What does it really mean to be “ready” for Jesus—at Mass, at death, and at His coming? Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks start from the Communion prayer (“Lord, I am not worthy…”) and move into a practical vision of readiness: honest need, real repentance, and daily love. They unpack why salvation, healing, and holiness belong on one spectrum; how the Eucharist prepares us for a lifelong relationship, not a quick visit; and why Christ’s command “love one another as I have loved you” sets the measure. Throughout, we hold the three lenses: integrity with ourselves, charity toward others, under a living relationship with God.
Key Ideas
Readiness begins with need: “Only say the word and my soul shall be healed”—we cannot self-prepare; we ask for grace and mean the words we pray.
Mass as formation for life and death: hearing the Word, offering ourselves, receiving Jesus—practice for meeting Him at the end and every day.
From guest to covenant: not a tidy “company’s coming” moment but a shared life with God—ongoing cleaning, cooking, and reconciling.
Salvation = healing = holiness: one continuum—love poured into our wounds makes us whole and able to love like Christ.
Command of love: not just the “golden rule,” but Christ’s measure—love others as He loves (costly, steadfast, in the mess).
Links & References
Scripture mentioned (no links):
“Lord, I am not worthy that you should enter under my roof…” (cf. Matthew 8:8).
Parable of the Ten Virgins/Bridesmaids—watchfulness and readiness (Matthew 25:1–13).
“Love one another as I have loved you” (John 13:34).
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