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September 9, 2026 • 7 mins

Have you ever carved out time for a hobby you once loved—quilting, painting, writing, playing music, or running—only to sit down and be hit with an unexpected wave of exhaustion, grief, or tears? 

In NeuroDivergent relationships marked by chronic indifference, emotional dismissal, or parental alienation, the activities that once anchored our identity often get paired with deep loneliness. Over time, your nervous system learns to associate your creative self with pain.

In this empowering and validating episode, Dr. Kathy Marshack explores how to reclaim "the stolen self." She explains why you cannot wait for the grief to vanish before you pick up the brush, the pen, or the running shoes again. By doing what you love for even 15 or 30 minutes, you retrain your body that it is safe to feel alive. 

And when small steps aren't enough, Dr. Kathy invites you to follow her lead and "Go Big"—transforming the pain into purpose, creativity, and a sovereign future that trauma can never erase.

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus. 

➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/

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