April 22, 2025 • 31 mins
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all right, Daniel, he is here, Hi Daniel, good morning,
Good morning Daniel.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
What's going on with this is you're a married man, okay,
and you got some kids and your wife is up
to something. You think, maybe what's the situation?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
So I wanted to get some advice, you know, relationship advice.
So my youngest daughter mentioned something to me about mommy's
new friend Jeff's house. So I was, you know, kind
of caught off guard by that. So I asked my wife.
She told me their kids. You know, my daughter made
friends at the park with this girl, and they went
(05:57):
over to their house, the new friend's house, for a
play date.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
And Jeff is their dad.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Okay, Jeff is all right, all right, So the kids
are playing and they go over to Jeff's house.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
Yeah, And so I was just a little put off
by that, Like my wife didn't tell me I had
to find out through my daughter, and so I guess
my way I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Am I wrong to be bothered at?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
My wife was married to me obviously went over to
a single man's house. This is a single dad, and
I didn't know anything about it.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I don't think this is a problem. Why is this
a problem? It's not Why is this a problem? I mean,
the kids are playing like. It's not the kid's fault
that you know Jeff got divorced or whatever. Sorry for
your love, Jeff, I mean, right, I'm sorry. What if
Jeff's gay?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Do we know?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
What do we know about Jeff? How much do we
know about this man? I mean, I mean, I'm being honest.
I'm not I'm not invalidating your concern. I just I think, like,
do you do you always? Are you always fully briefed
on the on the relationship status of the parents of
the playdate? Honestly? And I'm not again, Daniel, I'm not
making funny here, but I'm serious, No, I mean.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
And I confronted my wife and she said, you know,
it's not a big deal. She just the fact that
she didn't bring it up, you know, being suspicious, and
you know, obviously I'm a little insecure about it, and I,
you know, I think if the tables were turned and
I was stay at home dad and I went to
a single mom's house, I would be, you know, have
the wherewithal to tell my wife, Hey, I'm going over
to you know whatever, Stacy's house and you know, hang
(07:23):
out with it, you know, just so you're aware of
what's going on. The fact that it wasn't you know,
he mentioned to me put me off. I had to
find out through my daughter. And then the way she said,
she's like mommy's new friend.
Speaker 7 (07:33):
Jeff.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Okay, Well, the wording of that was a little.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Like I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna put a crazy
one out there for you because I am crazy, so
I can do that. Let's say that your wife went
over to Samantha's house and Samantha had a couple of kids.
We're not worried about that, right, We don't say anything
about that about Samantha a single mom.
Speaker 7 (07:54):
Right.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
Sure, No, I'm not worried about that because.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
It turns out as a lesbian ooh, but it turns
out his wife is exploring, experimenting. Turns out not to
say I'm just saying if it were a woman, we
wouldn't say anything about this, and we wouldn't say anything
because we don't think there's a sexual threat, because that's
what this is about. This is about the potential for
a sexual threat, when really it's about the kids playing. Now,
(08:22):
I admitted last hour, I'm an insecure person. This doesn't
bother me because why I'm married to this person. Why
are they automatically cheating on me? If they're alone with
a single person, that could be happening anywhere.
Speaker 8 (08:33):
Why, old Jose, why are you in the house where
the kids supposed to play.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
At a park? The kids play at a park.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
You don't need to be a Tim's house or John's
house without telling me anything. John could be a serial killer,
and you got you and my kids in that house
and no one has said anything to me.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
But Samantha could be a serial killer.
Speaker 8 (08:51):
Jamantha, Samantha could, But I know John might be for real,
I'm not no, no, no, no. My man doesn't need to
be in any other woman's house without mind.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You, guys, if she were alone, if she were like,
if the kids weren't there, Yeah.
Speaker 8 (09:05):
That's a broadlem noted the kids might have been in
the basement playing at her and what Timmy, what's his name?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Jeff, mom's friends Jeff.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yam yeah, stands playing.
Speaker 9 (09:14):
People are texting that they're saying, why are they saying
Jeff's Mommy's friend, Jeff's house and not my friend Susie right,
like you know the age of the kids, Like maybe
that's you guys.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
I am a Look, I am insecure in relationships in
many I have a lot of unreasonable thoughts about what
I am into and what I'm not into, and what
I think is cool, what I don't think is cool.
But I have to tell you when it comes to
the kids, I mean there's there are going to be
situations where one parents, they are the other parents not
(09:45):
single parent, moms at work, dads at work, you know,
soccer practice moms there, dad took the kids, mom.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
And sister wives everybody.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Well, I'm just saying, why do we automatically jump to
there has to be infidelity.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
I don't think infidelity my bige, Well, my concern is
maybe I over communicate with my husband. But do people
not talk at the end of the night where it's
like you're in bed you want to, you know, tuck
yourself in, Oh, how was your day?
Speaker 4 (10:10):
All? It was good.
Speaker 9 (10:11):
We went to Jeff's house and little Susie played with
little Jimmy and they had a great time. Like, why
are they not telling each other this? I tell my
husband everything. I'll be like, oh, yeah, I was here today.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
I mean, be more concerned, Paulina, if it were over
explained to me. Now, Jeff's a single day, but you
have nothing to work about it because the kids. I'd
be like, wait a minute, he's gay.
Speaker 8 (10:31):
No, not even that.
Speaker 9 (10:32):
It's just like I feel like you just communicate with
your partner and say, how is your day?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
What did you do? Would you see?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Where'd you go?
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Like, I don't know, it's a little banter. No, do
you have any suspicion of your wife? Otherwise?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
I think I'm not invalidating your feelings because there are
a lot of people apparently did agree with you, that
think it's inappropriate. I guess when it comes to the kids,
I guess I don't necessarily think you get to choose,
you know, the marital status of the parents of the
kids that your friends befriend, right.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
I tend to agree with your co hosts.
Speaker 6 (11:02):
I think everything should be out in the open and
have an open line of communication. If there's nothing to hide,
then u's nothing you can't say then, just to be
open and just whether and if she went to a
female's house. I'd like to know that too, just for
the fact that we're married, we're life partners. Our lives,
you know, do revolve around each other and our children.
