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Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh, Neuroleadership Coach and Forbes Coaches Council member, answers a question she hears privately from nearly every senior executive she coaches. 

Is imposter syndrome real at the executive level? The feeling is real. The interpretation most leaders attach to it is frequently wrong. 

What gets called imposter syndrome is often identity expansion instead, discomfort that signals a leader is operating at the edge of their current capacity, not evidence they do not belong there. 

This episode breaks down why the pattern intensifies with seniority instead of fading, and what to do with it when it shows up.

In this Forbes article-like edition, Sahar breaks down the difference between imposter syndrome as most leaders describe it and identity expansion as the neuroscience actually supports it. She unpacks why the discomfort intensifies with seniority rather than fading, why the nervous system cannot cleanly distinguish “dangerous” from “unfamiliar,” and the Pushback Beat every high-achieving leader is quietly thinking. Not sure where you stand? 

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Is imposter syndrome real at the executive level? 

Why does this pattern intensify with seniority instead of fading? 

What is identity expansion in leadership? 

Does this discomfort ever fully go away? 

Should leaders hide this discomfort from their teams? 

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:12):
Is imposter syndrome real at the executive level?
Ask that question privately toalmost any senior leader, and
you will get a longer pause thanyou expect before the answer.
This is Shar Andradi, and EuroLeadership Coach and Forbes

(00:35):
Coach Council member.
And here I'm answering aquestion I hear privately from
nearly every senior executive Icoach.
Is imposter syndrome real at theexecutive level?
The feeling is real, theinterpretation most leaders
attach to it is frequentlywrong.

(00:59):
What gets called impostersyndrome is often identity
expansion instead of discomfortthat signal a leader is
operating at the edge of theircurrent capacity.
So this episode, this is AI CafeConversations, and this episode
is a little bit different.
This is our Friday Forbesarticle-like episode.

(01:24):
It doesn't have much AI attachedto it, but I felt like I really
want to share this with youbecause this is a very recurrent
theme that I see happening,especially in the key.
So I wanted to share it withyou.
It is a conversation.
This is a conversation that Iactually have more than almost

(01:46):
any other in executive coaching.
A leader, usually someone with agenuinely impressive track
record, sits across from me andsays some version of the same
sentence.
I keep waiting to feel like Ihave earned this, and I never

(02:07):
do.
Every single time.

(02:43):
So let's be precise about whatimposter syndrome, as most
people describe it, actuallyclaims.
It carries a verdict inside it.
Like I don't belong here.
I'm fooling everyone in thisroom, or I'm a fraud.
They will find out that I don'tknow what I'm doing.

(03:04):
It's basically waiting for theother shoe to drop.
That framing treats discomfortitself as proof of fraudulence.
Feeling comfortable, therefore,you must not deserve the seat.
Identity expansion describes theexact same physical sensation

(03:25):
completely differently.
The discomfort is not proof thatyou don't belong, it's a signal
the world has grown past theidentity you built to fill the
last one.
Most leaders who advance quicklyskip an entire step.

(03:49):
Other leaders get more time tocomplete.
Their sense of self does notcatch up to their new title
before the next demand plans.
And that gap gets felt in thebody long before it's ever
understood in the mind.
And by the way, I said there isnot much AI today, but AI is

(04:13):
actually making this worse.
Because now, when we use AI orleaders or executives use AI and
it gives them a decision or away of thinking, all of a sudden
it's like, how didn't I thinkabout that?
Do I really know what I'm doing?
Is AI has a better thinking thanI am?
Is that because I don't knowwhat I'm doing?

(04:35):
Again, it's a loop that keepscoming back.
Okay.
But here is why it matters toreally look at this.
It's not just semantic.
Leaders are trained across theirentire career to read discomfort

(04:57):
as data that something is wrong.
In most life, that instantgenerally serves you.
Discomfort tells you to checkthe numbers again, to slow down
before the merger, todouble-check the rule before you
sit, to double-check thedecision AI give you.

(05:19):
It's a useful alarm system mostof the time.
At the exact edge of expendedcapacity, that same alarm system
expires.
The nervous system does notclearly distinguish between this
is dangerous and this is simplyunfamiliar.

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Remember that.
Both register the same way inthe body, both produce the same
activation.
So a leader stepping into agenerally bigger role reads the
unfamiliar sensation through thedanger lens.
Because that's the only lenstheir training gives them and

(06:09):
concludes they must not belong.
I want to name something mostcontent of this topic misses
entirely.
The pattern does not fade withseniority.
For many leaders, it actuallyintensifies.
Every promotion resets the exactsame gap between the new role

(06:32):
and the identity that fit thelast one.
A leader who reaches the C-suitehas usually outgrown five or six
earlier versions of themselvesalong the way.
And every single transitionreopened the same discomfort at
higher and higher stakes eachtime.

(06:56):
That is why senior leadersprivately carry more of this
pattern than junior ones do, notless.
Even though every leadershipnarrative around them assumes
the opposite.
Nobody tells the story of theCEO who still quietly feels this
every single week.

(07:19):
So what actually changes when aleader gets the diet, gets this
right, gets the whole idea aboutwhat imposter syndrome is and
what it does to their pressuresystem.
Naming this accurately changeswhat happens next, immediately

(07:41):
and practically.
A leader who believes thediscomfort proves fraudulence
has exactly three movesavailable to them.

And all three make things worse: hide it, overcompensate for it, (07:51):
undefined
or quietly disengage from a rolethey have already earned.
One small retreat at a time,without ever naming one.

(08:11):
A leader who instead recognizesthe same discomfort as expansion
has a completely different setof moves available.
They can stay present inside thediscomfort because it's no
longer functioning as a verdictof their worth.
It's functioning as informationthe same way muscle soreness

(08:36):
after a generally hard workoutis information not injury.
You do not stop training becauseyour legs are sore.
You recognize the soreness asevidence of the training worked.
This is exactly where my brainframework begins for every

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leader I coach through atransition like this.
Regulation first.
Before the identity work, beforethe confidence build, most
programs jump straight to.
A leader trying to buildconfidence on top of an
unregulated nervous system isbuilding on set.

(09:19):
Regulate the activation first.
Then the discomfort can becorrectly read as data instead
of danger.
I can hear some of you thinkingsomething like this right now.
This sounds like a cleverrefrain, but it does not change
the fact that I generally do notknow what I'm doing half the
time in this role.

(09:40):
Here is the mechanism behindthat objection, not just
reassurance.
Not knowing exactly what you'redoing is not evidence you don't
belong in the role.
It's the accurate, honestdescription of operating at a
generally new level ofcomplexity for the first time.

(10:02):
Every single executive above youexperienced the identical
sensation at their equivalenttransition.
And the ones who stay in theroles are not the ones who
stopped feeling it.
They are the ones who correctlyread the feeling as the entry
fee for growth, instead as averdict for their competence.

(10:27):
The discomfort was neveroptional.
Only the interpretation of itwas.

(11:10):
Not sure where you actuallystand.
30 minutes, no pitch, justclarity.
Link is in the descriptionbelow.
A free call, a clarity call.
I am someone with a medicalbackground and degree who became
a new leadership coach.

(11:32):
And I have sat with this exactfeeling at more transitions in
my own life than I usually admitpublicly.
Leadership doesn't fail, nervoussystems do, and neither does
yours.
At the exact moment, it feelsthe most uncertain.

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