Episode 197 - What Your Favorite Music Era Says About You - Can I Vibe With Y'all?

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SPEAKER_00 (00:02):
We lie.
We lie, baby.
We lie, baby, we lie, baby.
Welcome back to Can I Vibe withy'all?
What the vibes?
Are you maculant every time wehop up in here?
Every time.
Oh, listen.
Y'all hear my co-host today?
Yes.
Yes, sir.
If you are listening, if you arewatching, we are three days into
this LA tour.

SPEAKER_01 (00:23):
Welcome, welcome.

SPEAKER_00 (00:24):
Recording.
I feel love.
Yeah.
I appreciate it.

SPEAKER_01 (00:27):
LA has a lot of love.
Temporarily.

SPEAKER_00 (00:29):
Temporarily.
We're gonna get into that.
But yeah, it's your boy Kaz,host of Can I Buy with y'all.
I'm here with Doc, theentertainer today.
Are you not entertained?

SPEAKER_01 (00:40):
Are you not?
Are you not entertained?
You want me to sing?
I'll sing.
Not now, but he could sing.
I could dance.
He could rap.
I could cook.
He could dance.
I could uh sew.
Oh.
I really can't sew.
My grandmama taught me.
Yeah, yeah.
For real?
Yeah, for real for real.
Oh, he said your husbandmaterial.

SPEAKER_00 (00:55):
Okay.
Choose wisely.
Ah.
Yeah, we might find you a wifetoday.

SPEAKER_01 (00:59):
No.

SPEAKER_00 (01:01):
But yeah, I appreciate you coming on, man.
This was like three years of ayear.
Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (01:06):
For sure, for sure.
So I was like, little diamond inthe rough, this man right here.
Like your podcast, you guys aredoing great things.
I appreciate it.
Love to see it.

SPEAKER_00 (01:13):
Love to see that.
So uh yeah, we're excited todaybecause we got some good topics
today.
Um, as you know, we talk aboutmusic a lot on here, so we're
gonna get into some music.
You had a very controversialtake before we started
recording, so we'll get intothat in a sec.

SPEAKER_01 (01:26):
I'll repeat, I'll say with my whole chest.

SPEAKER_00 (01:28):
We're gonna get into that in a sec.
Um, we're talking about umcomparing some of the old music
to the new music.
We are talking, we're here inLA, and you know we gotta talk
some dating.
We're you're gonna explain alittle bit about the dating life
in LA, and then we're gonnacompare it to other parts of the
U.S., even other parts of theworld.
Sure.
Um you're global.

(01:50):
We global, baby.
Look at this guy.
Not me, not me.
You know, just the just intheory.
Theoretically, would it be likeyeah, yeah, yeah.
But we're gonna open the floorfor everybody because we want to
hear the comparison.
I even want to hear thecomparison.
It's it's madness out here.
I'll share some of my storiestoo.
Um, we might have the modern mantalk.

(02:13):
We could talk about a modernman.
Let's try not to get canceled.
Um and then you're just gonnahave guy talk, talk some anime,
video games, sports, and allthat good stuff.

SPEAKER_01 (02:24):
You said anime.

SPEAKER_00 (02:26):
All the good stuff, all the good stuff.
So um, do you want to start withsaying what you said?
Oh, yeah, no problem.

SPEAKER_01 (02:35):
90s music is overrated.

SPEAKER_00 (02:40):
There's somebody there's no real hype.
Somebody back me up.

SPEAKER_01 (02:43):
Is what a crazy man would say.
I I I love 90s music.
I genuinely do.
But I got you.
I got you for a second.
Uh but I do believe that to somedegree uh it's more iconic,
nostalgic, and like it justbrings back like a wave of
energy that's just like it'sunmatched.

(03:04):
But I think in terms of justlike top 10 rappers of all time,
like to still go back and belike Tupac Biggie Jay-Z, it's
just like, sure, they'repillars, but realistically, like
there are some there have beensome Titans that came out and
like bar for bar, I feel likecould be them.

SPEAKER_00 (03:22):
After the 90s.
After the 90s.
Okay.
Uh are you a 90s baby?
I'm a 90s baby.
Born in 91.
91?
Okay.
Okay.
Alright, so yeah, you yeah, soyou started.
You were old enough to listen tocorrect on the radio.
All right, so what's yourfavorite era for music?

SPEAKER_01 (03:37):
Uh, from like once you sent me this prompt and I
did enough like digging, itbecame this question, right?
So, like, realistically, in the2000s, probably like my favorite
era of music, but I think thebest music that came out was in
2010s.
But I'm like, most of the 2010smusic are 2000s artists.

(03:58):
So, like Drake came out in 2008with brand new, greatest song of
all time.
But you're a Drake fan.
Oh, I'm a brand new fan.
I was like, But that's like 28.
So it's like, is he a 2000sartist or is he a 2010s?
Because like that was the peakof like all of his performances,
and then after that, it justbecame very performative.
We won't talk about it.

(04:19):
It's we'll get into it.
He went there, but same thingwith like Kanye.
Kanye came out, he was like inthe early 2000s, but in 2000 and
2010s is when that man just wentcrazy.
He uh he re-established himself,so I'm just like 2010 Kanye is
different than 2000.
This is true.
Then we talk about like, oh, Iwant bring back the old chance.
It's like that's 2000 chance,that's acid rap, that's mixtape,

(04:39):
or that's mixtape chance, whichis completely different than
what we have now, which is likecome home, come home, chance.

SPEAKER_00 (04:45):
Like so 2010 to to win, would you say is the best
era?

SPEAKER_01 (04:50):
I would if I was to say like a definite decade, I
would say 2007 to 2017 was likepeak music.

SPEAKER_00 (04:59):
Okay.
Peak music ever.
Ever.
Ever.
Everyone You know there's gonnabe people.
I say the 80s was the best.
Sure.
I say the 90s was the best.
Sure.
Maybe in the 60s or 70s was thebest.

SPEAKER_01 (05:16):
Maybe even they were listening to the same six songs.
Like, what are you talkingabout?
Oh, oh, you wanna talk aboutthat?

SPEAKER_00 (05:22):
Maybe even the people that say the 2020s was
the sound crazy.
You sound crazy.
I'm not people.
I understand you're not you.
If you believe that, you soundcrazy.
I will say, obviously, music issubjective.
I think this current era mightbe the worst.

SPEAKER_01 (05:42):
It's just it's oversaturated because of how
convenient it is to just makemusic and kick it out.
Versus in the 60s, 70s, like wecould only put one song on this
record, gotta make it count.
It's like, yeah, so you're gonnaput the best song out that we
possibly can.
So it's just like the qualityhas kind of just like dwindled
ever since.
Yeah, but I think that is true,it's very saturated.

SPEAKER_00 (06:03):
So don't get me wrong, there's some great music
out there for sure.
Great music coming out everyday.

SPEAKER_01 (06:08):
Using using old samples, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 (06:11):
It still sounds nice.
But man, there's some that comesout, and I genuinely feel like I
can make music.
Yeah, no, a hundred percent.
Based off of what I hear.
I'm like, and I don't makemusic, but yo, I hear some
things, I'm like, you know what?
I might as well give it a shot.