So it's nice to know if God forbid, something does
(11:24):
happen where she was, what she's doing. So I think
that's only fair an open line of communication and a
marriage to me, and I would offer her the same
respect from my vantage point. If the table's returned, so
me not getting it. It's just alarm bells went off.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, and I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
I just think there are far more sinister ways to
conceal infidelity then play dates out And maybe it's maybe
it's like you know, right out in the open. Maybe
you should be worried about this because it's just so
obvious that. But at the same time, if you don't
suspect your wife, if you don't suspect she's a cheater,
if you've never suspected she's a cheater, then why are
(12:01):
we putting that on her now? In this one situation
that is pretty easily explainable. The kids met at the park,
they hung out. It's not as though you can say, no, kids,
I'm sorry, but we can't go over to that house
because daddy says that Jeff's a predator, you know, and Daniel,
I'm just I mean, it sounds ridiculous, and again not
making fun of you, but like, come on, you know
what I mean. It's not as though she I don't
(12:22):
think we targeted the guy in the playground. Hey, kids,
go play with those kids because daddy's hot, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
I find it a respect. I wouldn't do that on
my end.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
I wouldn't go to a single our female's house, whether
single or marriage. Just to me, it would be just
putting yourself in a situation where it's not necessary. So
I just wouldn't do that. So I feel like I
should be given that in return, as you know, equal boundaries,
and it's just not even putting myself in the situation.
It just temptation isn't even there. There's no you know,
(12:53):
because that's what leads to others things. It's just it
can easily go down that path.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
So I'd rather not even dabble.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
This isiculous.
Speaker 9 (13:00):
I'm gonna say, communicate with your partner at the end
of the night, when you're having your tea, whatever.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
You guys do together at night, your wine. Just say
this is how my day went. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (13:07):
But he's taking it too far now, just because you're
a single mom all of a sudden, like you're attempted.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
Come on, like, relax, what's at Jeff's house that's not
at our house?
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Maybe Jeff, maybe he's a cool guy with the bounce
house or the.
Speaker 8 (13:26):
No no no, maybe you gotta be the loop because
they were in the backyard. They say, we were in
their house. Hey, why what's in Jeff's house that is
not at our house? I come on, you don't know.
I'm telling you guys, I don't leave your wife, but
you need to investigate. You need to go to work
and circle the block and pop up house.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
You guys, we can't just suspect our partners of cheating
all the time, just automatically because we're alone with another
single person, Like, we just can't do that. Let me
take some Let me take some phone coast Downaniel, have
a great day. Thanks for calling.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yes, I don't even know. They don't have to be
single for things to happen.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Also, there's so many other ways this could be sincere, nefarious,
and I just guys, come on and people are like, Fred,
you're wrong about guys. Last hour, I told you I'm insecure.
At this hour, I'm like a ghost. I'm out a ghost.
But in this hour, guys, I can't.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
I cannot.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
If I'm married to someone, I cannot constantly police who
they're with and win and why. Okay, so she goes
to work and there's a single guy the cubicle next
to her.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
They're doing it.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
No, No, they're at work, their work, they're not.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
That doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Did you see a story in Charlotte last week and
the people who have work and they go to the
top of the parking garage and they're doing it in
the back of the car. And it went viral in
all of the world, all over TikTok because these people
were doing it in the middle of work.
Speaker 8 (14:46):
Imagine what they're doing in the back of a Forerunner
where there's a bed.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
Imagine what you write you.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Guys, Come on, Megan, Hi, Megan, good morning, hy.
Speaker 10 (14:55):
Good morning. I cannot believe I got through. But anyways,
I think it definitely needs to be a conversation. I'm
not saying he needs to go, but there needs to
be more of a conversation. The little girl said, mommy's
new friend.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
The little girl.
Speaker 10 (15:08):
Didn't say my new friend.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
That's right.
Speaker 10 (15:13):
I think it doesn't matter like kids know like kids,
kids are smart, and so I think that the way
that the little girl phrased it, she didn't talk about
her new friend Susie. She talked about mom's new friend,
Jeff's house. Whether Jeff has kids or Jeff's single, it
doesn't matter one way or the other. The way that
(15:33):
this was set up was mom was going to her
friend's house. A little girl didn't go to her friend.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
My sister thought she was a horse when she was
a toddler. You know, like maybe she just phrased it
that way.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
I don't know that.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
I mean, you're right, maybe there's a raw honesty from
a child that you know is truly revealing. But someone texted,
I'm being disrespectful or insensitive about this.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
No, I'm not. What I'm doing is I'm not automatically
running to infidel just because he did.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
That's his concern, and I'm not being I'm not being insensitive,
but I'm I'm I'm arguing that I don't think that's
fair to her, a person who he's married to and
trust and had kids with, and says admittedly on our show,
he's had no reason to doubt her. And now all
of a sudden, their kids meet a single dad, and
now automatically he's they're they're they're sleeping with each other.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Guys, that's yeah.
Speaker 10 (16:30):
I'd want to invest to get I'd want to talk
to the kid more and be like, where did you
meet this person? Because mom said, oh, the kids met
at the park. How do we know the kids really
met at the park. The mom could tell the kid, oh, yeah,
this is the friend you met at the park.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
The other day.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Megan, thank you, and I appreciate the call. Have a
good day. I'm a I'm a single guy. I've been
single my whole life.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I have tons of married friends whose husbands are at work,
and sometimes we'll go to lunch or sometimes I've even
gone to stuff. I've even gone to stuff with mom
and kid when dad's out of town. And I'm not
pretending to be the dad. I'm just accompanying because you know, hey,
we got this thing in the park. You know, you went,
I'm not sleeping with these people. I'm not saying with
(17:10):
his people, but like he would be, look at you.
I think it's unfair to me as a single guy
that we automatically always target me as the guy who's
up to something. I can't just be friends with a
woman who's married without sleeping with her. It's impossible. Sound Yeah,
So I think if you're being insensitive type casting me
as a bad dude or Jeff over here, I don't think.
(17:33):
But we don't know, Megan, Jeff is a dirty dog.
Maybe Jeff is gay. Yeah, we really don't know. He
can be gay out a dirty dog. But if he's
getting a dirty dog, he's dirty dog.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
It's some more.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
House I know.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
I think it is insensitive to automatically jump to infidelity
every time your spouse or girlfriend or partner is doing
something with another human being of the opposite sex.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Thank you, thank you, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (18:02):
Hi, Hi there, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 11 (18:07):
I honestly feel like he should invite have his wife
invite Jeff to their house and see if Jeff is
open to meeting them together, because I kind of get
the feeling that maybe, like the mom and Jeff had
this thing going on and they were like, hey, I
want to be able to see you, you know more,
Maybe we can have a playdate for our kids at
(18:27):
the park and they can like, you know, and then
we can have an excuse to get together. I honestly
think it's kind of.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Fishy, I guess, but I you know, I mean, that's
a different level of awful. If this woman is using
the children to play in the other room while she
cheats on dad, Like, that's a whole different thing. While
we have apparently Jeff and mom, the woman that he's
married to, that he committed to life. Apparently she's the
(18:54):
worst human being to involve her children in infidelity.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Like, guys, this is great.
