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April 8, 2025 19 mins

This week, we're getting real about the messy middle — where you logically know you’re in a good relationship but emotionally still feel anxious AF. If you’re constantly asking:

  • “Why isn’t this enough?”
  • “Why do I still feel so unsure?”
  • “Why can’t I just be chill for once?!”

Then this episode is your exact starting point. 👏

Inside, we’re talking about:

✨ Why the key to feeling secure in your relationship starts with YOU (not him, not a text back, not a future ring)

🧠 How morphing into the ‘perfect partner’ keeps you in anxious mode

💗 Why being your authentic self is the foundation for real, lasting love

🔁 What happens when you’re stuck in the “prove myself” cycle (and how to stop)

💬 And why your deepest fear might not be about love... but being alone 👀

Plus, I’m answering a powerful listener question about letting go of a relationship, fear of being alone, and how to move forward when you're committed to finally breaking the cycle. 💔➡️💪

Let this be your permission slip to stop performing in your relationship, and start being the most you version of you — because that's where true security lives.

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