like,
this is just not for me.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I need to get out of here. So it be
like that sometimes hopefully.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
You're able to get out before you lose too much. Yeah,
because once the steaks get too high, you know, it's
kind of hard to back out of it.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
And so just I mean, and we don't know what's.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
Going on in Janet and Big Shawn's relationship. We don't
know how they parent or if marriage was even on
the table that part. But I know I'm not gonna
sit up with no man have his babies and be
ten years in without some type of stability.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
And at this point, like marriage is not People love
to say, oh, it's just a piece of paper. Well
imagine this.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I'm gonna paint the scene for you. Your grandfather just
passed away and you didn't know that he had a
child around your age, which is crazy. You can do
the mask, don't you don't know he had a child
around your age who's now showing up to the funeral.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
And y'all are argan over who gets his land, his house,
all his cars, you know, his businesses?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
If yeah, baby, marriage is a lot more than just
a paperwork. Definitely, And let's take it a step further.
If you have assets, and you have trust, and you
have bank accounts, please don't leave your grieving widow or
child or somebody to be fuckling through logins and passed
and we can't even figure out how we're gonna raise
(10:27):
the money to bury you because we can't get access
to the fund that we're supposed to provide relief during
this time, exactly percisely. And now you if you get
in a horrible accident or something, you need somebody, a
girlfriend can't insist that they do surgery or.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Pull the blood. You allow a returning. You need a
power of retorney get your affairs in order to get
your affairs.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
But once again, back to your original statement, marriage is
just not everybody's goals. It's not you know what I'm saying. Like,
whether or not you believe it's just financial or whatever
the case may be, that might not be their story.
They just realized, like that's not something they want to do,
you know, Jenay, I go kind of vibrate on that
Erica by New level where they is what it is, Yeah,
and it ain't what it ain't at that part, you
(11:09):
know what I'm saying. That's just how they feel like
they vibrate. They not really pressed to be married.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
They don't. She don't give me that.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
So you can't speak for somebody else relationship on what
you think they should do. You just make sure you
do what you're supposed to do when you get in
that situation. Yeah, because it's I mean, it's ugly out here,
and I don't want nobody rushing into something because we
have a bad That's the worst scenario I can think of.
We got married because she was pregnant, and that's why
y'all are at each other's throats every day. Y'all got
(11:35):
pregnant before y'all knew each other. Y'all had no business
being married, let alone dating. That part that probably should
have left each other alone in the club.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Oh my gosh, she got you. You should have let
it go home.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
But men ain't no better, honey. They will tell you
they want a baby by you that in the heat
of the moment. And I'm glad you brought that up, friend,
because this brings me to my next topic. But get
up out of that girl's coaching. Okay, stop giving it up, ladies.
Everybody got to be We got to be a little
(12:07):
more accountable. Yeah, okay, because here's the thing. They're gonna
blame you anyway, regardless. It don't matter what kind of
situation you get in. They're going to blame the woman.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
So what I need you all to do is just
stop giving these me a kuchie. Okay, that's not realistic.
It's not realistic.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
It is realistic. But you know what those listening with.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
The quality and the caliber of options, thank you. I
didn't know I was selibate until I was celibate.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
I have been celebate for three years. I woke up
one day I said, damn, I am cellab it on accident.
I'm not mad.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
I'm honestly not mad because sometimes you just like like I,
like I said about marriage. The next time I do anything,
it gotta make sense. Yeah, And I'm not laying down
with somebody just because they cute or just because they
gave me some other because the dates are nice and fun,
Like we're not there anymore. We've grown past that, And
don't you want someone who can assess the situation and
learn from.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
It in a thousand percent? And if you're not celibate
and you need to be selling it.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
You need to, okay, and it needs to be at
a high piece of okay, Okay, you have to get
those numbers up there, okay, because y'all selling it for
hot cheetos and a seafood boil is not.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Even that what's going on? Not even that?
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Okay, sometimes not having it, But you know what, it's
one of those things where you know, it's all about
how you perceive yourself. And I think that when you
get to the place where you're comfortable in solitude and
you're happy with where you're at, that's when you be like, Okay,
I don't really have to tolerate that.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
That part, that part that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
You see what keep coming up projection, you attracting what
it is that you feel on the inside. This has
come up multiple Absolutely, that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
It's a lot of stuff you got to unlearn.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
And I'm glad we we down this, going down this
vein of thinking because child what, it's a lot of
stuff we got to unlearned, just in interal with dating
and in life, but the marriage. People don't be acting
right when they get married. And prime example Amy Luciani
and Dwight Howard. You know, they ended up filing for
(14:13):
divorce within six months of their marriage. Then they got
back together and in a recent post, Amy said that
she was just being silly, and you know, it was
really no reason for to do that. So she even
went on to say that some things that you you know,
have to unlearn when you become one with somebody. So
we got a little clip here that I'm gonna play
for y'all, and y'all give me your take.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Let me hear what she said. I honestly don't even
want to talk about these, but we're here.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
I met the love of my life and I almost
divorced his ass in six months being real stupid and silly.