Speaker 6 (19:00):
I haven't ask for any of this, and all of
a sudden we're like making you like come over and
meet the family.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
You know, I think there can be do.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
I think there could be better communication? Absolutely? But you guys,
we cannot just jump to the worst. We cannot just
put this on people all the time, Like why is
everyone to cheat her?
Speaker 11 (19:18):
I have young kids, and I will tell you this,
they do not know people's names, Like my kids don't
know their friend's parents' names, so the fact that they
know the parents name is kind of suspicious to me,
my friend, my kids to learn their friend's name.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Yeah, all right, you don't tell me. These are all
good points. I appreciate that. Thank you, Thank you for listening.
Have a good day. You're not laughing at you. And
by the way, we weren't laughing at her at all.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
It's just stirring it up, saying it look like you've
done these people like everyone is cheating.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Telling why are we?
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Who is being insensitive? No one's being insensitive. I just
don't think that it's fair to label this person as
cheeter for this. We don't know that Aaron high. Hey, Fred,
how are you Aaron? We can't just call everybody you
cheater every time Kiki and she does. Will How did
you want to say?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Aaron? Please please tell me.
Speaker 7 (20:15):
About I hate to be if I'm taking side to
your Fred. I'm kind of against you. I hate to
say it.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
That's okay. I don't think I'm used to it.
Speaker 7 (20:21):
I don't think they should go. I think there were
two questions that are important that you didn't ask, and
the first one was the age of the child does
matter because of how she phrased it, of Jeff's friend
if she's three or four and saying that is different
than if she's eight, and saying Jeff's friend's house. So
that's number one. Number two is I'd be a little
bit questionable. I hate to bring this up. The income
(20:44):
of the families. I kind of have a I talk
to a lot of people, and I am aware that
people that are more affluent, that have more money, are
very open to open relationships and families.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
So that now that we're swinging, Aaron, I love you.
Now they're rich and swinging.
Speaker 7 (21:04):
I'm just saying.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I heard you had a whole pam farm in front
of the so much. You're fantastic. So so it's possible
that there's socioeconomic status.
Speaker 7 (21:20):
No, I'm streaking. I got I used to teach it,
oh Park, and that was very common in the affluence.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
Okay, okay, no, fair enough.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
There's there are some freaky things when I'm in the
suburbs out there, Hey, Aaron, thank you, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
You guys. I don't. I'm sorry, I just I can't
with this.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
So we got to do a full vetting process before
my wife if I were married before. My wife can
take my kids to hang out.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
With just to see his taxes?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Hey, can we do a full std and blood panel
in this guy? I want to know.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
I want to know what Jeff's lippings are like. Is
just like, let's give the tyler that trauma up, like,
do have loci? If he has loci?
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Nothing's going on here, Bianca, Hi, Bianca, out of control?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
High bank? Sorry, yeah, Hi, it's your turn. Please say something?
Speaker 8 (22:30):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Yes? Of course, yes, Bianca go Hey.
Speaker 10 (22:36):
Hey, hey, I was calling him to say, there's no
way a mom with a couple of kids is having
an affair just because she goes.
Speaker 7 (22:44):
To Jeff's house.
Speaker 4 (22:45):
We are so tired.
Speaker 11 (22:47):
We are just glad to have people who want to
be with our children and entertain our kids.
Speaker 9 (22:52):
And if I'm giving the choice between sleeping with somebody
else or.
Speaker 5 (22:56):
Taking a nap, I'm always going to take the nap.
Speaker 7 (22:59):
Read girl.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Yeah, I just again, I think it's really unfair to
just say, oh to two people, man and a woman, now.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
You're taking it. You're taking a naped Jeff's house.
Speaker 10 (23:12):
I mean, I'm gonna be taking a nap if I'm
going to hang.
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Out with my kids and play.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
I am totally down.
Speaker 10 (23:18):
I am in okay, bea.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
You're not helping anything here. Get out of just bed,
I believe, Get out of bed. Thank you. I have
a good day.
Speaker 11 (23:32):
In my car.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
I gotta go. Well, now you're doing in the car.
Do it in the car while the kids playing. Now
you're a netligent parent too. Somebody calls everywhere.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Alone with a man you just married.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Oh my god, taking a nap, honey, don't walk outside.
You might the maileman single you guys, You guys are crazy.
I love hey. I'll tell you what if we find
out If we find out that this woman is cheating,
and I take it all back and I'm sorry, and
I will publicly apologize and I'll be roasted at the
(24:09):
at the square.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
You can stone me at the square if this is
what happened. But I just don't. I think it's a
I think we're really jumping here. And let me tell
you something else.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
If I went on the air and I said, and
if I were married with kids, and I went on
the air and I said, yeah, my wife, you know
my my my kids have a school friend, and you
know he's a stay at home dad, and they were
over there yesterday while I was at work. They were
having brunch and playing in the backyard. And she's obviously cheating.
You guys would crush me. You would crush me. You'd
(24:40):
be like, we don't know the location. We don't know
the venue of the hangout.
Speaker 4 (24:45):
You said a school friend that has history there.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
If I went on the air Paulina and I said,
my wife was hanging out with our kids and a
single dad.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Obviously she's up to something, you guys would destroy me
to pieces. And all I'm saying is, we don't know that.
And so now you're gonna go you're an accuser of cheating.
You're gonna accuse her of cheating in front of the kids,
using the kids as a decoy. I mean, that's a
lot of accusation. It's a lot of work too. Spin
the block and I'll tell you what she is she
(25:17):
doing all that she's a bad human being.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Right, and she smashes on the first date, Holy night
of the Park, I mean great, that was second Yeah,
it was more of a second day thing.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
So totally classic, way classy. The Entertainer Report and Show's
Kicking next fread Showy Calon's entertainment report is.
Speaker 5 (25:35):
On the fread show Hall of Fame, tight End and
ESPN broadcaster Shannon Sharp has been accused of sexual assault
and battery in a new lawsuit. A woman filed this
under the alias Jane Doe, and in it, she accuses
Shannon of sexually assaulting her multiple times over a two
year quote rocky consensual relationship, and she's seeking fifty million
in damages. Hours after the lawsuit was filed, Shannon's legal
(25:59):
team released a state denying the allegation, saying the lawsuit
filed by Jane Doe and orchestrated by her attorney Tony
Busby a name that we know a la some Diddy accusers,
is a blatant and cynical attempt to shake down mister
Sharp for millions of dollars. It's filled with lies, distortions,
and misinterpretations. Are excuse me misrepresentations, and it will not succeed.
