April 9, 2026 • 45 mins
In this episode of She Said It First, Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off like only best friends can—by arguing over karaoke footage and exposing just how much fun one person had without the other. From Atlanta nights filled with crab legs, karaoke, and a little selective editing of the truth, the ladies set the tone with laughs, side-eyes, and that familiar “if you wanted to be there, you should’ve been there” energy. But don’t get it twisted—once the jokes land, the conversations start getting real.
Things take a sharp turn as the hosts dig into the wild and cautionary tale behind the episode title: why trying to rob this version of Gucci Mane is absolutely not the move. Using the situation as a broader lesson, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ talk about growth, accountability, and what happens when people stay stuck in street logic while everyone else has evolved. That conversation opens the door to a deeper discussion about celebrity culture, why abusive behavior keeps getting excused, and how certain men continue to be protected while women get dragged for far less.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's if everybody, it's your girl in describer bar kah
cherln Lake checking in with one other that my bestie
for the rest of Lene Monday, and you are listening
to that, she said the first podcast and urber one
podcast on the RB one podcast network. Oh yeah, before
we get out what Oh, I ain't know what she
(00:22):
was about to say. You didn't even let me get yeah,
because I want to talk about what irritated me. Okay,
you know what irritated you this week?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Friend?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Well, Jolenne sends me the most wholesome video with our
friends that we made in.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Thailand when we went to were our.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Friends both of us, not one or the other. So
you can't have one without the other. Okay, oh this
is so cute.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Whatever tell our friends from Tyland.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
They decided to fill me in and send me the
actual video of what actually hopping on.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Carryok like when they.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Went out, maybe they was running up and down the ouse.
They they was passing the mic saft of people. They
was passing the piece like the no good and god
damn well, this girl send me one video of her
doing a little two steps. That was it, and that
showed me her running up and down pop locking and
dropping it all over the restaurant. I can't believe you
(01:33):
did that. I can't believe you cut up that bad
without me Over here, she is exageraate y'all, I gave
one person of microphone three and what about that running
up and down the owl?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Okay? So okay, so let me clarify it.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
No, oh now, yeah, about happen with my my My
home gun said, oh girl, we're coming to Atlanta. I said, okay,
I want to see I And so she was like, okay,
we're gonna be there this time.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
But woo. So we went out to launch and everything,
and I was like, well, what you going for the
rest of the night. She was like everyhing.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
I said, okay, well, let's hang out, let's do something.
They was like, y'all, I want to do karaoke. I
was like, yeah, we can do karaoke. But at the
time I had plans with my men, my men and
my man. But my man love juicy Crab and guess
what they do on Saturdays on just a juice crap.
They had karaoke and my Homegrouy was like, well, I
want to do hooker too. I said, well, guess what
else they got it just a crab, they got hooker
and karaokee. I said, so enough brainer, So I called
(02:38):
my men, my men and my men, and I said,
let's go down to the karaokee spot and do and
get some crab legs and stuff. And so he really
really really wanted to sing this song, and I was like,
babe bye on the song. But he sang the song anyway.
So I was up there from the round. But the
song was very kid. I just wanted to show her
that part the is wancheous. Then went behind my these
skeezers matter of fact, and when they the podcast, they're
(02:59):
gonna know exact, letting me know, y'all real once I
love it. These look these these floozies went behind my
back and said, evidence is what I'll call it.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Evidence were doing.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Kirk Franklin, were doing no scrubs by TLC. We had
that place rocking, babe on. I think I know how
to do on the shop, okay, and that's all I know.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
So bad it was. It was bad, y'all. Y'all so bad.
Ain't said on me had a blast, not ball.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
We We really did, though, And this is why I've
been bullying for months to move to Atlanta, because if
you wanted to be at the karaoke, you should have been.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Here, Alanda.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah, because got your gas light in me right, don't
get I've been through it. I'm not People get out
in the using all the terms they learn the therapy.
This is love bombing, and I don't with NARCISSI.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I don't want to be trauma bonding right now because
the triangulation is crazy crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I don't want to they pick everywhere they know that's
you know what. That's what irritated me this week. I'm
glad we're on the subject.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, well I brought it up. That's what irritated me
this week.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Using every word you learn the therapy to describe sometuffing
and got nothing to do with the actual definition of
those terms because you don't even know what to me
and you not even using it right, But you don't
got your degree, okay, dropped out in sixth grade. Got
exactly trying to tell people. But girl, sometimes you know
(04:44):
what I think would have saved a lot of us.
I mean, I know that a higher education is not
accessible and affordable for everyone, but sometimes you can go
to like a little trade school or something. You can
get a certification, a certification of something, you know, maybe online.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
School and paid the money bag.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
There are a lot of options, and unfortunately a lot
of us don't get exposed to those options.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
And girl, what I think.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I think the next story is a direct reflection of
what happens when people don't get educated.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Girl, what happened?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh my god, friend, I'm starting to ask me why
that man Boo Shisky and kidnapped Gucca May. Now, this
is this is such a wild, unhead story. I didn't
even think we was going to be talking about this
in twenty twenty six, but here it is on my
bingo card.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
But he still stuck back then when it was given that.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I mean, yeah, so you know, he went to he
went to prison. He just got out in October. He
served three years of a five year sentence, and he
released the song and went triple double platinum first day out.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Everybody loved it.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Right now, in January, he called to meet him a
Gucha Maine in Dallas and he wanted, you know, he
was worrying an ankle monitor.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
He was on probation and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
But this meeting just went and left when bu Shisky
ended up robbing Gucca Maine and his men.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Now you know he's tiying the Gucci label.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So it's like, baby, I don't think y'all know how
to conduct business meetings because if this is what you
thought it was supposed to turn into.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
So you you fear we've lost the plot?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, for sure, definitely lost the plot. Even happened he
told him he couldn't get off that contract. He said, no,
that's how that happened.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
He said, of jail, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
And he fresh out of jail, and he don't know
how to hear.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
No, he ain't know how to go about it the
right way, and so he did what he thought he
could do because he thought it was some street coat.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
He don't realize that Gucci has changed. You know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Okay, Gucci is not the same Guccie we knew back then.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
You know what I'm saying, Heavy do Gucci?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
That ain't the same one you sad today?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
That's not the same.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Okay, just bought her double just bought a double rack.
Throw some DS on it. Okay, but slip I am Okay,
this is uh weight loss t from Okay, this is
(07:11):
a different Gucci that you're talking to. He's talked to
that one like that. Okay, he will call the police.
The police and he didn't involved. Yep, okay, don't get
the maturnis involved. So I feel like po Shisty thought
he was dealing with one person, didn't realize he was
dealing with another one.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
I don't think it's just so dumb, like what are
what are we actually doing?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I think this is such a silly thing to be
talking about because unfortunately, you know, like that's that kind
of lifestyle is celebrated in our community, you know, being
a rapper, carrying guns and drugs.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
And all this stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
And I think, uh, you know, like when you're when
you're in that mode, you think that that's the only
way to operate, and it's you know, it's just not.
And so I think he's learning a valuable lesson. Uh,
you just got out of prison, it's given you want
to go back.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
He definitely went back, He's for sure.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
When you violated probation, you didn't tell them where you
were going, you had guns on you, you held somebody hostage,
you force them to sign a contract against their will.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
You're going back is really so you have a luck.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Of time to think about maybe how if you get
out again, how you can handle situations differently like these.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't know what what else are we How else
are we going to handle it?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Because after that you want to be out this contract
that bad baby, Let me just tell you you're out here.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
You have to worry about me. Baby, You ain't about me,
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Nobody else is gonna want to sign you. Like if
I knew you act like that when.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Things don't go your way, I will never sign you
to my label.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Like the shan't be canceled. Oh yeah, and we know
that like in that industry, learn them out. You can
get black balls so easy, Like as soon as somebody
here you did something, people no longer want to work
with you there, So you kind of might have just
shot yourself in the foot with that. Okay, Well where
you know, friends, I don't know, because the only people
that get canceled are women because they went on Chili
(09:16):
asked about the Trump and Kanye just had a show
and it sold out after making them them and submitted
calling I listen, I look you Lauren up there.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
How you gonna win when you we ain't right with
them at Sounds of the Mess and I want to.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Sounds of the Mass and why Yeah, this is why
all these years we felt like it was not justified
for people to be on her about being late to
all these shows. She's like, well, God determines when I
get here, ma'am. You are dismistic for people have taken
off their jobs, they've driven to your show, or they
flew to your show, they got a hotel for the
night for your show, and then you show up or
I was like, Lauren.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
He's health four hours.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
It is disrespectful and yeah, and then sit up here
and these people keep getting up here and supporting this man.
And here's the thing, It's a cycle. I said this,
Kanye is going to get up here and tell us
he has mental health issues. He's been doing this for years.
He's gonna tell us he got mental health issues. Then
he gonna circle back and he gonna find God. He
did that with the Sunday Service, did he? He dress
(10:25):
dropped just dropped another video where he's back again in church.
I don't know while Michael Jackson was on the back road,
but Michael Jackson was up in there, but he's talking
about right now, what are you talking about? Yeah, And
it's crazy that you would think that I'm making this up.
