FULL SHOW #194: SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR PARTNER EVERYTHING???

FULL SHOW #194:

SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR PARTNER EVERYTHING? OR SHOULD SOME THINGS BE KEPT SECRET? 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Haley and Max in the morning.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
With these two together, anything can happen.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
This is Hailey and Max in the Morning. Adelaide's number
one for fun. Well when where Good morning, Adelaide. Happy Tuesday.
It's a minute past six, Haley Max in the morning.
All yes, Hello, Max Burford.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Max Burford has the flu amb it appears it was.
They all be one of the two, so is Mazzie.
It's going around. Be careful, guys. You don't want to
get sick at this time of year. In fact, that
sucks so much when you sick and it's a beautiful
day outside.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Yeah, well you'd rather be beautiful day so you can
at least get some sunshine. Right, it's gonna be good today,
thirty and mostly sunny.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
Oh the weather is heating. It's gonna be thirty six
on Friday. Oh my god, you can speaking of I
was looking at photos of our ad Lady Christmas Village
happening again Friday Saturday. I'm so excited. You haven't heard
about it. It's we put on this big state event
in Victoria Square. There's one hundred markets. It's awesome. But
I was looking at photos from last year and the

(01:10):
year before Burjo and I it was actually a video,
and I was like, what the hell? I stopped the
video zoomed in and it was you standing there.

Speaker 4 (01:21):
What did I look like?

Speaker 2 (01:24):
I don't want to say say it.

Speaker 4 (01:26):
You looked like a bowling ball.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
You look round, you look like a ball, and so
much so that I was like, I don't remember you
ever looking like that, a literal.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
Ball, Like, I feel like we have to put this
on the mixed stories.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Then I was zooming and going, is it you?

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Like? Yeah, mate, it was hard to miss.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
No, it's so weird. You've lost fifty what kilos?

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Now fifty two?

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Fifty two kilos?

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Yeah, but the photo that Hayley's talking about genuinely reminiscent
of something spherical.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
It's when I saw.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
That I was like, you, like, you look at you so,
why didn't no one tell me you are disgustingly fat?

Speaker 2 (02:04):
I'm pretty sure Lauren, your partner told you that using
those exact words.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
But you know when it comes great that you love
the most? Yeah, I know.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Do you know what it is though you when you
are that way? I don't. I don't remember looking at
you it ever, and going, you're really you're really overweight
because now I look in photo photos and go, wow.

Speaker 4 (02:28):
Yeah you're huge. Yeah, totally.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
And there was a post you put up the other
day of like saying goodbye for this week because it's
Max and one of the videos I was laughing and
my face, like my neck is working its way up
my face and swallowing my face the point where you
can't even barely see my eyes.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
You look like drop dead Fred when drop dead Fred's
face has been squashed by a truck.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
Yeah, and it looks like the flat pancake.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Yeah yeah, but that was just my whole body.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
There's so much face.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
There's like your face, your eyes and nose and mouth
within the face around it like a lot of free Anyway,
we're find the money minute in two hours time, and
we're gonna play a game in a second as well.
Call us anytime.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
All right, it's all coming up. So you know what, Adelaide,
this is just motivation for you. If you wake it
up this morning looking like a bit of a bowling ball. Yeah,
you two can change.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Don't be a bowling ball.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
Its points very good morning point three.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Just here songs like that we see and then we go,
oh my god, I'm so proud of you being from Adelaide. No,
I love her, Haley Max in the morning, Max berfod
Off sick today eight sell your flashback?

Speaker 2 (03:42):
All right, it's Burdo versus Hailey today. We're going head
to head. Max is off sick and we are fighting
for a flashback that we want to play on the radio.
You need to call us on thirty one O two three,
pick your fave and we'll play it for you.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Okay, we got good prices today. It's in every call
of gets day. You're going to call thirty one O
two three, get through and go off to the housemaid.
It's a wildly entertaining thriller starring Sydney Sweeney and Amanda
Sea Freed God based on the best selling book in
cinemas December twenty six.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
This book is excellent. The movie is going to be amazing.
And this is a double pass. All right. Every caller
gets that today. So thirty one or two three, here's
my song.

Speaker 3 (04:23):
Some like Spotify.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
I reckon one of my most played songs this year.
Really yeah, the Tasa Battingfield sister off. It's Daniel buel.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Well speaking of Sidney Sweeney, that movie that she was
in mc glen power call.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah this is in that movie.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Yeah, I don't remember the movie.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
But I'm just giving up on what I'm saying halfway through.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay, that's Hailey's so put your.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
I'm like Hailey and choosing to support local.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
I love guys about them, but not today. I want Natasha.
All right.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
It has to be one of the best songs ever.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
It is a brilliant I mean, Elevator Love was also good.
Thirty one, O two three?

Speaker 3 (05:07):
Cool?

Speaker 2 (05:07):
Now what do you want to hear? An Atasha bedding Field,
Unwritten or gar Sebastian?

Speaker 1 (05:11):
All right, and every caller gets We'll get off to
the housemaid today?

Speaker 4 (05:14):
Mixed one or two point three?

Speaker 5 (05:21):
Flashback?

Speaker 6 (05:22):
All right?

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Is it a Tasha betting Field? I'm written? Is it Guy?
Sebastian battles Gus. I mean, they're both great bangers.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
One's just better than the other.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
I wouldn't say guys a banger either, Like Unwritten isn't
really a banger. It's just a great song.

Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay, hang on you saying a song a banger.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
If Guy wins this battle, turn it up as loud
as your car will let you, and you will feel
that it really is a bang.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
No.

Speaker 2 (05:52):
I feel like I'm lying to myself because I also
love that guy song. Lots of calls thirty one oh
two three? What do you want to hear? It's up
to you, Nikki in T T Gully?

Speaker 5 (06:02):
What do you want?

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (06:03):
Good morning, Haley and fur show and commiserations to Mac.
I'm just currently running around the oval with a cortizonjection
in my foot. So I'm going battle scarf with fo
because if I can do another two laps, there'll be
a bloody miracle.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Why have you got a quartz in your foot?

