December 5, 2025 • 16 mins
The Question of the Day has to deal with dating. How long should a woman wait until she shows a person she is dating what she looks like without makeup on? The DLHS crew debate this topic as listeners call in to give their thoughts.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's a deal. You can show your twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
The question where I answer, if you got to get
serious with somebody, you're dating somebody, when do you think
you should let them know that you have a snap
on assembly pieces like that makeup or a wig or
enhanced hairline or beard or hair unit. When do you
think that should happen? If I take you to dinner,
right this is you know, that's cool, that's yeah. But
(00:24):
when I invest in another dinner for you, I want
to know who you are?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Correct?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yeah, I don't think I think you should go to
red loftter till you reveal who you are.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
That's why you could choose.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I don't.
Speaker 6 (00:36):
I'm not not that soon in I have to really
feel like, Okay, this is something or someone that I
really like and I know they really like me as well,
and we're going to try it. Then you get to
see the real meth outside of that. I don't know,
you somewhere around intimacy. Maybe yeah, there you go.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Someone to waste money on an ugly bird. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (00:54):
I don't you need to ask can I pull this
ponytail in here fashion?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
But if I pull your ponytail, you get and then.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
You'll be mad as hell.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You went out with somebody and then they took their
hat off, and the headline you'll be mad as hells representations.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
We're not going to talk about that because I do
have a story. But the point is I don't want
to hear it.
Speaker 6 (01:21):
No, no, no, Okay, you know what I'm gonna tell you,
and you're gonna appreciate this.
Speaker 8 (01:25):
Skip.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (01:26):
I went on a day. I was a blind date. Okay,
so I didn't know what was going on. And I
meet the guy and he had a baseball cap on
and when he took his hat off, he wasn't quite
bald yet, but he was heading that direction. He was
fighting it, and I quickly got a stomach ache. I
just was like, not, this really ain't my kind of thing.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
You don't let it go. He was homey to clown.
I'm like, let it go.
Speaker 6 (01:53):
And if you don't know that, you haven't come to
grips with who you are about to be.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Okay, now, so that was right away. That was right away.
He let you know right away. You didn't want to
do that, but it was still you got you feel
like you could withhold information until when like.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
He let I agree you this intimacy.
Speaker 6 (02:14):
Once we start getting you know, we were about to
get intimate or around that time, then you can say, okay, well.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Here's the real meme.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
It gotta be before you go to Houston' because they
make you take your hand off.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't like Houston's. That's to be the test. If
you don't want to go to uth Is with me, Yes,
you can leave your head on if that's your favorite song.
Speaker 6 (02:36):
Like we were saying earlier, I thought that the woman
who went out with the guy who had a prosthetic
leg and he didn't tell her. You remember that, and
he was a basketball player. Don't even ask me how
that happened. But I thought I thought it was I
thought the woman didn't have it but arm or No, No,
it was a dude who he didn't want. He didn't
want her to come to the basketball games. She wanted
(02:58):
to surprise him. She showed up a she found out
how to prospectica.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
But they had been.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Dating for like three months. Yeah, because she didn't. She
didn't never notice that they got the park in the
good parking space. She never thought, never thought, what's with
the blue placard in your wings?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
That didn't give it away.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Why that noise when.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
It's really to make that.
Speaker 9 (03:23):
Didn't say that?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
I'm sorry? Right man?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Why are you striking a match on your thive? What
is that all about?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
It is out of the day. He can show you
a twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And now I really am not one of those transactional
dudes anyway. Even I was never a transaction like I ain't.
I mean, even though I wrote a joke if you
mistake and Loves to come with rote that he did,
I was never like if I dig your steelo, I'm
I'm I'm with it, you know, And regardless of.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
If it's the original packaging or not.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
What I don't like is to be deceived.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Like what what I don't like when I me personally
when I'm telling you that I when I find a
tract about a woman is the way she moves, he cares,
and she smells, she speaks, all those kinds of things.
But I think that the people that laid on thinking
have to have it and get up in the morning,
and there's something about themselves that they are trying to hide.
