Join The Hickey Horde

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Speaker 1 (00:10):
I hard podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the free I heard.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
The Will and Woody podcast.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Would throw the producers week, throw thousands of ideas of
them every single week, which.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
On to get them onto the show.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
At the end of the day, there's only two hours
to fill and they're brutal about what they think is
good and not and it's a strange, strange hierarchical relationship
that we're in with them. Ultimately, they and a lot
of good stuff. It ends up on the cutting room floor.

Speaker 4 (00:42):
The real shame.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
The great news is, guys, we've got this ten minutes
to pitch the ideas that didn't make the show.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
During the week we take online.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
I've been pitching this one for for a while now,
and you'll know.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
That I'm into into hearing about what.

Speaker 4 (01:01):
Your idea is. I had a real head of steam
up there, mate.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
I know I Understan because we've got analys in here.
He's actually, you know, from behind enemy lines.

Speaker 4 (01:07):
Yeah, we can start interrogating.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Any idea this week that you were like, oh that
was that was unlucky to make it. Gosh, I don't
know where I read your ideas this week.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
You I mean we put we put so much time
into our ideas. Every morning I read, I read.

Speaker 5 (01:21):
I read them.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
There's nothing.

Speaker 6 (01:25):
Let me back drive.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Off the top of my head. I can't think of
any but I know there was a lot that didn't
make the show.

Speaker 7 (01:32):
That's such a nothing answer. You pulled me aside.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Jojo Sorry, but produced Joe Sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
She doesn't like Jojo came out.

Speaker 4 (01:42):
She's the one who makes the big, big decisions. Ah,
I think deflection.

Speaker 7 (01:48):
You actually can't be honest the idea I'm about to say, analyse.
You pulled me aside after a meeting and you told
me that you loved it. Did I Yeah, you went
around JoJo's back and you told me that you love this.
It's gonna sound like it's off old news, and that's
because it is. I've been pitching it for two weeks.
But so two weeks ago, Trumpy went to a press conference.

Speaker 4 (02:08):
In the end, Hickey, we had a red Wow.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Yeah, it could have been a lot of things, but
it might have been a Hickey.

Speaker 4 (02:14):
I was running with him.

Speaker 5 (02:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Medical, Yeah, some sort of medical.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
It was a reaction to a cream Woods.

Speaker 3 (02:19):
So well that's what he said.

Speaker 7 (02:20):
Slash exact classic classic excuse for a Hickey, right, It
doesn't want to admit that he's got a Hickey. So
I had this great idea, and Analyst, you're gonna have
to get around me here because you said you liked it.
I liked the idea of coming on air and creating
a Hickey Hoard. So basically, it's just going to get
people to call and be like, are you willing to
go home tonight and give your partner a Hickey. It's
just going to be bulk hickeys out there, right, So

(02:42):
join the Hickey hord hickey your partner tonight and then
tomorrow when we all you know, hit the market or whatever,
you're going to see hickeys everywhere.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
You love it.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
You didn't say that, you did.

Speaker 4 (02:53):
You said Hickey hoard like it? You did?

Speaker 7 (02:56):
You winked at me and you said hickeyd Hey, you
go on ask me questions.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
There's no holes. There's no holes in it.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
So right now, people call up if they want to
be part of the Hickey Hoard, which means they have
to go home and give their partner a Hickey tonight tonight.
How do we follow up on this or is this
just like you know, we all enjoy in our imaginations.
A bunch of people awkwardly explaining, I mean, if you
get to see one of the hickeys, good for you.

Speaker 4 (03:22):
That's the gold?

Speaker 3 (03:23):
Oh wow?

Speaker 4 (03:24):
Gold?

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Is that tomorrow morning when we all go out, keep
your eyes peeled for hickeys because we've got such a
powerful platform that there are going to be millions of
these things, but.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Most about hicks. We're going to get in the Hickey
hoard is ten surely.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Right?

Speaker 3 (03:37):
Okay, So then, because I'm on board with this.

Speaker 4 (03:40):
It's good. Right, all weekend we'll be looking for hickeys.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
I won't be, but you know what I thought would be,
you will. If I see a hickey, I'll be like, wow,
is that part of the hiky?

Speaker 8 (03:53):
From them?

Speaker 3 (03:56):
Part of the heyward? On Monday.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
There's also the potential to check in with those people
and see what excuse got legs their partner had.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
To run with at work?

Speaker 4 (04:07):
Got legs?

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:08):
I actually don't mind. I don't mind that is there
are we crossing any lines? A few people a bit.
What I've seen a couple of things think we've already
crossed them.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
So it doesn't matter how a few people.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
There's a lot it is interesting.

