April 13, 2026 • 55 mins
- A stable table
- The buck up gang
- We are spiritually impoverished
- Uber and a lost phone
- Text from mum
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@katelangbroek
@nathvalvo
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Imagine, if you will, that you are in a place
of great beauty. Some teenage boys.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Walk past you, they yell out, they bitch tits.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
The world you see is a place of paradox of
beauty and cruelty.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It will cut you off of the knees, then gift.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
You a pair of yasies.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
And that, my friends, is why you always always.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Need a back up. Gather one, gather roll, buck ups
for roll.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
We are all slightly hypo today and because hyperactivity. I've
been sick, you've been seek you do you have a
beautiful chesty? It's so like pack a day smoker's cough,
going on the bike up with Nathan and Margaret Pomorance.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I killed David and I'll kill you.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
She saw him out. She's still with us.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
She's magnificent, legend. Never paid me a better.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Compliment, Big Margaret. How many do you reckon? Cheese on?
She's on the movies all day? What else she got
on inside?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
I know exactly, you know what. She's got a steady
tray she eats. You know, they were thing with.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
The bean bags in the bottom.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
How it rests on your knees And a jack always
wanted one of them. She's got one of my friend's
mum used to have that, and on her stable table
she also had permanently some cute X nail polish remover,
some cotton balls and some nail polish.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
This and even very attractive about.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
That comorans that's pure tray, except an ash tray in
the other corner. Okay, not too close, because I think
that's dangerous.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
It's a dangerous tray. Anyway, I've never been more complimented.
Shout out also to all the packad smokers. Let's just
say this. There was a time a few years ago
where it was looked down upon. I'm going to say this.
I'm just now impressed by people that smoke cigarettes. Now
they've really just stuck with it. Followed eighty dollars a packet.
(02:24):
They are committed.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Oh you're so innocent. I find you shdorable. What no
one's paying. No one's paying the government price's black Marge,
fifteen bucks a packet. They're cheaper than they've ever bad.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
Okay, well there, I mean more pro smokers because.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
You know what the government's done. It's taken Laura abiding people.
It's taken Laura abiding people and driven them so far
to the edge that they've catapulted them over into a
legal activity because of their insane taxes and misplaced morality.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
That's right. So next time I see a bunch of
smokers out in front of a building on their lunch break,
I'm going to put my thumb up and say, I
hate taxes to guys. You keep aut it correct, you
take it to the big.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Because it's statistically I think prove and I said it
is based on not knowing it, and I'm not even
going to say it.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
When someone sits a sentence with statistically, you nobel lies time.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
And they have traveled with the statistically it's hard to say.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
But also, who's going to follow Who's going to follow
up on the stats? One's going to call you out
on it?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
The beautiful buckwhits, our buckheads, our buck knuckles, bucktenders love them?
Speaker 5 (03:40):
What about them?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
That was a new one? Watch one buck tender?
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Oh yeah, you've been sitting on that.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Just came out. You never helped me, you too?
Speaker 5 (03:50):
You know what? There's been a shifting of allegiances.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
On this podcast, and I don't like it, and don't
think that I don't know about it.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Okay, So here's what I you think is happening, which
is so funny in life when two of your friends
become friends and you don't like it.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Friends being friends, I don't like them then ganging up
against me setting up a secret group chat.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
There's no set chat. That was a team I will
hand you my phone. There is no secret group chat.
I love you. So let's say you know.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I would have Buckley's chance of working out what was
on your It could be on snaps, it could be
on WhatsApp, it.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Could be on any secret snapchats.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Anyway, I apparently have to apologize for the tequila episode
in which I got very aggressive. Now, but you also, sage,
you were with me on that rusty old boat.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I had a wild time on that app tequila. I
enjoyed that.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
You didn't look like you enjoyed it. I caught you
in Sage. I intercepted a look between the pair of.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
You when here's what you don't understand about our relationship,
and you're not going to believe me when I say it,
but it is the truth. I sometimes want to protect
you from the truth of myself and from the people
finding out about it. So there was just a couple
of things in that tequila app Well, my eyes to
Sash were like, for Kate's sake, maybe not that good.
(05:23):
I love it. No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I'm not worried about people knowing the truth of me.
To go down Sweden, yeah no, No, it's just I'm
a human. I'm sick of people sanitizing themselves.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Oh god, you're right.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Yah.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
We're pro pro truthfulness of your.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Pro smoking, pro tequila or whatever.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
No, not that we're pro smoking. We're pro you doing
whatever you want to do.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Absolutely, you know what. I'm not a cop, Thank god,
I'm not a cop. And either she because she's too
small and.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
She tried to know she passed the fossicle.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
That's the most embarrassing story I've ever heard. I'm kidding.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Do you know what they could have used her mate?
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Please? Yeah? Yes? AnyWho, it was a lovely at were
a wild ride.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I thought it was fun until it wasn't until something
that something happened.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
The low point was I can't remember very innocently and
smartly suggesting that the Buckheads could maybe wear the cowboy
hat from our logo to the special Shark Special show
in Comedy Shop, and you told her basically to get
that was the low boy.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
You understand my thinking because you can't wear a cowboy
hat in a theater and block the view of a
buckwheat behind you. Fine for Milli in the foyer, but
do you want people to be able to see you
though singing your prancing on stage?
Speaker 5 (06:52):
It's true, you need to see my feet. Yeah, so AnyWho.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
You you're a three sixty show.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
We asked bussy. We asked our buck airs for suggestions
to replace Koloa for a couple of weeks behind getting
back to them. But you've got them in front of
your suggestions. Do do you know what?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Nothing elicits? Nothing wakes up and buck wits our buck
knuckles from their perennial stupor then us talking about alcohol.
Suddenly everyone's sharp as attack and full of ideas.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
It's really sweet and genuinely humbling to realize that all
our listeners have drinking problems.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Well, I think that probably makes our pod better.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
Absolutely, why not? I am.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Change? You know, eleven o'clock somewhere, not one o'clock.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Katie Lanebrook waits till eleven am? Does she? Oh, it's
eleven am somewhere.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
It's eleven o'clock somewhere that was a tell all right,
ready tears. My grandmother who suggested gin. I think we
know who it was?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Oh, my goodness, Nate Valvo, Hello, Hello?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
What who hasn't been introduced?
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Oh? I don't know. I think we all hurt. Kate, you,
Kate Laine Brook, Margaret Pomerance and producers.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Are what Sasha French just sitting there in the corner
like a malevolent doll.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Doplay claes a judgment?
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Will that been in the group text?
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Yeah? Hey, the clap in today's snapchack disappears in fifteen seconds.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
We believe my track We've pitch.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
About you in fifteen second snapchat videos.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Okay, tears. My grandmother used to tell my mom to
stay away from Joan. Sure was at yours suggestion?
Speaker 5 (09:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Gin, gin, gin and whiskey because it's a leg opener.
That was my nana who used to easily drink a
bottle of gin daily.
Speaker 5 (09:16):
Who right, I'll tell you what. The new generations they
don't know how to drink. If you look up, look,
let's look up to grandparents. Their parents, they were smashing
bottles of gin a day.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
And also country drunk, Country drunk Country drunk was a
whole different flavor of drunk.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
It was just mind that should be on those wooden
boards when you travel into a regional townpoulation.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Instead of tidytown or the Lions Club. We've shouted out
then before, haven't we.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
Made country drunk?
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Country drunk?
Speaker 5 (09:53):
That's so good?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Love it, poor punker country drunk.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Yeah, well more to celebrate there anyway?
Speaker 3 (09:59):
These more you need to try Frangelico with ice and
fresh line. Steph, I love you.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
We have done that and no, I know, but and
I enjoyed it.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
But also, come on, Steve, what as if we haven't
done Frangelico with ice? And like, okay, well she doesn't know,
well she should know.
Speaker 5 (10:13):
She wasn't suggesting a cowboy hat the live show.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
She's met us. That's like, that's like saying, have you
tried giving a baby breast milk?
Speaker 5 (10:24):
I'm sure you haven't had it to kill us secretly
before you've walked in.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
No, you know what. I've been under siege and I'm
one to come out swinging before I retreat to the
fetal position weeping. I wanted to suggest this is from
Lucy Adams. This is the most specific recommendation ever I'm
listening the Zonzo Estate Lemon Cello sprits Lemon as your
(10:52):
new recording drink. It's my and my mum's new face, Lucy.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Here's a problem with lemon challo. It gets people absolutely
maggoted on the slide, creeps up to you because it's
so delicious. I have seen a number of people harmless. Absolutely,
it's like their face because of lemon shallow, like when people.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Would do those jelly shots, same thing that because it
was they seem sort of harmless. Actually maybe they were.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
There is not many things in the world that I
find more disgusting than jello shots. Do you remember back
in the day, there was such a thing for a
few even the day when we were doing a lot
of radio promo stuff standings. But you have to suck,
you have to suck it so but like doesn't look good.
You're an event, you're like.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
And it was sometimes they'd use too much jelatine and
it was very firm and it's very good for you.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
And in the corner of you you'd see people like
licking the jelly out from the bottom bit that never
looked good, giving it a.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Good tongue.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Somewhere.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Oh, I can't do you know what I actually said
to someone the other Sash, This is the I've had
to rethink my relationship with her. Because there's a show
called Drops of God.
Speaker 5 (12:24):
I haven't watched it yet. Watch it's so good, very
highly rated online as well.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
The first series. The second series really falls off the
cliff because it was supposed to be what do you
call it, a self contained series or whatever? Anyway, it's
about it's French Japanese co pro and it's about wine makers. Right,
It's great anyway.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
Chip buckheads drops very.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Good, so I said to Sash, because she loves wine
nearly as much as her boyfriend, not nearly as much
as she loves her boyfriend nearly as much as he
loves wine.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
It wasn't that hard to Maybe it was riddle this,
are you sure you haven't had a secret sit before
you've come here? You? I am?
Speaker 3 (13:13):
I not fine?
Speaker 5 (13:14):
I'm completely normal? Am I normal? Actually? I don't know
what normal is for me?
Speaker 3 (13:18):
I can't tell.
Speaker 5 (13:19):
Do you know what normally is for me?
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Such?
Speaker 5 (13:21):
No idea? And you can't.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Yeah, what would be baseline? Don't hurt my feelings? Try
to be more normal?
Speaker 5 (13:34):
Anyway?
Speaker 3 (13:35):
What was I saying, oh yeah, so Drop the God.
So told Sash she loves wine.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
My boyfriend loves one.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
It's a great show. I said, Sash, we're watching this
great show. We've just watched this great show called Drop
the God. She said, Oh, he didn't you seen that?
It we watched this just go. I'm like, oh, well,
thanks for the recommendation, you keeper.
Speaker 5 (14:03):
You're a friendship, your thirty year friendship. Sash can't even
enjoy a show without you having to know about it.
And if she waits too long, you're angry.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
You know. We see her all the time and we
talk about what we.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
Watched as a friend. And I'll put this on the
snapchat later when I send her quick snapchat nude is
if I tell if you're the kind of person that
I know, if you give it a suggestion to you,
it's going to be a while for you to get
around tour like years.
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Maybe. So we were the last people in Australia to
watch the Sopranos.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
See that's all anyway anyway.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Because then so after having watched that the other day,
we went to the beach and on the way back,
I said to Peter, I'm going to get a really
nice bottle of wine. So I'm going into this really
fancy wine shop near us. Never been in there before.
