#17 What If Your Partner Has Had A Vasectomy?

In this episode, Lauren addresses a common concern among women who feel the desire to have more children but have partners who have undergone a vasectomy. 

She explores the various spiritual and practical issues around this, emphasising the importance of understanding where the longing for a child is coming from—be it from soul connections or other life influences. 

Lauren also discusses alternative paths to parenthood, including reversals, IVF, and non-biological means like adoption and foster care. Tune in to gain insights and clarity on this sensitive topic.

00:00 Introduction: What If Your Partner Has Had a Vasectomy?

00:55 Understanding the Source of Your Feelings

04:00 Exploring the Possibilities Beyond Vasectomy

05:39 Trusting the Soul's Journey

07:56 Conclusion: Finding Clarity and Hope

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Episode Transcript

(00:03):
Welcome to Babies. From Beyond, the podcast that
gives all babies a. Voice whether.
They are still in spirit or already Earth.
Side. I'm Lauren Dionysius.
A former. Registered NICU nurse.
Turned. Baby soul communicator.
And I'm here. To share the wisdom of today's

(00:23):
babies. To guide you on your.
Motherhood Journey. So this week we're going to be
asking the question, what if your partner has had a
vasectomy? Again, this is quite a common
question that I received from women who thought that they had

(00:45):
finished the pregnancy conception journey, or perhaps
they have found a new partner and that that sense around
having another child comes up again, except their partner has
vasectomy. So I want to start by saying

(01:06):
that there are many ways for babies to come to the earth and
that having a vasectomy is not as big of an issue as perhaps it
used to be. As I mentioned, there's now
other options these days, which is amazing.
But even beyond this, what we need to find out in this

(01:29):
situation is where is this coming from?
So many women I speak to, they will say I thought I'd finished
having a child, but now I'm feeling this child around me.
I feel like they want to come toearth.
Now I'm not feeling complete, but my partner has had a
vasectomy. This is probably the most common

(01:51):
situation, although of course there are always variations on
this. But the first question I come to
here is again, where is this coming from?
Is this coming from the soul level or is this coming from the
human level? And if you can feel a baby soul

(02:15):
around you, like I always say and have said multiple times in
previous episodes, just because you can feel a baby soul around
you does not mean that they're planning on coming to Earth in
this lifetime. That's just one of the reasons.
There's many other reasons why you can sense a baby around you.
It can be past life, it can be future life.

(02:37):
It can be hovering for our future generation.
It can be just learning or beingcurious about the world.
They may have a message for you,but they're not actually
planning to to come to the earthin your lifetime.
So there's all these questions that we need to find answers to
1st. And the simplest way to do this,

(02:58):
just to simply ask these children, tune into the energy.
Ask like, why are you here? Are you planning to have a life
with me in this lifetime? Is that why you're there?
Or is there something else around you that is helping me to
feel your presence? So that's one side of the coin.

(03:24):
The other side of the coin is ifyou're not feeling a baby soul
around you, but you're feeling something within yourself where
you're feeling that pull and that nudge.
Again, asking the same questions, like where is this
coming from? Because often, not always, but
often, when we dive deeper into these these questions or these
energies, it can actually be coming from something else.

(03:48):
It can be coming from a sense oflack in your life, a need that
is not being fulfilled. And this may not necessarily
just be from babies and children, but in other areas of
your life. It can be influenced from the
outside world, the external, from from society, from friends,
from family, all of these things.

(04:10):
Or it can actually be a message from your soul that there's
something here to explore. And again, depending on what
that is and what questions you ask and how you can dive into
that energy will give you different answers.
And these are the answers that we need in order for you to find
clarity around why these feelings, this sense, this need,

(04:34):
this longing for many women is suddenly coming up again.
Because I've definitely had experience where babies have
been able to come to couples where he has had a vasectomy.
Like this does happen. It doesn't happen very often.
It can't even happen naturally. Sometimes there can be.

(05:00):
Again, depending on the technique used for vasectomy,
Some have like a higher success rate than others or failure rate
as we could easily say. There's also the possibility for
reversals as well, which also have like mixed results in
relation to that. And then there's also the option
for IVF as well. So if it comes through that this

(05:23):
soul and your soul do have a journey together in this life
that perhaps wasn't revealed until later, then it's important
to trust in that as well and to explore that and to be open to
how this particular soul may come to you.

(05:44):
It's sometimes it's not even biological.
You know, I remember working with a woman that a child came
to them in a very different way,an unexpected way through a
family situation I've also had where our soul has come to them
through foster care and adoption.
So it's being open to the possibilities and open to the

(06:04):
paths that may already be there,but these paths can become
clouded with our own expectations or what it should
or shouldn't look like. But at the end of the day, I
always say to women, trust that longing that you have inside you

(06:27):
and follow that. See what it can up for you, see
what insights it can provide you, see what wisdom is there
for you, see what messages are there.
And then follow those pieces of the puzzle step by step until
you get a clear answer. And also letting go of how that
comes to you. Because when you decide it must

(06:50):
be biological, I'm feeling there's energy around me, so it
must be going to come to me in abiological way.
That may be true, but it's important to be open to other
possibilities as well. The longer I do this work, the
more I'm realizing just how I want to say brave and courageous
these souls are, but also how curious they are to have

(07:13):
different experiences here on the earth.
So many of the souls coming to the earth right now have been
there, done that, and so they'relooking for new ways to
experience being a human. And that means new ways of
conceiving, new ways of birthing, new ways of parenting,
all of these things. So the message here is being

(07:34):
open and exploring that the way this child may want to come to
you may not be in the way that you think or expect it to be.
And that's important, and that'sOK as well.
Trust in that. If there's anything I've
learned, it's about trusting in the soul's journey, which is
often not what our human mind expects or understands.

(07:59):
Because our human mind cannot see the bigger picture, can only
really see where we've been, ourhuman mind can't even see the
future either. So this is one of the main
lessons or learnings that I see for women and couples where
vasectomy is influencing the journey.

(08:20):
There's usually a lesson there around alignment and getting to
the core of what's going on along with releasing shoulds and
chords and and should ABS and all of those things.
So just to summarize this episode, it's just a short 1

(08:43):
today because I feel with vasectomy, it's usually fairly
straightforward in the way it's about connecting with a soul
that you feel around you and finding out why they're there.
That's a big thing that I alwaysask first.
I never assume that just becausethere's a baby soul in a woman's
energy field that they're planning to come because often

(09:05):
they aren't. And this is where a lot of women
and couples can become a little bit disillusioned by the
journey. So that's always the first
question. Ask them why they're there.
And then from there, you will get more insights and more
guidance and more messages around the journey for you in
this life, the options for you in this life, or whether they're

(09:27):
here for a completely different reason.
So I hope that helped to offer alittle more clarity and insight
into those situations, that vasectomy plays a role in
conceptions and the journey ahead.
But also to give you some hope too, that if you are feeling
that yearning, that deep longingfor a child, that having a

(09:49):
partner with a vasectomy doesn'tneed to mean the end, it just
means that more questions need to be asked.
Thank you for tuning in to Babies From Beyond.
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Out the show notes for more waysthat you can connect with your
baby soul, including. One-on-one readings.
And online programs to support you.
Until next time, trust your journey and.
Your baby. Take care.