Episode 192 - Who Has It Easier In The Dating World? Men or Women?

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Hosts Caz & Eli are joined by their sister Brittany to share the women's perspective on why modern men are not as desirable as they used to be. We discuss some things both men & women do that leave the other gender questioning dating.

We also discuss a few summer topics including:

• The World Cup
• Love Island
• New Albums

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SPEAKER_01 (00:08):
If you watching, you're like, oh my god, what a
yeah, this look different.
We got different people in thestudio, but the vibes are always
here.
I'm excited.
Change of scenery.
Change of scenery.
Look at this.
Look at this.
I like this.
We're making hits today.
Banger.
And you hear a different voicetoday.
Who we got in the building?
We got the one and only.

(00:28):
The one and only.
Miss Britney and Mara.
Sis is back on.
This is what your fifth time?

SPEAKER_02 (00:35):
Is it five already?
No, one, two, two.
I thought it was like three.
This might be four or two.

SPEAKER_01 (00:41):
This is three.

SPEAKER_02 (00:41):
No, it's three.
It's three.
This is four or five.

SPEAKER_01 (00:44):
You did the one in the orange dress?
Yes.
You did the one.
It was red, but okay.
Whatever.
You know what I'm talking about.
I thought it was like a salmon.
Then you did the other onebefore that.
I did the We did the JordanSparks.
Yeah.
Yes.
Yes.
This is four.
The blue shirt.
Yes.

SPEAKER_02 (00:58):
And then the red dress.
Same thing.
This is Thur.
We in Blackwood.

SPEAKER_01 (01:02):
Yes, yes.
So we are here in CriteriaRecording Studio, Miami,
Florida.
We're excited because there'ssome big names that have come
out of the studio.
There's been some big musicthat's been made here.
And we're going to play it foryou.
I just feel greatness when Iwalk in here.
I feel greatness in the buildingwhen I walk in here.
You just feel the aura in thisroom.
I feel it.

(01:22):
I've with my brother and mysister, we got some good stuff.
We're playing a game today.
We have some trending topics.
There's a lot of things thathave been going around.
For example, Drake album justdropped.
Oof.
My goat.
Got the World Cup coming up.
My goat's also involved.
We got TikTok challenges.

(01:44):
I'm gonna leave that to you.
I just thought it's a TikTok toyou.
You the dancer.
But yeah, we are excited.
This is uh a different type ofepisode for us, but shout out
cash money.
Woo! Cash money media, cashmoney management.
All that good stuff.
There's somewhere back there.

(02:05):
Say it one more time.

SPEAKER_02 (02:06):
I want to press the screen.

SPEAKER_01 (02:06):
Hit that green button.

unknown (02:07):
Hit it.

SPEAKER_02 (02:11):
Cash money.

SPEAKER_01 (02:12):
So um, yeah, we're gonna bring the vibes.
Brittany's here to be ourmoderator because sometimes us
gentlemen don't always know thelife of a woman.
I feel like I know the life of awoman.
I'm pretty good.
I think you do.
You failed.
Last time we did this, youfailed.
I basically won.
No, you did not.

SPEAKER_02 (02:29):
Oh, with the challenge?
Yeah, nah, yeah, I got it.

SPEAKER_01 (02:31):
So about a year, yeah, about a year ago, we did
the guessing feminine products.
I I got the eyelash curls.
The eyelash curl.
No, you did it wrong.
It was the curler.

SPEAKER_03 (02:42):
I lost it.

SPEAKER_01 (02:43):
Steva Cuff got it.
Brittany's got some women'slingo for us.
Um, should we start with that orshould we start with the topics?
How should we start?

SPEAKER_02 (02:51):
Whatever you want.

SPEAKER_01 (02:52):
We're gonna start with some of these topics.

SPEAKER_02 (02:54):
Yeah, let's let's get into life updates.
Life updates.

SPEAKER_01 (02:58):
Um, shout outs to the New York Knicks, we're going
to the finals.
The Knicks are in the finals.
First time in 27 years.
Shout out Tyler Kolick.
If you see this, hop on the pod.
Big fans of yours.
Shout out my boys.
You know what?
Bring the whole Knicks squad on.

SPEAKER_02 (03:19):
Please.

SPEAKER_01 (03:19):
All the above.
I'm gonna tell you now.
Whether you watch basketball ornot, for this team, if if they
them making it as crazy, theywin it all.
The city being burned down.
It's been 27 years.

SPEAKER_02 (03:32):
27 years.
Aren't you 27?

SPEAKER_01 (03:34):
I'm 27.
That's crazy.
I'm 27.
It's been since 1999.
We made the finals.
Haven't won since it's been like45 years.
I think you were so, yeah.
If that's June, you were likethree, four months old.

SPEAKER_02 (03:48):
Wow.
You still win.

SPEAKER_01 (03:50):
Just pop it out.

SPEAKER_02 (03:51):
You win.

SPEAKER_01 (03:52):
Gang, gang, gang.
So um, yeah, like we said at thebeginning, talking about
basketball.
We got the World Cup coming up.
Shout out to everybody indifferent areas.
We always appreciate um everycity, every country that shows
love here.
And this is an opportunity forjust all of us to come together.
You got a World Cup prediction?

(04:12):
Ooh.
My finalist or like who'swinning it off?
Let's go uh your finalist.
Yeah, finalist.
You know, well, I gotta look atthe pool, so I I don't I don't
know the bracket.
Let's just go without looking atthe looking at the bracket, just
your top two teams.
My top two teams, my realisticanswer, and then my my dream

(04:32):
answer.
Sure.
My dream answer, I love Brazil.
Okay.
Shout out to the Brazilians, andI love Spain.
Okay.
Realistically, probably like uhEngland, Argentina, something
like that.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.

(04:53):
You will go with my uh talkword.

SPEAKER_00 (04:55):
My my my realistic answer is I think Brazil has a
strong team.
And I think Spain has a strongteam.

SPEAKER_01 (05:03):
I think I think I think Spain beats Brazil in the
final.
If the brackets match up.
That's the realistic answer.
That's my realistic answer.
Yeah.
That was my dream answer.
My uh, my dream answer.
Portugal sees the US in thefinal.

SPEAKER_00 (05:19):
Ronaldo scores a hat trick and wipes them boys off
the floor, walks off into thesunset.
That's actually what's gonnahappen though, so put money on
it if you want to.

SPEAKER_01 (05:29):
Oh man.
Is that funny?

SPEAKER_02 (05:32):
Wait, can you guys bet?
I wanna I wanna see a bet go.

SPEAKER_01 (05:35):
No, I'm with you on it.
I would love to see that.
No, let's bet for real, though.
People hate to say I don't Idon't root for the U.S.
in in football.
I don't know what to tell you.
Yeah, I root for them in otherthings.
Football, no.
They'll be okay.
They'll be all right.
Uh, but yeah, the well, that wasjust our quick predictions.
You we're gonna talk about yourman.
Your favorite man, Mr.

(05:56):
Aubrey Drizzy Drake.

SPEAKER_02 (05:58):
Oh, let's do a little one, two.

SPEAKER_01 (06:02):
I heard a rumor though.
I heard a rumor about you andhim.

SPEAKER_02 (06:05):
Oh.

SPEAKER_00 (06:06):
I don't know how true this is.

SPEAKER_02 (06:07):
Cut the cameras.

SPEAKER_01 (06:08):
I don't know how true this is.
Oh, we can talk about it later.
We can talk about that later.
No, we might as well talk aboutit.
I just heard you brought up.

SPEAKER_00 (06:13):
I just heard someone on the street.

SPEAKER_02 (06:14):
Oh, what's the rumor?
I didn't hear the rumor.
I can confirm or deny.

SPEAKER_00 (06:18):
I heard that y'all, y'all might have shared like a
little intimate moment orsomething.
Oh in this building.

SPEAKER_02 (06:23):
I was in this building.
You spread it.
Did that happen?
This is what's gonna get Drakeon the podcast.

SPEAKER_01 (06:29):
Did that happen?
Did I did I make that up?

SPEAKER_02 (06:31):
I can't confirm or deny.

SPEAKER_01 (06:32):
Did I make that up?
Did you hear that too?

SPEAKER_02 (06:34):
Aubrey.

SPEAKER_01 (06:35):
I'm hearing it now.

SPEAKER_02 (06:36):
We want to hear from you.

