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Speaker 1 (00:02):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and
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Speaker 2 (00:19):
You never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Thank you, nephew. Subject.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I can tell she's been outside here. Stephen Shirley. I'm
a fifty seven year old man that's fresh off of
second divorce. I used to be captains save but you
know what, the first and second marriages were to women
that didn't know how to manage their money, but I
went and trusted them to manage mine. I ended up
(00:50):
broke after each marriage, and now I'm finally starting to
get my savings back up. This new lady that I'm
dating is good with money, and she has raised two
sons on her own and put them both through college.
She cooks really good, and when I go over to
her house, she caters to me. The only problem with
her is that I can tell she's been outside outside
(01:12):
like she's got a lot of male friends, and she's
on a first name basis with bartenders and waiters in
her area. I was shocked that she would take me
to the places that had a lot of men that
know her, but she seemed to be very proud of
her status in her community. When she had a barbecue
for Labor Day, mostly men came, and even a few
(01:34):
guys that ride bikes in our city, and they are
known for being swingers and liking to have many lovers.
It made me question her, and she said that I
was being silly to ask her about her friends because
she's never questioned me about mine. I felt bad about it,
but last night we had sex for the first time,
(01:54):
and it was very, very good. She talked to me
like we were in a porn video, and she jumped
up afterwards and got dressed. I was pleased, but then
shocked at how she acted. I want to have a
talk with her about her past, but I'm afraid to
make her think I'm accusing her of being too loose
or whatever. How do I know that she hasn't been
(02:16):
outside too much? Please advise? Wow, Well, I mean, this
depends on what you want in this relationship. Are you
looking for another wife? Are you looking for a good
time with a woman who you say in the letter
caters to you. She's good with money, she's very very
good in bed. She raised her two sons by herself,
(02:37):
and you know.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
She seems to be a good person.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
If these are the questions that you have for her,
you got to ask her because basically, you know, if
you think that she has too many male friends and
all that, most men don't like that when their female
friends have male friends because they think the male friends
just want to sleep with them. It's okay to have
a good standing in the community like you say she has.
But what's not okay is this swingers.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Thing you write about. Is she a swinger? These are
some of the questions you need to ask. Has she
been a swinger? Is she into that kind of lifestyle?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Has she slept with any of these so called male friends.
I'm sure that's what you want to know. And if
the answer is yes to any of these questions, if
she tells the truth, then what you're gonna leave her?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
So there's your answer for that. If it's no, if
she hasn't slept with them. If she really is honestly
friends with all these guys and she hasn't had sex
and she's not a swinger, then the question is can
you believe her and accept her as who she is?
I mean, these are basically the questions and the answers
(03:45):
you're looking for.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
So ask her so you can find out the truth.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Steve, I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Even understand what the letter for. I do not even
understand why you wrote us, bro. I can tell she's
been outside. Okay, Well, if you can tell what, you
want me to untail you?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
All right.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I'm fifty seven year old man fresh off second divorce.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I used to be captain saving you know what.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
First two times you got marriage, they ain't know how
to manage their money, but you trusted them to manage
Yours ended up broke after each marriage, and now I'm
finally starting to get my savings back up. This new
lady that I'm dating is good with money. She raised
two sons, own, put them both through college. She cooked
(04:36):
really good, and when I go over house, she catered
to me.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Only problem is I can tell she been outside.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Okay. Cool.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Now, the top of the letter, the question is I
could tell she's been outside. Okay, well, if you notice,
I tell you what tell us why you think she'd
been outside.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
She got a lot of male friends, and she.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
On the first name basis with bartenders and waiters in
her area.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
And I was shocked that she.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Would take me to the places that had a lot
of men that know her. Well, bro, stop being surprised.
She's taking you to what she do. She's introducing you
to her world. This is her world. I come down
(05:34):
here all the time. I know she old too, because
ain't no women in their fifties taking you know where
at bars and know all the bartender names and all this.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
He and got a lot of male friends, and.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
She seemed to be very proud of her status in
the community.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
And I know that's right now listening.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
She had a barbecue for Labor Day and mostly men came,
and a few guys that ride bikes in our city
and they are known for being swingers and liking to
have many lovers.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Okay, bro, what are we talking about here?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
She threw a barbecue at her house for Labor Day,
mostly me and kin. Okay, where where the rest of
the women and these dudes that ride these bikes together
in y'all city. They are known to have many lovers.