I don't know anything about wine really, other than what
I've leaned from this show, which is that you smell
(15:02):
it and then you start hallucinating and then you know
exactly what bery it came from and what flavors are
in it. Anyway, there was no one there to help me,
so I went on price. I always go on price,
but I went into a different bracket.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Okay, we went up.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Yeah, I don't go triple. I looked at a triple
and then I went calm down, right, But I came
back to seventy two.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
To me, if I'm going to if I want to
impress you at your house, I'm bringing I'm spending seventy eight.
It was just me and my husband. Mom just said,
but that's yeah, I know. Yeah, it's a gift. You
feel like it's a bit nicer when you've when you've
hit over five. Yeah, anyway, it's over fifty. Hello.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I did because I'm not because I'm always I've got
these as Sash so kindly pointed out many aspects to
my personality. Sometimes you know when you're in public. You
find yourself impersonating what you think people do.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
That's life. It is the mask life asking.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
But in this wine shop where the girl had to
come from the food part to serve me, because in
fact I had to go look for her, very honest citizen,
I said to her as she was bringing it up,
and I cannot forgive myself for this. It's wine o'clock,
(16:20):
I said, Oh my god, it's wine ClOH my god,
you're a You're a fridge magnet in a boomer's house.
Just terrible. Why did I say that? I felt the
need to fill it.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
You're an author, what's happened? You're a man published author?
Speaker 3 (16:40):
And now I took like, AI, it's wine o'clock, it's
why did I say that? She was just there was
a lao and I felt the it's raging alcoholic.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
Eleven am. I just think an alcoholic would say that
in a just one bastor.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
It's a basic It's so it was below everybody, And
I really apologized to her.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
Did you say so straight away?
Speaker 3 (17:08):
No? I just then I tried to make a sound
like I was being ironic, which I sort of was,
but I overdid the sound. Everything was it's one o'clock.
Speaker 5 (17:21):
If she was polite and good at her job, her
response would have been, it sure is she help?
Speaker 3 (17:26):
She she went, it's sure is. I can't wait to
knock off. She took to it really well, Well, she's
her job.
Speaker 5 (17:33):
I think people that work in alcohol stores, litter stores,
alcohol stores working because love love it. They get on it,
they get around it.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
It's not like a vegan working a butcher, right, so
they're just where they repulsed every second.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
I don't think there is a vegan brooking.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Guarantee they must be.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
There is not at I eat meat and even weird
looking in that back room sometimes when I asked for
my dog bone.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
All right, stick with me, okay, I don't think you
set off being a vegan to get a job in
a butcher shop. But I guarantee there's many people who
have become vegans in the course of their from and
not necessarily related to that, but they've been you know,
they're in some mind cult that's got to them, and
so so there must be someone who finds themselves thank you.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
Wrong, I'm wrong, and you're right.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
You know it's important to stay us because that drinking. Still, Yes,
what have you got as a suggestion that we drink.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Well, you need to know this. I'm a very weak
person in every sense of the word, and I'm very
weak with alcohol. And basically, if i want to have
more than a few SIPs, I'm going to have the
uber it into buck Up records. So I feel like
this is more a decision for you and such, because
you you have a bit more than I do.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
I'm just reading these others suggestions.
Speaker 5 (18:56):
I'm happy for it to be anything.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
A splash of quantro on, a hot chocolate yum for
winter winter, Justine, So, boy Bikie's dipped in the teller.
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Oh that's just food.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Oh no, the bliss point, Oh, Danny, yes, bliss point,
perfect meeting of fat, salt and sugar. I love that
you brought it to.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
It again, was his points.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Boy Bikie dipped in the teller.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
That's almost like bisco to be fair.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
And then oh, I tried. You know what I tried?
Speaker 5 (19:30):
You try. I've become such a try to stop my
own TikTok channel?
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Is there a channel?
Speaker 5 (19:37):
Put it in the show notes? Go doesn't make sense?
Speaker 3 (19:47):
Can you tell if anyone's looked at them? No, we've
got about We've got.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
We can't talk about notes have been around fifty years.
We can't talk about show notes like.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
It is for us.
Speaker 5 (20:02):
People are broadcasting live, people have moved on to videos.
We're like show, not the show.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Not. I've never done it. We have.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Slash has done them for a long time. Not really,
I've never checked them, to be fair, does anyone want to.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Know if anyone's looked up my man compliment guaranteeing necklace
and has anyone had compliments yet? We don't know yet
if anyone's doing experiment beautiful anyway, honorable shout out to
Costco pre mix Margarita.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
Oh hello, I love this. This is send them over.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
This is from Matt.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
Yeah. Do you think Costco's listening? Matt fits?
Speaker 3 (20:40):
I love it, he goes, no mixing required, comes in one.
Speaker 5 (20:44):
Oh wow, Matt. Yeah, it's eleven o'clock somewhere.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Claire Honey Bourbon so smooth and lovely, strenk with ice
coffee petrone. Well that's exactly that's good.
Speaker 5 (21:00):
We've had a real spectrum of answers here. I enjoy
that the bulk Costco drink.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
But and no like just just no time to wait,
no time to obviously, he hasn't heard, the pod hasn't realized.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
It's quite a lot of time to wait until all
the alcoholic buckheads we say, what a buck? What a
love them? So we do text a lot, the three
of us. Yes, you're you. I don't know who has
done this, but I cannot get behind this. What is it?
(21:35):
You've started a text chain with a random group of
people and I don't know who's in there, and there's
numbers I don't have. I'm not getting amongst it. You
have it. I'm too nervous. Yeah, I know people do
it to me. You've done this.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
You know all of you.
Speaker 5 (21:51):
You know I don't know who they are, Yes, you do.
But one of their numbers, would you?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
One of them is my manager Mail.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
Well, okay, I don't know that. I'm supposed to know you.
It's got your number, but you don't have her.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
And the other one's Carla. Okay, you know everyone in
the Alice and Analys my girlfriend als.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
So what you have done the other day is you
wanted to send a piece.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
Only she wants to come to your show.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
That's beautiful stuff. Thank you. I'll give her a comp
now that I've got her number.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
So you that's a terrible thing to do.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
And I should have seen you should have said, here
is the people hollow everyone here is who is in
this group? Chat Kate lainebrook. I am not kicking off.
I am not what I want to It was beef
TELLOPI are in there? Do you not like my beef tallow?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
I was so thrilled I made it myself.
Speaker 5 (22:42):
So I'm in the group. Yeah, Kate's in the group
three unknown numbers, I am, Yeah, I know you spot
on and done this to me. Well, I think I
wanted to test you. This is even more confusing. Then
it goes Kate Sash than the three numbers? I yeah,
text message group underneath that in my inbox is the
(23:04):
real one me, you and Sash.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
Oh, that's terrible.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
That it's dangerous. This is very dangerous. I did.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
I did one the other day where I was in
a group and I didn't realize it and I just
replied to YEA, you know, it happens, it does happen.
And it wasn't anything bad.
Speaker 5 (23:24):
I didn't say anything bad, but you know, you just
it's very and I was like, why do I have
an issue with this? And then it hit me a
life here you go.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Right, hang on, everybody pause. Some people are pulling out
a pen and paper.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Mate. People are two people. We have yourself and then
you have your text message personality. Yeah, everyone has a
text message personality. You might be more sassy, you might
be way more it was poetic, poetic. You may be
more pulled back, you might say less on. You might
(24:01):
swim or swim, or you might be a little bit
more drunk. Let's be honest, drunk. It's eleven o'clock somewhere.
I know people have email personalities at work.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
I do that.
Speaker 5 (24:12):
It's different. That's different, right, Well.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
That's pre fish.
Speaker 5 (24:15):
I don't know if I'm willing to show my text
message personality to some unknown numbers. Kate, it's quite intimate.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Between your text personality. I don't think you and I
have got Have we got a great disconnect? No, I
don't think we do.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
I think it's you two because a lot of the
time we are talking about this pod. So it's a
lot of the time being very It's Tuesday, you're available
this time, this time, who can do this time? It's
like that. But if you look at your other text
messages with friends, there's a side of you there that
you don't let everyone see. Here's my point, and that's
why I pulled back on replying to your bick because
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I don't know who's in there.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
What could you possibly okay tell me what you I
don't know?
Speaker 5 (24:56):
Maybe maybe would you have seen? I didn't want to
offend the other cookers that may have been in the
group but didn't know, offend them with what my cooker.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Not liking beef tallow what it's.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
Going to be offended by that in that group? Test,
I don't know why? Why are you including me? And
then I noticed you're into skin? And then I thank you?
And then I noticed other people weren't getting amongst it.
Landed with her thud this group because no one can.
No one cared. But you know what, can I turn
up with my pots? And everyone was chalous because no
(25:29):
one else knew the numbers. I did notice.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
When Mail replied, she said, I'm intrigued. That was politic.
Speaker 5 (25:37):
See she didn't know who you were.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
She's got your number. Well, I don't know I want
to anyway, Your spot on that was very rude, landed
with It's the equivalent of as we've.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
Discussed discussed, the kids are in the car.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
Someone you're on speak You're on speakerphone and not declaring
it straightaway.
Speaker 5 (25:54):
I love you with all of my heart and that.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
Was I really let us stand.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
Everyone tell I let myself down. I let my buckwhets
down and I left. I lost. I think you do
need to kill her to be fair.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
Oh no, I've been. I've been sick, but not the
sick like people are talking.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
When I told you about that story that I told
on the part that this pot a few weeks ago,
about how I did the tequila spew and the vodkas. Yes, yeah,
and it landed in everyone's shoes. Yes, oh this is yeah,
repeating the story because it's disgusting, because then you'll hear
the Jemma did reach out. I saw it at my
show and she did explain to me that it did happen.
(26:35):
She remembers the girl we blamed. I will not we
will never say the name.
Speaker 3 (26:40):
Well, you sure you should apologize. I want you to
call her an apologize on this pod.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
She's an anonymous number in a group to.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
Actuity really is look at you?
Speaker 5 (26:50):
That would be who?
Speaker 3 (26:52):
That would be great if you apologized.
Speaker 5 (26:54):
That's fine.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
No, she hasn't.
Speaker 5 (26:58):
She's still thinking about it hasn't but she doesn't know
what happened.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Let's do a pole sash.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
Oh my goodness, should you.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Go back in time and make reparations?
Speaker 5 (27:11):
Preparations? You want me to go back twenty two years?
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Yeah, people are going back four hundred years. That's a
completely different about it.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
I did a little bit more than legitimately.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
In fact, this is worse because it was just one
person to bear the brunt of it, not even shared
amongst a community.
Speaker 5 (27:30):
Someone ganged up on. Don't you think you know what?
Because all I've changed my mind because all of us.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
Let's make up a name for her?
Speaker 5 (27:38):
Who her? And Andy? Andy was there, but it wasn't hers.
So that's why I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
That Andy and it's Andy shortfall Andrea, Oh Andrea, okay,
all right, so Andy, we're all of us.
Speaker 5 (27:54):
It wasn't Andy. It wasn't Andy there. Yeah, what all
of us have? Oh yeah, now I'm paddicking someone who.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
You really are?
Speaker 5 (28:01):
And he knows it wasn't her, so it's all good.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Well, that's insane. Let's pick a name of someone who
wasn't there so many girls. Fake names is so hard,
and there.
Speaker 5 (28:09):
Are so many girls there. There was like twenty girls there.
Mea two popular meal was in the jungle with me.
So there now I'm there.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
At shoes spewing all right, think of another name, Sasha
quick producer Asa.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
Okay, there was no Sally, there was no salad.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
Okay, Sally.
Speaker 5 (28:27):
See how quick she did that?
