Healthy Communication

There are many unhealthy patterns of communication in a marriage, but none as deadly as blaming each other. The blamer destroys intimacy and makes communication impossible.

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Episode Transcript

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Communication is not enough. It must be healthy communication.

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Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute.

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There are many unhealthy patterns of communication, but none as
deadly as the blamer. It's your fault. If it weren't
for you, everything would be fine. You never do anything right.
I don't know how you could be so stupid. The
blamer destroys intimacy and makes communication impossible. An ancient Hebrew

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proverb says, A fool does not delight in understanding, but
only wants to show off his opinions. If you are
a blamer, I urge you to apologize to the person
you so often blame. Your relationship will never improve until
you admit your destructive words and seek to understand the

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other person's perspective.

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Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.
For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.