(26:21):
They went on to share several explicit text messages from
Shannon's accuser, arguing that the messages to mister Sharp clearly
indicate the nature of their relationship was consensual and sexual
in nature and in many cases initiated by her with
specific and graphic requests. Dead Mouse is apologizing for his
Coachella performance, saying that he was so drunk he doesn't
(26:42):
remember it. His set was cut short actually after he
got noticeably intoxicated. He was slurring into the mic taking
shots during his set, which I mean, I feel like
he is.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Not a marshmallow had. I can't see his eyes crossed.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
I don't know right how he get it.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
There also not uncommon for DJs to be drinking, I
think during their set. A day later, though, he posted
a photo of a water bottle, writing I don't remember
a thing, but.
Speaker 4 (27:08):
I don't think I had a sig, so that's good.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
I guess going back to bed, wake me up.
Speaker 5 (27:12):
Around Thursday ish later, he posted again, writing sorry about
last night.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Lol.
Speaker 5 (27:16):
To be fair, I felt the first quarter was great,
so it's honest, and he got a little tipsy and
that's that. I Elsewhere at Coachella, new video shows Justin
Bieber Bieber excuse me, smoking a joint next to his
fifteen year old brother, And if you saw any video
of Bieber at Coachella, it's very concerning. In the video
that is now circulating on x U, see Justin's wife
Haley putting her hand on Jackson's shoulders and trying to
(27:38):
steer him in the opposite direction so that he doesn't
see his older brother acting the way he was or
smoking whatever he was smoking. By the way, yesterday, Haley
also shared that she has been diagnosed with two overian
cysts after giving birth to their baby son, jack. She wrote,
currently have two overian cysts. If you deal with them,
I'm right there with you, and they are very, very painful.
(27:59):
And yeah, so I don't know. I'm worried about Justin Bieber,
though I think I'm not the only one. By the way,
if you missed any part of our show, just hype
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Speaker 1 (28:11):
You guys are funny. These texts are amazing today. Yeah, well, Fred,
if you if you had a girlfriend, you would know. Okay,
you're right, I don't know what I don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
Right, I have a boyfriend and I've been cheated on
in the past, and I still wouldn't think that he's
cheating if this was my situation.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
I just I don't know how we can jump to that.
I just don't think that's fair. I think there's either
more to the story. But I did ask the man.
I asked him point blank, do you have concerns about
Have you ever had concerns about infidelity and infidelity in
your relationship?
Speaker 2 (28:42):
He said no, So why are we jumping to that?
I don't know. Could there have been better communication?
Speaker 1 (28:47):
Absolutely, But I almost think it's more insensitive to her
that we're just jumping right to she's sleeping with this guy.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
Yeah, if she's not, that would really suck to here
justice for John.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
I would be very upset if that's the if I'm
If I'm with my kids and I'm with another woman
and we're out doing something and immediately it's you're you're
a cheater, I beg, wait a minute, what like I
didn't even do anything? You know, you can't do that.
I don't think it. I don't think you can do that.
And for those of you who would like to hear
about my insecurities, we went into that last hour. I
(29:20):
have lots of crazy insecurities about people who aren't even
alive anymore. Okay, so whatever, Yeah, right, I am intimidated.
I am more intimidated by the ghost of a man
than I am by this particular situation. Yeah, and again
I may be totally wrong. Maybe this is just eyes
wide open man, and and and here it is. They're
(29:40):
just they're they're doing it right in front of us,
and I am giving her the benefit of the doubt.
I just don't think it's I don't think it's good
in a relationship to immediately every time you feel insecure acoust.
Speaker 2 (29:51):
Someone of cheating. I don't think it's a good idea.
I don't ki king that. I can't do that.
Speaker 4 (29:56):
Yeah, my woman bet not be in Jeff's house. That's
not I say, we're out.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
She's up next.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
GM frend show is on the radio, and the iHeart
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Make us a pre set. Please let's come back next
a little bit late.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
We'll do. We've been on time lately, but not today. Sorry.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
We just had a lot lots to talk about Kiky
with a lot of her theories. What I mean you
are a different level of horrible human being. If you
take your kids to your to your side pieces house
and they play in the in the room while you
do stuff like that, is that we are really like?
I would be so mad if I weren't doing anything,
(30:37):
and You're like, not only do you think I'm cheating
because I'm trying to occupy my children during the day,
but now you think I'm cheating in front of them,
like the level of like, you know, what kind of
human beings do you think I am?
Speaker 2 (30:51):
And you married me?
Speaker 3 (30:52):
Right?
Speaker 2 (30:56):
Right? That's what I mean. That's what I mean. You see, Jeff,
Now if I'm a cheater, or we've been having problems,
or we know that Jeff and I have had a
pass or you know whatever, all kinds of different things
that he could have said, here's here is my basis
for feeling this way.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
But I asked him point blank. And people are like,
what about emotional cheating? You guys, we could sit here
all day and talk about hypotheticals. But I asked the guy,
have you ever been insecure about infidelity before?
Speaker 2 (31:21):
In any case?
Speaker 1 (31:22):
He said no, So now we're gonna go to you
took my kids to your side pieces house. Well, you
guys got it on and they played Nintendo Switch of
the other.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
Room the other room. Is he from Oak Park though?
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Okay out there? Does he have any money? Does he
live in Chapel Hill?
Speaker 1 (31:37):
Oh, he does well in that case, yes, should Okay,
I know what's going on here, Show me his kiki
one hundred bucks, never lost two in a row. Will
it happen next? And waiting by the phone, Why did
somebody get ghosted to say more?
Speaker 2 (31:53):
Fred show next
It's the French show Good Morning what O three five
Kiss FM, Chicago's number one music station. I still have
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be an admin for Bill Barker in Premiere Radio advertising sales,
and you walk in.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
With an entire frame degree like a little tassel too. No,
you brought the tassel?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Why what you did you wear your capin gown?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Did you show up and cap and down? Oh my god? Yes, wow, Hey,
I worked really hard for that.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
And you're gonna see this, Bill Barker, You're going to
see this. Look at me now.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Well I did think it was weird is hanging up
on the studio wall. But you know, I was wondering
why you wore that hat with the tassel every day?
Oh Paulina, I love you so much. I don't blame
you like it's it was hard work. But I also
don't know, right, who does that mean? I think I
think you know, they can verify it if they have to.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
They know, nobody's verifying nothing.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
But I'm just saying, you don't have to. You don't
have to bring the thing in.