Speaker 3 (28:29):
The mental els, you know what, they're lubricated, like to
Sally on a sea of Scotch.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Her mental els just slipping.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Around, slipping glides from one to the other. Okay, Sally,
all of us have been Sally. We've all been salied,
and you sallied Sam.
Speaker 5 (28:53):
I slid Sally and you may not remember it, but
I guarantee she remembered. I do you remember because I
told you the story. The reason I do remember is
it because I did Sally wrong? Yeah, you did, And
I'm salid that I sullied Sally. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
Well, why don't you say sorry to Sally because she
remembers that. I reckon still hot with shame.
Speaker 5 (29:16):
What was that? Maybe some buckheads did this? Anyway, we're
going to put a polline. What was that? Uh, we'll
call it like life coaching group thing that a lot
of people were doing ten to fifteen years ago, and
you know what it was. You would sign up to
it and go to classes and parties or something when
we broke up. And part of going to this course
(29:38):
was you have to make a list of people and
what you should say sorry to them for like AA,
it was yeah, but not AA. What was this call?
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Yeah, Peter did one called east and I can't remember
what it stood for.
Speaker 5 (29:50):
Remember this and there was another name for it, ye
Air Live.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
Came Why I came away because I'll tell you the
most incredible thing happened when Peter did his So at
the end he did a weekend one and it was
years ago when we were broken up, and so it
was a very you know, one of those things where
they break you down and then they build you up again.
(30:19):
So you were there for like eighteen hours a day,
and then at the conclusion on the Sunday, you could
invite family and friends to witness what you were going
to confess to and apologize for. One of the people.
Speaker 5 (30:38):
In his.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
Was a vet. I'm already uncomfortable, and his wife and
kids were there, and I think he was older, like
his kids were kind of grown up, but not thirties,
like maybe early twenties.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
And he confessed to doing things, to doing things to
the animals with the oh MyH.
Speaker 3 (31:03):
In front of the whole, in front of everyone. Peter said,
any any any benefit he might have derived from this
intense and brutal weekend was just driven out of everybody
the end.
Speaker 5 (31:19):
Of this week's.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
How extraordinary is that? Okay, that's it, confessed, Well, well,
I have to ask him about it.
Speaker 5 (31:31):
That's all I got was a phone call from an
old friend saying I'm sorry for this, this, this, this and.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
This and then did you and did they say because
I've done this?
Speaker 5 (31:38):
Course, yes, absolutely, it was like ten to fifteen years ago.
She called and said, I'm doing this thing. This, She's
been doing it for months.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
Right, what did you apologize for?
Speaker 5 (31:49):
But the thing about it was vomiting in your shoe.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
If it was, you're a really bad person.
Speaker 5 (31:55):
I can't, honestly can't even remember it was it was.
I know it was the reason I still remember. It
was still this weird way of having a stab ah.
So it was sort of a real apology.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
I was okay, it was this, Okay, I love these era.
Speaker 5 (32:11):
Love blah blah blah blah, love love. I resented you
because there's parts of your personality that I'm jealous of.
Oh okay't but then like the parts of the personality
it made it sound like I was not a I
was putting it on, like it's a fake thing about me.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
You could you like I wish I had your ability
to don a fake personality to navigate a little bit.
Speaker 5 (32:38):
Yes, yes, thank you for the call.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
Oh and what did you say?
Speaker 5 (32:43):
Thank you? I hope you've that's all great, all good,
that's all fine. I hope you're okay, and you could
get what you need out of this course.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Someone in Showbies apologized to me once a very famous
person in Showbies, And how funny it was when I
used to do this show called the Panel used to occasionally.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
Panel's coming back online.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
It's bizarre twentieth anniversary.
Speaker 5 (33:08):
Oh okay, yep.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
Anyway, this this woman was on the shows, like was
a friend of the show, let's say. And then she
apologized to me like years later, and we were at
a film screening and she said, I have to say
(33:31):
sorry to you, And I'm like, oh, what for? Hmmm,
where I'm just writing the name on the back of
piece of baby Better be up? Not uploaded to YouTube
video she said, basically, that's what reminds me of it.
In her apology, she also insulted me. So she basically went,
(33:54):
because I didn't think you were clever enough.
Speaker 5 (33:59):
For something to have that role.
Speaker 3 (34:01):
Yeah, to have that role. And at the time when
I got that role on the panel, there were a
lot of female comedians whose noses were out of joint.
And I have to say, in my career in showbies,
and because I've worked with a lot of men, aside
from the fact that they tend to underestimate you, that's whatever,
(34:21):
the men were always nicer than the women comedians towards
me of that vintage, the young comedian, the young female comedians,
the younger ones I love, but that they were real
nitches to me, and often not in an overt way
in the way that women you know, do warfare. And
she apologized for that to me.
Speaker 5 (34:42):
I love that and I loved.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
It, but I'm also like, what prompted that?
Speaker 5 (34:48):
Maybe she I wish i'd aut me very therapized, therapised,
she's very therapist. And then the phone call did end
with her this friend of mine, yes, inviting me to
go to.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
She upsold you.
Speaker 5 (35:04):
She uphold me the program.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
What's it called sound? She did you find her?
Speaker 5 (35:08):
There's so many though, there's so many, there is a lot.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Just introduced her as the greatest producer and she can't
find a self enrichment.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
Then she up told me to come along to the
family and friends. Did you go?
Speaker 3 (35:23):
And of course I did not go go just out
of curiosity.
Speaker 5 (35:27):
I'll tell you what.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
You know, how much I wish I had been at
the vet one, not not you know, I'm not endorsing it,
of but just to witness that as a moment.
Speaker 5 (35:40):
Hey, how horrendous. But also what to buck up to
people doing the work and whatever way they need to
do the work, don't do the worst, don't do the word, because.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
I'll tell you what becomes apparent in life.
Speaker 5 (35:51):
Oh my god, this is so funny what you're about
to say.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
The people who don't do the work, uh huh, versus
the people who attempt any sort of self reflection and improvement.
And I tell you what, Colin I, the people that
don't do any self improvement become almost untenable to travel
through life with.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
At some point, we're getting deep, so I went on,
it's not out yet, but my friend from the jungle
everyone's friend Luke Bateman, the famous book talker, And to
go on his pod, you have to speak about books.
And I have dropn love that year. And you were
nervous because I read. I was a big read when
I was young.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Everyone stropped that ball.
Speaker 5 (36:31):
I have dropped the ball for so long.
Speaker 3 (36:34):
Was the last book you read?
Speaker 5 (36:36):
This is what I was really confused about. I was like,
oh god, I couldn't even remember. And so but I
did have points in my life where I read a
lot of books podcast reading, so you had to go
on his pod. You've got to talk about books that
you tell someone to read, just your forever great book.
One you'd land and one you'd skip over right, Not
for me. Yeah, however, I forgot that there was a
(37:00):
book and it might be very wanky because I'm not
really into the self helpy bookie stuff. This book is
called Do the Work, and I go back to it
a lot. I go back to it alf help. It's
very targeted towards creative people like you like us. In
our jobs, we don't rather boss No.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
We have to create everything food and it takes a
lot of energy to do that.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
And you get to get money from grants to get
projects up for the script. For example, we had to
do almost a year of work.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Hang on, hands up in the studio. Who's ever sucked
government money in Australia?
Speaker 5 (37:32):
For your money for my movie script? Because I did
the one.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
We haven't even had center Link gain for LIMP must do.
That means all going together, sus.
Speaker 5 (37:45):
Screen in Australia. Your money. I love them.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
I love a funding body. I believe in funding.
Speaker 5 (37:49):
It's too hard just to say that this it's a
very thin book. Love a thin book. I'm on board
when it's thin. What put it in a brochure reading
long and thin?
Speaker 3 (37:58):
Put it in my library, your return box slot that right?
Have you got a street library?
Speaker 5 (38:08):
There are so many, of course, there is a few round. Yeah,
what's in there? Bad books that no one wants? Yeah?
What like what I've never opened it? And what ones
I don't know? A lot of true crime, A lot
of those ones. There's like fifteen of them in this series.
Speaker 3 (38:23):
And yes, okay, detective from bar Bah. Yeah, this book.
Speaker 5 (38:27):
There is one thing that swells in my head a
lot in this Do the work, the work, because I'm
gonna be getting so off. Why not for us improvement?
Do the work it talks about, which really resonates with me.
There's a whole thing about reson resistance, as in everything
you want to do, there will be something trying.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
To stop pressing.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
Stephen Pressfield, No.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
That's that's who wrote the Change My Life to his
audio book on because in the field something press and
I couldn't remember his name that because of the universal
it's the city.
Speaker 5 (39:06):
Oh my god, what is that? My goodness? Okay, anything
to travel forward, there's something telling it to go back?
Speaker 3 (39:16):
Okay, can I that's so confusent.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
I'm just going to say.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
This sounds like a high literally changed my life when
we were flying, when we were living in Italy, I
had come back for work and I was writing my
memoir at the time, Cha Bella, which I'm assuming is
one of the books you recommended to Luke.
Speaker 5 (39:36):
I told Luke for you to go on the pod
and then his pod, and then I said that you
said something very smart on this pod one. It's about
the news. Agencies at airports always have a lot of
self help books because your mindset traveling is a bit
more open open.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
Okay, but so on the plane and I never do
this at that point, I think never listened to an
audiobook ever, and I pressed play on him. I'd never
heard of him, It goes best selling author. They always
say that never heard of him. Anyway, I listened to it,
and this is the takeaway for all our buckwards. This
is so brilliant.
Speaker 5 (40:10):
I can't believe it's a hit both of us.
Speaker 3 (40:12):
He says, the universe is naturally always in creation. That's
what the physical earth, everything does. It's always in creation.
Nothing stays the same, and so the universe. The forces,
literally the physical forces of the universe love creation and
(40:33):
the act of creation. But within ourselves we put up resistance,
which we do on any I'll do it later tomor
I'm tired on whatever.
Speaker 5 (40:42):
I'm drunk, Yeah, I'm drugs.
Speaker 3 (40:45):
It's eleven one and I'm cooked anyway. And so, but
he said, if you are taking on anything new, you
have to overcome the resistance.
Speaker 5 (40:59):
And once you.
Speaker 3 (41:00):
Overcome the resistance, most of which comes internally but also
comes from friends. But you can't do that, and blah
blah blah blah blah. Once you overcome the resistance, you
then receive from the entire force field of the world.
You receive assistance.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
Oh my, what a buck way, what a buck? Do
the work? Do the work. I didn't know that's what
it was called. So wanky little secret I have written down.
I have it on a thing blue tack Yours is
to just do the work. And to me it just
means everything that you just said. Do the world. People.
(41:44):
Sometimes I don't even know because he's written another one
called The War of Art, which is about again, when
you have to create something from nothing, right, just get
off your ass.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
Look at us, man, that's incredible. Sal's read self help book, you.
Speaker 5 (41:58):
Know, okay, and no none of it worked.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
Well, she beat me.
Speaker 5 (42:02):
Look at where you're going with nagging. You know, I
think let's kick into what male Robin's just for one second.
I'm not even going to talk about the like my
friends went and saw there. Even there's a worse one
that I skimmed once and went, this is yes, let's
let's just start a war with her.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
The five second rule, Yeah, the five second rule.
Speaker 5 (42:21):
If you don't want to do something, counter five and
then do it.
Speaker 3 (42:24):
You know when I found that really helpful. Yeah, when
I couldn't get out of bed, I went five three
two one out. I just think that's but you don't
need a Just Saved You thirty four ninety nine. I
said that she'll be angry that we robbed her of
the royalties.
