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Speaker 1 (00:10):
My hard podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the Free.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I Hard het'e willam woo. Do you hope you're having
a wonderful drive home? Would?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I'm pretty excited about this because we've got another decode
the broom.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Always reach out to us, just to to the women
out there. If you've received some correspondence a message with
a bloke who're you're hoping to maybe one day date,
but you can maybe.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
It comes with your son or your dad.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I mean, men are everywhere, and they're always very confusing
and often very very difficult.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
So if you're relationships in general.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
I think men can be hard to understand. So I
think it's it's nice that we can. We're on the
inner sanctum. Obviously we're both men.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
We give the male perspective on the curious mind of men.
And today we've got our button push a cat. Who
you want to give a situation?
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Cat? You're early on with a guy?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Yes, so I'm four dates in with a new guy.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
Quick back story. He's a year older than me. He's
thirty three this year. He's got a great job, he
owns a house, he's got his life together. He's got
his ducks in a row, met on hinge. Yeah, four
dates in and it's been feeling really good. He's paid
for all of the meals on the dates right sign
which first two dates out and about third date relaxed
(01:34):
night in at his house. Okay, great, you know, turned
into a sleepover. Ok had a sleepover.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Great?
Speaker 1 (01:40):
And then I thought she was she had a kiss,
She had a kiss kiss or two?
Speaker 6 (01:43):
Yeah, right, okay here and then I thought, okay, what
happens after this? That's going to be. That's going to
tell me everything I need to know. He's either going
to disappear or he's.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Going to hang in after the sleepover.
Speaker 6 (01:53):
After the sleepover, of course, after the sleepover, continued talking,
still consistent, chatting every day.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Wanted to meet up again.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
The morning after the sleepover. Did you have breakfast together
or hang out together?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Or was that a.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
I can't remember? And I went home. I went home.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
You chose to go home.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I chose to go home because I had to let
the dog out.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Anyway, euphemism sorry the already been released.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
And then it was great after that, continually chatting. I
said to him, I'd love to see you again. He
said yes, absolutely, me too.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Okay, great, keep chatting.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
He's interested, he's like, you know, asking me questions, getting
to know me. And then fourth date was another sleepover.
But I will point out he was on the back
of like working for two weeks straight.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
He was tired, but he still made the time to
hang out.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Great sign. It's all great sign.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Yes, the sleep number two? Did that have like a
dinner or something beforehand?
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (02:54):
So was it just a kind of so he was,
he'd finished work, We went for a walk, we drove,
We drove somewhere nice and he told walk like around
the lake and stuff.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Yep, yep. And then we went and ordered food and
picked it up and got smash.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
So it's the whole a full kitten kerbuters, it's not
a booty cause basically what I'm saying, did you speak
over the two weeks while he was working full time?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yes, it sounds like it's on.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Yeah, properly. So what's happened recently?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Okay? So post post last sleepover a few days ago.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Texting for a couple of days, I'm on day two
of hearing nothing from him.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Can I ask what was the last bit of correspondence
between the two of you.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
Yep. I said something about that I'm doing at work,
and he was like, wow, that sounds amazing, that's so good.
And then he asked me a question. I can't remember
what it was. He kept the conversation going.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Him asking you a question, great sign he wants to
keep the conversation. So he asked you. You answered the.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Question, Yep, asked him a question, Nada.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
What's the question you asked him?
Speaker 6 (03:49):
It was pretty vague. He was just talking about how
he'd been to the gym at like nine thirty.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
At nine. I was like, wow, you can't.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Believe you do that?
Speaker 5 (03:54):
Like fit that in when you're really busy? That's good.
Do you often do that?
Speaker 4 (03:59):
That is that's trucking chat?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
How do you feel that in? Oh my god? Do
you often do that? Oh?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Okay? Good?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Can I just say it's not it's shocking chat, candy,
but it's not a it's not a it's not a
bad enough.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Thing to lead to not talking to you.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Yeah, all right, I think we've got to a song
here woulds We'll have a little bit of a chat
in the song, and I'll give my diagnosis on this bro.
