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December 17, 2025 11 mins

Take the two questions from this episode even deeper, download The Art of the Edit for five more essential questions to curate your most authentic year. https://schoolofselfimage.com/art-pod

Imagine if two simple questions could completely rewrite your year. Not by pushing harder or doing more, but by shifting your self-image. These are the questions that change everything as you move into a new year.

One of the greatest resources I use in my life is to ask profound questions – none of the fluffy, surface-level stuff. In fact, I disappear for 24 hours every December to gain clarity on what I truly want.

And here's the truth: answering these two questions that I'm sharing today can honestly shift your next 365 days from habitual to intentional. 

Here's what we cover:

• Why the two questions you ask yourself can determine the identity you build next year

• How tolerations drain energy, lower standards, and quietly shape a self-image of "settling"

• Why choosing one thing you're done tolerating creates powerful, focused transformation

• How identity (not willpower) is what ends old patterns and habits

• The practice of becoming the woman who no longer tolerates the old version of your life

• How small, daily actions reinforce a new self-image and create your next-level year

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