August 13, 2026 • 32 mins
These days, it seems like no one knows how to be friends anymore. No one knows how to communicate. The only connections formed are through social media. & everybody seems to have access to everybody. People are emotionally exhausted and desire a change. But are we already in too deep?
Credit to Alt Kev on Substack for the article.
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Anyways, all right.
This is this is this isinteresting.
All right, so this article, I'mreading, we're we're this is
gonna be like a book club today.
All right, I'm reading anarticle to you.
Um I read like a little bit ofthe first part, but I actually
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want to re I want to get anauthentic reaction with myself
as I'm reading to you because Iwas like, oh wow, this is crazy.
Um, so this was sent to me by afriend.
Also want to give credit to AltKev on Substack because this was
written by him, beautifullywritten.
Um, but this was sent to me, Iwas like, you know what, we
gotta we gotta get into thisbecause you know sometimes we
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talk about dating.
So, title of the article isWe're Friends Until We Get
Drunk.
Subtitle Modern Friendship Has aBoundary Crisis.
So let me get into my narration.
Hold on, one more sip of thewine before we get into it for
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real.
Crazy, I'm drinking wine, ittalks about alcohol in here too,
but we'll get into that.
Alright, so this is basicallyabout you know the the modern
hookup culture.
Um people can't commit, peopleare just keeping all these
options open, you know.
So let's get into it.
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So, somewhere between hookupculture, emotional
unavailability, social media,and alcohol, an entire
generation forgot how to just befriends.
Nobody says it honestly becausehonesty would force people to
confront how emotionally chaoticmodern relationships have
actually become.
So instead, we hide behindlanguage that sounds casual
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enough to remove accountability,aka we're just friends.
But modern relationships, I'msorry, but modern friendship
barely resembles friendshipanymore.
It is romantic dependencewithout responsibility, intimacy
without commitment, romantictension disguised as
convenience.
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People text each other likelovers, confide in each other
like partners, sleep togetherwhen alcohol gets involved, then
wake up and pretend none of itmeant anything because nobody
wants to look emotionallyattached.
Welcome to dating in 2026.
And somehow this becamematurity, and maybe this is why
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so many people feel emotionallyexhausted now, because modern
relationships demand theemotional vulnerability of
commitment while simultaneouslyrejecting the structure.
I can't even talk, rejecting thestructure that once made
vulnerability feelpsychologically safe.
We want to access each otherwithout responsibility toward
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one another.
We want intimacy withoutaccountability, we want
exclusivity without sacrifice,we want emotional reassurance
while still keeping other peopleemotionally available in the
background just in case.
Let that sink in for a second.
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And I'm not even speaking thatabout this from morally, I'm
sorry, and I'm not even speakingabout this from some morally
superior position.
I have participated in it too.
Most people have modern datingculture is not some distant
phenomenon happening to otherpeople.
We are all inside it to somedegree.
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Just for context, this waswritten, this was said by the
person writing this.
Um, but while we're here, I'mguilty of it too, so you know,
might as well talk about it.
Um, we all contributed tonormalizing emotional,
emotionally confusing dynamicsbecause they benefited us at one
point or another.
Maybe that is why thisconversation feels so
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uncomfortable, because peoplerecognize themselves in it.
So that's the first segment.
Um, what was that called?
Oh, yeah, that's just the intro.
But if that's something thatresonates with you, definitely
stay tuned because, like I said,this was a very interesting
article.
Um But a lot of a lot of whatwas just read and what was said
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it's crazy because that's how itreally is.
It's like people just want to,you know, in short terms, keep
their options open.
Like, you know, okay, have sexwith this person, do this with
this person, or even if you'renot having sex, just like this
person is great for dates, butlike I don't really want to
commit, I don't really want novulnerability.
You know, I'm gonna keep theother options open.
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So paragraph two everybody hashistory with everybody.
Friendship circles today havebecome strangely incestuous.
Everybody has history witheverybody.
Somebody dated someone briefly,somebody drunkenly hooked up
once, somebody still secretlywould if given the chance.
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Somebody swears they are past itwhile still speaking every
single day.
Yet the entire group continuesoperating as though none of the
history matters.
Modern culture normalized theidea that people should remain
emotionally and sociallyaccessible forever, and maybe
temporarily it works, until realrelationships enter the picture.
I'm gonna say it one more time.
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Until real relationships enterthe picture, until somebody gets
a boyfriend or girlfriendoutside the friendship group and
is suddenly expected to feelcompletely comfortable with
their partner spending weekends,nights out, holidays, and
alcohol-filled environmentsaround people they have already
been intimate with.
unknown (11:44):
Woof.
Woof.
SPEAKER_02 (11:47):
That is where society starts gaslighting
people because now boundariesare called insecurity.
Discomfort is calledcontrolling.
Principles are treated likeemotional weakness.
People are told they should bemature enough to accept
situations that realisticallymost human beings would
naturally struggle to trust.
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I'm sorry, I'm processing thisas I read it.
But not every boundary isinsecurity.
Sometimes it is discernment.
Because once physical intimacyenters a relationship, the
dynamic the dynamic changespermanently.
And maybe this is theuncomfortable part people avoid
saying out loud, but I genuinelydo not believe something remains
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fully platonic once physicalboundaries have already been
crossed.
Maybe friendly, maybe familiar,maybe emotionally attached, but
not fully platonic.
Because intimacy alters thepsychological structure of a
relationship permanently, thebody remembers access.
SPEAKER_00 (12:55):
Ooh.
SPEAKER_02 (12:56):
My boy dropping gems.
Emotional familiarity,familiarity and changes.
I should have had that cup ofwine before reading this, but
it's all good.
Boundaries becomepsychologically blurred whether
people admit it or not.