(04:19):
And I think I've never this, and I say this
all the time. You get on me for saying this,
I've never seen a woman that I didn't find something
absolutely beautiful about.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Now, I'm not saying you know that. The way you.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
What I get on you about is you always flirt
with people.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
You say crazy things that aren't true, like look at you,
you know, loss of weight and stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (04:43):
Or you were saying, look at you, you know you
got a pretty smile, look at your teeth like it's
like you you you tease and then when they lurn back,
what then they flirt back and you get all.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Nerves no, because I don't.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Save me, like all by yourself.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Now they're all you.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
You don't know what to do?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Back up?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
See you do? That's your favorite compliment.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
He was also a lot of that's not true.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know that's not Oh my gosh, So do you
think skip woman?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
You want to know first of.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
All, if you are overly made up, that's really not
my get down, you know anyway, if you overly made up,
but you know, you know.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
You need to know what you're investing in.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Yes, because you could put enough coats of paint on
anything to make it look good.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Ye a house of car Yeah, yo, man?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Have you seen those before and after the people do
those on Instagram and you they look like a different person.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
I'm like, man, sometimes the balls are still good underneath.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Yeah yeah, right, yeah, I think you got to get
a fixer upper? Is that what you just saying?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
After forty as got flaws? All of us? You know
what I mean? After forty all of us.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I don't care because I think it's beautiful if you
think you fly no matter what. But if you are
self conscious about that, then I would be It's almost.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Like when you're on stage.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
If people think that you're confident, they're gonna it goes
a different way as opposed when they're thinking you're not confident.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So I think if someone.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
I think that, if it's all a jump ball, they're
beautiful women, they're handsome men.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
It's all a jump ball.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
And it's always those little idio secrecies that make you
know somebody. But I think if you are constantly uh
you know, trying to be just so, I think it's
not I wouldn't feel comfortable around somebody that was that uncomfortable.
I'm a dope dude to hang out with, Like, so
I'm really a I laugh a lot, I hang out.
I'm like, I'm really I have never made anybody hung
(06:41):
out with me the didn't want to hang on me again. Ever,
I never don't say that, yeah kidding ever like never,
Like when I'm it's worth saying that.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Not all women or men I don't know who wear makeup.
I don't think they're always trying to cover something up
sometimes all the time. Yeah, I think some people do
it because they love it. They enjoy doing it a lot.
I enjoy doing it. I don't wear a lot of makeup,
but I sometimes I wish I knew how. After watching
TikTok and Instagram and watch it, I was like, oh,
(07:12):
I wish I could do.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
That, and I try it and that I stop hanging
out with the Latin ship.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
If you want to put makeup, you want to walk
around looking like an essay?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You want to do that? Yeah, cut your eye. But
you know they scrape the average on their dramas.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
They can do it better.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Sitting in the park waiting for you, what are we
going to be a lowrider?
Speaker 1 (07:36):
What are we doing?
Speaker 3 (07:39):
So?
Speaker 2 (07:39):
At what point do you think you should reveal that
you have a hairlined answer or unit or a wig
or makeup?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
When? When did you? When should you just let people
see who you are man or woman and food we're
going through the phones.
Speaker 10 (07:52):
So I was dating this guy and I waited a
year to let him see me without my without my
regular real are we going? I don't wear makeup because
I'm from who Ally, so I'm naturally beautiful. But I
waited a year, and when he was good and in
love but he wasn't going nowhere, I let him see
me without the week going. So but yeah, it worked
(08:14):
and he stayed around.
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Well, I'll tell you what, man, one thing. First thing first, Yes,
I need to know. I need to know you need
to show let me see that face. Uh, let me
see you in your natural form because I'm coming in
my natural form. And if we end up, you know,
having sex and mess around and have a baby, I
need to know what you look like beforehand, make sure
(08:38):
we can make a beautiful baby.
Speaker 11 (08:40):
Hi.
Speaker 12 (08:41):
My name is Mayer from the East side of Columbus.
And I think that if you guys are already sitting
and talking about the subject of getting intimate stuff, when
the conversation should be had like Hey, just so you
know I got this going on or I don't have
this going on. You already like each other because you've
been on three or four days, then that's something to
be discussed. And then when the actual infient moment happens,
(09:04):
go ahead and whiput it on out because I'm like,
let me. I'll be like, let me see the table,
because I'm like, you know, you're gonna get who you
got before I go to bed, and when I wake up,
I'm gonna look exactly the same pretty much.
