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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice and relationships works, sex, parenting and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We could be reading your letter live on.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
The air, just like we're going to read this one
right here, right now, and you never know, it could
be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it. Pull
you here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject in her bed with
my man, Dear Stephen Shirley. I was in a car
accident two months ago and I had a cast on
my leg for several weeks. My husband had a hard
time taking me to medical appointments and taking care of
our children, so my former best friend came over daily
to help him out. They've always had a playful brother
(00:48):
sister relationship, so I'd never ever imagined they were attracted
to each other. I found out they had sex in
my house, a lot of sex. I found two empty
boxes of condoms stashed in my husband's gym bag, and
my husband stuck them in there.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
So it showed me he was too dumb to be
cheating on me.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
My intuition told me that it was my best friend
and that he'd been with and I don't know how
I guessed it, but I was right. I asked her
and she denied everything and acted very upset that I
assumed it was her. She definitely warned my husband, because
he came home and told me the whole truth. He
said it was my best friend and he said they
(01:28):
did it all over the house. I put him out
and guess where he went to her house. After I
cried for two weeks, I figured it was time to
get my lick back. I went to my best friend's
house to talk to my husband and she wasn't there,
but he said she'd be back soon, and he asked
me to lead. I ignored him and stripped off all
(01:50):
my clothes. I knew he wouldn't be able to resist me.
He scooped me up and laid me down in the
middle of her bed and we made sweet love until
she walked in screaming for him to get off of me.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
I could not stop laughing.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I had to run out of her house half naked
so she wouldn't jump on me. After all that, he
wants to work things out with me. Is our marriage
worth saving or will be? Will he keep cheating? Well,
you certainly got your revenge, now.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Didn't you.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
You did to her just what she did to you,
and she had the nerve to stand there screaming for
him to get off of you. Does she think that
they had some sort of permanent or special arrangement and
now mister man wants to work it out with you? Well, yes,
of course he wants to work it out because he
might not have anywhere to live after all of this.
(02:41):
But this is not about what he wants right now.
This is about you and how you want to move forward.
And only you can answer that. Only you can determine that.
Have you asked yourself? Can you trust him again? Because
this certainly doesn't sound like it, And that's what it is.
The trust is broken in your marriage. And remember, this
was your best friend he cheated with. She lied about it,
(03:04):
he didn't, and that's got to hurt more because.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
It was your best friend, you know, than just some
random person.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
It won't be easy to get over that part because
she would You guys were so close initially, although sleeping
with your husband in her bed, I'm sure that helped you,
didn't it. This is not impossible. You know, people have
gotten back together and all of that, but you know
after their spouse cheated. But it takes an incredible amount
of work. It takes prayer, all that, and after all
(03:36):
the work you put in to save your marriage, there's
no guarantee that he won't do this all over again.
He won't cheat again, maybe not with your best friend,
but with somebody else. You'd be gambling. This is not
a good look. Right here, he left you and went
to her house. I say, let this one go, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
You know there's a pool and a tug in me.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Do I try to say something beneficial, something helpful, something
with some redemptive quality to it? Or do I just
call this letter like it is. I've decided today to
call this one like it is. Let me open by saying,
I don't give a damn.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Let's just start right there, because I don't. I don't.
I don't. I don't. I don't, I don't, I don't.
I don't. I don't because I.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Get sick of people write me in with all these wrongs.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
In this letter.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
And then at the end he would he go the line,
is our marriage worth saving You know what?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
What what are y'all talking about? Here? What? Marriage? You? Why?
Why you want to save it? What? What's what a
value in this thing?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
The whole letter is just what your You had a
car accident, you broke your damn leg.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You had your whole leg and a cast.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
So your best friend came over daily to help your
husband because he was having a hard time taking me
to medical appointments and taking care of our children. And
he probably gotta work too, So yeah, I guess that's
a lot. I ain't got no problem. But your girlfriend
came over to help you. They've always had a playful
brother sister relationship, so I never ever imagined they were
(05:31):
attracted to each other. Lady, I don't understand this. You
attracted to him. If you attracted to your man, what
makes you think ain't no other woman gonna be attracted
to him? That's what be killing me about y'all. I
found out that they had sex in my house, a
lot of sex.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I found two empty boxes. God, that's a lot. That
boy clowning empty boxes.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
That's twenty that's twenty, that's twenty four.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
That ain't the times. This is just usages.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
It's twenty four useless. You can you know who busy?