You don't think she won of them. You don't think
(06:31):
no anybody rode the bike by her house.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
How that's all she know, though, I mean, bro Come on, man,
what what?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Okay? Hang on, Steve, Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter is
I can tell she's been outside. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show done?
Speaker 2 (06:57):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Come on, Steve, let's recap today's stru The subject is
I can tell she's been outside.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
This man been divorced twice. He fifty seven. He trusted
women with money that weren't good and married. He ended
up broke each time that he didne got herself back
on his feet, He got his savings. That ain't dating
a new girl. But he can tell she'd been outside.
She'd have took him to all her hangouts in the community,
bartender's waiters. She know all their names, and they all
(07:28):
know her. And she proud of her status in the community.
She knew a lot of men too. She threw a
barbecue for Labor Day and mostly men came.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Well, where was the women at?
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Now the dudes that came, they ride bikes together and
they're known as swingers. I mean, she's on. I'm just
a little curious. If you are swinger, where was the
other girls at? If you swing in that hard? But
it was mostly men at the barbecue. That didn't seem
(08:06):
strange to you that it wasn't no women at the barbecue.
So how hard is they swinging? How hard is they swanging?
And who is doing the swinging? Because if it's hard,
(08:26):
men at the barbecue, they were just swinging around the barbecue.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Hey, man, what's that near? You going on with you?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
I don't know?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
It's up chuck. Now was that Willie? What's going on?
I see you? I see you? Okay, I'm confused.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
And so and the guys are known as being swingers
and like having many lovers.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
It made me question her.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
She said that I was being silly to ask about
her friends because she never questioned me about mine. Oh, deflection, deflection.
I would never ask you about your ice, So please
quit asking me about mine because I have stories. If
she all that fine, she good with money, and she
(09:12):
that good in bed, Why she's single, why she available?
Why anyway? I felt bad about it, But last night
we had sex for the first time.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
It was very, very good.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
She talked to me like we was in a porn video,
and she jumped up afterwards and got dressed. I was pleased,
but then shocked at how she acted. I want to
have her talk to her about her past, boy, but
I'm afraid to make her think I'm accusing her of
being too loose or whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
She is loose.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
By what you mean, you, Finn, to accuse her of
being loose? You don't see loose behavior by herself. You
ain't said nothing about her being married, put two sons
through college by herself. Now, I'm not saying she can't
(10:13):
make a lot of money, but you ain't mentioned her, man,
in the past, She's raised these two sons by herself,
send them to college, and she got all these male friends.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I ain't saying she had help, but.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
I'm kind of saying she had help, And I don't
want to have a talk with her, and I want
to talk to her about her past. Look, man, her
past seems to be pretty current, so you ain't got
to ask her about no past. They all over the
house at the barbecue anyway, how do I know she
hasn't been outside too much? Please advise, bro, you cannot
(10:56):
be this stupid. She real good in bed. She talked
to you like y'all was in a porn video. Now,
Shirley said it right. You just have to decide what
you want with this woman. Are you looking for a
third wife? Are you looking for a good time? Because
if you're looking for a good time, go buy yourself
(11:17):
a bike and get on down there to the bar tavern,
meet her little swinging friend dudes and see how hard
they swinging, and you may find out a whole lot more.
But you need to get to know her. She already
been the don't need asking her about her past. Ain't
(11:39):
no need of going in there. And if she listens
to this show, she already know the maximum. She gonna
tell you about his three men, that's all so bruh,
I can't help you. You know she been outside, She
talked like she been outside. See, you don't get to
(12:01):
be real good at something without doing something a whole
lot of times.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
See like, I'll give you an example.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Ain't no need of asking me about my past, Ain't
no need of asking me.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Why?
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Because I was good at what I did, so I
ain't no need of asking me.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Have you ever been with some other Have you ever
been with some other women? Huh?
Speaker 4 (12:43):
See because a guy answered my guy, my answer can't
be three. I can't say three. So what you want
me to tell you? See how many women you've been with? Oh?