Actually we both filed for divorce. Let's talk about the
struggles of being a new young wife. First thing I
can see as a new wife. I know it's gonna
be your hard practice, but shut your mouth.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Shut up now. I know some of y'all gonna say Oh,
you gotta shut up as you married. What is he
silencing you? No, sis, I'm not seeing shut up.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
I'm seeing pick your battles sometimes pick them quietly. Understand,
when you became one with your husband, that means you
became one.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Y'all are one.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
You have to literally die to your old self. You
don't want to do that yet. What is died to
my old self mean? Because I'm very much still alive.
Simply means adjustments. You gotta make a lot of adjustments again,
heavy on your one. Now, know your spicy attitude is
in passion. It's a nasty attitude that has to die
for your husband. Confrontational spirits hidden by passion. You're not passionate, sist.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
You just got an attitude problem. Lose it quick, gem successful.
Talk to your men.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
They just want peace. They don't want anything else. You
can't do anything else for them besides bring them peace.
Mistake I made me and my husband going through issues
telling my friends about it. Don't do it.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
Dying to yourself is hard. Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
You spent your whole life talking, probably talking too much,
getting the last word, being overly opinionated, being emotionally unstable.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Some people settle for that, but this person married you,
they're not going for it.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, cause we're done. Is Dwight Howard behind the camera?
Is he did he have a script for her to read,
I'm done? It does sound very much like I overreacted,
he said, I did too much. Let me come clean
it up, and let me be very clear. We are
(16:15):
giving this opinion because this was on the run of show.
Yeah right, I genuinely do not care about this nigga,
And I just want to make that clear because you
be in situations where the video will come back up
and folks like you was talking trash about So listen,
I don't care what these people do. I just think, honey,
Sam stam behind what you're doing. Yeah, if you want
(16:37):
to get the horse, get doors. If you want to
be married, get married. But you ain't got to come
on here and tell us every time you change your
mind about yourn. I think that's where my issue lies,
not with what she said, because that's her marriage. Okay,
we know that that person allegedly got a lot of
skeletons in the closet because she got on here and said,
did she call him in a bed with a man
who had a wig on agend. That's what she had
told us, right, So we know that that person do
(16:59):
want you to be We do know that they want
you to silence it and stop talking because you came
online and you exposed them and you were supposed to
be their wife.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
So like, we get why you need to be quiet in.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
A relationship because you came online and hold their business, right,
But I think that's your punishment.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
The rest of us we got those problems, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
And if somebody married me, I would hope that they
married me because they knew how I was.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
I'm not saying that you need to fight every single
little teeny thing either, but I would praise that they
would know that your girl is a little spicy, Yes,
but that don't take away from the love that I
have from you. I would never degrade you. I would
never down if you might, I would never do that. Now,
these boyfriends, listen, I know how to walk a dog. Okay,
(17:49):
all right, okay, I can treat you that getting husband's treatment.
I can't treat you the nicest. Oh my god, you
will think, oh this girl is in love with me.
And if you get too far off that leash.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
I know how to walk a dog. Okay, you'll be
astray and believe it. That right, believe it. And it's
getting called out. Okay, No, it's good and cold. These shows.
It gave dad ass for real.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
So it's getting scary out here, and I just want
everybody to as far as their marriage is concerned, I
don't care what you want, but general rule of thumb
is stop running to the internet with all your business.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Hell, im running to your friends with all your business,
like these are things that we know.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
We know this already information. Every time you black out
and you you know I'm talking crazy and I'm mean,
my bad. I didn't mean to say that.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
You did mean it.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
And that's the route that I want people to deal with,
because every time I've ever went back and apologize for
something I said, I realized.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I was gonna say it again. Yeah, I was gonna
say it again.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
Not because I'm mean and I'm spiteful and I hate you,
but because once I lose respect for you, and I
think that's what happened.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
And when people get online and you do not respect,
that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
You have lost already, Like I said, I am still
holding secrets for women who have done me wrong in
friendships to this day.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
I don't respect you, but I would never come like
here and no, I just don't do stuff like that.
And that goes for any relationship that I'm in as well.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
And also another thing she said was about friends, like
don't tell them I you need friends that say you
got to pick your friends. That's what I'm saying. You
don't have the right type of friends because I can't
say it. Yeah, but every I I need to be
able to not necessarily download everything to you, but I
need to know that friend my trip, I thank you
(19:38):
all and nay and be like friend and my tripping
like all I'm saying at my tripping.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
And you have to be strategic about this.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Choose your friends better because a friend that is truly
there for you is not gonna.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Be judgments you know, right, thank you. They just gonna
hear what you gotta say.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
And if you want them to give their opinion, they can,
or they could just be a listening sounding board for
you just to get it off, you know what I'm saying.