Speaker 1 (06:19):
What's wrong?

Speaker 7 (06:22):
I wore from a sparkly boots a couple of months
ago that were so small and yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, not good.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Shove my massive toes into smaller shoes and.

Speaker 7 (06:34):
It doesn't work, So don't do it because you're gonna
have cornzon injection and now it's battle scars. No, it's
not that, it's the other one. I'm a good day guy.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
You two.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
Oh I love your voice in the morning, sand Red
hole in the ill? Are you picking?

Speaker 8 (06:53):
Good morning?

Speaker 9 (06:55):
Go bastioned?

Speaker 10 (06:57):
Sorry Haley?

Speaker 5 (06:58):
So you kill me?

Speaker 3 (07:02):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (07:02):
Why do you want to die today?

Speaker 11 (07:04):
I just love his song?

Speaker 8 (07:06):
I mean, I like the other song.

Speaker 11 (07:07):
But sorry, guys it today.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Do you know what?

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Because I love you, you can introduce the song because
you win, and you can introduce you a song. Now,
go on the radio.

Speaker 6 (07:17):
Answer go, Guy Sebastian Out, Guy Sebastian.

Speaker 5 (07:26):
Ouch.

Speaker 11 (07:28):
Alright, I hit my head.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
You actually.

Speaker 10 (07:34):
The car on the door handle my god.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Okay, hey you're off to the housemaid so you Nikki.
Thank you guys, Thanks everyone for calling. We couldn't get
you all on because all the vote it was a landslide. Haley,
I'm so sorry. Whatever, but you know what, You've always
got this, Hailey.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
I've got plant of fascists.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Point three.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
How do you?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Max?

Speaker 4 (07:54):
In the morning?

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Max Berfont on the sick List today, twenty five past six.
Gaga there in Australia at the moment, wouldn't have bought tickets.
But then you hear the reports.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
You're jealous.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
We did amazing she is and you're like, oh my god,
why didn't I go?

Speaker 8 (08:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (08:07):
I think we all know how amazing she is, Like
she's incredible. But now everyone's saying how good the show was.
I think I missed out?

Speaker 1 (08:14):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're not going to miss
out on anything. When you were a thousand dollars. No,
eight am the money Minute. So yesterday we thought we'd
be giving this money away.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
The school holiday is so close. Today's the day, though
I've seen the questions. It's happening eight o'clock today. If
you want to win a thousand bucks, go into Christmas
school holidays richer. You can even retire if you want to.

Speaker 4 (08:37):
You've away, Yeah, why not?

Speaker 12 (08:38):
Go on?

Speaker 4 (08:39):
All right?

Speaker 2 (08:40):
Question number one? How many days in December? Guys? It's
thirty one? You do the thing on the hand? Do
you do the Yeah, the knuckles. That's how I realize.
How many days in each month? Do you do that?

Speaker 5 (08:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (08:52):
No, because I'm not five anymore?

Speaker 1 (08:54):
You do?

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Do you know what I do? Left and right? I
still go to see if I write with my right hand,
or i'd make an l WI my thing. I don't
know my left and right anyway. That's a whole other thing.

Speaker 4 (09:04):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
Yeah, the moneymit coming about eight o'clock this morning and today,
and every caller gets today You're going to go to
the Housemaid, which is a movie that Hayley Pierson is
so excited.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
The book is excellent and the movie is apparently just
as good.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Okay, you call thirty one or two three, you get
on air, You go on to the house. Hallie and Max.
In the morning thirty mostly sunny in Adelade. Today Max
berth and on the sick list.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
I love Oprah Winfrey so much. I love that she
comes to our city and she embraced it. She went
out and about, She went to the river Torrens. She
was talking to Rando's. She got her hiking six ready.
She went up Mount Lofty. I don't know how far
she went up maul Lofty to be fair. So I
had a situation on Saturday, and I want to know
if anyone else had this situation. But I was so excited.

(09:45):
On my way down to Cabra, we're going down crossroads.
I said to my husband, Oh my god, we're next
to this big black Mrk like you never see a
Mercedes van with dark windows, like you know that there's
a celebrity in there. And I said to Jimmy, I reckon,
that's Oprah. And then I can't realized she was in
a black merk.

Speaker 4 (10:02):
Where was she going?

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Cross Roadmackers, Grace Girdles, big W down.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
There, Cumberland Park, big W.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
It's a good but worse there too, the bowling alley
across the road zone bowling.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
She could have been going to the ex Convenience that's
on like crossroad, the ex Convenience.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
But she may have gone down to the beach. Who knows.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
We want to know where you saw Oprah wrong? Answers only,
so Nick and Gawler.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Did you see her in Gaula?

Speaker 8 (10:27):
Oh God, you're not going to believe it.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
She was the main north road mana paramote.

Speaker 2 (10:32):
Was she on her way to Jep's cross or what
was she doing here?

Speaker 12 (10:35):
She was?

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Hadn't that way?

Speaker 6 (10:36):
I pulled up in the drug and got her and
I gave her a bit of.

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Nick, You're legend.

Speaker 4 (10:43):
Was she grateful?

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Mate?

Speaker 6 (10:44):
Was she not?

Speaker 8 (10:45):
She loved it, mate, She loved the drugs.

Speaker 11 (10:47):
She sits up real high test there.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Oh she would have too. I love that you get
a selfie with.

Speaker 11 (10:53):
Her, Nick, I couldn't.

Speaker 10 (10:54):
She wouldn't allow that.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Ah right, some rules, that's all right, thanks for calling Nick.
Love that, Tracy. Where'd you see Oprah wrong? Answers only.

Speaker 11 (11:01):
I saw Oprah down at the Rapid Bay Cricket Club.

Speaker 8 (11:04):
She opened the batting for them.

Speaker 11 (11:06):
She scored ninety four not out. She held of that
all day.

Speaker 9 (11:11):
She kept the innings going. Everyone fell, like lost their
wickets all around her, but she kept going.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Ninety four not out water Queen. Were they letting her
play or were they kind of interrupting her a bit? No?