Speaker 10 (09:12):
You know That's it.
Speaker 13 (09:15):
Yeah. I think with the whole fake hair, fake wigs,
things like that, I think you need to tell them
right off the back because that could be a deal breaker.
You know, some people don't like that, Like me personally,
I hate when my wife wears wigs because I feel
like she don't need to. But at the same time,
that's just a personal preference. So Amazon comes in with
(09:37):
a wig almost every week. Get tired of it. But
at the same time, it is what it is.
Speaker 11 (09:43):
First of all, please stop calling that baby hare it's Edges. Second,
all up, No, if you can't take me how I
am getting, move on because I ain't faking nothing.
Speaker 14 (09:56):
He'llo I think that immediately. Now. I don't wear makeup.
We never have a being lipstick, But I think immediately.
You should let whoever it is know what you look like,
what you really look like. Why hide it? You know
eventually going to come out. So I don't believe that
you should wait, go here and let's him see what
(10:19):
you look like.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
When do you think you should let somebody know you
have a you know, have a you know, a unit
or a beard enhancer, or a hairline or or aesthetic.
When do you reveal who you really are, whether you
want a unit, hairlin and hanswer make up.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
We're going right there. Focus.
Speaker 11 (10:40):
I think if you can share your body and kids stasionally,
you should be able to share that you wear foundation,
or you.
Speaker 12 (10:49):
Have tracks in your hair, or your fingernails aren't real.
Speaker 10 (10:52):
You should be very transparent right away.
Speaker 15 (10:56):
Okay, this is my humble opinion. First of all, it's
not just women. Y'all got to come off of that.
Men use enhancements to I think old women and men
should have a picture in their phone of how they
look without all this stuff. And it could be in
the first.
Speaker 11 (11:13):
Week or so.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Judy, she said something that but I think was very sailing.
What were you saying?
Speaker 7 (11:18):
No, I'm just saying, you know, sooner as soon as
possible is the best thing because you never know when
that it revealed is going to happen. Because back in
you know, in high school or back in college, when
you're with a chicken, you know, and things get hot
and heavy before you thought you were gonna get hot
and heavy, and then hey, she's patted all this, so
that and then.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
Come from I need to see the car.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Fact.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I told you, I told you this story. I like
this girl who I grew up with. I loved her.
I had a crush on her for a very long time,
like right, so finally she let me go out with her.
She's one of the chicks that the older dudes all
the time, so we're kind of the same.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Abe. She always diated older dude. So I got her.
I took her out and went to the movies.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
And I it'stant like she ate funny, and I was like,
a she ate weird, So she ate weird?
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Explain that.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
So then I like, I'm sixteen, seventeen sixteen, and so
I thought, well, maybe this is just crazy, because then
she started liking me, and I took her out again,
and then I just didn't talk.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
To her anymore for like three weeks, and so.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
She came over and she was like, wait, why you
were on me all these times, all this time, but
you didn't.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I said, no, it's just I would have gave you something.
But I was like, no, so.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I took out one more time. No, I took out
one more time, and I just she was just did
she too for you to say?
Speaker 8 (12:48):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah? Like a cow? Like a cow?
Speaker 8 (12:53):
No.
Speaker 6 (12:54):
But you know, I do understand that because I am
very judgmental. I don't like people who eat weird, you know,
or they make a lot of noise with their mouth.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
I'm like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (13:04):
You're not even eating, You're making all this noise or
the way things hold. But I don't think I think
those are like little ticks that you have. But in
terms of like you know, putting hair on that doesn't
belong to you, or if your guy putting a beard
(13:25):
on that doesn't belong to you, or teeth that you
have to take in, and I think all of those
are kind.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Of I've never seen men do the things I see them.
Speaker 5 (13:33):
Do that, like.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
Oh the hair, oh, and also you know, adding what
is the calf muscles and ab muscles and things like that.
Impect guys do that now they say that the amount
of surgery that men get has skyrockets.
Speaker 9 (13:50):
Can't or remember the latest surgery for men now it's
to be taller.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean. I just stand
on my wallet.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
What what?
