Confessions for Cash: She Baby Trapped Her Husband & Doesn't Care...

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Speaker 1 (00:12):
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Speaker 2 (00:17):
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Speaker 3 (00:20):
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Claire has done.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Give me the cash with Robin Kidd and coyotes. This
is Confessions for Cash. Hello Claire, Hello, would you sound nervous?
Are you okay?

Speaker 4 (00:46):
A little bit?

Speaker 1 (00:47):
Okay? Well, it is Confessions for Cash. You have a confession?
What is it I do?

Speaker 5 (00:53):
I wanted a big family and I did what I
had to do to get more children because my husband
didn't want any more.

Speaker 6 (01:02):
And what was that that you how to do?

Speaker 2 (01:05):
I absolutely flush my pills down the dream, I hid
some ovulation kids in the house, and I purposely got pregnant.

Speaker 7 (01:17):
So how many kids did you have at this stage?
When was he done? When did he say that this
is enough.

Speaker 5 (01:23):
After number two?

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Right? Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:25):
And obviously you felt pregnant again?

Speaker 2 (01:29):
I did.

Speaker 5 (01:30):
It took three cycles and I felt pregnant.

Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, and your husband didn't want to have any more?

Speaker 5 (01:37):
You said no, he was done?

Speaker 1 (01:40):
So how did he think you felt pregnant?

Speaker 7 (01:42):
Then on the pill, just like a miracle on y right.

Speaker 5 (01:49):
My doctor doesn't even know. He thinks I felt pregnant
on the pill too. Also was the hospital. So nobody knows,
just me.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
So, how many children do you have?

Speaker 6 (02:01):
I have four, and he didn't want any more than two.

Speaker 5 (02:04):
No, he didn't, but wouldn't change a thing. I will
never tell him, like I will never tell anybody. You
guys are the first I'm saying anything too. But yeah,
and then after my life child was born, I decided
to go again. Yeah, but sadly that didn't work well.
I had a huge hemorrhage. So after that I decided

(02:28):
that was that was it.

Speaker 7 (02:29):
That's what it took.

Speaker 5 (02:31):
Yeah, that's what it took to make me stop. Otherwise
I would have kept going.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
So, Claire, why don't you tell him? Because there's a
difference between the idea of a child and saying I
only want to excuse me and then having a child.
Wouldn't it be better to be honest with him now
because the children are here and he would never not
want them to be around.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
Yeah, No, I could have. I absolutely could not. We
have a good like co parent in portonic relationship with
the children. I don't want him to hate me, and
I just I don't need that in my life.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
So, like, what you've done, do I think.

Speaker 5 (03:08):
It was okay? Well, hopefully there's other people out there
that are listening to my story that could be in
the same situation. I'm not saying it's okay to do it. Yeah,
but it's what I did, and that's what I needed
to do for me.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Why tell us?

Speaker 5 (03:25):
Because I felt like I needed too. It has been
so long and I've heard all these people confessing on
the radio, and I just thought I wasn't going to say.
Want to listen to what I actually did, and it
felt really good typing it, just getting out there, Yeah,
letting it out, you know. But that is absolutely as
far as it would ever go.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
If you had your time over, would you do the
same thing?

Speaker 5 (03:51):
Yes, I would absolutely. I would go again another ten
times if my body would let me.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
But no, I don't think you're getting a huge amount
of support in the studio.

Speaker 5 (04:04):
Yes, I hear that.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
Sorry, Why what do you think for me?

Speaker 6 (04:10):
I feel like, yeah, it's like you said, distrust lies
and it's not thinking about what everyone wants, is just
thinking about yourself.

Speaker 7 (04:19):
In that scenario, you know.

Speaker 6 (04:21):
For me, it's oh, you're always going to love your kids,
so it's a hard one. But you made the decision,
I guess, and have to live with it.

Speaker 7 (04:27):
So and he doesn't get a choice. He just didn't
get a choice.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, no, he didn't.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
And you don't seem to care about that, Claire. That's
the kind of disconnect. I'm like, it feels a bit
like entrapment.

Speaker 5 (04:41):
I know, I know, but I yeah, I wanted a
big family, as I said, and I was determined to
get it. Oh yeah, that is my confession.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
No, and you have made. One of the things about
this is that we will absolutely pay five hundred bucks
for the confession because we're very grateful for it. And
I do agree with you. I think people will have
a strong opinion about this. I mean, it's probably pointless
to us. But you're not going to want us to
call your partner, are you negative?

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Right?