SPEAKER_01 (06:29):
No, I'm working on this video for the React channel
where it's like, oh, celebritiesthat try to get into music.
And like there are some thathave made it.
Like clearly, like Jamie Foxx isvery talented, so it's like easy
peasy.
But there are some where it'sjust like didn't work out.
Kobe, for example, had one putout one song.
It was cool because he I thinkit did Kobe Bryant.
He put out a song, he put out asong, yeah.
R.
P.
Kobe.

(06:49):
I ain't gonna be like, RP Kobe.
He put out one song, it was kindof decent.
But there are some that justlike instantly flop city.
You're it's just not meantthere.
I feel like when I becomewhatever actor I become, I could
get into music real easy.
I could jump on a feature withme and Grammy and walk away.
It's like it was real, it wasfun.
It was it was real, it was fun.
Are you saying that that'sprobably their mindset?
That's their mindset right now.
Okay, it's just like I'm justbored, I got all this money,

(07:09):
let's make music.
I could literally go to garageband right now, go beep, boop,
bop, bop, bop.
Is that this be kind of fire?
I'm not gonna lie to you.

SPEAKER_00 (07:16):
I'd probably do the same thing if I just I'm bored.
I'm bored.
Yeah.
You know what?
I could do that.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (07:22):
Yeah, you can.
Yes, you can.
Don't want to freestyle.
And now you got like auto-tune,so it's just like I sound
decent.
Yeah, you're fine.
Oh man, you get the rightengineers and because I think
it's crazy because like whenautotune first, I don't want to
say like first came out, butjust like became big with like
the T-Pain move, we're justlike, oh, it was too much.
Like they put auto-tune on themax, which is like that's auto
tune versus like like.
But he can actually sing too.

(07:42):
Yeah, he can.
That boy can sing.
That's sang it.
Don't know why he was hiding it,but either way, now he can sing
and now he's shout out T-Pain.
But uh out there was like crankto the max.
Now it's really like, oh, we'regonna pitch correct it to make
them sound like I'm gonna takesomebody who can't sing and make
this just like flow.
And it's like, wow, she cansing.
Do it in real life.

(08:03):
Oh, thank you.
It's like, okay.

SPEAKER_00 (08:04):
You know what's funny?
I um I talked to this girl acouple days ago.
She she just came on here andshe was talking about that.
Uh, she actually came on withher producer, and we were
talking about the difference oflike how let's say me or you
started making music right now,where we if we had the right
production, right team, we couldput out stuff and sound great.
But when it comes time to hop ona stage, it'll be different.

(08:26):
You don't you don't got theengineering?
It'll be different.

SPEAKER_01 (08:29):
But that's kind of the uh like there's a quick like
washing system of just like I'mgonna put out some songs that
sound really good.
They're gonna blow up on TikTok,there's gonna be some songs and
trends.
I just need that to accumulatemy funds.
I don't need to go on tour, Idon't need to have concerts, I
don't need to do a small littleperformance.
Like, I don't need to do any ofthat.
Here's a song, y'all made itpopular, it topped the charts, I

(08:51):
could walk away.
That's really all that it is.
Versus the goal back in earlierlike decades, generations was I
want to sell out an arena.
I want people to hear my musicand hear my voice and whatever.
It's just like, no, no, no, Ijust want to, I just want to get
the bag.

SPEAKER_00 (09:05):
Yeah, there was more of art to it.
Which if I was a 90s or 2000sartist or anything, and then I'm
seeing how it is now, I'll bepissed.
I'd be so pissed.
I'm like, bro, you could just goon TikTok and be like wrestling
beauty, my granny.
Like, great song, but greatsong.
But bro, it's crazy.
It's crazy.
It's just it's different now.
Yeah, it's very different.

(09:27):
But as a consumer of all music,you know, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_01 (09:32):
We let me ask you something.
Do you remember back in the daywhen you'd be in whether it's
your mom's car, your dad's car,your grandparents' car, and they
would listen to their generationof music and boy, you don't you
don't know nothing but thegreatest generation of all time.
It's like you an old head, likeyou only listen to the oldies,
like I'm never gonna be thatperson.
That's what I thought in myhead.
I'm gonna listen to new musicforever.

(09:55):
And now I feel like I found thatdecade.
Like now that we're like in the2020s, I'm like, I kind of
disco.
I just go wipe me down radio andI was like, I'm gonna have a
good tar.

SPEAKER_00 (10:03):
Like um, what were like when you were sitting in
the back of the car?

SPEAKER_01 (10:07):
What what were your parents playing?
Um, my mom was really big intolike disco.
So that was like her like givean example.
Uh so like ring my bell, carwash.
Uh what was the song by theArchies?
The uh Sugar Dun dun dun dun dundun uh honey honey dun dun dun

(10:27):
dun dun like that.
Cool, good times, good timeswere had in the car.

SPEAKER_00 (10:32):
You said ring my bells too.

SPEAKER_01 (10:33):
I was like, Yeah, ring my bells.
Like that's that's the powersong in the morning.
Just like it's not allowed incasinos because it creates too
good energy.
And I'm just like, you gottalisten to that every single day.
But uh my dad was Nigerian, buthe would also like like the
temptations, or surprisingly,like Aaliyah, because I think he
liked the message of just like,oh, if at first you don't
succeed, uh dust yourself offand try again.
And he's like, Do y'all hearthat?

(10:54):
And I'm like, as fathers, theNigerian accent.
If you fall, you get back up.
And I'm like, sure, dad.
Yeah, whatever.
Oh man.
But he said, Thank you, Aaliyah,like whatever, but it was uh
very much like we we had thatold school, the Sam Cook, like
whatever just like, all right,cool.
I understood the decade, theymake great music, but at the
same time, their catalog is like20 max versus 20 bangers now.

(11:17):
The bangers, Drake, when he saysI have more records or more hits
than the Beatles, I was like,he's not joking, but at the same
time, it's like controversial.
If you go number for number,Drake's got it.
But if you're looking at likethe conversion rate of how many
tracks he put out versus howmany are bangers, the Beatles

(11:40):
got it.
Because they're more just likethey're like in the 80%.
So if they if they touched it,it was gold, like they're solid.
But yeah, Drake, like he justcrushed them in numbers of like,
I've put out over 800 songs.
It's like, yes, I'm gonna beatthem.
It's like touche, like, yeah,you you got that, but you also
don't some of your songs arepoop.

SPEAKER_00 (11:58):
But I mean it's almost like uh how you clip farm
on social media now.
It's like almost it's like hedid that, and like he knows
what's gonna be club bangers,what's uh because there was a
time where you know you felt it,you felt Drake.

SPEAKER_01 (12:12):
Yeah.
But there's a difference betweenDrake and Drizzy, and that and
and he knows that of just likethe same thing with just like uh
J.
Cole's new album.
Almost like there's nocommercial coal on here.
There's no like this this song'sgonna be played number one on
the radio.
He's like, but that's the lastone.
Right now, yeah.
He's like, I'm going out asJermaine.
And we just want Jermaine waslike, that's hard.

