June 10, 2025 • 22 mins
How did you decide what side of the bed you sleep on when you first get into a relationship? Fred asks the crew how they came to this decision! Plus, Paulina is asking for parenting advice about toddler meltdowns! Listen now!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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apply all thanks to the Live Nation. How do you
guys choose who gets to sleep on which side of
the bed?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Like?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
What happens if you get into a relationship and you
both sleep on the same side of the bed? How
does one negotiate that? Like, because I mean if you
were to say to me, now you have to sleep
on the other side of the bed for the rest
of your life. I mean eventually, I think I would
get used to it, But I mean that would be
a that's a big ask, that's a big Now you
want me to switch side to the bed? You want
(00:58):
me to just just think my whole right if you
look at the bed. I'm on the left side of
the bed. Basically my whole life left side. Okay, if
you're staring at the bed, I'm on the left side
of the bed. I don't know, no, in this case, Yeah,
but that's not why. I mean, I guess this is
where I've always slept, like always, And I guess that's
why doing the hotel too, I guess for the most part. Yeah,
(01:20):
that's why doing a hotel. So what do you do?
What do you do if you meet somebody like did
all of you? It just worked where the person who
you're with slept on the other side of the bed immediately? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Yeah for me, it's like where is the dog? And
then I'll readjust myself, So I don't really have a
side of the beau. She it's her bed right, to
be honest, And then he is.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
He goes to bed later than me, so then he
tries to squeeze in wherever he can.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I see. Yeah, so you just sleep wherever there's room.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah, because I'm a sucker. Most people would move their dog.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Sometimes it's the left side, sometimes it's the right side.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Sometimes Yeah, I know, don't trust me.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Yeah, I think I'd moved the dog I moved dog.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I think, I know, Yeah, I'm so comfy looking.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I think I would. I think I would. I think,
you know, I say that. But then when I'm at
home and my my mom's dogs get in the bed,
they sleep, and the cats too, and I'm allergic to cats.
But but moose the main coon, like he's just a
monster of a cat. He does whatever he wants. He'll
and then he'll find like the crevice, like if your
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legs are kind of a part or whatever, he'll sleep
in there. And then you're right, No, I don't move. Then,
like if I wake up and discover this, I'm like,
I better not move. He looks very comfortable right there,
Moosey does, and so and then I don't. I don't.
You're right, So I guess I'm no different. But at
least I'm on the right side of the bed or
the left side of the bed in this case. So
this is not really the debate. That's not really an issue.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
No, I made Hobby go wherever the door is because
we've moved twice now, so like wherever the door is,
if there's danger, you're going first. Yeah, so you need
to be by the door. That's how I think, Okay, right,
So I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I'm pretty sure if there were a killer and the
killer showed up, and the killer we're going to kill,
I'm pretty sure that the several feet maybe two or
three feet, you know, between you and Hobby. I don't
know if that make much difference in the killing spree
that was going to happen.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
He die a hero because he was by the door,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Well, I don't know that he would if he's not
a hero. If everybody dies. I hate to say this
to you. Wow, if everybody's supposed to go, but you
just said he would die a hero, I wouldn't because
he would. But if he's dead, then he can't be
a hero to you. And I mean I guess I
guess he could. I don't know. Hey, Chloe, how you doing?
Speaker 6 (03:37):
I'm doing?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
How did this work? How did this work? When you
got into a relationship with someone I assume you are
and and you both sleep on the same side of
the bed.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean, we compromise in a lot of ways.
Speaker 6 (03:51):
But I was just like, I.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Just feel this is where you need to change, and
he was just like, I guess I will. And I
was like, okay, sounds.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Great, So you know it.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I gave him a choice and he made his choice.
But I mean, the main reason why we sleep where
we sleep now is because I'm like, listen, you need
to be closer to the door because, like heaven forbid,
a break in occurs, like you're the first person to
get got like you need to be my alarm system
if I need to like get up and be running,
like I need to.
Speaker 6 (04:26):
Hear you first. So really that's one.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Of my reasons. But like it was very simple. I
was just like, listen, I'm not changing in this regard,
so I think you should. And he said, I guess
I will say it was Chloe.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
You say you gave him a choice, but you infected
not it was this so you can see the.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Other place exactly, Like you either sleep here next to
me on this side of the bed, or you don't
sleep here at all.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Oh well, I guess that is a choice. Yeah. Now
what if he had chosen, Oh, so I don't have
to sleep in this room, then you're saying I can
sleep in a different room because it might be better
because I would be both like the same side of
the bed. That's that wouldn't have gone over.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Well, I'm not gonna lie. If he ever came to
me and was like, I think we should sleep in
separate rooms, I think I would be okay with it,
because I think I would.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Be okay with it too, honestly, Like sometimes we sleep
in the same room, and then sometimes when I had
text Mex before, we don't, you know, maybe because I
don't want you to catch me doing anything while I'm
asleep that I didn't know that I did. And there's
a higher percentage of that happening if I eat certain food,
so I maybe in those nights I sleep in a
different bed, or if you're not feeling well, you sleep
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in a different bed because you're sick, and you're like, ah,
you know, I don't want to deal with this. I
don't want my partner to have to deal with it.
So okay, wait a minute, Maybe that's a whole different conversation.
How many of you would sleep in separate rooms if
you could.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I don't like that with.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
The option of going back. No, Yeah, interesting, Chloe. Look
at you, Chloe. You're changing the changing the direction of
the show right now. I like it. Have a good day.