And pretending nothing changedsimply because two people agree
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to keep calling each otherfriends feels emotionally
dishonest.
Intimacy creates psychologicalfamiliarity, whether people
admit it or not.
The body remembers access.
And maybe that is part of the ormaybe that is part people
struggle to discuss honestly.
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Because once somebody hasexperienced physical intimacy
with you, there is often anunconscious entitlement that
develops afterward.
Not always maliciously,sometimes subtly, emotionally,
socially, or energetically.
People begin interacting asthough access to your body, your
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attention, your vulnerability,or your emotional availability
becomes permanently negotiablesimply because it existed once
before.
That is why so many modernfriendships feel psychologically
heavy, because the boundariesare no longer clear.
Everybody is navigatinginvisible histories while
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pretending they are emotionallyneutral, and deep down people
can feel it.
The strange discomfort whensomeone touches their friend too
familiar familiarly.
SPEAKER_01 (14:36):
Why can't I say that word today?
unknown (14:37):
My bad.
SPEAKER_02 (14:38):
The lingering tension in certain jokes, the
emotional territorialism hiddenunderneath platonic dynamics,
the subtle jealousy peoplepretend not to feel, the
possessiveness hidden beneathcasualness.
And I'm gonna take a quick pausereal quick.
Um, because we all may have beenthere.
Um, if you're in a relationship,and whether you're a guy or
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girl, and you can feel yourpartner, like you can tell they
have some history with somebody,and it might not be like you
know, crazy, severe history.
Um but like they just said, likethat strange discomfort,
discomfort when someone touchestheir friend, or the lingering
tension in certain jokes, wherelike he said earlier, like you
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know, the what was the exact thebody remembers access.
That is a quote right there.
That's a bar.
Um everybody acts detached whileemotionally reacting to one each
other constantly, and maybe thatis why so many people fall feel
anxious inside modernfriendships without fully
understanding why.
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Because human beings are tryingto intellectualize instincts
that the body still experiencesemotionally, especially when
alcohol is involved, becausealcohol does not create tension,
it exposes it.
Alright.
Paragraph three.
Stay tuned for this one.
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Social media made everythingworse.
Alright, so and social mediamade all of this infinitely
worse because now nobody everfully leaves anybody.
Old flings still watch eachother's stories, former hookups
still send memes.
People who crossed physicalboundaries years ago continue
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maintaining emotional access toone another through likes,
replies, private jokes, closefriends, lists, late-night
conversations, and casualfriendly communication that
previous generations never hadpermanent access to.
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People now casually maintainemotional ecosystems around
themselves.
Former lovers, oldsituationships, quote unquote
friends with unresolved tension,mutuals waiting quietly for
emotional openings wheneverrelationships become difficult.
Who everybody has backups,everybody has access, everybody
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has emotional contingency plansdisguised as friendship.
I hope y'all paying attention.
And social media allows peopleto maintain these almost
romantic emotional connectionsindefinitely without ever having
to define them honestly.
That is why modern relationshipsoften feel psychologically
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unsafe.
Not because people arenecessarily cheating physically,
but because emotional loyaltyitself has become blurred.
People keep tiny pieces ofintimacy distributed across
multiple people while calling itharmless because nothing is
officially happening.
But emotionally, the lines arebuilt are still being crossed
constantly.
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And within modern friendshipgroups, social media created the
perfect disguise.
In quotes, we're just friendsnow.
That sentence has become thesafest hiding place for
unresolved tension in modernrelationships.
Because technically, maybe theyare friends now, but history
matters, attraction matters,emotional familiarity matters.
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I can't say that word today.
Um and pretending those thingsdisappear simply because people
rename the dynamic feelsintellectually dishonest,
especially when thecommunication never stops.
That is what people struggle totrust, not random strangers.
The person your partner alreadyshared intimacy with, the person
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who knows them emotionally, whoknows them emotionally
vulnerable, the person who stillhas direct access to them every
single day while everybody elsepretends the past no longer
exists.
And the moment somebodyquestions the dynamic, society
immediately immediately labelsthem insecure.
But there's a difference betweeninsecurity and understanding
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human nature, honestly.
Modern culture keeps trying toconvince people that unlimited
access without boundaries isemotional maturity.
But maybe maturity isunderstanding not that not every
connection needs to remainaccessible forever.
What'd he say?
What'd he say?
The body remembers access.
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Alright, paragraph four.
SPEAKER_01 (19:49):
I've actually never been to a book club.
And I actually do like to read,that's kind of crazy.
So if y'all know of any bookclubs, let me know.
SPEAKER_02 (20:00):
Alright.
The social punishment of growingup.
And maybe the strangest part ofmodern friendship culture is
what happens when somebodyfinally decides they no longer
want to participate in thosedynamics.
The moment somebody meets aperson who makes them reevaluate
the chaos, the blurredboundaries, the emotional
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ambiguity, and the constantnormalization of intimacy within
friend groups, they often becomethe villain of the group.
People suddenly act as thoughgrowth is betrayal, as though
wanting clearer boundaries isjudgment, as though removing
yourself from emotionallycomplicated complicated dynamics
means you think you are betterthan anyone else.
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And maybe that reaction revealssomething unfortunate.
I'm sorry, uncomfortable.
Not unfortunate.
Maybe unfortunate too.
Because deep down, many peopleknow these environments are
unsustainable long term.
But instead of confronting thathonestly, people often protect
the culture itself.
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So when somebody leaves thosedynamics behind, creates
distance, or chooses arelationship that requires
stronger boundaries, they gettreated as though they abandoned
the friendship instead of simplyevolving uh beyond a lifestyle
that no longer feels emotionallyhealthy.