Speaker 9 (11:22):
No, Page, she was so serious.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
Was Gail King wicket keeper?

Speaker 5 (11:28):
She wasn't.

Speaker 11 (11:28):
I didn't see Gail at all?

Speaker 2 (11:31):
Where was Gail? A VESTI Let's go to Josie and Monopara.
Where'd you see Oprah?

Speaker 11 (11:36):
Okay, she was at none of those places what everyone
else did, because she was at.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
Bounce with me.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
She was just jumping.

Speaker 11 (11:45):
She had a pink like her on with a black
tank top her hair and a ponytail with a pink scarf,
and we were doing buck bouncing, so she was shaking
that booty very specific.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
Now I've got a question, because anyone who goes to
Bounce knows that the seventeen year olds that work there
very aggressively tell you off if you're like in the
wrong area or they're at the wrong time. Were they
brave enough to tell Oprah off or no?

Speaker 11 (12:09):
I I asked to if I can go on there
with and they said no, one per square, So I
had to go on the square next your.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Head, Josey, your legend. Thank you so much for sharing that.
We love that. Where was Oprah on the weekend?

Speaker 11 (12:22):
Jess and Netley illut at work all weekend.

Speaker 10 (12:24):
So she walked in while I'm just doing my business
and she's like, hey, I'd love to be facial. Can
you do some browna by We're that do?

Speaker 8 (12:30):
And I'm like it, of course, I'm my god.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Did you do her brows?

Speaker 5 (12:34):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (12:34):
What kind of brow did you have? Did your feather
or did you wax?

Speaker 11 (12:38):
I did a hybrid with a like nice lemonade.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
This is insane?

Speaker 4 (12:43):
Oh what wait? I just got a text.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
A friend saw her at Hollywood Plaza.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
She would love Hollywood Plaza. She was totally there. Smoke mart.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
Instead been a gift. She comes home back to Montcy.

Speaker 4 (13:04):
No, He's like, so what did you get me from
down under?

Speaker 2 (13:06):
I got you a colorable bowl.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
Smoke in Hollywood Plaza. It's one o two point three.

Speaker 4 (13:19):
How are you? Max?

Speaker 1 (13:20):
In the morning, Max Purfect off sick today, thirty mostly
sunny in Adelaide.

Speaker 5 (13:25):
The room was true weird.

Speaker 8 (13:31):
Healy's punch tea lesslill was going on.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
So we this all rise for Adelaide's own Sarah Snook.
Please everyone around a floor studio, We are so proud
of this girl. She's Adelaide girl, went to Scotch College,
met her auntie in Burrough. I was working Borough recently,
filming over there and I was in an art gallery
and the lady's like, I'm Sarah Snook's auntie. I'm like,
good on you. That's awesome. Everyone's very proud of her,

(13:54):
and they should be because she's just been nominated for
Best Performance by a Female Actor for her lead role
in what I think is one of the greatest TV shows,
definitely of twenty twenty five, all her fault. It's one
of those thrillers that you will never know what's coming.
You think you know what's happening, and then the twist
is just superb at the.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
Very about a missing child.

Speaker 1 (14:15):
Yep.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Yeah, you would have seen the scenes for it. Watch
it like you. Once you start it, you won't be
out stopped and you'll think you know what's happening, and
then you won't.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
I'll get to it in about six years. I've only
just started Succession, the other one that she's in.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Oh mate, She's already won two Golden Globes for that one.
White Lotus also nominated for six Golden Globes hopefully next year.
I think the next one's in France. They're going to France.
I'm so excited.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
I think annoys me more than TV shows that take
a year to go back to the next one. Hurrying up,
I know, I reckon.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
They're filming it soon, which means maybe end of next year.
K Pop demon Hunter is also nominated for it Standing
Cinematic and Box Office Achievement. Well done. This is a
weird one. Garbage remember the band Garbage? They would big
in like the nineties. The front woman, Shirley Manson has
had this weird, bizarre outburst. It's going everywhere at the moment,

(15:12):
which is probably good for her to get a little
bit of PR, A little bit extra PR.

Speaker 4 (15:16):
What I could do with it.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
So she's on stage and they're at like a beach concert.
So people are throwing those big balls around and some
of them got on stage and she went off that
amazing beach ball. Thank you, Darling angels, thank you. It's something. Yeah,

(15:37):
I'm a kill Debbie Donor. Beach balls ruptus.

Speaker 4 (15:44):
You are a Debbie Donor.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
Everyone has been to a concert where these beach balls
that are very light and just feel with their are
flying around and don't hurt anyone. And it's fun to
try and know when you're.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Like doing something and you don't expect it and someone
hits you with it and it throws you and you
get really angry.

Speaker 4 (16:02):
She has full view of the entire audience. She can
see it coming.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
Yeah, she was angry, but she's also apologized. Have ass
you all right, let's move on from garbage to Oprah.
Just one more little thing about her while she's still
in the country. Her diva demands have been unleashed. Do

(16:28):
you want to know what she requires? And just say
she goes out and talks to everybody. She's She's not
a diva in that respect. She's amazing, but I think
she's earned this. So she has a glam team that's
always on call to make her look good, make her
dress well. She has got an Adelaide stylist who's amazing.

Speaker 4 (16:44):
That seems pretty normous.

Speaker 2 (16:45):
Hair and makeup, always a full time this is my dream,
A full time missus.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
Yeah, normal at all times. I don't know if that's
normal normal for billionaires is a driver.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
At the ready at all hours. I love this and
she's been stay. I'm at a forty forty six thousand
dollars a night, two level penthouse in Sydney.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
Yeah, I mean apart from the penthouse in Sydney, that's
all of us when we go to Bali. Driver on standby.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
Oh, that's so true.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
Sou's on standby always.

Speaker 8 (17:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
And then do you know, do you ever? I don't know,
this might be wrong to say this. When you're in
Bali and you're getting those massages every day, does a
little part of your brain want to offer them a
job and take them back and live with you like
there's a no pair, and then they can also massage
you at all firms. I've thought about that. Yeah, I
know you have wonder how much they would do that
for and is that okay to do that?

