Have you ever spent weeks practicing something in your riding, only for it to completely fall apart the moment you're under pressure? You're not alone.
In this episode of the Daily Strides Podcast for Equestrians, Lorna shares a heartwarming story from her son's first school concert that perfectly mirrors what happens when riders and horses step out of their comfort zones.
You'll discover why even after all your careful practice, things can still go "wonky" when pressure shows up, and how those very moments can become the foundation for confidence, growth, and a stronger partnership with your horse.
In This Episode, You'll Learn:
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Why practice and pressure feel completely different, and how to use both to your advantage
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How to reframe mistakes so they become confidence builders, not confidence crushers
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What to do when things go sideways in the saddle (because they will!)
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Three real rider examples that prove progress doesn't require perfection
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Simple mindset shifts to help you stay consistent, compassionate, and in sync with your horse
Key Takeaway
Your confidence isn't built when everything goes right.
It's built in those imperfect, unpredictable, "wonky" moments, when you keep showing up, keep riding, and keep communicating with your horse anyway.
Pressure doesn't mean failure. It's just feedback showing you where to focus your next bit of practice.
Resources Mentioned in This Episode
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Your Signature Ride Challenge → Practice applying gentle "pressure" in a fun, no-judgment way. https://stridesforsuccess.com/ride
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Restart & Reschool Private Coaching → Work 1-to-1 with Lorna to turn your practice into progress. Find out more https://stridesforsuccess.com/rr
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Connection Membership → The online space where real riders learn, plan, and stay consistent with their horses. https://stridesforsuccess.com/join
- The Daily Strides Podcast Online Community → Continue the conversation with other riders who listen to the podcast. Share your own "wonky" moments, ask questions, and celebrate progress inside our free Facebook community. Join Here
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