Speaker 7 (04:21):
I mean, I mean, it's obviously it's I'm not assessing
people to do it. I'm not I'm saying, what would
do is webout thirteen one oh sixty five, that's our number.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Are you willing to consent to join the Hickey Hoard? Essentially?

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Yeah, but so but your so you're so then you
would go home and go to your partner.

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Hey, I want to be part of the Ikey Hord?
Can you? Can you hic me up?

Speaker 7 (04:44):
Oh so you want to get no if you're part
of the Hickey Hoard, Yeah, you're Hickey your partner.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
Yeah right, okay, so right now people are calling if
they're willing to hickey their partner tonight.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
That's it. I like it.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
That's the bit.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
I like it. I like it.

Speaker 4 (04:58):
I like it.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
ANALY liked it. Earlier she said she loved it as well.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
And it has to be call us if you are
willing to consentually receive a hickey from your partner.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Oh yeah right, yeah, yeah yeah I do think that.
There the other way there was some issues and.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
Hickey from from Will to Woods or Woods to Will.

Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, make me we that shot the Ickey Hord.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
I don't want to be I don't want it.

Speaker 4 (05:22):
You have to be you have to be.

Speaker 7 (05:24):
You said you're supportive of want I don't want it. Now,
well we'll talk about it during the song. But here's
your opportunity, Australia.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
I don't want to be Hickey.

Speaker 4 (05:32):
You can Hickey me.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Then, No.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
Thirteen one oh sixty five is the number she's.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
In the studio. I didn't think that's right. I come on, no,
let's not take it like that. I don't. There's a
lot of judgment going on here.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
You're tainting the bit. This is this is fun. Ten
seconds ago thirteen one o six.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
You say that you're just be just everything. She's fine, Yeah,
she's fine.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
Fine, No one, no one's it's fine. One's doing that.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
But you have to get a Hickey down.

Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah, you definitely have.

Speaker 8 (06:07):
No.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
No, I'm not doing it.

Speaker 4 (06:11):
Hang on, we have to build the hoard. Thirteen one
oh sixty five, join me, join the Hickey hord. Okay,
now we are going to throw to our captain. We've
got it. We've got to.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
There coming.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
We have a spiritual leader of the Hickey hoard. When
no one else saw faith, this man stepped up. His
name is Wayne get A Wayne. How are every buddy.
I'm outstanding. It's so nice to meet your mate. Thanks
for thanks for backing the Horde. So you're wanting to
you're wanting to receive a Hickey tonight? Wayne?

Speaker 1 (06:48):
Oh, I ain't one, and give great goes both obviously consentually.

Speaker 4 (06:51):
If are you in a relationship, Wayne, yep.

Speaker 8 (06:55):
Have been married for twenty five years.

Speaker 9 (07:00):
Eureful, we'd be here, Alison, your Hickey Hoard.

Speaker 10 (07:03):
We're fifty four and sixty five, so love that beautiful?

Speaker 4 (07:07):
That is beautiful and anyone is welcome in the Hickey Hoard.
So do you reckon? Your wife will be up for it? Wayne?

Speaker 10 (07:14):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (07:14):
Hell ye, my stuff? Wayne.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
All right, we're going to create a female someone a
little bit more in the demographic. But look, I think
I think we'll touch based with Wayne.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
On Monday and his wife. Hi Christine, sounds like a
wild name. Hi Christine, you want to join the Hickey Hoard?

Speaker 6 (07:32):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (07:32):
Yes I do.

Speaker 4 (07:33):
Are you in a relationship, Christine?

Speaker 6 (07:35):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (07:36):
I am great giving or receiving both.

Speaker 9 (07:39):
It's our anniversary tomorrow night.

Speaker 8 (07:41):
So.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
All of a sudden, the Hickeys are growing. Thanks for
joining us, Christine, Christina. Sorry, can I just ask Christine. Christine,
how many years have you been together? For Christine, how
long have you been together for?

Speaker 3 (07:59):
Nearly seven years?

Speaker 1 (08:01):
Okay, So because I like a hickey for me, because
I've been in a relationship for a similar amount of time,
I feel like a hickey for me seven or eight
years in it's a bit, you know, I.

Speaker 3 (08:10):
Haven't I haven't given an ikey in a long time
to Sam. I think she should be a bit rattled.
And probably would you.

Speaker 9 (08:15):
Because wild a little one. It's hard not to have
a night out, you know.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
Yeah, for sure. Sure, But like I mean, if sim
gave me a hickey, I would be annoyed.