Speaker 1 (17:31):
There might be some visa logistical issues, but we'll look
into that.

Speaker 4 (17:33):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
Eight thousand dollars coming up the money minute. You can
live like Oprah with your divid demands.

Speaker 4 (17:38):
Eight o'clock.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
That's on the way and coming up in about ten minutes.
If you have a kid like me who does not
listen and protests everything, I were going to solve it
all in fifty seconds for you.

Speaker 4 (17:50):
That's on the way.

Speaker 1 (17:51):
Haya MAXI the morning, Max and berthed Off sits going
to be a beautiful day today, thirty mostly Sonny.

Speaker 2 (17:56):
All right, Berjo, Dad of the Year, You got a
your Dad's a beautiful little girl, Sophia. How she's four
and you have just discovered something that I am so
grateful that you're part of this club now.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
Well, she's four, and she's strong, and she's stubborn, and
she's just sometimes so cute, but such a layhole sometimes,
I know, and at night we're really struggling, so you know,
out of nappies now. But we want her to go
to the toilet and do a week before bed because
otherwise we're going to wake up at three am to
a little puddle.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
We all do a week before bed, correct, So she
won't do that.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
She fights that, and it's such a traumatic experience trying
to put her on the toilet to get her to
do a week and then she always ends up doing one.
Then every night we have to lay with her until
she falls asleep, which I know parents are like, just
embrace it.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
It's not going to be that way when you're in it.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
You're in it and you just want to get out.

Speaker 4 (18:42):
Yeah, and it's like forty five minutes a night that
you could get back.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
Yeah. You know, you use bribery to get to do these.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
Things sometimes, but she always sees through it. Bribery consequence.
Like nothing has seemed to work. Christmas time obviously coming up,
a lot of parents do in the elf on the
shelf thing.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
A lot of parents, you know, parents doing the elf
on the shell thing.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
Well, the elf on the shelf is doing the elk
on the shelf thing, and a lot of kids are
excited about Santa Claus. Yeah, Christmas is watching in just
over two and a half weeks. And so we're talking about,
you know, Santa is watching me. Because Santa has these
magical powers and he can see and he can hear everything.

(19:23):
And last night the defiance was real and I was like,
you know what, We're going to call Santa. She goes,
you don't have his phone number, as.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
If that she's like questioning you.

Speaker 4 (19:33):
I said, actually I do.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
And I googled Santa's phone number and I called the
Santa hotline and this is what we heard on the
other end, Married Christmas.

Speaker 5 (19:50):
This is Santa Claus and you have reached my personal hotline.
We have been very busy making all of those toys
to the her on Christmas morning. And I want you
to know that your family loves you very much, and
so do I. So be good and don't forget to
always listen to your parents when you hear the tone.

(20:14):
Please leave me your Christmas gift wishes and holiday cheer,
and remember, kids, I know who's been naughty and nice.
Marry Christmas and I'll see you soon.

Speaker 1 (20:29):
She looked at me with the widest eyes, her mouth open.
And I looked at the eyes and I hung up,
and I said, oh my god, we need to go
to the toilet right now. And what did she do.
She ran to the toilet, got on it, pushed out away,
and then jumped straight in her bed and fell asleep
on her own.

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God, he is always watching. He knows everything. So check
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you have to call the North Pole obviously.

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Speaker 1 (21:34):
A parent Winds mix one O two point three. How
are you Max?

Speaker 8 (21:38):
In the morning?

Speaker 1 (21:38):
Max Burford off sick today twenty four past seven thirty
degrees and Adelaide mostly sunny today.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
Heye. Question for you if someone tells you a secret,
like you know something that you shouldn't tell anyone else,
do you automatically tell your partner? Thirty one O two
three Because Urge and I are currently talking about this
at the moment. Our relationships intertwined, if you haven't worked
that out already on this show. In that my best
friend Lauren, who's my other half of ade Lady, is

(22:06):
also your partner and the mother of your child. So
we are very intertwined.

Speaker 4 (22:10):
The three of us and so four of us your
husbands and yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:15):
So when I tell Lauren something and it's a secret,
I hope that she doesn't tell you.

Speaker 4 (22:24):
Yeah, but I also hope that you're not keeping secrets
from me.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
Yeah. It's very it's very messy. The thing is, though,
what do you think. Do you think if someone tells
you a secret, you automatically tell Lauren?

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Okay, so I've got double standards for this. I will
tell Lauren everything. But the other day I told her
mate some personal secret stuff and I said, don't tell
your wife. And then I saw the wife and I said, oh,
did Andy tell you?

Speaker 4 (22:49):
And she said, yes, of course he did.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
See I respect when you don't. My husband's very good
with that kind of thing. I'm I'm less school with
that kind of thing.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
The fact that if you don't tell your partner then
you're kind of betraying them.

Speaker 2 (23:05):
If it's got something to do with them, if it
affects them, Yes.

Speaker 4 (23:09):
You shouldn't feel they need to keep anything from your partner.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
No, But if someone tells you a secret, like if
my best friend said to me, don't tell anyone about something,
I don't tell anyone, not.

Speaker 4 (23:18):
Even your partner who you share a bed with.

Speaker 1 (23:20):
At night, like you know, because I.

Speaker 2 (23:22):
Do you know what the guilt kicks in. Do you
ever feel guilty when you tell someone's secret? Does that
ever occur to Oh? I feel sick in the timing.
I shouldn't be telling you this because when the more
people you tell, the less diluted, The more diluted it becomes,
and then they don't care about ramifications of telling other
people and it gets out and then it's like back
on you and your.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
Partner should be one and I think you should be
in a relationship where you trust your partner to literally
keep those and hold those secrets to the grave.

Speaker 13 (23:50):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
I disagree. I think if I tell my one of
my best friends something, take away Lauren from this situation.
So another one of my best friends something, I would
be upset if they told their partner. But I think
it's just between it's a girl thing, it's between the
two of us. No, I respect Jimmy that he doesn't
tell me things.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (24:08):
I think I would love to know the rules with this, what.