Two days ago, I've had some bad chat, but just
the standard conversation. You've been talking pretty much every day
for how long?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Two months?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
And then he hasn't spoken to you now for two.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Days yep, at the end of two days.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Now, anything else that you could have done besides asking
him how he squeezes in a nine to thirty gym session,
that it would lead to him not talking to you.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I don't think so. I've been pretty good.
Speaker 6 (04:46):
But I will say as well that the chat on
text is not super in depth.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
We do that in person.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Oh nice.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
The chat has just been a little bit of how
have you been today? Setting up the next day?
Speaker 4 (04:58):
So you've seen how many texts a day on.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Average between three and five?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
So you're not you're not.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
But you haven't really sent him a great message there
that really deserved a response.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Not really.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
It was a question, though I think she has asked.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
So my thing with Datty was always if I've asked
a question and haven't got a response, then that was
always a bit of a whereas if I'd answered the
last text without a question, then technically it's on either
review to be the next one to message, right.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
But Kat's put herself out there by asking a question
because it's so comfortable, So like whatever, there's no jeopardy
in asking a question with someone that you're talking with. No,
have had four dates with it felt like there's been
a slow in conversation.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Can she double down and write a second message?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
I'm not going to do that. I'm not a chaser.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Yeah, I don't want to do that.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
It sounds like you've chased before.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, and I'm not doing it now.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
You're afraid of that, yeah, I just know.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
That that'll push him away about just not doing that.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You also mentioned that he was really busy, right, he's
got a full on job. Okay, so like there is
one hundred percent of I mean, don't get me wrong. It
takes ten seconds to write back to a message. I
do get that, but is a world he's so busy.
Sometimes I run back to messages in my head. I
know that sounds crazy, but like sometimes I will genuinely
think I've thought to write a message back and then
I've just forgotten to write back. It's only yeah, super handy,
(06:22):
super weirdly. I still use it as an excuse, and
obviously it doesn't What do.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
You think do you think he's uninterested?
Speaker 4 (06:29):
I don't know, I don't think he's uninterested.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I think we've got days here, like, leave it another
two to three days. I think if we're having the
same conversation in six days and he hasn't written back
shocked at this?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Unless why are you shocked at this?
Speaker 5 (06:43):
I feel like that's a long time.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I agree, I think that's a long time.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
How old this guy? How old is this guy?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Just texted, shut up? God, shut up? What he's back.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
And bits he texting like bits, he's busy, he's really important.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
So actually, the last things I sent to him, he
was like, I waselling him about where I went to dinner.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
He was like, what's the menu like? And I sent
him the menu, So there was that.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
There was a few.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
Yeah, he's just loved the menu, like love react to
the menu amazing. And he's just said the menu looks good.
And then he's just responded to my work thing that
I said, So we acknowledged that.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah, and he's about to answer.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
My stupid gym question hopefully.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Ah, so busy.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
I freaked out for nothing. This is a man for
all the ladies listening.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
This is a man who's let's decode this brother.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
This is a man who is over a man who
is over thirty.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Yeah, we're not always on our phones. We're bad at response.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
You've got to give us at least seventy two hours
before we start freaking out.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
What are you trying to say here? Men have more
things in their life. No, that is that the moral?
We've got worry about guys. We're busy. At least thought busy.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
You thought forty eight hours was a huge amount.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
That's two days of not thinking about me crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I agree, I'm thinking about them all the time, but
a little.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Yes, but I'm not what I was texting about it.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Yes, I am. Oh, that's good for you, gat great,
huge news. So I would just say, what's all?
Speaker 6 (08:28):
I'll leave it off one now, just leave it, just
just leave, just chill now.
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Do I wait a whole day to respond to him?
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Don't play that game? No, no, no, Georgia, no no,
I can't have this. That's the end of that's the
end of all relationships.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
If he wrote back something short and didn't ask you
a question, I agree with all the girls. You make
him wait three days, but he has written you like
four messages. He's responded to your questions.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I'd wait half an hour. How was your day's wass?
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Yeah? How was your day? Oh mate?
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Beautiful?