Thank you for calling.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
That's a different conversation, Like and each person gets in
equal sized room in their own bathroom in this dynamic.
I mean, I'm not saying someone that's sleep in a
guest room all the time, Like that's you know what
I mean. Like, let's just say hypothetically, like no one's
sacrificing anything. The beads are equally comfortable. But let's say
like maybe like I like it very cold where I'm sleeping.
(06:16):
I like it very cold. Some people don't like it
that cold. Well they're wrong, But well I agree those
people would be wrong. I totally agree with them. But
wrong people are out there. People are wrong. A lot
of people are wrong. I see them every day. They
call up here to you know, they say stupid things.
They text them like you know you're wrong, and that's
very sad for.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
You, right right, I feel bad if I didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Say it and you disagreed, And that's a horrible place
to a horrible place to be in life. But but yeah,
I mean, like let's say so instead of arguing about
that or living your life sort of dissatisfied because you
know your partner needs at seventy and you want it
in sixty six or whatever it is or or warmer,
then you just two separate sleeping environments and you can
still do that, you know, do the things that you
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do in the bed together, and then you can just say, Okay,
right now, I'm gonna go to sleep, and then we
don't have these problems. Then. No, No, there's never a
time where you don't want him to wait. Wait, but
he's not in the bed because he works.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
All night, right, but I want him there. I would
prefer that he'd be there for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Now.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
I do like having separate like dressing rooms, so like
I have a glamor room and there is the guest
room where he can go, you know. But I think
as long as we have that like where my things
aren't being touched all the time and they can you know,
jury and stuff, it.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Could just be. But I think you should sleep in
the bed together.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Okay, so he can sleep in the bed with you,
but don't get anywhere near your jewelry. Yeah well I've
heard that about yeah, and your wings too. I think
when he shows up.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
At the factory, he would be like do you have diamond?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Hell yeah? What is he trying to wear rings or something?
I hate Brian Hey Brian. So you sleep between your
partner in the door, and that's because you're going to
save the day if anything happens.
Speaker 8 (08:04):
Okay, not because I want to leave first in case
of an emergency, but if there's an intruder, I feel like,
whoever it is is going to have to go through
me before they get to my spouse.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
I see. And so you're ready to save the day
right there. But it has nothing to do with the
fact that you could make a quicker exit.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (08:23):
It's just to be the hero and save the day.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I see. But it would. It's a nice side effect
or a nice side you know, the thing that you
could also be the first out in the event of
an emergency.
Speaker 6 (08:34):
I guess that is true.
Speaker 8 (08:35):
But I'm thinking of it more in the sense of, like,
even when we're walking down the sidewalk on the street,
you know, I'm always on the street side.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
My wife's always on.
Speaker 8 (08:43):
The inside, closer to the buildings. In case something happens,
I feel the need to constantly be.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
As a protector. Now, Brian, that's why I don't understand. Okay,
I will do it now, except I'm definitely my left ear.
So it does depend on the side of the street
that we're like the direction in the side of this
read Because if you want me to hear what you're saying,
which most I found most women enjoyed me hearing them
and acknowledging what they're saying to me, then I have
to be on one side of you. So sometimes it
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doesn't work that way. Like if we're walking, you know
what I'm saying, Like if we're walking in a direction
where I would be on the inside and you'd be
on the outside, but you're on my left side, well,
then you know, then i'd say why I'm talking to you.
I'm like, I'm protecting you. You know, That's what I
say to them, I'm protecting you. But then if a
car hits us, Brian, then all we're going to become
(09:31):
is a heavy projectile to then in pale the person
next to us. So I don't understand is logic.
Speaker 8 (09:39):
The logic is that the husband always dies first friend.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Sorry, yeah, I guess. So if a car hits me,
it's a very small likelihood that I'm going to physically
stop the car from hitting you. I'm probably not going
to happen. I'm just saying. I'm just saying I might
wind up being the reason that you're dead. Oh no, no,
thank you, Brian, have a good to hit you first?
Probably wait, would.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
You honest question?
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Why do you want to get me first? You're saying, like, well,
it hits me, it's probably gonna kill you anyway, so
it should definitely hit you first. I'm just saying the
logic doesn't make sense, like he's gonna protect me from
a car, you know, the runs off the road logic.
That's not gonna happen, like I'm not I'm not a
brick walls. The car is not going to run into
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hobby and then just stop.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
You would push me?
Speaker 1 (10:29):
What if you see it coming and then you have
the opportunity to push? Oh great, now now I assaulted you. Great,
this is great. Now you're done anyway.
Speaker 7 (10:36):
Yes, you can't a puddle like if a car drives
in a puddle, the water will.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Hit you, not it will, It will just hit me.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
And I don't know the puddle thing.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Yeah, Bailey, Hi Bailey, Hey, you and your boyfriend sleep
in different rooms. I like this.
Speaker 9 (10:54):
Yes, it's kind of funny how it started. I recently
just moved in with and you know, he had his
set of furniture. I had my set of furniture, and
when I moved in my bedroom set just went into
the guest bedroom.
Speaker 10 (11:09):
And like for me, it was just like an easier transition,
like he's kind of my things, you're kind of your things.
But like we don't do it every night. If there's
nice like I'm restless and want to sleep in that room,
I go there and vice versa.
Speaker 9 (11:23):
So it actually works out.