Modern culture praises freedomconstantly, but becomes
strangely hostile when somebodychooses restraint voluntarily,
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especially when that restraintforces other people to question
their own lives.
And maybe that's what makes theentire conversation so emotional
emotionally charged is thatpeople can feel themselves
becoming disconnected in realtime.
You could feel it in a way, inthe way that people speak about
each other, the wayvulnerability becomes
embarrassing, the way genuinecare now gets mistaken for
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desperation, the way emotionaldetachment becomes socially
attractive, the way people laughat love publicly while Privately
craving reassurance, safety,consistency, and intimacy more
than ever before.
I'm gonna read that one moretime because that's facts.
The way that people laugh atlove publicly while privately
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craving reassurance, safety,consistency, and intimacy more
than ever before.
There is sadness underneathmodern dating that people rarely
talk about honestly.
Everybody looks connected,everybody looks desired,
everybody looks sexuallyliberated, and yet so many
people feel emotionally homelessinside their relationships.
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Not because they are incapableof intimacy, but because modern
culture taught people how toaccess one another without
teaching them how to emotionallyprotect one another afterward.
Alright, next paragraph.
We don't even speak about sexproperly anymore.
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Catch my breath.
And maybe the clearest evidenceof society's deteriorating
relationship with intimateintimacy can be seen through the
language itself.
We no longer even speak aboutsex with reverence.
We speak about it, we speakabout it violently.
We do not say making loveanymore.
Most people barely even sayhaving sex.
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The dominant word now is fuck, aswear word, a vulgar a
vulgarity.
A term associated with anger,disrespect, humiliation,
aggression, and decimal somehowbecame the primary language
because I'm sorry, it somehowbecame the primary language
people use for intimacy.
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Which I'm gonna throw my inputreal quick.
I'm gonna scroll back.
I ain't gonna lie to you.
The term making love isbeautiful in itself.
Bring it back.
This is my petition to bring itback.
Bring back making love and bringback making love with the person
you're supposed to be makinglove with.
Because everybody, you can't bemaking love with anybody, with
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everybody.
But because language reflectsculture, language reveals
psychology.
The way people speak aboutthings exposes how they
subconsciously perceive them.
And the fact that one of themost emotionally, spiritually,
psychologically, and physicallyvulnerable acts human beings can
experience together is nowdescribed using a derogatory
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term, says everything about howdisconnected society has become
from the sacredness of intimacy.
Sex stopped being viewed asconnection, it became
consumption.
Something recreational, casual,transactional, an activity
stripped of emotional weight andreduced to pleasure, validation,
entertainment, temporaryloneliness, loneliness relief,
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ego or social currency insidefriendship groups where
everybody has history witheverybody else.
And now people are shocked thatmodern relationships feel
emotionally unstable.
People are more sexually openthan ever before, yet
emotionally disconnected fromone another.
Everybody has access to bodies,but almost nobody feels
genuinely seen.
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Ooh, girl, don't treat me like apiece of meat.
People confuse physicalcloseness for emotional
intimacy, then wonder why theystill feel empty afterward.
Because sex was never designedto function without emotional
consequence.
Paragraph five or six.
Y'all keep counting for me, bookclub.
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The death of safe love.
That is the lie modern datingkeeps selling.
That nothing means anythingunless you decide it does.
But everything means somethingpsychologically.
That is why betrayal hurts sodeeply.
That is why jealousy exists.
That is why trust collapses whencertain histories enter certain
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rooms.
That is why so many peopleprivately feel anxious while
publicly pretending to beemotionally involved.
And maybe that is the ironyunderneath all of this.
At the same exact time, peopleare becoming more emotionally
accessible, more sexually open,and more interconnected than
ever before.
People are also struggling morethan ever to sustain
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relationships, trust oneanother, or build love that
actually lasts.
Everybody keeps asking the samequestion.
Why is modern dating so hard?
Why can nobody commit?
Why do relationships feel sounstable?
But maybe part of the answer issitting quietly inside the way
we now relate to one another.
Because these dynamics do notleave people untouched
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psychologically.
They shape people, theycondition people emotionally,
they slowly normalize emotionalambiguity, blurred loyalty,
fractured intimacy, andtemporary attachment until
people no longer recognize whathealthy emotional connection is
supposed to feel like anymore.
And over time, people stopknowing how to distinguish
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genuine intimacy from emotionalconvenience.
People enter relationshipscarrying unresolved attachment,
emotional familiarity withformer lovers, blurred
boundaries, psychologicalentitlement, and social
environments built aroundambiguity.
Then wonder why trust feelsfragile, why commitment feels
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difficult, why vulnerabilityfeels terrifying, why emotional
permanence feels almostimpossible to maintain.
And maybe the saddest part isthat many people are not trying
to hurt one anotherintentionally.
They are simply participating inthe culture that taught them how
to access people emotionally andphysically without teaching them
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how to protect the emotionalconsequences afterward.
And maybe the saddest part ofall is how rare safe friendship
has started to feel.
Not attraction, not sex, notsituationships, just friendship.
The kind where two people cansit across from each other at a
coffee shop, speak honestly,laugh deeply, share
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vulnerability, and trust thatintimacy will not eventually
become transactional orsexualized.
The kind where someone can callyou during the worst moment of
their life and know you areshowing up because you genuinely
care about them, not becausesome hidden part of you hopes
emotional vulnerability mighteventually become access.
What happened to relationshipsfeeling emotionally safe?
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What happened to friendshipsthat did not carry undertones?
And what happened to simplycaring for people without
secretly wanting ownership oftheir bodies?
And maybe that is why so manypeople struggle with modern
intimacy now.
Because once every relationshipbecomes psychologically loaded,
emotionally ambiguous, orsexually negotiable, people stop
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feeling safe around one another.
Not physically, emotionally.