SPEAKER_01 (06:36):
She's not denied it, though.
You're making me sound crazy.
She's not denying it.
I digress.

SPEAKER_02 (06:42):
I will say we were in the same area.
Okay.
If you know what I mean.

SPEAKER_01 (06:47):
Okay.
I'll just make my my ownassumptions.
So we're gonna let the peoplejust expand on that.

SPEAKER_02 (06:53):
Listen.
Aubrey.

SPEAKER_01 (06:56):
If you see this, y'all birthdays are right next
to each other.

SPEAKER_02 (06:58):
I know I'm the 23rd, he's the 24th, big Scorpio gang.

SPEAKER_01 (07:03):
Aubrey, come on the show.
Come clear the air if you needto, or come confirm the rumors
if you need to.
Whatever you want to make.

SPEAKER_02 (07:09):
And then we'll really then the rumor will
really be true.
Think about it.

SPEAKER_01 (07:12):
She didn't deny it.
She didn't deny it.
She did not deny it.
Well on that.
Well, did you hear the well I'mgonna say new albums, new three
albums?

SPEAKER_02 (07:21):
Not one, not two, but three.

SPEAKER_01 (07:22):
So I have to be honest.
I heard all of them, but Ididn't give them the true listen
that they deserve.
I gave them like was it onego-around?
One go-around, like one and ahalf goes around.
Like I've been playing thebangers here and there, but I
haven't sat down and got toenjoy because Drake always comes
with the like the sneaky hitsthat I like for myself.

(07:43):
Where you gotta like keeplistening.
Yeah, that nobody else reallylikes.
So I haven't found those yet.
Yeah, I'm the same, and I hateit because social media throws
out their opinions before I caneven fully process it.
It's a lot of songs to gothrough too.
It's a lot of he gave us a lotto work with.
Which I'm not mad at it.
It will last me through thesummer.
Let us know your review of theDrake album and any other music.

(08:05):
We're gonna get back to itthough.

SPEAKER_02 (08:07):
Get back to it.

SPEAKER_01 (08:08):
We got some things to go over, Brittany.

SPEAKER_02 (08:10):
What's going on?

SPEAKER_01 (08:10):
I mentioned this at the beginning.

SPEAKER_02 (08:12):
Oh.
Yeah, I try to get it, bro.
I'm really about to start now.
What do you mean?

SPEAKER_01 (08:20):
Oh, matter of fact, you got something to say.
So get it off your chest becauselisten, we got a reaction to it.
I don't like what you said atthe beginning.

SPEAKER_02 (08:26):
What did I say at the beginning?

SPEAKER_01 (08:27):
Yeah, we got a bone, we got a bone to pick on that.
Yeah, we got a bone to pick onthat one.

SPEAKER_02 (08:32):
Oh, I was saying, okay, so my horror movie is if
there's a horror movie aboutsassy men.

SPEAKER_01 (08:39):
What's T with that?
What makes a man sassy though?
I feel like that's a that'sderogatory.
First of all, she's asking thewrong man.
So I can never but from yourperspective, what makes a man
sassy?
I just uh I mean just the thingshe does, actions, whatever.

(09:00):
It's your horror list.

SPEAKER_02 (09:01):
The men don't the chivalry is not there no more.

SPEAKER_01 (09:06):
Shivery's dead?
Chivary's dead.
Chivalry's dead?

SPEAKER_02 (09:10):
Chivalry is dead.

SPEAKER_01 (09:12):
The chivalry I know.
I hope so.
I think you guys are the onlygood men left.
It's very much alive.
You saying uh the Willborns arethe only good men left?

unknown (09:20):
Ha ha!

SPEAKER_02 (09:21):
T.

SPEAKER_01 (09:22):
That's T.

SPEAKER_02 (09:23):
Is that clock it?
See, look, that's what I'msaying.

SPEAKER_01 (09:25):
Did I do it right too?
Did I do it right?
Is this how you do it?
You just taught me this today.

SPEAKER_02 (09:29):
Clock it.
Oh.
Afraid of the dark?

SPEAKER_01 (09:35):
That men?
Men be afraid of the dark?
Uh-oh.
What kind of men you've beendealing with?

SPEAKER_02 (09:41):
Ooh.

SPEAKER_00 (09:44):
I'm afraid of bugs.

SPEAKER_02 (09:45):
See, as a man, why are you afraid of bugs?
Men you still.

SPEAKER_00 (09:51):
I can't help it.
If I'm sassy because I don'twant to kill the bug just like
you don't want to kill the bug,then I'm sassy.

SPEAKER_01 (09:56):
You know, I'm with that because if a big ass spider
pops up in the house, we canhave the house.
What are we doing?

SPEAKER_02 (10:01):
He can have the house.

SPEAKER_01 (10:02):
You can have the house foreclosure.

SPEAKER_02 (10:06):
Yes.
Come on, bro.
I'm going to scream louder thanyou.
That's sassy.
That's not even like thesassiest thing, but that's all
right here's what I'm going todo.

SPEAKER_01 (10:13):
Here's the gentleman in me.
I'm going to throw a littlechunk at it.
If it don't die from that, wegotta go.
I need a stick.

SPEAKER_00 (10:20):
If I got a long enough stick to where it can't
touch me, men used to hunt withtheir hands.

SPEAKER_02 (10:25):
Their hands.

SPEAKER_00 (10:26):
Yeah, they hunted animals.

SPEAKER_01 (10:28):
Now they out of necessity.
Now you go to Walmart in Publixand you don't have to hunt no
more.
It's like you don't have to killbugs no more.
I'm gonna be real with you.
We did we did an outdoor episodeone day.
Kev, you remember?
No, that was crazy.
Matter of fact, we were in Cali,we were in the desert.

SPEAKER_02 (10:45):
Oh, the bugs is crazy.

SPEAKER_01 (10:47):
There was a spider the size of my foot.
There was a dinosaur tarantulaout in the open, and they're
just like, oh yeah, it's just aspider.
You can't even step on you.
It's that big.
Yeah, no.
I said out.
And they're like, oh yeah,there's snakes out here, but you
know, you'll just be fine.
Just watch out for them.
No.

SPEAKER_02 (11:06):
Just wangle a snake.

SPEAKER_01 (11:07):
See, now if we in the crib, a little spider about
that big, a little roach.
I'm gonna kill it.
I gotta kill you.
Are you killing Eli?

SPEAKER_02 (11:12):
You're not killing a little snake.

SPEAKER_00 (11:13):
You don't understand, bro.
Animals don't care about if theylive or die.
They don't care.

SPEAKER_01 (11:19):
Okay, so So like they just do anything.
They'll land on you, they'llbite you, they'll spray stuff on
you.

SPEAKER_02 (11:26):
So you gotta be quick.

SPEAKER_00 (11:27):
No, or you just avoid them.
They're like crash outs.

SPEAKER_02 (11:30):
So they're just gonna stay attacked.

SPEAKER_00 (11:31):
Like, like, like crash outs in real life, you
would avoid them.
You don't interact with them,you stay away.

SPEAKER_01 (11:36):
They don't care if they live or die.

SPEAKER_02 (11:39):
That don't make no damn sense.

SPEAKER_01 (11:40):
Nah, in the crib, I'm gonna kill it.
But if it's in the if it happensin the car, we're done.
Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 (11:46):
Let's pray not.
That's not gonna happen.

SPEAKER_01 (11:48):
Alright, what else is on your horror list?
Since we're so bad.

SPEAKER_02 (11:52):
Um well, since we're on the topic of men, why are we
ordering lemon drops andespresso martinis?
What happened to the bourbon?
What happened to the oldfashioned?

SPEAKER_01 (12:02):
We can't even drink what we want any eat.
Oh my god.
That's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 (12:06):
Well, as a man that loves his bourbon, I love the
old fashioned old fashioned.

SPEAKER_02 (12:10):
And you guys are the only ones left.

SPEAKER_01 (12:11):
And I'm gonna drink my bourbon neat, but if they got
a good espresso martini, likeI'm gonna have at least one and
I'm gonna try it.
Like we both know old fashionedis our go-to.
But if I look at that menu, thatlemon drop looked nice.

SPEAKER_02 (12:25):
With the sugar rim, don't piss me off.
Okay, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 (12:28):
No man, no man should be ordering no yellow
drink.
Don't go to the bar and order noyellow drink.
I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_01 (12:33):
That's where you sugar rim, salt rim, tahheen,
mid-conversation.
I don't care.

