January 26, 2026 • 54 mins
- Mathew Zukowski is sad
- Kate's going to heaven
- Beckham drama
- Text from mum
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Imagine, if you will, that you are in a place
of great beauty. Some teenage boys walk past you, they
yell out, hey, bitch tits. The world you see is
a place of paradox of beauty and cruelty.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It will cut you off.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Of the knees, then gift you a pair of easies.
And that, my friends, is why you always always need
wide a buck up.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
By bad Bade commit Caitline Brock, Hello, night Valve.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
I have a question to ask. It's made on my
mind the last two minutes since you walked in, and
I hope the answers yes, because it's not yes.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Why are you not looking at because.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I'm scared of the answer is no. Do you have
new teeth?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Oh my goodness. Okay, so I have old teeth that
have been REFURBI.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Imagine a new season of the Block.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
I've had my smile restore those pearly Oh my goodness,
I love them.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
They so glowing, but good glow, because sometimes it looks
like people have got TikTok stuffed up?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
You didn't. You didn't do the Hollywood reality TV?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
All right? I so badly wanted to, so badly wanted
to When they show you the color charts.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
There's a color chart.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Oh yeah, there's a color chart.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
What's the.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Who's gone brown? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I don't know about you, Kate, but I am one
for brown teeth.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Oh my, remember you said to me, got blue?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
What's the described to me? The darkest you can go
for teeth?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Well? I didn't dwell on that part of the mat
because like the ancient mariners would have believed, which was
there be monsters, right, But there was a kind of yeah,
like a tobacco, a nicotine. A nicotine like my favorite
kind of interior furniture in a I think a Ferrari.
(02:29):
They do a really stuns nicotine, like a tan level,
like a tan leather. I think you could go not
that deep. But I went to the lab and everything.
I had a look. And when they're mixing, they're like artists.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
And how much if let's say, ten is so bright
you can't even look at it on the page one?
Is this leather? Ten?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
No, but did you pick?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I think I'm about halfway.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You're about a five? Yeah, look very good?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Well, thank you.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Can I ask a question about his teeth?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Is this the one where they grind your oge.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
I'm not discussing any of that they did.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Underneath I have awarewook.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Do you know what I wasn't going to I was
going to go home. I'm halfway through the process, by
the way, I'm not finished shit, but I'm so thrilled
with it. But you know what, I've realized, some people
don't want you to improve yourself in life. Who's that
to your children?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Of course? No one wants mum getting worked done.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
No one wants my daughter, who's stunning and as herself,
had a front to rebuilt from where a girlfriend of
her name and accidentally with the stone. Why are you
doing that?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
In inverted comments, I don't know. Do you think really happened?
Do you think is the real story?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
But I always say I've got shorthand for certain kids
in my kid's life. And she's and she's such a
lovely girl. I shouldn't even says and she's lovely. I
call her the very tooth smasher. No, not Sunday her
girlfriend who.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Sorry, Sunday's girlfriend is the tooth smash Yeah, I call
her the tooth sounds like.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Some of them have got various nicknames. One of them's
nicknamed do you know the nickname, please do so there's
the hero. The hero is one of Yarni's mates who
when he got drunk in a park. Oh yes, that's right,
with the hospital visit and called me, called me, and
that was very hard to do. I've never told the
Buckwets this story, but we'll tell them in another day.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
You know what, I reckon, they've connected the dots. They
have some sun park drunk hospital hero.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
And ironically, because.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
What a gift to me if you started telling stories
in point four imagine if you started for twenty twenty six.
You just told me these.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
In five points?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
I think could you couldn't? You couldn't.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
There is no By the way, why aren't you this
entertaining in the jungle? I stick to the talk about
the j Okay, we'll talk about it in a moment.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Go on about the teeth.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
What about them?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Well, you were telling the story.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
No, I say nicknames. That's not nice.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
So ironically, because I had a son who underage got drunk,
I call one of the friends an ex friend fetal alcohol.
See I didn't really have it.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
A nickname is not supposed to be longer than their
real name.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
The longest. It's just a shorthand. I've got.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
You know it.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Never cross a mother.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Here's what I did when I was young.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Never cross a mother.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I tell you, I'm backing you up. I knew very
early that the key to having a healthy and good
social life was being loved by your friends mothers. It
is the answer to all of your problems when you
are a teenager. It's true they didn't know what I
was doing behind the scenes. I was up to no good.
(06:09):
Oh I was a little ruscal.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Yeah, in my years, they would have known that your
mothers love rascals to teenagers. That week, Oh my gosh,
who's that. That's a little rascal. That's a little fox.
Look at a little red tail bobbing through the bushes.
The greatest producer in the land. Drunk kaylin ro No.
(06:33):
But I've had a great thought that I'll share with
you later about me going to Jamaica.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Can I just say something when you forward tease? You
never get there, so you can't say to our lovely
buckheads this year, But I'll tell you later because they
know you won't. You know you won't.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
But I'll write it down. I'm writing jamake it down.
Jamaica and a great idea, an idea involving the host
of the show, Sean McCay.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Okay, we'll get there in a sack. So much to
talk about in this pod.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Okay, So you're very being very modest about you in
the jungle. You're so spectacular. Okay, you're just lovely in
front of it. And you know who I love?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Who?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Conchetta? I love Concertto I mean I love just about everybody.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Can be honest. There's so many things I want to
tell you. Where should we start love? Conchetta love a
lot of people.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Do you know what I love about Conchetto as well? Okay,
so she had the most hideous initiation into the jungle.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
I'm still not over it.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Very it alive, those alive and then they filled it
with water horrendous. But also when she rescued you, when
they left you hanging in that washing machine and to
the point where you got washing machine sickness.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, they didn't show the spear.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
I know, it looked like you were just bunging it
on to get out of the washing machine. Serious, Yeah,
that's how they cut it. And I went not.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I want to tell you something about these trials and
I'm calling you out. I'm a celebrity. Get me out
of here.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Go call them out, call them.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
They go for so much longer than it seems. We
are doing that stuff for so long. For example, when
I got catapulted into the sky episode, I cannot tell
you three hours how long we stood there for between
each go three. It was the point. The point was
the anticipation of making us not know when it was
(08:19):
going to happen. We stood there force.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
But also Balvo. I know you sace anticipation because you
were just thinking about the production side of things. I
believe there may also be some safety checks.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Did you just say that I was banging it on
in the washing machine? They had to give me anti
nausea medication.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Say any of that, sash, What did you think banging
it up, bugging it on, banging it on, it on?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
But my responsibility is you were to feed my starving
camp mate. I'm banging it on.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
No, we all know what the responsibility is. We all know.
But it was also like matting.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
The heights in the heights when he wouldn't jump for
the star. My god, Matt, did you This is what
doing reality TV is so funny because when you're there.
It's so real.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
But you know what, we weren't there. We're watching it
on television, so we get.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
To I opened my phone the next day in one
of the headlines is about Matt I'm a celeb accused
of fake cry, And of course I clicked the article.
Of course I sent it to him, and I'm just scrolling.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Through and it seems so sweet and sad.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
He's not sad, He's just very sad.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Don't you think he seems sad? Sash, Yeah, he's got
and he's got a.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Him and ask him why he said, And I'll.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Just say, you seem like you have an existential sadness
in you, poor Matte. But sweet, no doubt.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Not, I would say, not sad. I would say, like
a lot of us, you go on that show and
you get a bit lost when you get there because
it's so intense. But anyway, last Matt.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Fine ringing will the answer to you?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
It's private number?
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Why is it a private from?
Speaker 5 (10:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
We are, I get it, I get it. No, he's
not answering Tammy calling to chewing. That's really that guy's
been through a lot. You know what, this will be
more stars. He's missed. That's the right do you know who?
(10:32):
Ees you do? Tractor Luke's adorable.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
Love look very much. So here's some good gossip.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Oh yes, good the show.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
The show psych said to all of us the first
it's almost like reverse when you're in there, the first
six days of the hardest. It's not two weeks one week,
it's the first six days.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
And what the first cut is the deepest.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
She's good. The jungle does stuff to you that's not real,
and you're reacting in a way that's not.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Real, like no and things that jungles, stuff to you
that's real, things matter to you that don't actually matter.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
And the second you leave, you go none of that matters.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
None of it.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
But in the moment, of course, all that matters. The
folest thing is the biggest thing, and it's.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Just all the world. Literally, you've vented another world, and
it's it feels entirely legitimate when you're in it.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
It's also absolutely humiliating to see yourself cry on reality television.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
I can't get enough of you, you can't get enough
of you.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
It's absolutely humiliating. It's I just want to add this
because I don't think this was shown in.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Its entirety, right, of course it wasn't. When you're in there,
weird things become currency, right. And one of the things
that everyone is insecure about, every single person is am
I doing enough around the camp?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
How many chores are actually?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Big? Surprised. You've got to keep the water thing full.
You've got to have the bowling boiling water at all times.
You've got to get your rice on early. You've got
to get the firewood constantly. You've got to walk to
get the firewood. That's like a twenty minute thing, and
you're going to have enough wood. The toilets need to
be swapped every day. That's disgusting. Dishes need to be done.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
There's just things, yeah, yeah, yeah. And also can I
just say, having come back from a holiday in our
little house with a lot of visitors, no one likes
a lazy person.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Thank you? Right, And everyone knows this, you know what
became the biggest thing that we all want us to
know the time. And they go to so much for
you to know to know the time. Make a sun
dial well Gary, sweet God bless that man started guessing
with the sun position, right, But they never ever want
(12:59):
us to know what the time is knowing the time
is a it's ace. Yes, you can ground you you
pus three.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
That's like torture.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
We're calling back because you think he's sad.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
I think he's got an existential sadness to him.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
I wonder if he had it on Love Island. Do
you know you're saving my phone as Matt from Love Island?
Speaker 6 (13:28):
Oh? I should be Matt. You're best friend now.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
So Matt, we're having a little gossip here on the
buck up.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
It's Katie by the way, Kate lane Brook, and I'm
very well, all the better fat seeing you in the
lounge room every night.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Oh that's nice. I'm having a debrief about the last
few apps and Kate said something about you, and on
your reaction.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
I said, are you ready? This is me summing up
your character. You seem sweet, but like you have an
existential sadness in you, which is not unattracted by the way,
but you do seem like you've got some sadness in you.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Matt, what do you say?
Speaker 6 (14:13):
I would like you to explain further what that do you?
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Existential? No? Just so it means like not a specific.