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Hamminsn Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
FM and it talk about it deter.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
DC and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded So Good.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
You can download it today
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now, and.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
You never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Thank you, nephew. Subject.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I can tell she's been outside here. Stephen Shirley. I'm
a fifty seven year old man that's fresh off of
second divorce. I used to be captains save but you
know what, the first and second marriages were to women
that didn't know how to manage their money, but I
went and trusted them to manage mine. I ended up
(00:50):
broke after each marriage, and now I'm finally starting to
get my savings back up. This new lady that I'm
dating is good with money, and she has raised two
sons on her own and put them both through college.
She cooks really good, and when I go over to
her house, she caters to me. The only problem with
her is that I can tell she's been outside outside
(01:12):
like she's got a lot of male friends, and she's
on a first name basis with bartenders and waiters in
her area. I was shocked that she would take me
to the places that had a lot of men that
know her, but she seemed to be very proud of
her status in her community. When she had a barbecue
for Labor Day, mostly men came, and even a few
(01:34):
guys that ride bikes in our city, and they are
known for being swingers and liking to have many lovers.
It made me question her, and she said that I
was being silly to ask her about her friends because
she's never questioned me about mine. I felt bad about it,
but last night we had sex for the first time,
(01:54):
and it was very, very good. She talked to me
like we were in a porn video, and she jumped
up afterwards and got dressed. I was pleased, but then
shocked at how she acted. I want to have a
talk with her about her past, but I'm afraid to
make her think I'm accusing her of being too loose
or whatever. How do I know that she hasn't been
(02:16):
outside too much? Please advise? Wow, Well, I mean, this
depends on what you want in this relationship. Are you
looking for another wife? Are you looking for a good
time with a woman who you say in the letter
caters to you. She's good with money, she's very very
good in bed. She raised her two sons by herself,
(02:37):
and you know.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
She seems to be a good person.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
If these are the questions that you have for her,
you got to ask her because basically, you know, if
you think that she has too many male friends and
all that, most men don't like that when their female
friends have male friends because they think the male friends
just want to sleep with them. It's okay to have
a good standing in the community like you say she has.
But what's not okay is this swingers.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Thing you write about. Is she a swinger? These are
some of the questions you need to ask. Has she
been a swinger? Is she into that kind of lifestyle?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Has she slept with any of these so called male friends.
I'm sure that's what you want to know. And if
the answer is yes to any of these questions, if
she tells the truth, then what you're gonna leave her?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
So there's your answer for that. If it's no, if
she hasn't slept with them. If she really is honestly
friends with all these guys and she hasn't had sex
and she's not a swinger, then the question is can
you believe her and accept her as who she is?
I mean, these are basically the questions and the answers
(03:45):
you're looking for.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
So ask her so you can find out the truth.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Steve, I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Even understand what the letter for. I do not even
understand why you wrote us, bro. I can tell she's
been outside. Okay, Well, if you can tell what, you
want me to untail you?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
All right.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I'm fifty seven year old man fresh off second divorce.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I used to be captain saving you know what.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
First two times you got marriage, they ain't know how
to manage their money, but you trusted them to manage
Yours ended up broke after each marriage, and now I'm
finally starting to get my savings back up. This new
lady that I'm dating is good with money. She raised
two sons, own, put them both through college. She cooked
(04:36):
really good, and when I go over house, she catered
to me.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Only problem is I can tell she been outside.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Okay. Cool.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Now, the top of the letter, the question is I
could tell she's been outside. Okay, well, if you notice,
I tell you what tell us why you think she'd
been outside.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
She got a lot of male friends, and she.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
On the first name basis with bartenders and waiters in
her area.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
And I was shocked that she.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Would take me to the places that had a lot
of men that know her. Well, bro, stop being surprised.
She's taking you to what she do. She's introducing you
to her world. This is her world. I come down
(05:34):
here all the time. I know she old too, because
ain't no women in their fifties taking you know where
at bars and know all the bartender names and all this.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
He and got a lot of male friends, and.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
She seemed to be very proud of her status in
the community.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
And I know that's right now listening.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
She had a barbecue for Labor Day and mostly men came,
and a few guys that ride bikes in our city
and they are known for being swingers and liking to
have many lovers.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Okay, bro, what are we talking about here?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
She threw a barbecue at her house for Labor Day,
mostly me and kin. Okay, where where the rest of
the women and these dudes that ride these bikes together
in y'all city. They are known to have many lovers.