SPEAKER_00 (12:33):
And and he he's been you know forecasting that album
forever, so we ain'tcomplaining.

SPEAKER_01 (12:40):
Aren't we though?
It's like respect it, respectit, but as like a J.
Cole fan, because like I'm J.
Cole's stand for sure, for sure.
It's hard for like when thatwhole like beef went out for
them to just be like, J.
Cole's not even like top three.
It's like you sound crazy.
And all of a sudden he puts outthis and it's like, where's his
banger?

SPEAKER_00 (12:59):
That's the internet reacted to it.

SPEAKER_01 (13:01):
True.
Because he'd be sitting backchilling.

SPEAKER_00 (13:02):
Yes, he but and that's I let my music speak for
myself.

SPEAKER_01 (13:05):
Well that's the how are you top three?
It's just like if LeBron wantsto argue, just like he's still
top three players in the NBAright now, and just like I chill
on the bench, I don't gottaspeak for myself.
Just like LeBron, I need you tofight back just a little bit.
And shout out LeBron, he's beenfighting back this whole this
playoff season.
But either way, it's it's likeuh you would wish that the pony
that you're betting on will justshow that quick little sprint to

(13:26):
be like, nah, I got it.
He sees what y'all what y'alldon't see.
And this last his last album waskind of just like when you 15,
20 years in, like, ooh, we'regonna go back.
We in LA, baby.
Hold for sound.
It's worse because like most ofthe uh like acting studios are

(13:47):
right next to airports.
Oh, you have to hold for soundall the time because she's like
you have to clear for theairplane.

SPEAKER_00 (13:51):
I actually uh there I haven't heard any airplanes.
Actually, that's the firstambulance or fire truck I've
heard, but surprising.

SPEAKER_01 (14:00):
That's how it is.
Authenticity.

SPEAKER_00 (14:03):
What speaking of, you know what we we talked
about, we were gonna get into.
You you know what we talkedabout, we're gonna get into how
long you been in LA?
Uh 10 years.
10 years, all right.
So you should be very wellexperienced.
Correct.
Um, I want to know, some peoplewant to know how the dating life

(14:24):
is here compared to other partsof the US or even the world.

SPEAKER_01 (14:28):
Uh just as a blanket statement, and not to be like
too controversial or just liketoo dramatic, but it's trash.
Because I feel like there's acaricature that is depicted on
social media of what uh like themost unideal man and most
unideal woman is in the datingatmosphere, and that comes to

(14:52):
like the peak.
The epitome of that caricatureis in LA of just like the woman
who speaks first on just likethe first question out of their
mouth is just like how much youmake a year?
It's like that's all you careabout me.
And it's just like all right,cool.
You hit him with it.
And it's like, fine, now youqualify to get my attention.

(15:12):
It's like, all right, cool.
What do you do?
Cool.
It's for me, it's very hardbecause like genuinely for most
men in LA, we do a lot ofthings, especially like even as
a social media influ influencer,like like whatever, I don't like
that label because it soundscorny, it sounds childish.
So you're the entertainer, butI'm an entertainer because it's

(15:34):
like uh I'm a writer, actor,director.
Um, I am on YouTube channels, Ido skits, I do social media
content, but at the same time,like I'm in wholesale marketing
for like flipping houses, likewhatever.
Like, you know what I mean?
It's just like you can't evensay you're an entrepreneur
because you're like uh and it'slike yeah, I'm just like, oh,
I'm in business.
And it's like that's all, yeah.

(15:55):
It's just like okay, and it'slike no, no, like legitimately,
I I run businesses, I'm startingup three charity organizations
right now.
Like, I do this, and it's like,yeah, but what like I want that
cool I'm I'm the CEO and vicepresident of microwaves.
It's like my microwave, you gotmicrowave money?
Like, okay, I think they justwant to hear how many dollars

(16:16):
are coming out, correct?
And it's like so dating in inLA, I figured out, is for most
women, and I will I'll I'llblame men.
I'll get I'll I'll take somehit.
They have been fatigued so badon consistently being like hit
on or pursued in uh with theintention of just like trying to
get hooked up and like there'sno real like dating

(16:36):
intentionality behind it, thatnow when they do a first date,
it's you need to offer me sometype of experience for me to be
excited about the date more thanI'm excited about getting to
know you.
So they get mad when even it'sjust like, oh, we should hang
out, let me like take you outsomewhere.
It's like cool, where are youtaking me?
It's like, where do you want togo?

(16:57):
And it's like, if a man don'tknow where he wants to take me,
if he's not playing in the wholething, whatever, blah, blah,
blah, he's not worth my time.
It's just like for me, theintentionality is like, I want
to get to know you in anycapacity, I don't care what
we're doing.
My intention is to get to knowyou as a person.
Her mentality is I want to dosomething, I want an experience.
I want something exciting.
So if you don't bring that tothe table immediately, it ain't

(17:20):
for me.
So they're long gone to thelet's grab coffee.
Let's get that's gone, brother.

SPEAKER_00 (17:27):
Don't get me started.
That's gone, brother.
So it's like you see, I'm nearthe Miami area, very similar to
LA.
Sure.
Different cities, but similar inthis aspect.
Um, I've gotten so used to thatsuperficial part of it.
And same thing.
I can say, you know, as a man,like a lot of men have messed it

(17:50):
up because, you know, they'rejust saying whatever just to hit
eventually or initially.
Uh so I think a lot of women arejust like, well, if it's gonna
be like this out here, I'm justgonna get what I can, take
advantage of it.
Uh, they're just playing thegame.
Um, unfortunately, that gamereally sucks.
That game really sucks.
So everybody.
So when you're actually lookingfor something, or you know, back

(18:10):
in the day, a coffee date wasvery acceptable.
You know, go out, uh, meet theperson, have a good time, uh,
get to know them.
Now it's like, I mean, it alldepends on the woman, too,
because some women are stillcool with that.
But you know, here, coffee date,you're like, I ain't going no
coffee.

SPEAKER_01 (18:26):
I don't even drink coffee, I drink matcha, so it's
like, oh, my bad.
I thought you're right, you'reright, you're right.

SPEAKER_00 (18:31):
Like, I don't know.
I'm uh it's it's it's wicked outhere.

SPEAKER_01 (18:36):
It's it's it's very unfortunate because literally,
like the uh I I do see bothsides of the coin of the
argument of there are men thatare just like don't even worry
about marriage, like focus onyourself.
And it's like to some standard,like unfortunately, that is true
because women want to beprovided a lifestyle.
So it's not who is my partnerand what are we facing together

(18:59):
here into the sunset sets, likewhatever.
It's more what are you?
It's it's the what are youbringing to the table of just
like if I could do this formyself, you need to bring more
bare minimum.
This is the standard.
And for a man, it was I want tofind a partner that even in this
journey of me trying to buildsomething and become somebody, I

(19:20):
want someone to work for that'sgonna motivate me to go harder.
Because like even if right now,like I'm a focused individual,
if I had a partner, there are nodays off.
There are no just like I'm justgonna chill and watch some
anime.
It's gonna be like you're gonnado that.
You know, you have apresentation due tomorrow.
I was like, I have apresentation.
You're you're correct becauseshe wants to go to Paris, and
Paris money ain't cheap.

