Working with Your Divorce Attorney: What Clients Should Expect

Episode Summary: In this debut episode of Guiding Families Forward Through Divorce, Anne Hamer shares her personal and professional insights on what clients can expect when working with a divorce lawyer. Drawing from her own experience as both a litigator and a divorced parent, Anne discusses how her perspective shifted after her own divorce — and how that deepened her empathy and effectiveness in representing clients. She explains what to bring to your first consultation, how to prepare emotionally and financially, and what realistic expectations look like throughout the process. Anne also dispels common misconceptions about divorce, from financial fears to media-driven myths, and offers valuable guidance for maintaining composure, communication, and perspective during one of life’s most challenging transitions.

Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Welcome to Guiding Families Forward Through Divorce 01:00 – Anne’s Journey from Corporate Litigator to Family Law Advocate 03:30 – How Personal Experience Shaped Anne’s Approach to Divorce Cases 05:00 – Why Education and Preparation Are Key to a Successful Outcome 06:45 – What to Bring to Your First Meeting with a Divorce Lawyer 09:20 – Balancing Legal Strategy with Emotional Support 11:10 – Common Misconceptions About Divorce and the Legal Process 13:45 – The Importance of Composure and “Worrying in Order” 16:20 – Navigating Divorce as a High Net Worth Client 18:00 – How Effective Communication Builds a Stronger Attorney-Client Relationship 19:45 – Final Thoughts on Guiding Families Forward

About the Show: Guiding Families Forward Through Divorce features Tennessee family law professional Anne Hamer as she helps clients navigate the legal, emotional, and financial realities of divorce. Each episode provides education, empathy, and practical strategies designed to help families move forward with confidence and clarity.