You can move upstairs and downstairs. You know you up
and downstairs, so you know this ain't this twenty four
I'm all over the house. And then you crippled, so
you can't go check on nobody because you sitting there
every day.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Hang on, cash on your leg, you just you can't
even move.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Hang on, Steve Boxes God coming up in twenty three
minutes after the hour, we'll come back and recap the
letter and get part two of your response. Today's Strawberry
letter subject in her bed with my Man. We'll get
back into it right after this.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter
in her bed with my Man.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
So, now you broke your leg, used on medical and
for a while your husband was having a hard time
with the kids, and get you to the medical appointment.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
So your best friend came over.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Now they've always had a play for brothers and sister relationship,
so you never had any imagination or never imagined they
be attracted to each other. Well it was, and you
found out that they had had sex at your house.
And then you said a lot of having sick. You
found two empty boxes of Connor God, wooh, that two boxes.
That's twenty four woo. That's a lot. That's upstairs, downstairs,
(07:30):
in the basement. That's all out in the car, twenty
four twenty four. You gotta bite them off. You gotta
bite them, tear with your corner your that's a lot
of That's how you tear it off.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
You bite that tip anyway.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
So you can't open it with your hand because it
keep slipping because the rappers is faced. So you gotta
use your teeth. Got to use your teeth. That's twenty
four times.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Check your check.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Check on them rappers. One time you see teeth mark
on the end of you see it. If he got
all on his hand, didn't that. I found two empty
boxes stashed in my husband's jim bag. My husband stuck
him in there, so it showed me he was too
dumb to be cheating on me.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
What wait a minute.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
You found two boxes to call him stuffed in your
husband's jim bag. My husband stuck him in there, so
it showed me he was too dumb to be cheating
on me.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
He didn't know how to Cheat's.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Dog No that's a dumb line, Shirley.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
You you well, you should have put that in your
response because this is in mind. That's a dumb ass line.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
That's what she meant. I'm just saying that.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
But she's stupid. Though.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
My intuition told me it was my best friend that
he'd been with. I don't know how I guessed it,
but I was. You said it was your intuition. You
don't know how I guessed it, but I was right anyway.
I don't know how I guessed it, but I was right.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
I asked her. She did not everything and acted very
upset that I assumed it was hurt.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
She definitely warned my husband because he came home and
told me the whole truth.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
What how many stupid people in this day? What boy?
He came home and told me the whole truth for
what she said.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
It wasn't her.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I'd have came home. Baby.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Did you say something to her because she told me
you thought me and her? Well, I found these combs
in back, No, my boy, that's my boys. He asked
me to take these bad from because he was cheating
on his wife and he ain't want her to know.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
So he struck him in the gym bag, and I
meant to throw them away.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
That's damn ain't no way in hell I'm coming in
this house with the whole truth. It's no way, It's
just no. He said it was my best friend. He
said they did it all over the house. I told you,
when you got twenty four old condoms, that's upstairs, downstairs, basement,
that's out in the car, you're in the garage. That's
a lot of activity right there. I put him out,
(10:08):
and guess where he went to her house? Ain't no surprising.
After I cried for two weeks, I figured it was
time to get my lick back. I went to my
best friend's house to talk to my husband. She wasn't there,
but he said she'd be back soon, and he asked
me to leave. I ignored him and stripped off all
my clothes. I knew he wouldn't be able to resist me.
(10:29):
He scooped me up, laid me down in the middle
of they bade and we made sweet love until she walked.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
In, screaming for him to get off of me, get
off of her. I could not stop laughing.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
I had to run out of her house half naked
so she wouldn't jump on me. You knew that ass
whippop was coming and you cannot fight niked. I'm telling
anybody that nicked you're going to lose, especially men you have.
You've got to protect certain things and things that's loose
(11:06):
and swinging and bumping up into stuff you can't. You're
gonna lose this money after all that he wants to
work things out with me. Really, now here's the dumbest
line in the whole letter. Is our marriage worth saving?
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Or will he keep cheating?
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Wait a minute, lady, you went over another woman's house,
climbed in the middle of her bed.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
With your man.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
She came home threatens you. You had to run out naked.
He left you and went over to her house. He
had two boxes of empty condoms in the gym bag.
What you was at the house crying for two weeks?
(12:00):
Your intuition told you is your best friend. I'm just
going over and then is our marriage worth saving?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
What?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
See? That's why I say about these letters right here.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
I want to apologize, see Steve Harvey Morning Show listeners,
because sometimes we do this to y'all and a lot
of y'all getting ready to go to work, and we
just want to say we sorry about these strawberry days,
and please stop asking us who writes these for us?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Because I don't know nobody just ignorant. I wish I did.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
That.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Tommy stupid, but he ain't. Just ignati.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Do you write good ass poems and got some good
ass jokes?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Ey boy?