SPEAKER_00 (19:42):
So like happy life, happy life.

SPEAKER_01 (19:45):
Exactly.
So it's like and you kind ofhave this mentality, but I think
what even I got caught inbecause I was uh engaged at one
point was I looked at my partneras a like a checkoff of just
like cool, uh move to LA, check,get into my career, check, have
wife, check, let me focus onbuilding finances, right?

(20:06):
So I didn't really nurture thisrelationship properly because
I'm just like this is done.
This objective is complete.
There's no emotional attackattachment because men work from
logic.
So from her perspective, therewas no emotion like being
reciprocated.
Right.
So that's when it was just likeit it just teetered and and and
ended.
So it's like, all right, I hadto look back on it was a

(20:26):
learning like experience to go,all right.
I need to learn on uh like studyup on love languages, didn't
know what what that meant.
Like whatever.
How to read a whole book.
How to read a whole book.
What book did you read?
It was the like seven languagesof love or whatever.
Like, um I gotta check that out.
Yeah, good book.
So to teach you all about thethe I think five or seven types

(20:46):
of loving languages of just likeoh, physical touch, words of
affirmation, etc.
etc.
So it's like, oh, I didrealistically none of that.
I was just present and providingbecause like I have a Nigerian
father.
That's pretty much all I got tosee was the man worked really
hard to give us a really greatlifestyle, and he was there.
Never stepped out.
That's all you gotta do to be aman.
It's like no it ain't so likeall right, so yeah, it was it

(21:09):
was kind of that learningexperience to give uh like and
it's the same thing for women,they they work a lot on
emotions, so it's just like evenin giving this lifestyle, they
want that excitement, they wantto be nervous, or just like I
don't know where he's gonna takeme next, what we're gonna do.
Every day is a new adventure.
But for most men, it's just likeif you keep your head down and
do the work, you're gonna getfar.

SPEAKER_00 (21:30):
And they also want you to be emotionally available,
right?
Not just you know, checking theboxes, showing up.

SPEAKER_01 (21:35):
You've never learned that.

SPEAKER_00 (21:36):
Yeah, see, I I understand it now, but you know,
as a young man, you don't knowthese things, you don't know
love languages, you don't knowvulnerability, and and now it's
it's weird because you know,half of it is like, you know, as
a man, don't be vulnerable, blahblah blah.

SPEAKER_01 (21:53):
I I it's a dumb next door for real.
He's too sensitive.
I know.
What did you say to me?

SPEAKER_00 (22:01):
Like, bro, at this point, I'm like, I'm just gonna
be me.
I'm just gonna be me.
That's what I'm saying.
The right woman will enjoy thefocus on taking.
Bro, you can't win.
You can't win.
You can't win.
You can't win.
I've I actually I heardsomething.
Let's hear it.
Uh from a few people I know wholive in LA.
And they say when you come outhere, it's best to just get a

(22:23):
girlfriend and grind.
I I don't know if that's howtrue that is.
Apparently, having a partner byyour side makes it easier out
here, opposed to like just beingin the wild.
Okay, but please explain that.
I'm just going by what I'mdoing.

SPEAKER_01 (22:36):
I hear you.
I hear you.
And they're not technicallywrong, because that's the ideal
situation, right?
Because even in having agirlfriend and y'all moving out
here sounds the most beautiful,realistically speaking, of just
like, oh, that's the dream.
We came out here with you know16 bucks in our pocket and look
at us now.
Like, you would love to seethat.

(22:56):
But it no matter depending onwhere you're from, if you come
from like a small, quaint town,and all of a sudden you come to
like big LA where everythingmoves so fast and there's so
many things to do, and whateveryour grinding when they're
surrounded by people that havekind of already done the
grinding, have already gottenthere of just like you're going
to your op, like your maincompetition, you're putting her

(23:17):
in front of it.
Relationships get tested realquick.

SPEAKER_03 (23:20):
Oh boy.

SPEAKER_01 (23:20):
So it's like, all right.
So then when you come to thementality of just like move out
here, find a girlfriend, andthen grind from there.
In in coming to LA, it's thefirst thing that you get asked
is your resume.
How much do you make?
What do you do?
What can you do for me?
Like, can we collab?
Like, let's work together, etc.
etc.
So it's like, if you don't havethat kind of status, you're
you're asking me to bet on ahorse that just put on its its

(23:43):
number for the first time andhop on, we're gonna win the
Kentucky Derby.
And it's like, you haven'tproved that, son.
Right.
So it's like, unless you'regonna walk into a Starbucks and
find a barista and just be like,you, me, forever, maybe coffee
baits, but if she has a checkmark by her name, probably not
gonna happen, big dog.
You're talking about on socialmedia?
Yeah, on social media, man.
And unfortunately, if depending,like if you come to LA, you're

(24:06):
trying to chase something biggerthan yourself, realistically
speaking.
So if you want to get to thiskind of platform, you and then
like social, like social status,you need someone that could
match that energy, that could becomfortable in those
surroundings, whatever.
And it's those type of girlsthat have that check mark
because this is nothing new tothem.
If you bring a barista to aworld premiere, she's gonna be

(24:28):
out of her element.
Oh, this is a networking event.
Go up and shake hands.
Oh, you you good?
You want me to talk to people?
It's like, I really don't liketalking to people.
I hate that, but I know it'spart of my job.
Right.
You have to do it.
So you have to meet girls thatcould kind of match that energy.
And if you want to meet thosetype of girls, you have to be
that type of person, not bebecoming that type of person.

(24:49):
So, in an ideal world, yes, it'dbe great to have that girlfriend
and climb that mission, but youkind of had to do some work to
earn that girl to then y'all canwork together.
That's the dream.

SPEAKER_00 (24:58):
Gotcha.
Yeah, like I said, I'm justgoing by what I heard.

SPEAKER_01 (25:02):
They're not wrong, but they're wrong.

SPEAKER_00 (25:03):
I've been getting more familiar with it.
Not that I'm dating out here,but you know, I've been getting
more familiar with it, learningthe people.
Um, because again, I've alwaysheard there's such a similarity
between LA and and uh Miami,especially with you know being
superficial and whatnot.
Um so far they've been great tome.
I haven't I haven't dealt withthat on that level.
Three days, but well, like Isaid, this is my fifth time out

(25:26):
here, okay.
But still, I'm sure it's there.
I'm sure it's there.
I think I'm also just used to ittoo.