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You know, you don't have to bring the physic diploma,
and I think if they really wanted to know if
you did it, they could call somebody thanks.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I think there's a way. Guys.
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Where next and when's the next Tangent Live.
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Maybe we need to do the Tangent Live in a
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You only says to be terrible. I don't know what
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show Biskiki in the showdown twenty one and four as
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Speaker 2 (04:47):
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Speaker 5 (04:49):
K Still need to tell you about that fifty million
dollar lawsuit?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Also, who got so drunk? Echo chellad they don't remember
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Speaker 1 (05:06):
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Speaker 2 (05:13):
The Good Frest Show is on. It's stay or go
all right, Daniel, he is here, Hi Daniel, good morning,
Good morning Daniel.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
What's going on with this is you're a married man, okay,
and you got some kids and your wife is up
to something. You think, maybe what's the situation?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
So I wanted to get some advice, you know, relationship advice.
So my youngest daughter mentioned something to me about mommy's
new friend Jeff's house. So I was, you know, kind
of caught off guard by that. So I asked my wife.
She told me their kids. You know, my daughter made
friends at the park with this girl, and they went
(05:57):
over to their house, the new friend's house, for a
play date.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
And Jeff is their dad.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Okay, Jeff is all right, all right, So the kids
are playing and they go over to Jeff's house.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
Yeah, And so I was just a little put off
by that, Like my wife didn't tell me I had
to find out through my daughter, and so I guess
my way I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Am I wrong to be bothered at?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
My wife was married to me obviously went over to
a single man's house. This is a single dad, and
I didn't know anything about it.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I don't think this is a problem. Why is this
a problem? It's not Why is this a problem? I mean,
the kids are playing like. It's not the kid's fault
that you know Jeff got divorced or whatever. Sorry for
your love, Jeff, I mean, right, I'm sorry. What if
Jeff's gay?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Do we know?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
What do we know about Jeff? How much do we
know about this man? I mean, I mean, I'm being honest.
I'm not I'm not invalidating your concern. I just I think, like,
do you do you always? Are you always fully briefed
on the on the relationship status of the parents of
the playdate? Honestly? And I'm not again, Daniel, I'm not
making funny here, but I'm serious, No, I mean.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
And I confronted my wife and she said, you know,
it's not a big deal. She just the fact that
she didn't bring it up, you know, being suspicious, and
you know, obviously I'm a little insecure about it, and I,
you know, I think if the tables were turned and
I was stay at home dad and I went to
a single mom's house, I would be, you know, have
the wherewithal to tell my wife, Hey, I'm going over
to you know whatever, Stacy's house and you know, hang
(07:23):
out with it, you know, just so you're aware of
what's going on. The fact that it wasn't you know,
he mentioned to me put me off. I had to
find out through my daughter. And then the way she said,
she's like mommy's new friend.
Speaker 7 (07:33):
Jeff.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Okay, Well, the wording of that was a little.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Like I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna put a crazy
one out there for you because I am crazy, so
I can do that. Let's say that your wife went
over to Samantha's house and Samantha had a couple of kids.
We're not worried about that, right, We don't say anything
about that about Samantha a single mom.
Speaker 7 (07:54):
Right.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
Sure, No, I'm not worried about that because.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
It turns out as a lesbian ooh, but it turns
out his wife is exploring, experimenting. Turns out not to
say I'm just saying if it were a woman, we
wouldn't say anything about this, and we wouldn't say anything
because we don't think there's a sexual threat, because that's
what this is about. This is about the potential for
a sexual threat, when really it's about the kids playing. Now,
(08:22):
I admitted last hour, I'm an insecure person. This doesn't
bother me because why I'm married to this person. Why
are they automatically cheating on me? If they're alone with
a single person, that could be happening anywhere.
Speaker 8 (08:33):
Why, old Jose, why are you in the house where
the kids supposed to play.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
At a park? The kids play at a park.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
You don't need to be a Tim's house or John's
house without telling me anything. John could be a serial killer,
and you got you and my kids in that house
and no one has said anything to me.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
But Samantha could be a serial killer.
Speaker 8 (08:51):
Jamantha, Samantha could, But I know John might be for real,
I'm not no, no, no, no. My man doesn't need to
be in any other woman's house without mind.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You, guys, if she were alone, if she were like,
if the kids weren't there, Yeah.
Speaker 8 (09:05):
That's a broadlem noted the kids might have been in
the basement playing at her and what Timmy, what's his name?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Jeff, mom's friends Jeff.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yam yeah, stands playing.
Speaker 9 (09:14):
People are texting that they're saying, why are they saying
Jeff's Mommy's friend, Jeff's house and not my friend Susie right,
like you know the age of the kids, Like maybe
that's you guys.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
I am a Look, I am insecure in relationships in
many I have a lot of unreasonable thoughts about what
I am into and what I'm not into, and what
I think is cool, what I don't think is cool.
But I have to tell you when it comes to
the kids, I mean there's there are going to be
situations where one parents, they are the other parents not
(09:45):
single parent, moms at work, dads at work, you know,
soccer practice moms there, dad took the kids, mom.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
And sister wives everybody.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Well, I'm just saying, why do we automatically jump to
there has to be infidelity.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
I don't think infidelity my bige, Well, my concern is
maybe I over communicate with my husband. But do people
not talk at the end of the night where it's
like you're in bed you want to, you know, tuck
yourself in, Oh, how was your day?
Speaker 4 (10:10):
All? It was good.
Speaker 9 (10:11):
We went to Jeff's house and little Susie played with
little Jimmy and they had a great time. Like, why
are they not telling each other this? I tell my
husband everything. I'll be like, oh, yeah, I was here today.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
I mean, be more concerned, Paulina, if it were over
explained to me. Now, Jeff's a single day, but you
have nothing to work about it because the kids. I'd
be like, wait a minute, he's gay.
Speaker 8 (10:31):
No, not even that.
Speaker 9 (10:32):
It's just like I feel like you just communicate with
your partner and say, how is your day?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
What did you do? Would you see?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Where'd you go?
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Like, I don't know, it's a little banter. No, do
you have any suspicion of your wife? Otherwise?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
I think I'm not invalidating your feelings because there are
a lot of people apparently did agree with you, that
think it's inappropriate. I guess when it comes to the kids,
I guess I don't necessarily think you get to choose,
you know, the marital status of the parents of the
kids that your friends befriend, right.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
I tend to agree with your co hosts.
