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Speaker 1 (00:10):
My Heart podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the Free I had but right now, I
when I talk about Turkey, a place that is famous
for hair transplants and plastic surgery, and some progressive thoughts
on divorce, Wilbur, So this is pretty wild.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
So if they're progressive, well, I've.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Got progressive thoughts on divorce, that's all I said. And
say they are progressive, I said progressive thoughts on divorce.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Don't go you mix up my act. They're quite backward
in that front. But yeah, that's just my opinion obviously.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Sure, well, I actually don't know what these dances at
all on divorce, but it's interesting to see in their
highest court Wilbur, they are saying that there are new
grounds of divorce, which is liking first traps.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I don't think that's progressive, fair enough.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
It's definitely moving forward with the times, like adding technology
into divorce. So if you if you're trying to divorce someone,
you wanting to divorce someone, yeah, you can bring up
evidence there which is like these are the photos that
they've liked obviously of other people, and then the judge
will go, yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Look, I don't know for sure, but I would say
it's it's largely a way for.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Men to be able to get rid of their wives
more easily.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
This is women going for men. This story that I'm
holding this, Yeah, this is guys. So, guys, So a
woman tried to divorce her husband. She brought evidence which
was literally the first trap photos of women.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
He was likeing, wow, and he was gone, and then
the highest court was like, do you know what bloody
eight is? That is grounds for divorce?
Speaker 1 (01:43):
I mean he must have liked a lot of first
traps one imagine it was just like exuper a. And
then did they refer to them as first traps? I
think this this media publication has probably taken it poet,
but they were using provocative photos of other women.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Effectively, do they have them up in the court. That's
pretty funny?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Well I imagine, well absolutely, flick through through and you
like this one and you're like, look anyway, got me thinking, yeah. Effectively,
this is a guy who's saying that he finds other
people attractive. You've said to me before that you believe
it is healthy to tell your current partner if you
find someone else attractive.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
What are they You need to pepper them with it,
like you don't want to walk down the street and
like twelve o'clock, twelve o'clock. No, I don't think so,
But like I think it's nice to have the open
conversation about how you feel. Like, you know, if you
if you find something like why shouldn't you be able
to talk about it? Who's attractive and not attractive?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Obviously if it's a bit close to home, you know,
if it's you, if it's in your friendship group or
you you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Like that, probably I felt like I was falling into
a bear trap before. When you know, when you're watching
a movie and your partner goes, do you find her attractive? Yeah,
it's like time stops for me in that moment where
I'm just like it just feels like this is a
trapped woman to fall into. The Other one is when
they go like, of all my friends, who do you
find most attractive?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Have you been thrown that one?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Ye?
Speaker 4 (03:01):
That should be a banned question. It shouldn't be allowed.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Well, as I've said to you before, is the difference
between what you think and what you feel and what
you do.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
You know, we're all human.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
It's very easy to see someone who's attractive without having
to do something about it.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
You know, that's completely within your control.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I think it's different when you go, oh, yeah, I
find them attractive and would you mind if I you
know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
That's a different kettle.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Now.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Absolutely, let's go to Julie here on thirteen one six.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
At the end of the day, you are You're just
a person like you. Of course you get attracted to people.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
And I guess in a way you're lying if you
say you don't exactly find them attracted?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
About it?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
So would you rather know? Would you rather not know?
I suppose that's a discussion for every relationship. Julie, what
do you reckon?
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Hi? God, how are you.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Think, Julie?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
What do you reckon?
Speaker 5 (03:48):
I think absolutely your partner or husband and wife whatever
shep and your best friend and you should have one
hundred transparency. And we're any humans. So it doesn't mean
just to build your marriage, can't God gave besides to
law has actually finding another person attractive. It doesn't mean
you're going to act on that.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yeah, exactly, How would you feel like, Julie if you did?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
You have wife or husband you've got a husband, So
I'm going to bring up that question again which my
wife has asked me before, which is like, which of
my friends do you find most attractive? The hard bit
is the next time you're at cocktails and cannapse and
then you're having a conversation with that friend who you
have previously said is the most attractive person in my
wife's friendship group.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Is that a bit of a sticky situation?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Well not really. If I feel with someone wheels uncomfortable,
then they've got their own insecurities and openly talk about it.
Everyone's going to be expected to someone else.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Right, So.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
In fact, I would say it's more stable within the
monogamous relationship that you're able to do that sort of
thing is either try trying to each other and if
you're like if there's a person you're most attracted to
in their friendship group, like gun to their head for
sake of the expression there's going to be someone in
your friendship group.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Who they are most attracted to.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I wouldn't ask the question.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
If you're at that cocktail party if they've both got
someone that you're most attracted, of course.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
You exactly, we're human, You're going to do anything about it,
but I find them very attractive.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Let's go to Fiona here. I'm probably in your tone
as well as Fianna.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Isn't healthy to tell your partner that you find someone
else attractive.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
If it's in your friend group. Absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
You do not open that can of worms.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
You go, which one of my like you were saying
about your wife, Which one of my friends do you
find attractive? None of them? You go?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
None?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
But what if that's a lie?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
You got a line?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
You know you're going to have to find one of
their friends quite attractive. What's that about, lie?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Lie? Light of the hills, Light of the hills, A
lot of the hills fire you in a relationship, Fiona.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
No, well, there you go.