SPEAKER_01 (25:33):
Sure.
Cause I I think you came outwith the mentality of you're
okay with networking and goingto events and just like dipping
out and going.
It's the quiet moments inbetween of just like it's a
Wednesday.
We're not doing any doinganything.
We're not supposed to step outand hit a hit a club.
Like, who are the people that Icould come like text and about

(25:53):
hey, come over and we're justlike gonna watch a movie or have
a game night or whatever.
It's very hard to find uh thatcircle that's just wants to hang
around.
You're gonna find a lot ofpeople network and work with,
and that's gonna be easy.
Like, oh, you want to come onthe podcast?
You'll find a thousand peoplethat'll want to be a guest.
That's easy.
But if it's like I'm not doinganything, you're not doing
anything, like you want to justcome and kick it, like just on

(26:15):
the case.
It's so hard to find genuinefriendship.
It's in the people are out hereto to chase, like I said, to
chase something big.
If you can't help me in that, Idon't see your value.
And that's kind of the feelingthat you get in a lot of
interactions with people in LAof just like if you're not
bringing anything to the tableto help me achieve my dream,
like you're a familiar face,like, hey, hey, bud.

(26:37):
It's like outside of that, it'sjust like no.

SPEAKER_00 (26:39):
Damn.
So you said you're originallyfrom a small town in Texas,
right?

SPEAKER_01 (26:42):
Uh no, I'm from Vegas.
My mom is from Oh, you're fromVegas.
Okay.
I was born in Vegas.
My mom, my dad is from Nigeria,my mom is from uh McAllen,
Texas, which is the bottom ofTexas, like Mexico.

SPEAKER_00 (26:52):
Okay, so you would claim Vegas.

SPEAKER_01 (26:55):
I would unfortunately, yeah, we'll claim
Vegas.

SPEAKER_00 (26:58):
No, I was wondering, because like um obviously LA's a
big city, Vegas is a big city.
Correct.
Um so I don't know, I don't Inot that big.
Yeah.
Because it it feels big.
No, it's really not that big.

SPEAKER_01 (27:09):
It feels big, but it's just like you'll you'll
soon realize like everybody inVegas knows everybody.
Not the same where it's justlike, oh, we're in a town of a
thousand, everybody knows likeWally, who owns the corner
store.
But it's just like, you know,that's my cousin, like whatever.
And it's like everybody, it'sjust it's it's it's weird.
So it's a big little city.
LA is a big, big city.

SPEAKER_00 (27:26):
Yeah, this is disgusting, yeah.
Massive.
Um, but no, I was wondering umlike the transition between like
a like a small town life to acity like this.

SPEAKER_01 (27:35):
And um, I think I just said you you lived in Texas
though.
I live I I spent uh almost everysingle summer in Texas growing
up, yeah.
So so more than anything, like Iam a lot of Texas rubs off on me
to the point where even when Italk, people just like I could
hear a little little twang inyour voice.
I'm like, there's no twang.
I haven't heard it yet, but Iwas like, literally, I feel like

(27:57):
I talk like this all the time,and everyone they're like, Are
you like southern?
And I was like, Thank you.
My southern, no, my southern.
Yeah, but no, this is forcedbecause we're talking.
Uh, but for the most part, I tryto keep it straightforward.
Um I I always felt like I was Idon't want to say destined for
something bigger, but Vegas felttoo like claustrophobic for me.

(28:19):
I'm just like, I've lived in LAfor 10 years.
There are still so many regionsin LA I have never discovered.
I don't even know what you'retalking about.
I can't even point that on amap.
It's hard to do that in Vegas.
So in Vegas, like anytime I goback there, I'm there for like
three, four days.
And I tell everybody this, I'vejust like, it's a little bit
like disheartening because Ilove my people out there, and I

(28:40):
think that's genuinely why I goback.
It's because there are goodpeople out there, but they are
the type that like found theirlife.
They found their career, they'rekind of like they're married,
they have their kids, they're inthe house that game over,
realistically speaking.
There's no growth of just like,oh, what's new with you?
Same old, same old.
It's like same old, same old.
I haven't been back in fiveyears.

(29:01):
What did you do?
And it's like, same old, sameold.
I was like, kids start in sixthgrade, and it's like, that's
cool.
So it's like, but LA is kind ofjust like every day feels
completely different.
Every week is is a new chase, isa new opportunity, is a new
meeting where it's just like youdon't know whose hand you're
gonna shake, type beat.
And it's like, all right, that'swhat I need is I I don't know

(29:22):
what my what net next week lookslike.
Versus, yep, every day Mondaythrough Friday, nine to five,
and then on the weekends I go toGold Spike and Sunday I go to
church and we have a barbecueand wash, rinse, repeat.
And it's like, absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 (29:35):
Because I'm sure the locals don't hit the strip, man.

SPEAKER_01 (29:37):
You don't, yeah.
And even like the strip nowitself is just like kind of
dying in its own way.
I guess like clubs don't hit thesame.

SPEAKER_00 (29:43):
So I haven't been there in four years.
Um, and even then I felt it.
Yeah, but it was fun.
No, they're wrong.
Yeah, so yeah, yeah.
Yeah, but I could just tell it'sjust it's it's just too
expensive.
Yeah, and that's it's not evenfun.

SPEAKER_01 (29:55):
It's like even in LA when there's like, oh, the club
scene is dying, it's like evenwhen you have bottle money,
where it's just like becauselike I worked at this club
called Penthouse, where peoplewere spending like 20K per table
to get whatever airplanes dropfrom the sky, like whatever.
They got six bottles of AcesPays.
Like, cool, why would I spend20K on one little show out when
20K could get me and my friendsall expense paid in you know the

(30:18):
Dominican Republic, likewhatever.
So just like we're going onvacation, we're gonna see the
world.
Right.
So just like if I'm gonna spendmoney because I have money to
spend, we're gonna go placesinstead of just like show out
real quick.
It just doesn't equate anymore.

SPEAKER_00 (30:31):
And I think people finally got hit of that idea of
just like it's uh it's funny yousay that because I'm in the same
boat now.
Again, being close to Miami,world-class party city.
Um, you could easily go to aclub all the time, do whatever.
Um, and luckily I never fellinto that, even being there all
these years.
Like, I've been there 12 years,but um, I'm like, man, I'm like,

(30:52):
same thing.
20K, I'm going overseas.
Yeah, I'm going international.
I'm I'm I'm doing something.

SPEAKER_01 (30:57):
Why would I you don't understand for 6k I could
spend two weeks in Japan andhave the time of my life.
Exactly.
Why would I do that one night?
What are you talking about?
Uh to pop some bottles?
Yeah.
Real real quick to share withpeople.
I don't even know.

SPEAKER_00 (31:09):
Like, nah, I don't know.
I'm good.
Yeah.
Which I'm glad to not be a partof that because I it's just a
flexing type of thing.
Um, but I mean that's not Idon't know if LA's like that too
in that in that.

SPEAKER_01 (31:21):
Yeah, we we've had a big drop-off because like I
said, I I work for one of thebiggest clubs to where it was
kind of like it went from we hadNBA players and NFL players come
in.
I mean, they still kind of dofrom time to time, but
realistically, the only peoplethat are still in there are just
like drug dealers, and it all itis is a show out war of just
like we got it like that.

(31:41):
You got it like that.
It's like you both are stilllike whatever it is.
Y'all got it.
Have have fun with that one,guys.
It's just like uh Mac, becauseyou won't got it like that.
It's like you're absolutelycorrect.
And if I did, it's going in aRoth RA, you're absolutely out
of your mind.
Like, this is Chron Man talk.

