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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Adam,
good morning, welcome, Hey, thank you so much for having
me our pleasure waiting by the phone. Of course, what's
going on with this woman, Kelly? And give us all
the background, tell us about any dates that you've been on,
how you guys met, how things went, and what's going
on now.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah. Absolutely so.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
My buddy Sam set me up on this day with Kelly,
and like I was super excited, made her. I mean
he really sold her to me right, like good looking, fit, accessful, driven,
all that jazz. And then when we met up, like
she was everything Sam says she was and complained like
and more like we got cocktails, we got drinks, We
(00:44):
like walked down the street for a while, and what
we're supposed to be just drinks turned into like a
five hour dates like it was fantastic. We were texting afterwards,
and then suddenly a couple of days later, just wham,
nothing like total silence, total ghosts. And there were so
(01:05):
many good signs leading up to that, and I have
no idea what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, so this, you know, this drink could have been
an hour with a couple or this date. Rather it
could have been an hour with a couple of drinks
and said is five hours long, Which that's a really
good sign. You know it's not going well. You do
the two drink thing in your bounce.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Honestly, Like I even have like a friend who sometimes
I'll like code call and then heal, you know, get
me out of there if that happen, if it's not
a good date. But that there was no nothing like
that whatsoever like this. This was totally amicable, so friendly,
like just it's like I had a known her for months,
(01:42):
if not years.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Were so nice.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
You didn't get into like something you'd like to do
with your toes or ankle, I don't know, something, nothing
like that.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Wow okay, I mean, I mean there.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
There's the little thing about fingers, but that was about it. No, no, no,
don't worry about that. That was honestly, it was really kind.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Really what.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I'm just joking, I was gonna say it, Ben, that
may save us a time. No, okay, So let's call
this woman Kelly uh and see if we can get
her on the phone and ask some questions for you
and figure out what's going on. Hopefully we can straighten
things out. And set you guys up on another date
and pay for that.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
All right, okay, sounds good to me.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back and
do it. Hang on, Adam, let's see what's going on
part to you of waiting.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
By the phone.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
After Billy eilis back in two minutes.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Billy Eilis. The Fred Show's on.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
The radio, and the iHeart app anytime search for the
Fred Show on demand. And if you love waiting by
the phone, you gotta follow us on TikTok right now,
The Fred Show, TikTok, Adam, all right, welcome back. Let's
call Kelly. You guys, you had a five hour first date.
You thought it went great, you were even texting afterwards,
and then all of a sudden she goes silent, and
you want to know why?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'd really be interested to know. All right, let's call
her now. Good luck, he Hi, This is Kelly Kelly.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Good morning Fred from the Fred Show. Everybody is here
starry to bother. But I do have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your consent to continue with the calls.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
That okay, if we chat for a second, what do
you want to talk about?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Is that a yes? That's an okay, Yes, that's a yes.
Maybe yeah, yeah, I mean you can hang up whenever
you want, but thank you. We're calling on behalf of
a guy named Adam. Who you got I think you got? Yeah,
set up with a common friend and you had a
first date and chatted for a while.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Do you remember this guy? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Okay, Well he reached out to us and described really
what he thought was a successful first date five hours long.
He said, lots of chatting, and you guys were texting
after and then he says, you disappeared.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
So what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Well?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
I was really.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
But he he lied, I mean he lied about who
he was.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
He lied about who he was. How did he do that?
Is his name not Adam?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Is he? What's the deal?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
His name is Adam? You know, he just didn't like it,
really hit it off and he was a great guy.
And then I didn't what I didn't know? Nobody told
me that they had no idea that he had previously
hooked up with the person who who matched this up with?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Sam? And who is and I know, I that's my friend.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
He's a guy.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Oh oh okay, So Okay, so you didn't know he
was bisexual.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
No, I didn't know he was you know, I didn't
know Day or anything. I mean, I'm not homophobic, but
that's something like I feel like I had a right
to know.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
I went on a DA Well that's that's Adam. By
the way, Adam is here, Kelly, Adam, you know each other.
I just want to make something clear. Are you Are
you more bothered by the fact that he hooked up
with your common friend who sets you up, or are
you more bothered by the fact that he appears to
be bisexual and didn't disclose that.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, I'm just.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Bothered and he didn't tell me that I did that,
I didn't know. I feel like that's something I should know,
especially that I guess I'm bothered by balls because I'm
kind of bothered that he hooked up with Sam, and
I'm bothered that nobody that it wasn't made clear to
me that he was gay.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Like just just well if I can jump in, yeah, yeah,
jump in here first. Yeah, Like, yes, I'm sexually fluid,
like Sam, Sam is gay, and like a year or
so ago, like yeah, there was there was a moment
where we kind of messed around very casually, nothing more
(05:43):
than that. And like we actually decided after that to
just be friends. Not a big deal, nothing, nothing has
ever come up since. And like I was entirely honest
with you, with with who I am, and like I mean,
I don't, I don't, I don't know about you. But
to me, discussing my sexual pass on a first date
isn't really a thing that I do.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Mean, you liked him, You liked him just a face
value for what you know about him. And I mean
a lot of people have a sexual pass very all
kinds of different parameters and variables and whatever. And I
agree with him. I don't think that's necessarily something that
comes up on a first an.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Well I still do, so you know. And yes, people
have a sexual past, but not necessarily with the one
that matched you together.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
If you're going to be mad at anyone, I would
be mad at Sam because he's your friend.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
And I thought you would think that he would say, like, hey,
we've hooked up before. You know what I'm saying, right,
I feel.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Kind of like do I mean, I'm sure Adam maybe
should have said do you did you tell her?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't know this whole thing like, look, what I
want to know. I would want to know early on.