And the strange part is thatpeople who recognize this often
get treated as insecure,conservative, emotionally
immature, or controlling simplybecause they still believe
boundaries matter.
As though wanting clarity isweakness, as though restraint is
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repression, as though emotionalsafety itself becomes
old-fashioned.
But maybe there was wisdominside those boundaries.
Maybe boundaries were neverabout restricting intimacy.
Maybe they existed to protectit.
Because deep down, I do notthink people are craving more
access to one another.
I think people are cravingrelationships that finally feel
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safe enough to trust again.
Maybe calmness is the newintimacy.
Maybe safety is the new luxury.
And maybe the problem was neverthat this generated generation
wanted less love.
Maybe we just destroyed theboundaries that made love feel
safe enough to exist.
SPEAKER_00 (30:00):
Can we take a moment real quick?
SPEAKER_02 (30:02):
Hold on, hold on.
Until Monday.
Ironically, I'm not gonna giveyou a whole podcast spiel about
it.
I'm just the reader today.
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But um, yeah, I wanted to sharethat because this was shared
with me.
And before you go talking shit,you know, it did not share with
me in a way that, you know, Ineed to work on things.
We all need to work on things.
But shared with me in a way thatwas like, you know, this is a
good read.
Um for context, I am 30 yearsold, so um, I think modern
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dating kind of like goes for allages, but you know, I'm kind of
at that age where it feels veryweird right now.
It's very weird.
Um I am a millennialtechnically, but you know, we
grew up very old school, and nowyou know we're kind of like into
this new modern thing, you know,um, with the social media and
all that that was mentioned.
So it is very weird, it'sconfusing.
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Um I agree with what he said.
I think a lot of people deepdown do crave the actual
connection and togetherness andyou know genuine friendship.
Um, especially that last part wewere talking about, you know,
something you know, if you ifyou're in like a the absolute
worst moment of your life, youknow, someone really gonna be
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there for you, or are they gonnabe there for you because they
want access to you or access toyour body?
So um I definitely agree withthat.
Um, like I said, I'm not gonnagive you a whole podcast about
it, but wanted to do a littlebit of a different episode
today, share that with you.
Um appreciate y'all tuning inbecause I'm not gonna lie to
you, that's probably we'realmost on episode 200.
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This might be to episode 200.
No, it's like close to 200.
But um, I have never, I don'tthink I've ever like read for a
whole episode.
So excuse my dyslexia.
But yeah, thank you for uhtuning in.
Let me know your thoughts.
Drop some comments.
Um, this is an audio only.
There won't be any video clipsbecause it's literally like I'm
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doing a super late nightrecording, and I didn't feel
like setting up a whole studio.
So um let us know your yourthoughts in the comments uh for
this audio portion.
Um and again, like I said at thebeginning, September 26th, 2 30
p.m.
Miami, Florida.
First live show.
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We look forward to seeing you,and we look forward to catching
the vibe.
Have a great week.
Appreciate y'all.
Yo, what's good, what's good, what's good, what's
good, what's good, what's good.
I missed you.
What's good?
Welcome back to Can I Vibe withy'all with the vibes?
Are you immaculate?
Every time we hop up in here, itis your host, Kaz.
I'm excited.
I oh my god.
First of all, first of all,first of all, I gotta address
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something before we jump into itbecause I I do this intro week
after week after week afterweek.
And it came to my attention.
Shout out to the person thatsaid this.
I I always said I know y'allhear it.
I always say where the vibes areimmaculate, where but it's the
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vibes are immaculate, and I sayit so quick every time I do the
intro, especially when we haveguests, that like I just never
pick up on it.
So y'all should have told me,but it's all good.
I still love you.
It's okay, it's okay.
Um, but welcome back.
I am I'm so excited because umwe have been recording our asses
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off this whole summer.
Uh been super busy working,working, working for you.
Um, honestly, this is the firstrecording that we've done uh in
about a month.
Like, still been super busy, butyou know, like it's it's a
different feeling.
You know, you put the headphoneson, talk in the mic, I talk to
you, I you know, I just I feellike I'm here with you.
(01:27):
So um I'm doing the solo Dolatoday, but we got a super, super
good one.
Uh because this is oh man, thisis a very interesting topic, and
I'm excited to share this withyou.
Uh but uh we'll get into that ina sec.
Um before we do, before we do,like I said, you know, if you
know the show, you know, youcatch a vibe, and you gotta feel
(01:50):
like you're in the room with me,all right?
I'm talking to you right now, soI went on a little hiatus, you
know, a little cleanse for mywine, but I was like, you know
what, I'm in the mood to drinksome wine tonight.
It's only right I crack thisbottle open.
So I'm gonna crack it open withyou.
Hold on, hold on.
(02:11):
Make sure you make sure you hearthe glass.
I'm gonna try to give y'all theASMR as best as possible.
I'm not I'm not good with ASMR,so I'm gonna try my best.
Hold on, hold on.
Alright, a little more for youbefore we start.
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I have a heavy hand.
I have a heavy heavy hand.
Yeah, I couldn't be a bartender.
Alright, cheers.
Salute.
unknown (02:48):
Alright, now I'm ready.
SPEAKER_01 (02:50):
Now I'm ready.
SPEAKER_02 (02:53):
Alright, so before we get into it for real, for
real, um, quick littleannouncements just to keep you
guys updated with everything.
Um, number one.
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh,number one, number one, number
one.
I have been waiting to tell youthis for so long.
Hold on.
(03:13):
I'm doing it again.
I did it again.
Why not?
We are hosting our first liveshow.
I've been saying it forever.
We've been trying to set it upforever.
It is so, so, so long overduebecause you always ask us, when
can we hang out?
When can we catch a vibe?