SPEAKER_00 (31:58):
Yeah, we have dividends we gotta worry about,
my boy.
Like throw the quarter zip on,drink a little matcha.
We good.

SPEAKER_01 (32:06):
You haven't told me what what it's dating like in
Miami.

SPEAKER_00 (32:09):
They didn't like it, Miami?
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (32:12):
Because to me, I'm surprised that you said it was
similar to LA because I knowthat really, yeah, a good
portion of your culture is uhlike Cubans and Dominicans and
Puerto Ricans coming over andinhabiting Miami.
So with me like being Latin, Iknow that a Latin woman's

(32:33):
mentality is a lot more likeclassic, traditional.
So I would think that it wouldbe easier.
Like how do you say that?

SPEAKER_00 (32:41):
So I'm Latino myself, I'm half Puerto Rican.
Okay, um, and yes, that's howthe culture is, but I think it
it's weird.
Miami is its own country, yes,because English is the second
language, yes.
Um, and you know, I love theLatin culture, uh strong family
values, but I think just the waythe city is, and again, it's not

(33:03):
everybody, it's not all women,all men, but um I think the
city's just kind of built onthat lifestyle that people fall
into.
Uh, because kind of like LA, alot of people, we have a lot of
transplants that come there, youknow.
Maybe they visit, and you know,we have great weather, great
views, and it's easy to fall inlove with that if you're coming
from like, you know, the middleof Ohio or something like that.

(33:25):
It's easy to fall in love withthat.
And people come down there andthey become accustomed to it,
like, especially if you're apretty girl, like, bro, you
could be on a boat every day,you could be um BBL for
breakfast.
Hell the BBLs, bro.
Oh, the BBLs, don't get mestarted.
So I think people just becomeaccustomed to that, and there's

(33:49):
a lot of ballers out there,there's a lot of high-profile
men, a lot of celebrities comeout there, a lot of um how they
make their money, that's anotherstory, but they got it.
So a lot of women can fall intothat.
Um, the men play the game, andit's just it just becomes like a
little chase that I honestly tryto avoid.

(34:10):
Sure.
Um, I live a little bit outsideof Miami, so a little more
suburban, so you're not in it asmuch.
Uh, but I think that affects youknow dating because you know, as
a man, we're surrounded by bro,we have beautiful women.
Yes.
It is everything you wouldexpect.

(34:30):
So as a man, it's tough becauseyou're throwing all these
beautiful in the grocery store,in the gas station, in the post
office.
You're seeing tens.
What are you doing at a postoffice?
Bro, everywhere.
I'm not even exaggerating.
I've been in situations like,bro, I I'll go out and I'm
chilling now.
I'll go out like this.
And I'm like, I just fell inlove again.

(34:51):
Yep.
And then it'll happen everysingle day that week.
And I'm like, this is not okay.
This is not okay.
And then for the women, theyhave access to so much.
If they want to, you could be achill, you know, homebody.
Um, you know, very healthconscious area too, which I like
that part of it.
A lot of people are like, youknow, doing run clubs and all
that stuff.
But you know, if you want to bein that mix, it's very easy too

(35:13):
as a woman.
Because it's it's again, it'slike a ballers type of thing,
like just that lifestyle.
So I just think if you have goodvalues, I have family values and
traditional values.
So if that's what you want, nomatter where you are, you can
find it.
Um but it becomes a lot harderin a city like Miami, opposed to
you know a smaller town or likea more wholesome city.

SPEAKER_01 (35:36):
Because to me, I I feel like perfect dating comes
from like Denver or Dallas.
Where it's like think of theMidwest.
Sure, but I I feel like thoseare too I don't want to say like
cut off, but it's just like I Ineed a big city where you could
still feel like you could growand breathe and do stuff without
it just being like I settleddown and this is it, became a

(36:00):
teacher, and this is me.

SPEAKER_00 (36:00):
It's like I'm the same way.
I'm this I was actually born inColorado.
Okay.
Um so same thing.
Like, I still want to be in ametropolis, I want to have
excitement, have things to do,um, have a vibrant life.
Um, I don't want to justcompletely just be on a farm and

(36:22):
disappear.
Maybe one day we'll see.
Maybe one day, maybe one day.
Let me not speak too soon.
Um but yeah, bro, it's just it'sa lot.
I think I think it's made mebetter as a person, honestly,
because I've gotten you.
I went there for college.
Okay.
So, you know, coming there at18, it's a lot thrown at you
very quick.
And if you go to college in theMiami area, it's a lot.

(36:46):
Should've gone under the U.
Should've gone.
Yeah.
That was actually my dreamschool.
It was my dream school too.
Junior year.
I'm a big Keynes fan.
Junior year I found out it'sprivate school.
I said, Oh, 60,000 a year.
That dream's not happening.

SPEAKER_02 (37:00):
60,000, that's that's doable.

SPEAKER_00 (37:04):
I went to FAU, put it that way.

SPEAKER_01 (37:06):
Well, uh what is the uh the where do you borrow money
from?
FAFSA?

SPEAKER_00 (37:11):
FAFSA, yeah.
Yeah.
I don't know.
It was a thing when I started.
It was a thing.
2010.
Yeah, it was a thing then.

SPEAKER_01 (37:18):
16 years later, I don't know.
But yeah, I would have we wouldhave figured it out.
But no.

SPEAKER_00 (37:22):
Yeah, being a cane was a dream.
Same.
Same.
But um, you mentioned this.
I will say this, I never speakon this.
I freaking hate the BBLs.
Yeah.
I and people think because Ilive there that I love that.
I'm a look.
Don't get me wrong.

SPEAKER_01 (37:38):
I'm a I'm a I'm a I'm a I'm a it'll it's hard not
to see.
It'll it'll get my attention forsure, but it's not something
that I desire.
Especially because like for themost part, it creates a
longevity fear of just like evenif it looks good now, which
sometimes they go like over thetop and just like over the top,
the right.
I don't even know what to dowith that.
Like, that's just that's justtoo much.

(37:59):
Uh but it's just like, allright, what are you gonna look
like when you hit 60?
When we're 80 years old, likewhat is that gonna hit the
floor?

SPEAKER_00 (38:06):
I've never seen an 80-year-old BBL, so it's coming
soon, brother.
But they're there, bro.
It's crazy because there's I'vebeen out and I've seen women in
their 20s go out, I've seenwomen in their 60s go out.
When in their 60s still, youknow, try to be performative and
you know, the fake breasts andthe BBLs and everything.

(38:29):
And I don't know.
I I can't speak on it.
I'm not a woman, so I don't knowtheir exact reasoning for that.
I'm guessing it's to attractmen, but oh man, it's it's uh I
there's a lot of BBLs out therebecause I'm all for like body
positivity.

SPEAKER_01 (38:45):
If whatever you were born with a smaller chest and
you want to like get someimplants, go nuts.
It's the one where you go likeover the top, right?
Just like this doesn't even looknatural, of like you did it to
to make yourself more confident.
It just seems like at this pointyou're just doing it to show off
how much you spent.
And I feel like even with menwho pay for that, of just like
when they become the the 5%, the1%, of just like they want

(39:07):
because that's that's the kindof uh audience that these girls
attract, right?
Of just like they go to thesethese millionaires, and I feel
like it's a showcase of justlike look how much I spent on my
trophy, essentially speaking.