Speaker 6 (11:02):
I think everything should be out in the open and
have an open line of communication. If there's nothing to hide,
then u's nothing you can't say then, just to be
open and just whether and if she went to a
female's house. I'd like to know that too, just for
the fact that we're married, we're life partners. Our lives,
you know, do revolve around each other and our children.
So it's nice to know if God forbid, something does
(11:24):
happen where she was, what she's doing. So I think
that's only fair an open line of communication and a
marriage to me, and I would offer her the same
respect from my vantage point. If the table's returned, so
me not getting it. It's just alarm bells went off.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, and I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
I just think there are far more sinister ways to
conceal infidelity then play dates out And maybe it's maybe
it's like you know, right out in the open. Maybe
you should be worried about this because it's just so
obvious that. But at the same time, if you don't
suspect your wife, if you don't suspect she's a cheater,
if you've never suspected she's a cheater, then why are
(12:01):
we putting that on her now? In this one situation
that is pretty easily explainable. The kids met at the park,
they hung out. It's not as though you can say, no, kids,
I'm sorry, but we can't go over to that house
because daddy says that Jeff's a predator, you know, and Daniel,
I'm just I mean, it sounds ridiculous, and again not
making fun of you, but like, come on, you know
what I mean. It's not as though she I don't
(12:22):
think we targeted the guy in the playground. Hey, kids,
go play with those kids because daddy's hot, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
I find it a respect. I wouldn't do that on
my end.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
I wouldn't go to a single our female's house, whether
single or marriage. Just to me, it would be just
putting yourself in a situation where it's not necessary. So
I just wouldn't do that. So I feel like I
should be given that in return, as you know, equal boundaries,
and it's just not even putting myself in the situation.
It just temptation isn't even there. There's no you know,
(12:53):
because that's what leads to others things. It's just it
can easily go down that path.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
So I'd rather not even dabble.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
This isiculous.
Speaker 9 (13:00):
I'm gonna say, communicate with your partner at the end
of the night, when you're having your tea, whatever.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
You guys do together at night, your wine. Just say
this is how my day went. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (13:07):
But he's taking it too far now, just because you're
a single mom all of a sudden, like you're attempted.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
Come on, like, relax, what's at Jeff's house that's not
at our house?
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Maybe Jeff, maybe he's a cool guy with the bounce
house or the.
Speaker 8 (13:26):
No no no, maybe you gotta be the loop because
they were in the backyard. They say, we were in
their house. Hey, why what's in Jeff's house that is
not at our house? I come on, you don't know.
I'm telling you guys, I don't leave your wife, but
you need to investigate. You need to go to work
and circle the block and pop up house.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
You guys, we can't just suspect our partners of cheating
all the time, just automatically because we're alone with another
single person, Like, we just can't do that. Let me
take some Let me take some phone coast Downaniel, have
a great day. Thanks for calling.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yes, I don't even know. They don't have to be
single for things to happen.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Also, there's so many other ways this could be sincere, nefarious,
and I just guys, come on and people are like, Fred,
you're wrong about guys. Last hour, I told you I'm insecure.
At this hour, I'm like a ghost. I'm out a ghost.
But in this hour, guys, I can't.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
I cannot.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
If I'm married to someone, I cannot constantly police who
they're with and win and why. Okay, so she goes
to work and there's a single guy the cubicle next
to her.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
They're doing it.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
No, No, they're at work, their work, they're not.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
That doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Did you see a story in Charlotte last week and
the people who have work and they go to the
top of the parking garage and they're doing it in
the back of the car. And it went viral in
all of the world, all over TikTok because these people
were doing it in the middle of work.
Speaker 8 (14:46):
Imagine what they're doing in the back of a Forerunner
where there's a bed.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
Imagine what you write you.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Guys, Come on, Megan, Hi, Megan, good morning, hy.
Speaker 10 (14:55):
Good morning. I cannot believe I got through. But anyways,
I think it definitely needs to be a conversation. I'm
not saying he needs to go, but there needs to
be more of a conversation. The little girl said, mommy's
new friend.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
The little girl.
Speaker 10 (15:08):
Didn't say my new friend.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
That's right.
Speaker 10 (15:13):
I think it doesn't matter like kids know like kids,
kids are smart, and so I think that the way
that the little girl phrased it, she didn't talk about
her new friend Susie. She talked about mom's new friend,
Jeff's house. Whether Jeff has kids or Jeff's single, it
doesn't matter one way or the other. The way that
(15:33):
this was set up was mom was going to her
friend's house. A little girl didn't go to her friend.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
My sister thought she was a horse when she was
a toddler. You know, like maybe she just phrased it
that way.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
I don't know that.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
I mean, you're right, maybe there's a raw honesty from
a child that you know is truly revealing. But someone texted,
I'm being disrespectful or insensitive about this.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
No, I'm not. What I'm doing is I'm not automatically
running to infidel just because he did.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
That's his concern, and I'm not being I'm not being insensitive,
but I'm I'm I'm arguing that I don't think that's
fair to her, a person who he's married to and
trust and had kids with, and says admittedly on our show,
he's had no reason to doubt her. And now all
of a sudden, their kids meet a single dad, and
now automatically he's they're they're they're sleeping with each other.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Guys, that's yeah.
Speaker 10 (16:30):
I'd want to invest to get I'd want to talk
to the kid more and be like, where did you
meet this person? Because mom said, oh, the kids met
at the park. How do we know the kids really
met at the park. The mom could tell the kid, oh, yeah,
this is the friend you met at the park.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
The other day.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Megan, thank you, and I appreciate the call. Have a
good day. I'm a I'm a single guy. I've been
single my whole life.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I have tons of married friends whose husbands are at work,
and sometimes we'll go to lunch or sometimes I've even
gone to stuff. I've even gone to stuff with mom
and kid when dad's out of town. And I'm not
pretending to be the dad. I'm just accompanying because you know, hey,
we got this thing in the park. You know, you went,
I'm not sleeping with these people. I'm not saying with
(17:10):
his people, but like he would be, look at you.
I think it's unfair to me as a single guy
that we automatically always target me as the guy who's
up to something. I can't just be friends with a
woman who's married without sleeping with her. It's impossible. Sound Yeah,
So I think if you're being insensitive type casting me
as a bad dude or Jeff over here, I don't think.
(17:33):
But we don't know, Megan, Jeff is a dirty dog.