But see what this is what Kanye West did and
(10:45):
then he dropped the show. He went on He's saying
that he's doing these shows and people are buying these
these tickets and the record time and I think in
UK is having a show now. They just canceled it
because you know he's headlining it. But I mean, for
somebody to create merch with swastikas on it saying white
lives matter and all this fan.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Slavery was a choice. That was crazy. That's other conary,
that's straight up conary.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
And for y'all to continue to support him, why are
we not holding are we not holding him acoutable because
he's a black man, Because I genuinely feel like a
lot of times when people saying will if it was
a white man, y'all want him, he would.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Still be wrong.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
He would still very much be wrong. But you know what,
this is exactly where people miss me with that bullshit.
Y'all can edit that out or not, because this is
exactly what I mean it In the same way they
treat R Kelly trying to separate the person from the artists.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
People staying on this all day long, like what is
the artist?
Speaker 1 (11:44):
But are y'all paying attention? You cannot separate the person
from the artist. They like, Oh, R Kelly did da
da da, But his music still here. It's a song
out right now that drives me crazy. That's going viral.
That's R Kelly, girl, how I saw that. It's going
(12:06):
about y'all making this man money in jail is the
most stressful thing to me.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
And it's like, it's.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Not it's not all. We all saw a video of
com beeing on a child.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
Hello, we saw that.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
And it's not just that it's that, of course, but
how he treated women overall. He kidnap people's children and
wouldn't give them back. Like, y'all don't brainwashing women. You
see them on there doing interviews and they are whoa, whoa, Okay,
there are no lights in that house.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Girl.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Not to mention marrying Elijah as a literal child and
lying about it.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
But number like y'all don't. Y'all don't see what the
issue were.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
This is a pedophile, but y'all like pedophiles, right, and
I think that's the issue. It's like people are so
busy trying to justify why they still support the music
they want to forget about all the things people say
how much they hate you in this I ain't thinking
for Nicki Minaj. She is a horrible person to me, literally,
not just not just the recent Trump support stuff. People
(13:09):
have been calling Nikki mean for you or ever. She
hates women. She liter really hates women, and don't let
you be in the same. She only rock with you
if she feels like you're not.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Better than her.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
If you're better than her, she got beef with you
if you transh did she want to be your friend?
Can'ts be a okay? She loved beted Us no shade
to JT.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
I love her, but she's also really cool with JT.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I'm not saying anything's wrong with jac but I'm just
saying certain people she's gonna connect with because she don't
think you better than her.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
That don't mean you dying. I'm just telling you from
her or you being with somebody, that she be great school.
It's off bar Ain't the name off bar Or? Is
that the girl Rashida one of them? I don't know.
That kind of looks similar, but.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Yeah, the only reason she became cool with them is
because they be from McCarty. It's just like, I don't know,
I would never be so pressed to be cool with
somebody because I let me know, all yes, her ogbar
v her like she was beefing with Cardi B.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
But I think it was her name Rashida or something
like that. I remember because they got into a fight.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
And her husband and girl, her career is over.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
After I love Mille.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Now that is somebody who's gonna follow girl When I
say Marsha the beating her own drum ky, Michelle literally
doesn't care what you say about her. She don't care
what y'all got going on over there. This is literally
somebody who just do what she want to do. And
she can sing and she's not just an R and
B singer like the girl being Yoda leg country like
she is well a degree, yes, and she can play
(14:57):
the piano as well, produces a lot of her own music.
That's how when she when she took off from love
and hip hop, I was so excited because a lot
of them didn't have They had all.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
The love and no hip hop. And then it's her
Cardi B.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
You know, that was another one that platformed off of
love and hip hop, and Jocelyn is still I don't
know what's happening, but I ain't seen no music except
for doing like It's.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
My Big day, Baby, Do it like it's my big day.
Do it? Do it like shut. I don't know what
happened with her. I know she said she got off them.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Drugs, and she said she changed her life, and honey,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
It's something about that.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
She as mean as hell on that Joscelyn's caparet. They
said that she talked to them girls wild and crazy.
You have to kiss up to her. She don't treat
them right.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Just no respect for women.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Another yet another woman who has no respect for women,
Like it's just why do y'all want to keep being
around them yet? Just do a show with all niggas,
Like if that's where your mind is. But then if
you do it, they're gonna call you a whole She is?
She she is, said she she had a she's a strimper.
(16:19):
She don't want to go back to the strip club.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
That's what I can't go back, Steebee.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I can't made a whole lifestyle off prostitution. She is,
she's okay, she's fine and she could fight. She could fight,
so she's fine around all, no problem. Yeah, I think
I think I see where you're going with that. I
think it's just so unfortunate how especially in this industry,
we we promote and we applaud, and when we praise
(16:45):
abusers literally literally, the more abusive you are, the more
you can be forgiven. Uh, Kanye, as we talked about
as a prime example, Nicki Minaj, the barbs are literally
just brainless at this point.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Because I supposed to an a video of herself.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I was like, girl, don't see just walking, just walking
and smile and it didn't look nothing like her, like Selena,
It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
So you just spect the.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Mexican and then saw that there. But I mean, girl, listen,
this is what they leave people. People are people get
preferential treatment. Uh, and they're you know, especially I mean
men more so than women. But just if you are
mean and nasty to women, I think that people love you,
(17:38):
and which which brings me to my next story about
platforming abusers. Because now let me preface this by saying,
I know a lot of people love dating older men.
I got myself one too, but as an adult, as
a thirty six year old woman. I'm dating an OPRA person,
not as a sixteen year old girl, which is how
old Brandy was when her and one year Morris of
(18:00):
what SMA had sex.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Right, she just dropped her memoir and you know, everybody's
excited to read about her life because I mean, she's
the vocal Bible. She just got her star on the
Hollywood Walk of Fame and everybody celebrating her her success
and everything. And then we started singing more about this
relationship with juan Ye Morris and the most you know,
obviously there.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Was an age gap. I think he was twenty two.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
But here's what Wanye had to say on the Breakfast
Club a while ago, and it's to me, it's just disgusting.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Oh my god. Okay, let me see sheesuys no, I
was young too. She said she was fifteen and she
had to keep it a secret.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Nah nah see see we we did the hag We
did the thing when she was like sixteen seventeen around
that time. You know, so you were still the boy too,
Yeah I was. I wasn't true. I wasn't old thirty
years old enough that I was old enough to do
she was old enough to get it.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Legal in the state, y'all.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
I mean we was always in different stations.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
All right, that's a wrap. Oh my god, are you serious?
Right now? Are you serious? You know what I hate
when people laugh about shit like that? Angela, Angela. He
is in the background laughing as well.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
The interview goes on, and she's making jokes as well,
and I'm just like, I can't understand how y'all hear
this man say he was twenty two when she was
fifteen sixteen having sex with her.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
That is illegal, that is the least. And you see
how see this? What dudes do?
Speaker 4 (19:30):
This?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
What people do anyway, try to try to like blur
the truth talking about why wasn't thirty eight?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
What about the twenties? Yeah, what about them twenties?
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Were you of legal age should be having sex with
a sixteen year old?
Speaker 2 (19:42):
He was like, she was old enough to get it.
That's wow. That's a wild statement. It sounds so degrading.
When I was like, ill, because what is it. Lock
him up? He already admitted to the crime. Just lock
him up. I don't care. He already said he did.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
But Nick, I'm pretty sure the stats for the and
ran out on that. However, I will say that I
saw reports that her mom had basically given permission, like
once she found out about it, I'm like, so it's
okay because her mom said it was okay. Y'all don't
understand like a child cannot consent, okay, And the problem
is not The problem is not about what you think.
(20:19):
The problem is that you are dealing with somebody. There
is a power imbalance, right. You obviously know more than
this child, You've experienced more than this child. You are
taking advantage of someone who has not does not have
long experience to participate in what you're trying to engage in.
That is and that is abuse, yeah, for sure. And
(20:42):
I pray that her mother did not approve of that,
because why would you do that to your daughter.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I understand that she's in the industry. I understand that she's.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
Around older men, but there's a lot of younger guys
that was coming up around that time as well. It
didn't have to be a twenty two year old. I
don't care how popular he was, like, and it goes
talk about it, mm hmm, talk about it, trying to
think if I want to deal with it, because you know,
they get offended.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Friend, I'm.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I'm gonna throw it out there discose for jay Z
and Beyonce as well. We're really not gaining attention to
what was really going on, y'all.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Like it's just he is older.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Because they're old. I want to say jay Z was
what they're like, fourteen years apart. Yes, he probably is
like thirty. I think I thought they met when she
was likeeen. Oh yeah, thirty eighteen, so he so, okay,
it's a little older, but it's still it's still a
huge gap. But he did wait until she was at
(21:45):
least over eighteen, but that's still super young at the
end of the day. That's still to me, I don't
want to deal with. I don't care if you're just legal.
I am thirty six years old. There is nothing interesting
about a nineteen year old to me. We don't have
anything in common for me at all at all. And
I like to go out and have on my friends
and sit at the bar. I to sit at the
(22:07):
bar and all of my drinks, like what's you want?
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Bo'd you? We just getting appetizers? I think not. I
know she used to walk but a salad for the
last because because now.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
You're okay, he's on the dance floor like he's gonna
have to be because he can't at the word.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
He's gonna have to be because he can't be at
the bar. Oh my god. Yeah, he is so crazy.
He did wait until she got old enough. But this
is sick. This right here, that sixteen and twenty two
is wild. But this is our culture. Though.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Our culture has convinced women that we need to look younger,
look younger, look younger. Okay, remove the hair off your body.
We want it smooth. Why because we look like children.
