Why He’s Struggling: Understanding Men’s Emotions, Discomfort & Self-Discipline w/ DJ Logory

In this powerful episode of Rock Your Comeback, Nichole sits down with DJ Logory, the creator of the Be That Guy program—an inspiring movement that helps young men reconnect with their emotions, build discipline, and live with purpose. DJ shares his insights on what it takes to be the kind of man who doesn’t just go through life, but grows through it.

We talk about that haunting feeling of “What did I miss?”—when life feels like it’s passing you by—and how to take back your time and focus. DJ opens up about how easy it is to fall into the trap of comfort, especially in a world designed for convenience, and why discomfort is the key to real growth.

This episode isn’t just for men—it’s for anyone who loves a man, is raising one, or wants to understand the masculine emotional experience on a deeper level. Nichole and DJ also explore how women can support the men in their lives with more empathy and compassion, and how men can start forgiving themselves for not being where they thought they'd be.

🎧 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to reconnect with purpose when you feel like you've missed something big
• What it really means to “Be That Guy” in your life and relationships
• The psychology behind breaking out of bad habits and comfort zones
• Why modern technology may be robbing you of your potential
• A simple strategy to reassess and reclaim your time
• The power of self-forgiveness and starting from where you are
• What women don’t realize about male emotions—and how to support healing
• How emotional mastery and discipline go hand in hand for men

This episode is real, raw, and radically transformational. Whether you're in a season of rebuilding or you're supporting someone who is—you don't want to miss this conversation.

About DJ: Connect with him:

www.instagram.com/djlogory

At age 24, DJ began coaching young men in their late teens, and by 25, he was facilitating emotional intelligence (EQ) group training for nationally recognized “Top Place to Work” companies. By 27, he was building a coaching practice dedicated to helping young men in their 20s reduce stress, gain confidence, and develop lasting, healthy habits.

Known for his measurable and disciplined approach to habit-building, DJ applies principles from physical fitness to mental fitness—training the mind like a muscle to strengthen emotional intelligence and resilience.

DJ created the Be That Guy mentorship program that leverages the power of peer support, showing young men they’re not alone and equipping them with the tools to create meaningful change.

He is also the host of the Be That Guy podcast and is certified and trained in emotional intelligence, mental fitness, NLP, leadership, and human optimization—specializing in the fundamentals of eating, moving, and sleeping for peak performance.

About Nichole Eaton

She is a powerhouse Intuitive Therapist, Podcast Host, and 2x Best Selling Author who has spent the past 16 years helping women reclaim their power in life and business. With a master’s-level background in mental health counseling and a deep intuitive gift, she’s known for sparking massive transformations in the lives of her clients. Nichole is all about breaking limits—energetically, mentally, and strategically. As the co-founder of Visionary Blueprint, she’s on a mission to help women in business shatter their own glass ceilings and create next-level success on their terms. 

 She’s the best-selling author of Rock Your Comeback: The Down-to-Earth Guide to Reclaiming Your Power, co-host of the Visio