But if you were to say to me, if a
buddy of mine calls me and goes, I hooked up
with this, but you should totally go out with her
and whatever, I don't know that I would take that
very seriously. And so the fact that you liked him
and you know enough to go on a five hour
date and then chat with him afterwards, you know, yeah,
(07:13):
you learned this extra detail. But I mean, I don't
know that you wouldn't have even met Adam. I bet
if it had all come out in the beginning, I was.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Gonna say, it's not like it's you know, it's not
like I'm Sam sloppy seconds or anything. It's like this
has been over a year. Like he thinks well enough
of me to set us up.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
Like I think too, Like if you guys, if you
and Sam were in a committed relationship with some form,
I think that changes.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Things because it was casual.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
Exactly, And I don't think it's a really I don't
think it's important fact that you had to disclose in
my opinion.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
But frankly, Kelly and you kind of I think you
said this flat out of a few minutes ago. You're
making it a little more about the Sam thing. But
the issue, really, I think for you is that he's fluid.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I think that you should have been disclosed to me. Really,
I just yeah, I think it's one is gay.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
They they I.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Should know before I go on a date with them.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Maybe.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Well, Look, I am not gay, if anything, I am
by I'm sexually fluid, and I honestly I really prefer women,
but quite frankly not not closed minded women.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I mean, we've had people on waiting by the phone
before who identified as gay, and we're experimenting using someone
else knowingly.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I think that's unfair. I don't want that though.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
That's time for me, so I think that should have
been told to me.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Okay, all right, Well, and he doesn't want to go
out with you anymore either, so I guess we're all
on the same page. So Adam, thank you for sharing
your story. Kelly, thank you for your time as well.
Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
Thank for having me.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
The Entertainer Report
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Three hundred bucks with show v is Shelly in the Showdown,
The throw Back, Thrown Out All next fread show Back
in two minutes,
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Adam,
good morning, welcome, Hey, thank you so much for having
me our pleasure waiting by the phone. Of course, what's
going on with this woman, Kelly? And give us all
the background, tell us about any dates that you've been on,
how you guys met, how things went, and what's going
on now.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah. Absolutely so.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
My buddy Sam set me up on this day with Kelly,
and like I was super excited, made her. I mean
he really sold her to me right, like good looking, fit, accessful, driven,
all that jazz. And then when we met up, like
she was everything Sam says she was and complained like
and more like we got cocktails, we got drinks, We
(00:44):
like walked down the street for a while, and what
we're supposed to be just drinks turned into like a
five hour dates like it was fantastic. We were texting afterwards,
and then suddenly a couple of days later, just wham,
nothing like total silence, total ghosts. And there were so
(01:05):
many good signs leading up to that, and I have
no idea what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, so this, you know, this drink could have been
an hour with a couple or this date. Rather it
could have been an hour with a couple of drinks
and said is five hours long, Which that's a really
good sign. You know it's not going well. You do
the two drink thing in your bounce.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Honestly, Like I even have like a friend who sometimes
I'll like code call and then heal, you know, get
me out of there if that happen, if it's not
a good date. But that there was no nothing like
that whatsoever like this. This was totally amicable, so friendly,
like just it's like I had a known her for months,
(01:42):
if not years.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Were so nice.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
You didn't get into like something you'd like to do
with your toes or ankle, I don't know, something, nothing
like that.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Wow okay, I mean, I mean there.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
There's the little thing about fingers, but that was about it. No, no, no,
don't worry about that. That was honestly, it was really kind.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Really what.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I'm just joking, I was gonna say it, Ben, that
may save us a time. No, okay, So let's call
this woman Kelly uh and see if we can get
her on the phone and ask some questions for you
and figure out what's going on. Hopefully we can straighten
things out. And set you guys up on another date
and pay for that.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
All right, okay, sounds good to me.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back and
do it. Hang on, Adam, let's see what's going on
part to you of waiting.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
By the phone.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
After Billy eilis back in two minutes.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Billy Eilis. The Fred Show's on.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
The radio, and the iHeart app anytime search for the
Fred Show on demand. And if you love waiting by
the phone, you gotta follow us on TikTok right now,
The Fred Show, TikTok, Adam, all right, welcome back. Let's
call Kelly. You guys, you had a five hour first date.