I strongly believe that I know I'm gonna catcheat for this,
but I strongly believe a lot of Western beauty standards
are heavily rooted in pedophilia. And when you found out
(23:10):
that the president was eating children, not only do they
want to have sex with them, they literally want to take.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Me through that, take me through that. Yeah, and that's insane,
that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
But this is not far fetched because white people eight slaves, you.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
So when you think about when you think about the history,
like men, white men, specifically white men have a history
of grading people to a point past you know, the
humanization and so what this is.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
What we are, this is what we are being taught.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
Yeah, places it's okay to date one man or you know,
send your daughter off to someone. And she's only twelve
or thirty, and she just said whenever she hits puberty,
it's okay to marry. Get y'all off, yeah, to someone else,
and for them to start a family with some range.
Some of them don't even know it's an arranged marriage.
They've never seen them a day in their life and
they just get married and started life. So that is
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it does happen really really really young. And it is sick.
It is sick, and I do believe that it is conditioned.
And yeah, it just it.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Makes my skin crawl. I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
When I was younger, I was dating dudes older and
I would be like sixteen and eight be eighteen. That's
the oldest that I've ever like talked to someone. Where
I was younger, like where I was like a senior
in college and I had a boyfriend. I was a
senior in high school and I had a boyfriend who
was a freshman in college and I kept that a secret. Yeah, yeah,
because it was like, well, this is in college, you know,
(24:47):
but it's not I have never wanted I think the
oldest gap I had was like when I was I
think maybe when I was like twenty three or something.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
I dated somebody who was thirty four, But that's like grown.
But I was still twenty three. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
My doubt, my prefrontal CORSEX had fully developed, which means
I probably still suck at making decisions. But you know,
I'm a little bit older, and I think that you know,
it's just me and just want a lot of men
just want to have sex with children, And I think
that that's what it all boils down to.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
They want to have sex with children, and they will
find a way to make it. Okay.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
I think I hear men talk so bad about women
once they get to a certain age.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Their whole thing is to make you feel like you old.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Ain't nobody gonna want you, if you ain't got kids,
you're not marry, you're not settled down by that, and
you're pretty much dried up because now now all the
men want someone who is younger.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
Okay, I can not me. I't talk about this. I
can't keep them off me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Okay, However, They make it seem like once you hit
thirty six or thirty and up, don't nobody want nothing
to do with you anymore.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
I don't. And that's exactly a lie. Oh girl, it's
such a lie.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
But the thing is they just want people that they
they want an imbalance of power is what they want. Men,
unfortunately a lot of times, are only doing things for control.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
You gotta think, let's circle back to our killing.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
This man at the height of his career, had women
throwing themselves at him.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Women.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Don't forget that part of that part he's at he's
backstage wanting to have sex with children outside.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
It's about it.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
It's about control, it's about dominance, it's about power. It's
never about oh, we just have so much in coming.
I just you know, younger women have less baggage. No,
you want somebody who can manipulate it. You can tell.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
But Scott is green. When you know theyn will it
ain't exactly.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
And then so that part aside, you trying to get
somebody who ain't gonna check you. You don't want somebody
to see that glisten up there like that, Okay? That
hard women who have less will they will look up
to you, and they will make you feel you know,
somebody who ain't never had a least, I ain't never
(26:57):
had a car in they name, they gonna love, they
gonna love that forty year old men me frankly the
way I and I know my dad watching Daddy, and
the way I love you for making sure I wasn't
out here just looking for a validation from goodness. Even
if I made even if I was with somebody and
it didn't make sense and I made some mistakes, I
(27:19):
had enough. I had enough love at home and enough
of a foundation to get up out of it. But
these they prey on women. Because I seen cross seen
the video the other day. This dude was like, come
with me as me and my wife sleeping our car tonight.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I said, wait, why, why, why and why am I coming?
It ain't enohing room for me? And take that lady
back to her daddy house.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
Lord, have mercy, I mean immediately, And this is their lifestyle.
Then at the end of the video he was like,
so are we homeless or are we just living rent free?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
You're homeless.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
You're very homeless because they're not. That's not home, sir,
excuse me. I'll talk about it, talk about frying chicken.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
In the park and and enjoy the sun.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Said, ma'am, if that man can't provide shelter for you,
go back to your dad house. And I know you like,
I don't like when y'all alloted me and college content.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Get up out my.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
Face and take that lady back to her daddy house
because my dad. Soon as my Dadda found out I
was living with a nigga who had me in a
car overnight, my mother would.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Tell that car park engine out of that card. Oh
y'all are a part. She's coming with me. I know
you lying. She's not rocking like that, Londa, do not
playing about me and that. Oh no, I've.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Always been very self sufficient, almost hyper independent, if you will,
And I do get that from my mother, who is
extremely hyper independent also. And with that, you know, you
do attract some sprigulars, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
You attract some people who don't have it all, and.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
So you know, you gotta have a level of discernment
and situations like that. But I do feel poor because
I feel like she might be in a vulnerable space
where she doesn't really know what it's like to be loved,
and so this man could be brainwashing her or manipulating her.
And a believe in that if you love somebody, you'll
stay with them through everything and I'll get it out.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
The mode and we're gonna do this and we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
That, not realizing love does not have to be suffering.
You don't have to suffer through love. You don't have
to not get the things that you really desire because
you love someone. At some point, at some point, it
becomes abuse at something.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Absolutely, I don't want anything out of the mud. I
just clean my.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Clean things before you give them to me. And I
don't you know, like people be like, oh, well, you
got to learn how to. I don't want to. Like
I'm learning about myself. The more I work and the
more money I accumulate for myself, the less I want
to work, Like Marta, if I pray this man works out,
because I don't want to and and he's decided that
(30:01):
that's okay. I don't want to do the work, doing
all of the work and in my professional life and
I gotta come home and work at this so I
got I'm working around the clock. There is no level
where I get any what anytime to just relax and
chill and just live a soft girl lifestyle. No, because
(30:21):
that's how the soft girl life comes from money though
it don't come from a man. And that's the hack
that a lot of women listen. The money is the
game changer. Yeah, so I'm gonna keep making money until
I'm comfortable enough.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
But if that man say anything he can believe and.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Say he want to get you some money, I'm getting done.
I'm taking that. I I need the money. I mean
by money, Okay, let me get that. Gonna get that, y'all.
Speaker 2 (30:51):
Okay. But you know that's that's that's how a lot
of times that works out.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
And you know, unfortunately with this Brandy and One situation,
it wasn't in balance of power.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
She was allowed to be manipulated and taking advantage of, and.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
All these people was around watch like it wasn't a
secret book, you know what I'm saying. Like, I know,
people like to think that they're keeping secrets, but if
one person knows about it, it's not a secret.
Speaker 2 (31:12):
Oh my god. And why was everybody on a lead
like that? Because I feel like Timerland just said something.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Not just saying it, but he came on and did
something about it, like he always was in love with her,
and I'm just like why, Yeah, they want to have
sex with children. We just talked about these. I just
said they want to have sex with children. That's what
they do. And so this man, this man married saying
(31:38):
stuff like this. That's the craziest part. Baby, if I
married somebody, I don't care who it is.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
I don't have any excess. I've never ated anyone before
this man. No, I haven't. No, sorry to that man.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
I do not know this man if he's wouldn't know
that man, nobody. I love my husband and that is
that's it. Don't come around here trying to where you
know where you used to. Yeah, I feel get all
out of here.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
So I mean that.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
I pray that Brandy gets whatever she needed from this
because releasing this into the wild for people to attack her,
because now people of course are defending one.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
You ain't saying Brandy wasn't a victim.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
She knew what she was doing and a lot of
all this stuff and not just children can't consent, and
I want the adult.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Is the predator. Yet she was a victim. It's just
like people who don't reach out to their kids. And
be like, well, they could call me.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
So now you don't have no relationship with your child
because you think it's their responsibility to have a relationship
with the.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
When you're the problem.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
When you're the problem, and you're the reason why the
relationship doesn't exist in the first place.
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
You reach out to the child, you try to have
a relationship with them. Why are they trying to track
you down and have one with you?
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Like it?
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Don't love adult is responsible. That's the one who takes responsibility.
And I know y'all gonna be mad about that, but
I really don't care. I genuinely don't get well. I
think that's I don't know that anybody should be upset
about that because you are wrong.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
You know better, you know what I'm saying. Even if
even if.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
You feel like your child should reach out to you,
even if you feel like this kid should know better.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
You know who does no better? Your hell.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Hell, you should automatically assume responsibility and do the right thing,
but you you don't because you're manipulative and you're a predator,
and that's what people don't want to sit with. So
I mean, shout out to her for getting her walk
or her Walk of Fame star and all the success
with the memoir. I personally will not be reading the book, don't.
(33:42):
I don't want to hear nothing else I don't hear.
I'm gonna watch The Cinderella one more time with Whitney
and the Chinese Man, and that's it.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
That's the Brandy I love. And yeah, yeah, I love Brandy.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
I still love Brandy. I wish I could have went
to that Monica and Brandy tour. I mean, girl, they'll
be big. Yeah when she when she want she she's promoting.
You know, Brady and Monica have done a lot over
the last few years recently, so I think that they
I don't think I don't see them slowing down at all.