That's a good question, not like a specific not linked
to one thing, not like you're sad about one particular
thing that's happened, not an issue, but like you have
you know some people have. You know, you look in
some dog's eyes and you see a great profound sadness
(14:37):
or sweetness. You seem to have that quality.
Speaker 6 (14:41):
Discuss how long do you guys have?
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Let's do it.
Speaker 6 (14:49):
Yeah, we could be here a while. Guys, where do
I start?
Speaker 2 (14:52):
But do you think that you don't have to get
specific about anything? It might not even be specific. But
do you feel that that's a good summation of your qualities?
Speaker 6 (15:04):
Well from yeah, I guess an outsider looking in I
could see that. Yeah, I mean I obviously I feel
like I do carry a lot of stuff with me,
Like I'm pretty emotional, so that might be something. Yea,
And you can feel that, like I really feel emotions.
So maybe that's what you're seen, that's what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
And I also feel, Matt, the reason why you and
I became so close so quick in there you are
you are wide open. Yeah, Matt is wide open. You
are an open book, and it is very rare for
men to be straight and open in that way. Matt
will talk about anything to anyone any question about anything
that's happened, he'd answer, He'd ask everyone questions about their life.
(15:48):
Very impressed by Matt.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Do you know what that's That is a very compelling
quality because it's means that you can be read and
that you sort of the camera to look at you.
That's good. Good, I understand now I see the sadness
in you.
Speaker 6 (16:06):
Yeah. I mean I don't women though like a mysterious
man that they.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Can't read, but sadness is Women love sadness. Do you
know what, if we meet a happy man, we'll commit
our lives to making him sad.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Do you think, Matt, He's my question for you. Do
you think everything that went down with Tammy in the
divorce and all the public whoha about that, do you
think that was sometimes on your mind in the jungle?
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (16:37):
You want me to be honest. I actually feel like
the jungle did a lot of healing on that.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah, clean, I.
Speaker 6 (16:42):
Think I do. I really do think that.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
I came out.
Speaker 6 (16:47):
One of the first things my mum asked ing was
how do you feel about everything like that? And I said, honestly,
I am so detached from that now. I was like,
I feel like cleansed clean. But that's a great word,
I said. I feel like that's not my worries anymore.
So I can see maybe when I went in, but
I felt like that. But by the ends, man, that
(17:07):
was gone.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
That was just.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
That is a buck up.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
MS.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Can I ask you one question, Matthew. Are you normally
on your phone a lot?
Speaker 6 (17:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Okay, do you see because I think, all right, I
think you know how the whole world's riddled with anxiety
to the point where we have to have pop songs
about it. That percent of people's anxiety. We've all had it,
We've all got it, my anxiety, my anxiety, right, but
(17:42):
ninety five percent of anxiety could be cured overnight if
people could put their phones down, which we can't. It's
not necessarily our fault. But do you think that played
a part in your like cleansing of this emotional turmoil
that you've been a part of. Think that really helped
to not have no phone, to have no interference, to
(18:04):
have no dog mean receptors constantly.
Speaker 6 (18:09):
You know what I do? I do think that helps
heap because I'm on it all the time and I
feel like I was for a lot. Yeah, there was
no dog receptions. But thinking about putting my phone down
now gives me anxiety. That makes me feel anxious.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Give me.
Speaker 6 (18:33):
I want to buck up.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
I want the name of the podcast you're on, the
name of the roads that I've talked about in the.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Jungle a lot. And can you please confirm my podcast?
Shut up matter, I don't care about your podcast. Can
you confirm yourate because she's on my ass about this?
Did I or did I not? Often talk about this
pod in the jungle.
Speaker 6 (18:55):
All the time, and I'm well aware that it's called
buck up. I just want to know what that mean.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So a backup is something that gives you a little left,
a little leaf.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Like you need it when you're on the Heights Challenge crying.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 6 (19:10):
I didn't need any more lifts up there.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
That's true, you were high. But you know what, watching
you weep like a little bitch gave me a buck up.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
There's another buck up. How lovely Matt was with me
and talking about my coming out story and the history. Matt,
you're also.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
You're a good guy, guy, Matt, and you know what
your mum has done, a good job.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I'll pass that on.
Speaker 6 (19:37):
And you know what, she'll listen to this so she'll
love that she's done.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
She wi to listen now that she knows she's being mentioned.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
What a sweet man and sad. It's like sweet and
sour to great, like on your tinder sweat and salty, yes,
but on your tinder prow sweet and so my goodness,
people would be mad.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Do you think a girl wants love?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
We love to think that we can be the one
the same way that girls love like. Don't judge me,
but I was watching Love Ireland. Did you see friend?
Speaker 1 (20:30):
No?
Speaker 2 (20:30):
I was watching this one, I think anyway. And when
these guys come in, girls literally say, oh my god,
look at his tats. I love his tats. Look at
his sleeve, and I'm like, mate, you should see that
sleeve and be running in the opposite direction.
Speaker 6 (20:52):
Right.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
That's not do you know what I mean? That what
we like is often not what we should like.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
An old joke I used to was gays and girls
have this in common about meeting men in the dating scene.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I'll fix him, Yes, I'll fix him.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
I'll fix him.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Yeah, I'll fix it.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
He's a pantsman, I'll fix him. I'll be the one.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
I don't think Matt needs fixing. I just think he
needs to be just properly loved.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Oh, I've spent some time with him. He needs fixing
because I know who he's listening, and his mom and
his mom missus, Matt, you've done a good job.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
So who says you can't be a good person and
have good things happen to you?
Speaker 3 (21:43):
You've brought this up before.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
I have, But often I can be You see, good
things happen to bad people all the time, and very
often people go, what's the point of trying and do
the right thing? Right?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Me?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Often? Yes, everyone, it doesn't feel like we have sense
that the world should reward the true types of behavior,
And yet we live in a world where like the
worst sorts of people are rewarded.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
All the time. But you know, I also do nice things,
praying to the universe that I'm all I better be
rewarded for that. You too, Oh my god, I'm.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Getting pushed girlfriend Em. Oh yeah, you're getting pulled. Oh
you're getting pulled.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
The other way? So I the wrong way? Shot?
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Is he blocking me? Such?
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Well, well, well we'll get into my head.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Okay, So my girlfriend EM has got this lovely expression
where she goes jewels in your crown in heaven. Right
when you do something good like that, I love it anyway,
And it doesn't matter if you don't believe in heaven.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
I don't think I do.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I do.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
You never asked that question.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
It's funny, isn't it, Because I don't.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Know the ultimate buck up if it's there hanging out
in heaven. Here's a question when you die. When you
die and go to heaven, do you of your original
teeth or new teeth that you got put on cosmetically?
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Well?
Speaker 2 (23:06):
What bits would they say? People in heaven would be unrecognized?
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Like if I die and go to heaven, is it
my og teeth or is it my post in visiline teeth?
Like what do you go back to factory setting?
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Well, I think whatever you have when you die, No,
I think whatever you if you go to heaven.
Speaker 3 (23:24):
If heaven exists, yes, you will go there looking the
hottest you ever looked.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
I think that's how you look, but not necessarily how
you would appear to be with earthly eyes, because because
we're so tethered to the through the filthy soil of
humanity with our own judgment and now you know whatever
that we can't understand that heavenly realm. I mean, I
(23:53):
just can't believe. I think I'm an okay person. I
don't think I'm going to get just don't think.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
So what do you think you teeth me altitude?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
I think you, I think you will. No, but what
about you volunteer work? So what can I tell you?
If hubris an ego is an impediment to heaven, they're
going to pull up that grab of you when you
(24:22):
arrive knocking at the pearly gates. Lead me, lead me,
remember when he needs to deliver deliver library books. The old people,
and that her old friend, the neighbor. Yeah, the old neighbor.
All right, she's getting she's like a good person. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
I wonder if getting into heaven's like getting into a
nightclub with the hot girl where you can be like,
I'm with her, I'm with her, and then.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Certain people don't have to stand in the cube.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Right.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
I wonder if you would go with her, we just
get in because we're next to her.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Okay, here's my other reservation about heaven. I don't know
that I just want to be with the good people.
It'd be so boring, so boring, like you know that
you know where the good parties are. And I don't think.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
It's like you want to come down with that. Yeah,
come on.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Down, I want Yeah. I just think it's come on down. Yeah.
So you don't think the gays are in Heaven. I
think you've got your own. You've always got your own
thing going.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
We've got a third place no one knows about. It's
not Heaven. It's not how it's other place. It's news.
It's hard to get into. It's very exclusive.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Limbo. You'd be running limbo.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Honestly, if I opened a gay bar and called it
limbo at Pop. That's a great name for a gay bar.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Anyway, while we were talking about at.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
You said good things happening. Yeah, good good people.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
So you do a good thing, right. So I called
my mum. So Peter's been away and he went up
camping with his mom. I normally go up, but because
I'm going to Jamaica tomorrow and still haven't packed, I
had a few things to do very quickly. Buckhead's cad
is off to Jamaica to film that tell series of
Sean Michaelif you nobody has heard of that, you go
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and meet your family's Ancestors or something. It's called Origin Odyssey.
There's been one series made already. It's so good, it's
so interesting.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
I watched I watched Aaron Chan's episode.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Oh yeah, when he goes to China and his father.
This was so interesting sash in the sixties. His dad
was part of the was that the cultural revolution? But
to get their visa to travel in China, they're not
allowed to mention it. They're not allowed to say the
Cultural Revolution? Or was that the great leap forward? No,
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the great leap forward was when they everyone got put
into communal kitchens and they took they literally took the
metal fittings off their cupboards and their pots and pants
and melted them down to make machinery. It was they
had nothing. Anyway, that's why the Chinese are buying everything
in to watch sbs on demand anyway, whatever, watch the
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show soon. Oh yes, So I thought I'm going to
go see my mom. So I call mom. I go, hey, Mom,
she'd be loving.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
That you're doing this.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah, she does love it, but she's you know mum. Yeah,
the extent of her love is you know what I mean,
loving something aside from my brother is you know what
I'm there. Yeah, anyway, So I think she's intrigued by it. Anyway,
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So I call up and I say, do you want
anything from the shops on my way? And she goes, no, actually,
you can take me to the shops. I need to
go up there.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
And because I.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
Was getting my hearing aid fixed yesterday, she's got a
hearing aids now and or do you say hearing aid?
I don't know, anyway, And I left the charger up
there and I haven't been able to charge the battery,
and I went, okay, all right. I'm like, inwardly, I'm like, okay,
all right, because that's a pilava. But I'm like, I'm
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a good I'm a good person. I'm going to heaven.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
I'm going to heaven.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Anyway, So we go to I go to pick her up,
and she's got a walking stick and she's got a walker.