Speaker 10 (11:24):
Really nicely for us. And I'm kind of a person
who likes to sleep with the room freezing holes with
the fans blowing some nice pet nuts, which it works
out for us.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
There you go, Thank you, Bayley.
Speaker 8 (11:36):
It works.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Let's great, Thank you. This is what I'm going to do.
I have a nice day. I'm glad you called him goodbye.
Seeing works fine.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
So we're really rearranging our entire like sleep placement over
like weather like at the chance that someone may break
in and try to kill.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
That's what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying, Like
it's not I'm sorry, but like if you're standing over
my bed, well I'm first of all, good luck waking
me up. Yeah, what are you really going to do? Right? Exactly?
Thank you? This is one time somebody things are dumb.
Everyone thinks they're heroes. Like if someone walks in your roope,
what are you going to do? That's a that's right,
you're actually okay, well let me let me I'm getting
the strap now. Now now he's messing with you, like.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
It takes every night where you sleep, every night, just
the small possibility that someone may come in the room.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
But if they break it and stand over the bed,
like they've got both of us, there's right, right if
they want to kill us, we're dead now we're asleep, harmony.
But being closer to the door is not going to
accomplish it. It's just answer the same way that me
being closer to the curb is not a cop.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
I disagree with you there, but I agree with you
like I don't.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Why do you disagree with it? What? What is me
walking closer to the road actually accomplishing from a safety standpoint?
Speaker 4 (12:48):
Are you open to like are you open to maybe
seeing it our we.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Are? You mean? Am I I'm listening? Okay?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Okay, because I I know sometimes like if I don't
want my mind to be changed, I'll be like no,
I'm closed off from that. But no, listen. So, like
I said, you could push me out of the way.
You definitely could soften the blow for sure. And the
puddle thing, I think it's just like a nice sign
of chivalry. But if my date is deaf in one year,
I'm totally fine with him switching sides.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm fine to be on the side where I don't
have to listen. It's fine, but I'm saving your lives.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
But like, also, like if I'm standing behind you, you can't
even see me behind you, Like you're a big dude,
You're definitely protecting me.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I'm definitely two hundred and forty pounds into you at
that point, I become a projectile. But then tapples you over.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
But you get crushed by the car and you get
crushed by me.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Oh baby, if the exact trajectory sends you into her
or it could send you forward or back, but it's
definitely gonna go right next to.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
The car, drive sideways.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
If a car sent from behind you, it's gonna hit
you and you're gonna go forward. Jesse, I'm not that
a car is ten feet wide. If he ain't a whiteboard,
I'm sorry, you guys are not right about this. If
a car. If we are walking next to each other
and a car hits us, it's hitting both of us.
That's just the bottomless a chance.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
That you might be able to protect us, Like, there's
not even a slight chance.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Is not the car your hand out too.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
I think what I'm saying to you is whatever makes you,
guys feel better, is fine. It's a ridiculous argument. It's ridiculous.
The same the same way to being close to the
door is ridiculous. Like if we're in a if we're
in a hotel room, that's what twenty by twenty or
thirty by thirty, wherever a hotel room is, and a
guy comes in and stands over us, My being closer
proximity to the door is going to do nothing. But
I'm sorry, I'm not going to save your life if
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a car hits and we're walking next to each other,
I'm sorry. Hey, Melissa, Him.
Speaker 6 (14:45):
Melissa, Yeah, good morning.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
So you are a very courteous person. You would just
switch sides of the bed no matter what.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
Absolutely, if you're moving in someone, you're gonna adjust to them.
But if they're moving in, you rule your house.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
I okay, interesting, Melissa, So it would depend then who
who moves into Who's house?
Speaker 6 (15:06):
Correct? Okay, but you guys start buying a house together,
and you guys have already lived together, then going into
a room, however you start it up, it's going to
be whatever side you picked before. Here, I see.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
So if we move into a news space together, then
we had we each have like an equal vote. But
if you come to my house, then you're you're getting
on whatever side I'm not correct? Okay, perfect, thank you, Melissa.
Problem solved.
Speaker 6 (15:27):
A good day.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
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blogs on The Fred Show, like writing in our diaries,
(16:10):
except we stay them aloud. We call them blogs. And
now with a financial reports and international financial report here
is funny enough take it away.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Live from Canada? Do you blog?
Speaker 5 (16:20):
So this is not financial advice I'm looking for. It's more,
I guess, like parental advice that could be American, human, Canadian,
whatever you want it to be.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
I hope you're asking for the audience. Parental advice from
us wouldn't be very valuable since none of us have kids.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Well, I still think you guys have an input and
maybe some good advice. Obviously you're an uncle to two
small children's and you know, and they're the same age
as my daughter, or at least Mayvez was your niece.
So my daughter, Gigi is fourteen months. I hate that
I'm that parent, but like, I guess I get the
whole month thing now, because if you say a year,
it's like, well, she's a little more than a year.
But uh yeah, we're in a very tough spot. And
(16:54):
I remember, Fred, you saw a video on my Instagram too,
would be like a couple weeks ago, and you were like, damn,
I'm surprised that, like you know, she's kind of having
this kind of a meltout at this young age, and
I was like, I know, why are we melting down
at one year old?
Speaker 3 (17:08):
I don't know, and I need advice.
Speaker 5 (17:10):
I need help because it's getting really hard and I
don't know what to do at this point, Like you
don't discipline a toddler. I could put her in time
out in the chair in the corner and she'll end
up right back on the couch. Like that's not gonna happen.
