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July 6, 2025 99 mins

Summary


In this episode of the Gird Up Podcast, host Charlie Ungemach interviews Ashley Fritz, a landscape architect and worship coordinator, about her journey of faith, experiences in a secular university, and the importance of community and genuine friendships. They discuss the challenges women face in the church, the significance of making faith personal, and the dynamics of dating in a Christian context. Ashley shares her insights on navigating peer pressure, building supportive relationships, and the evolving role of women in the church. In this conversation, Ashley Fritz and Charlie Ungemach explore the complexities of faith, relationships, and personal growth within the context of Christian values. They discuss the importance of being upfront about beliefs in dating, the value of being single, and the challenges young women face in the church. The conversation also touches on the state of young men in the church, the impact of societal norms on sexuality, and the significance of landscape architecture as a means to connect with God's creation. Throughout, they emphasize the importance of mentorship, community, and understanding one's purpose in life.


Chapters


00:00 Introduction to Gird Up Podcast and Support

04:14 Staying Involved in Faith Post-College

08:54 Navigating the Party Culture at University

14:33 Building a Supportive Community in College

17:19 Preparing for Temptations and Challenges

20:07 Evangelism and Outreach in a Secular Environment

23:07 The Importance of Approach in Conversations

24:56 Reflections on Conversations with Different Beliefs

25:58 The Importance of Speaking Truth

27:45 Searching for Identity and Belonging

28:10 The Depth of True Christian Friendships

30:19 Navigating New Friendships in a New Place

32:14 The Role of Faith in Friendships

33:36 Choosing Friends Wisely

36:51 Creating a Culture of Meaningful Conversations

38:14 The Decline of Young Women in Church

41:29 Understanding Gender Roles in the Church

43:57 Ensuring Women Feel Valued in Church

45:45 The Experience of Being Heard in Church

47:31 Dating as a Single Woman in the Church

52:59 Navigating Faith and Relationships

56:18 The Freedom of Singleness vs. Desire for Family

59:07 The Value of Being Single in God's Kingdom

01:01:48 Cultural Influences on Women's Value

01:05:23 The State of Young Men in the Church

01:12:05 Challenges of Sexuality in Christian Dating

01:17:02 The Importance of Respect and Understanding Past Mistakes

01:20:17 Healing and Forgiveness in the Context of Sexuality

01:24:42 The Journey into Landscape Architecture

01:28:37 The Connection Between Nature and Human Well-being

01:33:57 Designing with Purpose: Understanding Creation

01:39:21 Natural Living and the Return to Simplicity


Ashley's Links:

https://www.instagram.com/refugeraleigh?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

https://www.instagram.com/ash.monette/https://www.instagram.com/ash.monette/


Gird Up Links:

https://youtube.com/@girdupministries4911?si=tbCa0SOiluVl8UFx

https://www.instagram.com/girdup_be_a_man/

https://www.girdupministries.com


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