Now we don't like her using the walker. She actually
doesn't need the walker, but it's it's kind of you know,
you were saying things are currency. A walker is kind
of currency. Bring it on, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (28:20):
Anyways, imagine how much remember how much attention you were
in school when you had your arm and.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Yeah, exactly exactly. And I think people when they get elderly,
that's like there thing.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
Anyway, so we go up to this shopping center and
I have to do some shopping. So we're shopping and whatever,
get her. We get some cherries. I actually find myself
saying to mom, these are not twelve ninety nine a
kilo cherries. These should be eight.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
Ninety compelling conversation right as we're.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Fostering through a box, and the lady next to me says,
you're right, you're right, Yeah, a commun cherries as we're
fossicking through too soft, can't return cherry.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Explain the perfect cherry to me.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Please off firm, okay, firm and large, not too firm.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
You want real hard cherry.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
You like a hard like al dente.
Speaker 3 (29:13):
Not a big fan. That is what you don't like fruit.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, you don't like let's paint the picture cherries everything.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Okay, you're trying to Oh my god, mangoes because for
the people tore not connecting, you're connecting. Sorry with anatomy. Figs,
I'm not even playing this game.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
Doesn't FIGS doesn't like pigs anyway, Figs, that's new to me.
So then we Oh, is it.
Speaker 3 (29:39):
I've never heard that comparison.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
Oh, well, hello, why would I? Oh, if you have
not tongued a summer fig.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
I have a tongue to summer fig.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
And do you take it? Never again?
Speaker 3 (29:57):
Hand me that banana.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Anyway, So we're going up there, and then we have
to go, and so I said, Tom, tell me what happened.
Tell me what happened. She goes, I had to go
to see Daniel out the optometrist. I said about your
hearing aid. She said, yeah, they do the servicing on them.
Everyone goes there. So we go in. We got because
she insists on having this walker. It hardly fits through
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the door. People are sitting down. She's clunking around the
corner with it. Some man's got to pull his knees
up to under his chin so she can go clunking past.
Daniel's in there with a patient, right, Mom's like Daniel,
he's with a patient.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Mum.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
Anyway, we wait. He comes out. Mom says that the
lovely man who's got his knees up under his chin, says,
you can go first. Obviously he could see from my
expression I'm about to go to heaven expression that I
was being a good person anyway. So Mom says to Daniel,
when I saw your wife yesterday, I left the case
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with the outery in it here and I haven't been
able to charge my hearing aids and I've come to
pick it up. And he goes, oh, I don't, well,
there's nothing. She was in this room yesterday. There's nothing here.
He goes, you know what, she's at another practice. I'm
going to call her and I won't be able to
get on to her for a while. I said, that's
(31:19):
all right, we'll go have a coffee and we'll come back.
So Mum when like, okay, Mom goes clonking off, we
go have a coffee, and I said to her, are
you sure you left it here? Are you sure it
wasn't any room when I picked her up? When I
knew that, I said, have you had a look in
your bag. I've locked in my bag several times. I
don't have it. I left it there. If they say
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it's not there, I'm not going to buy another charger.
I said to Mom, before you make this the heell,
you're going to die on.
Speaker 3 (31:49):
Cary your mom by yes, I'm replacing her with you
in this story. And it still checks out.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Correct, because the apple doesn't fall far from the tree anyway.
So I say to her, check your bagga in. So
she gets a bag. She fossis around. We go back
and he said. I said to her, I'll tell you
what we're gonna do. If they haven't found the charger,
We're going to buy another one. Easy. We've got money,
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we'll buy another one. She goes, I don't want to
buy another one.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
I want my charge or her charger.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
Okay, whatever I said, doesn't matter what you want. That's
what's going to happen. I said, they probably will have
found it. But if they haven't, so we go clonk
clonk clonk up at the thing up the round and
la la back in Daniel's there. There's some guy running
the thing like like it's quite a spectacle. Daniel comes out,
he goes, Mum comes in and sits down, and he goes,
(32:47):
So Anne, I spoke to his wife. She doesn't have it.
She said, you didn't leave it here yesterday. Mum said
I did, so I went, he went, Well, the fact
is it couldn't have disappeared from this room. We don't
have it. We don't have the charge to your hearing aid.
So I see, mom, get this light, defiant little tilt
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of the chin.
Speaker 3 (33:11):
I've seen that, yeah, seen that in here, right.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
And so there's kind of a lull. I say, mum,
can you pass me your handbag? Oh, from one fossica
to the next, from one fassica to the neck in
that Before she handed it over, she said, I know
it's not all and pulls out the hearing aid charger
(33:41):
fully intact from her bag, and she was, this is
why this was so delicious. And when I get to heaven,
they're going to make me tell this story over and
over again.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
Even if they don't ask, you will.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
Because she was so mortified. She was she was wrong
and so publicly wrong, and it was terrible. And yet
oh yeah, you can't get the smell of your face.
You were so happy you went and replaced your It
was so fantastic. And then we just we just I
(34:19):
practically sailed out to the car. Come on, Marma, love you. No,
we went on and wait, I still can't believe that happened.
I can, I can.
Speaker 3 (34:35):
You've got that on her squeize it.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
By the way, you know, when one of the most
popular places that people get hearing aids now is and
there is you're not playing? Have you been paying attention
to Costco? Why not these a massive disk like a
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MA membership? First, No, she didn't go there, but I
remember when I went there, which is great. By the way,
Costco's great.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
Go very Dolins.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Now that's closed. Now there's one. It's moved to the
western suburbs Sunshine around the corner from my mother in
law's house. There's a couple anyway, a massive apparently it's
like a third of their business is hearing. And in
America coffins sounds what a buck, isn't it?
Speaker 3 (35:28):
And six chickens six bucks?
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Yes? Six?
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Did you know that Coal's rule about the chickens?
Speaker 2 (35:33):
No?
Speaker 3 (35:34):
Did you know that if you go to get a
hot chicken from Chicken and they don't have one, they
don't have on you get it for free?
Speaker 2 (35:39):
Yeah, but how do they give when they do have one?
It's like an iou sounds like and you get it
for free? That sounds and it has a thing that
says our guarantee. Okay, you know what I'm going to do.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Comedian, great comedian.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
And she was on Origin Odyssey.
Speaker 3 (35:55):
You go. She posted about it the other day.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
That's how elastingly she went to because she's Malaysian Chinese.
Did you watch her app she went to She went
to Ireland because her mother's Irish, and her mother said
to her when she watched her stand up, my side
of the family doesn't get much of a go oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
She posted it the other day.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
Everyone, here's what I'm going to do. We're going to
do this as a team. This is going to be
a buck Up challenge. What sorry, buck Up challenge sneeze
every time a buck Up challenge done. I'm going in.
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I'm going to hide all the roast chickens.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
I can't wait to see where you are the more.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
But you're coming in five minutes.
Speaker 3 (36:54):
Roast chickens.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Chicken please, and then Sush'll come in and go also
like a roast chuck please. I believe you hear the policy.
Look your shields, a beer of roast chocolate.
Speaker 3 (37:06):
You're not what we've been doing lately. No, an amazing
weekend lunch. Nothing better.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
What is that?
Speaker 3 (37:12):
A red rooster chicken? But we need to do other
things for it to be so you've got to get
fresh bakery bread, really lovely fresh ingredients to make Red
Rooster a ricken. You got to make it. You've got
to make it yourself, though, and it's so good. Okay,
because go.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
You cannot go past and read rooster roast dinner, the
classic roast with potatoes, peas, uh huh, pumpkin. They are
the forgotten, taking gravy and you've got to get a
wing piece. Yeah, they've forgotten. No one knows that red
Rooster still exists and that it should be called red Rooster.
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Of course it should, yeah, of course.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
And the only this has only happened because our new
place that we moved into has a red router two
hundred and fifty meters from it, and we're just shocked
that there is one.
Speaker 2 (38:04):
Okay, do you walk or drive? Try?
Speaker 3 (38:09):
Hell, we're talking about Cody got delivered one.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Cody said, like a marathon.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
When it comes to food. When he's hungry, it is on.
It is like just like, let's do this.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
That's what Peter said to me. And it was quite
devastating when he first but now I know it to
be so about you.
Speaker 3 (38:27):
When you're hungry, it needs to be.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
In a restaurant, he said. There's always a period of
intense but I'm the same, but I'm the same, okay.
He said, there's really a lot of tension between when
I order and when the food comes. He said, it's
a really tense.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
You're intense before people order. You want to have a
chat about your holiday. I want to order my food, mate, Yeah, okay,
don't kick off about your trip.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
Let's order. But Peters said that, and I'd sort of laughed.
Speaker 3 (38:56):
It's very true. I've witnessed it.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
But then he said it also in front of the children,
and the way the children laughed, I could tell it
had been discussed.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
Of course, it had. Behind my bad I've discussed it
with them.
Speaker 5 (39:14):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (39:14):
Great? Speaking of family dynamic on this pod. Every now
and then there's something that I just think immediately I
need to hear Kate's take on this.
Speaker 6 (39:29):
Do you.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
I often think it's nobody ever often think it. I
don't act on it, but I think it. Yeah, okay,
this one, and I think the buck comes.
Speaker 2 (39:37):
I like to you in my own take on things.
I know it.
Speaker 3 (39:43):
I just love your new teeth. You know you've been
doing this pod by the way, laughing laughing a lot
at my jokes, and I think it's all about the teeth.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
Well, you know what what because I'm only part way
through the process and they're very it's all very new looks.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
It's just so great. But I am recognizing in you
what happened to me when I got my own visiline
and it started to work, and it started to straighten
my teeth out. It's like a new lease on life
because I didn't think you had anything wrong with your teeth,
but other people when you have an insecurity and you
fix it, yeah, mate, you don't know yourself.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Yeah, it's true anyway, But my husband said, anyway, so
that people people don't, well, you're very skinny.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
I go to the jungle.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
You're on jungalo zeeping. Yeah, my husband said to me,
I will as long as you think you're perfect. He said,
you were already perfect, but now you think you're perf
God is good. I know. But then he said to me, then,
because he only just arrived home from camping. Literally as
I was walking out the door with a bottle of
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kalua under one arm and he's in the other, I
was happy to.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
See him sip before the sip and he.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
Said to me, I'll get used to them because he
liked my.
Speaker 3 (41:03):
Well We've spoken about this before. Though there's a line,
there's a teeth line, and your teeth are great and fantastic,
but the line that people cross, and when we're watching
actors now that their teeth are so distracting, listen to them.