And also I don't think she understands that. I don't
know if I even want to do that that way.
So I'm trying to figure out a balance of like
how do you I don't know, how do you train
(17:31):
like a train of dog? Like how do you how
do you like work with a one year old so
that the one year old stops doing things like she does.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
A thing where she hits now and I.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Know a lot of babies do this, Like she'll get
but only when she's mad if I take away my phone,
which I can't stand when she grabs my phone or
anyone's phone and.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Take it away. Okay, we're taking this away, and she
just hits.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
And we look at her and we're like Gigi no,
and then she goes nice and she rubs your head.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Nice's like she's it's I mean, there you go. You're
you're doing something because it's almost like if I'm interpreting
it correctly, like she's saying that wasn't nice and I
need to be nice. Like she knows the difference.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
She's okay, so we're smarter than I think.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
I don't know, I mean if I mean, I haven't
I haven't seen her do this, but it almost it
feels like she knows what's nice and what's not nice.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
Yeah, but when she gets mad, like I mean, she'll
start even like fisting and shaking, Like she'll start shaking
her fists at.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Me and I'm like, whoa, I mean you do that
to me. So that's where she's getting it. Yeah, I mean, maybe.
Speaker 5 (18:29):
It my temper because like I try to be calm
around her. I don't want her to be overwhelmed and
like anxious like me. But I don't know, I just
want her to kind of, I don't know, stop with
the hitting obviously, and kind of stop with the meltdowns
and like we're not doing full meltdowns at Target yet.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
You know, when the kid doesn't get what they want.
They just like, we're not.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
Doing that yet, but I can tell it's coming and
it makes me nervous. And I know kids are kids,
but I just I don't know, I don't want that.
Plus she looks like my mam a lot and my
in law my mother in law, and I feel like
we all kind of parents parents, we all kind of
do things different.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Oh oh oh yeah. My guess would be that your
your mom and Hobby's mom. My guess would be they
let her do it like this, it's just like here,
take it, take the phone or whatever. I think so,
but I think you also from I don't know what
I'm talking about here, but my guess would be some
of these melts that you have to just let them
do it and then walk away and just let them
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process the meltdown.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
That's where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
I read about that in the mel Robins book. Let them.
I don't know she, I mean she did reference like
children like sometimes when in the aisle or whatever, and
when they want the toy, you don't want to buy
them the toy, like yeah, sometimes you know. I think
what would be frustrating for me falling it is that
like they're not of the age yet where you can
have a conversation even begin to reason with them, you
know what I mean. Like this whole this whole theme
of today has been about reasoning with people. But it's like,
(19:43):
I don't think like you get to a certain age
where you can say, you know, And I hear my
sister do it with my niece and she's a therapist.
So it's like kind it wildly annoying and the kid's
gonna be so screwed up. But it's like, you know,
you can make a choice. You know, you have a
choice here. Your choices are, you know, And like so
Polly can talk back the twit, but you can't really
do that necessarily.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
No, not not like at one. And that's the thing too.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
It's like I want her to like vocalize what she wants, right,
but they can't do that.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
So I think it's where a lot of meltdowns come from. Right,
even though I'm an adult who has full meltdowns.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
Too, I can at least vocalize front I don't want this,
or hey, Caylen, can I have this?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Like I don't just like throw my vocalizing.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
All right, she's given the phone, I'm gonna punch in
the face. That's what she said, that's for sure. But
I'm like, I don't want.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
To raise a brat, but I also don't want to,
like I don't know, like not give her what she needs.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
So I don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:32):
I'm having a really hard time with this. She's only one,
so yay, we're just getting started. Like it's only I
think gonna get a little bit worse before it gets better,
before she understands right.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
People are saying the power of distraction, I have two
under two, Oh my gosh. None of the tricks worked
other than distracting the energy to get back into a
good headspace under three. They don't understand traditional punishment. Yeah, yeah,
that's true too.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
I do a lot of like redirecting, And my doctor asked,
is she good with that?
Speaker 3 (20:56):
And I said yeah, I mean she's like me.
Speaker 5 (20:58):
It's like, hey, we're here, squirrel, look this way, now,
look over here, like if I want her to like
stop doing what she's doing, I'm really good at like
kind of being like, hey, look over there.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Outside meltowns to normal. Those are big emotions for a
kid who doesn't have the tools to express how they're feeling.
These are texts that we're getting and hasn't learned yet
how to regulate their emotions. Supporting them through the meltdown,
teaching them little by little coping skills will make them
emotionally balanced. As for hitting, it sounds like you're doing
everything right. I would make sure that they understand that
(21:27):
hitting hurts and maybe look sad. Tell them that that hurts.
Please don't hit me, I didn't hit you, et cetera.
It sounds like you are a great mom. Someone said
this personal said, I'm impressed my friend's parenting advice. Right, Like,
I know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
Please don't hit me, I didn't hit you. Yeah, that's
hardly Chris Hansen. I'm gonna try all this though. She's
sitting and telling you that it's nice, right.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
She's hitting you, and then you tell her no, and
then she's like showing you what night, because like rubbing
her face would be like a nice feeling, or she'd
being like, no, this is nice to me slapping you
in the face. Yeah, I don't know. I can't understand Gigi.
