Big Lash Energy - Girl Talk, Elevated!

Who knew a cougar romance would be just the thing Jayna needed to get her groove back? In this episode, our host shares the touching story that started out as an online flirtation with a (much younger) pastors son that blossomed into one of her most meaningful love connections. (Halleluja!) Follow along as the unlikely pair go from late night phone calls and sexy texts to that nerve-wracking moment they finally meet in person. A st...

So you went out for margaritas and came home with a 25-year-old? Honey, it's happened to the best of us! (Jayna included!) In this extra spicy episode, we’re talking about the real pros and cons of dating younger men—like stamina that won’t quit, and the sudden need to Google slang mid-sex (Wtf is "Rizz?"). 

We’ll explore what makes older women irresistible (hin...

Its True Crime- BLE style! You're never going to believe what happened with Jayna and her cleaning lady (no WONDER she has trust issues!). This one's a wild ride! Press play then decide if YOU think listening to murder documentaries saved her life. This one's going to have you waiting on the edge of your seat, adding locks to your doors and saying "OMG!!!

As mentioned:

JAYNA'S LIST OF BINGE-WORTHY PODCASTS

Betrayal

Stories of peo...

WARNING: Do NOT Listen Without Tissues.

Who knew a 17yr old could be this thoughtful! Last week, it was Arzos prom and Jayna was doing everything she could to surprise her teen but this week, It's graduation and Arzo's flipping the switch! Just wait till you hear how Jayna got surprised! This is the heartwarming story you've been waiting for... a nod to second chances, highschool teachers and a tim...

"How do I pee in this dress?!" (It's HARD being so glamorous!) Press play for a real life Cinderella story, except this dress was pink and instead of a horse in carriage, our beauty went to prom in a mustang convertible!

While her biological family downplayed graduation as something that was unnecessary, Arzos chosen family traveled 5 hours to be there, cheering louder than anyone in the crowd. This episode is about more than getti...

She was the girl who wasn't supposed to graduate. In fact, a teacher once described Arzo as "One kid I thought was too far gone to be saved." but she and our host teamed up to create a mother-daughter duo that was NOT to be fucked with! Jayna promised Arzo that the two of them would cross the finish line together, as a team, no matter WHAT it would take and you'll never BELIEVE some of the challenges they faced along the way. Enjoy...

Nobody falls in love thinking they're going to break up. In this episode, inspired by Arzo's broken heart, we're sharing stories of some of histories WILDEST realtionship trainwrecks. First up, a modern take on Henry the VIII (AKA: The Original Fuck Boy). His love story with Anne Boleyn was one for the history books!  He wrote her poetry, changed the country’s religion for her, and then—spoiler alert—cut things off literally. (Who ...

Do you talk mean to yourself too? As if the self-talk wasnt bad enough, some of the most hurtful things we believe about ourselves didn’t even come from us. They came from offhand comments, schoolyard shade, or that one person’s opinion that we never fully let go of. In this episode, Jayna opens up about some of the things she's told herself as well as things p...

🎈This week, we’re celebrating 3 incredible years of BLE! Jayna is walking (okay, dancing) down memory lane with some juicy updates from your favorite episodes, a wild behind-the-scenes story, and a fun surprise from Khari Leone!

Whether you’ve been here since day one or you've recen...

Was she petty? YES. Does she regret it? HELL NAH!

Pop the champagne and cue the celebration playlist — Jayna is *FINALLY* officially DIVORCED!  YESSS! If you've been paying close attention, then you know It's been over TEN YEARS since our host split from her husband...so what's the hold up? Well don't worry, because Jayna explains everything in an episode that's cheeky, empowering, revengeful and spiteful with a dash of cringe and ...

Jayna was sick and tired of swiping for days just to arrange one date SO she took a chance and tried something new.

Tune in to hear what happens when our host, the self-proclaimed "Tinder Ninja", takes a break from the apps and dives headfirst into the wild world of speed dating! In this playful and informative episode, Jayna signs up for an in-person speed dati...

WARNING: Don't listen without tissues!

Arzo lost her mother to cancer when she was only 5 years old and 7 years later, she asked Jayna, a woman who lived down the street, to step into the role. Since then, their story has touched hearts all around the globe. While Jayna's received all kinds of praise for what she has done, no one really talks about Arzo's first mom. So, In this deeply moving episode, our host pays tribute to Fatima...

Jayna meets with an animal communicator to find out what her 2 french bulldogs are thinking. (Imagine "Woof!" but with subtitles!)

Find out what THEY say their individual reasons are for being in Jayna's life and the connection between the pups and her becoming a mom. (Who would have thought it would be so deep?!) If you think this is all a bunch of woo woo, give it a listen and decide for yourself if what the pet psychic is saying...

Have you ever wondered what your dog was thinking? In this 2 part series, Jayna gets help from a real pet psychic in order to learn what's going on inside the minds of her two french bulldogs. In this first episode, our host is introducing you to Apollo and Diego: the pups who stole her heart. You'll learn all about their gotcha stories, quirks, their sass and all the chaotic charm that makes them impossible not to love.

Are you as...

From BFF to "WTF?!" is being a bridesmaid really a friendship death wish?! Just wait till you hear these stories! You might have thought the bride was the one with "zilla" tendancies...well think again, sis! Who would have thought your "closest friends" could turn your big day into big BIG drama. We’re talking catfights, cold shoulders, naked limo rides and one bridesmaid who ghosted... o...

Is your passport saying "let's go!" but your wallet's saying "hell no!" ?  If your wanderlust has a taste for the finer things (but your account balance politely disagrees), then this one's a must! This week, Jayna's serving up champagne travel tips on a sparkling water budget—because you deserve that ocean-view suite and enough left over for a rooftop...

"Is travelling alone for losers?" "Aren't you lonely?" "Don't you get bored?" "...Is it SAFE?!" After countless trips on her own, Jayna's constantly answering these questions. In this episode, you get all the answers! Our host is sharing the reason she loves to travel, the perks of doing it solo, as well as tips and tricks for the most memorable adventure ever! Whether you're dreaming of sipping espresso in Italy, hiking solo in Co...

From misbehaving grooms and cheating brides, to money hungry moms- our host has seen it all! In this controversial episode, Jayna shares observations she's made over the past 20 years of working in weddings and just WAIT till you hear the 4 uncomfortable truths nobody talks about. WARNING: You might just have to pick your jaw up off the floor! This one's sure to spark some interesting conversations. (You didn't really think getting...

Hot Take! If you're someone who thinks breaking up over text is bad, then PRESS PLAY! 

Breakups are rough, but who says you need to be ugly crying in public? In this episode, Jayna makes the case for why breaking up over text isn’t just acceptable—it might actually be the best way to do it. With four solid arguments and a few cringey personal breakup stories, you'll be convinced that  sometimes, ...