SPEAKER_02 (12:39):
Hey, yo.
I mean, Drake, Drake getting thepeach bellinis from that cactus
cafe.

SPEAKER_01 (12:45):
And the ondacific.
The ondacified Furuto, Feruto.
Because especially we live inthis tropical climate.
Sometimes I just want somethinglike I want like an apple spritz
or something.
That's true.

SPEAKER_02 (12:59):
You want a Mai Thai?
I want I'm at the pool.

SPEAKER_01 (13:02):
I feel like we're in South Florida.
Like, I feel like there weshould have like a little bit of
leeway.
Like the other day, I wanted amargarita with a tahine rim.
And I went out for drinks.
With the tahina.
And I got one margarita with atahine rim.
It was just a house.
It was just straight.

SPEAKER_02 (13:16):
Good.
Get the classic.

SPEAKER_00 (13:17):
No strawberries in the house.
No extra fruit.
I got one.
My craving was fixed.
And then after that, it was oldfashioned, old fashioned, old
fashioned.
Oh, good.
And I sent you the, I sent youthe picture.
You did.
The fruit of fashion.
But like you could get one pass.

SPEAKER_02 (13:30):
You can get one pass, but why are you why are
you three bellinis deep?
Why?
Momosa's cool.

SPEAKER_01 (13:35):
It's not a bellini day, but you know I'm like.

SPEAKER_02 (13:37):
Frozen at that.
The froze.

SPEAKER_01 (13:39):
I mean, if we're on vacation, a little frozen pina
colada.

SPEAKER_02 (13:42):
Pina colada got it.

SPEAKER_01 (13:44):
From the from the uh little pool bar.
From the pool bar.
Yeah, exactly.
With a little floater on top.

SPEAKER_02 (13:49):
Oh, yeah.
And a cherry.

SPEAKER_01 (13:52):
Can I get a rum floater?

SPEAKER_02 (13:54):
No, you need to get the Hennessy straight or
something.

SPEAKER_01 (13:57):
Hennessy's.
It's like, imagine it's 12 p.m.,middle of the day, burning hot.
I don't want to drink Hennessy.

SPEAKER_00 (14:02):
Alright, another thing is, is so when I order
drinks and I'm with people, Ifeel bad for the bartenders.

SPEAKER_02 (14:09):
So I don't want to be like You feel like when you
order mad drinks and when youorder your first drink?

SPEAKER_00 (14:14):
When I order drinks that are all different.
Like I don't want to be like,oh, two lemon drops here, a
green tea, and then a shot ofJamison.
Like I just want to be like, oh,the group's getting green teas?
Alright, green teas.

SPEAKER_01 (14:24):
Lemon drops.

SPEAKER_02 (14:25):
Y'all taking green tea shots.

SPEAKER_01 (14:27):
So alright, so we'll we'll end on this question.
What top three drinks?
What should a man be drinking,in your opinion?

SPEAKER_02 (14:35):
Old fashioned straight up.

SPEAKER_01 (14:38):
Can I get it smoked?

SPEAKER_02 (14:39):
Sure.
That sounds manly.

SPEAKER_01 (14:41):
Can we get a cube of ice?

SPEAKER_02 (14:42):
We can get that fake cube that goes in.
Oh my god.
That's fine.
It's gonna get watered down.

SPEAKER_01 (14:47):
So drinking hot.

SPEAKER_00 (14:49):
A lot of these bars don't have the cubes no more, so
you can't even get your realfashion.
You gotta drink it neat.

SPEAKER_01 (14:53):
Okay, sorry.
Next two.

SPEAKER_02 (14:56):
Um I say the ingredients gotta be only two.

SPEAKER_03 (15:01):
This is a beer.
Drink a beer.

SPEAKER_02 (15:05):
Drink a freaking beer, please.
Um, yeah, like tequila soda.
Tahen rim.
Oh man.

SPEAKER_01 (15:13):
No, no, no.
Spicy guava margarita.
I don't do like at a bar.
That's like that's like if yougo to a little Mexican joint,
they they serve it in the bigfish bowl.
Like, I might as well get thelittle.
Make sure you watch what heorders next time you go drink
with him.
I really don't even be orderingfuture things.

SPEAKER_02 (15:30):
The lemon drops gotta go.

SPEAKER_01 (15:32):
I don't be doing that.
I'm I'm like old-fashioned wine.
But sometimes great.
Sometimes I'm like, I wantsomething different.
And sometimes, especially ifyou're with a girl, you're like,
damn, your drink looks kind ofgood.

SPEAKER_02 (15:42):
Like, yeah, y'all swapping places and stuff.
Like the girl getting the beer.

SPEAKER_00 (15:46):
That's sassy.
Britt doesn't like that.
That's sassy.
Just for one time, though.
Not all the time, just one time.

SPEAKER_02 (15:52):
You could take a little sip of mine, but even
reaching over to take a sip ofthe stuff.

SPEAKER_01 (15:55):
I ordered with the straw.
Bro, I ordered that uh.
Can you sip the straw or no?
I ordered some pretty shit at uhthe graduate.
I ordered the pistachio.
Yes, bro.

SPEAKER_00 (16:04):
Stay order, stay order.
Ordered a what is it?
A pistachio martini.
Bro, with a straight faceordered in front of like nine
people.
Like, oh no.

SPEAKER_01 (16:15):
You're sick.
You put the little crumbs on thestreet.
Where were you?
In LA?
That's not a good one.
No, I was in Virginia.
Virginia Beach.

SPEAKER_02 (16:22):
No.

SPEAKER_01 (16:23):
Very random.

SPEAKER_02 (16:25):
Yeah.
Um, bourbon.

SPEAKER_01 (16:27):
Do you do you have any more horror stories before
we get into ours?

SPEAKER_02 (16:29):
I can give you one more.
Let me see.
Um, I mean, right now, therhinestones on the men.

SPEAKER_01 (16:36):
Oh, yeah, I can't do that.
I can't do that.

SPEAKER_02 (16:38):
What's T on that?
I actually want to know from amale's perspective.
You wearing rhinestones?
What's T?

SPEAKER_01 (16:42):
You gotta ask somebody that does shit like
that.
I don't like and can't relate.
I don't I don't go flashy tothat point where it's like, I
don't know.

SPEAKER_02 (16:50):
I'm like, Right, the rhinestone, the girl's on like
the bedazzle.
I'm like, now I can't.

SPEAKER_01 (16:57):
You're asking the wrong thing.
Yeah, I can't relate.

SPEAKER_02 (17:00):
Like, I don't even got bedazzled clothing.

SPEAKER_01 (17:03):
I'm not gonna lie, I also can't do the little man
purse.

SPEAKER_02 (17:06):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (17:06):
I know some, I just I can't do it.

SPEAKER_02 (17:08):
Like a fanny pack or like an actual purse.

SPEAKER_01 (17:10):
You know what I'm talking about, like the little
satchel.
Okay.
What's that called?

SPEAKER_02 (17:14):
I don't know.
It's not a fanny pack in thefront?

SPEAKER_01 (17:16):
I've had one though.
The fanny pack is worse.

SPEAKER_02 (17:18):
No, it's not.
It depends.
It's not if it's the dad pack.

SPEAKER_01 (17:20):
I just can't do it.
I had one before.
Okay.
I don't remember.
It was Louie though.

SPEAKER_02 (17:25):
That's a good one.

SPEAKER_01 (17:26):
No, they're killing me.
The Supreme pack.
The Supreme Fanny pack.
Sometimes you don't got pockets.
This is true.
I'm just gonna do it.
I just can't do it.
You know, I'll throw a littlecargo in.

SPEAKER_02 (17:36):
But don't have the fanny pack here.
Oh yeah, when it comes across.
Like, what's the point of it?
What's the point of the fannypack if you don't have it as a
grab your essentials?
I don't know about that.

SPEAKER_01 (17:45):
Do you have a horror list for the ladies?
Yeah, what's your horror list?
Do I have one?

SPEAKER_02 (17:48):
It don't gotta be ladies either.
Like our horror list is also.

SPEAKER_01 (17:51):
I just get the egg quick.
Everything just gives me theegg.

SPEAKER_00 (17:58):
Everything gives me the egg.
I don't know.
I'd have to do that.

SPEAKER_01 (18:00):
We'll just go people in general.
You know what I don't like?
I don't like when people areperformative on social media.