When can we jam out together?
When can we drink some winetogether?
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When can we just have some funand have a good time together?
And we finally get to do that.
So save the date, September26th.
It's a Saturday.
It's in Miami, so I know a lotof y'all um, or some of you
might be elsewhere, but uh firstshow in Miami, got to do it for
the hometown, uh, September26th, 2.30 p.m.
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Mark that down, 2.30 p.m.
Don't be late because you knowwe start on time over here.
Um, and it's at Marlins Park,Lone Depot Park, uh, where the
Miami Marlins baseball teamplays.
We are doing our first live showthere at the Blue Moon Brew Hall
at the park.
Um tune into our Instagram pagefor more details, whatnot.
(04:21):
Um at the time of dropping this,I can't link the ticket yet, but
I'm gonna link the ticket inthis episode on Monday.
SPEAKER_00 (04:29):
What day is that?
SPEAKER_02 (04:30):
Monday, Monday the 17th.
Monday the 17th, it will is whenit's going live.
So honestly, you guys are thefirst to hear this.
I'm excited.
I'm so excited.
I'm nervous too, but I'm I'mvery excited.
Like, I've never done a liveshow.
It's way different, you know,when we're talking on a podcast
compared to actually likemeeting you face to face.
(04:51):
But I'm ready.
I want to meet you face to face.
I want to have a good time.
Um, and the fact that it's on aSaturday, like, come on.
Oh, oh, oh, I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
Before we get into it for real,I also got to mention with your
ticket to the show, you also getaccess to the baseball game
after.
So when you get your ticket tothe show, where everybody who
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goes to the show is gonna begrouped together with us.
We have a section inside thestadium where basically you get
to watch the game for free aswell with your ticket to the
show.
So, shout out to the Marlins forhelping set this up and stay
tuned.
Stay tuned because we'reexcited.
Um, last announcement, also gocheck out the Patreon because
finally getting back active onthere.
(05:32):
Like I said, we took a littlehiatus recording and whatnot,
but um, as of this weekend,gonna be dropping some good
stuff on there, a lot of thebonus content, um, the full song
videos, because usually we justpost the clips on our Instagram
and TikTok page.
But Patreon is gonna get thefull, full video, the raw,
authentic reactions.
So go subscribe to the Patreon,show some love, appreciate you.
(05:57):
Anyways, all right.
This is this is this isinteresting.
All right, so this article, I'mreading, we're we're this is
gonna be like a book club today.
All right, I'm reading anarticle to you.
Um I read like a little bit ofthe first part, but I actually
(06:19):
want to re I want to get anauthentic reaction with myself
as I'm reading to you because Iwas like, oh wow, this is crazy.
Um, so this was sent to me by afriend.
Also want to give credit to AltKev on Substack because this was
written by him, beautifullywritten.
Um, but this was sent to me, Iwas like, you know what, we
gotta we gotta get into thisbecause you know sometimes we
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talk about dating.
So, title of the article isWe're Friends Until We Get
Drunk.
Subtitle Modern Friendship Has aBoundary Crisis.
So let me get into my narration.
Hold on, one more sip of thewine before we get into it for
(07:02):
real.
Crazy, I'm drinking wine, ittalks about alcohol in here too,
but we'll get into that.
Alright, so this is basicallyabout you know the the modern
hookup culture.
Um people can't commit, peopleare just keeping all these
options open, you know.
So let's get into it.
(07:23):
So, somewhere between hookupculture, emotional
unavailability, social media,and alcohol, an entire
generation forgot how to just befriends.
Nobody says it honestly becausehonesty would force people to
confront how emotionally chaoticmodern relationships have
actually become.
So instead, we hide behindlanguage that sounds casual
(07:45):
enough to remove accountability,aka we're just friends.
But modern relationships, I'msorry, but modern friendship
barely resembles friendshipanymore.
It is romantic dependencewithout responsibility, intimacy
without commitment, romantictension disguised as
convenience.
(08:05):
People text each other likelovers, confide in each other
like partners, sleep togetherwhen alcohol gets involved, then
wake up and pretend none of itmeant anything because nobody
wants to look emotionallyattached.
Welcome to dating in 2026.
And somehow this becamematurity, and maybe this is why
(08:27):
so many people feel emotionallyexhausted now, because modern
relationships demand theemotional vulnerability of
commitment while simultaneouslyrejecting the structure.
I can't even talk, rejecting thestructure that once made
vulnerability feelpsychologically safe.
We want to access each otherwithout responsibility toward
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one another.
We want intimacy withoutaccountability, we want
exclusivity without sacrifice,we want emotional reassurance
while still keeping other peopleemotionally available in the
background just in case.
Let that sink in for a second.
(09:10):
And I'm not even speaking thatabout this from morally, I'm
sorry, and I'm not even speakingabout this from some morally
superior position.
I have participated in it too.
Most people have modern datingculture is not some distant
phenomenon happening to otherpeople.
We are all inside it to somedegree.
(09:32):
Just for context, this waswritten, this was said by the
person writing this.
Um, but while we're here, I'mguilty of it too, so you know,
might as well talk about it.
Um, we all contributed tonormalizing emotional,
emotionally confusing dynamicsbecause they benefited us at one
point or another.
Maybe that is why thisconversation feels so
(09:54):
uncomfortable, because peoplerecognize themselves in it.
So that's the first segment.
Um, what was that called?
Oh, yeah, that's just the intro.
But if that's something thatresonates with you, definitely
stay tuned because, like I said,this was a very interesting
article.
Um But a lot of a lot of whatwas just read and what was said
(10:21):
it's crazy because that's how itreally is.
It's like people just want to,you know, in short terms, keep
their options open.