Maybe Jeff is gay. Yeah, we really don't know. He
can be gay out a dirty dog. But if he's
getting a dirty dog, he's dirty dog.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
It's some more.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
House I know.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
I think it is insensitive to automatically jump to infidelity
every time your spouse or girlfriend or partner is doing
something with another human being of the opposite sex.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Thank you, thank you, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (18:02):
Hi, Hi there, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 11 (18:07):
I honestly feel like he should invite have his wife
invite Jeff to their house and see if Jeff is
open to meeting them together, because I kind of get
the feeling that maybe, like the mom and Jeff had
this thing going on and they were like, hey, I
want to be able to see you, you know more,
Maybe we can have a playdate for our kids at
(18:27):
the park and they can like, you know, and then
we can have an excuse to get together. I honestly
think it's kind of.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Fishy, I guess, but I you know, I mean, that's
a different level of awful. If this woman is using
the children to play in the other room while she
cheats on dad, Like, that's a whole different thing. While
we have apparently Jeff and mom, the woman that he's
married to, that he committed to life. Apparently she's the
(18:54):
worst human being to involve her children in infidelity.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Like, guys, this is great.
Speaker 6 (19:00):
I haven't ask for any of this, and all of
a sudden we're like making you like come over and
meet the family.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
You know, I think there can be do.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
I think there could be better communication? Absolutely? But you guys,
we cannot just jump to the worst. We cannot just
put this on people all the time, Like why is
everyone to cheat her?
Speaker 11 (19:18):
I have young kids, and I will tell you this,
they do not know people's names, Like my kids don't
know their friend's parents' names, so the fact that they
know the parents name is kind of suspicious to me,
my friend, my kids to learn their friend's name.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Yeah, all right, you don't tell me. These are all
good points. I appreciate that. Thank you, Thank you for listening.
Have a good day. You're not laughing at you. And
by the way, we weren't laughing at her at all.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
It's just stirring it up, saying it look like you've
done these people like everyone is cheating.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Telling why are we?
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Who is being insensitive? No one's being insensitive. I just
don't think that it's fair to label this person as
cheeter for this. We don't know that Aaron high. Hey, Fred,
how are you Aaron? We can't just call everybody you
cheater every time Kiki and she does. Will How did
you want to say?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Aaron? Please please tell me.
Speaker 7 (20:15):
About I hate to be if I'm taking side to
your Fred. I'm kind of against you. I hate to
say it.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
That's okay. I don't think I'm used to it.
Speaker 7 (20:21):
I don't think they should go. I think there were
two questions that are important that you didn't ask, and
the first one was the age of the child does
matter because of how she phrased it, of Jeff's friend
if she's three or four and saying that is different
than if she's eight, and saying Jeff's friend's house. So
that's number one. Number two is I'd be a little
bit questionable. I hate to bring this up. The income
(20:44):
of the families. I kind of have a I talk
to a lot of people, and I am aware that
people that are more affluent, that have more money, are
very open to open relationships and families.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
So that now that we're swinging, Aaron, I love you.
Now they're rich and swinging.
Speaker 7 (21:04):
I'm just saying.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I heard you had a whole pam farm in front
of the so much. You're fantastic. So so it's possible
that there's socioeconomic status.
Speaker 7 (21:20):
No, I'm streaking. I got I used to teach it,
oh Park, and that was very common in the affluence.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
Okay, okay, no, fair enough.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
There's there are some freaky things when I'm in the
suburbs out there, Hey, Aaron, thank you, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
You guys. I don't. I'm sorry, I just I can't
with this.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
So we got to do a full vetting process before
my wife if I were married before. My wife can
take my kids to hang out.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
With just to see his taxes?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Hey, can we do a full std and blood panel
in this guy? I want to know.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
I want to know what Jeff's lippings are like. Is
just like, let's give the tyler that trauma up, like,
do have loci? If he has loci?
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Nothing's going on here, Bianca, Hi, Bianca, out of control?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
High bank? Sorry, yeah, Hi, it's your turn. Please say something?
Speaker 8 (22:30):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Yes? Of course, yes, Bianca go Hey.
Speaker 10 (22:36):
Hey, hey, I was calling him to say, there's no
way a mom with a couple of kids is having
an affair just because she goes.
Speaker 7 (22:44):
To Jeff's house.
Speaker 4 (22:45):
We are so tired.
Speaker 11 (22:47):
We are just glad to have people who want to
be with our children and entertain our kids.
Speaker 9 (22:52):
And if I'm giving the choice between sleeping with somebody
else or.
Speaker 5 (22:56):
Taking a nap, I'm always going to take the nap.
Speaker 7 (22:59):
Read girl.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Yeah, I just again, I think it's really unfair to
just say, oh to two people, man and a woman, now.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
You're taking it. You're taking a naped Jeff's house.
Speaker 10 (23:12):
I mean, I'm gonna be taking a nap if I'm
going to hang.
Speaker 8 (23:14):
Out with my kids and play.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
I am totally down.
Speaker 10 (23:18):
I am in okay, bea.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
You're not helping anything here. Get out of just bed,
I believe, Get out of bed. Thank you. I have
a good day.
Speaker 11 (23:32):
In my car.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
I gotta go. Well, now you're doing in the car.
Do it in the car while the kids playing. Now
you're a netligent parent too. Somebody calls everywhere.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Alone with a man you just married.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Oh my god, taking a nap, honey, don't walk outside.
You might the maileman single you guys, You guys are crazy.
I love hey. I'll tell you what if we find
out If we find out that this woman is cheating,
and I take it all back and I'm sorry, and
I will publicly apologize and I'll be roasted at the
(24:09):
at the square.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
You can stone me at the square if this is
what happened. But I just don't. I think it's a
I think we're really jumping here. And let me tell
you something else.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
If I went on the air and I said, and
if I were married with kids, and I went on
the air and I said, yeah, my wife, you know
my my my kids have a school friend, and you
know he's a stay at home dad, and they were
over there yesterday while I was at work. They were
having brunch and playing in the backyard. And she's obviously cheating.
You guys would crush me. You would crush me. You'd
(24:40):
be like, we don't know the location. We don't know
the venue of the hangout.
Speaker 4 (24:45):
You said a school friend that has history there.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
If I went on the air Paulina and I said,
my wife was hanging out with our kids and a
single dad.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Obviously she's up to something, you guys would destroy me
to pieces. And all I'm saying is, we don't know that.
And so now you're gonna go you're an accuser of cheating.
You're gonna accuse her of cheating in front of the kids,
using the kids as a decoy. I mean, that's a
lot of accusation. It's a lot of work too. Spin
the block and I'll tell you what she is she
(25:17):
doing all that she's a bad human being.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Right, and she smashes on the first date, Holy night
of the Park, I mean great, that was second Yeah,
it was more of a second day thing.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
So totally classic, way classy. The Entertainer Report and Show's
Kicking next fread Showy Calon's entertainment report is.