SPEAKER_03 (18:07):
I mean an example.

SPEAKER_01 (18:09):
Like those creators who like you can tell this is
not their day in their life, butthey're doing all this extra
stuff.

SPEAKER_02 (18:18):
Oh like they they set up their tripod and then
they wake up.

SPEAKER_01 (18:23):
I don't have a clear example.
It's just the people are like Imean the interesting thing.
I just like when it's all thateven I don't have a problem with
like setting up to wake upbecause obviously you can't
film, you can't just wake up andjust film.
You I get you have to set thatup, but the people for like it's
just like you know that's notreally them.

SPEAKER_02 (18:38):
Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (18:39):
But I would say posting posting too many stories
in a day.

SPEAKER_02 (18:45):
Like how many of them can I be posting?

SPEAKER_01 (18:47):
Like the way you don't post.
When when that bar is thatsmall, you gotta click like when
it's getting this big, likereally six is then that's six is
like OD.
Okay, well, like you're doing alot.
I know we're thinking of thesame person.

SPEAKER_00 (18:59):
Yeah, we're thinking about the exact same person.
Uh she'd be posting 25 a day.
If you post six, you're doingsomething, and it's like, okay,
that was exciting, or you'redoing a dump.
And it was like, okay, nicepicture here, nice picture here,
nice picture.

SPEAKER_02 (19:11):
Like if it's like back-to-back videos.

SPEAKER_01 (19:13):
You got 15 stories up, 12 of them are memes.
Like, I promise you're not thatfunny.
12 are memes.
No one thinks you're scenaquotes and one selfie.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And you're just not that funny.
Another one, now that we'rehere.
Um, when people break up andthen they get straight to
posting thirst traps.

SPEAKER_00 (19:32):
Oh, and then it's like, okay, one is cool.
Let the world know you sing.
All right, you okay, cool.
Every single day.

SPEAKER_02 (19:40):
So you could tell when a when someone's gonna be.

SPEAKER_01 (19:42):
I promise, yes.
Every single day.
Oh, there she goes every singleday.
Trust me, your radar is goingoff.
And the man's no longer on thepage, and then every story after
that, there's less clothing andleft clothing, and then the ash
pick here.
And then there's a bow.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Some you you know, you just try,you just trying to get y'all are

(20:03):
not low, and we see you, and youneed to know what it is.
Find God.
Find God.
Turn off Instagram and find God.
You know what happens a lot.
You're gonna get me started.
I get this all the time.
Girl, get in a relationship,cool, yada yada yada.
Literally, the day they split upis so obvious.
She wants to come back and hitme up.

(20:24):
That's on disruption.
Like, I'm just I'm like I'measy.
Like clockwork.
They'll like a story.
Hey, how you doing?
Or like maybe not right away,but like there'll be months of
no communication, and thenthere's an uptick in story
replies and she likes to be ableto do it.
And I'm like, I'm like, we gottasee you.
We know what you're doing.

(20:45):
Find God.
Find God.
We're gonna talk about the thewomen's lingo.

SPEAKER_02 (20:50):
The women's lingo, because I see y'all trying to do
the clock it.

SPEAKER_01 (20:53):
We not trying it, we're doing it.
Come on.

SPEAKER_02 (20:54):
Well, you actually aren't.

SPEAKER_01 (20:56):
Wait, it's like this?

SPEAKER_02 (20:57):
It's the middle finger.
Oh, it's the middle finger.

SPEAKER_01 (20:59):
Okay, we're learning today.

SPEAKER_02 (21:00):
And guess who do this?
Who?
Gay men.
There's nothing wrong with that.
I'm just letting you know.
It comes from them.

SPEAKER_01 (21:08):
What's some other women's lingo?
Because I won't use that one.
I feel like even doing this.
You ate down.

SPEAKER_02 (21:13):
You ate down.

SPEAKER_01 (21:14):
Eight and left.
No crumbs.
Can we like rank them?
Because that's a stupid one.
Okay.
I actually hate it.
We're not doing that.
Alright, let's rank this women'slingo.
Let's just throw one.

SPEAKER_02 (21:25):
I'm trying to think.

SPEAKER_00 (21:27):
I love your whole life.

SPEAKER_01 (21:29):
You know what that is.
You know what?
You know what?
You know what?
I'm looking at it.
This goes back to my horrorlist.

SPEAKER_02 (21:35):
Oh man.
Oh man.
Go ahead.

SPEAKER_01 (21:38):
Because there were there's something came out.
Like a man, y'all gonna hatethis.
But like it was training, menwill post a pick, and they were
like, fellas hype me up likegirls hype their girls up in a
pick.

SPEAKER_02 (21:51):
Oh, I wanna hear this.

SPEAKER_01 (21:53):
And it was like, Yes, King, you you went off.
Slay my whole life.
Yes.
Know your girth.
I'ma do one.
I'm a see I'm scared of doingbecause I feel like if if it
don't hit the right audience,because y'all don't be hyping
each other up like that.

SPEAKER_00 (22:12):
But y'all hop each other up like stupid.
Like it's like OD, it'sexcessive.
Like you can just be like, oh,cute pick, love this.
Like, no, it's always to likethe slayer.

SPEAKER_01 (22:23):
But how did how do y'all do it?
Like, I like you will haveliterally 200 comments from
girls off of like just a little.
And I'm like, how do y'all doit?
Like, we post that and we'rewe're getting flames.

SPEAKER_02 (22:35):
Men need to love each other more.
That's one.
And two, because that's ourgirl.
She posting.
She looks fly.
Like, yes, queen.
Like down.

SPEAKER_01 (22:46):
We just when we hype it up, we drop a hundred emoji,
a little fire.
Fire emoji.
Shit hard.
A little this.
A like.

SPEAKER_00 (22:52):
A like?
Whoa, that's love.
That's showing love.

SPEAKER_02 (22:53):
You're never gonna be like, bro, you look good.

SPEAKER_01 (22:56):
I even repost on the story some of the homies.
Oh, there you go.
Yeah.
D looks nice.
Yeah, but we need some words.
But we can't repost the girls.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Excessive words are just a lot.
Ick.
So not ick.
Slay my whole life.

SPEAKER_02 (23:14):
Who is saying that?
Slay.

SPEAKER_01 (23:17):
We see it.
Seeing it.
Trust.

SPEAKER_02 (23:20):
I don't know any other lingo.
I'm trying to think.

SPEAKER_01 (23:22):
But I've always wondered like, do y'all like
when you post something, doesthat just happen?
Or is it just universal femaleknowledge to just know?

SPEAKER_02 (23:30):
We have radar.
Honestly, my friends, we gothrough the pics together.
So when I post, I'm like, hey,okay.

SPEAKER_01 (23:37):
Oh, so it's like an event we y'all post.
Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 (23:40):
It's a movie.
I've been a premiere.

SPEAKER_01 (23:41):
I've been in Kev's position where I'm behind the
camera doing the whole photoshoot for them.

SPEAKER_02 (23:46):
So you know it's especially if I took the photos,
yeah, that shit fire.

SPEAKER_01 (23:50):
Okay, another add it to my horror list because I just
thought of this.

SPEAKER_02 (23:53):
Um This ain't a horror.

SPEAKER_01 (23:56):
It's like no, this is oh, why'd I just lose it?

SPEAKER_02 (23:58):
Psychological thing.

SPEAKER_01 (23:59):
No, it's not even directed towards the women, it's
just in general.
It's gonna come back to me.
Damn it.
It'll come back to me.

SPEAKER_02 (24:05):
On a Love Island, season ends up June 2nd Island.

SPEAKER_01 (24:09):
Wait, really?
I I'm still shocked at myself ofwhy I even like the show.
What do you mean?
It's entertainment.
It's very entertaining.
Entertainment.
It's very entertaining.
And then like because I never Inever watched it up until last
time.
It's even more entertainingwhen, you know, you get to see
these people off-screen andinteract with them, and it's

(24:30):
like, okay, this is how youthink, and this is the cut that
you got, the editor's cut yougot on camera, and then see some
stuff behind the scenes.
But it is 100% entertainment.
I don't know why in the pastreally the past like three
years.
Yeah, everyone who's on there, Ikeep meeting them.
Yeah.
Randomly.
That's what I'm saying.
Like whether I'm out or at anevent or they've we've had some

(24:53):
on the pod, like, I just keeprandomly meeting them, and I'm
like, okay, now I feel like adeeper connection to the show.
Exactly.
And then you get and then youget invested in your like even
watching Beyond the Villa.
Shout out Charlie, love you,boy.
Um, when uh when like Beyond theVilla came out right after we
had Charlie on the show.