Like, you know, okay, have sexwith this person, do this with
this person, or even if you'renot having sex, just like this
person is great for dates, butlike I don't really want to
commit, I don't really want novulnerability.
You know, I'm gonna keep theother options open.
(10:42):
So paragraph two everybody hashistory with everybody.
Friendship circles today havebecome strangely incestuous.
Everybody has history witheverybody.
Somebody dated someone briefly,somebody drunkenly hooked up
once, somebody still secretlywould if given the chance.
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Somebody swears they are past itwhile still speaking every
single day.
Yet the entire group continuesoperating as though none of the
history matters.
Modern culture normalized theidea that people should remain
emotionally and sociallyaccessible forever, and maybe
temporarily it works, until realrelationships enter the picture.
I'm gonna say it one more time.
(11:25):
Until real relationships enterthe picture, until somebody gets
a boyfriend or girlfriendoutside the friendship group and
is suddenly expected to feelcompletely comfortable with
their partner spending weekends,nights out, holidays, and
alcohol-filled environmentsaround people they have already
been intimate with.
unknown (11:44):
Woof.
Woof.
SPEAKER_02 (11:47):
That is where society starts gaslighting
people because now boundariesare called insecurity.
Discomfort is calledcontrolling.
Principles are treated likeemotional weakness.
People are told they should bemature enough to accept
situations that realisticallymost human beings would
naturally struggle to trust.
(12:10):
I'm sorry, I'm processing thisas I read it.
But not every boundary isinsecurity.
Sometimes it is discernment.
Because once physical intimacyenters a relationship, the
dynamic the dynamic changespermanently.
And maybe this is theuncomfortable part people avoid
saying out loud, but I genuinelydo not believe something remains
(12:33):
fully platonic once physicalboundaries have already been
crossed.
Maybe friendly, maybe familiar,maybe emotionally attached, but
not fully platonic.
Because intimacy alters thepsychological structure of a
relationship permanently, thebody remembers access.
SPEAKER_00 (12:55):
Ooh.
SPEAKER_02 (12:56):
My boy dropping gems.
Emotional familiarity,familiarity and changes.
I should have had that cup ofwine before reading this, but
it's all good.
Boundaries becomepsychologically blurred whether
people admit it or not.
And pretending nothing changedsimply because two people agree
(13:18):
to keep calling each otherfriends feels emotionally
dishonest.
Intimacy creates psychologicalfamiliarity, whether people
admit it or not.
The body remembers access.
And maybe that is part of the ormaybe that is part people
struggle to discuss honestly.
(13:39):
Because once somebody hasexperienced physical intimacy
with you, there is often anunconscious entitlement that
develops afterward.
Not always maliciously,sometimes subtly, emotionally,
socially, or energetically.
People begin interacting asthough access to your body, your
(14:03):
attention, your vulnerability,or your emotional availability
becomes permanently negotiablesimply because it existed once
before.
That is why so many modernfriendships feel psychologically
heavy, because the boundariesare no longer clear.
Everybody is navigatinginvisible histories while
(14:24):
pretending they are emotionallyneutral, and deep down people
can feel it.
The strange discomfort whensomeone touches their friend too
familiar familiarly.
SPEAKER_01 (14:36):
Why can't I say that word today?
unknown (14:37):
My bad.
SPEAKER_02 (14:38):
The lingering tension in certain jokes, the
emotional territorialism hiddenunderneath platonic dynamics,
the subtle jealousy peoplepretend not to feel, the
possessiveness hidden beneathcasualness.
And I'm gonna take a quick pausereal quick.
Um, because we all may have beenthere.
Um, if you're in a relationship,and whether you're a guy or
(15:01):
girl, and you can feel yourpartner, like you can tell they
have some history with somebody,and it might not be like you
know, crazy, severe history.
Um but like they just said, likethat strange discomfort,
discomfort when someone touchestheir friend, or the lingering
tension in certain jokes, wherelike he said earlier, like you
(15:24):
know, the what was the exact thebody remembers access.
That is a quote right there.
That's a bar.
Um everybody acts detached whileemotionally reacting to one each
other constantly, and maybe thatis why so many people fall feel
anxious inside modernfriendships without fully
understanding why.
(15:44):
Because human beings are tryingto intellectualize instincts
that the body still experiencesemotionally, especially when
alcohol is involved, becausealcohol does not create tension,
it exposes it.
Alright.
Paragraph three.
Stay tuned for this one.
(16:06):
Social media made everythingworse.
Alright, so and social mediamade all of this infinitely
worse because now nobody everfully leaves anybody.
Old flings still watch eachother's stories, former hookups
still send memes.
People who crossed physicalboundaries years ago continue
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maintaining emotional access toone another through likes,
replies, private jokes, closefriends, lists, late-night
conversations, and casualfriendly communication that
previous generations never hadpermanent access to.
(16:55):
People now casually maintainemotional ecosystems around
themselves.
Former lovers, oldsituationships, quote unquote
friends with unresolved tension,mutuals waiting quietly for
emotional openings wheneverrelationships become difficult.
Who everybody has backups,everybody has access, everybody
(17:16):
has emotional contingency plansdisguised as friendship.
I hope y'all paying attention.
And social media allows peopleto maintain these almost
romantic emotional connectionsindefinitely without ever having
to define them honestly.
That is why modern relationshipsoften feel psychologically
(17:39):
unsafe.
Not because people arenecessarily cheating physically,
but because emotional loyaltyitself has become blurred.
People keep tiny pieces ofintimacy distributed across
multiple people while calling itharmless because nothing is
officially happening.
But emotionally, the lines arebuilt are still being crossed
constantly.
(18:00):
And within modern friendshipgroups, social media created the
perfect disguise.
In quotes, we're just friendsnow.
