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July 14, 2025 9 mins

You’ve done the healing work. You’ve journaled. You’ve prayed. But when it comes to love… you still feel like you’re not enough.

If you’ve ever found yourself Googling things like:

  • “Why do I always feel not good enough in love?”
  • “How do I stop feeling not good enough for my boyfriend?”
  • “Why do I feel unworthy in relationships?”

…then this episode was made for you.

In this powerful teaching, trauma therapist and Christ-led coach Kim Velez walks you through the real reason you still feel unworthy — even after all the inner work — and how to finally anchor your identity in what God already said about you.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn how to:  ✅ Break free from rejection-based identity  ✅ Stop needing to be picked to feel worthy  ✅ Start seeing yourself the way God sees you in love  ✅ Shift from not-enough to secure, chosen, and wholeYou’re not broken.

 

 You’re not too much. You’re not unworthy.  You just haven’t agreed with God yet.

👑 Start your reset now: → Take the Love Identity Quiz: [Download here] → Begin Rewritten Course: [Get Access Here]

 

topics covered: feeling not good enough in lovenot good enough in relationshipsidentity in Christhow God sees youhealing from rejectionself-worth in loveChristian dating podcastemotionally unavailable mentrauma-informed identityfeeling not good enough for boyfriend

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