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October 25, 2025 38 mins

The Rejection Illusion - Healing the Fear of Not Being Chosen

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In this episode, we explore one of the deepest human fears - rejection. From unanswered texts to childhood wounds, we examine why being “left out” can feel like danger to the nervous system and how that fear quietly shapes the way we love, create and show up in the world.

We discuss the biological, psychological and spiritual roots of rejection, the energetic cost of seeking acceptance and how self-rejection often hides beneath perfectionism, people-pleasing or overthinking.

To sum it up - If you're rejecting yourself... People will reject you. 

You’ll learn how to:

  • Recognize the subtle ways rejection shows up in your life

  • Rebuild self-trust through awareness and repair

  • Reclaim your power by choosing self-acceptance over approval

  • Practice radical self-love as a daily energetic alignment

This conversation is an invitation to stop abandoning yourself in search of validation and to remember that love isn’t something to earn, but something to return to.

We would never abandon you... WE ADORE YOU! Thanks for being here. 

 

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