Speaker 4 (08:24):
You'd be annoyed.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yeah, because I'm walking around with the bruise on my
neck that I'm going.

Speaker 10 (08:28):
To explain what will be annoyed too.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
But it's going to happen exactly.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
It's funny.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
Dedication to the Horda.

Speaker 4 (08:35):
Market territory for you, Chris Dick. Now, I think this
is a type is it Embrya or Andrea Embrya?

Speaker 3 (08:42):
We've done.

Speaker 5 (08:44):
Before.

Speaker 3 (08:44):
I've spoken to Embria before you asked you about her name.
She said she hated it.

Speaker 7 (08:49):
Sorry you regretted asking And I'm so embarrassed because here
you are willing to jump on the Hickey Horde.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
Welcome, Embryo, Welcome to the Hord. First question, we had.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
A sound effect for the Horde because I feel like
it's currently falling a bitfore.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
No, it's a horns.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
God yeah, two secs, Ambrea, we're just sorted out a
horn welcome and we give a bit of gusta this time.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
Welcome to the.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Right comical like regal. Yeah, I agree, it's gonna it's
gonna be. It's gonna be signaling like the arrival of event,
like like if if if there were horns playing, if
the king arrived.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
That's that's a fanfare. I'm so sorry about.

Speaker 5 (09:30):
This, Amber.

Speaker 4 (09:33):
Perfect.

Speaker 3 (09:35):
I want to say it now, Embrya.

Speaker 7 (09:37):
Welcome to the Hickey Horde. Yeah, nice, standing now that
you're here. First question for anyone who joins the Hickey Horde,
giving or receiving.

Speaker 6 (09:49):
Giving?

Speaker 4 (09:51):
Oh you did? You're hesitated?

Speaker 7 (09:53):
You're hesitated in a relationship, embry Yes, yeah, how do
you think your partner's going to receive it?

Speaker 4 (10:00):
Will they? Will?

Speaker 3 (10:00):
They like it?

Speaker 4 (10:01):
In the Hickey.

Speaker 9 (10:04):
I think you'd rather receive it. But yeah, well he.

Speaker 1 (10:08):
Plays his cards, right, are you going to are you
going to open up by saying like, hey, just doing
a radio bit?

Speaker 8 (10:14):
Willin muddy, I'm just going to go straight on.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
It because it cool. Then he'll then he'll be all.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Then he'll she I'm sure we'll be all about it,
you know when they're yeah. I think if you walked
in there and he said, can I suck your neck
for a radio bit, then all of a sudden, all
the romance has gone strange. Jump straight on the neck,
Just jump straight in there, Ambry are outstanding.

Speaker 4 (10:33):
That is the kind of energy that I want to
hear straight the Hickey.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
Hord are you?

Speaker 3 (10:41):
Are you joining the hoard Woods?

Speaker 4 (10:42):
Absolutely, my friend. I joined every Friday.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Night right now, your chance to in ten grand get
sixteen cans in a row.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
That's the record. But I mean, no one's been near
it for a long time. And can you hear it.

Speaker 6 (10:54):
I'm going to drink.

Speaker 10 (11:01):
No no.

Speaker 4 (11:07):
Already. First up today we.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
Got bet get a beck pay guy tay going outstanding.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
It's Friday. That's cracky, fantastic, fantastic.

Speaker 5 (11:16):
Here we go ya.

Speaker 4 (11:24):
Oh sorry, that's a soft drink.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
That's a.

Speaker 4 (11:30):
Thanks guys, no worries.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
Bet good on you?

Speaker 4 (11:33):
Well you did say before that. No one's come close. Recently.
We had that guy Gary I think his name was
Wasn't He was doing the He was the opposite.

Speaker 8 (11:41):
To what he thought.

Speaker 4 (11:42):
Everything six is good?

Speaker 3 (11:43):
I know maybe seven six? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (11:45):
Pete, Pete, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
I don't think it was Pete. Are you going to
have that coke? Zero?

Speaker 10 (11:52):
Good for?

Speaker 4 (11:52):
That's very refreshing.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
This is not a sponsored bit, by the way, not
at all.

Speaker 4 (11:56):
But we're open to it if you're.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Oh, we're so open to it.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
I don't understand beverage company, how this is not a
sponsored bit.

Speaker 4 (12:03):
Schweps, we're interested. Coca Cola, we're interested. Kirks, kirks, Well,
they've been interested before. What did happen there?

Speaker 5 (12:10):
What did happen there? Not? Sure?

Speaker 1 (12:11):
Hailey, I'm thirteen, Hey, Haley, beer or soft drink? By
the sound of the can opening, that's how you play.
Are you ready for your first can?