SPEAKER_00 (39:19):
But to me, I'm just like Yeah, I think that's what
it is too.
It's like because I don't Idon't see the women doing it for
other women.
Like you said, if it's like youknow, a breast reduction,
something like that, yeah, cool.
But when it's over the top, Ican only see that being for men
who are just like trying to getup there.
And I'm just like, oh, sure.
So yeah, but um yeah, we'llwe'll transition real quick.

(39:44):
I don't speak on this.
No, no, I can speak on it.
I see it every day.

SPEAKER_01 (39:47):
No, I see it every day.
Is there a lot here?
Yeah, there's a lot here becauseit's it's the same audience of
just like if you go to LA, yougo to Miami.
If you go to Miami, you go toLA.
So it's just like we have thesame ballers, we have actors,
like whatever.
So it's like that those sametype of people want those same
type of girls.
So like every single girl isjust like, I want my ass to be
big, like I want to walk into aroom and it's just there and

(40:08):
sell themselves.

SPEAKER_02 (40:09):
Cool.

SPEAKER_00 (40:10):
Like oh, it's funny because my mom lives, my mom
lives in Tampa, which is aboutfour hours from Miami.
Um, and even there, it's adifferent lifestyle compared to
Miami.
And like for one year, she cameto visit.
Oh man, she was so mad.
Yeah, I can't believe you livehere with all these these BBLs.

(40:32):
Is this why you're here?
Is this why you like this?
Is this why is this why youmoved down here?
Yeah.
Oh it.

SPEAKER_01 (40:38):
Yes, mother, that's specifically the reason I moved
here.

SPEAKER_00 (40:41):
Yeah, I want to settle down with a fat ass.
That's all I need in life.
No, I'm just playing.
I'm just playing.
Um, should we get into themodern man?

SPEAKER_01 (40:51):
Let's dive into the modern oh that's controversial.
That's uh all right.

SPEAKER_00 (40:56):
How do we how do we explain this?
There's there's a a lot goingon.
What is a modern man?
And especially men with podcastmics talking about it.
Um how do we even start?
Do you do you want to explainwhat a modern man is?

SPEAKER_01 (41:13):
Uh being a modern man is unachievable.
Uh and you have to realize youcan't please everyone.
You can't please both parties.
You can't at the end of the day,you can only be you want to be
able to be a man that's proud ofyourself.
Um so I think even when it comesto the the point of just like uh
like we talked on it earlier,being like emotionally

(41:36):
intelligent without being overlysensitive, it's like cool, do
the work, but don't make it youridentity, is essentially what
would be the the best medianline of just like as a
traditional man, most of us aremeant to just like like said,
keep like shut up, keep yourhead down, and just keep moving
forward.
It'll all work itself out.
Like, don't even discuss it's inthe past, so keep it there,

(41:56):
whatever type of mentality.
Vers I will say women, justbecause that's most of the
reason why we do it of just likeoh go see a therapist so you can
work through like the childhoodtrauma and whatever you like you
went through to unpack it andthen leave it there.
To me, like I overanalyze everysingle moment of my entire life

(42:17):
to make sure, like I'm checkingin with me, I'm checking in with
little doc.
Like, you doing good, like am Imaking you happy, like you're
comfortable, whatever.
And it's like that's tooemotionally available because
now you're making it like uh apriority on making sure, like,
is what I'm doing always makingme happy?
Am I always at peace?
And it's like sometimes you doneed to struggle.
Because I I'm a firm believer ofjust like if you're um pursuing

(42:41):
your purpose, like pain comesalong with that path, it's a
part of that path.
So it's just like if you're notcomfortable being uncomfortable,
if you're not okay being notokay, you're you're doing too
much because sometimes you dohave to fall so you can pick
yourself learn to pick yourselfback up.
But the most important part isyou have to fall, you have to
fail.
It's part of the process.
Yeah, if you're freezingyourself from making any type of

(43:04):
move because it's just like itscares me, it doesn't make me
comfortable, it reminds me ofthis, it's just like you're
doing too much.
So that's like emotion.
Then it comes to like choppingtrees, uh being a lumberjack.
Oh men used to go to war.
Men used to go to war.
We used to get volunteered forwar, still, dude.

SPEAKER_00 (43:22):
This is my least favorite quote.
My least favorite quote.
I accept all respenseresponsibility as being uh a
strong, hardworking, ready man.
I have zero desire to go to war.
It I zero desire.

SPEAKER_01 (43:41):
I love the concept of going to war, of having a gun
in my hand, and and you know,it's like you boys get back home
safe, and I run into battle tolike clear them, being a hero.
Yeah, I'll fantasize about that,but realistically speaking, we
went to war because we werefighting for a country that we
were proud of.
Right.
Or a country that we werebuilding for sure.
Sure.
Right now, that ain't it, dog.

(44:05):
Not really what I'm trying toput my life on the line for.

SPEAKER_00 (44:08):
And it's also like, like you just said, my parents
are actually military.
So if you're doing it for thatreason, fight it for your
country, strong, patrioticvalues, that's different.
But doing it to be a macho man,to impress somebody.
You're doing it for your ego.
I'm not going to war.

SPEAKER_01 (44:24):
You signed out, you just signed off four to eight
years of your life, just belike, hoorah.
And it's like, okay.

SPEAKER_00 (44:30):
Yeah, I'm good.
To hold this mic.

SPEAKER_01 (44:32):
Yeah.
To me, it's just like uh insteadof going to war, I believe that
all men should do combat sports,right?
Okay.
You do uh boxing, you said?
Yeah, I box.
Okay.
So I've been I've been boxingfor like six years now.
And at first it was for filmpurposes, like we did a little
boxing project, then it becamejust like it's a good way to
stay in shape.

(44:52):
And then I realized, like, Iwatched a lot of content, which
is like if you get it put into asituation to where you have to
protect your partner, protectyour kids, like whatever, are
you ready?
And there's a lot more to beingready than just being, oh, I'm
strong, I'll be anybody's ass,like whatever, like whatever.
It's like most men will thinkthat, and then you get put into
an actual ring into an actualsituation, you'll realize

(45:15):
there's there's levels to this.
Like my favorite clip of alltime is there's this guy who's
yelling at a bouncer in likeGermany or something, and he's
like, bro, like shut, I knowjujitsu.
And he's like, You know jujitsu?
Show me jujitsu.
And he pulls out his phone, andhe's like a world champion
jujitsu like fighter.
So it's like he was gonna murderthis man.
You don't know who you'retalking about.
You really don't.

SPEAKER_00 (45:34):
Yeah, you really don't.