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Send him back a jiff, no dancing one, yes, alright,
don't
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Ye
My hard podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the Free.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I Hard het'e willam woo. Do you hope you're having
a wonderful drive home? Would?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I'm pretty excited about this because we've got another decode
the broom.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Always reach out to us, just to to the women
out there. If you've received some correspondence a message with
a bloke who're you're hoping to maybe one day date,
but you can maybe.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
It comes with your son or your dad.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
I mean, men are everywhere, and they're always very confusing
and often very very difficult.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
So if you're relationships in general.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
I think men can be hard to understand. So I
think it's it's nice that we can. We're on the
inner sanctum. Obviously we're both men.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
We give the male perspective on the curious mind of men.
And today we've got our button push a cat. Who
you want to give a situation?
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Cat? You're early on with a guy?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Yes, so I'm four dates in with a new guy.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
Quick back story. He's a year older than me. He's
thirty three this year. He's got a great job, he
owns a house, he's got his life together. He's got
his ducks in a row, met on hinge. Yeah, four
dates in and it's been feeling really good. He's paid
for all of the meals on the dates right sign
which first two dates out and about third date relaxed
(01:34):
night in at his house. Okay, great, you know, turned
into a sleepover. Ok had a sleepover.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Great?
Speaker 1 (01:40):
And then I thought she was she had a kiss,
She had a kiss kiss or two?
Speaker 6 (01:43):
Yeah, right, okay here and then I thought, okay, what
happens after this? That's going to be. That's going to
tell me everything I need to know. He's either going
to disappear or he's.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Going to hang in after the sleepover.
Speaker 6 (01:53):
After the sleepover, of course, after the sleepover, continued talking,
still consistent, chatting every day.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Wanted to meet up again.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
The morning after the sleepover. Did you have breakfast together
or hang out together?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Or was that a.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
I can't remember? And I went home. I went home.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
You chose to go home.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I chose to go home because I had to let
the dog out.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Anyway, euphemism sorry the already been released.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
And then it was great after that, continually chatting. I
said to him, I'd love to see you again. He
said yes, absolutely, me too.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Okay, great, keep chatting.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
He's interested, he's like, you know, asking me questions, getting
to know me. And then fourth date was another sleepover.
But I will point out he was on the back
of like working for two weeks straight.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
He was tired, but he still made the time to
hang out.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Great sign. It's all great sign.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Yes, the sleep number two? Did that have like a
dinner or something beforehand?
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (02:54):
So was it just a kind of so he was,
he'd finished work, We went for a walk, we drove,
We drove somewhere nice and he told walk like around
the lake and stuff.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Yep, yep. And then we went and ordered food and
picked it up and got smash.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
So it's the whole a full kitten kerbuters, it's not
a booty cause basically what I'm saying, did you speak
over the two weeks while he was working full time?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yes, it sounds like it's on.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Yeah, properly. So what's happened recently?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Okay? So post post last sleepover a few days ago.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Texting for a couple of days, I'm on day two
of hearing nothing from him.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Can I ask what was the last bit of correspondence
between the two of you.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
Yep. I said something about that I'm doing at work,
and he was like, wow, that sounds amazing, that's so good.
And then he asked me a question. I can't remember
what it was. He kept the conversation going.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Him asking you a question, great sign he wants to
keep the conversation. So he asked you. You answered the.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Question, Yep, asked him a question, Nada.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
What's the question you asked him?
Speaker 6 (03:49):
It was pretty vague. He was just talking about how
he'd been to the gym at like nine thirty.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
At nine. I was like, wow, you can't.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Believe you do that?
Speaker 5 (03:54):
Like fit that in when you're really busy? That's good.
Do you often do that?
Speaker 4 (03:59):
That is that's trucking chat?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
How do you feel that in? Oh my god? Do
you often do that? Oh?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Okay? Good?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Can I just say it's not it's shocking chat, candy,
but it's not a it's not a it's not a
bad enough.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Thing to lead to not talking to you.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Yeah, all right, I think we've got to a song
here woulds We'll have a little bit of a chat
in the song, and I'll give my diagnosis on this bro.