Speaker 9 (12:19):
Yeah? I'm ready?

Speaker 5 (12:20):
Is it cold?

Speaker 10 (12:23):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (12:23):
Allow that question?

Speaker 4 (12:25):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
It's not freezing cold. I reckon, it's had two hours
in the fridge. Okay, shall we say what it is?
What sort of beer it is? Okay, it's it's Cooper's
Original Pale ale, not another paid bit.

Speaker 3 (12:35):
It's a good beer.

Speaker 4 (12:37):
Here we go, here it comes.

Speaker 9 (12:40):
That was soft drink.

Speaker 4 (12:45):
No, And I literally just told you.

Speaker 5 (12:47):
What beer it was.

Speaker 4 (12:48):
I didn't realize I was doing that at the time.
I thought that was a trick question. We just we
just went right into it.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
I'm so sorry, Hailey. We No, I didn't mean we didn't.
There was no skull duggerydea. That's just we've never Haley.
You obviously the thing before right where I said to
what he that was a coke zero. I just didn't realize.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
I know that the point of the game is guess
bureau softing, but I was just describing what I saw
in front of me. That was a Cooper's pale ale, Like,
we told you what it was. That's why, Joe, that's
why you were looking at me like what are you doing?
That makes total sense now, yeah, that's why I was like.

Speaker 8 (13:32):
You're giving it up.

Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, somehow Haley still didn't get it.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
We give Ailey another one because it did feel like
we double bluffed Ian.

Speaker 4 (13:38):
That's fair enough, Haley, We're going to go again. Don't
ask us any questions about it, though, because we might
give away too much.

Speaker 3 (13:43):
That's I think it's only fair. I've never done that before.

Speaker 4 (13:48):
Very good, we're going to refresh, Haley. All right, he
can one?

Speaker 9 (13:51):
Yeah beer?

Speaker 4 (14:01):
Sorry, Haley was sorry about that. That was a wild
ride with you. No worries at all, Hailey, of a
lovely weekend. Let's go to Isabelle. Isabelle, you read.

Speaker 1 (14:14):
We haven't told her what the cans never before? Do
you want us to tell you what the can is beforehand?
Or are you're happy to.

Speaker 9 (14:20):
Get I would love to I would love to know
that that's a beer.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Noice, Isabelle. That's that confidence we talk about him in
this game? Would that clean confidence?

Speaker 9 (14:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (14:38):
Yeah, you've got it, Isabelle.

Speaker 3 (14:39):
Who would have got the cook? Did you get the Coopers?
This Afternoon and Noise producer?

Speaker 4 (14:44):
Lived Green Goblins, the se Queen Green Goblins?

Speaker 3 (14:49):
Who actual really shows a true Colors Friday Green Goverlin.

Speaker 9 (14:57):
That's another beer, Isabelle.

Speaker 4 (15:00):
How are you feeling over there?

Speaker 6 (15:02):
I'm worried now right?

Speaker 4 (15:05):
Okay, you said beer before the song. You can number two?
That's correct, you've got two cans in the road. Well done, great,
we're fourteen to go, fourteen to go. You can number three?
You're ready?

Speaker 6 (15:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (15:20):
All right, here comes.

Speaker 6 (15:29):
I'm gonna go beer again.

Speaker 9 (15:31):
Oh that was that was it?

Speaker 1 (15:34):
That was a That was a dug coke. That needs
to be said that that coke cracked like a beer.
A few people are mentioning we've got bad coca colors
in the fringe right.

Speaker 4 (15:49):
A few people are commenting on the fact that the
cokes aren't popping.

Speaker 1 (15:53):
But look, adjustment games astral radio. Coke has been pretty good,
Like it's been good in here, been good for a
long time.

Speaker 4 (16:00):
I think it's for a couple of weeks.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
Well, maybe we need to get him colder. Is it
the temperature?

Speaker 1 (16:04):
Think because that's been a thing before, Because that coke
cracked like a beer.

Speaker 3 (16:07):
Analyst, do you agree that coke?

Speaker 7 (16:09):
I had one of those Coca colas earlier and it
was quite crisp and delisious.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
Not about how it tastes, about how it sounds. Were
you listening, Were you listening? Take your visil line out
and listen. If you're going to be in the studio, no,
take it out.

Speaker 4 (16:22):
I kind of get my finger in there and the
whole it's the whole thing. But I think it did
sound pretty medium.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
God, I'm so glad you're cold sometimes great comments, great comments, Zach,
you might comments from analytics.