Speaker 5 (42:40):
Sorry, how did your friends got her live show? Do
they like her?
Speaker 3 (42:42):
No?
Speaker 5 (42:42):
Not on board?
Speaker 3 (42:44):
And obviously they were there because they said it was
really weird, like a therapy session with her and her daughter.
You know, the daughter's on board with the let them,
but you know there's a cloud over the let them
theory and where it came from.
Speaker 5 (42:55):
Let's not get into that because we get murdered.
Speaker 3 (42:58):
No, no, but there is on Google it look up
Cassie Phillips.
Speaker 5 (43:02):
Well, I saw the other day that mel Robbins has
brought out vitamins or some sort of energy drink, and
I went, all right, mate.
Speaker 3 (43:08):
Yeah, no, and good on it. Like it's obvious here
there's a genuine thirst in people because we are all
spiritually impoverished, and our spiritual impoverishment obviously manifests in also
our physical drag, because you can't. We're all one thing.
(43:29):
And that's why the buck up is what is it?
It is your energy drink, It is your.
Speaker 5 (43:37):
Skull and swim, it is your eleven am cocktail.
Speaker 3 (43:44):
It is there for you because it's got the money
back guarantee.
Speaker 5 (43:47):
It absolutely does that.
Speaker 3 (43:49):
You will feel better at the end of it than
you did at the start of it, because you know what,
it's wholesome and it's uplifting, even as we're in the
trenches dragging nikking. Do the work, the work, and in
this case, the work is all you have.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
To do is drink, subscribe, follow, tell your friends, post like,
tell your friend, we love that, we love, we love growth,
we love on a shower. So you don't do my
uber story. Yes, I love, oh god, we love this
forgot his name, but probably I I yeah, And I
(44:30):
hope good things come his way because he is a
fantastic uber driver. To this uber driver whose name I
have forgotten, I should look at history. I've got to
go and actually tip him as well, because this uber
driver was driving. Concatto was down to see my comedy
festival show Amazing. We did a jungle reunion show.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
How was that?
Speaker 5 (44:47):
It was so cool?
Speaker 3 (44:49):
Okay, it's over now.
Speaker 5 (44:51):
It was the entire the actual group of people that
came hadn't seen each other since the Januine camp.
Speaker 3 (44:57):
Great and we had an either blah because it's not
on TV, blah, blah blah blah blah, A lovely, beautiful group.
Speaker 5 (45:03):
So Concetta and I are in the Yuba. On the way,
the uber driver notices that there's a phone left in
the car from the previous trip. Oh nightmare, right, So
he has decided to explain it was a very long explanation,
but a lovely man explaining that there's a process and
if it's over twenty four hours, they've got to take
it to a police station. Yeah. Right, So then the
(45:25):
phone rings. The phone.
Speaker 3 (45:27):
Oh, he's like behind, where is it in the car?
Speaker 5 (45:29):
Now he's got it.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
It's like, oh did you find it in the backseat?
It was on the sam We're like, this is there's
a phone? What color was it? And what the cover?
Speaker 5 (45:38):
A Samsung? Dumb? This person deserves to lose the phone.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
They might be a free thinker. So he they do
find my fans.
Speaker 5 (45:45):
Is the phone? Right? And it's a very classic mum
that's probably shot off many texts from mums in her life.
Speaker 3 (45:53):
Oh please send them to ask, very.
Speaker 5 (45:57):
Old sounding but classic mum perfect Yeap doesn't have her
head around technology. Oh no, I love her. He's how
basically my rough performance of the phone call.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
When okay, Oh, I love this.
Speaker 5 (46:11):
Mother doesn't know can you hear voice cracks because she's
got it on.
Speaker 3 (46:14):
He's got on speaks because he's drive.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
This mother doesn't know that her daughter has left her
phone in the Uber, so she's called her daughter just
to speak to her daughter, and the Uber drives the
daughter's phone was lost.
Speaker 3 (46:29):
Your daughter's fine.
Speaker 5 (46:30):
So the mother, unaware that the phone is lost, calls
her daughter. Oh, she doesn't know. The Uber driver answers, yea, Hello,
who's this?
Speaker 3 (46:40):
Does the Uber driver have an accente?
Speaker 5 (46:41):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (46:42):
All right, yeah, yeah, he.
Speaker 5 (46:43):
Says, Who's She says, who's this? He says, hello, I
am an Uber driver. This phone was left in my cab,
She says, But this says, my daughter's fine. He says, yes,
and this was left did my car? Yeah, So the
person who have called you must know. We now have
(47:04):
to let them know somehow that their phone is in
the Uber. The woman says, I'll call her. The Uber
driver says, you can't, because the phone.
Speaker 3 (47:19):
Unless she's got a home line.
Speaker 5 (47:20):
He's in the car. Yes, but that's my daughter's fun.
So I'll call her and for the next no patrician,
for the next you know, one of her replies was once,
but I'm in Coss Harbor. He was explaining to her
(47:42):
to try and call someone else, and her response was,
I'm in Coss Harbor. Chet and I were sitting in
the backseat the best entertainment of ever, a live text
from min and a bonding thing.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
To shed funny. Did you chip in at some point
to talk to Patricia.
Speaker 5 (47:59):
Or the end of the stories? I had to end
up grabbing the phone and taking it over. However, it
was just the name.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Did she give you her name?
Speaker 5 (48:06):
And it was art. It was like, yeah, you could write,
nothing could be written this funny. This poor woman in
Coughs Harbor. Maybe she's a bucket hello if you're listening.
Couldn't get her head around the fact the.
Speaker 3 (48:19):
Yeah, of course, and we've all done that. How many
times we've lost out We tried to call someone and
we know their phone's lost.
Speaker 5 (48:25):
Like it happened.
Speaker 3 (48:26):
It was very double and tripping down.
Speaker 5 (48:29):
It was more than that. It was from five minutes
of genuine baffling confusion that she couldn't call her daughter.
Oh and this god, this was so patient and so kind,
he said, just you know, he said to her at
one point this phone that you've called me on is
your daughter's phone. I'm going to hang up and call
(48:50):
you from my phone. So your phone's about to get
a call from a number you don't have. I want
you to know it's me. I am calling you in
a minute, calling to swap numbers so they could call him.
And it's going to be why would I do that?
Why would you call me? Tricia?
Speaker 3 (49:12):
It went on and on. At the end, did she
get it after she spoke to you? And then did
she say thank you to him?
Speaker 5 (49:20):
She was very grateful at the end, very lovely to him. Yes,
she was just confused.
Speaker 3 (49:24):
She was she was just yeah, cops, hard oa. You
know what, that's very big banana energy, because when you
see the big banana that you've heard about your whole life,
it doesn't make sense. And she lives in that mind.
Speaker 5 (49:41):
Boggle, big banana, bushy brain. I grabbed the photo. Patricia. Hello,
I am in the car with you driver. We're just
going to call you in a couple of minutes from
another phone, and this is my daughters, and I think
it's going to be a happy end. I think so.
A him a tip, A bad bad about hello to
(50:09):
any buckheads in coughs harbor well.
Speaker 3 (50:11):
Speaking mummy and and by the way, how can people
seem to their texts from momsmus on Instagram? Please everyone
who's got them, don't be cuddling them.
Speaker 5 (50:20):
Share them with our name back Up Community. We're not
creating content, We're creating a community.
Speaker 3 (50:30):
Yeah, why isn't it just what ak?
Speaker 5 (50:34):
And anyone that loves the buck Up knows that we
don't say words like community.
Speaker 3 (50:37):
We don't, But you know what we do say gang.
We've got a gang, the buck Up Gang. Who wants
to be in the back Up Gang? People listen to Yeah,
oh yeah, we'll bash people that use words like community
and they won't know what to do.
Speaker 5 (50:56):
Here's what we do. We meet at eleven am and somewhere.
Speaker 3 (51:02):
So this is Holly. Is she from Cans Cans? That's unusual.
I hope she doesn't want to be anonymous. She's got
a whole city named after it. That'll be tricky. She
asked what vacuum cleaner I have?
Speaker 5 (51:21):
M hmm. The mom asked her that, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3 (51:28):
The reply of what she has. She was obviously trying
to track down a type of vacuum cleaner. So this
is the reply from the mother eight o eight pm.
So bear in mind this is nine hours after official
cocktail hour.
Speaker 5 (51:44):
You've been on it for nine hours. If you're on
a school this week by then.
Speaker 3 (51:48):
That's probably that one. Dad wants to get a new
one for me. Was thinking of a Bissel. I do
love my Dyson. Find it easy to use and up
the dust and hair from our pets. Also, I'm going
to declutter a lot of stuff I don't need and
get a cleaner through my age Care, who I registered
(52:11):
with after I was very sick in hospital.
Speaker 5 (52:17):
This is filled with hits.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
I just don't like the idea of a stranger eat
my house, but they check them out pretty well. Also,
I got discharged from my oncologist. My MAMMO was all clear.
Just need to have a yearly ones through my GP.
Good news. But I'm thinking I need another iron infusion.
Feeling short of breath and tired. Had the last one
(52:40):
last June.
Speaker 5 (52:41):
Love Love hat whoa line for the history books.
Speaker 3 (52:45):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 5 (52:47):
I have heard every mother on earth at one point
say about a cleaner. Yeah, I don't want a stranger in.
Speaker 3 (52:53):
My house, whereas you know what this is the difference.
Speaker 5 (52:58):
You want nothing more than a stranger in your house
for the you're in the corner from your tequila and
five am.
Speaker 3 (53:07):
But also, you know what it's like when you first
get a babysitter and you move outside family, because there's
someone in the family that always choose up the free babysitting.
Speaker 5 (53:17):
That just is a given. Nana.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
Well, Nana's the one that gets chewed up by there's
always someone who needs the free babysitting, or whether or
not they need it, they get it right. And at
first you're sort of like, oh, we want our babies
looked after. Buy a relative, you know, But then you
realize the neutrality of exchanging money for the service makes
(53:43):
your life so much teazy. Of course it's so much easier.
Speaker 5 (53:49):
I will pay so much money for services that I
have relatives that could probably do. Yeah, because it's worthy
of the agreement. If something's wrong, you can, yeah, be
a Karen can't be your own family.
Speaker 3 (54:04):
He's one hundred and twenty bucks.
Speaker 5 (54:06):
Saya, yeah? Not? Do you want to cap you? How
is your night?
Speaker 3 (54:11):
Who are that said? There's nothing like love, but no
one who loves you is going to claim your house,
so you may as well just take that. Take the w.
Speaker 5 (54:24):
I I love everyone in this room.
Speaker 3 (54:27):
That's who didn't reply. So did you like that reply?
I said I love you, and he said I love
everyone and hastily, hastily, no.
Speaker 5 (54:39):
I know everyone. Ever have you seen when someone yeah,
I don't know, I love you. Cody and I are
happy because we don't do They can't handle it. I
don't think I never looked at each other in twelve
and you.
Speaker 3 (54:51):
Can't handle eye contact.
Speaker 5 (54:52):
It's like I always say to you, sometimes you forget
the fact that I'm still the guy you think you forget.
Gay men are still men. I you can see.
Speaker 3 (55:06):
The Backup podcast is hosted by me Kate Lanebrook and
him Nathan Valvo.
Speaker 5 (55:11):
It's produced by.
Speaker 3 (55:12):
The brilliant Sasha French Audio and sound by the magnificent
Jack Lawrence you.
Speaker 5 (55:21):
Might call him Jack.