You thought it went great, you were even texting afterwards,
and then all of a sudden she goes silent, and
you want to know why?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'd really be interested to know. All right, let's call
her now. Good luck, he Hi, This is Kelly Kelly.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Good morning Fred from the Fred Show. Everybody is here
starry to bother. But I do have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your consent to continue with the calls.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
That okay, if we chat for a second, what do
you want to talk about?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Is that a yes? That's an okay, Yes, that's a yes.
Maybe yeah, yeah, I mean you can hang up whenever
you want, but thank you. We're calling on behalf of
a guy named Adam. Who you got I think you got? Yeah,
set up with a common friend and you had a
first date and chatted for a while.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Do you remember this guy? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Okay, Well he reached out to us and described really
what he thought was a successful first date five hours long.
He said, lots of chatting, and you guys were texting
after and then he says, you disappeared.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
So what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Well?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
I was really.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
But he he lied, I mean he lied about who
he was.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
He lied about who he was. How did he do that?
Is his name not Adam?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Is he? What's the deal?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
His name is Adam? You know, he just didn't like it,
really hit it off and he was a great guy.
And then I didn't what I didn't know? Nobody told
me that they had no idea that he had previously
hooked up with the person who who matched this up with?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Sam? And who is and I know, I that's my friend.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
He's a guy.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Oh oh okay, So Okay, so you didn't know he
was bisexual.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
No, I didn't know he was you know, I didn't
know Day or anything. I mean, I'm not homophobic, but
that's something like I feel like I had a right
to know.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
I went on a DA Well that's that's Adam. By
the way, Adam is here, Kelly, Adam, you know each other.
I just want to make something clear. Are you Are
you more bothered by the fact that he hooked up
with your common friend who sets you up, or are
you more bothered by the fact that he appears to
be bisexual and didn't disclose that.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, I'm just.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Bothered and he didn't tell me that I did that,
I didn't know. I feel like that's something I should know,
especially that I guess I'm bothered by balls because I'm
kind of bothered that he hooked up with Sam, and
I'm bothered that nobody that it wasn't made clear to
me that he was gay.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Like just just well if I can jump in, yeah, yeah,
jump in here first. Yeah, Like, yes, I'm sexually fluid,
like Sam, Sam is gay, and like a year or
so ago, like yeah, there was there was a moment
where we kind of messed around very casually, nothing more
(05:43):
than that. And like we actually decided after that to
just be friends. Not a big deal, nothing, nothing has
ever come up since. And like I was entirely honest
with you, with with who I am, and like I mean,
I don't, I don't, I don't know about you. But
to me, discussing my sexual pass on a first date
isn't really a thing that I do.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Mean, you liked him, You liked him just a face
value for what you know about him. And I mean
a lot of people have a sexual pass very all
kinds of different parameters and variables and whatever. And I
agree with him. I don't think that's necessarily something that
comes up on a first an.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Well I still do, so you know. And yes, people
have a sexual past, but not necessarily with the one
that matched you together.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
If you're going to be mad at anyone, I would
be mad at Sam because he's your friend.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
And I thought you would think that he would say, like, hey,
we've hooked up before. You know what I'm saying, right,
I feel.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Kind of like do I mean, I'm sure Adam maybe
should have said do you did you tell her?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't know this whole thing like, look, what I
want to know. I would want to know early on.
But if you were to say to me, if a
buddy of mine calls me and goes, I hooked up
with this, but you should totally go out with her
and whatever, I don't know that I would take that
very seriously. And so the fact that you liked him
and you know enough to go on a five hour
date and then chat with him afterwards, you know, yeah,
(07:13):
you learned this extra detail. But I mean, I don't
know that you wouldn't have even met Adam. I bet
if it had all come out in the beginning, I was.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Gonna say, it's not like it's you know, it's not
like I'm Sam sloppy seconds or anything. It's like this
has been over a year. Like he thinks well enough
of me to set us up.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
Like I think too, Like if you guys, if you
and Sam were in a committed relationship with some form,
I think that changes.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Things because it was casual.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
Exactly, And I don't think it's a really I don't
think it's important fact that you had to disclose in
my opinion.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
But frankly, Kelly and you kind of I think you
said this flat out of a few minutes ago. You're
making it a little more about the Sam thing. But
the issue, really, I think for you is that he's fluid.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I think that you should have been disclosed to me. Really,
I just yeah, I think it's one is gay.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
They they I.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Should know before I go on a date with them.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Maybe.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Well, Look, I am not gay, if anything, I am
by I'm sexually fluid, and I honestly I really prefer women,
but quite frankly not not closed minded women.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
I mean, we've had people on waiting by the phone
before who identified as gay, and we're experimenting using someone
else knowingly.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I think that's unfair. I don't want that though.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
That's time for me, so I think that should have
been told to me.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Okay, all right, Well, and he doesn't want to go
out with you anymore either, so I guess we're all
on the same page. So Adam, thank you for sharing
your story. Kelly, thank you for your time as well.
Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
Thank for having me.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
The Entertainer Report
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Three hundred bucks with show v is Shelly in the Showdown,
The throw Back, Thrown Out All next fread show Back
in two minutes,
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