So this is when I and I know our barcheads
will be like yes, Nathan, Yes, the Beckhams.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
Davent.
Speaker 3 (41:30):
Obviously he's come out publicly swinging against his parents. I'm
just going to read a couple of my favorite parts
of his very long statement.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Not written by him.
Speaker 3 (41:41):
Either, did I reckon you see? I disagree because it
was written by like a It wasn't prpin. It seemed
very immature.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
No, no, But also but that he's not that eloquent.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
I do not want to reconcile with my family. I'm
not being controlled. I'm standing up for myself for the
first time in my life.
Speaker 2 (42:00):
Didn't do exactcent.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
Now, let me just say something. When someone says I'm
not being controlled, is the first thing that they say.
My antenna goes up. Who if you're not being controlled?
Do you say I'm not being controlled?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Who said he was being controlled?
Speaker 3 (42:15):
Exactly my point? Yet?
Speaker 2 (42:16):
No one, Yeah, no one said well, she obviously said
to him that morning, I'm not controlling you, and you've
got to tell everybody, and he went, all right, I will.
That's exactly what happens.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
Wow, for my entire life, my parents have controlled narratives
in the press about our family with performative social media posts.
This is what made me laugh.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
My mom canceled Nichola's dress in the eleventh hour, despite
how excited she was to wear herd design, forcing her
to urgently find a new dress her Valentino dreas.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
Do you believe it? That bit?
Speaker 2 (42:53):
Okay, I'll tell you why I don't. Well, it's hard.
I think obviously Victoria was going to make one of
the dresses because she was wearing a Valentino dress. You
can't get a Valentino dress at the eleventh hour, I don't.
I think, no matter how fabulously wealthy you are.
Speaker 3 (43:09):
I think someone came out and called bullshit on this
and said, no, we were working on the dress for agent.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Yeah, of course she had to. She's strikingly good looking though.
The daughter, yeah, Nicholas, Yeah, very hot. But so I
think Victoria was going to make one of the dresses.
And I seem to remember at the time, sash was
her nose not a little bit out of joint that
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she wasn't making the bridal gown. She was making a gown,
and I think that's why she withdrew the offer.
Speaker 3 (43:42):
This what made me laugh. This is when you know
he wrote it. During the wedding planning.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
My mum went as far as to call me evil
because Nikola and I chose to include my nana Sandra
and Nicholas Nuni at our table because they both didn't
have their husbands.
Speaker 3 (43:54):
What's that, Ni? What is that?
Speaker 2 (43:57):
I think is that her nanny as well? But when
he is his nanny, he doesn't mean he's granny, nanny nanny.
Speaker 3 (44:08):
I feel like because she's a billionaire, this Nicola girl
was a billionaire. Her dad's a billion yea, her dad's
I think it's beautiful. This is the part we all
want to talk about. In front of our five hundred guests,
Mark Anthony called me to the stage where in the
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schedule was planning.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
By the way, I found a strange choice.
Speaker 3 (44:33):
Yes, same, I didn't know he was still singing. Was
planned to be my romantic dance with my wife, but
instead my mum was waiting to dance with me. She
danced very inappropriately on me in front of everybody. I've
never felt more uncomfortable or humiliated in my entire life.
Speaker 2 (44:56):
It's a very strange phrase.
Speaker 3 (44:58):
Very quickly, apparently, my Anthony said when he introduced Victoria Becker,
the most beautiful woman in the room.
Speaker 2 (45:06):
Oh my goodness, well poured fuel on the fire. The
most beautiful woman in the room. What is your take
on the parent child dance at the wedding?
Speaker 3 (45:21):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (45:22):
Well?
Speaker 2 (45:22):
I think there's Well, I'm a mother and I have
three sons. Nothing would make me more thrilled than to
dance with one of my sons at their wedding. What.
Speaker 3 (45:38):
Yeah, what is it?
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Because it's a beautiful moment. And also it's like your
son being a man and your relationship with him sort
of changes and then you can bump and grind off.
That's very strange terminology. It's like a father dancing with
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his daughter that.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
Has stopped.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
Stopped.
Speaker 3 (46:07):
Okay, so my eyes are lying to me the last
four or five weddings I've been to that has not
happened at all.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
Well, that's because you've gone out with fatherless, you've gone
to father.
Speaker 3 (46:19):
Hey, no, judgment. I'm just telling you that a lot
of the weddings I've been to in the last few years,
there has been no there's been.
Speaker 2 (46:26):
No wedding we were at, well, we were at.
Speaker 3 (46:29):
Two different weddings. So I don't know why you get teeth.
Speaker 2 (46:35):
I don't like that being a.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
What new teeth? I love the new teeth. Hang on,
I am just telling you that certain girls now say
I'm not comfortable with this tradition of dancing with my dad.
Speaker 2 (46:46):
Are you talking about the walking down the eye? Just
checking Brooklyn? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
Over your son's face at his own wedding.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
I'm grinding on him. I'm on Brooklyn. Remember we named
you after the city you were shaved?
Speaker 5 (47:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (47:07):
Is there a more grotesque?
Speaker 3 (47:09):
That's awful?
Speaker 2 (47:10):
More grotest?
Speaker 3 (47:11):
Well, your kids names be.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
Tent back of Kingswood. My husband does legitimately have a
nineteen six.
Speaker 3 (47:22):
I can remember that I did want to play this
one song. Oh okay, balcony.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
Just a balcony, balcony, balcony, clean your room. I also
find it weird that people know the moment of conception.
I find that really strong.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
That means I don't have sex much though, Yeah, it does.
Speaker 2 (47:41):
Or it means that they're on a regimen where they playing,
they're tracking things here. So for our weddings, Sage's mine
are all holiday holiday. It always come back from holiday pregnant.
Was like, what have you done?
Speaker 3 (47:55):
And then she straight away you could it or something.
Speaker 2 (47:59):
She'd say, or she'd say before we went on holidays.
This is when we were all doing radio together. Don't
you come big freck It was like it was like
my mother at night, have.
Speaker 3 (48:11):
You told your kids this? Next time Sash's overtell them
this story.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
I don't really talk to the kids about.
Speaker 3 (48:16):
Sash was furious when you guys were conceived.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
You know who is really angry or more angry? AUNTI Sash?
No night Dad.
Speaker 3 (48:27):
At our wedding, we wanted to do something nice with
the parents.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Did you dance with Lynn?
Speaker 3 (48:31):
Know what we did do? Though? Is any gays listening
will know this and we love our dads, We all
know this. Your mum deserves the moment more than your
dad when you're a gay man.
Speaker 2 (48:44):
Also when you're at any wedding. Maybe we went to
a wedding once, Sash, remember where the wedding was about
the father? Remember that moms need and that was really wee.
Speaker 3 (48:56):
Well, moms need more kudos at weddings. You've heard it
on me first and put it.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
Out there, remember that, and it was really weird.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
I don't want, I don't want. I don't want a
mother grinding on her son's crutch on the dance floor.
But I want the mom to have a moment, A
few more a few more moments. So we decided that
Lenningiale would walk in before us.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
That's right, have their moment walks, and then they would
wait at the stage, and then Cody and I would
walk in together.
Speaker 3 (49:29):
And can I tell you these they could give us away.
Speaker 2 (49:31):
They would rather have had a dance with you.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
No, they love this, but we didn't tell them. We
didn't tell them the song that they would be walking into.
I don't know if you remembered this, okay, but this
is the song that our mothers walked into the wedding to.
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Everyone loved it.
Speaker 2 (49:56):
See. I would also play that at my son's winning,
but I'd be dancing with him, showing him my milkshakes,
and then I would offer him a little bit of
bitty sorry while his new wife looks on. I mean,
that's the star. One final drink, One for the road darling.
Speaker 3 (50:14):
Oh God. Also God, there's footage someone's sitting on footage
on their phone of that dance.
Speaker 2 (50:24):
I believe that to be true. I do not believe
like she's a dancer, Victoria. She's not as Spice she
walked whatever. But she's But but what I mean is
that's not unfamiliar for her. I wouldn't put it past
her to have an aspect of wanting to slightly take
(50:48):
the day, have a moment, not even but like she
was there first, She was there first. I always say
that about my mother in law. She was there first.
Speaker 3 (50:57):
So nice?
Speaker 2 (50:58):
Did she there last?
Speaker 3 (51:01):
Did she dance with your man at your wedding?
Speaker 2 (51:03):
Of course? Okay?
Speaker 3 (51:06):
Well I didn't get the really need.
Speaker 2 (51:08):
A grind on Marie Lewis of Sunshine and I danced
with my dad and I danced with Peter's dad, and
Peter danced with my mom.
Speaker 3 (51:18):
And his March Jesus like a key party.
Speaker 2 (51:20):
There was no time for anything.
Speaker 3 (51:23):
This wedding go for okay, So.
Speaker 2 (51:26):
Sush at your weddings, well, she's had one, so but
your parents went there? Were they were they in the
UK for it? In New Zealand? Did you when you
married old long streaker misery. That's why I had to
go through that on the day. Yeah, right, yeah, even
(51:47):
though you had second thoughts, Hey, did you would have
danced with his dad? Yes? And he would have danced
with your mom. Yeah. I don't know what you're on about.
Do you know what I did always to destroy? Yeah? Yeah,
we've brought you into the sacred team.
Speaker 3 (52:08):
I tell you, I tell you the straight weddings I've
been to. The girl didn't down to her dad. And
you'll go on the gaze because you're bullied again. Yet
I'm out of the jungle.
Speaker 2 (52:19):
Oh, it's a text from mom from you from this
is from Elena. She is cleaner Elena's mom. Elena must
be a cleaner, of course, or she doesn't have to
be a cleaner. But there would be a cleaner called Paulina.
Mm hmm, et cetera. Elena's mom. Peter just rang happy.
(52:42):
He's on fantastic pills from Thailand and feels fabulous. He
says he could run up my driveway like a dog.
They were over in Thailand for three months. Had lunch
today with Kenny.
Speaker 5 (52:56):
The love that was his.
Speaker 2 (53:08):
She ended on a sea bob, but she also put
x's off, which of course a mother did. Of course,
so she thinks it, she feels it. Love you, love you?
What did Kenny do?
Speaker 3 (53:23):
I never want the story on.
Speaker 2 (53:24):
I think maybe that's just Kenny's nickname.
Speaker 3 (53:27):
No, Kenny's a brother in law. But why would she
have her son, maybe Noah a mother?
Speaker 2 (53:35):
No no, no, no no. She'd show him that body
part at his wedding in the bridal dance, but she
would never call him that. David, did you see what
Broccland said I did at the wedding? I never did.