Speaker 4 (16:35):
You might need to adjust your game.

Speaker 3 (16:37):
Try did you try it?

Speaker 4 (16:38):
I've got my own visible and trying.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
It doesn't matter.

Speaker 4 (16:43):
No, it's the sound Zach, that you might have to
adjust your game today. Mate. We think the cokes are
sounding a little bit flat.

Speaker 8 (16:51):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
I think that's a good warning shot. And I think
that's I think that's fair. I think that's fair.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
You're ready for your first?

Speaker 3 (16:59):
I agree? Or just yeah, just sixteen beers? Would you
like that take?

Speaker 5 (17:04):
I wouldn't remember it, but no, not to.

Speaker 3 (17:07):
Drink, mate, Just to listen. What is wrong with everyone today?
You listen to the cans?

Speaker 10 (17:17):
Oh my god, I had to be yes, well, very
good one there, very good, very good.

Speaker 4 (17:27):
All right, ready for your second, Zachi, Yep, we go.

Speaker 9 (17:36):
That's a soft trick.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
Oh good, Zach called it?

Speaker 8 (17:40):
Call it there you go? It had a.

Speaker 6 (17:43):
Yeah, I don't know what that is?

Speaker 1 (17:46):
Very good.

Speaker 3 (17:47):
Let's go can three showing.

Speaker 4 (17:55):
Me that was a that was a wopper soft.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
That was the mulligan. We're talking about everything. It's all
over the place here.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
I think I think personally we know the producers like
people to lose because there no cash here.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
I think they've been screwing with the thermostat.

Speaker 4 (18:12):
Is shaking of shaking, of.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
Shaking, a thermostat changing.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
I think there's been all sorts of skull Dougree. No
can has sounded true today.

Speaker 4 (18:20):
They're shaking cans in the air well.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
I mean, Jenny, we'll finish with Jenny today. Jenny, you've
heard the game so far. The cans have been off,
haven't they.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
Jenny.

Speaker 4 (18:30):
Oh, he's trying to make a point.

Speaker 3 (18:34):
Jenny.

Speaker 5 (18:34):
You've got to get.

Speaker 3 (18:35):
Around the galleries. Get around afternoon.

Speaker 1 (18:41):
Screwed him, Jenny, God's sake, you gave me no warning
with Jenny.

Speaker 5 (18:47):
Switch on.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
You're on the air. You listen to the cans. You
don't drink them. They're flat today. Are you ready for can?

Speaker 5 (18:54):
One?

Speaker 4 (18:55):
Ready?

Speaker 3 (18:56):
Doesn't seem like it?

Speaker 5 (19:00):
God beer, it's a blood coke and.

Speaker 3 (19:10):
All sorts of tampering that this is.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
This is reminiscent of the bald tampering Sagarine, South Africa.

Speaker 3 (19:15):
I reckon it's a full inquiry.

Speaker 4 (19:17):
Thrying all the cans.

Speaker 8 (19:18):
I agree.

Speaker 4 (19:19):
We're getting fresh cans next week, fresh cans.

Speaker 8 (19:22):
Fresh cans next week. You're such a child, would.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
I'm pretty excited about this because we've got another decode.

Speaker 8 (19:43):
The bro.

Speaker 4 (19:49):
Always reach out to us, just to the to the
women out there.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
If you've received some correspondence a message with a bloke
who're you're hoping to maybe one day date but you can't.

Speaker 3 (20:01):
Maybe it comes with your son or your dad.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
I mean, men are everywhere, and they're always very confusing
and often very very difficul.

Speaker 4 (20:09):
So if you want to go inside of relationships in.

Speaker 3 (20:11):
General, I think men can be hard to understand. So
I think it's you know, it's nice that we can.
We're on the inn of Sanctum. Obviously we're both men.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
We give the mail perspective on the curious mind of men.
And today we've got our button push a cat. Who
you want to give a situation?

Speaker 4 (20:26):
Cat? You're early on with a guy?

Speaker 2 (20:29):
Yeah, so I'm four dates in with a new guy.
Quick backstory. He's a year older than me. He's thirty
three this year. He's got a great job, he owns
a house, he's got his life together, he's got his
ducks in a row met on hinge. Yeah, four dates
in and it's been feeling really good. He's paid for

(20:49):
all of the meals on the dates right sign which
first two dates out and about third date relaxed, night
in at his house okay, great, turned into a sleepover.
Ok to sleepover and then I thought.

Speaker 4 (21:01):
She had a kiss. She had a kiss kiss or two?