Speaker 4 (24:12):
There are any rules?

Speaker 1 (24:12):
But it is actually very interesting to see what most
people do because I just always thought that people naturally
just hold their partner, because it's the person they're with,
it's the person they've chosen to like, do life with.
They trust them the most, and you should know everything
about each other's life.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
If I was to tell you a secret now, yeah,
and I said, don't tell Lauren.

Speaker 4 (24:31):
Well depends on if it's going to hurt her or not.

Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yeah, But what would you do if I said, if
I said to you, don't tell your partner, would you
just automatically tell her or do you and lie to me?

Speaker 4 (24:42):
It would really depend what it was.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
Oh see that now, I'm like, that changes my whole
view of telling your secret.

Speaker 4 (24:49):
Really.

Speaker 5 (24:50):
Yeah, I just thought people did this.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
I thought people just communicated and trusted their partners enough
to be able to share that information and to share it.
But it's also not telling another gossipy friend. It's telling
your partner, and if they have got your best interests
at heart, they're not going to spread that further.

Speaker 5 (25:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:07):
See you see, Jimmy's not a gossipy person whereas you are,
So I'd be careful to tell you because you've got
a massive amount you tell. Everybody thinks Gospie I just
like your yeah, biggest gossip person, all right, thirty one
O two three. What's the rule if someone tells you
a secret? Do you automatically tell your partner and hasn't
got you into trouble before?

Speaker 4 (25:26):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (25:26):
And yes, all right today it's in every caller gets
So you call you get on Air thirteen one oh
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Speaker 1 (25:43):
Bigs one two point three Taylor open lyte halea Max
in the morning thirty mostly sunny in Adelaide Today, Max
Burfett Off sick today.

Speaker 2 (25:50):
So o fair Burgo and I were having a little conversation.
We want you to weigh in on this because background,
my best friend Lauren, my other half of Adelaidy, is
also Joe's partner. So we are all intertwined, the three
of us plus my husband. We are all one and
when I tell Lauren a secret, I assume that she
doesn't go straight away and tell Burjo. And we want

(26:12):
to know what the rules are because I respect my
husband that he doesn't tell me things. If someone says,
don't tell your wife.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
Yeah, but you should also respect and trust your partner
enough to be able to share whatever between each.

Speaker 4 (26:23):
Other and know that it's not going to go further.

Speaker 2 (26:24):
Yeah, but it's not their news anyway. This is our situation.
We've been having this fight offair, so we want you
to tell us what the right thing to do is.
Norell in Woodville, what do you think?

Speaker 9 (26:34):
I'm totally on your side. Never ever ever tell your
partner my best friends, your best friends, your relationships with them.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
How about women?

Speaker 1 (26:46):
Women always have trust issues for their man for whatever reason. Actually,
men are the ones that generalize men are now actually
ones that need to mistrust women because you guys have
a whole stack of secrets about you.

Speaker 9 (26:58):
If you break up right than you have information that
you were meant to have.

Speaker 1 (27:03):
But the same thing can happen with a friendship. A
friendship can break up and someone's got information on the other.

Speaker 2 (27:09):
I think it's a women to women have this sacred relationship.
Maybe men don't have this where we keep secrets together.
It's your secret and I will keep it for.

Speaker 4 (27:17):
You any one.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
But why is a friend in a more elevated position
that they deserve the secret and your partner does it.

Speaker 9 (27:24):
Partner, sorry, you going to real So we're matter have
our own friendships. Female friendship, as Haley is saying, is
totally different. I might say something quite personal that I
don't want. I don't want my husband to me. And
I was married twenty years and I never said any
secret that was told to me.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
And that's what makes women untrustworthy.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
No, that's the sisterhood that makes us trustworthy because we
keep each other's Secret's got nothing to do with you.

Speaker 8 (27:53):
I love this.

Speaker 4 (27:54):
So in North Haven, what do you think?

Speaker 6 (27:56):
Good morning? Well, when I was pregnant and I wanted
to know the sex of the baby, and my partner
didn't want to know the sex of the baby, and
he said we were not going to find out the
sex of the baby. So I went behind his back
and I found out the sex of the baby, and
I told my mom the sex of the baby because
she keeps secrets, and then we would go shopping for

(28:21):
the sex of that baby, and we just kept everything
at my mom's house in the spare rooms. But he
never knew that either of us knew.

Speaker 3 (28:27):
I love this.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
Does he know?

Speaker 6 (28:28):
Now?

Speaker 5 (28:30):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (28:30):
Oh yeah, God, yeah, yeah, no.

Speaker 3 (28:36):
Sex of the baby?

Speaker 2 (28:37):
Does he Does he know that you kept this secret
from him?

Speaker 5 (28:40):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (28:40):
Yeah, But we're not together anymore. I mean it's amicable,
but because we've got that child.

Speaker 4 (28:45):
But are you anymore?

Speaker 1 (28:47):
Because he couldn't trust him and you're alive?

Speaker 2 (28:50):
I know what suit. I had planned on doing the
same thing. If Jim had said to me, I don't
want to know the sext of the baby, I did.
I was totally gone and find out soon.

Speaker 1 (28:58):
Did you ever feel bad like you were betraying him
and knew something that?

Speaker 3 (29:02):
God?

Speaker 6 (29:02):
No, God no, he was trying to spoil it for me.
I like to be prepared.

Speaker 2 (29:07):
Yeah, I get that, Sue, thank you so much. After
the housemaid Sue, Yes, enjoy marshallow. You sound like a
delicious marshmallow. What are your thoughts on this?

Speaker 12 (29:18):
I just think no, absolutely not. If someone in trusts
you with some information, then you don't divulge that to anybody.
Loose lips sink ships. The only time you divulge is
if it's you know, life threatening. No secret is a
secret for a reason.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Otherwise there's no such thing as a secret.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
It's all women saying no, you guys are all right?

Speaker 2 (29:42):
Dud's come out of the woodwork.