I don't see anything as like. I don't see anything
(34:18):
as like, uh, the end of anything. The Boy's Mind
is something that we obviously wanted, though, I think that
was fair. But so another thing that happened this weekend,
So shout out to the ad because Atlanta, Atlanta, we
have all four day this weekend April fourth. As everyone
knows the original area code for you know, phone numbers
in Atlanta, and Atlanta did what Atlanta does. Shots rang
(34:43):
out at Piedmont Park. Two people will injured, one child deceased.
Oh my god, but shy you Yeah, her name was well,
she was sixteen year old girl. Her name was Tianna Robinson.
She was just an innocent bystander. She was there for
her mom, trying to celebrate like everybody else. And so
this is what I mean when I say now, I
(35:05):
was out there. You was out there and me me
Lisa Eve walked the belt line and we have four
peed my park, and I saw how many people are
out there, and my spirit like, I said, we can't
because we were riding scooters. I said, let's turn around
because this doesn't feel right. And baby, they got the
(35:26):
shooting right after that. Oh my god, Jorlane, I'm so
happy y'all turned around.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Girl.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Yes, discernment that woman intuition was working, honey, it was working.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
It just too much.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
And this is why I don't be going out, Like
I'll tell people, if I don't have to go outside
after dark, I don't want to go. You can invite
me to stuff if it's absolutely necessary that I come,
then I'll be there. But I would be wanting to
do stuff after dark because people, you got all these
white ends out here, their faces covered up, they carrying guns,
which I don't know where a sixteen year old seventy
year old was go at gun from. Obviously illegal means yeah,
(35:58):
of course, but you know, this is what they're doing.
And these kids ain't got nothing to do. Like you
outside talking about you got ops and stuff.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
You're a child, you are. I'm just so people don't
I guess. I don't know. Girl, I'm a little old school,
so correct me if I'm wrong.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
People don't do the neighborhood thing no more. They shoot
out and at functions and stuff like that. Now, like
they don't beef with like, oh I don't like this
neighbor and then we're gonna go around there in this
neighborhood and do that. They like go where a lot
of people are, like people are having functions, and that's
where they shoot people.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Well, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
I don't know if they intentionally went out there to
beef with anybody. Yeah, I just think that there was
there was an altercation and the next thing you know,
people got shot, which is so sad because that was
supposed to be a day of celebration and it was
a beautiful the sun was shining, the weather was great.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
There was a breeze.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
But girl, we was out there with no leaves on on,
eating crap.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
Taking stop. You know, I'm done, don't be quiet, right
What else happened? And then we.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
Because I wanted to tell you, we we went to
Bar Taco in the Highlands area.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
I'll have to take you to how I've been there.
I'm about to say I've been there.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
It's a beautiful location. It's very it's very like to
me and now it's.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Getting lole gentrified. But it's on the backside of the
belt line. You can walk.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
You can literally walk to the belt line from there.
And we had Bar Taco, which was great. Then we
had Barcelona wine bar. We had a charcoci board and
some f.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
I like, I like the girl. We went up there.
Speaker 1 (37:58):
We ate out of people food, they and you know,
got the hotel and stuff and next thing you know,
we was doing karaoke because that's where it was safe
at Yeah, that part, that part.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
Friend, This is how it is in large seas. I
keep trying to tell people this.
Speaker 1 (38:15):
When you have a large inner city, like there's crime,
there's homelessness and poverty, there's all of these things in
the inner city, and a lot of times these kids
don't be having resources and things to do because you know,
they they they they're not putting the money, you know,
into the after school programs and the sports programs and
and just anything for kids to do.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
Like on the weekend.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
You got to think Atlanta is at largely there's like
three or four colleges just in Atlanta. Okay, so regardless
of who was here, it's mad children, yeah, regardless, but
kids transitioned into adulthood. So there's a lot of clubs,
a lot of brunch spots, a lot you know what
I mean, there's a lot for that age range here.
(38:59):
And I think that you know, when you add alcohol
and he drink, look if you book, you know, just.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Kind of way.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Hey, I'm so sorry to rest in peace to that
young girl who was just out there probably with her family,
just enjoying the good weather. Like you told me, I'm
sorry condon't insist to her and her family. That is
so sad because you know, her life was short. It
was short lived, like she didn't get to really enjoy
her life. And I'm sorry about that. And like I
don't know what to do about like the gun laws
(39:33):
in Atlanta.
Speaker 2 (39:34):
You know what I'm saying, because.
Speaker 1 (39:35):
It was I'm sure the guns were illegal, So it
doesn't matter if you stop it.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
You get what I mean? Like, you know this open
cara bab but you know you just go. You can
a big sport and goods. A grabby one is crazy.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
Do y'all have to like no license, no nothing. You
could just go get to God as long as you
of age. You have to have a perp. There was
my phone talk to me. You have to have a
permit for it. But it's an open carriagetate. You can
just have one on your hip, you know, like you
don't really need to not anymore, Jahie, what do you
mean not anymore?
Speaker 2 (40:05):
He's saying, not anymore? Oh, so this is I did
not know that. I did not know that you no more.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
That's crazy, that's psychotic that now now they just want
people to get shot because that.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Is pre crazy. What in the world anytime?
Speaker 1 (40:21):
Because you know people white people are so high headed
these days where they feel like they can say anything
to you and do anything to you, and so I
feel like this, really that's scary, you know what I mean,
Why would you lift the permit.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
That's terribly just. They don't care about the realifications.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
Unfortunately, they like white people, want to protect their you know, second.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
Amara is it second Amarica? Second amm of rights?
Speaker 1 (40:42):
And you know, black people want to be able to
defend themselves. And I think I think there's nothing wrong
with people wanting to defend themselves. I think that's fair.
But I think if we actively worked on changing the
circumstances in this country, people wouldn't need that. Like you
got you got people robbing gas stations because they can't eat. Yeah,
(41:03):
so let's raise minimum wage and increase job opportunities and
pour back into these communities.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
Exactly. They're not going to do that.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
So now you have Now you have gun violence. You see,
you know what I'm saying. So there's that, and I
hate it. But like you said, met that young lady,
rest in peace. It's such a sad situation for you
to think you just about to go have a good
time with your people and you don't make your home.
That part, that part uh friendless and on a lighter
(41:32):
No that hope that wasn't the last thing.
Speaker 2 (41:35):
Yeah, the last thing. Hold on.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
I want to talk about how much fun we had
in Highland one more time, because I don't think y'all
know y'all need to be on our page watching for
the updates, because we are posting clips, were posted behind
the scenes, we posted food reviews, we posted the excursions
and stuff that we did.
Speaker 2 (41:55):
And we really didn't have a blast.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
So if you like, if you want to travel, don't
let people. Don't especially don't let what this country is
going to discourage you, because I've been to a few
countries and I can tell you America is an outlier. Okay, girl,
I mean all the rest of the world works. Okay,
it's not different outside of America.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
And don't get me started on the food. You talk
about quality food.
Speaker 1 (42:18):
Everywhere I've been the food is so much better because
they not spraying La saw on everything.
Speaker 2 (42:23):
Okay, that's like all that.
Speaker 1 (42:26):
Pest aside and trying to kill us and pulling it up.
Are on thank pumping out and now we got faith food.
Now chicken fake chicken can be y'all. Please if you
if you have the funds, but let me tell you
this real quick, you don't really need the funds.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
You just need to get the flight. The only thing
that's going to cost you a lot of money is
getting over there. Once you get there, it is so affordable, y'all.
Speaker 1 (42:49):
I promise you a lot of those apartments already come furnished.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
The rent is like six hundred dollars. You'll never see
that here.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Like the food is dirt cheap, good quality to people
are nice.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
Like the people are actually nice.
Speaker 1 (43:03):
I feel like a lot of places I go sometimes
unless it's like in the South, everybody is so mean
with a chip on their shoulder. Everybody like especially I'm
from DC, so I'm from the DMV area. I'm from
PG County, but especially in the DMV, everybody get baby,
They cuts you out, They're gonna look at you crazy,
people not walking past you and smiling. Don't nobody want
(43:23):
to smile. You know what I'm saying That people are cool.
But at the same time, you gotta know where you at.
You gotta know your surroundings. I will tell you, the
DMV is nothing like North Carolina. That's what I'm going
to compare it to, Right, It's nothing like that. You're
not going to get that energy off of people. They
not just super duper duper friendly around here. And it's
just like even when I go to Atlanta, although we're
(43:44):
talking about that situation.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
People are a lot more friendly in Atlanta too, though, like.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
I haven't experienced I haven't experienced no shade. I'm sure
shade out there, but I genuinely have not experienced it.
I mean, I've had a really good time in Atlanta.
Anybody off come in council with, they all been super sweet.
But I'm just saying, like I just I don't know, y'all.
Y'all gotta explore the world and just know there is.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
More out there to do.
Speaker 1 (44:08):
There's so much more out there to do than just
what you've been doing. You know the area already, you
don't live there forever, you know all the people that
is to know.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
I mean, you ain't tied yet, y'all.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
That, but it's just a different experience. It open your
mind up once you when you see what other people
are doing in other countries, you can't come back here
and live the same way. It should inspire you to
do something else or want something else. That's why I
encourage everybody to travel, even if you like, move away
from your hometown.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
Also even if you move back, even if you move back, just.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
Go live somewhere else because there is something so fulfilling
about figuring out who you are when you're not attached
to parents and childhood friends and cousins and the people
that are your comfort zone. You need to know who
you are outside of your comfort zone because you will
find you will find that that is not who you are.
Speaker 2 (44:56):
Yeah, so true, and it's so true. And you know what, y'all.
