1040 - Jacob Kieselhorst

Summary

In this episode of the Gird Up podcast, host Charlie Ungemach interviews Jacob Kieselhorst, a recent seminary graduate and new pastor. They delve into the complex topic of toxic masculinity, exploring its definitions, societal implications, and the biblical perspective on masculinity. Jacob shares insights from his thesis on the subject, discussing the historical evolution of gender roles and the impact of modern society on men's behavior. The conversation emphasizes the importance of active fatherhood and the need for dialogue in addressing the challenges faced by men and women today. In this conversation, Jacob K and Charlie Ungemach explore the profound impact of fatherhood on identity, the importance of listening to understand others' experiences, and the role of scripture in defining masculinity. They emphasize the necessity of knowing Christ personally and presenting the unconditional love of God to those who have experienced negative father figures. The discussion also delves into various perspectives on masculinity found in literature, highlighting the need for a balanced understanding of manhood informed by Christian teachings.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Gird Up Podcast

05:59 Exploring Toxic Masculinity: The Thesis Behind the Discussion

12:09 Defining Toxic Masculinity: Perspectives and Challenges

21:13 The Other Side: Embracing Traditional Masculinity

30:43 Masculinity: The Struggle Between Hyper-Masculinity and Vulnerability

37:06 Historical Context: The Evolution of Gender Roles

42:48 The Role of Pornography in Modern Relationships

47:59 The Importance of Fathers in the Home

50:05 The Cycle of Emotional Wounds

52:51 Understanding the Roots of Anger

56:50 The Role of Scripture in Defining Masculinity

01:01:33 The Difference Between Kindness and Niceness

01:06:10 Knowing Christ: A Personal Relationship

01:11:33 The Beauty of God's Love Amidst Pain

01:12:16 The Prodigal Son: A Father's Love

01:13:45 God the Father: A Different Kind of Love

01:14:26 Forgiveness and Redemption for Fathers

01:14:56 Living Out the Christian Example

01:16:23 The Impact of Living Faithfully

01:17:19 Listening and Engaging in Conversations

01:17:57 Sharing Personal Testimonies

01:18:41 Evaluating Christian Literature

01:20:40 Understanding Negative Perceptions of Christianity

01:22:22 The Importance of Positive Male Figures

01:24:29 The Role of Mentorship in Healing

01:25:43 The Power of Presence in Relationships

01:27:39 Restoring Order Through Godly Leadership

01:29:05 The Need for Proper Masculine Role Models

01:30:33 Presenting Unconditional Love in Christ

01:31:16 Navigating Masculinity in Christian Literature

01:33:21 The Importance of Understanding Different Perspectives

Jacob's Links:

https://www.menshealth.com/trending-news/a60258262/crossroads-church-man-camp/

https://pastor.trinity-pres.net

http://essays.wls.edu:8080/handle/123456789/7676

Gird Up Links:

https://youtube.com/@girdupministries4911?si=tbCa0SOiluVl8UFx

https://www.instagram.com/girdup_be_a_man/

https://www.girdupministries.com

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