But like I don't know what you're telling your friends
to the point where It's like, why do they feel
like they can tell you whether or not you need
to say a leave now this.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
If it's so domestic, I'm going to encourage you to
leave every single time.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
And that's one of them cases because you know, sometimes
you you tell your friends something about your partner and
then they act weird around you.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
I would never do nothing like that. But if I
know you beat my girl, bro, it's up every time
I see mean, I don't care. I dare you to
hit me, hit me, hitt me, hint me? Did what happened?
I got hit that y'all about my brother and me?
(20:42):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
But nah, I feel I feel like you just gotta
you gotta pick and choose your friends. You definitely need
a support since you keeping all that. So not only
do you gotta be quiet, but.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
In your relationship you say you say nothing to your
dude and you ain't got no outlet nowhere else? What
is this given control? That sounds like narcissists? Yikes? What
spikes when you really break this thing down? Hold on,
cause it's and here's another thing. It's the way you communicate.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
I have a relationship with you where even if you
were to call me and go off on somebody.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
I can read through your tone. I know that you're
just angry right now.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
I know that you actually love this or you actually
like it's not one of them things where you just
dragging somebody. Yeah, so I think too. It just goes
back to picking your friends. And there's a lot of
nuances that go into a female conversation. I think, like
I might say, oh my god, this he got one
more time. Realistically, he probably got six more time, I'm
(21:41):
telling you, and she's going to be there for the
next five times, and what's.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
Wrong with that? And I guess that's what I'm trying
to talk about.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
When it comes to friendship, it's like, so you can't
talk about your marriage with your friends.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
It's like, don't tell them. It's like, so who are
you talking to? Are you going to therapeus?
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Dude?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
That's controlling you.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
This is where I have a rob That's what I'm saying,
Because then you end up with people like young thug
who's offended by you going to a therapist.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Like what what's happening all?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
You end up with people like Cam Newton who want
to listen all the people you ever had sex with
when he was having sex. When he said that in
the in the middle of sex, they said, hold on,
write the list down right back, all right. This is
the type of dude you end up with when you're
giving away all of your power. I just want you
to remain in power through these situations and not lose
yourself so much to people and what they think you
(22:29):
should be or how you should conduct yourself. Because if
you married me, there was something about who I originally
was that you loved because you married me. So I'm
not going to get rid of all of the things
that caused you to get down on one knee like.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
That, ain't it. Now? That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
But if that's what to see, that's some manipulation tactic
because I married you because I wanted to control you.
And now you love me so much and you love
your ring so much, and you wanted to be married
so much that you'll do whatever I say.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
No, thank you, no, thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I don't mind compromising, I don't mind being understanding. I
don't mind hearing you out.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
I am not completely changed who I am, and I'm
not being looking in the mirror and saying who the hell? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Some of the Christina Christine City is going to be going. Okay,
She's going to be gone if y'all keep playing them
games with these men. And it's about mutual respect. You
need to be with somebody who respects you and who
respects themselves. It's actually very simple. Men who respect you
just ain't gonna play with you a certain type of way.
And I think that's where we add a lot of times.
So I mean, good luck to that that couple. Yeah,
(23:27):
I hope they figure it out and and wish y'all
nothing but the best. As we get ready to close,
I just want to recap a couple of episodes because
I feel like we got some favorites.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Yes and I I I feel like we got the
same I know, the same time.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
So we're gonna say it all three. Oh my god, wait,
I think the favorite episode. Come on, you notice, all right?
I think so on three our favorite, she said, the
first episode ever of all time.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
This is a lot of rusher. It's nice, Okay, it's
my friend. Look, friend, we've done this before, all right, one, two, three, Daddy,
we tell you.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
That.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
All yeah, I'm just playing this. We are a communicate
with words. I was not scared. I had total faith
in your booth. I already knew because the way we
fried that Christickun.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
We go ahead and insert it so y'all can really
get into we you got to, So do us a
favorite in the comments of this video.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
Go ahead and let us know what's your favorite? She
said the first moment.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
Yes, we have so many, but I know that y'all
have probably a different perspective abou which ones were your favorite,
So we would love to hear that.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
And also we want to hear some of your favorite lines.
Me and Lerland are always dropping lines every time. What
was the.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Funniest line or something that stick out to you or
something that you use in your every day Can I
say mine, We're gonna be up in the work truck.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
We're gonna be up in the work truck. Then baby
playing about?
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Then yes, I love it, love it, love it, love it.
We are always so happy to be here every Thursday.
I is youone's wondering on YouTube? If you want the audios,
just listen to us wherever you listen to your podcast.
Make sure you like, comment and subscribe. Hit that notification
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All right, y'all, we'll see you in the next one.
Peace
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