You don't think she won of them. You don't think
(06:31):
no anybody rode the bike by her house.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
How that's all she know, though, I mean, bro Come on, man,
what what?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Okay? Hang on, Steve, Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter is
I can tell she's been outside. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show done?
Speaker 2 (06:57):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Come on, Steve, let's recap today's stru The subject is
I can tell she's been outside.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
This man been divorced twice. He fifty seven. He trusted
women with money that weren't good and married. He ended
up broke each time that he didne got herself back
on his feet, He got his savings. That ain't dating
a new girl. But he can tell she'd been outside.
She'd have took him to all her hangouts in the community,
bartender's waiters. She know all their names, and they all
(07:28):
know her. And she proud of her status in the community.
She knew a lot of men too. She threw a
barbecue for Labor Day and mostly men came.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Well, where was the women at?
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Now the dudes that came, they ride bikes together and
they're known as swingers. I mean, she's on. I'm just
a little curious. If you are swinger, where was the
other girls at? If you swing in that hard? But
it was mostly men at the barbecue. That didn't seem
(08:06):
strange to you that it wasn't no women at the barbecue.
So how hard is they swinging? How hard is they swanging?
And who is doing the swinging? Because if it's hard,
(08:26):
men at the barbecue, they were just swinging around the barbecue.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Hey, man, what's that near? You going on with you?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
I don't know?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
It's up chuck. Now was that Willie? What's going on?
I see you? I see you? Okay, I'm confused.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
And so and the guys are known as being swingers
and like having many lovers.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
It made me question her.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
She said that I was being silly to ask about
her friends because she never questioned me about mine. Oh, deflection, deflection.
I would never ask you about your ice, So please
quit asking me about mine because I have stories. If
she all that fine, she good with money, and she
(09:12):
that good in bed, Why she's single, why she available?
Why anyway? I felt bad about it, But last night
we had sex for the first time.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
It was very, very good.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
She talked to me like we was in a porn video,
and she jumped up afterwards and got dressed. I was pleased,
but then shocked at how she acted. I want to
have her talk to her about her past, boy, but
I'm afraid to make her think I'm accusing her of
being too loose or whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
She is loose.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
By what you mean, you, Finn, to accuse her of
being loose? You don't see loose behavior by herself. You
ain't said nothing about her being married, put two sons
through college by herself. Now, I'm not saying she can't
(10:13):
make a lot of money, but you ain't mentioned her, man,
in the past, She's raised these two sons by herself,
send them to college, and she got all these male friends.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I ain't saying she had help, but.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
I'm kind of saying she had help, And I don't
want to have a talk with her, and I want
to talk to her about her past. Look, man, her
past seems to be pretty current, so you ain't got
to ask her about no past. They all over the
house at the barbecue anyway, how do I know she
hasn't been outside too much? Please advise, bro, you cannot
(10:56):
be this stupid. She real good in bed. She talked
to you like y'all was in a porn video. Now,
Shirley said it right. You just have to decide what
you want with this woman. Are you looking for a
third wife? Are you looking for a good time? Because
if you're looking for a good time, go buy yourself
(11:17):
a bike and get on down there to the bar tavern,
meet her little swinging friend dudes and see how hard
they swinging, and you may find out a whole lot more.
But you need to get to know her. She already
been the don't need asking her about her past. Ain't
(11:39):
no need of going in there. And if she listens
to this show, she already know the maximum. She gonna
tell you about his three men, that's all so bruh,
I can't help you. You know she been outside, She
talked like she been outside. See, you don't get to
(12:01):
be real good at something without doing something a whole
lot of times.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
See like, I'll give you an example.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Ain't no need of asking me about my past, Ain't
no need of asking me.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Why?
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Because I was good at what I did, so I
ain't no need of asking me.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Have you ever been with some other Have you ever
been with some other women? Huh?
Speaker 4 (12:43):
See because a guy answered my guy, my answer can't
be three. I can't say three. So what you want
me to tell you? See how many women you've been with? Oh?
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Hamminsn Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
FM and it talk about it deter.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
DC and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded So Good.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
You can download it today
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