Two days ago, I've had some bad chat, but just
the standard conversation. You've been talking pretty much every day
for how long?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Two months?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
And then he hasn't spoken to you now for two.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Days yep, at the end of two days.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Now, anything else that you could have done besides asking
him how he squeezes in a nine to thirty gym session,
that it would lead to him not talking to you.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I don't think so. I've been pretty good.
Speaker 6 (04:46):
But I will say as well that the chat on
text is not super in depth.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
We do that in person.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Oh nice.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
The chat has just been a little bit of how
have you been today? Setting up the next day?
Speaker 4 (04:58):
So you've seen how many texts a day on.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Average between three and five?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
So you're not you're not.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
But you haven't really sent him a great message there
that really deserved a response.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Not really.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
It was a question, though I think she has asked.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
So my thing with Datty was always if I've asked
a question and haven't got a response, then that was
always a bit of a whereas if I'd answered the
last text without a question, then technically it's on either
review to be the next one to message, right.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
But Kat's put herself out there by asking a question
because it's so comfortable, So like whatever, there's no jeopardy
in asking a question with someone that you're talking with. No,
have had four dates with it felt like there's been
a slow in conversation.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Can she double down and write a second message?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
I'm not going to do that. I'm not a chaser.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Yeah, I don't want to do that.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
It sounds like you've chased before.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, and I'm not doing it now.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
You're afraid of that, yeah, I just know.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
That that'll push him away about just not doing that.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You also mentioned that he was really busy, right, he's
got a full on job. Okay, so like there is
one hundred percent of I mean, don't get me wrong. It
takes ten seconds to write back to a message. I
do get that, but is a world he's so busy.
Sometimes I run back to messages in my head. I
know that sounds crazy, but like sometimes I will genuinely
think I've thought to write a message back and then
I've just forgotten to write back. It's only yeah, super handy,
(06:22):
super weirdly. I still use it as an excuse, and
obviously it doesn't What do.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
You think do you think he's uninterested?
Speaker 4 (06:29):
I don't know, I don't think he's uninterested.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I think we've got days here, like, leave it another
two to three days. I think if we're having the
same conversation in six days and he hasn't written back
shocked at this?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Unless why are you shocked at this?
Speaker 5 (06:43):
I feel like that's a long time.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I agree, I think that's a long time.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
How old this guy? How old is this guy?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Just texted, shut up? God, shut up? What he's back.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
And bits he texting like bits, he's busy, he's really important.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
So actually, the last things I sent to him, he
was like, I waselling him about where I went to dinner.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
He was like, what's the menu like? And I sent
him the menu, So there was that.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
There was a few.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
Yeah, he's just loved the menu, like love react to
the menu amazing. And he's just said the menu looks good.
And then he's just responded to my work thing that
I said, So we acknowledged that.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah, and he's about to answer.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
My stupid gym question hopefully.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Ah, so busy.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
I freaked out for nothing. This is a man for
all the ladies listening.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
This is a man who's let's decode this brother.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
This is a man who is over a man who
is over thirty.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Yeah, we're not always on our phones. We're bad at response.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
You've got to give us at least seventy two hours
before we start freaking out.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
What are you trying to say here? Men have more
things in their life. No, that is that the moral?
We've got worry about guys. We're busy. At least thought busy.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
You thought forty eight hours was a huge amount.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
That's two days of not thinking about me crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I agree, I'm thinking about them all the time, but
a little.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Yes, but I'm not what I was texting about it.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Yes, I am. Oh, that's good for you, gat great,
huge news. So I would just say, what's all?
Speaker 6 (08:28):
I'll leave it off one now, just leave it, just
just leave, just chill now.
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Do I wait a whole day to respond to him?
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Don't play that game? No, no, no, Georgia, no no,
I can't have this. That's the end of that's the
end of all relationships.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
If he wrote back something short and didn't ask you
a question, I agree with all the girls. You make
him wait three days, but he has written you like
four messages. He's responded to your questions.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I'd wait half an hour. How was your day's wass?
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Yeah? How was your day? Oh mate?
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Beautiful?
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Send him back a jiff, no dancing one, yes, alright,
don't
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Ye
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