That's all right, Victoria. The buck Up podcast is hosted
(53:57):
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Speaker 3 (00:57):
I have a question to ask. It's made on my
mind the last two minutes since you walked in, and
I hope the answers yes, because it's not yes.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Why are you not looking at because.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I'm scared of the answer is no. Do you have
new teeth?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Oh my goodness. Okay, so I have old teeth that
have been REFURBI.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Imagine a new season of the Block.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
I've had my smile restore those pearly Oh my goodness,
I love them.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
They so glowing, but good glow, because sometimes it looks
like people have got TikTok stuffed up?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
You didn't. You didn't do the Hollywood reality TV?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
All right? I so badly wanted to, so badly wanted
to When they show you the color charts.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
There's a color chart.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Oh yeah, there's a color chart.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
What's the.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Who's gone brown? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I don't know about you, Kate, but I am one
for brown teeth.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Oh my, remember you said to me, got blue?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
What's the described to me? The darkest you can go
for teeth?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Well? I didn't dwell on that part of the mat
because like the ancient mariners would have believed, which was
there be monsters, right, But there was a kind of yeah,
like a tobacco, a nicotine. A nicotine like my favorite
kind of interior furniture in a I think a Ferrari.
(02:29):
They do a really stuns nicotine, like a tan level,
like a tan leather. I think you could go not
that deep. But I went to the lab and everything.
I had a look. And when they're mixing, they're like artists.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
And how much if let's say, ten is so bright
you can't even look at it on the page one?
Is this leather? Ten?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
No, but did you pick?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I think I'm about halfway.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You're about a five? Yeah, look very good?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Well, thank you.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Can I ask a question about his teeth?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Is this the one where they grind your oge.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
I'm not discussing any of that they did.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Underneath I have awarewook.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Do you know what I wasn't going to I was
going to go home. I'm halfway through the process, by
the way, I'm not finished shit, but I'm so thrilled
with it. But you know what, I've realized, some people
don't want you to improve yourself in life. Who's that
to your children?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Of course? No one wants mum getting worked done.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
No one wants my daughter, who's stunning and as herself,
had a front to rebuilt from where a girlfriend of
her name and accidentally with the stone. Why are you
doing that?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
In inverted comments, I don't know. Do you think really happened?
Do you think is the real story?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
But I always say I've got shorthand for certain kids
in my kid's life. And she's and she's such a
lovely girl. I shouldn't even says and she's lovely. I
call her the very tooth smasher. No, not Sunday her
girlfriend who.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Sorry, Sunday's girlfriend is the tooth smash Yeah, I call
her the tooth sounds like.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Some of them have got various nicknames. One of them's
nicknamed do you know the nickname, please do so there's
the hero. The hero is one of Yarni's mates who
when he got drunk in a park. Oh yes, that's right,
with the hospital visit and called me, called me, and
that was very hard to do. I've never told the
Buckwets this story, but we'll tell them in another day.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
You know what, I reckon, they've connected the dots. They
have some sun park drunk hospital hero.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
And ironically, because.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
What a gift to me if you started telling stories
in point four imagine if you started for twenty twenty six.
You just told me these.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
In five points?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
I think could you couldn't? You couldn't.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
There is no By the way, why aren't you this
entertaining in the jungle? I stick to the talk about
the j Okay, we'll talk about it in a moment.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Go on about the teeth.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
What about them?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Well, you were telling the story.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
No, I say nicknames. That's not nice.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
So ironically, because I had a son who underage got drunk,
I call one of the friends an ex friend fetal alcohol.
See I didn't really have it.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
A nickname is not supposed to be longer than their
real name.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
The longest. It's just a shorthand. I've got.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
You know it.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Never cross a mother.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Here's what I did when I was young.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Never cross a mother.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I tell you, I'm backing you up. I knew very
early that the key to having a healthy and good
social life was being loved by your friends mothers. It
is the answer to all of your problems when you
are a teenager. It's true they didn't know what I
was doing behind the scenes. I was up to no good.
(06:09):
Oh I was a little ruscal.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Yeah, in my years, they would have known that your
mothers love rascals to teenagers. That week, Oh my gosh,
who's that. That's a little rascal. That's a little fox.
Look at a little red tail bobbing through the bushes.
The greatest producer in the land. Drunk kaylin ro No.
(06:33):
But I've had a great thought that I'll share with
you later about me going to Jamaica.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Can I just say something when you forward tease? You
never get there, so you can't say to our lovely
buckheads this year, But I'll tell you later because they
know you won't. You know you won't.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
But I'll write it down. I'm writing jamake it down.
Jamaica and a great idea, an idea involving the host
of the show, Sean McCay.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Okay, we'll get there in a sack. So much to
talk about in this pod.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Okay, So you're very being very modest about you in
the jungle. You're so spectacular. Okay, you're just lovely in
front of it. And you know who I love?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Who?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Conchetta? I love Concertto I mean I love just about everybody.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Can be honest. There's so many things I want to
tell you. Where should we start love? Conchetta love a
lot of people.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Do you know what I love about Conchetto as well? Okay,
so she had the most hideous initiation into the jungle.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
I'm still not over it.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Very it alive, those alive and then they filled it
with water horrendous. But also when she rescued you, when
they left you hanging in that washing machine and to
the point where you got washing machine sickness.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, they didn't show the spear.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
I know, it looked like you were just bunging it
on to get out of the washing machine. Serious, Yeah,
that's how they cut it. And I went not.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I want to tell you something about these trials and
I'm calling you out. I'm a celebrity. Get me out
of here.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Go call them out, call them.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
They go for so much longer than it seems. We
are doing that stuff for so long. For example, when
I got catapulted into the sky episode, I cannot tell
you three hours how long we stood there for between
each go three. It was the point. The point was
the anticipation of making us not know when it was
(08:19):
going to happen. We stood there force.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
But also Balvo. I know you sace anticipation because you
were just thinking about the production side of things. I
believe there may also be some safety checks.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Did you just say that I was banging it on
in the washing machine? They had to give me anti
nausea medication.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Say any of that, sash, What did you think banging
it up, bugging it on, banging it on, it on?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
But my responsibility is you were to feed my starving
camp mate. I'm banging it on.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
No, we all know what the responsibility is. We all know.
But it was also like matting.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
The heights in the heights when he wouldn't jump for
the star. My god, Matt, did you This is what
doing reality TV is so funny because when you're there.
It's so real.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
But you know what, we weren't there. We're watching it
on television, so we get.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
To I opened my phone the next day in one
of the headlines is about Matt I'm a celeb accused
of fake cry, And of course I clicked the article.
Of course I sent it to him, and I'm just scrolling.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Through and it seems so sweet and sad.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
He's not sad, He's just very sad.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Don't you think he seems sad? Sash, Yeah, he's got
and he's got a.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Him and ask him why he said, And I'll.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Just say, you seem like you have an existential sadness
in you, poor Matte. But sweet, no doubt.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Not, I would say, not sad. I would say, like
a lot of us, you go on that show and
you get a bit lost when you get there because
it's so intense. But anyway, last Matt.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Fine ringing will the answer to you?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
It's private number?
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Why is it a private from?
Speaker 5 (10:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
We are, I get it, I get it. No, he's
not answering Tammy calling to chewing. That's really that guy's
been through a lot. You know what, this will be
more stars. He's missed. That's the right do you know who?
(10:32):
Ees you do? Tractor Luke's adorable.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
Love look very much. So here's some good gossip.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Oh yes, good the show.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
The show psych said to all of us the first
it's almost like reverse when you're in there, the first
six days of the hardest. It's not two weeks one week,
it's the first six days.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
And what the first cut is the deepest.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
She's good. The jungle does stuff to you that's not real,
and you're reacting in a way that's not.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Real, like no and things that jungles, stuff to you
that's real, things matter to you that don't actually matter.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
And the second you leave, you go none of that matters.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
None of it.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
But in the moment, of course, all that matters. The
folest thing is the biggest thing, and it's.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Just all the world. Literally, you've vented another world, and
it's it feels entirely legitimate when you're in it.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
It's also absolutely humiliating to see yourself cry on reality television.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
I can't get enough of you, you can't get enough
of you.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
It's absolutely humiliating. It's I just want to add this
because I don't think this was shown in.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Its entirety, right, of course it wasn't. When you're in there,
weird things become currency, right. And one of the things
that everyone is insecure about, every single person is am
I doing enough around the camp?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
How many chores are actually?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Big? Surprised. You've got to keep the water thing full.
You've got to have the bowling boiling water at all times.
You've got to get your rice on early. You've got
to get the firewood constantly. You've got to walk to
get the firewood. That's like a twenty minute thing, and
you're going to have enough wood. The toilets need to
be swapped every day. That's disgusting. Dishes need to be done.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
There's just things, yeah, yeah, yeah. And also can I
just say, having come back from a holiday in our
little house with a lot of visitors, no one likes
a lazy person.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Thank you? Right, And everyone knows this, you know what
became the biggest thing that we all want us to
know the time. And they go to so much for
you to know to know the time. Make a sun
dial well Gary, sweet God bless that man started guessing
with the sun position, right, But they never ever want
(12:59):
us to know what the time is knowing the time
is a it's ace. Yes, you can ground you you
pus three.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
That's like torture.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
We're calling back because you think he's sad.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
I think he's got an existential sadness to him.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
I wonder if he had it on Love Island. Do
you know you're saving my phone as Matt from Love Island?
Speaker 6 (13:28):
Oh? I should be Matt. You're best friend now.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
So Matt, we're having a little gossip here on the
buck up.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
It's Katie by the way, Kate lane Brook, and I'm
very well, all the better fat seeing you in the
lounge room every night.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Oh that's nice. I'm having a debrief about the last
few apps and Kate said something about you, and on
your reaction.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
I said, are you ready? This is me summing up
your character. You seem sweet, but like you have an
existential sadness in you, which is not unattracted by the way,
but you do seem like you've got some sadness in you.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Matt, what do you say?
Speaker 6 (14:13):
I would like you to explain further what that do you?
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Existential? No? Just so it means like not a specific.
That's a good question, not like a specific not linked
to one thing, not like you're sad about one particular
thing that's happened, not an issue, but like you have
you know some people have. You know, you look in
some dog's eyes and you see a great profound sadness
(14:37):
or sweetness. You seem to have that quality.
Speaker 6 (14:41):
Discuss how long do you guys have?
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Let's do it.
Speaker 6 (14:49):
Yeah, we could be here a while. Guys, where do
I start?
Speaker 2 (14:52):
But do you think that you don't have to get
specific about anything? It might not even be specific. But
do you feel that that's a good summation of your qualities?