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Can't write the Dawn Letter like this?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Leave your comments on Today's letter on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
It's Steve Harvey FM, and.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. Coming
up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this,
you're listening Steve
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Harvey Morning Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice and relationships works, sex, parenting and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We could be reading your letter live on.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
The air, just like we're going to read this one
right here, right now, and you never know, it could
be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it. Pull
you here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject in her bed with
my man, Dear Stephen Shirley. I was in a car
accident two months ago and I had a cast on
my leg for several weeks. My husband had a hard
time taking me to medical appointments and taking care of
our children, so my former best friend came over daily
to help him out. They've always had a playful brother
(00:48):
sister relationship, so I'd never ever imagined they were attracted
to each other. I found out they had sex in
my house, a lot of sex. I found two empty
boxes of condoms stashed in my husband's gym bag, and
my husband stuck them in there.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
So it showed me he was too dumb to be
cheating on me.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
My intuition told me that it was my best friend
and that he'd been with and I don't know how
I guessed it, but I was right. I asked her
and she denied everything and acted very upset that I
assumed it was her. She definitely warned my husband, because
he came home and told me the whole truth. He
said it was my best friend and he said they
(01:28):
did it all over the house. I put him out
and guess where he went to her house. After I
cried for two weeks, I figured it was time to
get my lick back. I went to my best friend's
house to talk to my husband and she wasn't there,
but he said she'd be back soon, and he asked
me to lead. I ignored him and stripped off all
(01:50):
my clothes. I knew he wouldn't be able to resist me.
He scooped me up and laid me down in the
middle of her bed and we made sweet love until
she walked in screaming for him to get off of me.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
I could not stop laughing.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I had to run out of her house half naked
so she wouldn't jump on me. After all that, he
wants to work things out with me. Is our marriage
worth saving or will be? Will he keep cheating? Well,
you certainly got your revenge, now.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Didn't you.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
You did to her just what she did to you,
and she had the nerve to stand there screaming for
him to get off of you. Does she think that
they had some sort of permanent or special arrangement and
now mister man wants to work it out with you? Well, yes,
of course he wants to work it out because he
might not have anywhere to live after all of this.
(02:41):
But this is not about what he wants right now.
This is about you and how you want to move forward.
And only you can answer that. Only you can determine that.
Have you asked yourself? Can you trust him again? Because
this certainly doesn't sound like it, And that's what it is.
The trust is broken in your marriage. And remember, this
was your best friend he cheated with. She lied about it,
(03:04):
he didn't, and that's got to hurt more because.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
It was your best friend, you know, than just some
random person.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
It won't be easy to get over that part because
she would You guys were so close initially, although sleeping
with your husband in her bed, I'm sure that helped you,
didn't it. This is not impossible. You know, people have
gotten back together and all of that, but you know
after their spouse cheated. But it takes an incredible amount
of work. It takes prayer, all that, and after all
(03:36):
the work you put in to save your marriage, there's
no guarantee that he won't do this all over again.
He won't cheat again, maybe not with your best friend,
but with somebody else. You'd be gambling. This is not
a good look. Right here, he left you and went
to her house. I say, let this one go, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
You know there's a pool and a tug in me.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Do I try to say something beneficial, something helpful, something
with some redemptive quality to it? Or do I just
call this letter like it is. I've decided today to
call this one like it is. Let me open by saying,
I don't give a damn.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Let's just start right there, because I don't. I don't.
I don't. I don't. I don't, I don't, I don't.
I don't. I don't because I.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Get sick of people write me in with all these wrongs.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
In this letter.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
And then at the end he would he go the line,
is our marriage worth saving You know what?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
What what are y'all talking about? Here? What? Marriage? You? Why?
Why you want to save it? What? What's what a
value in this thing?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
The whole letter is just what your You had a
car accident, you broke your damn leg.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You had your whole leg and a cast.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
So your best friend came over daily to help your
husband because he was having a hard time taking me
to medical appointments and taking care of our children. And
he probably gotta work too, So yeah, I guess that's
a lot. I ain't got no problem. But your girlfriend
came over to help you. They've always had a playful
brother sister relationship, so I never ever imagined they were
(05:31):
attracted to each other. Lady, I don't understand this. You
attracted to him. If you attracted to your man, what
makes you think ain't no other woman gonna be attracted
to him? That's what be killing me about y'all. I
found out that they had sex in my house, a
lot of sex.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I found two empty boxes. God, that's a lot. That
boy clowning empty boxes.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
That's twenty that's twenty, that's twenty four.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
That ain't the times. This is just usages.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
It's twenty four useless. You can you know who busy?