That sentence has become thesafest hiding place for
unresolved tension in modernrelationships.
Because technically, maybe theyare friends now, but history
matters, attraction matters,emotional familiarity matters.
(18:23):
I can't say that word today.
Um and pretending those thingsdisappear simply because people
rename the dynamic feelsintellectually dishonest,
especially when thecommunication never stops.
That is what people struggle totrust, not random strangers.
The person your partner alreadyshared intimacy with, the person
(18:46):
who knows them emotionally, whoknows them emotionally
vulnerable, the person who stillhas direct access to them every
single day while everybody elsepretends the past no longer
exists.
And the moment somebodyquestions the dynamic, society
immediately immediately labelsthem insecure.
But there's a difference betweeninsecurity and understanding
(19:06):
human nature, honestly.
Modern culture keeps trying toconvince people that unlimited
access without boundaries isemotional maturity.
But maybe maturity isunderstanding not that not every
connection needs to remainaccessible forever.
What'd he say?
What'd he say?
The body remembers access.
(19:30):
Alright, paragraph four.
SPEAKER_01 (19:49):
I've actually never been to a book club.
And I actually do like to read,that's kind of crazy.
So if y'all know of any bookclubs, let me know.
SPEAKER_02 (20:00):
Alright.
The social punishment of growingup.
And maybe the strangest part ofmodern friendship culture is
what happens when somebodyfinally decides they no longer
want to participate in thosedynamics.
The moment somebody meets aperson who makes them reevaluate
the chaos, the blurredboundaries, the emotional
(20:20):
ambiguity, and the constantnormalization of intimacy within
friend groups, they often becomethe villain of the group.
People suddenly act as thoughgrowth is betrayal, as though
wanting clearer boundaries isjudgment, as though removing
yourself from emotionallycomplicated complicated dynamics
means you think you are betterthan anyone else.
(20:43):
And maybe that reaction revealssomething unfortunate.
I'm sorry, uncomfortable.
Not unfortunate.
Maybe unfortunate too.
Because deep down, many peopleknow these environments are
unsustainable long term.
But instead of confronting thathonestly, people often protect
the culture itself.
(21:04):
So when somebody leaves thosedynamics behind, creates
distance, or chooses arelationship that requires
stronger boundaries, they gettreated as though they abandoned
the friendship instead of simplyevolving uh beyond a lifestyle
that no longer feels emotionallyhealthy.
Modern culture praises freedomconstantly, but becomes
strangely hostile when somebodychooses restraint voluntarily,
(21:28):
especially when that restraintforces other people to question
their own lives.
And maybe that's what makes theentire conversation so emotional
emotionally charged is thatpeople can feel themselves
becoming disconnected in realtime.
You could feel it in a way, inthe way that people speak about
each other, the wayvulnerability becomes
embarrassing, the way genuinecare now gets mistaken for
(21:51):
desperation, the way emotionaldetachment becomes socially
attractive, the way people laughat love publicly while Privately
craving reassurance, safety,consistency, and intimacy more
than ever before.
I'm gonna read that one moretime because that's facts.
The way that people laugh atlove publicly while privately
(22:14):
craving reassurance, safety,consistency, and intimacy more
than ever before.
There is sadness underneathmodern dating that people rarely
talk about honestly.
Everybody looks connected,everybody looks desired,
everybody looks sexuallyliberated, and yet so many
people feel emotionally homelessinside their relationships.
(22:38):
Not because they are incapableof intimacy, but because modern
culture taught people how toaccess one another without
teaching them how to emotionallyprotect one another afterward.
Alright, next paragraph.
We don't even speak about sexproperly anymore.
(23:03):
Catch my breath.
And maybe the clearest evidenceof society's deteriorating
relationship with intimateintimacy can be seen through the
language itself.
We no longer even speak aboutsex with reverence.
We speak about it, we speakabout it violently.
We do not say making loveanymore.
Most people barely even sayhaving sex.
(23:24):
The dominant word now is fuck, aswear word, a vulgar a
vulgarity.
A term associated with anger,disrespect, humiliation,
aggression, and decimal somehowbecame the primary language
because I'm sorry, it somehowbecame the primary language
people use for intimacy.
(23:44):
Which I'm gonna throw my inputreal quick.
I'm gonna scroll back.
I ain't gonna lie to you.
The term making love isbeautiful in itself.
Bring it back.
This is my petition to bring itback.
Bring back making love and bringback making love with the person
you're supposed to be makinglove with.
Because everybody, you can't bemaking love with anybody, with
(24:05):
everybody.
But because language reflectsculture, language reveals
psychology.
The way people speak aboutthings exposes how they
subconsciously perceive them.
And the fact that one of themost emotionally, spiritually,
psychologically, and physicallyvulnerable acts human beings can
experience together is nowdescribed using a derogatory
(24:29):
term, says everything about howdisconnected society has become
from the sacredness of intimacy.
Sex stopped being viewed asconnection, it became
consumption.
Something recreational, casual,transactional, an activity
stripped of emotional weight andreduced to pleasure, validation,
entertainment, temporaryloneliness, loneliness relief,
(24:53):
ego or social currency insidefriendship groups where
everybody has history witheverybody else.
And now people are shocked thatmodern relationships feel
emotionally unstable.
People are more sexually openthan ever before, yet
emotionally disconnected fromone another.
Everybody has access to bodies,but almost nobody feels
genuinely seen.
(25:14):
Ooh, girl, don't treat me like apiece of meat.
People confuse physicalcloseness for emotional
intimacy, then wonder why theystill feel empty afterward.
Because sex was never designedto function without emotional
consequence.
Paragraph five or six.
Y'all keep counting for me, bookclub.
(25:37):
The death of safe love.
That is the lie modern datingkeeps selling.