Speaker 6 (15:04):
Well from yeah, I guess an outsider looking in I
could see that. Yeah, I mean I obviously I feel
like I do carry a lot of stuff with me,
Like I'm pretty emotional, so that might be something. Yea,
And you can feel that, like I really feel emotions.
So maybe that's what you're seen, that's what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
And I also feel, Matt, the reason why you and
I became so close so quick in there you are
you are wide open. Yeah, Matt is wide open. You
are an open book, and it is very rare for
men to be straight and open in that way. Matt
will talk about anything to anyone any question about anything
that's happened, he'd answer, He'd ask everyone questions about their life.
(15:48):
Very impressed by Matt.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Do you know what that's That is a very compelling
quality because it's means that you can be read and
that you sort of the camera to look at you.
That's good. Good, I understand now I see the sadness
in you.
Speaker 6 (16:06):
Yeah. I mean I don't women though like a mysterious
man that they.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Can't read, but sadness is Women love sadness. Do you
know what, if we meet a happy man, we'll commit
our lives to making him sad.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Do you think, Matt, He's my question for you. Do
you think everything that went down with Tammy in the
divorce and all the public whoha about that, do you
think that was sometimes on your mind in the jungle?
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (16:37):
You want me to be honest. I actually feel like
the jungle did a lot of healing on that.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah, clean, I.
Speaker 6 (16:42):
Think I do. I really do think that.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
I came out.
Speaker 6 (16:47):
One of the first things my mum asked ing was
how do you feel about everything like that? And I said, honestly,
I am so detached from that now. I was like,
I feel like cleansed clean. But that's a great word,
I said. I feel like that's not my worries anymore.
So I can see maybe when I went in, but
I felt like that. But by the ends, man, that
(17:07):
was gone.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
That was just.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
That is a buck up.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
MS.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Can I ask you one question, Matthew. Are you normally
on your phone a lot?
Speaker 6 (17:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Okay, do you see because I think, all right, I
think you know how the whole world's riddled with anxiety
to the point where we have to have pop songs
about it. That percent of people's anxiety. We've all had it,
We've all got it, my anxiety, my anxiety, right, but
(17:42):
ninety five percent of anxiety could be cured overnight if
people could put their phones down, which we can't. It's
not necessarily our fault. But do you think that played
a part in your like cleansing of this emotional turmoil
that you've been a part of. Think that really helped
to not have no phone, to have no interference, to
(18:04):
have no dog mean receptors constantly.
Speaker 6 (18:09):
You know what I do? I do think that helps
heap because I'm on it all the time and I
feel like I was for a lot. Yeah, there was
no dog receptions. But thinking about putting my phone down
now gives me anxiety. That makes me feel anxious.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Give me.
Speaker 6 (18:33):
I want to buck up.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
I want the name of the podcast you're on, the
name of the roads that I've talked about in the.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Jungle a lot. And can you please confirm my podcast?
Shut up matter, I don't care about your podcast. Can
you confirm yourate because she's on my ass about this?
Did I or did I not? Often talk about this
pod in the jungle.
Speaker 6 (18:55):
All the time, and I'm well aware that it's called
buck up. I just want to know what that mean.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So a backup is something that gives you a little left,
a little leaf.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Like you need it when you're on the Heights Challenge crying.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 6 (19:10):
I didn't need any more lifts up there.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
That's true, you were high. But you know what, watching
you weep like a little bitch gave me a buck up.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
There's another buck up. How lovely Matt was with me
and talking about my coming out story and the history. Matt,
you're also.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
You're a good guy, guy, Matt, and you know what
your mum has done, a good job.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I'll pass that on.
Speaker 6 (19:37):
And you know what, she'll listen to this so she'll
love that she's done.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
She wi to listen now that she knows she's being mentioned.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
What a sweet man and sad. It's like sweet and
sour to great, like on your tinder sweat and salty, yes,
but on your tinder prow sweet and so my goodness,
people would be mad.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
Do you think a girl wants love?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
We love to think that we can be the one
the same way that girls love like. Don't judge me,
but I was watching Love Ireland. Did you see friend?
Speaker 1 (20:30):
No?
Speaker 2 (20:30):
I was watching this one, I think anyway. And when
these guys come in, girls literally say, oh my god,
look at his tats. I love his tats. Look at
his sleeve, and I'm like, mate, you should see that
sleeve and be running in the opposite direction.
Speaker 6 (20:52):
Right.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
That's not do you know what I mean? That what
we like is often not what we should like.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
An old joke I used to was gays and girls
have this in common about meeting men in the dating scene.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I'll fix him, Yes, I'll fix him.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
I'll fix him.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Yeah, I'll fix it.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
He's a pantsman, I'll fix him. I'll be the one.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
I don't think Matt needs fixing. I just think he
needs to be just properly loved.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Oh, I've spent some time with him. He needs fixing
because I know who he's listening, and his mom and
his mom missus, Matt, you've done a good job.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
So who says you can't be a good person and
have good things happen to you?
Speaker 3 (21:43):
You've brought this up before.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
I have, But often I can be You see, good
things happen to bad people all the time, and very
often people go, what's the point of trying and do
the right thing? Right?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Me?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Often? Yes, everyone, it doesn't feel like we have sense
that the world should reward the true types of behavior,
And yet we live in a world where like the
worst sorts of people are rewarded.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
All the time. But you know, I also do nice things,
praying to the universe that I'm all I better be
rewarded for that. You too, Oh my god, I'm.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Getting pushed girlfriend Em. Oh yeah, you're getting pulled. Oh
you're getting pulled.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
The other way? So I the wrong way? Shot?
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Is he blocking me? Such?
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Well, well, well we'll get into my head.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Okay, So my girlfriend EM has got this lovely expression
where she goes jewels in your crown in heaven. Right
when you do something good like that, I love it anyway,
And it doesn't matter if you don't believe in heaven.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
I don't think I do.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I do.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
You never asked that question.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
It's funny, isn't it, Because I don't.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Know the ultimate buck up if it's there hanging out
in heaven. Here's a question when you die. When you
die and go to heaven, do you of your original
teeth or new teeth that you got put on cosmetically?
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Well?
Speaker 2 (23:06):
What bits would they say? People in heaven would be unrecognized?
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Like if I die and go to heaven, is it
my og teeth or is it my post in visiline teeth?
Like what do you go back to factory setting?
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Well, I think whatever you have when you die, No,
I think whatever you if you go to heaven.
Speaker 3 (23:24):
If heaven exists, yes, you will go there looking the
hottest you ever looked.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
I think that's how you look, but not necessarily how
you would appear to be with earthly eyes, because because
we're so tethered to the through the filthy soil of
humanity with our own judgment and now you know whatever
that we can't understand that heavenly realm. I mean, I
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just can't believe. I think I'm an okay person. I
don't think I'm going to get just don't think.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
So what do you think you teeth me altitude?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
I think you, I think you will. No, but what
about you volunteer work? So what can I tell you?
If hubris an ego is an impediment to heaven, they're
going to pull up that grab of you when you
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arrive knocking at the pearly gates. Lead me, lead me,
remember when he needs to deliver deliver library books. The old people,
and that her old friend, the neighbor. Yeah, the old neighbor.
All right, she's getting she's like a good person. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
I wonder if getting into heaven's like getting into a
nightclub with the hot girl where you can be like,
I'm with her, I'm with her, and then.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Certain people don't have to stand in the cube.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Right.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
I wonder if you would go with her, we just
get in because we're next to her.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Okay, here's my other reservation about heaven. I don't know
that I just want to be with the good people.
It'd be so boring, so boring, like you know that
you know where the good parties are. And I don't think.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
It's like you want to come down with that. Yeah,
come on.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Down, I want Yeah. I just think it's come on down. Yeah.
So you don't think the gays are in Heaven. I
think you've got your own. You've always got your own
thing going.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
We've got a third place no one knows about. It's
not Heaven. It's not how it's other place. It's news.
It's hard to get into. It's very exclusive.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Limbo. You'd be running limbo.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Honestly, if I opened a gay bar and called it
limbo at Pop. That's a great name for a gay bar.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Anyway, while we were talking about at.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
You said good things happening. Yeah, good good people.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
So you do a good thing, right. So I called
my mum. So Peter's been away and he went up
camping with his mom. I normally go up, but because
I'm going to Jamaica tomorrow and still haven't packed, I
had a few things to do very quickly. Buckhead's cad
is off to Jamaica to film that tell series of
Sean Michaelif you nobody has heard of that, you go
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and meet your family's Ancestors or something. It's called Origin Odyssey.
There's been one series made already. It's so good, it's
so interesting.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
I watched I watched Aaron Chan's episode.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Oh yeah, when he goes to China and his father.
This was so interesting sash in the sixties. His dad
was part of the was that the cultural revolution? But
to get their visa to travel in China, they're not
allowed to mention it. They're not allowed to say the
Cultural Revolution? Or was that the great leap forward? No,
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the great leap forward was when they everyone got put
into communal kitchens and they took they literally took the
metal fittings off their cupboards and their pots and pants
and melted them down to make machinery. It was they
had nothing. Anyway, that's why the Chinese are buying everything
in to watch sbs on demand anyway, whatever, watch the
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show soon. Oh yes, So I thought I'm going to
go see my mom. So I call mom. I go, hey, Mom,
she'd be loving.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
That you're doing this.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah, she does love it, but she's you know mum. Yeah,
the extent of her love is you know what I mean,
loving something aside from my brother is you know what
I'm there. Yeah, anyway, So I think she's intrigued by it. Anyway,
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So I call up and I say, do you want
anything from the shops on my way? And she goes, no, actually,
you can take me to the shops. I need to
go up there.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
And because I.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
Was getting my hearing aid fixed yesterday, she's got a
hearing aids now and or do you say hearing aid?
I don't know, anyway, And I left the charger up
there and I haven't been able to charge the battery,
and I went, okay, all right. I'm like, inwardly, I'm like, okay,
all right, because that's a pilava. But I'm like, I'm
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a good I'm a good person. I'm going to heaven.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
I'm going to heaven.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Anyway, So we go to I go to pick her up,
and she's got a walking stick and she's got a walker.
