Reflections of The Father’s Heart

In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl discuss the recent controversies surrounding Shawn Bolz, a prominent figure in the Charismatic Movement. They explore the implications of his actions, the impact on victims, and the role of church leadership in addressing such issues. Seth shares his personal experiences and feelings about the situation, emphasizing the need for accountability, healing, and discernment within the c...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl explore the complexities of healing from church hurt and spiritual abuse. They discuss the differences between spiritual abuse and church hurt, emphasizing the importance of healing to differentiate between difficult and destructive experiences. Through personal stories and insights, they highlight the role of the Holy Spirit in the healing process, the dangers of religious environmen...

• In this episode of "Reflections of the Father's Heart," hosts Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl delve into the sensitive topic of church hurt, exploring the emotional and spiritual ramifications of experiences within church communities. They discuss how both congregants and pastors can be affected by misunderstandings and miscommunications, leading to deep emotional wounds. Sandi shares her personal journey of healing from past church ...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl explore the often-overlooked connection between emotional health and physical well-being, particularly in the context of New Year's resolutions and weight loss. They discuss the importance of addressing the root causes of unhealthy behaviors, the power of redemption and renewal through faith, and the necessity of emotional processing for overall health. The dialogue emphasizes that tr...

In this episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl explore the inspiring story of Whiskey the Bird, who was abandoned and rescued, drawing parallels between his journey and the human experience of overcoming victimhood and finding identity. They discuss the importance of healing, the power of naming, and the significance of finding supportive communities. Through prayer and personal anecdotes, they encourage listeners to break free from li...

In this episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl discuss the emotional complexities that arise during the holiday season, particularly focusing on grief, joy, and the importance of being honest about one's feelings. They explore how unresolved pain can manifest during this time and emphasize the need for community support and healthy boundaries. The conversation highlights the significance of mourning as a pathway to healing and the dang...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the themes of freedom, bondage, and the power of words. She discusses the importance of understanding forgiveness, self-care, and the role of the enemy in our lives. Through biblical references, particularly from Exodus, she emphasizes the journey of coming out of bondage and the pressures that can arise when seeking freedom. Sandi encourages listeners to recognize the balance between resp...

In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl explore the themes of shame, identity, and emotional healing through the lens of the Marvel movie 'The Thunderbolts.' They discuss the importance of understanding the Father's heart, the impact of childhood trauma, and the necessity of community support in overcoming shame. The conversation emphasizes that witnessing and connection are crucial for healing, and they provide resource...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her experiences with rescue animals as a metaphor for authenticity and self-discovery. She emphasizes the importance of embracing one's true self, drawing on biblical examples, particularly King David, to illustrate the journey of understanding identity in Christ. Sandi discusses the challenges of breaking free from societal and familial systems that hinder authentic living and encourages li...

In this deeply personal podcast, Sandi Derby shares her journey of healing and self-discovery after a tumultuous relationship that was marred by past trauma and toxic patterns. She reflects on her struggles with purity, boundaries, and the impact of her past experiences on her present relationships. Sandi recounts the challenges she faced, including stalking and legal battles, ultimately leading to a significant victory in court. T...

In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl discuss the importance of emotional wellness and introduce their Emotional Wellness Assessment. They explore how emotions can accumulate over time, likening them to pebbles in a backpack, and emphasize the need to address emotional health for overall well-being. The conversation highlights the connection between emotional and physical health, the significance of understanding one's...

In this podcast, Sandi Derby shares her journey of understanding God and healing from past religious experiences. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing God's presence in our lives, even in difficult situations, and encourages listeners to embrace their spiritual journey with compassion and openness. Sandi discusses the significance of community, the challenges of navigating toxic relationships, and the need to break free fro...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her journey through grief recovery and the importance of preparation in achieving success. She discusses the challenges of building a practice, the significance of having a healthy relationship with money, and the necessity of inner healing. Sandi emphasizes the need to dig ditches in preparation for the blessings God has in store, while also addressing the struggles of self-worth and the im...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of emotional turmoil and transformation through faith. She emphasizes the importance of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification and healing, highlighting that believers cannot navigate their spiritual journey alone. The discussion covers the significance of community, the distinction between the gifts and fruits of the Spirit, and the cost of power in both the l...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of grief recovery and the importance of being honest with God. She reflects on her experiences at a singles conference, where she learned that intimacy with God is rooted in honesty rather than performance. Sandi emphasizes the need for emotional honesty, lamenting, and the power of David's example in the Psalms. She encourages listeners to confront their pain and be aut...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the themes of spiritual resistance, the nature of sin, and the importance of emotional honesty in the Christian faith. She discusses how feelings of unease often precede breakthroughs and emphasizes the need for individuals to confront their emotions and be honest with God. Sandi also delves into the concept of sin, highlighting the shift from behavior modification to understanding the hea...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the importance of maintaining a close relationship with Jesus while navigating the complexities of grace, forgiveness, and the dangers of manipulation from narcissistic individuals. She emphasizes the need for boundaries and the understanding that forgiveness does not mean tolerating harmful behavior. The discussion also touches on the impact of childhood trauma and the necessity of releas...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the importance of the inner journey and the process of healing and restoration. She emphasizes that while restoration may not always look like what we expect, it is still possible and often leads to greater blessings. Sandi shares personal stories of loss and healing, illustrating how God can bring new life and abundance even in the face of trauma. She encourages listeners to embrace their...

In this heartfelt conversation, Sandi Derby reflects on the recent passing of Charlie Kirk, expressing her grief and the complexities of understanding death within a faith context. She emphasizes the importance of facing storms rather than running from them, using the analogy of buffalo and cows to illustrate how we can confront our challenges. Sandi discusses the significance of community in healing and encourages listeners to emb...