Speaker 7 (05:19):
That's all right, hard pass.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
And we don't know who you are and we'll never
be able to find you, so it will never come
from us.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Absolutely.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
Well, thank you for your confession, Claire, five hundred bucks.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Thank you for having me.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
He's one of those moments where you give someone money
you feel like I feel comfortable with this. But that's
I mean, that is that's the court, that's how it works.
We pay you for your confession.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (05:47):
But the more I think about it, the more man
I'm getting about it.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Well about that, I think you will not or maybe
you will be surprised. I think this happens quite.

Speaker 6 (05:56):
I think it's selfish. I think it's wrong, and I
think I don't see how you let her do it.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
Let's have a second to digest and we'll come back
and if you want to get involved with the show
at any time, our phone number is thirty one oh
sixty five.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
If you've ever been entrapped, Yeah, relationship, would you have
to talk to you? Jenne Off Capalaba. Are you supporting Claire?

Speaker 4 (06:17):
Look, I find it's a bit of a gray area.
But my stance is if he really didn't want any
more children, cover up or get it effect me.

Speaker 6 (06:25):
But I understand that. But my thing is they they
spoke about it, and like he said that he wasn't
going to get one, and she said she was going
to go on the pill and lie about it.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
For birth control, you need to put those hormones into
her body, like.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
You said, we don't know, we weren't there, but it
sounds like it sounds like that was the arrangement.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
You know, maybe she was agreeable because she knew another
way around, But like, yeah, I find it's a gray area. Like,
obviously she wanted more children. I'm assuming she would have
spoken about that with him and he was dead against it.
But if he was so dead against.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
It, I do find it interesting that it happened twice.
After you take yourself off straight.

Speaker 7 (07:12):
Away, yeah, you'd accept that, there's like, okay, that was
a miracle.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Off the next day, Janeta Boum, what would you like
to say?

Speaker 8 (07:19):
Yeah, I'm being a bit tongue in cheek, but I
just thought, yeah, old mates, not very bright. I think
it's the third time. Yeah, okay, you think she got
pretured on the pill by the fourth one? Like you're
definitely questioning it. And look, I'm not taking away morally, Yes,
what she did was wrong, but she did say they're
co parenting, so I'm guessing they're not together anymore.

Speaker 7 (07:39):
Yeah, yeah, we got that inference.

Speaker 8 (07:43):
Yeah yeah, so but no, Look, I mean, she obviously
wanted more children. It was the wrong way to go
about it. But then I think the final decision shouldn't
have been just with him either, like whether they do
or not. But yeah, look morally wrong. But like I said,
I think old mate should have questioned a bit more after.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Thanks Tonette, you guys are not getting any support.

Speaker 7 (08:02):
From that way.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
You're not You're right, because yes, I think it's just
so wrong because they sounds like they made a deal,
that they had a discussion. They said that, and like
the agreement which he then went back on, was that's it,
We're done.

Speaker 6 (08:15):
And it's not like I haven't got kids like you've got.

Speaker 5 (08:17):
They've had.

Speaker 6 (08:17):
They've had two, they've got two kids.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
Imagine finding out that the two kids that you know
that you'd love, and of course he's going to love his,
is all four of them. But imagine finding out that
the last two were under false pretenses and there was
a whole lie around them.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
Would it change the way you felt about your children?

Speaker 7 (08:33):
I didn't think so. But change the way you feel
about your partner, of course?

Speaker 2 (08:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Taylor of our Jester, Hi, good morning. What happened?

Speaker 9 (08:44):
So I was the one who was in trap. I
was told that my partner at the time was sile.
I had two older children when we met, I told
him I did not want any more children. Is said,
it was stary. Next thing I knew I was pregnant.

Speaker 7 (08:57):
Wow, really, what did you do?

Speaker 9 (09:02):
I was really angry at the time. I did go
through with the pregnancy and I now have a beautiful
fifteen year old son. But at the time, yeah, I
was angry.

Speaker 7 (09:12):
Were you able to forgive him for that lie?

Speaker 9 (09:15):
I did eventually forgive him, but it took a very
long time.

Speaker 5 (09:18):
So did.

Speaker 9 (09:23):
Yes, Wow, begrudgingly.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Grudgingly because it is your body, your choice. But when
faced with that choice as a woman and a baby,
I take my hat off to anyone who can make
that sort of logic.

Speaker 6 (09:38):
So now all the ones before that said why is
it his choice? So so now what does it need
to make the choice? So that's I'm just saying, it's
it's it's a lie. It's wrong when he's when he's
both talk about it.

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Speaker 5 (09:58):
Thank you.

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Speaker 7 (10:20):
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