Now we don't like her using the walker. She actually
doesn't need the walker, but it's it's kind of you know,
you were saying things are currency. A walker is kind
of currency. Bring it on, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (28:20):
Anyways, imagine how much remember how much attention you were
in school when you had your arm and.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Yeah, exactly exactly. And I think people when they get elderly,
that's like there thing.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
Anyway, so we go up to this shopping center and
I have to do some shopping. So we're shopping and whatever,
get her. We get some cherries. I actually find myself
saying to mom, these are not twelve ninety nine a
kilo cherries. These should be eight.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
Ninety compelling conversation right as we're.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
Fostering through a box, and the lady next to me says,
you're right, you're right, Yeah, a commun cherries as we're
fossicking through too soft, can't return cherry.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Explain the perfect cherry to me.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Please off firm, okay, firm and large, not too firm.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
You want real hard cherry.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
You like a hard like al dente.
Speaker 3 (29:13):
Not a big fan. That is what you don't like fruit.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah, you don't like let's paint the picture cherries everything.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Okay, you're trying to Oh my god, mangoes because for
the people tore not connecting, you're connecting. Sorry with anatomy. Figs,
I'm not even playing this game.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
Doesn't FIGS doesn't like pigs anyway, Figs, that's new to me.
So then we Oh, is it.
Speaker 3 (29:39):
I've never heard that comparison.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
Oh, well, hello, why would I? Oh, if you have
not tongued a summer fig.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
I have a tongue to summer fig.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
And do you take it? Never again?
Speaker 3 (29:57):
Hand me that banana.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Anyway, So we're going up there, and then we have
to go, and so I said, Tom, tell me what happened.
Tell me what happened. She goes, I had to go
to see Daniel out the optometrist. I said about your
hearing aid. She said, yeah, they do the servicing on them.
Everyone goes there. So we go in. We got because
she insists on having this walker. It hardly fits through
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the door. People are sitting down. She's clunking around the
corner with it. Some man's got to pull his knees
up to under his chin so she can go clunking past.
Daniel's in there with a patient, right, Mom's like Daniel,
he's with a patient.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Mum.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
Anyway, we wait. He comes out. Mom says that the
lovely man who's got his knees up under his chin, says,
you can go first. Obviously he could see from my
expression I'm about to go to heaven expression that I
was being a good person anyway. So Mom says to Daniel,
when I saw your wife yesterday, I left the case
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with the outery in it here and I haven't been
able to charge my hearing aids and I've come to
pick it up. And he goes, oh, I don't, well,
there's nothing. She was in this room yesterday. There's nothing here.
He goes, you know what, she's at another practice. I'm
going to call her and I won't be able to
get on to her for a while. I said, that's
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all right, we'll go have a coffee and we'll come back.
So Mum when like, okay, Mom goes clonking off, we
go have a coffee, and I said to her, are
you sure you left it here? Are you sure it
wasn't any room when I picked her up? When I
knew that, I said, have you had a look in
your bag. I've locked in my bag several times. I
don't have it. I left it there. If they say
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it's not there, I'm not going to buy another charger.
I said to Mom, before you make this the heell,
you're going to die on.
Speaker 3 (31:49):
Cary your mom by yes, I'm replacing her with you
in this story. And it still checks out.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Correct, because the apple doesn't fall far from the tree anyway.
So I say to her, check your bagga in. So
she gets a bag. She fossis around. We go back
and he said. I said to her, I'll tell you
what we're gonna do. If they haven't found the charger,
We're going to buy another one. Easy. We've got money,
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we'll buy another one. She goes, I don't want to
buy another one.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
I want my charge or her charger.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
Okay, whatever I said, doesn't matter what you want. That's
what's going to happen. I said, they probably will have
found it. But if they haven't, so we go clonk
clonk clonk up at the thing up the round and
la la back in Daniel's there. There's some guy running
the thing like like it's quite a spectacle. Daniel comes out,
he goes, Mum comes in and sits down, and he goes,
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So Anne, I spoke to his wife. She doesn't have it.
She said, you didn't leave it here yesterday. Mum said
I did, so I went, he went, Well, the fact
is it couldn't have disappeared from this room. We don't
have it. We don't have the charge to your hearing aid.
So I see, mom, get this light, defiant little tilt
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of the chin.
Speaker 3 (33:11):
I've seen that, yeah, seen that in here, right.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
And so there's kind of a lull. I say, mum,
can you pass me your handbag? Oh, from one fossica
to the next, from one fassica to the neck in
that Before she handed it over, she said, I know
it's not all and pulls out the hearing aid charger
(33:41):
fully intact from her bag, and she was, this is
why this was so delicious. And when I get to heaven,
they're going to make me tell this story over and
over again.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
Even if they don't ask, you will.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
Because she was so mortified. She was she was wrong
and so publicly wrong, and it was terrible. And yet
oh yeah, you can't get the smell of your face.
You were so happy you went and replaced your It
was so fantastic. And then we just we just I
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practically sailed out to the car. Come on, Marma, love you. No,
we went on and wait, I still can't believe that happened.
I can, I can.
Speaker 3 (34:35):
You've got that on her squeize it.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
By the way, you know, when one of the most
popular places that people get hearing aids now is and
there is you're not playing? Have you been paying attention
to Costco? Why not these a massive disk like a
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MA membership? First, No, she didn't go there, but I
remember when I went there, which is great. By the way,
Costco's great.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
Go very Dolins.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Now that's closed. Now there's one. It's moved to the
western suburbs Sunshine around the corner from my mother in
law's house. There's a couple anyway, a massive apparently it's
like a third of their business is hearing. And in
America coffins sounds what a buck, isn't it?
Speaker 3 (35:28):
And six chickens six bucks?
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Yes? Six?
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Did you know that Coal's rule about the chickens?
Speaker 2 (35:33):
No?
Speaker 3 (35:34):
Did you know that if you go to get a
hot chicken from Chicken and they don't have one, they
don't have on you get it for free?
Speaker 2 (35:39):
Yeah, but how do they give when they do have one?
It's like an iou sounds like and you get it
for free? That sounds and it has a thing that
says our guarantee. Okay, you know what I'm going to do.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Comedian, great comedian.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
And she was on Origin Odyssey.
Speaker 3 (35:55):
You go. She posted about it the other day.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
That's how elastingly she went to because she's Malaysian Chinese.
Did you watch her app she went to She went
to Ireland because her mother's Irish, and her mother said
to her when she watched her stand up, my side
of the family doesn't get much of a go oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
She posted it the other day.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
Everyone, here's what I'm going to do. We're going to
do this as a team. This is going to be
a buck Up challenge. What sorry, buck Up challenge sneeze
every time a buck Up challenge done. I'm going in.
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I'm going to hide all the roast chickens.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
I can't wait to see where you are the more.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
But you're coming in five minutes.
Speaker 3 (36:54):
Roast chickens.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Chicken please, and then Sush'll come in and go also
like a roast chuck please. I believe you hear the policy.
Look your shields, a beer of roast chocolate.
Speaker 3 (37:06):
You're not what we've been doing lately. No, an amazing
weekend lunch. Nothing better.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
What is that?
Speaker 3 (37:12):
A red rooster chicken? But we need to do other
things for it to be so you've got to get
fresh bakery bread, really lovely fresh ingredients to make Red
Rooster a ricken. You got to make it. You've got
to make it yourself, though, and it's so good. Okay,
because go.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
You cannot go past and read rooster roast dinner, the
classic roast with potatoes, peas, uh huh, pumpkin. They are
the forgotten, taking gravy and you've got to get a
wing piece. Yeah, they've forgotten. No one knows that red
Rooster still exists and that it should be called red Rooster.
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Of course it should, yeah, of course.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
And the only this has only happened because our new
place that we moved into has a red router two
hundred and fifty meters from it, and we're just shocked
that there is one.
Speaker 2 (38:04):
Okay, do you walk or drive? Try?
Speaker 3 (38:09):
Hell, we're talking about Cody got delivered one.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Cody said, like a marathon.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
When it comes to food. When he's hungry, it is on.
It is like just like, let's do this.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
That's what Peter said to me. And it was quite
devastating when he first but now I know it to
be so about you.
Speaker 3 (38:27):
When you're hungry, it needs to be.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
In a restaurant, he said. There's always a period of
intense but I'm the same, but I'm the same, okay.
He said, there's really a lot of tension between when
I order and when the food comes. He said, it's
a really tense.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
You're intense before people order. You want to have a
chat about your holiday. I want to order my food, mate, Yeah, okay,
don't kick off about your trip.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
Let's order. But Peters said that, and I'd sort of laughed.
Speaker 3 (38:56):
It's very true. I've witnessed it.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
But then he said it also in front of the children,
and the way the children laughed, I could tell it
had been discussed.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
Of course, it had. Behind my bad I've discussed it
with them.
Speaker 5 (39:14):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (39:14):
Great? Speaking of family dynamic on this pod. Every now
and then there's something that I just think immediately I
need to hear Kate's take on this.
Speaker 6 (39:29):
Do you.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
I often think it's nobody ever often think it. I
don't act on it, but I think it. Yeah, okay,
this one, and I think the buck comes.
Speaker 2 (39:37):
I like to you in my own take on things.
I know it.
Speaker 3 (39:43):
I just love your new teeth. You know you've been
doing this pod by the way, laughing laughing a lot
at my jokes, and I think it's all about the teeth.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
Well, you know what what because I'm only part way
through the process and they're very it's all very new looks.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
It's just so great. But I am recognizing in you
what happened to me when I got my own visiline
and it started to work, and it started to straighten
my teeth out. It's like a new lease on life
because I didn't think you had anything wrong with your teeth,
but other people when you have an insecurity and you
fix it, yeah, mate, you don't know yourself.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Yeah, it's true anyway, But my husband said, anyway, so
that people people don't, well, you're very skinny.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
I go to the jungle.
Speaker 2 (40:27):
You're on jungalo zeeping. Yeah, my husband said to me,
I will as long as you think you're perfect. He said,
you were already perfect, but now you think you're perf
God is good. I know. But then he said to me, then,
because he only just arrived home from camping. Literally as
I was walking out the door with a bottle of
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kalua under one arm and he's in the other, I
was happy to.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
See him sip before the sip and he.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
Said to me, I'll get used to them because he
liked my.
Speaker 3 (41:03):
Well We've spoken about this before. Though there's a line,
there's a teeth line, and your teeth are great and fantastic,
but the line that people cross, and when we're watching
actors now that their teeth are so distracting, listen to them.
So this is when I and I know our barcheads
will be like yes, Nathan, Yes, the Beckhams.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
Davent.
Speaker 3 (41:30):
Obviously he's come out publicly swinging against his parents. I'm
just going to read a couple of my favorite parts
of his very long statement.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Not written by him.
Speaker 3 (41:41):
Either, did I reckon you see? I disagree because it
was written by like a It wasn't prpin. It seemed
very immature.
