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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This brings me to a philosophy that I have noticed
with with certain women. I've named it female impotence. What
that means is that a lot of women feel like
they're caught between a rock and a hard place in
this world in general. So if you're feeling kind of
stuck by the crazy and having to stand there and
just sort of take it, for some women on a
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subconscious level, that's exactly where she wants you, because she's
feeling so frustrated and stuck in the world in general,
if not in your relationship in particular. There could be
many reasons for it. Where she works and goes to
the gym, the hobbies that she has just and even
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just being out in public in general, women do meet
with a lot of objectification and condescension just because we
showed up. And I want to be clear that female
impotence has absolutely nothing to do with sex, absolutely nothing
to do with sex. In a nutshell, female impotence is
that feeling a woman has when she cannot find a
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way to give substantially of herself in a way that's
appreciated by the world. In some ways, she may see
it as you having an easier time in this world
than she may be resentful of it or maybe a
little jealous of you because of it. Many women feel
that way because they do see men as having more
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power in this life. I can assure you, though, if
you are genuinely respectful and protective of her physically, emotionally, mentally,
and very patient, it's more than likely you will have
a woman who will turn around and appreciate you and
love you in ways that you can't imagine right now.
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So after all that, you may be wondering, so what's
a man to do? Ultimately, all relationships come back to ourselves.
I think the ultimate question is what kind of person
do you want to be? How much self, what authority
do you want to have? How well do you manage yourself?
Relationships are there because they're so intense. There's so much
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desire and passion and caring. Unlike most every place else,
we're not usually triggered to such extremes with anyone else
except for the people that we are romantically linked to.
So it's an opportunity for you as a man to
become stronger and more patient and more mature. And you
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can practice this at any moment of the day, just
knowing that You don't have to let anybody, even including
the woman that you're in love with, rock you off
your center. It's not easy, but it is possible, and
it's certainly a worthy thing to try to achieve. Whatever
you're feeling, just sit there for a moment and just
notice how you're feeling, and realize that you can't control anyone,
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including and especially that the woman you're in love with.
These are your thoughts and emotions, and they're valid. You're
allowed to feel that. However, negative response is never the
best way to handle it. So what kind of man
do you want to be? Do you want to be
the guy that flies off the handle over small stuff,
or do you want to be that rock solid guy
you know you can be, not just for her, but
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for yourself as well. Ultimately, she's looking for a man
who can stand up for her but also stand up
to her. Doing that in a respectful and patient manner
will get you farther than anything else.