Speaker 3 (55:22):
And Dom Evans, Oh We're lucky.
Imagine, if you will, that you are in a place
of great beauty. Some teenage boys.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Walk past you, they yell out, they bitch tits.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
The world you see is a place of paradox of
beauty and cruelty.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It will cut you off of the knees, then gift.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
You a pair of yasies.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
And that, my friends, is why you always always.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Need a back up. Gather one, gather roll, buck ups
for roll.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
We are all slightly hypo today and because hyperactivity. I've
been sick, you've been seek you do you have a
beautiful chesty? It's so like pack a day smoker's cough,
going on the bike up with Nathan and Margaret Pomorance.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I killed David and I'll kill you.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
She saw him out. She's still with us.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
She's magnificent, legend. Never paid me a better.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Compliment, Big Margaret. How many do you reckon? Cheese on?
She's on the movies all day? What else she got
on inside?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
I know exactly, you know what. She's got a steady
tray she eats. You know, they were thing with.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
The bean bags in the bottom.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
How it rests on your knees And a jack always
wanted one of them. She's got one of my friend's
mum used to have that, and on her stable table
she also had permanently some cute X nail polish remover,
some cotton balls and some nail polish.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
This and even very attractive about.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
That comorans that's pure tray, except an ash tray in
the other corner. Okay, not too close, because I think
that's dangerous.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
It's a dangerous tray. Anyway, I've never been more complimented.
Shout out also to all the packad smokers. Let's just
say this. There was a time a few years ago
where it was looked down upon. I'm going to say this.
I'm just now impressed by people that smoke cigarettes. Now
they've really just stuck with it. Followed eighty dollars a packet.
(02:24):
They are committed.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Oh you're so innocent. I find you shdorable. What no
one's paying. No one's paying the government price's black Marge,
fifteen bucks a packet. They're cheaper than they've ever bad.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
Okay, well there, I mean more pro smokers because.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
You know what the government's done. It's taken Laura abiding people.
It's taken Laura abiding people and driven them so far
to the edge that they've catapulted them over into a
legal activity because of their insane taxes and misplaced morality.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
That's right. So next time I see a bunch of
smokers out in front of a building on their lunch break,
I'm going to put my thumb up and say, I
hate taxes to guys. You keep aut it correct, you
take it to the big.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Because it's statistically I think prove and I said it
is based on not knowing it, and I'm not even
going to say it.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
When someone sits a sentence with statistically, you nobel lies time.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
And they have traveled with the statistically it's hard to say.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
But also, who's going to follow Who's going to follow
up on the stats? One's going to call you out
on it?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
The beautiful buckwhits, our buckheads, our buck knuckles, bucktenders love them?
Speaker 5 (03:40):
What about them?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
That was a new one? Watch one buck tender?
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Oh yeah, you've been sitting on that.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Just came out. You never helped me, you too?
Speaker 5 (03:50):
You know what? There's been a shifting of allegiances.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
On this podcast, and I don't like it, and don't
think that I don't know about it.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Okay, So here's what I you think is happening, which
is so funny in life when two of your friends
become friends and you don't like it.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Friends being friends, I don't like them then ganging up
against me setting up a secret group chat.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
There's no set chat. That was a team I will
hand you my phone. There is no secret group chat.
I love you. So let's say you know.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I would have Buckley's chance of working out what was
on your It could be on snaps, it could be
on WhatsApp, it.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Could be on any secret snapchats.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Anyway, I apparently have to apologize for the tequila episode
in which I got very aggressive. Now, but you also, sage,
you were with me on that rusty old boat.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I had a wild time on that app tequila. I
enjoyed that.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
You didn't look like you enjoyed it. I caught you
in Sage. I intercepted a look between the pair of.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
You when here's what you don't understand about our relationship,
and you're not going to believe me when I say it,
but it is the truth. I sometimes want to protect
you from the truth of myself and from the people
finding out about it. So there was just a couple
of things in that tequila app Well, my eyes to
Sash were like, for Kate's sake, maybe not that good.
(05:23):
I love it. No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I'm not worried about people knowing the truth of me.
To go down Sweden, yeah no, No, it's just I'm
a human. I'm sick of people sanitizing themselves.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Oh god, you're right.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Yah.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
We're pro pro truthfulness of your.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Pro smoking, pro tequila or whatever.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
No, not that we're pro smoking. We're pro you doing
whatever you want to do.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Absolutely, you know what. I'm not a cop, Thank god,
I'm not a cop. And either she because she's too
small and.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
She tried to know she passed the fossicle.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
That's the most embarrassing story I've ever heard. I'm kidding.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Do you know what they could have used her mate?
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Please? Yeah? Yes? AnyWho, it was a lovely at were
a wild ride.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I thought it was fun until it wasn't until something
that something happened.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
The low point was I can't remember very innocently and
smartly suggesting that the Buckheads could maybe wear the cowboy
hat from our logo to the special Shark Special show
in Comedy Shop, and you told her basically to get
that was the low boy.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
You understand my thinking because you can't wear a cowboy
hat in a theater and block the view of a
buckwheat behind you. Fine for Milli in the foyer, but
do you want people to be able to see you
though singing your prancing on stage?
Speaker 5 (06:52):
It's true, you need to see my feet. Yeah, so AnyWho.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
You you're a three sixty show.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
We asked bussy. We asked our buck airs for suggestions
to replace Koloa for a couple of weeks behind getting
back to them. But you've got them in front of
your suggestions. Do do you know what?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Nothing elicits? Nothing wakes up and buck wits our buck
knuckles from their perennial stupor then us talking about alcohol.
Suddenly everyone's sharp as attack and full of ideas.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
It's really sweet and genuinely humbling to realize that all
our listeners have drinking problems.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Well, I think that probably makes our pod better.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
Absolutely, why not? I am.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Change? You know, eleven o'clock somewhere, not one o'clock.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Katie Lanebrook waits till eleven am? Does she? Oh, it's
eleven am somewhere.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
It's eleven o'clock somewhere that was a tell all right,
ready tears. My grandmother who suggested gin. I think we
know who it was?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Oh, my goodness, Nate Valvo, Hello, Hello?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
What who hasn't been introduced?
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Oh? I don't know. I think we all hurt. Kate, you,
Kate Laine Brook, Margaret Pomerance and producers.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Are what Sasha French just sitting there in the corner
like a malevolent doll.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Doplay claes a judgment?
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Will that been in the group text?
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Yeah? Hey, the clap in today's snapchack disappears in fifteen seconds.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
We believe my track We've pitch.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
About you in fifteen second snapchat videos.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Okay, tears. My grandmother used to tell my mom to
stay away from Joan. Sure was at yours suggestion?
Speaker 5 (09:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Gin, gin, gin and whiskey because it's a leg opener.
That was my nana who used to easily drink a
bottle of gin daily.
Speaker 5 (09:16):
Who right, I'll tell you what. The new generations they
don't know how to drink. If you look up, look,
let's look up to grandparents. Their parents, they were smashing
bottles of gin a day.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
And also country drunk, Country drunk Country drunk was a
whole different flavor of drunk.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
It was just mind that should be on those wooden
boards when you travel into a regional townpoulation.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Instead of tidytown or the Lions Club. We've shouted out
then before, haven't we.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
Made country drunk?
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Country drunk?
Speaker 5 (09:53):
That's so good?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Love it, poor punker country drunk.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Yeah, well more to celebrate there anyway?
Speaker 3 (09:59):
These more you need to try Frangelico with ice and
fresh line. Steph, I love you.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
We have done that and no, I know, but and
I enjoyed it.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
But also, come on, Steve, what as if we haven't
done Frangelico with ice? And like, okay, well she doesn't know,
well she should know.
Speaker 5 (10:13):
She wasn't suggesting a cowboy hat the live show.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
She's met us. That's like, that's like saying, have you
tried giving a baby breast milk?
Speaker 5 (10:24):
I'm sure you haven't had it to kill us secretly
before you've walked in.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
No, you know what. I've been under siege and I'm
one to come out swinging before I retreat to the
fetal position weeping. I wanted to suggest this is from
Lucy Adams. This is the most specific recommendation ever I'm
listening the Zonzo Estate Lemon Cello sprits Lemon as your
(10:52):
new recording drink. It's my and my mum's new face, Lucy.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Here's a problem with lemon challo. It gets people absolutely
maggoted on the slide, creeps up to you because it's
so delicious. I have seen a number of people harmless. Absolutely,
it's like their face because of lemon shallow, like when people.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Would do those jelly shots, same thing that because it
was they seem sort of harmless. Actually maybe they were.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
There is not many things in the world that I
find more disgusting than jello shots. Do you remember back
in the day, there was such a thing for a
few even the day when we were doing a lot
of radio promo stuff standings. But you have to suck,
you have to suck it so but like doesn't look good.
You're an event, you're like.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
And it was sometimes they'd use too much jelatine and
it was very firm and it's very good for you.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
And in the corner of you you'd see people like
licking the jelly out from the bottom bit that never
looked good, giving it a.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Good tongue.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Somewhere.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Oh, I can't do you know what I actually said
to someone the other Sash, This is the I've had
to rethink my relationship with her. Because there's a show
called Drops of God.
Speaker 5 (12:24):
I haven't watched it yet. Watch it's so good, very
highly rated online as well.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
The first series. The second series really falls off the
cliff because it was supposed to be what do you
call it, a self contained series or whatever? Anyway, it's
about it's French Japanese co pro and it's about wine makers. Right,
It's great anyway.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
Chip buckheads drops very.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Good, so I said to Sash, because she loves wine
nearly as much as her boyfriend, not nearly as much
as she loves her boyfriend nearly as much as he
loves wine.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
It wasn't that hard to Maybe it was riddle this,
are you sure you haven't had a secret sit before
you've come here? You? I am?
Speaker 3 (13:13):
I not fine?
Speaker 5 (13:14):
I'm completely normal? Am I normal? Actually? I don't know
what normal is for me?
Speaker 3 (13:18):
I can't tell.
Speaker 5 (13:19):
Do you know what normally is for me?
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Such?
Speaker 5 (13:21):
No idea? And you can't.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Yeah, what would be baseline? Don't hurt my feelings? Try
to be more normal?
Speaker 5 (13:34):
Anyway?
Speaker 3 (13:35):
What was I saying, oh yeah, so Drop the God.
So told Sash she loves wine.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
My boyfriend loves one.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
It's a great show. I said, Sash, we're watching this
great show. We've just watched this great show called Drop
the God. She said, Oh, he didn't you seen that?
It we watched this just go. I'm like, oh, well,
thanks for the recommendation, you keeper.
Speaker 5 (14:03):
You're a friendship, your thirty year friendship. Sash can't even
enjoy a show without you having to know about it.
And if she waits too long, you're angry.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
You know. We see her all the time and we
talk about what we.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
Watched as a friend. And I'll put this on the
snapchat later when I send her quick snapchat nude is
if I tell if you're the kind of person that
I know, if you give it a suggestion to you,
it's going to be a while for you to get
around tour like years.
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Maybe. So we were the last people in Australia to
watch the Sopranos.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
See that's all anyway anyway.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Because then so after having watched that the other day,
we went to the beach and on the way back,
I said to Peter, I'm going to get a really
nice bottle of wine. So I'm going into this really
fancy wine shop near us. Never been in there before.
I don't know anything about wine really, other than what
I've leaned from this show, which is that you smell
(15:02):
it and then you start hallucinating and then you know
exactly what bery it came from and what flavors are
in it. Anyway, there was no one there to help me,
so I went on price. I always go on price,
but I went into a different bracket.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Okay, we went up.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Yeah, I don't go triple. I looked at a triple
and then I went calm down, right, But I came
back to seventy two.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
To me, if I'm going to if I want to
impress you at your house, I'm bringing I'm spending seventy eight.