I don't speak her language. Same So, once you come
from a school, counselor start teaching her emotional regulation skills, books,
modeling sign language. There are ways. Yeah, tell her to
(22:17):
read a book about it. Read this book. Have you read.
Let them
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guys choose who gets to sleep on which side of
the bed?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Like?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
What happens if you get into a relationship and you
both sleep on the same side of the bed? How
does one negotiate that? Like, because I mean if you
were to say to me, now you have to sleep
on the other side of the bed for the rest
of your life. I mean eventually, I think I would
get used to it, But I mean that would be
a that's a big ask, that's a big Now you
want me to switch side to the bed? You want
(00:58):
me to just just think my whole right if you
look at the bed. I'm on the left side of
the bed. Basically my whole life left side. Okay, if
you're staring at the bed, I'm on the left side
of the bed. I don't know, no, in this case, Yeah,
but that's not why. I mean, I guess this is
where I've always slept, like always, And I guess that's
why doing the hotel too, I guess for the most part. Yeah,
(01:20):
that's why doing a hotel. So what do you do?
What do you do if you meet somebody like did
all of you? It just worked where the person who
you're with slept on the other side of the bed immediately? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Yeah for me, it's like where is the dog? And
then I'll readjust myself, So I don't really have a
side of the beau. She it's her bed right, to
be honest, And then he is.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
He goes to bed later than me, so then he
tries to squeeze in wherever he can.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I see. Yeah, so you just sleep wherever there's room.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah, because I'm a sucker. Most people would move their dog.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Sometimes it's the left side, sometimes it's the right side.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Sometimes Yeah, I know, don't trust me.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Yeah, I think I'd moved the dog I moved dog.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I think, I know, Yeah, I'm so comfy looking.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I think I would. I think I would. I think,
you know, I say that. But then when I'm at
home and my my mom's dogs get in the bed,
they sleep, and the cats too, and I'm allergic to cats.
But but moose the main coon, like he's just a
monster of a cat. He does whatever he wants. He'll
and then he'll find like the crevice, like if your
(02:24):
legs are kind of a part or whatever, he'll sleep
in there. And then you're right, No, I don't move. Then,
like if I wake up and discover this, I'm like,
I better not move. He looks very comfortable right there,
Moosey does, and so and then I don't. I don't.
You're right, So I guess I'm no different. But at
least I'm on the right side of the bed or
the left side of the bed in this case. So
this is not really the debate. That's not really an issue.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
No, I made Hobby go wherever the door is because
we've moved twice now, so like wherever the door is,
if there's danger, you're going first. Yeah, so you need
to be by the door. That's how I think, Okay, right,
So I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I'm pretty sure if there were a killer and the
killer showed up, and the killer we're going to kill,
I'm pretty sure that the several feet maybe two or
three feet, you know, between you and Hobby. I don't
know if that make much difference in the killing spree
that was going to happen.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
He die a hero because he was by the door,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Well, I don't know that he would if he's not
a hero. If everybody dies. I hate to say this
to you. Wow, if everybody's supposed to go, but you
just said he would die a hero, I wouldn't because
he would. But if he's dead, then he can't be
a hero to you. And I mean I guess I
guess he could. I don't know. Hey, Chloe, how you doing?
Speaker 6 (03:37):
I'm doing?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
How did this work? How did this work? When you
got into a relationship with someone I assume you are
and and you both sleep on the same side of
the bed.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean, we compromise in a lot of ways.
Speaker 6 (03:51):
But I was just like, I.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Just feel this is where you need to change, and
he was just like, I guess I will. And I
was like, okay, sounds.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Great, So you know it.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I gave him a choice and he made his choice.
But I mean, the main reason why we sleep where
we sleep now is because I'm like, listen, you need
to be closer to the door because, like heaven forbid,
a break in occurs, like you're the first person to
get got like you need to be my alarm system
if I need to like get up and be running,
like I need to.
Speaker 6 (04:26):
Hear you first. So really that's one.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Of my reasons. But like it was very simple. I
was just like, listen, I'm not changing in this regard,
so I think you should. And he said, I guess
I will say it was Chloe.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
You say you gave him a choice, but you infected
not it was this so you can see the.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Other place exactly, Like you either sleep here next to
me on this side of the bed, or you don't
sleep here at all.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Oh well, I guess that is a choice. Yeah. Now
what if he had chosen, Oh, so I don't have
to sleep in this room, then you're saying I can
sleep in a different room because it might be better
because I would be both like the same side of
the bed. That's that wouldn't have gone over.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Well, I'm not gonna lie. If he ever came to
me and was like, I think we should sleep in
separate rooms, I think I would be okay with it,
because I think I would.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Be okay with it too, honestly, Like sometimes we sleep
in the same room, and then sometimes when I had
text Mex before, we don't, you know, maybe because I
don't want you to catch me doing anything while I'm
asleep that I didn't know that I did. And there's
a higher percentage of that happening if I eat certain food,
so I maybe in those nights I sleep in a
different bed, or if you're not feeling well, you sleep
(05:33):
in a different bed because you're sick, and you're like, ah,
you know, I don't want to deal with this. I
don't want my partner to have to deal with it.
So okay, wait a minute, Maybe that's a whole different conversation.
How many of you would sleep in separate rooms if
you could.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I don't like that with.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
The option of going back. No, Yeah, interesting, Chloe. Look
at you, Chloe. You're changing the changing the direction of
the show right now. I like it. Have a good day.
Thank you for calling.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
That's a different conversation, Like and each person gets in
equal sized room in their own bathroom in this dynamic.