Speaker 1 (44:59):
If you if you want to hear more advice from
us on travel, just meet us here.
Speaker 2 (45:03):
On Thursdays.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
Every Thursday, every Thursday on YouTube. If you want to
see the visuals, or if you like to listen to us,
you can listen to us wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit
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Speaker 2 (45:21):
Time your girls a grid, all right, so I will. Thanks. Bye,
What's if everybody, it's your girl in describer bar kah
cherln Lake checking in with one other that my bestie
for the rest of Lene Monday, and you are listening
to that, she said the first podcast and urber one
podcast on the RB one podcast network. Oh yeah, before
we get out what Oh, I ain't know what she
(00:22):
was about to say. You didn't even let me get yeah,
because I want to talk about what irritated me. Okay,
you know what irritated you this week?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Friend?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Well, Jolenne sends me the most wholesome video with our
friends that we made in.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Thailand when we went to were our.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Friends both of us, not one or the other. So
you can't have one without the other. Okay, oh this
is so cute.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Whatever tell our friends from Tyland.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
They decided to fill me in and send me the
actual video of what actually hopping on.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Carryok like when they.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Went out, maybe they was running up and down the ouse.
They they was passing the mic saft of people. They
was passing the piece like the no good and god
damn well, this girl send me one video of her
doing a little two steps. That was it, and that
showed me her running up and down pop locking and
dropping it all over the restaurant. I can't believe you
(01:33):
did that. I can't believe you cut up that bad
without me Over here, she is exageraate y'all, I gave
one person of microphone three and what about that running
up and down the owl?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Okay? So okay, so let me clarify it.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
No, oh now, yeah, about happen with my my My
home gun said, oh girl, we're coming to Atlanta. I said, okay,
I want to see I And so she was like, okay,
we're gonna be there this time.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
But woo. So we went out to launch and everything,
and I was like, well, what you going for the
rest of the night. She was like everyhing.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
I said, okay, well, let's hang out, let's do something.
They was like, y'all, I want to do karaoke. I
was like, yeah, we can do karaoke. But at the
time I had plans with my men, my men and
my man. But my man love juicy Crab and guess
what they do on Saturdays on just a juice crap.
They had karaoke and my Homegrouy was like, well, I
want to do hooker too. I said, well, guess what
else they got it just a crab, they got hooker
and karaokee. I said, so enough brainer, So I called
(02:38):
my men, my men and my men, and I said,
let's go down to the karaokee spot and do and
get some crab legs and stuff. And so he really
really really wanted to sing this song, and I was like,
babe bye on the song. But he sang the song anyway.
So I was up there from the round. But the
song was very kid. I just wanted to show her
that part the is wancheous. Then went behind my these
skeezers matter of fact, and when they the podcast, they're
(02:59):
gonna know exact, letting me know, y'all real once I
love it. These look these these floozies went behind my
back and said, evidence is what I'll call it.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Evidence were doing.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Kirk Franklin, were doing no scrubs by TLC. We had
that place rocking, babe on. I think I know how
to do on the shop, okay, and that's all I know.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
So bad it was. It was bad, y'all. Y'all so bad.
Ain't said on me had a blast, not ball.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
We We really did, though, And this is why I've
been bullying for months to move to Atlanta, because if
you wanted to be at the karaoke, you should have been.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Here, Alanda.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah, because got your gas light in me right, don't
get I've been through it. I'm not People get out
in the using all the terms they learn the therapy.
This is love bombing, and I don't with NARCISSI.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I don't want to be trauma bonding right now because
the triangulation is crazy crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I don't want to they pick everywhere they know that's
you know what. That's what irritated me this week. I'm
glad we're on the subject.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, well I brought it up. That's what irritated me
this week.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Using every word you learn the therapy to describe sometuffing
and got nothing to do with the actual definition of
those terms because you don't even know what to me
and you not even using it right, But you don't
got your degree, okay, dropped out in sixth grade. Got
exactly trying to tell people. But girl, sometimes you know
(04:44):
what I think would have saved a lot of us.
I mean, I know that a higher education is not
accessible and affordable for everyone, but sometimes you can go
to like a little trade school or something. You can
get a certification, a certification of something, you know, maybe online.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
School and paid the money bag.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
There are a lot of options, and unfortunately a lot
of us don't get exposed to those options.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
And girl, what I think.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I think the next story is a direct reflection of
what happens when people don't get educated.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Girl, what happened?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh my god, friend, I'm starting to ask me why
that man Boo Shisky and kidnapped Gucca May. Now, this
is this is such a wild, unhead story. I didn't
even think we was going to be talking about this
in twenty twenty six, but here it is on my
bingo card.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
But he still stuck back then when it was given that.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I mean, yeah, so you know, he went to he
went to prison. He just got out in October. He
served three years of a five year sentence, and he
released the song and went triple double platinum first day out.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Everybody loved it.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Right now, in January, he called to meet him a
Gucha Maine in Dallas and he wanted, you know, he
was worrying an ankle monitor.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
He was on probation and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
But this meeting just went and left when bu Shisky
ended up robbing Gucca Maine and his men.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Now you know he's tiying the Gucci label.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So it's like, baby, I don't think y'all know how
to conduct business meetings because if this is what you
thought it was supposed to turn into.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
So you you fear we've lost the plot?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, for sure, definitely lost the plot. Even happened he
told him he couldn't get off that contract. He said, no,
that's how that happened.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
He said, of jail, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
And he fresh out of jail, and he don't know
how to hear.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
No, he ain't know how to go about it the
right way, and so he did what he thought he
could do because he thought it was some street coat.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
He don't realize that Gucci has changed. You know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Okay, Gucci is not the same Guccie we knew back then.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
You know what I'm saying, Heavy do Gucci?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
That ain't the same one you sad today?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
That's not the same.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Okay, just bought her double just bought a double rack.
Throw some DS on it. Okay, but slip I am Okay,
this is uh weight loss t from Okay, this is
(07:11):
a different Gucci that you're talking to. He's talked to
that one like that. Okay, he will call the police.
The police and he didn't involved. Yep, okay, don't get
the maturnis involved. So I feel like po Shisty thought
he was dealing with one person, didn't realize he was
dealing with another one.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
I don't think it's just so dumb, like what are
what are we actually doing?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I think this is such a silly thing to be
talking about because unfortunately, you know, like that's that kind
of lifestyle is celebrated in our community, you know, being
a rapper, carrying guns and drugs.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
And all this stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
And I think, uh, you know, like when you're when
you're in that mode, you think that that's the only
way to operate, and it's you know, it's just not.
And so I think he's learning a valuable lesson. Uh,
you just got out of prison, it's given you want
to go back.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
He definitely went back, He's for sure.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
When you violated probation, you didn't tell them where you
were going, you had guns on you, you held somebody hostage,
you force them to sign a contract against their will.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
You're going back is really so you have a luck.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Of time to think about maybe how if you get
out again, how you can handle situations differently like these.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't know what what else are we How else
are we going to handle it?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Because after that you want to be out this contract
that bad baby, Let me just tell you you're out here.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
You have to worry about me. Baby, You ain't about me,
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Nobody else is gonna want to sign you. Like if
I knew you act like that when.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Things don't go your way, I will never sign you
to my label.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Like the shan't be canceled. Oh yeah, and we know
that like in that industry, learn them out. You can
get black balls so easy, Like as soon as somebody
here you did something, people no longer want to work
with you there, So you kind of might have just
shot yourself in the foot with that. Okay, Well where
you know, friends, I don't know, because the only people
that get canceled are women because they went on Chili
(09:16):
asked about the Trump and Kanye just had a show
and it sold out after making them them and submitted
calling I listen, I look you Lauren up there.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
How you gonna win when you we ain't right with
them at Sounds of the Mess and I want to.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Sounds of the Mass and why Yeah, this is why
all these years we felt like it was not justified
for people to be on her about being late to
all these shows. She's like, well, God determines when I
get here, ma'am. You are dismistic for people have taken
off their jobs, they've driven to your show, or they
flew to your show, they got a hotel for the
night for your show, and then you show up or
I was like, Lauren.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
He's health four hours.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
It is disrespectful and yeah, and then sit up here
and these people keep getting up here and supporting this man.
And here's the thing, It's a cycle. I said this,
Kanye is going to get up here and tell us
he has mental health issues. He's been doing this for years.
He's gonna tell us he got mental health issues. Then
he gonna circle back and he gonna find God. He
did that with the Sunday Service, did he? He dress
(10:25):
dropped just dropped another video where he's back again in church.
I don't know while Michael Jackson was on the back road,
but Michael Jackson was up in there, but he's talking
about right now, what are you talking about? Yeah, And
it's crazy that you would think that I'm making this up.
But see what this is what Kanye West did and
(10:45):
then he dropped the show. He went on He's saying
that he's doing these shows and people are buying these
these tickets and the record time and I think in
UK is having a show now. They just canceled it
because you know he's headlining it. But I mean, for
somebody to create merch with swastikas on it saying white
lives matter and all this fan.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Slavery was a choice. That was crazy. That's other conary,
that's straight up conary.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
And for y'all to continue to support him, why are
we not holding are we not holding him acoutable because
he's a black man, Because I genuinely feel like a
lot of times when people saying will if it was
a white man, y'all want him, he would.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Still be wrong.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
He would still very much be wrong. But you know what,
this is exactly where people miss me with that bullshit.