(25:14):
Literally a month after.
A month after.
And it was right after we hadjust got done, I believe,
watching his season of LoveIsland.
Not right after, but in the inthe middle of that.
It was still fresh.
So it was like it was stillfresh enough to where we met
you, we just seen you on screen,and then we got to see you on
Beyond the Villa, and it's likeI feel like I'm watching one of

(25:35):
the bros.
I'm watching the supporting thebros.
Exactly.

SPEAKER_02 (25:38):
And how okay, personal opinion.
Meeting Charlie and seeing himon TV, does he so I it's the
same vibe?

SPEAKER_01 (25:46):
I told this to somebody the other day off
camera, and I was like, of allthe people that we've met and
that we've talked to, and thatit was like Charlie is one of
the few like like real life,like genuine ones that it was
like you could tell doesn't toomuch care about the fame and all
of the clout and stuff likethat.
Like he's just like good vibes,want to have a good time.

(26:08):
Um yeah, we were literally we'reliterally recording, and like
obviously there's a littleicebreaker at first, and uh
walks in the room, it's likefrom the jump, we're like,
what's good, bro?
Like we just chopping it up,nice transition to the camera.
Um, we probably would have gonean hour longer, but we were cut
on time.
Like you can you can tell whenpeople get on camera and then

(26:29):
they try to like be somethingelse that is.
Or try to go viral, or he justwasn't like that.
He was like, I'm trying to havea good time, you know, vibe out
with y'all.
Absolutely vibe.

SPEAKER_02 (26:38):
Yeah, I love that.

SPEAKER_01 (26:40):
So big fan of Charlie.
Yeah, honestly, I'm uh I'm lateto it to be honest.
But last season was the firstseason I watched.
Girl I was with put me on.
I was like, watch that.
I watched a couple episodes.
Yeah, that's another thing, man.
And then and then last year,like, at least where we live,
they were having watch partiesat the bars around us.

SPEAKER_02 (26:59):
It was crazy.
Charlie Seven.

SPEAKER_01 (27:01):
And I'm like, so I remember I went to uh I was
going to a run club.
I went to the run club rightafter the run club starts at the
bar.
It's crazy.
You run to get a go get a freedrink after whatever.
Oh I I leave the run club andthere's 300 women at this bar.
I'm like, I want to watch LoveIsland.
I said, I'm gonna stay.
I'm gonna watch with them.

(27:22):
And I got hooked.
It's a great show.
It's a great show.

SPEAKER_00 (27:25):
It's super entertaining.
I feel like season seven wasjust I don't know, season seven,
like really?

SPEAKER_02 (27:31):
Did you watch season six?

SPEAKER_00 (27:32):
I watched a little bit of season six, but I
couldn't get into it the waythat I got into seven.
Okay, and then seven was justlike chaos.
I'm really invested in thesepeople's lives.
Yeah.
And then they did Beyond theVilla, and it's like Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 (27:47):
Beyond the Villa's new.
That came actually from seasonsix.
A shout-out season six.
Very elite season.
Season seven was chaotic.

SPEAKER_01 (27:53):
I honestly wish that they could have.
I know that these people havereal lives outside of reality
TV.
I wish they could have goteverybody on Beyond the Villa,
not just a little click, but Ithink some of them didn't want
to.
Yeah, I can I can imagine.
I can imagine.
Like we met uh we met Nick atthe Grammys, too.
Fun.
Shout out Nick.
Also a good time.

(28:14):
Cool people.
He looks cool.
So dope.

SPEAKER_02 (28:17):
All right.
I mean, I'm excited for seasoneight.

SPEAKER_01 (28:20):
It's gonna be the first time I've ever prepared to
sit down and watch realityshows.

SPEAKER_02 (28:24):
I really hope it's good.
I haven't even seen the cast oranything.

SPEAKER_01 (28:27):
Well, I'm balls deep and perfect match right now.

SPEAKER_02 (28:29):
Wow.

SPEAKER_01 (28:31):
We watch it all the time.
Yeah, I'm on the TemptationIsland.
Uh-huh.
Uh-huh.
Uh uh The Ultimatum.
Ultimatum.
Age of Attraction.
Okay.

SPEAKER_02 (28:41):
That's the one.
That's yeah, what?
You watching that?
Yeah.
I thought that was over.

SPEAKER_01 (28:45):
I already finished it.
Oh, but I thought you weresaying.
Oh, yeah.
I watched it too.
Temptation Island's another one.
Y'all are crazy.
Y'all look at that.
We're gonna get y'all on theshow too.
I would never go on there, butyou can come talk about it.
Yeah, y'all are crazy.
Nah, bro.
Uh oh, he can't hear.
Oh, Devin tried to get me onthere.

SPEAKER_02 (29:03):
On Temptation Island?
Yeah, he's sending me theapplication.
I'm like, I'm not going onthere.
I sent you the application forThe Bachelor.

SPEAKER_01 (29:09):
Wait, but The Bachelor, they gotta come to me.
I can't be one of the peasantsgoing for one girl.

SPEAKER_02 (29:15):
Not the peasants.
Yeah.
So you want to be The Bachelor?

SPEAKER_01 (29:17):
I want to be The Bachelor.

SPEAKER_02 (29:19):
You don't want to be on The Bachelorette.

SPEAKER_01 (29:20):
No, it's like it's me and 30 men competing.
What if I don't like her?
Like, y'all got it?
30 men going for you, or 30women going for you is crazy.
That's not a joke.
Who do you think you are?
Right.
The Bachelor.
You acting sassy.
You want the women that tasty?
That's sassy.
No, but what the opposite end isme competing with 30 men.
Go fight for the girl you want.
If you want her, go fight forthe game.
Go to war live time.
But that's what I'm saying.

(29:41):
What if I go on there and Idon't even want her?
What the hell am I doing?

SPEAKER_02 (29:45):
In the application, you don't even see who it is.
You gotta find out.
Exactly.
What am I?
Oh yeah, that's crazy.
Yeah, I'm out on that.

SPEAKER_01 (29:51):
What if you gotta never mind?
I don't know how to say hername.
I don't know how to say hername.
Why we always gotta name thecards.
I was gonna name drop one of thegirls on the bachelor.
Like, what if you got her?
Oh, the the scandalous,whatever.
Yeah, but I don't, you know,what if she ends up on the show?
Like she'll be like, nah, Idon't fuck them.
Like, no, we're gonna do that.
Nah, nah, my thing is like, ifthat because she she told me,

(30:12):
and I was actually thinkingabout it.
Yeah, but then you told me, Iwas like, and then I watched a
little bit, I was like, allthese guys chasing one girl.
And my first thought was like,if I'm not even attracted to
that.
That's what I'm saying.
Like, I know I know how you are.
And I know that if you had gotthat girl, you would have been
like, yo, take me.
Get me out, take me home.
Like, I'm cool on that.
Send me home.
I would do the same, honestly.
Make me the bachelor.

SPEAKER_02 (30:31):
I definitely don't want to chase a man, so I'm
never gonna be on that show.

SPEAKER_01 (30:34):
I mean, I would win anyways, but you would win?
You'll win?
Easy.

SPEAKER_02 (30:38):
Sometimes I watch these shows.
I'm like, I mean if you thinkyou'll win.

SPEAKER_01 (30:40):
I think I would win Love Island.

SPEAKER_02 (30:42):
I You would win Love Island?

SPEAKER_01 (30:44):
Yeah, yeah, I would win.
I would win.
I would have won.
Would have won.
What?
You would have won the path.

SPEAKER_02 (30:50):
You would stick to one girl?

SPEAKER_01 (30:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Wait, let me think.
Season seven.
Who would you have won with?

unknown (30:56):
Oh.

SPEAKER_02 (30:57):
Oh, that's a girl! That's a girl!

SPEAKER_01 (31:00):
Season seven.
Who was on season seven?

SPEAKER_02 (31:02):
Okay, so who are the girlies?
I mean the We got Huda.

SPEAKER_00 (31:04):
We got Huda, we got Huda.
Iris.
Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 (31:07):
Iris.
Well, she's not really old, butsure.
Okay, you're naming literallyall the bombshots.
I'm naming all of them.
Well, except Huda.
Shelly.