I mean, I'm not saying someone that's sleep in a
guest room all the time, Like that's you know what
I mean. Like, let's just say hypothetically, like no one's
sacrificing anything. The beads are equally comfortable. But let's say
like maybe like I like it very cold where I'm sleeping.
(06:16):
I like it very cold. Some people don't like it
that cold. Well they're wrong, But well I agree those
people would be wrong. I totally agree with them. But
wrong people are out there. People are wrong. A lot
of people are wrong. I see them every day. They
call up here to you know, they say stupid things.
They text them like you know you're wrong, and that's
very sad for.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
You, right right, I feel bad if I didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Say it and you disagreed, And that's a horrible place
to a horrible place to be in life. But but yeah,
I mean, like let's say so instead of arguing about
that or living your life sort of dissatisfied because you
know your partner needs at seventy and you want it
in sixty six or whatever it is or or warmer,
then you just two separate sleeping environments and you can
still do that, you know, do the things that you
(06:56):
do in the bed together, and then you can just say, Okay,
right now, I'm gonna go to sleep, and then we
don't have these problems. Then. No, No, there's never a
time where you don't want him to wait. Wait, but
he's not in the bed because he works.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
All night, right, but I want him there. I would
prefer that he'd be there for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Now.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
I do like having separate like dressing rooms, so like
I have a glamor room and there is the guest
room where he can go, you know. But I think
as long as we have that like where my things
aren't being touched all the time and they can you know,
jury and stuff, it.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Could just be. But I think you should sleep in
the bed together.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Okay, so he can sleep in the bed with you,
but don't get anywhere near your jewelry. Yeah well I've
heard that about yeah, and your wings too. I think
when he shows up.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
At the factory, he would be like do you have diamond?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Hell yeah? What is he trying to wear rings or something?
I hate Brian Hey Brian. So you sleep between your
partner in the door, and that's because you're going to
save the day if anything happens.
Speaker 8 (08:04):
Okay, not because I want to leave first in case
of an emergency, but if there's an intruder, I feel like,
whoever it is is going to have to go through
me before they get to my spouse.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
I see. And so you're ready to save the day
right there. But it has nothing to do with the
fact that you could make a quicker exit.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (08:23):
It's just to be the hero and save the day.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I see. But it would. It's a nice side effect
or a nice side you know, the thing that you
could also be the first out in the event of
an emergency.
Speaker 6 (08:34):
I guess that is true.
Speaker 8 (08:35):
But I'm thinking of it more in the sense of, like,
even when we're walking down the sidewalk on the street,
you know, I'm always on the street side.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
My wife's always on.
Speaker 8 (08:43):
The inside, closer to the buildings. In case something happens,
I feel the need to constantly be.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
As a protector. Now, Brian, that's why I don't understand. Okay,
I will do it now, except I'm definitely my left ear.
So it does depend on the side of the street
that we're like the direction in the side of this
read Because if you want me to hear what you're saying,
which most I found most women enjoyed me hearing them
and acknowledging what they're saying to me, then I have
to be on one side of you. So sometimes it
(09:10):
doesn't work that way. Like if we're walking, you know
what I'm saying, Like if we're walking in a direction
where I would be on the inside and you'd be
on the outside, but you're on my left side, well,
then you know, then i'd say why I'm talking to you.
I'm like, I'm protecting you. You know, That's what I
say to them, I'm protecting you. But then if a
car hits us, Brian, then all we're going to become
(09:31):
is a heavy projectile to then in pale the person
next to us. So I don't understand is logic.
Speaker 8 (09:39):
The logic is that the husband always dies first friend.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Sorry, yeah, I guess. So if a car hits me,
it's a very small likelihood that I'm going to physically
stop the car from hitting you. I'm probably not going
to happen. I'm just saying. I'm just saying I might
wind up being the reason that you're dead. Oh no, no,
thank you, Brian, have a good to hit you first?
Probably wait, would.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
You honest question?
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Why do you want to get me first? You're saying, like, well,
it hits me, it's probably gonna kill you anyway, so
it should definitely hit you first. I'm just saying the
logic doesn't make sense, like he's gonna protect me from
a car, you know, the runs off the road logic.
That's not gonna happen, like I'm not I'm not a
brick walls. The car is not going to run into
(10:26):
hobby and then just stop.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
You would push me?
Speaker 1 (10:29):
What if you see it coming and then you have
the opportunity to push? Oh great, now now I assaulted you. Great,
this is great. Now you're done anyway.
Speaker 7 (10:36):
Yes, you can't a puddle like if a car drives
in a puddle, the water will.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Hit you, not it will, It will just hit me.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
And I don't know the puddle thing.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Yeah, Bailey, Hi Bailey, Hey, you and your boyfriend sleep
in different rooms. I like this.
Speaker 9 (10:54):
Yes, it's kind of funny how it started. I recently
just moved in with and you know, he had his
set of furniture. I had my set of furniture, and
when I moved in my bedroom set just went into
the guest bedroom.
Speaker 10 (11:09):
And like for me, it was just like an easier transition,
like he's kind of my things, you're kind of your things.
But like we don't do it every night. If there's
nice like I'm restless and want to sleep in that room,
I go there and vice versa.
Speaker 9 (11:23):
So it actually works out.