Speaker 2 (21:04):
Yeah, okay, And then I thought, Okay, what happens after this?
That's going to be that's going to tell me everything
I need to know. He's either going to disappear or
he's going to hang in after the sleepover.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
After the sleepover.

Speaker 2 (21:16):
After the sleepover, continued talking, still consistent, chatting every day.
Wanted to meet up again.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
The morning after the sleepover. Did you have breakfast together
or hang out together?

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Or was it a I can't remember.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
I went home, I went home.

Speaker 4 (21:30):
You chose to go home.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
I chose to go home because I had to let
the dog out.

Speaker 11 (21:34):
Anyway euphemism sorry, And then it was great after that,
continually chatting.

Speaker 2 (21:46):
I said to him, I'd love to see you again.
He said, yes, absolutely, me.

Speaker 4 (21:48):
Too, Okay, great, keep chatting.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
He's interested, he's like, you know, asking me questions, getting
to know me. And then fourth date was another sleepover.
But I will point out he was on the back
of like working for two weeks straight. He was tired,
but he still made the time to hang out.

Speaker 7 (22:08):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (22:08):
Sign, it's all great signs.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yes, the sleeve number two. Did they have like a
dinner or something beforehand?

Speaker 5 (22:14):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (22:15):
So was it just a kind of so he was,
he'd finished work, We went for a walk, we drove,
we drove somewhere nice and he told walk like around
a lake and stuff lake yep, yep. And then we
went and ordered food and picked it up.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
And so it's the whole it's a full kittenkbuter, it's
not a booty cause basically what I'm saying it didn't.
Did you speak over the two weeks while he was
working full time? Yes, it sounds like it's on.

Speaker 4 (22:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
Probably.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
So what's happened recently?

Speaker 2 (22:39):
Okay, so post post last sleepover a few days ago,
texting for a couple of days, I'm on day two
of hearing nothing from him.

Speaker 4 (22:47):
Can I ask what was the last bit of correspondence
between the two of you?

Speaker 1 (22:51):
Yep?

Speaker 2 (22:51):
I said something about that I'm doing at work, and
he was like, wow, that sounds amazing, that's so good.
And then he asked me a question. I can't remember
what it was. He kept the conversation going.

Speaker 7 (23:00):
Him asking you a question, great sign he wants to
keep the conversation, so he asked you You answered the.

Speaker 4 (23:04):
Question, yep, asked him a question. Nada was the question
you asked him.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
It was pretty vague. He was just talking about how
he'd been to the gym at like nine thirty. At
nine I was like, Wow, you can't believe you do that,
like fit that in when you're really busy?

Speaker 4 (23:16):
That's good. Do you often do that?

Speaker 3 (23:20):
That is?

Speaker 10 (23:20):
That is?

Speaker 4 (23:21):
That's shocking chat?

Speaker 10 (23:23):
How do you feel?

Speaker 3 (23:24):
Oh god, do you often do that?

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (23:26):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (23:26):
Okay? Good? But can I just say it's not it's
shocking chat candidate. But it's not a it's not a
it's not a bad enough thing to lead to not
talking to you.

Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah, besides asking him how he squeezes in a nine
thirty gym session that it would lead to him not talking.

Speaker 5 (23:43):
To you, I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (23:45):
I've been pretty good. But I will say as well
that the chat on text is not super in depth.
We do that in person.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
Nice.

Speaker 2 (23:54):
Yeah, the chat has just been a little bit of
how have you been today? Setting up the next day, so.

Speaker 4 (24:00):
You've seen how many texts a day?

Speaker 2 (24:01):
On average between three and five.

Speaker 4 (24:05):
So you're not you're not.

Speaker 1 (24:07):
No love, but you haven't really sent him a great
message there that really deserved a response.

Speaker 8 (24:13):
Not really.

Speaker 4 (24:14):
It was a question, though, I think she has asked.

Speaker 7 (24:16):
So my thing with Dati was always if I've asked
a question and haven't got a response, then that was
always a bit of a whereas if I'd answered the
last text without a question, then technically it's on either
review to be the next one to message.

Speaker 8 (24:29):
Right.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
The Kat's put herself out there by asking a question
because it's so comfortable, So like whatever, there's no jeopardy
in asking a question with someone that you're talking with.
No have had four dates with it felt like there's
been a slow in conversation.

Speaker 4 (24:45):
Can she double down and write a second message in
I'm not going to do that.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
I'm not a chaser.

Speaker 4 (24:50):
Yeah, I don't want to do that.

Speaker 3 (24:51):
It sounds like you've chased before.

Speaker 2 (24:53):
Yeah, and I'm not doing it now. You're afraid of that, yeah,
I just know that that'll push him away about just
not doing that.