Speaker 11 (14:07):
What?
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Now is that Jabi? I'm kidding? Time to find out
was life?
Speaker 2 (14:24):
It's like in an HBC with that boy Tray, I love?
Speaker 5 (14:47):
What's good job?
Speaker 3 (14:48):
This is that boy Tray back in with another episode
of My life on the ard inside look at HTC. Like, man,
it's something about these holiday breaks that really do it
for me, Like this was a big reset I feel
because dude, these damn teachers, this break is allowed on
me to take a breath because they wanted to kick
stuff up or us right before we left back to
(15:10):
the crib, I swear like for no reason, bro, just
ode assignments. Why do you want me stressed before I
go and spend time with the family.
Speaker 5 (15:19):
Yeah, Like I said, that is all.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
In the last week, and I'm focused on enjoying all
of the stuff I get to enjoy in Dallas that
I can't enjoy in Atlanta. Starting off, you know, like
my og food places. Even though I'm not that focused
on food this week. You know, with it being Thanksgiving
and all that, Like, I'm worried about that targeting them collagreens,
you feel me. Besides that, I get to hang out
(15:42):
with some of my friends from like high school, middle school,
even going back further than that, you know, because they
can't come see me in Atlanta. I mean they could,
but they not. You know, we ain't breded like that
to just be taking flights to visit each other, you know.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
So I get to.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Chop it up and reconvene with all my day once that,
and then you know, the family side, it really feels
like high school again whenever I come back for the holidays,
like the whole family's in the crib, Me, my sister,
my parents, and then of course my dog Man. I
miss my dog so much, bro. He was the first person,
(16:18):
I mean, he ain't a person, but he was a
first member of the family to really show me some love.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
As soon as.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
I got back from the airport, couldn't even put my
bags down.
Speaker 5 (16:29):
He was already, you know, running up on me. I'm
really using this.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Little break for me to catch my breath so I
can go back into these finals and really kill it,
you feel me. But before that, I gotta have a
little turn up to end it off before we go
into these finals, and I got to lock in and
it's gonna be a great time anyways.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
That's all I got for you all today.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
So next time, there's been that boy Tray and this
has been my life on the arm inside.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Look at HBC like
It's a deal. You can show your twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
The question where I answer, if you got to get
serious with somebody, you're dating somebody, when do you think
you should let them know that you have a snap
on assembly pieces like that makeup or a wig or
enhanced hairline or beard or hair unit. When do you
think that should happen? If I take you to dinner,
right this is you know, that's cool, that's yeah. But
(00:24):
when I invest in another dinner for you, I want
to know who you are?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Correct?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yeah, I don't think I think you should go to
red loftter till you reveal who you are.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
That's why you could choose.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I don't.
Speaker 6 (00:36):
I'm not not that soon in I have to really
feel like, Okay, this is something or someone that I
really like and I know they really like me as well,
and we're going to try it. Then you get to
see the real meth outside of that. I don't know,
you somewhere around intimacy. Maybe yeah, there you go.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Someone to waste money on an ugly bird. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (00:54):
I don't you need to ask can I pull this
ponytail in here fashion?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
But if I pull your ponytail, you get and then.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
You'll be mad as hell.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You went out with somebody and then they took their
hat off, and the headline you'll be mad as hells representations.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
We're not going to talk about that because I do
have a story. But the point is I don't want
to hear it.
Speaker 6 (01:21):
No, no, no, Okay, you know what I'm gonna tell you,
and you're gonna appreciate this.
Speaker 8 (01:25):
Skip.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (01:26):
I went on a day. I was a blind date. Okay,
so I didn't know what was going on. And I
meet the guy and he had a baseball cap on
and when he took his hat off, he wasn't quite
bald yet, but he was heading that direction. He was
fighting it, and I quickly got a stomach ache. I
just was like, not, this really ain't my kind of thing.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
You don't let it go. He was homey to clown.
I'm like, let it go.
Speaker 6 (01:53):
And if you don't know that, you haven't come to
grips with who you are about to be.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Okay, now, so that was right away. That was right away.
He let you know right away. You didn't want to
do that, but it was still you got you feel
like you could withhold information until when like.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
He let I agree you this intimacy.