Speaker 10 (11:24):
Really nicely for us. And I'm kind of a person
who likes to sleep with the room freezing holes with
the fans blowing some nice pet nuts, which it works
out for us.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
There you go, Thank you, Bayley.
Speaker 8 (11:36):
It works.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Let's great, Thank you. This is what I'm going to do.
I have a nice day. I'm glad you called him goodbye.
Seeing works fine.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
So we're really rearranging our entire like sleep placement over
like weather like at the chance that someone may break
in and try to kill.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
That's what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying, Like
it's not I'm sorry, but like if you're standing over
my bed, well I'm first of all, good luck waking
me up. Yeah, what are you really going to do? Right? Exactly?
Thank you? This is one time somebody things are dumb.
Everyone thinks they're heroes. Like if someone walks in your roope,
what are you going to do? That's a that's right,
you're actually okay, well let me let me I'm getting
the strap now. Now now he's messing with you, like.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
It takes every night where you sleep, every night, just
the small possibility that someone may come in the room.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
But if they break it and stand over the bed,
like they've got both of us, there's right, right if
they want to kill us, we're dead now we're asleep, harmony.
But being closer to the door is not going to
accomplish it. It's just answer the same way that me
being closer to the curb is not a cop.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
I disagree with you there, but I agree with you
like I don't.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Why do you disagree with it? What? What is me
walking closer to the road actually accomplishing from a safety standpoint?
Speaker 4 (12:48):
Are you open to like are you open to maybe
seeing it our we.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Are? You mean? Am I I'm listening? Okay?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Okay, because I I know sometimes like if I don't
want my mind to be changed, I'll be like no,
I'm closed off from that. But no, listen. So, like
I said, you could push me out of the way.
You definitely could soften the blow for sure. And the
puddle thing, I think it's just like a nice sign
of chivalry. But if my date is deaf in one year,
I'm totally fine with him switching sides.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm fine to be on the side where I don't
have to listen. It's fine, but I'm saving your lives.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
But like, also, like if I'm standing behind you, you can't
even see me behind you, Like you're a big dude,
You're definitely protecting me.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I'm definitely two hundred and forty pounds into you at
that point, I become a projectile. But then tapples you over.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
But you get crushed by the car and you get
crushed by me.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Oh baby, if the exact trajectory sends you into her
or it could send you forward or back, but it's
definitely gonna go right next to.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
The car, drive sideways.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
If a car sent from behind you, it's gonna hit
you and you're gonna go forward. Jesse, I'm not that
a car is ten feet wide. If he ain't a whiteboard,
I'm sorry, you guys are not right about this. If
a car. If we are walking next to each other
and a car hits us, it's hitting both of us.
That's just the bottomless a chance.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
That you might be able to protect us, Like, there's
not even a slight chance.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Is not the car your hand out too.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
I think what I'm saying to you is whatever makes you,
guys feel better, is fine. It's a ridiculous argument. It's ridiculous.
The same the same way to being close to the
door is ridiculous. Like if we're in a if we're
in a hotel room, that's what twenty by twenty or
thirty by thirty, wherever a hotel room is, and a
guy comes in and stands over us, My being closer
proximity to the door is going to do nothing. But
I'm sorry, I'm not going to save your life if
(14:39):
a car hits and we're walking next to each other,
I'm sorry. Hey, Melissa, Him.
Speaker 6 (14:45):
Melissa, Yeah, good morning.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
So you are a very courteous person. You would just
switch sides of the bed no matter what.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
Absolutely, if you're moving in someone, you're gonna adjust to them.
But if they're moving in, you rule your house.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
I okay, interesting, Melissa, So it would depend then who
who moves into Who's house?
Speaker 6 (15:06):
Correct? Okay, but you guys start buying a house together,
and you guys have already lived together, then going into
a room, however you start it up, it's going to
be whatever side you picked before. Here, I see.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
So if we move into a news space together, then
we had we each have like an equal vote. But
if you come to my house, then you're you're getting
on whatever side I'm not correct? Okay, perfect, thank you, Melissa.
Problem solved.
Speaker 6 (15:27):
A good day.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
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(16:10):
except we stay them aloud. We call them blogs. And
now with a financial reports and international financial report here
is funny enough take it away.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Live from Canada? Do you blog?
Speaker 5 (16:20):
So this is not financial advice I'm looking for. It's more,
I guess, like parental advice that could be American, human, Canadian,
whatever you want it to be.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
I hope you're asking for the audience. Parental advice from
us wouldn't be very valuable since none of us have kids.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Well, I still think you guys have an input and
maybe some good advice. Obviously you're an uncle to two
small children's and you know, and they're the same age
as my daughter, or at least Mayvez was your niece.
So my daughter, Gigi is fourteen months. I hate that
I'm that parent, but like, I guess I get the
whole month thing now, because if you say a year,
it's like, well, she's a little more than a year.
But uh yeah, we're in a very tough spot. And
(16:54):
I remember, Fred, you saw a video on my Instagram too,
would be like a couple weeks ago, and you were like, damn,
I'm surprised that, like you know, she's kind of having
this kind of a meltout at this young age, and
I was like, I know, why are we melting down
at one year old?
Speaker 3 (17:08):
I don't know, and I need advice.
Speaker 5 (17:10):
I need help because it's getting really hard and I
don't know what to do at this point, Like you
don't discipline a toddler. I could put her in time
out in the chair in the corner and she'll end
up right back on the couch. Like that's not gonna happen.
And also I don't think she understands that. I don't
know if I even want to do that that way.