SPEAKER_00 (31:14):
Shelly.

SPEAKER_02 (31:15):
Bella, Bel Dashe.

SPEAKER_00 (31:16):
Clark.

SPEAKER_02 (31:17):
Clark.
Um, Olandria.

SPEAKER_00 (31:19):
Ooh, Olandria.
Tough.
I think I would have won withClark.

SPEAKER_01 (31:24):
I pick Clark.
Cool.
I pick Clark.
I think I would have won with uhClark or Bella.

SPEAKER_02 (31:30):
You like Clark or Bella?
I love Shelly.
Shout out Shelly.

SPEAKER_01 (31:33):
I think I would have won with Clark.

SPEAKER_02 (31:34):
I love Shelly.
Or I really would have.
I would win with Andrea.

SPEAKER_01 (31:37):
I would have won with Huda, but just saying.
See, you like emotional damage.
Ooh.
I could change her.
See, that's your problem.
I could change her.
Free therapy.
I would have carried her.

SPEAKER_00 (31:49):
I would have carried her over the water.
Take notes, Chris.
I would have changed her.
Yo.
Just talking about Huda.
Ooh, that nigga's big.
He's massive.
He probably can't fit throughthe tool.

(32:10):
No, he's really tall.

SPEAKER_01 (32:11):
I'm not gonna lie to you.
Oh man.
No, I'm excited though.
I'm excited.
I'm curious to see.

SPEAKER_02 (32:16):
Yeah.
I mean, those are the updates.

SPEAKER_01 (32:18):
Alright, so if you if you had to pick one reality
TV show to go on, what would itbe?

SPEAKER_02 (32:24):
Oh Love Island looks fun.
It just looks fun.
I mean, I don't know.
I don't know the horror stories.

SPEAKER_01 (32:30):
You know I've always thought about it, but what
scares me is the challenges.

SPEAKER_02 (32:34):
The challenges are much.
They're freaked out.
They're like kissing everybodyat the same time.

SPEAKER_01 (32:39):
Like the spitting and the milk and oh my god.
I think I think Love Islandwould be the most fun because
it's the longest.

SPEAKER_02 (32:45):
It is the longest.

SPEAKER_01 (32:46):
I think they build like real genuine friendships
and relationships, and I thinkthat would be really dope.
But I'm really not trying to gokiss all these people on
national television.
Bro, you can see the bumps onthem on the screen.

SPEAKER_02 (32:57):
And like laying in bed with them.

SPEAKER_01 (32:59):
And then they limit your alcohol.
Yeah.
You're like, I gotta do thissober.
Like, y'all gonna make me dothis sober.

SPEAKER_02 (33:06):
I gotta read some books or something.

SPEAKER_01 (33:08):
Bro, I don't even like being on this camera.
So they even let you read?

SPEAKER_02 (33:10):
I don't, they you don't even know what time it is.

SPEAKER_00 (33:12):
And then they trip if you go in the pool, like,
bro, it's hot.

SPEAKER_01 (33:15):
Yeah, because you're mic'd up.
You stay mic'd up the wholetime.

SPEAKER_02 (33:18):
Oh, that sucks.

SPEAKER_01 (33:19):
So they they like they like yo, you can't drink or
two drinks a day, whatever itis.
He told us, I don't want to saythe name, but we were told like
you get like one day of like thefree day, but you can't have any
like conversations like that.
Oh the rest of the time isrecording because like they
don't want to miss tea.
Yeah, like if you're getting toknow someone off camera, like

(33:39):
you can't do that.
And the thing with the thingwith Love Island is is like you
can't control the bombshells,and you can't control their
decisions, you can't controlwhen America chooses you when
they want to dump you.
It's like, bro, if I actuallylike this girl and a bombshell
comes in and picks her and nowI'm cook, like I mean, that's
the game.
I don't know.
See, I would I'd prefer to go inas a bombshell than okay.

SPEAKER_02 (34:00):
I was gonna ask you.

SPEAKER_01 (34:01):
You want to be an OG or a bombshell?
I'd rather be a bombshellbecause like I'm taking your
girl.

SPEAKER_02 (34:06):
Or a Casa Boy.

SPEAKER_01 (34:07):
Nah, I don't want to be no Casa Boy.
That's like put me on MaineIsland.

SPEAKER_02 (34:11):
Yeah, I either want to be an OG or a bombshell.

SPEAKER_01 (34:13):
I want to be an OG and I want to be able to pick.
You know what I think about twolike the OG?

SPEAKER_02 (34:17):
Like, I gotta be able to pick it up.

SPEAKER_01 (34:19):
Well, either or I feel like let's just say I went
on there today.
What scares me is the peoplethat would dig into my my whole
background of the city.
Digital footprint.
And I really I mean, I keep aclean image, but I like they'll
they'll find some things that Ididn't even know.
Yeah, like they'd be findingtweets from 2012 and like Yeah.
Oof.

(34:40):
When everything was unhitched.
We're gonna have to get somemanagement and go clean
everything up.
Make us look good.
Right.
No, I'm gonna say perfect match.

SPEAKER_02 (34:52):
You wanna do perfect match?
Why?

SPEAKER_01 (34:53):
I haven't seen that one.
Well, because they let themdrink whatever.

SPEAKER_02 (34:56):
Is that really what the criteria is for you?
No punk and temptation.
Temptation island you drink alot too.
I'll be curious.

SPEAKER_01 (35:06):
Yeah, no, but I'm uh I don't need alcohol and
temptation mixed together, andthen they're gonna make me look
bad on camera now.

SPEAKER_02 (35:13):
But perfect perfect match looks like a good concept,
but I feel like it gets messy.

SPEAKER_01 (35:17):
It does get messy, and I think it gets messy
because they let them drinkwhatever they want.
That's why Love Island don't letthem drink.
Exactly.
Love Island used to Love Islandless used to let them drink
whatever they wanted.
Oh yeah, temptation.
When I seen uh I seen bruhclapping, and you just got
sitting there and watch, andthen they got you crying on
screen, my thought, my thoughtno, bro.

(35:39):
Running.
Yeah, no.
They had to make the distancefurther, so you can't run.
Really though, I really want todo either Jersey Shore or Bad
Girls Club.
Jersey Short.

SPEAKER_02 (35:47):
Bad Girls Club is that funny.
Baddies, no baddies?

SPEAKER_01 (35:51):
Just be a flat.
No, baddies is too much for me.
But Bad Girls Club, be a fly onthe wall for baddies.
You know all these shows.
Because I've been doing thissince I was legit for real.
You used to watch all the chickflips.
I've been live.
I've been live.
You really have.
You've been doing this sinceyou're like seven.
This is just popular now becauseit's TikTok.
I've been in this.
You can throw back.
Matter of fact, you should be onthe show.

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I would win.
That's what I'm saying.
I would win it.
I know how to how to navigate.
Yeah, whatever we go on, we winit.

SPEAKER_02 (36:17):
Yeah, show for brothers.

SPEAKER_01 (36:18):
We would win it.
We easy.

SPEAKER_02 (36:20):
Um big no, I just said big brother ellibble.
I don't even know what that showis.

SPEAKER_01 (36:24):
You just gotta, you just gotta, you just gotta
pander.
Panders.

SPEAKER_02 (36:27):
You don't want to do any of like the challenge or
like any of like the see, Ihaven't seen these shows, so I
don't know.
Like they're like competitive.

SPEAKER_01 (36:33):
Oh, yeah, I would do that.
The only one I wouldn't do islike some survival shit.
Like, don't put me in the woods.

SPEAKER_02 (36:38):
Oh no, no, no, no, no.
That's scary.

SPEAKER_01 (36:41):
You see a spider?
That Mr.
Beast thing?
That'd be lit.
Oh yeah.
Did you watch it?
No.
Bro, it's freezing cold.
Never mind, I'm out.
It was freezing cold and you'rein a tent.
Yeah.
30 days, 25 days, whatever itis.
I'm cool on that.
I'm cool on that.
Oh, too hot to handle.
I'll win that too.

SPEAKER_02 (37:00):
You would win it?
Yeah.
I don't know, because they be, Idon't know, deducting money and
shit.

SPEAKER_01 (37:06):
Don't touch nobody.

SPEAKER_02 (37:07):
Yeah, people would freak out.