It was just me and my husband. Mom just said,
but that's yeah, I know. Yeah, it's a gift. You
feel like it's a bit nicer when you've when you've
hit over five. Yeah, anyway, it's over fifty. Hello.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I did because I'm not because I'm always I've got
these as Sash so kindly pointed out many aspects to
my personality. Sometimes you know when you're in public. You
find yourself impersonating what you think people do.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
That's life. It is the mask life asking.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
But in this wine shop where the girl had to
come from the food part to serve me, because in
fact I had to go look for her, very honest citizen,
I said to her as she was bringing it up,
and I cannot forgive myself for this. It's wine o'clock,
(16:20):
I said, Oh my god, it's wine ClOH my god,
you're a You're a fridge magnet in a boomer's house.
Just terrible. Why did I say that? I felt the
need to fill it.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
You're an author, what's happened? You're a man published author?
Speaker 3 (16:40):
And now I took like, AI, it's wine o'clock, it's
why did I say that? She was just there was
a lao and I felt the it's raging alcoholic.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
Eleven am. I just think an alcoholic would say that
in a just one bastor.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
It's a basic It's so it was below everybody, And
I really apologized to her.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
Did you say so straight away?
Speaker 3 (17:08):
No? I just then I tried to make a sound
like I was being ironic, which I sort of was,
but I overdid the sound. Everything was it's one o'clock.
Speaker 5 (17:21):
If she was polite and good at her job, her
response would have been, it sure is she help?
Speaker 3 (17:26):
She she went, it's sure is. I can't wait to
knock off. She took to it really well, Well, she's
her job.
Speaker 5 (17:33):
I think people that work in alcohol stores, litter stores,
alcohol stores working because love love it. They get on it,
they get around it.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
It's not like a vegan working a butcher, right, so
they're just where they repulsed every second.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
I don't think there is a vegan brooking.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Guarantee they must be.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
There is not at I eat meat and even weird
looking in that back room sometimes when I asked for
my dog bone.
Speaker 3 (17:58):
All right, stick with me, okay, I don't think you
set off being a vegan to get a job in
a butcher shop. But I guarantee there's many people who
have become vegans in the course of their from and
not necessarily related to that, but they've been you know,
they're in some mind cult that's got to them, and
so so there must be someone who finds themselves thank you.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
Wrong, I'm wrong, and you're right.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
You know it's important to stay us because that drinking. Still, Yes,
what have you got as a suggestion that we drink.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Well, you need to know this. I'm a very weak
person in every sense of the word, and I'm very
weak with alcohol. And basically, if i want to have
more than a few SIPs, I'm going to have the
uber it into buck Up records. So I feel like
this is more a decision for you and such, because
you you have a bit more than I do.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
I'm just reading these others suggestions.
Speaker 5 (18:56):
I'm happy for it to be anything.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
A splash of quantro on, a hot chocolate yum for
winter winter, Justine, So, boy Bikie's dipped in the teller.
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Oh that's just food.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Oh no, the bliss point, Oh, Danny, yes, bliss point,
perfect meeting of fat, salt and sugar. I love that
you brought it to.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
It again, was his points.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Boy Bikie dipped in the teller.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
That's almost like bisco to be fair.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
And then oh, I tried. You know what I tried?
Speaker 5 (19:30):
You try. I've become such a try to stop my
own TikTok channel?
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Is there a channel?
Speaker 5 (19:37):
Put it in the show notes? Go doesn't make sense?
Speaker 3 (19:47):
Can you tell if anyone's looked at them? No, we've
got about We've got.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
We can't talk about notes have been around fifty years.
We can't talk about show notes like.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
It is for us.
Speaker 5 (20:02):
People are broadcasting live, people have moved on to videos.
We're like show, not the show.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Not. I've never done it. We have.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Slash has done them for a long time. Not really,
I've never checked them, to be fair, does anyone want to.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Know if anyone's looked up my man compliment guaranteeing necklace
and has anyone had compliments yet? We don't know yet
if anyone's doing experiment beautiful anyway, honorable shout out to
Costco pre mix Margarita.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
Oh hello, I love this. This is send them over.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
This is from Matt.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
Yeah. Do you think Costco's listening? Matt fits?
Speaker 3 (20:40):
I love it, he goes, no mixing required, comes in one.
Speaker 5 (20:44):
Oh wow, Matt. Yeah, it's eleven o'clock somewhere.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Claire Honey Bourbon so smooth and lovely, strenk with ice
coffee petrone. Well that's exactly that's good.
Speaker 5 (21:00):
We've had a real spectrum of answers here. I enjoy
that the bulk Costco drink.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
But and no like just just no time to wait,
no time to obviously, he hasn't heard, the pod hasn't realized.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
It's quite a lot of time to wait until all
the alcoholic buckheads we say, what a buck? What a
love them? So we do text a lot, the three
of us. Yes, you're you. I don't know who has
done this, but I cannot get behind this. What is it?
(21:35):
You've started a text chain with a random group of
people and I don't know who's in there, and there's
numbers I don't have. I'm not getting amongst it. You
have it. I'm too nervous. Yeah, I know people do
it to me. You've done this.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
You know all of you.
Speaker 5 (21:51):
You know I don't know who they are, Yes, you do.
But one of their numbers, would you?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
One of them is my manager Mail.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
Well, okay, I don't know that. I'm supposed to know you.
It's got your number, but you don't have her.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
And the other one's Carla. Okay, you know everyone in
the Alice and Analys my girlfriend als.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
So what you have done the other day is you
wanted to send a piece.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
Only she wants to come to your show.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
That's beautiful stuff. Thank you. I'll give her a comp
now that I've got her number.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
So you that's a terrible thing to do.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
And I should have seen you should have said, here
is the people hollow everyone here is who is in
this group? Chat Kate lainebrook. I am not kicking off.
I am not what I want to It was beef
TELLOPI are in there? Do you not like my beef tallow?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
I was so thrilled I made it myself.
Speaker 5 (22:42):
So I'm in the group. Yeah, Kate's in the group
three unknown numbers, I am, Yeah, I know you spot
on and done this to me. Well, I think I
wanted to test you. This is even more confusing. Then
it goes Kate Sash than the three numbers? I yeah,
text message group underneath that in my inbox is the
(23:04):
real one me, you and Sash.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
Oh, that's terrible.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
That it's dangerous. This is very dangerous. I did.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
I did one the other day where I was in
a group and I didn't realize it and I just
replied to YEA, you know, it happens, it does happen.
And it wasn't anything bad.
Speaker 5 (23:24):
I didn't say anything bad, but you know, you just
it's very and I was like, why do I have
an issue with this? And then it hit me a
life here you go.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Right, hang on, everybody pause. Some people are pulling out
a pen and paper.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Mate. People are two people. We have yourself and then
you have your text message personality. Yeah, everyone has a
text message personality. You might be more sassy, you might
be way more it was poetic, poetic. You may be
more pulled back, you might say less on. You might
(24:01):
swim or swim, or you might be a little bit
more drunk. Let's be honest, drunk. It's eleven o'clock somewhere.
I know people have email personalities at work.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
I do that.
Speaker 5 (24:12):
It's different. That's different, right, Well.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
That's pre fish.
Speaker 5 (24:15):
I don't know if I'm willing to show my text
message personality to some unknown numbers. Kate, it's quite intimate.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Between your text personality. I don't think you and I
have got Have we got a great disconnect? No, I
don't think we do.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
I think it's you two because a lot of the
time we are talking about this pod. So it's a
lot of the time being very It's Tuesday, you're available
this time, this time, who can do this time? It's
like that. But if you look at your other text
messages with friends, there's a side of you there that
you don't let everyone see. Here's my point, and that's
why I pulled back on replying to your bick because
(24:51):
I don't know who's in there.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
What could you possibly okay tell me what you I
don't know?
Speaker 5 (24:56):
Maybe maybe would you have seen? I didn't want to
offend the other cookers that may have been in the
group but didn't know, offend them with what my cooker.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Not liking beef tallow what it's.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
Going to be offended by that in that group? Test,
I don't know why? Why are you including me? And
then I noticed you're into skin? And then I thank you?
And then I noticed other people weren't getting amongst it.
Landed with her thud this group because no one can.
No one cared. But you know what, can I turn
up with my pots? And everyone was chalous because no
(25:29):
one else knew the numbers. I did notice.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
When Mail replied, she said, I'm intrigued. That was politic.
Speaker 5 (25:37):
See she didn't know who you were.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
She's got your number. Well, I don't know I want
to anyway, Your spot on that was very rude, landed
with It's the equivalent of as we've.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
Discussed discussed, the kids are in the car.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
Someone you're on speak You're on speakerphone and not declaring
it straightaway.
Speaker 5 (25:54):
I love you with all of my heart and that.
Speaker 3 (25:57):
Was I really let us stand.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
Everyone tell I let myself down. I let my buckwhets
down and I left. I lost. I think you do
need to kill her to be fair.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
Oh no, I've been. I've been sick, but not the
sick like people are talking.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
When I told you about that story that I told
on the part that this pot a few weeks ago,
about how I did the tequila spew and the vodkas. Yes, yeah,
and it landed in everyone's shoes. Yes, oh this is yeah,
repeating the story because it's disgusting, because then you'll hear
the Jemma did reach out. I saw it at my
show and she did explain to me that it did happen.
(26:35):
She remembers the girl we blamed. I will not we
will never say the name.
Speaker 3 (26:40):
Well, you sure you should apologize. I want you to
call her an apologize on this pod.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
She's an anonymous number in a group to.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
Actuity really is look at you?
Speaker 5 (26:50):
That would be who?
Speaker 3 (26:52):
That would be great if you apologized.
Speaker 5 (26:54):
That's fine.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
No, she hasn't.
Speaker 5 (26:58):
She's still thinking about it hasn't but she doesn't know
what happened.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Let's do a pole sash.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
Oh my goodness, should you.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Go back in time and make reparations?
Speaker 5 (27:11):
Preparations? You want me to go back twenty two years?
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Yeah, people are going back four hundred years. That's a
completely different about it.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
I did a little bit more than legitimately.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
In fact, this is worse because it was just one
person to bear the brunt of it, not even shared
amongst a community.
Speaker 5 (27:30):
Someone ganged up on. Don't you think you know what?
Because all I've changed my mind because all of us.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
Let's make up a name for her?
Speaker 5 (27:38):
Who her? And Andy? Andy was there, but it wasn't hers.
So that's why I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
That Andy and it's Andy shortfall Andrea, Oh Andrea, okay,
all right, so Andy, we're all of us.
Speaker 5 (27:54):
It wasn't Andy. It wasn't Andy there. Yeah, what all
of us have? Oh yeah, now I'm paddicking someone who.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
You really are?
Speaker 5 (28:01):
And he knows it wasn't her, so it's all good.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Well, that's insane. Let's pick a name of someone who
wasn't there so many girls. Fake names is so hard,
and there.
Speaker 5 (28:09):
Are so many girls there. There was like twenty girls there.
Mea two popular meal was in the jungle with me.
So there now I'm there.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
At shoes spewing all right, think of another name, Sasha
quick producer Asa.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
Okay, there was no Sally, there was no salad.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
Okay, Sally.
Speaker 5 (28:27):
See how quick she did that?