My Heart podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen
live on the Free I had but right now, I
when I talk about Turkey, a place that is famous
for hair transplants and plastic surgery, and some progressive thoughts
on divorce, Wilbur, So this is pretty wild.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
So if they're progressive, well, I've.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Got progressive thoughts on divorce, that's all I said. And
say they are progressive, I said progressive thoughts on divorce.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Don't go you mix up my act. They're quite backward
in that front. But yeah, that's just my opinion obviously.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Sure, well, I actually don't know what these dances at
all on divorce, but it's interesting to see in their
highest court Wilbur, they are saying that there are new
grounds of divorce, which is liking first traps.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I don't think that's progressive, fair enough.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
It's definitely moving forward with the times, like adding technology
into divorce. So if you if you're trying to divorce someone,
you wanting to divorce someone, yeah, you can bring up
evidence there which is like these are the photos that
they've liked obviously of other people, and then the judge
will go, yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Look, I don't know for sure, but I would say
it's it's largely a way for.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Men to be able to get rid of their wives
more easily.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
This is women going for men. This story that I'm
holding this, Yeah, this is guys. So, guys, So a
woman tried to divorce her husband. She brought evidence which
was literally the first trap photos of women.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
He was likeing, wow, and he was gone, and then
the highest court was like, do you know what bloody
eight is? That is grounds for divorce?
Speaker 1 (01:43):
I mean he must have liked a lot of first
traps one imagine it was just like exuper a. And
then did they refer to them as first traps? I
think this this media publication has probably taken it poet,
but they were using provocative photos of other women.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Effectively, do they have them up in the court. That's
pretty funny?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Well I imagine, well absolutely, flick through through and you
like this one and you're like, look anyway, got me thinking, yeah. Effectively,
this is a guy who's saying that he finds other
people attractive. You've said to me before that you believe
it is healthy to tell your current partner if you
find someone else attractive.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
What are they You need to pepper them with it,
like you don't want to walk down the street and
like twelve o'clock, twelve o'clock. No, I don't think so,
But like I think it's nice to have the open
conversation about how you feel. Like, you know, if you
if you find something like why shouldn't you be able
to talk about it? Who's attractive and not attractive?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Obviously if it's a bit close to home, you know,
if it's you, if it's in your friendship group or
you you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Like that, probably I felt like I was falling into
a bear trap before. When you know, when you're watching
a movie and your partner goes, do you find her attractive? Yeah,
it's like time stops for me in that moment where
I'm just like it just feels like this is a
trapped woman to fall into. The Other one is when
they go like, of all my friends, who do you
find most attractive?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Have you been thrown that one?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Ye?
Speaker 4 (03:01):
That should be a banned question. It shouldn't be allowed.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Well, as I've said to you before, is the difference
between what you think and what you feel and what
you do.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
You know, we're all human.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
It's very easy to see someone who's attractive without having
to do something about it.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
You know, that's completely within your control.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I think it's different when you go, oh, yeah, I
find them attractive and would you mind if I you
know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
That's a different kettle.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Now.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Absolutely, let's go to Julie here on thirteen one six.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
At the end of the day, you are You're just
a person like you. Of course you get attracted to people.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
And I guess in a way you're lying if you
say you don't exactly find them attracted?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
About it?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
So would you rather know? Would you rather not know?
I suppose that's a discussion for every relationship. Julie, what
do you reckon?
Speaker 5 (03:44):
Hi? God, how are you.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Think, Julie?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
What do you reckon?
Speaker 5 (03:48):
I think absolutely your partner or husband and wife whatever
shep and your best friend and you should have one
hundred transparency. And we're any humans. So it doesn't mean
just to build your marriage, can't God gave besides to
law has actually finding another person attractive. It doesn't mean
you're going to act on that.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yeah, exactly, How would you feel like, Julie if you did?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
You have wife or husband you've got a husband, So
I'm going to bring up that question again which my
wife has asked me before, which is like, which of
my friends do you find most attractive? The hard bit
is the next time you're at cocktails and cannapse and
then you're having a conversation with that friend who you
have previously said is the most attractive person in my
wife's friendship group.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Is that a bit of a sticky situation?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Well not really. If I feel with someone wheels uncomfortable,
then they've got their own insecurities and openly talk about it.
Everyone's going to be expected to someone else.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Right, So.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
In fact, I would say it's more stable within the
monogamous relationship that you're able to do that sort of
thing is either try trying to each other and if
you're like if there's a person you're most attracted to
in their friendship group, like gun to their head for
sake of the expression there's going to be someone in
your friendship group.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Who they are most attracted to.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I wouldn't ask the question.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
If you're at that cocktail party if they've both got
someone that you're most attracted, of course.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
You exactly, we're human, You're going to do anything about it,
but I find them very attractive.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Let's go to Fiona here. I'm probably in your tone
as well as Fianna.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Isn't healthy to tell your partner that you find someone
else attractive.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
If it's in your friend group. Absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
You do not open that can of worms.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
You go, which one of my like you were saying
about your wife, Which one of my friends do you
find attractive? None of them? You go?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
None?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
But what if that's a lie?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
You got a line?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
You know you're going to have to find one of
their friends quite attractive. What's that about, lie?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Lie? Light of the hills, Light of the hills, A
lot of the hills fire you in a relationship, Fiona.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
No, well, there you go.
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