SPEAKER_01 (37:09):
Hard for who's hard for you.
I have self-control.

SPEAKER_03 (37:12):
Alright.

SPEAKER_02 (37:13):
So they gave me some liquor.
Everybody else.

SPEAKER_01 (37:16):
I know you boy.
I know you boy.
I'm gonna go there.
Silver.

SPEAKER_02 (37:20):
Silver.

SPEAKER_01 (37:21):
I'm ready.

SPEAKER_02 (37:22):
I think that's all the updates, right?

SPEAKER_01 (37:23):
That's all the updates.
I know you did you have anywomen's lingo?
If not, it's all good.

SPEAKER_02 (37:30):
Not off the top of my head.

SPEAKER_01 (37:32):
We got any men's lingo?

SPEAKER_02 (37:33):
Yeah, what's some men's?
What's some oh that's a goodone.
What's some like codes?
Spill some spill some.
Guy code?
Yeah, what's guy codes that youguys say that I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 (37:43):
I don't know if we have sayings.
We just kind of have unwrittenrules.

SPEAKER_02 (37:48):
Like But you guys have like guy things.
I forgot.

SPEAKER_00 (37:52):
We have a lot of like sports.
Well, me and my friends, we havea lot of sports references.

SPEAKER_02 (37:57):
Okay, so give us like throw the oop.

SPEAKER_01 (37:59):
Like throw the oop.

SPEAKER_02 (38:01):
Oh, like for like trying to bag a girl.

SPEAKER_01 (38:03):
Yeah, like you know what's up with this girl?
Oh, I'm gonna pass her on toyou.
So it's like it's easy, it's aoop.
Easy bucket.
Ball up top.

SPEAKER_02 (38:13):
What's up with her?
That's funny.

SPEAKER_00 (38:15):
Ball up top.
That's just like that's mine.
That's just yeah.

SPEAKER_02 (38:21):
What does that mean?

SPEAKER_00 (38:22):
Oh, that's my ball.

SPEAKER_01 (38:23):
Yeah, I got ball.

SPEAKER_02 (38:24):
Oh, okay, okay.
I like that.
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (38:27):
Um I mean, it's kind of an unwritten rule not to
touch a girl that your boypreviously touched unless he
grants it.
But you know, dudes be skippingthat.

SPEAKER_02 (38:40):
I know.
Do you guys care about that?
Do y'all follow that rule?

SPEAKER_01 (38:44):
It depends on the girl.
It's like and it depends on therelationship.
I feel like it it depends on itdepends on I think it depends on
a guy.
If they were dating, then Iwould even tell you, even if
he's approved that I'm like, Iwouldn't.
Like if they were together, Iwould even if he was like,
Y'all, that was years ago, youcould have it, I wouldn't even
want it.
No way.

(39:04):
But if it's like, oh yeah, myboy hit that and like if he hit
it and that you don't care,you'll talk to her still?
I'm not saying I'm gonna talk toher.
I know your background.
No, not you.

SPEAKER_02 (39:19):
No, you're talking about dang.

SPEAKER_00 (39:22):
I think it matters the relationship with the guy,
like how close you are to them.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (39:26):
Like if it's just an acquaintance, an acquaintance,
or I just know you.
Right.
Like, I have someone I've knownfor 20 years.
I don't mean we're close.
Like, I just happen to know youwhen we were Jits.
Like, I don't think they ex-hityou up.

SPEAKER_00 (39:39):
Yeah, I don't think you owe them any loyalty at
that.
Now, if we're cool, like he getswith a girl, I don't even look
at them the same way no more.
So, like that's not even athing.

SPEAKER_01 (39:48):
Like he gets with a girl, I'm like no.

SPEAKER_02 (39:50):
The second the girl is talking to you, you're like,
she's on limits.
As it should be, loyalty.

SPEAKER_00 (39:55):
Like, and that's nothing against any of the
girls, it's just that I now seeyou, you're like a sister to me
now.
Like, same thing with my closehomies.
Like, yeah, I don't even look atthem like that.

SPEAKER_01 (40:02):
Yeah, so if if y'all sh shit, if y'all break up,
like, you gotta cut ties withme.
Like for real.
As soon as they say, Eli, oh mygod.
Nope.
I'm good.

SPEAKER_00 (40:14):
But I also think that just because it's it's it's
hard because I see both sides ofit.
Just because somebody justbecause a couple breaks up,
like, why should that stop youfrom finding a connection or
finding love with somebody?

SPEAKER_02 (40:30):
I just feel like my man is not a man that talked to
my friend.

SPEAKER_00 (40:35):
But why though?

SPEAKER_02 (40:36):
Because I just don't think the universe is gonna grip
me a man.

SPEAKER_01 (40:39):
I got a question about that.
Because this was a throwbackback in college, but I talked to
this girl for maybe like twoweeks.
They didn't work out.
We young, we're getting to knoweach other, didn't work out,
yada yada yada.
Mm-hmm.
Then I met this girl like sixmonths later.
It's her friend.
And I was like, oh, I was I wasin love with this girl.
But then she found out me andher friend talked for two weeks,

(41:01):
six months ago.
And she was like and she cut meoff.

SPEAKER_02 (41:04):
I mean, it'd be like that.
I fake through the same thing.
Well, you know what?
They probably talked and theywere like, yo, I'm talking to
Kazoo or he's I'm thinking aboutcalling.
And then she was probably like,yeah, I talked to him, and she
was probably she either made thedecision or the girl kind of
made it known, like she said, ifI can't have him, you ain't
gonna have him.

SPEAKER_01 (41:23):
Do you believe in soulmates?

SPEAKER_02 (41:25):
Do I believe in soulmates?
Yeah, but I believe you can havemultiple soulmates.

SPEAKER_01 (41:29):
So do you believe that?

SPEAKER_02 (41:31):
I know you're about to ask.

SPEAKER_00 (41:33):
I just I just like a situation like that, like the
second girl could have been hissoulmate.

SPEAKER_01 (41:37):
But at the time she felt like it.

SPEAKER_02 (41:38):
Then it would have worked out.
Okay.
Think about it.

SPEAKER_01 (41:40):
Okay, but by by your standard, it's like, oh, you
knew my friend, so this can'twork out.

SPEAKER_02 (41:45):
If you are a guy and you are interested in me, but
you used to talk to my friendfor even a second, and I curve
my duty is to curve you.
That's just my duty as a friend,to curve you.
But if you are somehow mysoulmate, it's gotta be a duty
though.
It's just keep an open mind.

SPEAKER_01 (41:59):
I feel I feel like I feel like you do owe, I feel
like you do owe your friendloyalty that loyalty.

SPEAKER_02 (42:04):
Nah, man.

SPEAKER_00 (42:05):
Fuck that.
I feel like there can becircumstances where you know,
just you talk to my friend what,six months ago, two years ago,
whatever it was.
Like, I don't I think you and Ican't have anything.

SPEAKER_02 (42:14):
I think personally, I wouldn't really feel
comfortable.
Like, I'm gonna think aboutokay, this is how you was
throwing game to my friend.
Like, it's just not comfortable.
I'm not gonna.

SPEAKER_01 (42:23):
Two weeks, though?

SPEAKER_02 (42:24):
Two weeks?
I mean two weeks is crazy.

SPEAKER_01 (42:26):
You don't even know somebody in two weeks.

SPEAKER_02 (42:28):
Then I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 (42:29):
This is a French in the college, too.
It's like one of the firstpeople I met.
Like, shout out to that girl.
She's loyal.
Who?

SPEAKER_02 (42:34):
I mean, loyal.

SPEAKER_01 (42:35):
Your friend, her friend, whoever.
Oh, facts.

SPEAKER_02 (42:37):
Loyalty over.
They're not even friends nomore.

SPEAKER_01 (42:41):
No, no.

SPEAKER_02 (42:42):
She gotta give her the oop.

SPEAKER_00 (42:44):
She lost her soulmate over some girl she
don't even know no more.

SPEAKER_01 (42:47):
Tough life.

SPEAKER_02 (42:48):
If that was your soulmate, it would have worked
out too much.

SPEAKER_01 (42:50):
I just remember this girl.
We like we were hanging out.
She's Puerto Rican.
This girl cooked for me thefirst day.

SPEAKER_02 (42:58):
Okay, we badly.

SPEAKER_01 (42:59):
I said about the game.