Y'all can edit that out or not, because this is
exactly what I mean it In the same way they
treat R Kelly trying to separate the person from the artists.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
People staying on this all day long, like what is
the artist?
Speaker 1 (11:44):
But are y'all paying attention? You cannot separate the person
from the artist. They like, Oh, R Kelly did da
da da, But his music still here. It's a song
out right now that drives me crazy. That's going viral.
That's R Kelly, girl, how I saw that. It's going
(12:06):
about y'all making this man money in jail is the
most stressful thing to me.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
And it's like, it's.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Not it's not all. We all saw a video of
com beeing on a child.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
Hello, we saw that.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
And it's not just that it's that, of course, but
how he treated women overall. He kidnap people's children and
wouldn't give them back. Like, y'all don't brainwashing women. You
see them on there doing interviews and they are whoa, whoa, Okay,
there are no lights in that house.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Girl.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Not to mention marrying Elijah as a literal child and
lying about it.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
But number like y'all don't. Y'all don't see what the
issue were.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
This is a pedophile, but y'all like pedophiles, right, and
I think that's the issue. It's like people are so
busy trying to justify why they still support the music
they want to forget about all the things people say
how much they hate you in this I ain't thinking
for Nicki Minaj. She is a horrible person to me, literally,
not just not just the recent Trump support stuff. People
(13:09):
have been calling Nikki mean for you or ever. She
hates women. She liter really hates women, and don't let
you be in the same. She only rock with you
if she feels like you're not.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Better than her.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
If you're better than her, she got beef with you
if you transh did she want to be your friend?
Can'ts be a okay? She loved beted Us no shade
to JT.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
I love her, but she's also really cool with JT.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I'm not saying anything's wrong with jac but I'm just
saying certain people she's gonna connect with because she don't
think you better than her.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
That don't mean you dying. I'm just telling you from
her or you being with somebody, that she be great school.
It's off bar Ain't the name off bar Or? Is
that the girl Rashida one of them? I don't know.
That kind of looks similar, but.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Yeah, the only reason she became cool with them is
because they be from McCarty. It's just like, I don't know,
I would never be so pressed to be cool with
somebody because I let me know, all yes, her ogbar
v her like she was beefing with Cardi B.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
But I think it was her name Rashida or something
like that. I remember because they got into a fight.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
And her husband and girl, her career is over.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
After I love Mille.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Now that is somebody who's gonna follow girl When I
say Marsha the beating her own drum ky, Michelle literally
doesn't care what you say about her. She don't care
what y'all got going on over there. This is literally
somebody who just do what she want to do. And
she can sing and she's not just an R and
B singer like the girl being Yoda leg country like
she is well a degree, yes, and she can play
(14:57):
the piano as well, produces a lot of her own music.
That's how when she when she took off from love
and hip hop, I was so excited because a lot
of them didn't have They had all.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
The love and no hip hop. And then it's her
Cardi B.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
You know, that was another one that platformed off of
love and hip hop, and Jocelyn is still I don't
know what's happening, but I ain't seen no music except
for doing like It's.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
My Big day, Baby, Do it like it's my big day.
Do it? Do it like shut. I don't know what
happened with her. I know she said she got off them.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Drugs, and she said she changed her life, and honey,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
It's something about that.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
She as mean as hell on that Joscelyn's caparet. They
said that she talked to them girls wild and crazy.
You have to kiss up to her. She don't treat
them right.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Just no respect for women.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Another yet another woman who has no respect for women,
Like it's just why do y'all want to keep being
around them yet? Just do a show with all niggas,
Like if that's where your mind is. But then if
you do it, they're gonna call you a whole She is?
She she is, said she she had a she's a strimper.
(16:19):
She don't want to go back to the strip club.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
That's what I can't go back, Steebee.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I can't made a whole lifestyle off prostitution. She is,
she's okay, she's fine and she could fight. She could fight,
so she's fine around all, no problem. Yeah, I think
I think I see where you're going with that. I
think it's just so unfortunate how especially in this industry,
we we promote and we applaud, and when we praise
(16:45):
abusers literally literally, the more abusive you are, the more
you can be forgiven. Uh, Kanye, as we talked about
as a prime example, Nicki Minaj, the barbs are literally
just brainless at this point.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Because I supposed to an a video of herself.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I was like, girl, don't see just walking, just walking
and smile and it didn't look nothing like her, like Selena,
It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
So you just spect the.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Mexican and then saw that there. But I mean, girl, listen,
this is what they leave people. People are people get
preferential treatment. Uh, and they're you know, especially I mean
men more so than women. But just if you are
mean and nasty to women, I think that people love you,
(17:38):
and which which brings me to my next story about
platforming abusers. Because now let me preface this by saying,
I know a lot of people love dating older men.
I got myself one too, but as an adult, as
a thirty six year old woman. I'm dating an OPRA person,
not as a sixteen year old girl, which is how
old Brandy was when her and one year Morris of
(18:00):
what SMA had sex.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Right, she just dropped her memoir and you know, everybody's
excited to read about her life because I mean, she's
the vocal Bible. She just got her star on the
Hollywood Walk of Fame and everybody celebrating her her success
and everything. And then we started singing more about this
relationship with juan Ye Morris and the most you know,
obviously there.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Was an age gap. I think he was twenty two.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
But here's what Wanye had to say on the Breakfast
Club a while ago, and it's to me, it's just disgusting.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Oh my god. Okay, let me see sheesuys no, I
was young too. She said she was fifteen and she
had to keep it a secret.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Nah nah see see we we did the hag We
did the thing when she was like sixteen seventeen around
that time. You know, so you were still the boy too,
Yeah I was. I wasn't true. I wasn't old thirty
years old enough that I was old enough to do
she was old enough to get it.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Legal in the state, y'all.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
I mean we was always in different stations.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
All right, that's a wrap. Oh my god, are you serious?
Right now? Are you serious? You know what I hate
when people laugh about shit like that? Angela, Angela. He
is in the background laughing as well.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
The interview goes on, and she's making jokes as well,
and I'm just like, I can't understand how y'all hear
this man say he was twenty two when she was
fifteen sixteen having sex with her.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
That is illegal, that is the least. And you see
how see this? What dudes do?
Speaker 4 (19:30):
This?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
What people do anyway, try to try to like blur
the truth talking about why wasn't thirty eight?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
What about the twenties? Yeah, what about them twenties?
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Were you of legal age should be having sex with
a sixteen year old?
Speaker 2 (19:42):
He was like, she was old enough to get it.
That's wow. That's a wild statement. It sounds so degrading.
When I was like, ill, because what is it. Lock
him up? He already admitted to the crime. Just lock
him up. I don't care. He already said he did.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
But Nick, I'm pretty sure the stats for the and
ran out on that. However, I will say that I
saw reports that her mom had basically given permission, like
once she found out about it, I'm like, so it's
okay because her mom said it was okay. Y'all don't
understand like a child cannot consent, okay, And the problem
is not The problem is not about what you think.
(20:19):
The problem is that you are dealing with somebody. There
is a power imbalance, right. You obviously know more than
this child, You've experienced more than this child. You are
taking advantage of someone who has not does not have
long experience to participate in what you're trying to engage in.
That is and that is abuse, yeah, for sure. And
(20:42):
I pray that her mother did not approve of that,
because why would you do that to your daughter.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I understand that she's in the industry. I understand that she's.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
Around older men, but there's a lot of younger guys
that was coming up around that time as well. It
didn't have to be a twenty two year old. I
don't care how popular he was, like, and it goes
talk about it, mm hmm, talk about it, trying to
think if I want to deal with it, because you know,
they get offended.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Friend, I'm.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I'm gonna throw it out there discose for jay Z
and Beyonce as well. We're really not gaining attention to
what was really going on, y'all.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Like it's just he is older.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Because they're old. I want to say jay Z was
what they're like, fourteen years apart. Yes, he probably is
like thirty. I think I thought they met when she
was likeeen. Oh yeah, thirty eighteen, so he so, okay,
it's a little older, but it's still it's still a
huge gap. But he did wait until she was at
(21:45):
least over eighteen, but that's still super young at the
end of the day. That's still to me, I don't
want to deal with. I don't care if you're just legal.
I am thirty six years old. There is nothing interesting
about a nineteen year old to me. We don't have
anything in common for me at all at all. And
I like to go out and have on my friends
and sit at the bar. I to sit at the
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bar and all of my drinks, like what's you want?
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Bo'd you? We just getting appetizers? I think not. I
know she used to walk but a salad for the
last because because now.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
You're okay, he's on the dance floor like he's gonna
have to be because he can't at the word.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
He's gonna have to be because he can't be at
the bar. Oh my god. Yeah, he is so crazy.
He did wait until she got old enough. But this
is sick. This right here, that sixteen and twenty two
is wild. But this is our culture. Though.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Our culture has convinced women that we need to look younger,
look younger, look younger. Okay, remove the hair off your body.
We want it smooth. Why because we look like children.
I strongly believe that I know I'm gonna catcheat for this,
but I strongly believe a lot of Western beauty standards
are heavily rooted in pedophilia. And when you found out
(23:10):
that the president was eating children, not only do they
want to have sex with them, they literally want to take.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Me through that, take me through that. Yeah, and that's insane,
that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
But this is not far fetched because white people eight slaves, you.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
So when you think about when you think about the history,
like men, white men, specifically white men have a history
of grading people to a point past you know, the
humanization and so what this is.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
What we are, this is what we are being taught.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
Yeah, places it's okay to date one man or you know,
send your daughter off to someone. And she's only twelve
or thirty, and she just said whenever she hits puberty,
it's okay to marry. Get y'all off, yeah, to someone else,
and for them to start a family with some range.
