Relationships are messy, chaotic, and often feel impossibly hard. But what if the secret to navigating them isn't about being "right," but about finding alignment? This episode dives into the foundational shift needed to move past conflict and build stronger connections.
00:00 The chaos of life and relationships
00:55 We are not relationship gurus, but we've learned to navigate hard shit
01:29 We are experts at mess
01:53 The goal is to take emotion out of conflict
02:40 Don't try to be right
03:30 Focus on clarity and alignment
04:15 Two perspectives, two different realities
08:20 The biggest mistake people make in relationships
15:00 The "us against the problem" mentality
22:10 Understanding your partner's values
28:45 How to communicate when you're both triggered
LINKS
🔗 Couples Decode ($47): https://integrativeyou.health/couples-decode
🔗 Couples & Family Alignment Program: https://integrativeyou.health/couples
🔗 Website: https://integrativeyou.health
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