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Can a throuple actually get legally married? 🤔🌈This week on A Little Throuple Tea, what started as a boring morning of estate planning quickly turned into a legal rabbit hole we never expected.After trying to create a joint living trust, we discovered that even after nearly 15 years as California Registered Domestic Partners, the system still didn't recognize our relationship the way we thought it would. That sent us down a Googl...

This week, we’re talking about the little things that can instantly make someone more attractive—and the equally small things that can ruin it the second they open their mouth.From humor, intelligence, curiosity, and being good with animals to hygiene, trustworthiness, adventurousness, and simply making someone feel safe, we’re breaking down the qualities that matter more than just being hot.We also talk about whe...

This week we're talking about all the random things we were convinced meant someone was rich growing up... and looking back, we couldn't have been more wrong.

From two-story houses and homemade lemonade to Gateway computers, deli meat from the grocery store, and Sleep Number beds, we're reminiscing about the childhood "luxuries" that made us think someone had officially made it.

Naturally, the conversation goes completely off the rai...

This week we're diving into The Gay Rulebook We Never Received — the completely unofficial handbook that apparently every gay person got except us.

After a listener asked if they've broken a gay rule by never watching RuPaul's Drag Race, we started wondering: is there actually a list of rules we're all supposed to know? From gym culture and drag shows to Palm Springs, circuit parties, fashion, hookups, and stere...

We finally escaped for a much-needed vacation to Lake Tahoe and Reno… and honestly, it was exactly what we needed.

This week we’re breaking down our entire Tahoe trip, from beautiful hikes and lake days to family time, casino adventures, Lime scooter rides, giant pine trees, and the reason we ended up extending the vacation instead of coming home.

We talk about what surprised us most about Tahoe, why Reno felt different ...

☀️ Episode 24 is here and we’re kicking off summer vacation season!This week we’re talking all things summer including vacations, road trips, beach days, pool life, fireworks disasters, camping stories, and the summer memories that still make us laugh years later.We also answer two new Throuple Hotline questions that immediately turn into chaos:📞 Are you supposed to arrive at 6:00 PM… or leave your house at 6:00...

🎉 Episode 23 is here and we’re celebrating Daniel’s 40th birthday!This week we look back at the last 15 years together, talk about what has changed (and what definitely hasn’t), discuss life lessons, aging, friendship, family, and what we’re most excited about for the future.We also dive into one of our favorite Throuple Hotline questions yet, wrap up Pride Month with a Pride-themed Bowl of Chaos, and share...

Remember when making friends was as easy as sharing crayons or sitting at the same lunch table?

This week, we’re talking about how friendships change as you get older.

From childhood best friends and high school friend groups to adult friendships that somehow survive years without a text message, we’re diving into what happens when life, careers, relationships, and responsibilities start pulling everyone in different dire...

What happens when the Bowl of Chaos goes on vacation and leaves us unsupervised?In Episode 21 of A Little Throuple Tea, three gay men in a real-life throuple turn Never Have I Ever into a full episode… and immediately regret it.What starts as a simple drinking game spirals into hookup confessions, relationship crimes, household secrets, Pride Month chaos, Summer House tangents, and one very important question:Does Daniel act...

Have you ever wondered what would happen if a professional astrologer sat down and analyzed your entire personality?

This week, we found out.

After visiting a spiritual expo in Southern California, Daniel and Will had their birth charts professionally read while Caleb received his first-ever tarot card reading. What started as a fun afternoon quickly turned into a surprisingly accurate deep dive into our personalities, relationships,...

This episode starts with Vegas…and somehow ends with incest jokes, dragon fruit trauma, and an emotional goodbye to a huge chapter of our lives. 😭

In Episode 19 of A Little Throuple Tea, we talk about:

• ​Daniel surviving the Wizard of Oz Sphere experience in Vegas 🎰
• ​Why sitting FRONT ROW at the Sphere is a terrible idea
• ​The emotional moment we officially handed off Out at the Fair after 14 years 🌈
• ​Being recognized i...

One side of the bed got a perfect sleep score…The other side apparently VANISHED for almost 2 hours. 👽

In Episode 18 of A Little Throuple Tea, we spiral into one of the weirdest things that’s ever happened to us after Caleb’s Sleep Number data showed he disappeared from bed for 1 hour and 49 minutes — with ZERO memory of it happening.Was it sleepwalking?A glitch?Aliens?Honestly… we’re not rulin...

Before the throuple, before California, before the chaos… we were just three very different kids growing up in very different worlds.

This week, we’re going all the way back — childhood memories, teenage chaos, first jobs, first relationships (yes… even the girl era), and the moments that shaped who we are today.

From desert lizard hunting to Midwest lake life… from religious upbringings to party year...

Is it a red flag… or is it just gay?

This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we break down the behaviors, habits, and reality TV moments that make people ask:

Is he toxic?
Is he confused?
Is he secretly gay?
Or is he just moisturized and emotionally available?

We talk red flags, gaydar, reality TV men, Summer House chaos, modern masculinity, beauty routines, emotional intelligence, and why some people confuse personal...

What do straight people always ask gay couples and throuples?

This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we break down the funniest, weirdest, most common questions straight people ask about gay relationships.

Who’s the girl?
Who’s the top?
How do holidays work?
Do your families know?
How does a throuple even work?

We talk chosen family, communication, boundaries, stereotypes, why LGBTQ+ spaces matter, and the th...

What happened after Death Valley?

In this episode, we finish our Death Valley road trip and break down everything from our final stops in the park to the total chaos of getting home.

In Episode 14 of A Little Throuple Tea, we pick up where Part 1 left off — this time from home — recapping how the trip ended, what stood out most, and why the ride back somehow became its own adventure.

This is Part 2 of our Death Valley...

What is Death Valley actually like?

In Episode 13 of A Little Throuple Tea, we take the podcast on the road — recording from our hotel room in Stovepipe Wells Village after the first few days of our trip.

This is Part 1 of our Death Valley series, where we break down everything we’ve experienced so far, what surprised us, and what the desert is actually like beyond the photos.

Over the first three days, we e...

You see what we post.

But you don’t see everything.

In Episode 12 of A Little Throuple Tea, we talk about the parts of our life that stay off the internet — not because we’re hiding anything, but because some things are meant to be protected.

This isn’t drama.

This isn’t exposing each other.

This is about boundaries.

We get honest about:

• The fights you don’t see — and why conflict isn&rsquo...

Gay culture loves youth.

But what happens when you’re not 25 anymore?

In Episode 11 of A Little Throuple Tea, we have an honest conversation about aging as gay men — what changes, what gets better, and what people don’t talk about enough.

This isn’t a rant.

This isn’t anti-young people.

This is just a real conversation about how life shifts through your 20s, 30s, and 40s — especially in a culture...