Some of them don't even know it's an arranged marriage.
They've never seen them a day in their life and
they just get married and started life. So that is
(24:14):
it does happen really really really young. And it is sick.
It is sick, and I do believe that it is conditioned.
And yeah, it just it.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Makes my skin crawl. I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
When I was younger, I was dating dudes older and
I would be like sixteen and eight be eighteen. That's
the oldest that I've ever like talked to someone. Where
I was younger, like where I was like a senior
in college and I had a boyfriend. I was a
senior in high school and I had a boyfriend who
was a freshman in college and I kept that a secret. Yeah, yeah,
because it was like, well, this is in college, you know,
(24:47):
but it's not I have never wanted I think the
oldest gap I had was like when I was I
think maybe when I was like twenty three or something.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
I dated somebody who was thirty four, But that's like grown.
But I was still twenty three. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
My doubt, my prefrontal CORSEX had fully developed, which means
I probably still suck at making decisions. But you know,
I'm a little bit older, and I think that you know,
it's just me and just want a lot of men
just want to have sex with children, And I think
that that's what it all boils down to.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
They want to have sex with children, and they will
find a way to make it. Okay.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
I think I hear men talk so bad about women
once they get to a certain age.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Their whole thing is to make you feel like you old.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Ain't nobody gonna want you, if you ain't got kids,
you're not marry, you're not settled down by that, and
you're pretty much dried up because now now all the
men want someone who is younger.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
Okay, I can not me. I't talk about this. I
can't keep them off me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Okay, However, They make it seem like once you hit
thirty six or thirty and up, don't nobody want nothing
to do with you anymore.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
I don't. And that's exactly a lie. Oh girl, it's
such a lie.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
But the thing is they just want people that they
they want an imbalance of power is what they want. Men,
unfortunately a lot of times, are only doing things for control.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
You gotta think, let's circle back to our killing.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
This man at the height of his career, had women
throwing themselves at him.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Women.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Don't forget that part of that part he's at he's
backstage wanting to have sex with children outside.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
It's about it.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
It's about control, it's about dominance, it's about power. It's
never about oh, we just have so much in coming.
I just you know, younger women have less baggage. No,
you want somebody who can manipulate it. You can tell.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
But Scott is green. When you know theyn will it
ain't exactly.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
And then so that part aside, you trying to get
somebody who ain't gonna check you. You don't want somebody
to see that glisten up there like that, Okay? That
hard women who have less will they will look up
to you, and they will make you feel you know,
somebody who ain't never had a least, I ain't never
(26:57):
had a car in they name, they gonna love, they
gonna love that forty year old men me frankly the
way I and I know my dad watching Daddy, and
the way I love you for making sure I wasn't
out here just looking for a validation from goodness. Even
if I made even if I was with somebody and
it didn't make sense and I made some mistakes, I
(27:19):
had enough. I had enough love at home and enough
of a foundation to get up out of it. But
these they prey on women. Because I seen cross seen
the video the other day. This dude was like, come
with me as me and my wife sleeping our car tonight.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I said, wait, why, why, why and why am I coming?
It ain't enohing room for me? And take that lady
back to her daddy house.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
Lord, have mercy, I mean immediately, And this is their lifestyle.
Then at the end of the video he was like,
so are we homeless or are we just living rent free?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
You're homeless.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
You're very homeless because they're not. That's not home, sir,
excuse me. I'll talk about it, talk about frying chicken.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
In the park and and enjoy the sun.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Said, ma'am, if that man can't provide shelter for you,
go back to your dad house. And I know you like,
I don't like when y'all alloted me and college content.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Get up out my.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
Face and take that lady back to her daddy house
because my dad. Soon as my Dadda found out I
was living with a nigga who had me in a
car overnight, my mother would.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Tell that car park engine out of that card. Oh
y'all are a part. She's coming with me. I know
you lying. She's not rocking like that, Londa, do not
playing about me and that. Oh no, I've.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Always been very self sufficient, almost hyper independent, if you will,
And I do get that from my mother, who is
extremely hyper independent also. And with that, you know, you
do attract some sprigulars, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
You attract some people who don't have it all, and.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
So you know, you gotta have a level of discernment
and situations like that. But I do feel poor because
I feel like she might be in a vulnerable space
where she doesn't really know what it's like to be loved,
and so this man could be brainwashing her or manipulating her.
And a believe in that if you love somebody, you'll
stay with them through everything and I'll get it out.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
The mode and we're gonna do this and we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
That, not realizing love does not have to be suffering.
You don't have to suffer through love. You don't have
to not get the things that you really desire because
you love someone. At some point, at some point, it
becomes abuse at something.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Absolutely, I don't want anything out of the mud. I
just clean my.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Clean things before you give them to me. And I
don't you know, like people be like, oh, well, you
got to learn how to. I don't want to. Like
I'm learning about myself. The more I work and the
more money I accumulate for myself, the less I want
to work, Like Marta, if I pray this man works out,
because I don't want to and and he's decided that
(30:01):
that's okay. I don't want to do the work, doing
all of the work and in my professional life and
I gotta come home and work at this so I
got I'm working around the clock. There is no level
where I get any what anytime to just relax and
chill and just live a soft girl lifestyle. No, because
(30:21):
that's how the soft girl life comes from money though
it don't come from a man. And that's the hack
that a lot of women listen. The money is the
game changer. Yeah, so I'm gonna keep making money until
I'm comfortable enough.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
But if that man say anything he can believe and.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Say he want to get you some money, I'm getting done.
I'm taking that. I I need the money. I mean
by money, Okay, let me get that. Gonna get that, y'all.
Speaker 2 (30:51):
Okay. But you know that's that's that's how a lot
of times that works out.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
And you know, unfortunately with this Brandy and One situation,
it wasn't in balance of power.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
She was allowed to be manipulated and taking advantage of, and.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
All these people was around watch like it wasn't a
secret book, you know what I'm saying. Like, I know,
people like to think that they're keeping secrets, but if
one person knows about it, it's not a secret.
Speaker 2 (31:12):
Oh my god. And why was everybody on a lead
like that? Because I feel like Timerland just said something.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Not just saying it, but he came on and did
something about it, like he always was in love with her,
and I'm just like why, Yeah, they want to have
sex with children. We just talked about these. I just
said they want to have sex with children. That's what
they do. And so this man, this man married saying
(31:38):
stuff like this. That's the craziest part. Baby, if I
married somebody, I don't care who it is.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
I don't have any excess. I've never ated anyone before
this man. No, I haven't. No, sorry to that man.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
I do not know this man if he's wouldn't know
that man, nobody. I love my husband and that is
that's it. Don't come around here trying to where you
know where you used to. Yeah, I feel get all
out of here.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
So I mean that.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
I pray that Brandy gets whatever she needed from this
because releasing this into the wild for people to attack her,
because now people of course are defending one.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
You ain't saying Brandy wasn't a victim.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
She knew what she was doing and a lot of
all this stuff and not just children can't consent, and
I want the adult.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Is the predator. Yet she was a victim. It's just
like people who don't reach out to their kids. And
be like, well, they could call me.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
So now you don't have no relationship with your child
because you think it's their responsibility to have a relationship
with the.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
When you're the problem.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
When you're the problem, and you're the reason why the
relationship doesn't exist in the first place.
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
You reach out to the child, you try to have
a relationship with them. Why are they trying to track
you down and have one with you?
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Like it?
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Don't love adult is responsible. That's the one who takes responsibility.
And I know y'all gonna be mad about that, but
I really don't care. I genuinely don't get well. I
think that's I don't know that anybody should be upset
about that because you are wrong.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
You know better, you know what I'm saying. Even if
even if.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
You feel like your child should reach out to you,
even if you feel like this kid should know better.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
You know who does no better? Your hell.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Hell, you should automatically assume responsibility and do the right thing,
but you you don't because you're manipulative and you're a predator,
and that's what people don't want to sit with. So
I mean, shout out to her for getting her walk
or her Walk of Fame star and all the success
with the memoir. I personally will not be reading the book, don't.
(33:42):
I don't want to hear nothing else I don't hear.
I'm gonna watch The Cinderella one more time with Whitney
and the Chinese Man, and that's it.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
That's the Brandy I love. And yeah, yeah, I love Brandy.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
I still love Brandy. I wish I could have went
to that Monica and Brandy tour. I mean, girl, they'll
be big. Yeah when she when she want she she's promoting.
You know, Brady and Monica have done a lot over
the last few years recently, so I think that they
I don't think I don't see them slowing down at all.
I don't see anything as like. I don't see anything
(34:18):
as like, uh, the end of anything. The Boy's Mind
is something that we obviously wanted, though, I think that
was fair. But so another thing that happened this weekend,
So shout out to the ad because Atlanta, Atlanta, we
have all four day this weekend April fourth. As everyone
knows the original area code for you know, phone numbers
in Atlanta, and Atlanta did what Atlanta does. Shots rang
(34:43):
out at Piedmont Park. Two people will injured, one child deceased.
Oh my god, but shy you Yeah, her name was well,
she was sixteen year old girl. Her name was Tianna Robinson.