Speaker 3 (28:29):
The mental els, you know what, they're lubricated, like to
Sally on a sea of Scotch.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Her mental els just slipping.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Around, slipping glides from one to the other. Okay, Sally,
all of us have been Sally. We've all been salied,
and you sallied Sam.
Speaker 5 (28:53):
I slid Sally and you may not remember it, but
I guarantee she remembered. I do you remember because I
told you the story. The reason I do remember is
it because I did Sally wrong? Yeah, you did, And
I'm salid that I sullied Sally. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
Well, why don't you say sorry to Sally because she
remembers that. I reckon still hot with shame.
Speaker 5 (29:16):
What was that? Maybe some buckheads did this? Anyway, we're
going to put a polline. What was that? Uh, we'll
call it like life coaching group thing that a lot
of people were doing ten to fifteen years ago, and
you know what it was. You would sign up to
it and go to classes and parties or something when
we broke up. And part of going to this course
(29:38):
was you have to make a list of people and
what you should say sorry to them for like AA,
it was yeah, but not AA. What was this call?
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Yeah, Peter did one called east and I can't remember
what it stood for.
Speaker 5 (29:50):
Remember this and there was another name for it, ye
Air Live.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
Came Why I came away because I'll tell you the
most incredible thing happened when Peter did his So at
the end he did a weekend one and it was
years ago when we were broken up, and so it
was a very you know, one of those things where
they break you down and then they build you up again.
(30:19):
So you were there for like eighteen hours a day,
and then at the conclusion on the Sunday, you could
invite family and friends to witness what you were going
to confess to and apologize for. One of the people.
Speaker 5 (30:38):
In his.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
Was a vet. I'm already uncomfortable, and his wife and
kids were there, and I think he was older, like
his kids were kind of grown up, but not thirties,
like maybe early twenties.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
And he confessed to doing things, to doing things to
the animals with the oh MyH.
Speaker 3 (31:03):
In front of the whole, in front of everyone. Peter said,
any any any benefit he might have derived from this
intense and brutal weekend was just driven out of everybody
the end.
Speaker 5 (31:19):
Of this week's.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
How extraordinary is that? Okay, that's it, confessed, Well, well,
I have to ask him about it.
Speaker 5 (31:31):
That's all I got was a phone call from an
old friend saying I'm sorry for this, this, this, this and.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
This and then did you and did they say because
I've done this?
Speaker 5 (31:38):
Course, yes, absolutely, it was like ten to fifteen years ago.
She called and said, I'm doing this thing. This, She's
been doing it for months.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
Right, what did you apologize for?
Speaker 5 (31:49):
But the thing about it was vomiting in your shoe.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
If it was, you're a really bad person.
Speaker 5 (31:55):
I can't, honestly can't even remember it was it was.
I know it was the reason I still remember. It
was still this weird way of having a stab ah.
So it was sort of a real apology.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
I was okay, it was this, Okay, I love these era.
Speaker 5 (32:11):
Love blah blah blah blah, love love. I resented you
because there's parts of your personality that I'm jealous of.
Oh okay't but then like the parts of the personality
it made it sound like I was not a I
was putting it on, like it's a fake thing about me.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
You could you like I wish I had your ability
to don a fake personality to navigate a little bit.
Speaker 5 (32:38):
Yes, yes, thank you for the call.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
Oh and what did you say?
Speaker 5 (32:43):
Thank you? I hope you've that's all great, all good,
that's all fine. I hope you're okay, and you could
get what you need out of this course.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Someone in Showbies apologized to me once a very famous
person in Showbies, And how funny it was when I
used to do this show called the Panel used to occasionally.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
Panel's coming back online.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
It's bizarre twentieth anniversary.
Speaker 5 (33:08):
Oh okay, yep.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
Anyway, this this woman was on the shows, like was
a friend of the show, let's say. And then she
apologized to me like years later, and we were at
a film screening and she said, I have to say
(33:31):
sorry to you, And I'm like, oh, what for? Hmmm,
where I'm just writing the name on the back of
piece of baby Better be up? Not uploaded to YouTube
video she said, basically, that's what reminds me of it.
In her apology, she also insulted me. So she basically went,
(33:54):
because I didn't think you were clever enough.
Speaker 5 (33:59):
For something to have that role.
Speaker 3 (34:01):
Yeah, to have that role. And at the time when
I got that role on the panel, there were a
lot of female comedians whose noses were out of joint.
And I have to say, in my career in showbies,
and because I've worked with a lot of men, aside
from the fact that they tend to underestimate you, that's whatever,
(34:21):
the men were always nicer than the women comedians towards
me of that vintage, the young comedian, the young female comedians,
the younger ones I love, but that they were real
nitches to me, and often not in an overt way
in the way that women you know, do warfare. And
she apologized for that to me.
Speaker 5 (34:42):
I love that and I loved.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
It, but I'm also like, what prompted that?
Speaker 5 (34:48):
Maybe she I wish i'd aut me very therapized, therapised,
she's very therapist. And then the phone call did end
with her this friend of mine, yes, inviting me to
go to.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
She upsold you.
Speaker 5 (35:04):
She uphold me the program.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
What's it called sound? She did you find her?
Speaker 5 (35:08):
There's so many though, there's so many, there is a lot.
Speaker 3 (35:12):
Just introduced her as the greatest producer and she can't
find a self enrichment.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
Then she up told me to come along to the
family and friends. Did you go?
Speaker 3 (35:23):
And of course I did not go go just out
of curiosity.
Speaker 5 (35:27):
I'll tell you what.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
You know, how much I wish I had been at
the vet one, not not you know, I'm not endorsing it,
of but just to witness that as a moment.
Speaker 5 (35:40):
Hey, how horrendous. But also what to buck up to
people doing the work and whatever way they need to
do the work, don't do the worst, don't do the word, because.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
I'll tell you what becomes apparent in life.
Speaker 5 (35:51):
Oh my god, this is so funny what you're about
to say.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
The people who don't do the work, uh huh, versus
the people who attempt any sort of self reflection and improvement.
And I tell you what, Colin I, the people that
don't do any self improvement become almost untenable to travel
through life with.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
At some point, we're getting deep, so I went on,
it's not out yet, but my friend from the jungle
everyone's friend Luke Bateman, the famous book talker, And to
go on his pod, you have to speak about books.
And I have dropn love that year. And you were
nervous because I read. I was a big read when
I was young.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Everyone stropped that ball.
Speaker 5 (36:31):
I have dropped the ball for so long.
Speaker 3 (36:34):
Was the last book you read?
Speaker 5 (36:36):
This is what I was really confused about. I was like,
oh god, I couldn't even remember. And so but I
did have points in my life where I read a
lot of books podcast reading, so you had to go
on his pod. You've got to talk about books that
you tell someone to read, just your forever great book.
One you'd land and one you'd skip over right, Not
for me. Yeah, however, I forgot that there was a
(37:00):
book and it might be very wanky because I'm not
really into the self helpy bookie stuff. This book is
called Do the Work, and I go back to it
a lot. I go back to it alf help. It's
very targeted towards creative people like you like us. In
our jobs, we don't rather boss No.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
We have to create everything food and it takes a
lot of energy to do that.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
And you get to get money from grants to get
projects up for the script. For example, we had to
do almost a year of work.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Hang on, hands up in the studio. Who's ever sucked
government money in Australia?
Speaker 5 (37:32):
For your money for my movie script? Because I did
the one.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
We haven't even had center Link gain for LIMP must do.
That means all going together, sus.
Speaker 5 (37:45):
Screen in Australia. Your money. I love them.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
I love a funding body. I believe in funding.
Speaker 5 (37:49):
It's too hard just to say that this it's a
very thin book. Love a thin book. I'm on board
when it's thin. What put it in a brochure reading
long and thin?
Speaker 3 (37:58):
Put it in my library, your return box slot that right?
Have you got a street library?
Speaker 5 (38:08):
There are so many, of course, there is a few round. Yeah,
what's in there? Bad books that no one wants? Yeah?
What like what I've never opened it? And what ones
I don't know? A lot of true crime, A lot
of those ones. There's like fifteen of them in this series.
Speaker 3 (38:23):
And yes, okay, detective from bar Bah. Yeah, this book.
Speaker 5 (38:27):
There is one thing that swells in my head a
lot in this Do the work, the work, because I'm
gonna be getting so off. Why not for us improvement?
Do the work it talks about, which really resonates with me.
There's a whole thing about reson resistance, as in everything
you want to do, there will be something trying.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
To stop pressing.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
Stephen Pressfield, No.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
That's that's who wrote the Change My Life to his
audio book on because in the field something press and
I couldn't remember his name that because of the universal
it's the city.
Speaker 5 (39:06):
Oh my god, what is that? My goodness? Okay, anything
to travel forward, there's something telling it to go back?
Speaker 3 (39:16):
Okay, can I that's so confusent.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
I'm just going to say.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
This sounds like a high literally changed my life when
we were flying, when we were living in Italy, I
had come back for work and I was writing my
memoir at the time, Cha Bella, which I'm assuming is
one of the books you recommended to Luke.
Speaker 5 (39:36):
I told Luke for you to go on the pod
and then his pod, and then I said that you
said something very smart on this pod one. It's about
the news. Agencies at airports always have a lot of
self help books because your mindset traveling is a bit
more open open.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
Okay, but so on the plane and I never do
this at that point, I think never listened to an
audiobook ever, and I pressed play on him. I'd never
heard of him, It goes best selling author. They always
say that never heard of him. Anyway, I listened to it,
and this is the takeaway for all our buckwards. This
is so brilliant.
Speaker 5 (40:10):
I can't believe it's a hit both of us.
Speaker 3 (40:12):
He says, the universe is naturally always in creation. That's
what the physical earth, everything does. It's always in creation.
Nothing stays the same, and so the universe. The forces,
literally the physical forces of the universe love creation and
(40:33):
the act of creation. But within ourselves we put up resistance,
which we do on any I'll do it later tomor
I'm tired on whatever.
Speaker 5 (40:42):
I'm drunk, Yeah, I'm drugs.
Speaker 3 (40:45):
It's eleven one and I'm cooked anyway. And so, but
he said, if you are taking on anything new, you
have to overcome the resistance.
Speaker 5 (40:59):
And once you.
Speaker 3 (41:00):
Overcome the resistance, most of which comes internally but also
comes from friends. But you can't do that, and blah
blah blah blah blah. Once you overcome the resistance, you
then receive from the entire force field of the world.
You receive assistance.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
Oh my, what a buck way, what a buck? Do
the work? Do the work. I didn't know that's what
it was called. So wanky little secret I have written down.
I have it on a thing blue tack Yours is
to just do the work. And to me it just
means everything that you just said. Do the world. People.
(41:44):
Sometimes I don't even know because he's written another one
called The War of Art, which is about again, when
you have to create something from nothing, right, just get
off your ass.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
Look at us, man, that's incredible. Sal's read self help book, you.
Speaker 5 (41:58):
Know, okay, and no none of it worked.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
Well, she beat me.
Speaker 5 (42:02):
Look at where you're going with nagging. You know, I
think let's kick into what male Robin's just for one second.
I'm not even going to talk about the like my
friends went and saw there. Even there's a worse one
that I skimmed once and went, this is yes, let's
let's just start a war with her.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
The five second rule, Yeah, the five second rule.
Speaker 5 (42:21):
If you don't want to do something, counter five and
then do it.
Speaker 3 (42:24):
You know when I found that really helpful. Yeah, when
I couldn't get out of bed, I went five three
two one out. I just think that's but you don't
need a Just Saved You thirty four ninety nine. I
said that she'll be angry that we robbed her of
the royalties.