Speaker 12 (29:44):
Tell us what you think, Max, Max, loose lips, sink ships.
If they wanted you to know, they would have told
your wife or you. But oh sorry, sorry, but you
know what I mean, you know, I mean it's a secret.
They're telling that person they're in trusting you, you don't
share it.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
I actually think this has just highlighted something that we
have that men don't have, and that's the sisterhood you
don't have. It's sacred. It really is Thanksgiving, all right?

Speaker 4 (30:12):
How you're off to the house maid? You've got a
double pass.

Speaker 5 (30:14):
Okay, you're a legend.

Speaker 2 (30:16):
Love you Machella My seller mix one O two point three.

Speaker 1 (30:20):
How are you maxed in the morning? A couple of
minutes away from a Max berthet off sick today? Nineteen
degrees right now, I'm going to get to thirty and
mostly sunny today.

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She has just brought out a Christmas song. Can we
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Zero aut It just sounds like pure Ai, like you've
chived into an Ai music, making think do a Christmas
song in the life of Yes.

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She hasn't gone her usual.

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Up charm.

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You know how she draw. Anyway, if you win a
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You can spend that thousand dollars on a whole bunch
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I can't wait.

Speaker 11 (32:00):
Let's playing thousand dollars actually more than one.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
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Speaker 1 (32:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
All right, Well, Burdo is gonna give you the rules
max is of six today. I'm going to do the
questions all right.

Speaker 1 (32:14):
You're going to get ten questions right in sixty seconds.
If you don't know one pass, we will come back
to it. We do have to accept your first answer.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Okay, okay, all right, wait, I'm gonna take my jacket
off for this way I mean business right now, all right?
Are you ready, tenure, I'm ready, all right, ready, sety.

Speaker 5 (32:34):
Go.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
How many days in December thirty one? What are your
load of stapler with?

Speaker 12 (32:40):
Half?

Speaker 2 (32:41):
What color is this? What color is the star out
in the front of Adelaide Entertainment Center?

Speaker 5 (32:47):
Red?

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Who is the new leader of the SA Liberals Party?
Hal swift to nomics is a term associated with which
singer half? What is the name of the Simpsons cat?

Speaker 6 (33:04):
Half?

Speaker 2 (33:05):
Hearing aids are usually worn on what part of your body?
Come on, mate, you know this one? Y?

Speaker 11 (33:09):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (33:10):
The Sheffield Shield is associated with which sport cricket? Which
planet is bigger Mars or Earth?

Speaker 11 (33:19):
Earth?

Speaker 2 (33:20):
Carnival and Serrato are both cars from which car brand? Half?

Speaker 5 (33:27):
What do you do?

Speaker 2 (33:28):
What do you load of stapler with?

Speaker 3 (33:30):
Oh?

Speaker 11 (33:31):
Stateless?

Speaker 2 (33:31):
Who is the new leader of the SA Liberals Party? Hah?
Oh the stress?

Speaker 3 (33:39):
How do you think you went bad?

Speaker 10 (33:42):
Real bad?

Speaker 1 (33:43):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (33:43):
No, you did go I don't think he tried.

Speaker 2 (33:47):
All right, let's go through the answers. How many days
in December you knew that thirty one. You almost lost
me with this one when you said, I don't know,
pass on, what do you load of staple?

Speaker 11 (33:57):
I didn't here?

Speaker 8 (33:58):
Yeah, that's my path.

Speaker 1 (33:59):
Are given this work because you came back when you
did it again and you said, what do you load
a stapleer with?

Speaker 4 (34:03):
And you said, Stapler's not staples?

Speaker 2 (34:08):
No, no, don't be a greench bird. What color is
the star at the front of the entertainment center? You
knew that Red who is the new leader of their
say Liberals party. You would have seen her yesterday all
over social media. She looks lovely. Swift and nomics is
a term associated with Taylor Swift. The name of the
simpsons pet cat was Snowball. Hearing aids are usually worn

(34:32):
in ears yep. The Sheffield shield is associated with cricket yep,
which plant is bigger mars or Earth? Good guess earth yep?
And Carnival and serato at both.

Speaker 4 (34:43):
What's carnival?

Speaker 3 (34:46):
Come on?

Speaker 4 (34:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (34:47):
But when you.

Speaker 4 (34:50):
Do you know what it mean?

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Because she started You started a new job yesterday, so
your brain's a little bit frazzled. Yeah, a lot of
info there, So call back in like three months, three
months for your new job to kick in and make sense.

Speaker 2 (35:02):
Yeah, it's true, but they might not pass your money
minute next year.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
And also, hang on, you're a car servicing receptionist and
we're asking you about Carnival and serato. You should know it.

Speaker 8 (35:11):
Doubt my Nene yesterday, What a day in Birch?

Speaker 2 (35:16):
That much money she got? Keia?

Speaker 8 (35:18):
Oh Kia was it?

Speaker 11 (35:20):
Kia?

Speaker 4 (35:20):
Yeah? You got sixty bucks.

Speaker 2 (35:21):
Sixty bucks? Mate? Well, Dane, Tanya, thank you. I have
a beauty.

Speaker 9 (35:25):
Appreciate it.

Speaker 11 (35:27):
I will use guys too, will okay?

Speaker 4 (35:29):
Hey, coming up next, Haley Pearson.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
There is this new thing sweeping the world that could
be ending marriages with one click of a button.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
Yeah, you dirty bird. I'm pointing the fingernecks mix.

Speaker 1 (35:44):
Y and two point three Haley, Max in the morning,
Max berfod Off sick today, twenty four pass eight. It
is going to be such a nice day, thirty degrees
mostly stunning.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
All right, guys, watch yourself. We want to talk about
social media at the moment, because something's happening in Turkey
at the moment, and you don't want it to happen here,
but maybe it should. Liking first traps on social media
could be grounds for divorce.