You can move upstairs and downstairs. You know you up
and downstairs, so you know this ain't this twenty four
I'm all over the house. And then you crippled, so
you can't go check on nobody because you sitting there
every day.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Hang on, cash on your leg, you just you can't
even move.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Hang on, Steve Boxes God coming up in twenty three
minutes after the hour, we'll come back and recap the
letter and get part two of your response. Today's Strawberry
letter subject in her bed with my Man. We'll get
back into it right after this.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter
in her bed with my Man.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
So, now you broke your leg, used on medical and
for a while your husband was having a hard time
with the kids, and get you to the medical appointment.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
So your best friend came over.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Now they've always had a play for brothers and sister relationship,
so you never had any imagination or never imagined they
be attracted to each other. Well it was, and you
found out that they had had sex at your house.
And then you said a lot of having sick. You
found two empty boxes of Connor God, wooh, that two boxes.
That's twenty four woo. That's a lot. That's upstairs, downstairs,
(07:30):
in the basement. That's all out in the car, twenty
four twenty four. You gotta bite them off. You gotta
bite them, tear with your corner your that's a lot
of That's how you tear it off.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
You bite that tip anyway.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
So you can't open it with your hand because it
keep slipping because the rappers is faced. So you gotta
use your teeth. Got to use your teeth. That's twenty
four times.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Check your check.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Check on them rappers. One time you see teeth mark
on the end of you see it. If he got
all on his hand, didn't that. I found two empty
boxes stashed in my husband's jim bag. My husband stuck
him in there, so it showed me he was too
dumb to be cheating on me.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
What wait a minute.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
You found two boxes to call him stuffed in your
husband's jim bag. My husband stuck him in there, so
it showed me he was too dumb to be cheating
on me.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
He didn't know how to Cheat's.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Dog No that's a dumb line, Shirley.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
You you well, you should have put that in your
response because this is in mind. That's a dumb ass line.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
That's what she meant. I'm just saying that.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
But she's stupid. Though.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
My intuition told me it was my best friend that
he'd been with. I don't know how I guessed it,
but I was. You said it was your intuition. You
don't know how I guessed it, but I was right anyway.
I don't know how I guessed it, but I was right.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
I asked her. She did not everything and acted very
upset that I assumed it was hurt.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
She definitely warned my husband because he came home and
told me the whole truth.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
What how many stupid people in this day? What boy?
He came home and told me the whole truth for
what she said.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
It wasn't her.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I'd have came home. Baby.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Did you say something to her because she told me
you thought me and her? Well, I found these combs
in back, No, my boy, that's my boys. He asked
me to take these bad from because he was cheating
on his wife and he ain't want her to know.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
So he struck him in the gym bag, and I
meant to throw them away.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
That's damn ain't no way in hell I'm coming in
this house with the whole truth. It's no way, It's
just no. He said it was my best friend. He
said they did it all over the house. I told you,
when you got twenty four old condoms, that's upstairs, downstairs, basement,
that's out in the car, you're in the garage. That's
a lot of activity right there. I put him out,
(10:08):
and guess where he went to her house? Ain't no surprising.
After I cried for two weeks, I figured it was
time to get my lick back. I went to my
best friend's house to talk to my husband. She wasn't there,
but he said she'd be back soon, and he asked
me to leave. I ignored him and stripped off all
my clothes. I knew he wouldn't be able to resist me.
(10:29):
He scooped me up, laid me down in the middle
of they bade and we made sweet love until she walked.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
In, screaming for him to get off of me, get
off of her. I could not stop laughing.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
I had to run out of her house half naked
so she wouldn't jump on me. You knew that ass
whippop was coming and you cannot fight niked. I'm telling
anybody that nicked you're going to lose, especially men you have.
You've got to protect certain things and things that's loose
(11:06):
and swinging and bumping up into stuff you can't. You're
gonna lose this money after all that he wants to
work things out with me. Really, now here's the dumbest
line in the whole letter. Is our marriage worth saving?
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Or will he keep cheating?
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Wait a minute, lady, you went over another woman's house,
climbed in the middle of her bed.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
With your man.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
She came home threatens you. You had to run out naked.
He left you and went over to her house. He
had two boxes of empty condoms in the gym bag.
What you was at the house crying for two weeks?
(12:00):
Your intuition told you is your best friend. I'm just
going over and then is our marriage worth saving?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
What?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
See? That's why I say about these letters right here.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
I want to apologize, see Steve Harvey Morning Show listeners,
because sometimes we do this to y'all and a lot
of y'all getting ready to go to work, and we
just want to say we sorry about these strawberry days,
and please stop asking us who writes these for us?
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Because I don't know nobody just ignorant. I wish I did.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
That.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Tommy stupid, but he ain't. Just ignati.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Do you write good ass poems and got some good
ass jokes?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Ey boy?
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Can't write the Dawn Letter like this?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Leave your comments on Today's letter on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
It's Steve Harvey FM, and.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. Coming
up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this,
you're listening Steve
Speaker 3 (12:59):
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