Speaker 5 (42:40):
Sorry, how did your friends got her live show? Do
they like her?
Speaker 3 (42:42):
No?
Speaker 5 (42:42):
Not on board?
Speaker 3 (42:44):
And obviously they were there because they said it was
really weird, like a therapy session with her and her daughter.
You know, the daughter's on board with the let them,
but you know there's a cloud over the let them
theory and where it came from.
Speaker 5 (42:55):
Let's not get into that because we get murdered.
Speaker 3 (42:58):
No, no, but there is on Google it look up
Cassie Phillips.
Speaker 5 (43:02):
Well, I saw the other day that mel Robbins has
brought out vitamins or some sort of energy drink, and
I went, all right, mate.
Speaker 3 (43:08):
Yeah, no, and good on it. Like it's obvious here
there's a genuine thirst in people because we are all
spiritually impoverished, and our spiritual impoverishment obviously manifests in also
our physical drag, because you can't. We're all one thing.
(43:29):
And that's why the buck up is what is it?
It is your energy drink, It is your.
Speaker 5 (43:37):
Skull and swim, it is your eleven am cocktail.
Speaker 3 (43:44):
It is there for you because it's got the money
back guarantee.
Speaker 5 (43:47):
It absolutely does that.
Speaker 3 (43:49):
You will feel better at the end of it than
you did at the start of it, because you know what,
it's wholesome and it's uplifting, even as we're in the
trenches dragging nikking. Do the work, the work, and in
this case, the work is all you have.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
To do is drink, subscribe, follow, tell your friends, post like,
tell your friend, we love that, we love, we love growth,
we love on a shower. So you don't do my
uber story. Yes, I love, oh god, we love this
forgot his name, but probably I I yeah, And I
(44:30):
hope good things come his way because he is a
fantastic uber driver. To this uber driver whose name I
have forgotten, I should look at history. I've got to
go and actually tip him as well, because this uber
driver was driving. Concatto was down to see my comedy
festival show Amazing. We did a jungle reunion show.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
How was that?
Speaker 5 (44:47):
It was so cool?
Speaker 3 (44:49):
Okay, it's over now.
Speaker 5 (44:51):
It was the entire the actual group of people that
came hadn't seen each other since the Januine camp.
Speaker 3 (44:57):
Great and we had an either blah because it's not
on TV, blah, blah blah blah blah, A lovely, beautiful group.
Speaker 5 (45:03):
So Concetta and I are in the Yuba. On the way,
the uber driver notices that there's a phone left in
the car from the previous trip. Oh nightmare, right, So
he has decided to explain it was a very long explanation,
but a lovely man explaining that there's a process and
if it's over twenty four hours, they've got to take
it to a police station. Yeah. Right, So then the
(45:25):
phone rings. The phone.
Speaker 3 (45:27):
Oh, he's like behind, where is it in the car?
Speaker 5 (45:29):
Now he's got it.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
It's like, oh did you find it in the backseat?
It was on the sam We're like, this is there's
a phone? What color was it? And what the cover?
Speaker 5 (45:38):
A Samsung? Dumb? This person deserves to lose the phone.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
They might be a free thinker. So he they do
find my fans.
Speaker 5 (45:45):
Is the phone? Right? And it's a very classic mum
that's probably shot off many texts from mums in her life.
Speaker 3 (45:53):
Oh please send them to ask, very.
Speaker 5 (45:57):
Old sounding but classic mum perfect Yeap doesn't have her
head around technology. Oh no, I love her. He's how
basically my rough performance of the phone call.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
When okay, Oh, I love this.
Speaker 5 (46:11):
Mother doesn't know can you hear voice cracks because she's
got it on.
Speaker 3 (46:14):
He's got on speaks because he's drive.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
This mother doesn't know that her daughter has left her
phone in the Uber, so she's called her daughter just
to speak to her daughter, and the Uber drives the
daughter's phone was lost.
Speaker 3 (46:29):
Your daughter's fine.
Speaker 5 (46:30):
So the mother, unaware that the phone is lost, calls
her daughter. Oh, she doesn't know. The Uber driver answers, yea, Hello,
who's this?
Speaker 3 (46:40):
Does the Uber driver have an accente?
Speaker 5 (46:41):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (46:42):
All right, yeah, yeah, he.
Speaker 5 (46:43):
Says, Who's She says, who's this? He says, hello, I
am an Uber driver. This phone was left in my cab,
She says, But this says, my daughter's fine. He says, yes,
and this was left did my car? Yeah, So the
person who have called you must know. We now have
(47:04):
to let them know somehow that their phone is in
the Uber. The woman says, I'll call her. The Uber
driver says, you can't, because the phone.
Speaker 3 (47:19):
Unless she's got a home line.
Speaker 5 (47:20):
He's in the car. Yes, but that's my daughter's fun.
So I'll call her and for the next no patrician,
for the next you know, one of her replies was once,
but I'm in Coss Harbor. He was explaining to her
(47:42):
to try and call someone else, and her response was,
I'm in Coss Harbor. Chet and I were sitting in
the backseat the best entertainment of ever, a live text
from min and a bonding thing.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
To shed funny. Did you chip in at some point
to talk to Patricia.
Speaker 5 (47:59):
Or the end of the stories? I had to end
up grabbing the phone and taking it over. However, it
was just the name.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Did she give you her name?
Speaker 5 (48:06):
And it was art. It was like, yeah, you could write,
nothing could be written this funny. This poor woman in
Coughs Harbor. Maybe she's a bucket hello if you're listening.
Couldn't get her head around the fact the.
Speaker 3 (48:19):
Yeah, of course, and we've all done that. How many
times we've lost out We tried to call someone and
we know their phone's lost.
Speaker 5 (48:25):
Like it happened.
Speaker 3 (48:26):
It was very double and tripping down.
Speaker 5 (48:29):
It was more than that. It was from five minutes
of genuine baffling confusion that she couldn't call her daughter.
Oh and this god, this was so patient and so kind,
he said, just you know, he said to her at
one point this phone that you've called me on is
your daughter's phone. I'm going to hang up and call
(48:50):
you from my phone. So your phone's about to get
a call from a number you don't have. I want
you to know it's me. I am calling you in
a minute, calling to swap numbers so they could call him.
And it's going to be why would I do that?
Why would you call me? Tricia?
Speaker 3 (49:12):
It went on and on. At the end, did she
get it after she spoke to you? And then did
she say thank you to him?
Speaker 5 (49:20):
She was very grateful at the end, very lovely to him. Yes,
she was just confused.
Speaker 3 (49:24):
She was she was just yeah, cops, hard oa. You
know what, that's very big banana energy, because when you
see the big banana that you've heard about your whole life,
it doesn't make sense. And she lives in that mind.
Speaker 5 (49:41):
Boggle, big banana, bushy brain. I grabbed the photo. Patricia. Hello,
I am in the car with you driver. We're just
going to call you in a couple of minutes from
another phone, and this is my daughters, and I think
it's going to be a happy end. I think so.
A him a tip, A bad bad about hello to
(50:09):
any buckheads in coughs harbor well.
Speaker 3 (50:11):
Speaking mummy and and by the way, how can people
seem to their texts from momsmus on Instagram? Please everyone
who's got them, don't be cuddling them.
Speaker 5 (50:20):
Share them with our name back Up Community. We're not
creating content, We're creating a community.
Speaker 3 (50:30):
Yeah, why isn't it just what ak?
Speaker 5 (50:34):
And anyone that loves the buck Up knows that we
don't say words like community.
Speaker 3 (50:37):
We don't, But you know what we do say gang.
We've got a gang, the buck Up Gang. Who wants
to be in the back Up Gang? People listen to Yeah,
oh yeah, we'll bash people that use words like community
and they won't know what to do.
Speaker 5 (50:56):
Here's what we do. We meet at eleven am and somewhere.
Speaker 3 (51:02):
So this is Holly. Is she from Cans Cans? That's unusual.
I hope she doesn't want to be anonymous. She's got
a whole city named after it. That'll be tricky. She
asked what vacuum cleaner I have?
Speaker 5 (51:21):
M hmm. The mom asked her that, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3 (51:28):
The reply of what she has. She was obviously trying
to track down a type of vacuum cleaner. So this
is the reply from the mother eight o eight pm.
So bear in mind this is nine hours after official
cocktail hour.
Speaker 5 (51:44):
You've been on it for nine hours. If you're on
a school this week by then.
Speaker 3 (51:48):
That's probably that one. Dad wants to get a new
one for me. Was thinking of a Bissel. I do
love my Dyson. Find it easy to use and up
the dust and hair from our pets. Also, I'm going
to declutter a lot of stuff I don't need and
get a cleaner through my age Care, who I registered
(52:11):
with after I was very sick in hospital.
Speaker 5 (52:17):
This is filled with hits.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
I just don't like the idea of a stranger eat
my house, but they check them out pretty well. Also,
I got discharged from my oncologist. My MAMMO was all clear.
Just need to have a yearly ones through my GP.
Good news. But I'm thinking I need another iron infusion.
Feeling short of breath and tired. Had the last one
(52:40):
last June.
Speaker 5 (52:41):
Love Love hat whoa line for the history books.
Speaker 3 (52:45):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 5 (52:47):
I have heard every mother on earth at one point
say about a cleaner. Yeah, I don't want a stranger in.
Speaker 3 (52:53):
My house, whereas you know what this is the difference.
Speaker 5 (52:58):
You want nothing more than a stranger in your house
for the you're in the corner from your tequila and
five am.
Speaker 3 (53:07):
But also, you know what it's like when you first
get a babysitter and you move outside family, because there's
someone in the family that always choose up the free babysitting.
Speaker 5 (53:17):
That just is a given. Nana.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
Well, Nana's the one that gets chewed up by there's
always someone who needs the free babysitting, or whether or
not they need it, they get it right. And at
first you're sort of like, oh, we want our babies
looked after. Buy a relative, you know, But then you
realize the neutrality of exchanging money for the service makes
(53:43):
your life so much teazy. Of course it's so much easier.
Speaker 5 (53:49):
I will pay so much money for services that I
have relatives that could probably do. Yeah, because it's worthy
of the agreement. If something's wrong, you can, yeah, be
a Karen can't be your own family.
Speaker 3 (54:04):
He's one hundred and twenty bucks.
Speaker 5 (54:06):
Saya, yeah? Not? Do you want to cap you? How
is your night?
Speaker 3 (54:11):
Who are that said? There's nothing like love, but no
one who loves you is going to claim your house,
so you may as well just take that. Take the w.
Speaker 5 (54:24):
I I love everyone in this room.
Speaker 3 (54:27):
That's who didn't reply. So did you like that reply?
I said I love you, and he said I love
everyone and hastily, hastily, no.
Speaker 5 (54:39):
I know everyone. Ever have you seen when someone yeah,
I don't know, I love you. Cody and I are
happy because we don't do They can't handle it. I
don't think I never looked at each other in twelve
and you.
Speaker 3 (54:51):
Can't handle eye contact.
Speaker 5 (54:52):
It's like I always say to you, sometimes you forget
the fact that I'm still the guy you think you forget.
Gay men are still men. I you can see.
Speaker 3 (55:06):
The Backup podcast is hosted by me Kate Lanebrook and
him Nathan Valvo.
Speaker 5 (55:11):
It's produced by.
Speaker 3 (55:12):
The brilliant Sasha French Audio and sound by the magnificent
Jack Lawrence you.
Speaker 5 (55:21):
Might call him Jack.
Speaker 3 (55:22):
And Dom Evans, Oh We're lucky.
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