Speaker 2 (41:49):
No, no, But also but that he's not that eloquent.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
I do not want to reconcile with my family. I'm
not being controlled. I'm standing up for myself for the
first time in my life.
Speaker 2 (42:00):
Didn't do exactcent.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
Now, let me just say something. When someone says I'm
not being controlled, is the first thing that they say.
My antenna goes up. Who if you're not being controlled?
Do you say I'm not being controlled?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Who said he was being controlled?
Speaker 3 (42:15):
Exactly my point? Yet?
Speaker 2 (42:16):
No one, Yeah, no one said well, she obviously said
to him that morning, I'm not controlling you, and you've
got to tell everybody, and he went, all right, I will.
That's exactly what happens.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
Wow, for my entire life, my parents have controlled narratives
in the press about our family with performative social media posts.
This is what made me laugh.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
My mom canceled Nichola's dress in the eleventh hour, despite
how excited she was to wear herd design, forcing her
to urgently find a new dress her Valentino dreas.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
Do you believe it? That bit?
Speaker 2 (42:53):
Okay, I'll tell you why I don't. Well, it's hard.
I think obviously Victoria was going to make one of
the dresses because she was wearing a Valentino dress. You
can't get a Valentino dress at the eleventh hour, I don't.
I think, no matter how fabulously wealthy you are.
Speaker 3 (43:09):
I think someone came out and called bullshit on this
and said, no, we were working on the dress for agent.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Yeah, of course she had to. She's strikingly good looking though.
The daughter, yeah, Nicholas, Yeah, very hot. But so I
think Victoria was going to make one of the dresses.
And I seem to remember at the time, sash was
her nose not a little bit out of joint that
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she wasn't making the bridal gown. She was making a gown,
and I think that's why she withdrew the offer.
Speaker 3 (43:42):
This what made me laugh. This is when you know
he wrote it. During the wedding planning.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
My mum went as far as to call me evil
because Nikola and I chose to include my nana Sandra
and Nicholas Nuni at our table because they both didn't
have their husbands.
Speaker 3 (43:54):
What's that, Ni? What is that?
Speaker 2 (43:57):
I think is that her nanny as well? But when
he is his nanny, he doesn't mean he's granny, nanny nanny.
Speaker 3 (44:08):
I feel like because she's a billionaire, this Nicola girl
was a billionaire. Her dad's a billion yea, her dad's
I think it's beautiful. This is the part we all
want to talk about. In front of our five hundred guests,
Mark Anthony called me to the stage where in the
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schedule was planning.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
By the way, I found a strange choice.
Speaker 3 (44:33):
Yes, same, I didn't know he was still singing. Was
planned to be my romantic dance with my wife, but
instead my mum was waiting to dance with me. She
danced very inappropriately on me in front of everybody. I've
never felt more uncomfortable or humiliated in my entire life.
Speaker 2 (44:56):
It's a very strange phrase.
Speaker 3 (44:58):
Very quickly, apparently, my Anthony said when he introduced Victoria Becker,
the most beautiful woman in the room.
Speaker 2 (45:06):
Oh my goodness, well poured fuel on the fire. The
most beautiful woman in the room. What is your take
on the parent child dance at the wedding?
Speaker 3 (45:21):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (45:22):
Well?
Speaker 2 (45:22):
I think there's Well, I'm a mother and I have
three sons. Nothing would make me more thrilled than to
dance with one of my sons at their wedding. What.
Speaker 3 (45:38):
Yeah, what is it?
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Because it's a beautiful moment. And also it's like your
son being a man and your relationship with him sort
of changes and then you can bump and grind off.
That's very strange terminology. It's like a father dancing with
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his daughter that.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
Has stopped.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
Stopped.
Speaker 3 (46:07):
Okay, so my eyes are lying to me the last
four or five weddings I've been to that has not
happened at all.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
Well, that's because you've gone out with fatherless, you've gone
to father.
Speaker 3 (46:19):
Hey, no, judgment. I'm just telling you that a lot
of the weddings I've been to in the last few years,
there has been no there's been.
Speaker 2 (46:26):
No wedding we were at, well, we were at.
Speaker 3 (46:29):
Two different weddings. So I don't know why you get teeth.
Speaker 2 (46:35):
I don't like that being a.
Speaker 3 (46:37):
What new teeth? I love the new teeth. Hang on,
I am just telling you that certain girls now say
I'm not comfortable with this tradition of dancing with my dad.
Speaker 2 (46:46):
Are you talking about the walking down the eye? Just
checking Brooklyn? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
Over your son's face at his own wedding.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
I'm grinding on him. I'm on Brooklyn. Remember we named
you after the city you were shaved?
Speaker 5 (47:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (47:07):
Is there a more grotesque?
Speaker 3 (47:09):
That's awful?
Speaker 2 (47:10):
More grotest?
Speaker 3 (47:11):
Well, your kids names be.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
Tent back of Kingswood. My husband does legitimately have a
nineteen six.
Speaker 3 (47:22):
I can remember that I did want to play this
one song. Oh okay, balcony.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
Just a balcony, balcony, balcony, clean your room. I also
find it weird that people know the moment of conception.
I find that really strong.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
That means I don't have sex much though, Yeah, it does.
Speaker 2 (47:41):
Or it means that they're on a regimen where they playing,
they're tracking things here. So for our weddings, Sage's mine
are all holiday holiday. It always come back from holiday pregnant.
Was like, what have you done?
Speaker 3 (47:55):
And then she straight away you could it or something.
Speaker 2 (47:59):
She'd say, or she'd say before we went on holidays.
This is when we were all doing radio together. Don't
you come big freck It was like it was like
my mother at night, have.
Speaker 3 (48:11):
You told your kids this? Next time Sash's overtell them
this story.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
I don't really talk to the kids about.
Speaker 3 (48:16):
Sash was furious when you guys were conceived.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
You know who is really angry or more angry? AUNTI Sash?
No night Dad.
Speaker 3 (48:27):
At our wedding, we wanted to do something nice with
the parents.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Did you dance with Lynn?
Speaker 3 (48:31):
Know what we did do? Though? Is any gays listening
will know this and we love our dads, We all
know this. Your mum deserves the moment more than your
dad when you're a gay man.
Speaker 2 (48:44):
Also when you're at any wedding. Maybe we went to
a wedding once, Sash, remember where the wedding was about
the father? Remember that moms need and that was really wee.
Speaker 3 (48:56):
Well, moms need more kudos at weddings. You've heard it
on me first and put it.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
Out there, remember that, and it was really weird.
Speaker 3 (49:06):
I don't want, I don't want. I don't want a
mother grinding on her son's crutch on the dance floor.
But I want the mom to have a moment, A
few more a few more moments. So we decided that
Lenningiale would walk in before us.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
That's right, have their moment walks, and then they would
wait at the stage, and then Cody and I would
walk in together.
Speaker 3 (49:29):
And can I tell you these they could give us away.
Speaker 2 (49:31):
They would rather have had a dance with you.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
No, they love this, but we didn't tell them. We
didn't tell them the song that they would be walking into.
I don't know if you remembered this, okay, but this
is the song that our mothers walked into the wedding to.
(49:55):
Everyone loved it.
Speaker 2 (49:56):
See. I would also play that at my son's winning,
but I'd be dancing with him, showing him my milkshakes,
and then I would offer him a little bit of
bitty sorry while his new wife looks on. I mean,
that's the star. One final drink, One for the road darling.
Speaker 3 (50:14):
Oh God. Also God, there's footage someone's sitting on footage
on their phone of that dance.
Speaker 2 (50:24):
I believe that to be true. I do not believe
like she's a dancer, Victoria. She's not as Spice she
walked whatever. But she's But but what I mean is
that's not unfamiliar for her. I wouldn't put it past
her to have an aspect of wanting to slightly take
(50:48):
the day, have a moment, not even but like she
was there first, She was there first. I always say
that about my mother in law. She was there first.
Speaker 3 (50:57):
So nice?
Speaker 2 (50:58):
Did she there last?
Speaker 3 (51:01):
Did she dance with your man at your wedding?
Speaker 2 (51:03):
Of course? Okay?
Speaker 3 (51:06):
Well I didn't get the really need.
Speaker 2 (51:08):
A grind on Marie Lewis of Sunshine and I danced
with my dad and I danced with Peter's dad, and
Peter danced with my mom.
Speaker 3 (51:18):
And his March Jesus like a key party.
Speaker 2 (51:20):
There was no time for anything.
Speaker 3 (51:23):
This wedding go for okay, So.
Speaker 2 (51:26):
Sush at your weddings, well, she's had one, so but
your parents went there? Were they were they in the
UK for it? In New Zealand? Did you when you
married old long streaker misery. That's why I had to
go through that on the day. Yeah, right, yeah, even
(51:47):
though you had second thoughts, Hey, did you would have
danced with his dad? Yes? And he would have danced
with your mom. Yeah. I don't know what you're on about.
Do you know what I did always to destroy? Yeah? Yeah,
we've brought you into the sacred team.
Speaker 3 (52:08):
I tell you, I tell you the straight weddings I've
been to. The girl didn't down to her dad. And
you'll go on the gaze because you're bullied again. Yet
I'm out of the jungle.
Speaker 2 (52:19):
Oh, it's a text from mom from you from this
is from Elena. She is cleaner Elena's mom. Elena must
be a cleaner, of course, or she doesn't have to
be a cleaner. But there would be a cleaner called Paulina.
Mm hmm, et cetera. Elena's mom. Peter just rang happy.
(52:42):
He's on fantastic pills from Thailand and feels fabulous. He
says he could run up my driveway like a dog.
They were over in Thailand for three months. Had lunch
today with Kenny.
Speaker 5 (52:56):
The love that was his.
Speaker 2 (53:08):
She ended on a sea bob, but she also put
x's off, which of course a mother did. Of course,
so she thinks it, she feels it. Love you, love you?
What did Kenny do?
Speaker 3 (53:23):
I never want the story on.
Speaker 2 (53:24):
I think maybe that's just Kenny's nickname.
Speaker 3 (53:27):
No, Kenny's a brother in law. But why would she
have her son, maybe Noah a mother?
Speaker 2 (53:35):
No no, no, no no. She'd show him that body
part at his wedding in the bridal dance, but she
would never call him that. David, did you see what
Broccland said I did at the wedding? I never did.
That's all right, Victoria. The buck Up podcast is hosted
(53:57):
by me Kate lane Brook and him Nathanal. It's produced
by the brilliant Sasha French. Audio and sound by the
magnificent Jack Lawrence you might call him Jack. And Dom Evans.
Oh we're lucky.
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