She was just an innocent bystander. She was there for
her mom, trying to celebrate like everybody else. And so
this is what I mean when I say now, I
(35:05):
was out there. You was out there and me me
Lisa Eve walked the belt line and we have four
peed my park, and I saw how many people are
out there, and my spirit like, I said, we can't
because we were riding scooters. I said, let's turn around
because this doesn't feel right. And baby, they got the
(35:26):
shooting right after that. Oh my god, Jorlane, I'm so
happy y'all turned around.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Girl.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Yes, discernment that woman intuition was working, honey, it was working.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
It just too much.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
And this is why I don't be going out, Like
I'll tell people, if I don't have to go outside
after dark, I don't want to go. You can invite
me to stuff if it's absolutely necessary that I come,
then I'll be there. But I would be wanting to
do stuff after dark because people, you got all these
white ends out here, their faces covered up, they carrying guns,
which I don't know where a sixteen year old seventy
year old was go at gun from. Obviously illegal means yeah,
(35:58):
of course, but you know, this is what they're doing.
And these kids ain't got nothing to do. Like you
outside talking about you got ops and stuff.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
You're a child, you are. I'm just so people don't
I guess. I don't know. Girl, I'm a little old school,
so correct me if I'm wrong.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
People don't do the neighborhood thing no more. They shoot
out and at functions and stuff like that. Now, like
they don't beef with like, oh I don't like this
neighbor and then we're gonna go around there in this
neighborhood and do that. They like go where a lot
of people are, like people are having functions, and that's
where they shoot people.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Well, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
I don't know if they intentionally went out there to
beef with anybody. Yeah, I just think that there was
there was an altercation and the next thing you know,
people got shot, which is so sad because that was
supposed to be a day of celebration and it was
a beautiful the sun was shining, the weather was great.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
There was a breeze.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
But girl, we was out there with no leaves on on,
eating crap.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
Taking stop. You know, I'm done, don't be quiet, right
What else happened? And then we.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
Because I wanted to tell you, we we went to
Bar Taco in the Highlands area.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
I'll have to take you to how I've been there.
I'm about to say I've been there.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
It's a beautiful location. It's very it's very like to
me and now it's.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Getting lole gentrified. But it's on the backside of the
belt line. You can walk.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
You can literally walk to the belt line from there.
And we had Bar Taco, which was great. Then we
had Barcelona wine bar. We had a charcoci board and
some f.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
I like, I like the girl. We went up there.
Speaker 1 (37:58):
We ate out of people food, they and you know,
got the hotel and stuff and next thing you know,
we was doing karaoke because that's where it was safe
at Yeah, that part, that part.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
Friend, This is how it is in large seas. I
keep trying to tell people this.
Speaker 1 (38:15):
When you have a large inner city, like there's crime,
there's homelessness and poverty, there's all of these things in
the inner city, and a lot of times these kids
don't be having resources and things to do because you know,
they they they they're not putting the money, you know,
into the after school programs and the sports programs and
and just anything for kids to do.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
Like on the weekend.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
You got to think Atlanta is at largely there's like
three or four colleges just in Atlanta. Okay, so regardless
of who was here, it's mad children, yeah, regardless, but
kids transitioned into adulthood. So there's a lot of clubs,
a lot of brunch spots, a lot you know what
I mean, there's a lot for that age range here.
(38:59):
And I think that you know, when you add alcohol
and he drink, look if you book, you know, just.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Kind of way.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Hey, I'm so sorry to rest in peace to that
young girl who was just out there probably with her family,
just enjoying the good weather. Like you told me, I'm
sorry condon't insist to her and her family. That is
so sad because you know, her life was short. It
was short lived, like she didn't get to really enjoy
her life. And I'm sorry about that. And like I
don't know what to do about like the gun laws
(39:33):
in Atlanta.
Speaker 2 (39:34):
You know what I'm saying, because.
Speaker 1 (39:35):
It was I'm sure the guns were illegal, So it
doesn't matter if you stop it.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
You get what I mean? Like, you know this open
cara bab but you know you just go. You can
a big sport and goods. A grabby one is crazy.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
Do y'all have to like no license, no nothing. You
could just go get to God as long as you
of age. You have to have a perp. There was
my phone talk to me. You have to have a
permit for it. But it's an open carriagetate. You can
just have one on your hip, you know, like you
don't really need to not anymore, Jahie, what do you
mean not anymore?
Speaker 2 (40:05):
He's saying, not anymore? Oh, so this is I did
not know that. I did not know that you no more.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
That's crazy, that's psychotic that now now they just want
people to get shot because that.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Is pre crazy. What in the world anytime?
Speaker 1 (40:21):
Because you know people white people are so high headed
these days where they feel like they can say anything
to you and do anything to you, and so I
feel like this, really that's scary, you know what I mean,
Why would you lift the permit.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
That's terribly just. They don't care about the realifications.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
Unfortunately, they like white people, want to protect their you know, second.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
Amara is it second Amarica? Second amm of rights?
Speaker 1 (40:42):
And you know, black people want to be able to
defend themselves. And I think I think there's nothing wrong
with people wanting to defend themselves. I think that's fair.
But I think if we actively worked on changing the
circumstances in this country, people wouldn't need that. Like you
got you got people robbing gas stations because they can't eat. Yeah,
(41:03):
so let's raise minimum wage and increase job opportunities and
pour back into these communities.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
Exactly. They're not going to do that.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
So now you have Now you have gun violence. You see,
you know what I'm saying. So there's that, and I
hate it. But like you said, met that young lady,
rest in peace. It's such a sad situation for you
to think you just about to go have a good
time with your people and you don't make your home.
That part, that part uh friendless and on a lighter
(41:32):
No that hope that wasn't the last thing.
Speaker 2 (41:35):
Yeah, the last thing. Hold on.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
I want to talk about how much fun we had
in Highland one more time, because I don't think y'all
know y'all need to be on our page watching for
the updates, because we are posting clips, were posted behind
the scenes, we posted food reviews, we posted the excursions
and stuff that we did.
Speaker 2 (41:55):
And we really didn't have a blast.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
So if you like, if you want to travel, don't
let people. Don't especially don't let what this country is
going to discourage you, because I've been to a few
countries and I can tell you America is an outlier. Okay, girl,
I mean all the rest of the world works. Okay,
it's not different outside of America.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
And don't get me started on the food. You talk
about quality food.
Speaker 1 (42:18):
Everywhere I've been the food is so much better because
they not spraying La saw on everything.
Speaker 2 (42:23):
Okay, that's like all that.
Speaker 1 (42:26):
Pest aside and trying to kill us and pulling it up.
Are on thank pumping out and now we got faith food.
Now chicken fake chicken can be y'all. Please if you
if you have the funds, but let me tell you
this real quick, you don't really need the funds.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
You just need to get the flight. The only thing
that's going to cost you a lot of money is
getting over there. Once you get there, it is so affordable, y'all.
Speaker 1 (42:49):
I promise you a lot of those apartments already come furnished.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
The rent is like six hundred dollars. You'll never see
that here.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Like the food is dirt cheap, good quality to people
are nice.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
Like the people are actually nice.
Speaker 1 (43:03):
I feel like a lot of places I go sometimes
unless it's like in the South, everybody is so mean
with a chip on their shoulder. Everybody like especially I'm
from DC, so I'm from the DMV area. I'm from
PG County, but especially in the DMV, everybody get baby,
They cuts you out, They're gonna look at you crazy,
people not walking past you and smiling. Don't nobody want
(43:23):
to smile. You know what I'm saying That people are cool.
But at the same time, you gotta know where you at.
You gotta know your surroundings. I will tell you, the
DMV is nothing like North Carolina. That's what I'm going
to compare it to, Right, It's nothing like that. You're
not going to get that energy off of people. They
not just super duper duper friendly around here. And it's
just like even when I go to Atlanta, although we're
(43:44):
talking about that situation.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
People are a lot more friendly in Atlanta too, though, like.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
I haven't experienced I haven't experienced no shade. I'm sure
shade out there, but I genuinely have not experienced it.
I mean, I've had a really good time in Atlanta.
Anybody off come in council with, they all been super sweet.
But I'm just saying, like I just I don't know, y'all.
Y'all gotta explore the world and just know there is.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
More out there to do.
Speaker 1 (44:08):
There's so much more out there to do than just
what you've been doing. You know the area already, you
don't live there forever, you know all the people that
is to know.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
I mean, you ain't tied yet, y'all.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
That, but it's just a different experience. It open your
mind up once you when you see what other people
are doing in other countries, you can't come back here
and live the same way. It should inspire you to
do something else or want something else. That's why I
encourage everybody to travel, even if you like, move away
from your hometown.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
Also even if you move back, even if you move back, just.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
Go live somewhere else because there is something so fulfilling
about figuring out who you are when you're not attached
to parents and childhood friends and cousins and the people
that are your comfort zone. You need to know who
you are outside of your comfort zone because you will
find you will find that that is not who you are.
Speaker 2 (44:56):
Yeah, so true, and it's so true. And you know what, y'all.
Speaker 1 (44:59):
If you if you want to hear more advice from
us on travel, just meet us here.
Speaker 2 (45:03):
On Thursdays.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
Every Thursday, every Thursday on YouTube. If you want to
see the visuals, or if you like to listen to us,
you can listen to us wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Just make sure you like, comment and subscribe and hit
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Speaker 2 (45:21):
Time your girls a grid, all right, so I will. Thanks. Bye,
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