Speaker 6 (02:14):
Once we start getting you know, we were about to
get intimate or around that time, then you can say, okay, well.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Here's the real meme.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
It gotta be before you go to Houston' because they
make you take your hand off.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't like Houston's. That's to be the test. If
you don't want to go to uth Is with me, Yes,
you can leave your head on if that's your favorite song.
Speaker 6 (02:36):
Like we were saying earlier, I thought that the woman
who went out with the guy who had a prosthetic
leg and he didn't tell her. You remember that, and
he was a basketball player. Don't even ask me how
that happened. But I thought I thought it was I
thought the woman didn't have it but arm or No, No,
it was a dude who he didn't want. He didn't
want her to come to the basketball games. She wanted
(02:58):
to surprise him. She showed up a she found out
how to prospectica.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
But they had been.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Dating for like three months. Yeah, because she didn't. She
didn't never notice that they got the park in the
good parking space. She never thought, never thought, what's with
the blue placard in your wings?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
That didn't give it away.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Why that noise when.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
It's really to make that.
Speaker 9 (03:23):
Didn't say that?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
I'm sorry? Right man?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Why are you striking a match on your thive? What
is that all about?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
It is out of the day. He can show you
a twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And now I really am not one of those transactional
dudes anyway. Even I was never a transaction like I ain't.
I mean, even though I wrote a joke if you
mistake and Loves to come with rote that he did,
I was never like if I dig your steelo, I'm
I'm I'm with it, you know, And regardless of.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
If it's the original packaging or not.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
What I don't like is to be deceived.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Like what what I don't like when I me personally
when I'm telling you that I when I find a
tract about a woman is the way she moves, he cares,
and she smells, she speaks, all those kinds of things.
But I think that the people that laid on thinking
have to have it and get up in the morning,
and there's something about themselves that they are trying to hide.
(04:19):
And I think I've never this, and I say this
all the time. You get on me for saying this,
I've never seen a woman that I didn't find something
absolutely beautiful about.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Now, I'm not saying you know that. The way you.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
What I get on you about is you always flirt
with people.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
You say crazy things that aren't true, like look at you,
you know, loss of weight and stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (04:43):
Or you were saying, look at you, you know you
got a pretty smile, look at your teeth like it's
like you you you tease and then when they lurn back,
what then they flirt back and you get all.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Nerves no, because I don't.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Save me, like all by yourself.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Now they're all you.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
You don't know what to do?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Back up?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
See you do? That's your favorite compliment.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
He was also a lot of that's not true.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know that's not Oh my gosh, So do you
think skip woman?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
You want to know first of.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
All, if you are overly made up, that's really not
my get down, you know anyway, if you overly made up,
but you know, you know.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
You need to know what you're investing in.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Yes, because you could put enough coats of paint on
anything to make it look good.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Ye a house of car Yeah, yo, man?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Have you seen those before and after the people do
those on Instagram and you they look like a different person.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
I'm like, man, sometimes the balls are still good underneath.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Yeah yeah, right, yeah, I think you got to get
a fixer upper? Is that what you just saying?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
After forty as got flaws? All of us? You know
what I mean? After forty all of us.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I don't care because I think it's beautiful if you
think you fly no matter what. But if you are
self conscious about that, then I would be It's almost.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Like when you're on stage.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
If people think that you're confident, they're gonna it goes
a different way as opposed when they're thinking you're not confident.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So I think if someone.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
I think that, if it's all a jump ball, they're
beautiful women, they're handsome men.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
It's all a jump ball.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
And it's always those little idio secrecies that make you
know somebody. But I think if you are constantly uh
you know, trying to be just so, I think it's
not I wouldn't feel comfortable around somebody that was that uncomfortable.
I'm a dope dude to hang out with, Like, so
I'm really a I laugh a lot, I hang out.
I'm like, I'm really I have never made anybody hung
(06:41):
out with me the didn't want to hang on me again. Ever,
I never don't say that, yeah kidding ever like never,
Like when I'm it's worth saying that.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Not all women or men I don't know who wear makeup.
I don't think they're always trying to cover something up
sometimes all the time. Yeah, I think some people do
it because they love it. They enjoy doing it a lot.