Speaker 4 (25:01):
You also mentioned that he was really busy, right, he's
got a full on job.

Speaker 7 (25:04):
Okay, so like there is one hundred percent of I mean,
don't get wrong, it takes ten seconds to write back
to said. I do get that, but there is a world.
He's so busy sometimes I run back to messages in
my head. I know that sounds crazy, but like sometimes
I will genuinely think I've thought to write a message
back and then I've just forgotten to write back.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
Yeah, super handy, super weirdly. I still use it as
an excuse, and obviously it doesn't What.

Speaker 8 (25:28):
Do you think.

Speaker 3 (25:28):
Do you think he's uninterested?

Speaker 4 (25:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
I don't think he's uninterested. I think we've got days here, like,
leave it another two to three days.

Speaker 7 (25:37):
I think if we're having the same conversation in six
days and he hasn't written back, shocked at this?

Speaker 3 (25:43):
Unless why are you shocked at this?

Speaker 2 (25:44):
I feel like that's a long time.

Speaker 3 (25:46):
I agree, I think it's a long time.

Speaker 4 (25:49):
How old is this guy? How old is this guy?
Just texted?

Speaker 3 (25:52):
Shut god, shut up?

Speaker 10 (25:54):
What he's back?

Speaker 4 (25:58):
And he texts in bits?

Speaker 2 (25:59):
He texts in like bits, he's busy, really important, He's busy. Okay,
So actually the last things I say to him, he
was like, I was telling him about where I went
to dinner. He was like, what's the menu like? And
I sent him the menu, so there was that, There
was a few. Yeah, he's just loved the menu, like
love react to the menu amazing. And he's just said
the menu looks good. And then he's just responded to

(26:24):
my work thing that I said. So he's acknowledged that.

Speaker 11 (26:26):
Yeah, and he's about to answer my stupid gym question hopefully.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
Ah. So busy, Okay, I freaked out for nothing. This
is a man for all the ladies listening. This is
a man who's let's decode this brother. This is a
man who is over a man who is over thirty. Yeah,
we're not always on our phones. We're bad at response.

Speaker 7 (26:47):
You've got to give us at least seventy two hours
before we start freaking out.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
What are you trying to say here? Men have more
things in their life. No, that is that the moral
We've got worry about guys. We're busy. Least thought busy.

Speaker 4 (27:05):
You thought forty eight hours was a huge amount.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
That's two days, two days not thinking about me?

Speaker 4 (27:09):
Are you crazy?

Speaker 3 (27:10):
I agree?

Speaker 1 (27:13):
Someone, I'm thinking about them all the time a little bit,
but I'm not knowing it was texting about it.

Speaker 4 (27:18):
Yes, I am.

Speaker 3 (27:22):
Oh that's good for you. Gat great, huge news. So
I would just say, what's.

Speaker 2 (27:29):
All I'll leave it off one now, just leave it,
just just leave, just chill. Now, do I wait a
whole day to respond to him.

Speaker 3 (27:36):
Don't play that game. No, no, no, Georgia, no no,
I can't have this. That's the end of that's the
end of all relationships.

Speaker 7 (27:47):
If he wrote back something short and didn't ask you
a question, I agree with all the girls.

Speaker 1 (27:50):
You make him wait three days, but he has written
you like four messages. He's responded to your questions. I'd
wait half an hour.

Speaker 2 (27:57):
How was your days?

Speaker 3 (28:00):
Yeah, how was your day? Oh?

Speaker 4 (28:03):
Mate, beautiful? Send him back a jiff, No, send it.

Speaker 3 (28:13):
Alright, don't it?

Speaker 1 (28:23):
Thirteen one six' five is the number here at the
show if you want to give us a call and
just get on the. Air we open the phone lines Every,
friday BECAUSE i mean often when we're doing the show,
boards we know we're listening to your, stories we're asking
very specific, questions and we never really get a chance
to catch up with the listeners of the.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
Show that's. It now is the time to do. So
so if you'd like to just give us a, Call
we've Got jay?

Speaker 9 (28:47):
Here GOOD i j, oh, hi, GUYS i need some
advice as an anxious attacher in early stage.

Speaker 4 (28:56):
Dating, okay, great far Away? Jay.

Speaker 9 (28:59):
Okay So i've just started kind of seeing and talking to.
Someone it's a very new And i'm just trying to
you're a cool girl because previous, Relationships i've always kind
of like seek reassurance from, them And i'm just so
struggling with their. Ambiguity SO i find myself wanting to be,

(29:20):
like do you feel like me? Today but like every?

