Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined once again by photographer, ethical slut, and emotionally available king Matthew Kayman for a raw and wildly entertaining deep dive into threesomes, pegging, vasectomies, and how men can do better in sex and relationships.
We go deep about what it means to unlearn toxic masculinity and embrace a more present, consensual, and pleasure-focused approach to sex. Matt opens up about getting pegged for the first time, navigating group sex with intention, and why he chose to get a vasectomy—and how it’s impacted his confidence and partnerships.
We also unpack:
Why pegging changed how he shows up as a top and partner
Tips for navigating MFM threesomes with care and curiosity
How to explore dominant and submissive roles without ego
The mental and physical realities of getting a vasectomy (and why you should get one!)
How to communicate during casual sex without killing the vibe
Managing a sex-positive roster (with check-ins!)
The difference between protective and possessive behavior
Friendship with exes, emotional responsibility, and being a grown-ass slut
🎁 BONUS SCENE: Stick around for a surprise scene with Mario Cruz, recorded onboard the spicy Desire Cruise, where we talk about spooning, swinging, and everything in between.
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