Speaker 1 (36:08):
When you say grounds for divorce, yeah, is this coming
from a partner witnessing their partner you like hot Jesses photo.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
So, in a landmark ruling, a Turkish court has determined
that liking another woman's social media post can be used
as evidence in divorce proceedings. Now, when you think about this,
just so you know, no, it doesn't say the other way,
but it would be. It would be first traps if

(36:37):
you don't know what that is. It's when someone posts
a photo of them when they're feeling pretty good, a
sexy photo basically just something. It doesn't have to be
in a full sexy post or anything like that. It's
just like you know, you look, it's like you want
the attention, you want people to like it, and generally
you're putting it out there because you want certain people
to see it. Right, So I would say reading this,

(36:58):
I don't think it's cheating at all, like if you're
liking a post, but I think it's dumb if you're
in a happy relationship to like random posts of hot women,
Like if I saw Jimmy, if I saw his little
face pop up on all these random posts, that would
be a big red flag.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
So The thing about these is you're if you are
liking them, chances are you're actually following their account.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Right And if you're not, that's even worse. It means
you source them or they're coming up in your algorithm.

Speaker 1 (37:25):
I think it's worse if you are following them. So
if you don't know them and they're a hot gym
influencer or whatever they are, you know those girls are
doing squats on Instagram. Why are you following them if
for no other reason than to see the posts and
the content pop up?

Speaker 2 (37:40):
Yeah, so you agree if you if say, say, for example,
you saw your partner Lauren and she was liking all
these hot boy yeah for sure. Yeah, okay, so that
isn't that So the fact that this has come into
play in a divorce proceeding now is actually fair well
because if.

Speaker 1 (37:58):
You're like the ways to get content content designed for
our old eyes only, that doesn't include following these accounts
on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
No, okay, So reading between what the lines there is,
you're saying that if they're doing that on Instagram, think
what else they're doing on other things right now?

Speaker 1 (38:20):
And do you have a problem with that? Is that
grounds for divorce? If you get home and there's other
content being viewed?

Speaker 2 (38:25):
What else? What else?

Speaker 4 (38:26):
Because all men are doing that.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
What you're also doing is opening up a communication line
in showing that I'm liking this, and the person who's
posted it has gone, Oh, that person's communicating with me somehow.
I might just DM that person.

Speaker 4 (38:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Yeah, it's the like, isn't it. It's the engagement yeah,
of the content.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
All right, let's put this out there. Is it okay
if you're in a relationship to somebody else's thirst traps?
Here's my rules? Okay, I think if you know someone like,
if it's you Burg and you look really smoking hot
right in a photo and I like it, that's fine.
Jimmy would be fine with that.

Speaker 1 (38:59):
Are you okay with how many times Jimmy slides into
my DM and he says, look and fire Verjo with
a flame emoji.

Speaker 2 (39:07):
You would make a great couple. That doesn't make me
feel as long as he doesn't do the peach emoji
and then the water emoji.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
He does that and the eggplant as well.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
All right, So we want to know is it okay
to like someone else's first trap? And is it cheating?
And if it's happened to you you kind of what
kind of led to that moment?

Speaker 1 (39:28):
That's what we want to know, Like a breakup because
your boyfriend Mitch.

Speaker 4 (39:31):
Was liking all.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
We can see your little face popping up. I love
it when I see like hot girls on my Instagram
and I can see the same people people that I
know that are in relationships liking all of their posts.
I know that you're doing. Any partner does too.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Okay, social media first traps in a relationship?

Speaker 4 (39:48):
Can you like them?

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Has it ruined your relationship? Thirteen one oh two three
today and every caller gets so you get on air,
you get in a double pass to the Housemaid with
Haley and Max on Mixed.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
How's this so liking first? So, just in case you
don't know what a first trap is, it's when someone
posts something on social media knowing that they look very attractive,
and they are putting it out there because they want
certain eyes to be looking at them. So a landmark
ruling in Turkey has determined that liking and this is
this I'm reading from this now. It doesn't say men's
liking another woman's social media posts can be used as

(40:20):
evidence in divorce proceedings, which we have spoken about if
you just put the radio on. We've actually had a
good chat about it, and it does make sense that
why if you are at a happy relationship, why would
you be put You can look at stuff, but if
you're putting it out there and liking someone, you're almost
putting yourself out there to go. I'm trying to communicate
with you. I'm connecting with you right now.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
I think that we consume all sorts of content and materials,
some explicit and some not. And this shouldn't be grounds
for divorce because I think that it's kind of like
window shopping.

Speaker 2 (40:56):
That's not grounds for divorce.

Speaker 5 (40:58):
But that is.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
But nah, but yeah, because you because you're kind of
doing the wrong thing.

Speaker 1 (41:04):
It's okay, you see a hot girl on Instagram and yeah,
you see her and on the like, says your husband James.

Speaker 2 (41:14):
Okay, so if I knew that person, if they knew
that person, no, he doesn't know her, then I would
be I would be peeved off it would you. I'd
be like, who are you liking that person's post? Why
do you do that?

Speaker 4 (41:22):
Because she came up on my feet?

Speaker 2 (41:23):
And why would you like it? Couldn't you just watch
and then just flick on. Why do you have to
like it?

Speaker 4 (41:27):
Do you know what?

Speaker 1 (41:28):
Guys, here's a lesson for it. Don't like it, save
it because then you can go back to it later.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
You don't, dog, don't be like that. You're with my
best friend. You can't say things like that.

Speaker 4 (41:37):
I'm sort of kidding.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
No, you're not.

Speaker 2 (41:39):
Alex and Alex in Arraco. Hello, Hello, Haley, how are
you lovely?

Speaker 8 (41:45):
I'm not happy you're leaving.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
Oh, darling, it's gonna be fine next year. They've been
a great show lined up.

Speaker 9 (41:52):
I know you're right.

Speaker 8 (41:53):
Anyway, that's not the story. Yeah, no, no, I don't
think it's right that your partner or whoever, should like
another girl's content. I found out that hard, ways, very hard.
I've got a I had a three year old daughter

(42:15):
to my ex partner, and while I was pregnant and
everything like that, he jumped on Instagram or whatever he
was scrolling through. He liked this chick's you know, content
and everything like that. I walk past him A few times.
I walk behind him. He was suffering things out. I said, oh,

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what he's doing. He goes, I'm buying me some clothes
for when you've had bubbs. You know, you'll have all
new clothing and everything like that so you fit better
when you're in the gym. And I went, what don't
you accept my body features the way it is. He goes, yeah,
but I'm on, just looking and everything like that. And
then I found out that he later followed her through

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everything else. He didn't realize that I had actually linked
his account with mine and her content was popping up,
her photos were coming up on my phone, everything like that.
I like, literally I went numb.