I enjoy doing it. I don't wear a lot of makeup,
but I sometimes I wish I knew how. After watching
TikTok and Instagram and watch it, I was like, oh,
(07:12):
I wish I could do.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
That, and I try it and that I stop hanging
out with the Latin ship.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
If you want to put makeup, you want to walk
around looking like an essay?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
You want to do that? Yeah, cut your eye. But
you know they scrape the average on their dramas.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
They can do it better.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Sitting in the park waiting for you, what are we
going to be a lowrider?
Speaker 1 (07:36):
What are we doing?
Speaker 3 (07:39):
So?
Speaker 2 (07:39):
At what point do you think you should reveal that
you have a hairlined answer or unit or a wig
or makeup?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
When? When did you? When should you just let people
see who you are man or woman and food we're
going through the phones.
Speaker 10 (07:52):
So I was dating this guy and I waited a
year to let him see me without my without my
regular real are we going? I don't wear makeup because
I'm from who Ally, so I'm naturally beautiful. But I
waited a year, and when he was good and in
love but he wasn't going nowhere, I let him see
me without the week going. So but yeah, it worked
(08:14):
and he stayed around.
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Well, I'll tell you what, man, one thing. First thing first, Yes,
I need to know. I need to know you need
to show let me see that face. Uh, let me
see you in your natural form because I'm coming in
my natural form. And if we end up, you know,
having sex and mess around and have a baby, I
need to know what you look like beforehand, make sure
(08:38):
we can make a beautiful baby.
Speaker 11 (08:40):
Hi.
Speaker 12 (08:41):
My name is Mayer from the East side of Columbus.
And I think that if you guys are already sitting
and talking about the subject of getting intimate stuff, when
the conversation should be had like Hey, just so you
know I got this going on or I don't have
this going on. You already like each other because you've
been on three or four days, then that's something to
be discussed. And then when the actual infient moment happens,
(09:04):
go ahead and whiput it on out because I'm like,
let me. I'll be like, let me see the table,
because I'm like, you know, you're gonna get who you
got before I go to bed, and when I wake up,
I'm gonna look exactly the same pretty much.
Speaker 10 (09:12):
You know That's it.
Speaker 13 (09:15):
Yeah. I think with the whole fake hair, fake wigs,
things like that, I think you need to tell them
right off the back because that could be a deal breaker.
You know, some people don't like that, Like me personally,
I hate when my wife wears wigs because I feel
like she don't need to. But at the same time,
that's just a personal preference. So Amazon comes in with
(09:37):
a wig almost every week. Get tired of it. But
at the same time, it is what it is.
Speaker 11 (09:43):
First of all, please stop calling that baby hare it's Edges. Second,
all up, No, if you can't take me how I
am getting, move on because I ain't faking nothing.
Speaker 14 (09:56):
He'llo I think that immediately. Now. I don't wear makeup.
We never have a being lipstick, But I think immediately.
You should let whoever it is know what you look like,
what you really look like. Why hide it? You know
eventually going to come out. So I don't believe that
you should wait, go here and let's him see what
(10:19):
you look like.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
When do you think you should let somebody know you
have a you know, have a you know, a unit
or a beard enhancer, or a hairline or or aesthetic.
When do you reveal who you really are, whether you
want a unit, hairlin and hanswer make up.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
We're going right there. Focus.
Speaker 11 (10:40):
I think if you can share your body and kids stasionally,
you should be able to share that you wear foundation,
or you.
Speaker 12 (10:49):
Have tracks in your hair, or your fingernails aren't real.
Speaker 10 (10:52):
You should be very transparent right away.
Speaker 15 (10:56):
Okay, this is my humble opinion. First of all, it's
not just women. Y'all got to come off of that.
Men use enhancements to I think old women and men
should have a picture in their phone of how they
look without all this stuff. And it could be in
the first.
Speaker 11 (11:13):
Week or so.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Judy, she said something that but I think was very sailing.
What were you saying?
Speaker 7 (11:18):
No, I'm just saying, you know, sooner as soon as
possible is the best thing because you never know when
that it revealed is going to happen. Because back in
you know, in high school or back in college, when
you're with a chicken, you know, and things get hot
and heavy before you thought you were gonna get hot
and heavy, and then hey, she's patted all this, so
that and then.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
Come from I need to see the car.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Fact.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I told you, I told you this story. I like
this girl who I grew up with. I loved her.