So I'm trying to figure out a balance of like
how do you I don't know, how do you train
(17:31):
like a train of dog? Like how do you how
do you like work with a one year old so
that the one year old stops doing things like she does.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
A thing where she hits now and I.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Know a lot of babies do this, Like she'll get
but only when she's mad if I take away my phone,
which I can't stand when she grabs my phone or
anyone's phone and.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Take it away. Okay, we're taking this away, and she
just hits.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
And we look at her and we're like Gigi no,
and then she goes nice and she rubs your head.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Nice's like she's it's I mean, there you go. You're
you're doing something because it's almost like if I'm interpreting
it correctly, like she's saying that wasn't nice and I
need to be nice. Like she knows the difference.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
She's okay, so we're smarter than I think.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
I don't know, I mean if I mean, I haven't
I haven't seen her do this, but it almost it
feels like she knows what's nice and what's not nice.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
Yeah, but when she gets mad, like I mean, she'll
start even like fisting and shaking, Like she'll start shaking
her fists at.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Me and I'm like, whoa, I mean you do that
to me. So that's where she's getting it. Yeah, I mean, maybe.
Speaker 5 (18:29):
It my temper because like I try to be calm
around her. I don't want her to be overwhelmed and
like anxious like me. But I don't know, I just
want her to kind of, I don't know, stop with
the hitting obviously, and kind of stop with the meltdowns
and like we're not doing full meltdowns at Target yet.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
You know, when the kid doesn't get what they want.
They just like, we're not.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
Doing that yet, but I can tell it's coming and
it makes me nervous. And I know kids are kids,
but I just I don't know, I don't want that.
Plus she looks like my mam a lot and my
in law my mother in law, and I feel like
we all kind of parents parents, we all kind of
do things different.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Oh oh oh yeah. My guess would be that your
your mom and Hobby's mom. My guess would be they
let her do it like this, it's just like here,
take it, take the phone or whatever. I think so,
but I think you also from I don't know what
I'm talking about here, but my guess would be some
of these melts that you have to just let them
do it and then walk away and just let them
(19:19):
process the meltdown.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
That's where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
I read about that in the mel Robins book. Let them.
I don't know she, I mean she did reference like
children like sometimes when in the aisle or whatever, and
when they want the toy, you don't want to buy
them the toy, like yeah, sometimes you know. I think
what would be frustrating for me falling it is that
like they're not of the age yet where you can
have a conversation even begin to reason with them, you
know what I mean. Like this whole this whole theme
of today has been about reasoning with people. But it's like,
(19:43):
I don't think like you get to a certain age
where you can say, you know, And I hear my
sister do it with my niece and she's a therapist.
So it's like kind it wildly annoying and the kid's
gonna be so screwed up. But it's like, you know,
you can make a choice. You know, you have a
choice here. Your choices are, you know, And like so
Polly can talk back the twit, but you can't really
do that necessarily.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
No, not not like at one. And that's the thing too.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
It's like I want her to like vocalize what she wants, right,
but they can't do that.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
So I think it's where a lot of meltdowns come from. Right,
even though I'm an adult who has full meltdowns.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
Too, I can at least vocalize front I don't want this,
or hey, Caylen, can I have this?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Like I don't just like throw my vocalizing.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
All right, she's given the phone, I'm gonna punch in
the face. That's what she said, that's for sure. But
I'm like, I don't want.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
To raise a brat, but I also don't want to,
like I don't know, like not give her what she needs.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
So I don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:32):
I'm having a really hard time with this. She's only one,
so yay, we're just getting started. Like it's only I
think gonna get a little bit worse before it gets better,
before she understands right.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
People are saying the power of distraction, I have two
under two, Oh my gosh. None of the tricks worked
other than distracting the energy to get back into a
good headspace under three. They don't understand traditional punishment. Yeah, yeah,
that's true too.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
I do a lot of like redirecting, And my doctor asked,
is she good with that?
Speaker 3 (20:56):
And I said yeah, I mean she's like me.
Speaker 5 (20:58):
It's like, hey, we're here, squirrel, look this way, now,
look over here, like if I want her to like
stop doing what she's doing, I'm really good at like
kind of being like, hey, look over there.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Outside meltowns to normal. Those are big emotions for a
kid who doesn't have the tools to express how they're feeling.
These are texts that we're getting and hasn't learned yet
how to regulate their emotions. Supporting them through the meltdown,
teaching them little by little coping skills will make them
emotionally balanced. As for hitting, it sounds like you're doing
everything right. I would make sure that they understand that
(21:27):
hitting hurts and maybe look sad. Tell them that that hurts.
Please don't hit me, I didn't hit you, et cetera.
It sounds like you are a great mom. Someone said
this personal said, I'm impressed my friend's parenting advice. Right, Like,
I know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
Please don't hit me, I didn't hit you. Yeah, that's
hardly Chris Hansen. I'm gonna try all this though. She's
sitting and telling you that it's nice, right.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
She's hitting you, and then you tell her no, and
then she's like showing you what night, because like rubbing
her face would be like a nice feeling, or she'd
being like, no, this is nice to me slapping you
in the face. Yeah, I don't know. I can't understand Gigi.
I don't speak her language. Same So, once you come
from a school, counselor start teaching her emotional regulation skills, books,
modeling sign language. There are ways. Yeah, tell her to
(22:17):
read a book about it. Read this book. Have you read.
Let them
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