Speaker 1 (43:14):
I went home.

Speaker 8 (43:15):
I questioned him and I said, what are you doing?
And then it broke my heart because I said to him,
you've got a three You've now got a three year
old daughter with me. What are you doing with her
when you've got the real deal? You know, you've got me,
You've got my daughter, everything like that, and he goes, oh, you,
but I'm on. He like, I said, I don't care.

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I said, I don't do that to you. I don't
get on the phone, and I don't like content, follow
males and everything like that. And then I said, look,
philad believing, and I knew I had to. I had
to leave him. My daughter didn't know what was going on.
Thank god, you know because it like she was a
bit worried that mom was upset, And yeah, I found

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out he was actually good at Warlow's pregnant with him
world while I was in the hospital having his child.
Every single that what I said.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
For you for standing up for yourself and going do
you know what I deserve better? Well done? Thank you
so much for sharing, Alex. We love you, Aimy and Melvin,
how are you? What do you think on this topic?

Speaker 8 (44:20):
Hey?

Speaker 10 (44:21):
I'm all right achy, hurt my legs, but other than
Madam'm living my best life.

Speaker 6 (44:26):
And my thoughts on this topic.

Speaker 10 (44:28):
I think it's really dependent on who you are.

Speaker 4 (44:32):
Hey, Amy, are you on speaker phone?

Speaker 6 (44:35):
I don't think so.

Speaker 4 (44:36):
We're going to come back to you. We'll get your
line fixed. I just want to be able to hit
your story better.

Speaker 8 (44:40):
Can I try?

Speaker 11 (44:42):
It?

Speaker 2 (44:42):
Gets quite grumpy w your phones?

Speaker 4 (44:44):
Luky, Please can you fix Amy? Hey?

Speaker 1 (44:46):
Melton Aplson, what do you think about these liking third chats? Hi?

Speaker 8 (44:49):
Guys, how are we good?

Speaker 13 (44:53):
It's absolutely crap. It's out there, it's happening. My I
just found out my partner of eight years was message
someone on Instagram and yeah, they've built a connection now
he told me a whole story about her while we
were together, mind you. So they got my interest up
and found her on Instagram and stalked her on Facebook

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and yeah, it's out there, it's happening.

Speaker 2 (45:17):
So our producers just told us that you found him
on some special site. Is that right?

Speaker 13 (45:24):
Special site? Yeah, so he was doing the Sorry.

Speaker 3 (45:32):
Sorry what site was, No, but it's happening.

Speaker 8 (45:44):
It is out there, guys, so yeah, it's real.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
Oh I'm so sorry you've had to go through that.
Thank you for sharing me.

Speaker 1 (45:51):
All right, we'll take amy school. We'll take it next though.

Speaker 2 (45:53):
Yeah, okay, okay, this is something we don't want to miss.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
First trapping social media, liking people first traps in relationships?
Do it fraught with danger? We'll take more course thirteen
one oh two three Mix one O two point three?
How do you max in the morning?

Speaker 2 (46:10):
All right? Liking first traps when you're in a relationship?
Should you do it on Instagram? Apparently in Turkey now
they're like, no, that is grounds for divorce and they
actually listen to that in a divorce proceeding in court.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
That's insane, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (46:23):
NICs, but it's true.

Speaker 4 (46:24):
What are they going to do next?

Speaker 1 (46:25):
Go through your Internet browsing history.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
Yes, really, Well they's all evidence, right, we want to
know your thoughts, Amy and Malvin. What do you think?

Speaker 10 (46:36):
Well, can you hear me right now?

Speaker 5 (46:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (46:38):
Yeah, Well I think if you're happy and you're in
a relationship with someone that you love, you're not going
to be on Instagram liking first traps. You're just your
real first trap's going to be in the room with you, exactly.
Had I had a friend that's partner. She was a
very thin, petite, small, little Caucasian girl, and her partner
was always liking posts of big, busty African American women,

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And that was a little bit contentious because you know,
she's still of confront of him about it, and she's like,
well you know what they thought, like, this isn't me,
you know.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
Do you have a time?

Speaker 10 (47:13):
Oh no, you know, you're the only kind of woman I've.

Speaker 11 (47:16):
Got eyes for you.

Speaker 4 (47:19):
Hang on. Some days you feel like a pizza. Some
days you feel like you can't be like that.

Speaker 2 (47:23):
She cares if you're eating Chinese food, you can't then
can't go and change to pizza.

Speaker 1 (47:28):
Sorry the next day you can.

Speaker 2 (47:30):
Are you saying that?

Speaker 3 (47:31):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (47:31):
One day you're attracted to your partner.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
What I'm saying is someone else. I've got a favorite cuisine,
but sometimes I like to branch out. And I'm not
saying to the cheating level. I'm just saying for like
the eye candy.

Speaker 2 (47:48):
Level, you know, But h okay, candy is different just
looking or whatever. But as soon as you like, you're
engaging in a connection with them and you're almost wanting
them to d M you. That's just because you like.

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Someone's pay doesn't mean they're going to DM you. That
doesn't mean they're lying.

Speaker 2 (48:03):
You're lying.

Speaker 4 (48:03):
I'm not lying about anything.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
You're lying because you wouldn't want your partner to do that.
I can guarantee I know you so well. I've known
you for half my life.

Speaker 1 (48:10):
She's already You're not that young. She's already told me
that she DMS. Actually, I just got a message from
your husband, Jimmy. He said, is it bad that Lauren
likes all of my posts and sends fire emojis and eggplants?

Speaker 4 (48:24):
I don't trust it.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
We're all intertwined. Time all right, we are out of here.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
We'll see you tomorrow. Have a beautiful day.