I had a crush on her for a very long time,
like right, so finally she let me go out with her.
She's one of the chicks that the older dudes all
the time, so we're kind of the same.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Abe. She always diated older dude. So I got her.
I took her out and went to the movies.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
And I it'stant like she ate funny, and I was like,
a she ate weird, So she ate weird?
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Explain that.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
So then I like, I'm sixteen, seventeen sixteen, and so
I thought, well, maybe this is just crazy, because then
she started liking me, and I took her out again,
and then I just didn't talk.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
To her anymore for like three weeks, and so.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
She came over and she was like, wait, why you
were on me all these times, all this time, but
you didn't.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I said, no, it's just I would have gave you something.
But I was like, no, so.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I took out one more time. No, I took out
one more time, and I just she was just did
she too for you to say?
Speaker 8 (12:48):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah? Like a cow? Like a cow?
Speaker 8 (12:53):
No.
Speaker 6 (12:54):
But you know, I do understand that because I am
very judgmental. I don't like people who eat weird, you know,
or they make a lot of noise with their mouth.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
I'm like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (13:04):
You're not even eating, You're making all this noise or
the way things hold. But I don't think I think
those are like little ticks that you have. But in
terms of like you know, putting hair on that doesn't
belong to you, or if your guy putting a beard
(13:25):
on that doesn't belong to you, or teeth that you
have to take in, and I think all of those
are kind.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Of I've never seen men do the things I see them.
Speaker 5 (13:33):
Do that, like.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
Oh the hair, oh, and also you know, adding what
is the calf muscles and ab muscles and things like that.
Impect guys do that now they say that the amount
of surgery that men get has skyrockets.
Speaker 9 (13:50):
Can't or remember the latest surgery for men now it's
to be taller.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean. I just stand
on my wallet.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
What what?
Speaker 11 (14:07):
What?
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Now is that Jabi? I'm kidding? Time to find out
was life?
Speaker 2 (14:24):
It's like in an HBC with that boy Tray, I love?
Speaker 5 (14:47):
What's good job?
Speaker 3 (14:48):
This is that boy Tray back in with another episode
of My life on the ard inside look at HTC. Like, man,
it's something about these holiday breaks that really do it
for me, Like this was a big reset I feel
because dude, these damn teachers, this break is allowed on
me to take a breath because they wanted to kick
stuff up or us right before we left back to
(15:10):
the crib, I swear like for no reason, bro, just
ode assignments. Why do you want me stressed before I
go and spend time with the family.
Speaker 5 (15:19):
Yeah, Like I said, that is all.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
In the last week, and I'm focused on enjoying all
of the stuff I get to enjoy in Dallas that
I can't enjoy in Atlanta. Starting off, you know, like
my og food places. Even though I'm not that focused
on food this week. You know, with it being Thanksgiving
and all that, Like, I'm worried about that targeting them collagreens,
you feel me. Besides that, I get to hang out
(15:42):
with some of my friends from like high school, middle school,
even going back further than that, you know, because they
can't come see me in Atlanta. I mean they could,
but they not. You know, we ain't breded like that
to just be taking flights to visit each other, you know.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
So I get to.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Chop it up and reconvene with all my day once that,
and then you know, the family side, it really feels
like high school again whenever I come back for the holidays,
like the whole family's in the crib, Me, my sister,
my parents, and then of course my dog Man. I
miss my dog so much, bro. He was the first person,
(16:18):
I mean, he ain't a person, but he was a
first member of the family to really show me some love.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
As soon as.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
I got back from the airport, couldn't even put my
bags down.
Speaker 5 (16:29):
He was already, you know, running up on me. I'm
really using this.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Little break for me to catch my breath so I
can go back into these finals and really kill it,
you feel me. But before that, I gotta have a
little turn up to end it off before we go
into these finals, and I got to lock in and
it's gonna be a great time anyways.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
That's all I got for you all today.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
So next time, there's been that boy Tray and this
has been my life on the arm inside.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Look at HBC like
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