In a world of hookup culture, casual sex, and dating apps, what relationship advice will actually serve our children well?
While many parents avoid these uncomfortable conversations altogether, I believe our children deserve real guidance about dating, relationships, and marriage. They need more than just 'follow your heart' or 'do whatever feels right.'
In this honest discussion, I share the dating advice I'll give my own children as they enter their teen years. Drawing from both traditional values and practical wisdom, I cover:
- The fundamental purpose of dating (and why 'just for fun' might be setting them up for heartbreak)
- The surprising benefits of marrying younger rather than waiting for perfect 'readiness' - Why involving family and friends in relationship decisions is actually wise, not old-fashioned
- The hidden costs of casual relationships that most dating advice ignores
- How to maintain personal independence while building a strong partnership
This isn't about imposing restrictive rules or outdated thinking. It's about equipping our children with the tools to build meaningful, lasting relationships in a culture that often treats commitment as optional and marriage as outdated.
Whether you agree with my approach or have a completely different perspective, this conversation matters. Our children need more guidance, not less, when navigating today's confusing relationship landscape.
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Books mentioned:
The Case Against the Sexual Revolution by Louise Perry (https://amzn.to/4izEAWH)
A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century: The Young Adult Adaptation of 'The Case Against the Sexual Revolution' by Louise Perry (https://amzn.to/4kS7rHd)
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