What does it mean to build a life abroad — not just once, but again and again, through different seasons of life?
In this episode of Armchair Expat, Shannon sits down with Laura Baringer to explore a deeply thoughtful, non-linear international journey that spans Italy, Guatemala, Nigeria, Rwanda, the UK, and now the Netherlands. Laura shares how growing up between cultures shaped her identity, why moving abroad doesn’t magically solve everything, and how clarity, values, and long-term vision matter far more than picking the “perfect” country.
This conversation goes beyond visas and logistics to explore the emotional and practical trade-offs of expat life — rebuilding community, managing dual careers, raising kids internationally, and permitting yourself to evolve along the way.
Whether you’re dreaming about a move abroad, already living internationally, or navigating a midlife pivot, this episode offers a grounding perspective and real-world wisdom.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Growing up between cultures and how early international experiences shape identity
- Why moving abroad won’t fix everything — but can still change everything
- The hidden trade-offs of expat life: community, career momentum, and distance from family
- How moving abroad changes when kids enter the picture
- Why giving yourself at least a year in a new country is essential
- Choosing a country based on values, not fantasy
- Designing a long-term life abroad using a “10-year vision”
- Leaving a 20-year career to build purpose-led work
- Building a business that supports the life you actually want
- Why you’re allowed to change — and why that matters abroad
Connect with Laura
Website: https://purposebuiltbylaura.com
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