Speaker 4 (29:24):
Day you, Know, sorry how long have you been seeing
this person?

Speaker 8 (29:29):
For?

Speaker 9 (29:29):
Okay so we actually met In january and then he
decided at that time probably our lifestyles in the, Line,
well we both kind of decided because he goes out
and LIKE i stay. HOME i love to be in the.
House but then he came back to me recently and he, says,
yeah you know what he says as an access, attacher

(29:51):
this is like the best thing to. Hear he told,
Me i've been non stop thinking about you for.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
Weeks, firstly that's a great sign if he has said
to you he's been thinking about your, NonStop, like isn't
that the valid that you're?

Speaker 9 (30:09):
Seeking, yeah that's.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
Hot and ALSO i was, good JAY.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
I i feel as if you've got to get to
a point with whoever you're with whereby you've got to
stop pretending to be something other than, yourself, Right like
if you're an anxious, attacher stop trying to be not
an anxious. ATTACHER i would just go, like, hey look
this is there's a part of me THAT i feel.

Speaker 3 (30:32):
Really uncomfortable sharing with.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
YOU i can be a bit anxious AND i need
a lot of, Affirmation LIKE i just put it out,
there like let.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
Yourself you are the ultimate better of the person that
you will.

Speaker 4 (30:42):
Attract and he might love that as.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
Well he might be, like OH i didn't really he
might have Been he might be playing cool, too this
Weird mexican stand.

Speaker 3 (30:51):
Up there's a wonderful point in every.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
RELATIONSHIP i, reckon when you get to where you're, like,
oh we'll both trying to like hold back.

Speaker 9 (30:57):
There SO i.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
Reckon and the thing is if he does say, no
that's not for, me then you've learned.

Speaker 4 (31:03):
That he probably wasn't for.

Speaker 9 (31:04):
You yeah, yeah, yeah and then pusha probably and so
they're trying to be cool yeah.

Speaker 3 (31:10):
And eventually, yes you, know JAY i reckon a good
one to.

Speaker 1 (31:14):
Do something my partner AND i do sometimes is there's
parts of ourselves that we don't. Like we kind of
joke about it by having like a code word for.
It So i'll be, like you, know Sorry i'm being
and then we just we just we'll just label, it
LIKE i, said the code words like bread for, example like,
sorry being a bit ready, today and it's just, Like,
okay that's that part of, you that's the part of

(31:35):
you THAT i don't. Like you don't like it, Either
thanks for labeling, it and then you kind of move
on a little.

Speaker 4 (31:40):
Bit sounds to me there's nothing bad about, you, Though
jay for Calling.

Speaker 3 (31:43):
Jay nice to meet.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
You so You jay another round on Doctor will and
doctor would In, God i'll tell you.

Speaker 3 (31:51):
WHAT i think we're quite good at.

Speaker 4 (31:52):
THAT i think we're quite good at.

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That that was, Great But Charlie anelyssa didn't say. Anything
then nothing to, say nothing to add good notes.

Speaker 4 (32:02):
Should jump in if we were Off, Charlie, Charlie, Hey.

Speaker 5 (32:05):
Charlie how are you?

Speaker 3 (32:07):
Good man? Good let's go. ON i have a.

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Speaker 9 (32:12):
Beer? Asked can you?

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Hear great?

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brought a she brought a case of green. Goblins she's
actually taking into one right. Now sexy dars our digital.
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does this a bit of a two pot. Squiller they
can't hold his, Beers kenny analyse he. Can't he said
he was feeling it a bit last week and he

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was drinking alcohol free.

Speaker 4 (32:36):
Beers he didn't.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
Realize, charlie why why are you? Interested?

Speaker 1 (32:40):
Mate are you you suggesting you drive a car past
at five o'clock or something Every?

Speaker 3 (32:45):
Friday, No, NO i was just, wondering that's.

Speaker 5 (32:49):
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Question the news crew the text, gets the news crew.
Gets that's pretty much how it. Works, charlie thanks you.

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for the, background matecause otherwise we're gonna get a what
how are, you? Mate what's going?

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Speaker 4 (33:33):
Teeth?

Speaker 3 (33:33):
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Speaker 9 (33:34):
Happened?

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Mate?

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was eating an apple AND i had a warldly tooth
AND i bit into the apple and THEN i saw
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Speaker 4 (33:49):
Truth then so then.

Speaker 6 (33:53):
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starting to get a little bit, annoying SO i just
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Jacko mm, hmm well darning, Mate and so AM i.

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for a. While how much is the tooth fairy giving these?

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Mhm wow.

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