SPEAKER_02 (43:01):
We down.

SPEAKER_01 (43:02):
I'm locked in.
I thought this was the one.
She came over talking about, oh,you talking about friend for
two.
Your friend didn't cook for me.
You sound hurt.
I ain't hurt.
Come on, we start saying names.

SPEAKER_02 (43:13):
Is it okay to lose your best friend?
Your best friend over the loveof your life.

SPEAKER_01 (43:19):
I feel like this is situated.
That's a great question, by theway.
I feel like this is situational.
Because there's one of them isgonna be in the wrong.

SPEAKER_02 (43:30):
And who's in the wrong?

SPEAKER_01 (43:31):
That's why I say it's situational, because
sometimes your best friend mightknow better.
And sometimes your best friendcould be hated.

SPEAKER_02 (43:40):
It's a bad situation.
It sucks.
Everyone's wrong.
Everyone's getting shot.

SPEAKER_01 (43:44):
In a in a perfect world, everyone's getting shot.
In a perfect world, everybody isunited.
But uh I'm sorry, I keepcursing.

SPEAKER_00 (43:52):
You gotta pick a side.

SPEAKER_01 (43:53):
You can't perfect world this.

SPEAKER_02 (43:55):
It's not a perfect world, so you gotta be real
realistically in your life.
Your life gets better.

SPEAKER_01 (44:01):
If I had if I had to pick, if I had to pick, I'm
gonna go best friend.
I'm going love in my life.
Potential love my life.
But no, no, it depends on thetime frame too, because I might
have the best friend for 20years, and the love of potential
of my life might have been inthere four months.
So it's like my I'm sorry, mybest friend.

SPEAKER_00 (44:22):
I'm sure that my best friend wants the best for
me.

SPEAKER_01 (44:25):
And I love that for that.
But my best friend can't tell mewhat to do with my love life.
He's not there with me on theintimate level with the love of
my life.
I'm not gonna go start a familywith my best friend.
I'm not gonna.
My best friend is most likelynot gonna be there on my

(44:47):
deathbed.
Is most likely not gonna bethere.
Why is this your best friendthen?

SPEAKER_02 (44:51):
Wait, what?
Who's your best friend?

SPEAKER_01 (44:53):
A lot of people die alone with their close knit.
How many people be for real?
How many people you know be bestfriends for 50, 60 years?
People go their separate routes.
But people pass away once youget to a certain thing.
Okay, but they're supposed to bethere today.
But people go their separateroutes, people fall out, people
relationships fall out too.
Some people might, you know,pick up, move across the

(45:17):
country.

SPEAKER_00 (45:17):
Like people go their Brittany, you've had a lot of
close friends in your life.
And you guys, for the most part,have stayed close together.

SPEAKER_02 (45:23):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 (45:24):
And you've also fell out with some of them, yes or
no?

SPEAKER_02 (45:27):
Not not a lot of them.
Okay.

SPEAKER_00 (45:30):
Okay, but there's people that were close to you
that you fell out with.

SPEAKER_02 (45:32):
That that I'm not cool with anymore, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 (45:34):
Correct.

SPEAKER_01 (45:34):
So what you're doing with your best friend, in my
opinion, is not the same stuffthat you're doing with a person,
your love of your life.
Like we're building a futuretogether.
We're gonna say vows to eachother.
We're going to bring life intothis world.

SPEAKER_00 (45:51):
That's a different connection relationship than
your best friend.

SPEAKER_01 (45:55):
Not diminishing your best friend, but it's like this
is to me, it's much moreserious, much more intimate.
I think it depends on the timeframe.
I think so too.
Because if you switch up on yourbest friend for a new fling, I
think it's okay, but now see nowyou're saying new fling.
We're talking about potential.
You went from potential love ofyour life to new fling.
That's two different things.
They're somehow new.

(46:16):
So some people are like they seethe potential love of their life
within a few months.
I mean, right, that's tough.
You better be right.
You better be right.
You better be right if you'regonna cut off your best friend.
That's what I'm saying.
I'm like, damn, I've been yourbest friend for 15 years.
You just met this person.
It could be the potential, butpeople also do make terrible
decisions on picking the love oftheir life.

(46:37):
And it could go either way.
You better be damn right ifyou're gonna switch up on your
best friend.
Because friends come and go, andpartners come and go.
It's true.

SPEAKER_02 (46:46):
So it just depends on where your loyalty lies.
Some people cherishrelationships.
I don't think it's worth losingmy best friend over.

SPEAKER_01 (46:56):
Which one are you picking?

SPEAKER_02 (46:58):
My best friend.
I just feel like the love of myI believe in the universe.
Hamana, hamana, hamana.
And I think my soulmate, I don'tthink God is going to have me
wrangle between my man and my Imean shit happens.
That's what I feel.
My man and my friend.

SPEAKER_01 (47:15):
This is hypothetical if we had to pick.

SPEAKER_02 (47:16):
If we had to pick.
I don't think that would happen.

SPEAKER_01 (47:19):
Like I can't have my soulmate and my best friend,
like you said, wrangling.
Yeah.
Because then it's like, okay,what's going on here?

SPEAKER_02 (47:28):
Like, why am I stuck between the two?
I don't think that's my soulmateif I have to be stuck between
the two.

SPEAKER_01 (47:32):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 (47:33):
Personally.
But I don't know.
It's a it's a hot take.
I mean, it's a it's a debate.

SPEAKER_01 (47:40):
I've I've always told like when I'm in a
relationship, I'll tell my boysI'm close to like, yeah, my time
will be divvied up, yeah, but Istill have this friendship with
y'all.
And whereas I tell my partner,hey, these have been my boys way
before you came in the picture.
Like, I'm gonna give you mytime, but I'm also like I'm
gonna have my time with them.

SPEAKER_02 (48:01):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (48:01):
Too.
So I think it comes down to likeif they don't understand that,
whichever side does understandthat, I view that as like they
had a problem.
But I don't think anyone shouldhave to like just cut off a side
because they enter somethingnew.

SPEAKER_02 (48:15):
No, I agree.
I think it should be talkedabout.
Also see if they would do thesame for you.
No shade.
Facts.

SPEAKER_01 (48:21):
Facts.

SPEAKER_02 (48:23):
Like I'm over here being mad loyal to you.

SPEAKER_01 (48:25):
So I know for guys it's sometimes pretty common for
us to switch up on each other.
Is that common for girls too?

SPEAKER_02 (48:35):
I think guys don't care as much.
But I feel like there have beensituations where it's actually
really heartbreaking when thathappens with women because it's
like, damn, like I just didn'tknow if it's as common to
others.
I mean, I uh you know I I'vebeen hearing, yeah.
So I would say yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (48:52):
I don't know how common it is with y'all, but I
again I don't think you guyshave such a common what 'cause
it's like for us, it's kind oflike you know, happy wife, happy
life.
So we come accustom accustomedto doing things with her.

SPEAKER_00 (49:03):
I feel like men I feel like a lot of yeah, a lot
of men.

SPEAKER_01 (49:07):
I think women usually demand more attention
from the man than we do from thewomen.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 (49:12):
It actually pisses me off, but I do think a lot of
men a lot of men get inrelationships and then they just
start um they just kinda isolateon their relationship and they
lose those friendships, which Imean that's shout out to those
people.
That's how they operate.
I've just never been like that.

SPEAKER_01 (49:33):
It's like a uh a joke in the male community where
like it's like we we gotta wegotta beg each other for a boy's
night out or boys' day orsomething, like and then you get
that call like oh wifey'scalling, like I gotta go.

SPEAKER_02 (49:45):
Yeah, and that should be blowing yours.

SPEAKER_01 (49:46):
There's always the one guy.
So I didn't know if it's thesame with women or it's like you
know baby hub is calling, likeyeah.

SPEAKER_02 (49:51):
Sometimes women don't even link because they're
like, oh I'm with my man, myman, my man, my man.

SPEAKER_01 (49:56):
And then y'all be hating men because the men do
something bad to them, like wetell you he ain't sound.
That's how we sound, and thenthey make us look bad because
y'all never want your homegirlsto date again.
And I'm like, that had nothingto do with me.

SPEAKER_02 (50:10):
Like, what did I do?
I didn't hear her.

SPEAKER_01 (50:12):
It's a vicious cycle.

SPEAKER_02 (50:14):
We just gonna protect our brands.
Nasty, nasty world.

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