That nothing means anythingunless you decide it does.
But everything means somethingpsychologically.
That is why betrayal hurts sodeeply.
That is why jealousy exists.
That is why trust collapses whencertain histories enter certain
(25:58):
rooms.
That is why so many peopleprivately feel anxious while
publicly pretending to beemotionally involved.
And maybe that is the ironyunderneath all of this.
At the same exact time, peopleare becoming more emotionally
accessible, more sexually open,and more interconnected than
ever before.
People are also struggling morethan ever to sustain
(26:20):
relationships, trust oneanother, or build love that
actually lasts.
Everybody keeps asking the samequestion.
Why is modern dating so hard?
Why can nobody commit?
Why do relationships feel sounstable?
But maybe part of the answer issitting quietly inside the way
we now relate to one another.
Because these dynamics do notleave people untouched
(26:41):
psychologically.
They shape people, theycondition people emotionally,
they slowly normalize emotionalambiguity, blurred loyalty,
fractured intimacy, andtemporary attachment until
people no longer recognize whathealthy emotional connection is
supposed to feel like anymore.
And over time, people stopknowing how to distinguish
(27:02):
genuine intimacy from emotionalconvenience.
People enter relationshipscarrying unresolved attachment,
emotional familiarity withformer lovers, blurred
boundaries, psychologicalentitlement, and social
environments built aroundambiguity.
Then wonder why trust feelsfragile, why commitment feels
(27:23):
difficult, why vulnerabilityfeels terrifying, why emotional
permanence feels almostimpossible to maintain.
And maybe the saddest part isthat many people are not trying
to hurt one anotherintentionally.
They are simply participating inthe culture that taught them how
to access people emotionally andphysically without teaching them
(27:44):
how to protect the emotionalconsequences afterward.
And maybe the saddest part ofall is how rare safe friendship
has started to feel.
Not attraction, not sex, notsituationships, just friendship.
The kind where two people cansit across from each other at a
coffee shop, speak honestly,laugh deeply, share
(28:06):
vulnerability, and trust thatintimacy will not eventually
become transactional orsexualized.
The kind where someone can callyou during the worst moment of
their life and know you areshowing up because you genuinely
care about them, not becausesome hidden part of you hopes
emotional vulnerability mighteventually become access.
What happened to relationshipsfeeling emotionally safe?
(28:29):
What happened to friendshipsthat did not carry undertones?
And what happened to simplycaring for people without
secretly wanting ownership oftheir bodies?
And maybe that is why so manypeople struggle with modern
intimacy now.
Because once every relationshipbecomes psychologically loaded,
emotionally ambiguous, orsexually negotiable, people stop
(28:52):
feeling safe around one another.
Not physically, emotionally.
And the strange part is thatpeople who recognize this often
get treated as insecure,conservative, emotionally
immature, or controlling simplybecause they still believe
boundaries matter.
As though wanting clarity isweakness, as though restraint is
(29:15):
repression, as though emotionalsafety itself becomes
old-fashioned.
But maybe there was wisdominside those boundaries.
Maybe boundaries were neverabout restricting intimacy.
Maybe they existed to protectit.
Because deep down, I do notthink people are craving more
access to one another.
I think people are cravingrelationships that finally feel
(29:37):
safe enough to trust again.
Maybe calmness is the newintimacy.
Maybe safety is the new luxury.
And maybe the problem was neverthat this generated generation
wanted less love.
Maybe we just destroyed theboundaries that made love feel
safe enough to exist.
SPEAKER_00 (30:00):
Can we take a moment real quick?
SPEAKER_02 (30:02):
Hold on, hold on.
Until Monday.
Ironically, I'm not gonna giveyou a whole podcast spiel about
it.
I'm just the reader today.
(30:23):
But um, yeah, I wanted to sharethat because this was shared
with me.
And before you go talking shit,you know, it did not share with
me in a way that, you know, Ineed to work on things.
We all need to work on things.
But shared with me in a way thatwas like, you know, this is a
good read.
Um for context, I am 30 yearsold, so um, I think modern
(30:47):
dating kind of like goes for allages, but you know, I'm kind of
at that age where it feels veryweird right now.
It's very weird.
Um I am a millennialtechnically, but you know, we
grew up very old school, and nowyou know we're kind of like into
this new modern thing, you know,um, with the social media and
all that that was mentioned.
So it is very weird, it'sconfusing.
(31:10):
Um I agree with what he said.
I think a lot of people deepdown do crave the actual
connection and togetherness andyou know genuine friendship.
Um, especially that last part wewere talking about, you know,
something you know, if you ifyou're in like a the absolute
worst moment of your life, youknow, someone really gonna be
(31:32):
there for you, or are they gonnabe there for you because they
want access to you or access toyour body?
So um I definitely agree withthat.
Um, like I said, I'm not gonnagive you a whole podcast about
it, but wanted to do a littlebit of a different episode
today, share that with you.
Um appreciate y'all tuning inbecause I'm not gonna lie to
you, that's probably we'realmost on episode 200.
(31:54):
This might be to episode 200.
No, it's like close to 200.
But um, I have never, I don'tthink I've ever like read for a
whole episode.
So excuse my dyslexia.
But yeah, thank you for uhtuning in.
Let me know your thoughts.
Drop some comments.
Um, this is an audio only.
There won't be any video clipsbecause it's literally like I'm
(32:17):
doing a super late nightrecording, and I didn't feel
like setting up a whole studio.
So um let us know your yourthoughts in the comments uh for
this audio portion.
Um and again, like I said at thebeginning, September 26th, 2 30
p.m.
Miami, Florida.
First live show.
(32:37):
We look forward to seeing you,and we look forward to catching
the vibe.
Have a great week.
Appreciate y'all.
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