Speaker 5 (25:35):
On the fread show Hall of Fame, tight End and
ESPN broadcaster Shannon Sharp has been accused of sexual assault
and battery in a new lawsuit. A woman filed this
under the alias Jane Doe, and in it, she accuses
Shannon of sexually assaulting her multiple times over a two
year quote rocky consensual relationship, and she's seeking fifty million
in damages. Hours after the lawsuit was filed, Shannon's legal
(25:59):
team released a state denying the allegation, saying the lawsuit
filed by Jane Doe and orchestrated by her attorney Tony
Busby a name that we know a la some Diddy accusers,
is a blatant and cynical attempt to shake down mister
Sharp for millions of dollars. It's filled with lies, distortions,
and misinterpretations. Are excuse me misrepresentations, and it will not succeed.
(26:21):
They went on to share several explicit text messages from
Shannon's accuser, arguing that the messages to mister Sharp clearly
indicate the nature of their relationship was consensual and sexual
in nature and in many cases initiated by her with
specific and graphic requests. Dead Mouse is apologizing for his
Coachella performance, saying that he was so drunk he doesn't
(26:42):
remember it. His set was cut short actually after he
got noticeably intoxicated. He was slurring into the mic taking
shots during his set, which I mean, I feel like
he is.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Not a marshmallow had. I can't see his eyes crossed.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
I don't know right how he get it.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
There also not uncommon for DJs to be drinking, I
think during their set. A day later, though, he posted
a photo of a water bottle, writing I don't remember
a thing, but.
Speaker 4 (27:08):
I don't think I had a sig, so that's good.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
I guess going back to bed, wake me up.
Speaker 5 (27:12):
Around Thursday ish later, he posted again, writing sorry about
last night.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Lol.
Speaker 5 (27:16):
To be fair, I felt the first quarter was great,
so it's honest, and he got a little tipsy and
that's that. I Elsewhere at Coachella, new video shows Justin
Bieber Bieber excuse me, smoking a joint next to his
fifteen year old brother, And if you saw any video
of Bieber at Coachella, it's very concerning. In the video
that is now circulating on x U, see Justin's wife
Haley putting her hand on Jackson's shoulders and trying to
(27:38):
steer him in the opposite direction so that he doesn't
see his older brother acting the way he was or
smoking whatever he was smoking. By the way, yesterday, Haley
also shared that she has been diagnosed with two overian
cysts after giving birth to their baby son, jack. She wrote,
currently have two overian cysts. If you deal with them,
I'm right there with you, and they are very, very painful.
(27:59):
And yeah, so I don't know. I'm worried about Justin Bieber,
though I think I'm not the only one. By the way,
if you missed any part of our show, just hype
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Speaker 1 (28:11):
You guys are funny. These texts are amazing today. Yeah, well, Fred,
if you if you had a girlfriend, you would know. Okay,
you're right, I don't know what I don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
Right, I have a boyfriend and I've been cheated on
in the past, and I still wouldn't think that he's
cheating if this was my situation.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
I just I don't know how we can jump to that.
I just don't think that's fair. I think there's either
more to the story. But I did ask the man.
I asked him point blank, do you have concerns about
Have you ever had concerns about infidelity and infidelity in
your relationship?
Speaker 2 (28:42):
He said no, So why are we jumping to that?
I don't know. Could there have been better communication?
Speaker 1 (28:47):
Absolutely, But I almost think it's more insensitive to her
that we're just jumping right to she's sleeping with this guy.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
Yeah, if she's not, that would really suck to here
justice for John.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
I would be very upset if that's the if I'm
If I'm with my kids and I'm with another woman
and we're out doing something and immediately it's you're you're
a cheater, I beg, wait a minute, what like I
didn't even do anything? You know, you can't do that.
I don't think it. I don't think you can do that.
And for those of you who would like to hear
about my insecurities, we went into that last hour. I
(29:20):
have lots of crazy insecurities about people who aren't even
alive anymore. Okay, so whatever, Yeah, right, I am intimidated.
I am more intimidated by the ghost of a man
than I am by this particular situation. Yeah, and again
I may be totally wrong. Maybe this is just eyes
wide open man, and and and here it is. They're
(29:40):
just they're they're doing it right in front of us,
and I am giving her the benefit of the doubt.
I just don't think it's I don't think it's good
in a relationship to immediately every time you feel insecure acoust.
Speaker 2 (29:51):
Someone of cheating. I don't think it's a good idea.
I don't ki king that. I can't do that.
Speaker 4 (29:56):
Yeah, my woman bet not be in Jeff's house. That's
not I say, we're out.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
She's up next.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
GM frend show is on the radio, and the iHeart
app live and anytime starts put a freends show on demand.
Make us a pre set. Please let's come back next
a little bit late.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
We'll do. We've been on time lately, but not today. Sorry.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
We just had a lot lots to talk about Kiky
with a lot of her theories. What I mean you
are a different level of horrible human being. If you
take your kids to your to your side pieces house
and they play in the in the room while you
do stuff like that, is that we are really like?
I would be so mad if I weren't doing anything,
(30:37):
and You're like, not only do you think I'm cheating
because I'm trying to occupy my children during the day,
but now you think I'm cheating in front of them,
like the level of like, you know, what kind of
human beings do you think I am?
Speaker 2 (30:51):
And you married me?
Speaker 3 (30:52):
Right?
Speaker 2 (30:56):
Right? That's what I mean. That's what I mean. You see, Jeff,
Now if I'm a cheater, or we've been having problems,
or we know that Jeff and I have had a
pass or you know whatever, all kinds of different things
that he could have said, here's here is my basis
for feeling this way.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
But I asked him point blank. And people are like,
what about emotional cheating? You guys, we could sit here
all day and talk about hypotheticals. But I asked the guy,
have you ever been insecure about infidelity before?
Speaker 2 (31:21):
In any case?
Speaker 1 (31:22):
He said no, So now we're gonna go to you
took my kids to your side pieces house. Well, you
guys got it on and they played Nintendo Switch of
the other.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
Room the other room. Is he from Oak Park though?
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Okay out there? Does he have any money? Does he
live in Chapel Hill?
Speaker 1 (31:37):
Oh, he does well in that case, yes, should Okay,
I know what's going on here, Show me his kiki
one hundred bucks, never lost two in a row. Will
it happen next? And waiting by the phone, Why did
somebody get ghosted to say more?
Speaker 2 (31:53):
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