SPEAKER_01 (45:35):
So it's like you need to bring something more to
the table, more than just like Ilift, like be able to protect,
because you need to be aprotector and a provider, right?
That's what I believe in.
Be a protector.
When when I hear like men usedto go to war, I think of they
used to protect and serve.
Protect.
That's that's that's all that Ithink of.
I think actually.
I agree.
Again, I watched the video whereit's just like, oh, I'm not

(45:57):
gonna cook for you.
That's that's wife material.
It's just like I don't want youto cook for me, I want you to
cook with me.
Uh a man said that you saidyeah, this was uh it was another
podcast.
It was a man and woman duo, andshe broke up with a dude with a
dude because she's like, oh, Iwould refuse to cook for him.
And like cooking is a is a wifeprivilege.
You don't you you don'tsubscribe to that package until

(46:18):
you put a ring on it, then I'llcook for you.
It's like I don't want you tocook for me.
Cook with me, or we'll cook foreach other.
Like, I need that type ofrelationship more than just
like, oh, your job is cookclean, woman.
Like, I don't, I'm not atraditionalist, I I can't do
that.

SPEAKER_00 (46:30):
Like, yeah, I mean, personally, in my experience, a
woman has been more inclined tocook for me when I'm providing,
you know, security, protection,um, whatever it may be.
Sure.
Where she's like, Oh, I want tocook for him.

SPEAKER_01 (46:43):
Cooking is is is one of my love languages because I I
went to culinary school.
Yeah, he cooks, he sews, he doesit all.
So uh for me, like cooking, likebeing able to like prepare a
meal and see them like enjoy it,man, lights up my whole life.
So it's like that's what I wantto do.
It's very intimate.
So it's like that's what I wantto do for my partner because
it's a showcase of me makingsure that like not only are you

(47:04):
fed and provided for, you'reenjoying it.
I made sure to put it, it's thethe freshest ingredients, Papa
John's, like whatever.
And I want to make sure that youenjoy this moment because I it's
it's it's a showcase of myaffection for you.
And I would want you to kind ofwant the same mentality.
If you can't cook, you can'tcook.
I'm not gonna hold it againstyou.
Want to learn how to cook.
Or maybe you're a baker.
Maybe you can make the best cupof hot cocoa on this side of the

(47:26):
Mississippi.
If it's filled with love, showme that's what show me your
love.
And that's I feel like when whenwhen I ask someone to like cook
for me, that's what I'm askingfor.
Is like, how much do you care?
Like, like that verse, I want tocome home and I want my
drinking.
I want my beer on the table.
Like, whatever.
Why are you talking?
Like, I can't, that's not me.

(47:47):
But I think the whole thing ofjust like I'm not gonna be wife
until this is like, then how doI know that you're even capable
of being wife?
That doesn't make sense when I'mtrying to showcase husband from
the jump, because that's whatyou have to do.
You have to show the lifestylenow to even get to this girl, to
then get to marriage, to then towe you subscribe to the ultimate
package, and now you get all thewife benefits.

SPEAKER_00 (48:09):
Like I think uh I think people are just hurt, so
they're scared to give that sideof them.
Like I said, we ruined it first.

SPEAKER_01 (48:14):
I'll take responsibility.
We did it first.
We men did it first.

SPEAKER_00 (48:17):
We did.
I can't even hold you.
We did.
Not us though, never died.
Not us, but us the conglomerate.

SPEAKER_01 (48:24):
Because that's also what I hate is just like the
term of just like uh all mensuck.
And it's like because I can'tsay all women suck.
Yeah, you really can't do that.
And it's like women aren't thesame as like men aren't the
same, but you guys are.

SPEAKER_00 (48:35):
You're all dogs, and it's like I when I hear that
from a woman, I'm like immediatered flag.
Because I understand if you'rehurt, yeah, you're you're jaded,
you're guarded, whatever.
But when you put all men into acategory, likewise, if we put
all women into a category, I'mlike, I'm the problem if if I
say that.
I'm like, oh, you know, fuckevery woman.

(48:56):
Like I can't do that.
So um I don't know.
I I've seen women who likeslowly open up and like, you
know, cause because like yousaid, we kind of started it,
started it.
So if you had a woman who waslike cooking, cleaning, um,
draining his balls, whatever thewhole nine.
The whole nine, and then youhave a man who had all that and

(49:19):
then cheated on her or tookadvantage or whatever, she don't
want to give it to the next man.
Well, the next man could be agreat man.
Correct.
So it's like a vicious cycle.

SPEAKER_01 (49:26):
Very that's very correct.
I think it's um how do I saythis politely?
This is an analogy that mostwomen aren't gonna ascend, but
every man will, right?
If you're a coach, specificallylike a scout for a basketball
team, football team, and everyplayer that you put effort in,

(49:46):
that you're putting the budgetin, that you're giving with
signing a three million dollarcontract, whatever, are just not
performing.
They become bums and busts andwhatever, blah, blah, blah.
We as the organization are gonnalook at you as the coach, as the
scout, and just be like, you'rebad at your job.
Not not that we could replace orlike that we can't replace
women, but it's like you need tobe to evaluate yourself.

(50:08):
The responsibility goes on youfor who you're picking.
For a lot of women, it's theytake their early bets on on
bums, on you know, felons, oncheaters, on liars, on just like
thugs with the mentality of justlike, I'm gonna fix him.
I'm so good that he's gonna wantto revert his like change his
life into something sograndiose.

(50:28):
And when you when he shows histrue colors that he's been
showing from the beginning,you're now hurt and looking at
everybody, we're just likethat's who men truly are.
But when men showcase like theyare the good prospects, and
you're going, I can't give you athree million dollar contract,
I'm gonna give you the minimumbonus of of you know 150k.
It's like I'm gonna want to goplay somewhere else.

(50:50):
Like, I don't know what you'retalking about.
They won't take theresponsibility of it's who I put
my effort in first, and that'swhy I don't want to like when I
I need to fix on who I'm I'm I'mlooking at my prospects more so
than the prospects itself.
Not everybody who plays footballis bad at it, but there are some
really bad football players outthere.
Just be better.

(51:11):
That's literally it.
So it's just like you can't takeall you can't put the weight of
all men suck because you pickedthe shitty football players when
you'd even go to you didn't hosta combine, you didn't go to the
get the games where it's likehe's the number one prospect.
Cool, let me go scout him so Ican see more players that are
just like him, or at leastsurrounded by him, because most

(51:31):
men, like who you're surroundedby is your is right, your circle
is a big indicator of who youare.
So it's like if you have somekid who's just like a beast, I
promise you the people aroundhim are trying to compete to be
just as nice as him.
Go find that guy.

SPEAKER_00 (51:45):
I think that's part of it too, is like with dating,
with picking your partner, withall that, it's you're bound to
get hurt.
Like what percent of peoplemarried the first person they
ever it's so low.
Like 1%?
Something like that.
Like you're gonna get hurt bysomebody, it's part of the
process.
You like, you know, just heal,learn who you are, uh, learn set

(52:10):
set boundaries for both men andwomen.
You know, so say for women, ifshe was wanted to fix up a
felon, like no more felons.
Um I know a lot of women whothey they love athletes and they
get heartbroken every time.
Stop dating athletes.
I'm an ex-athlete myself.
I'm like, stop dating athletesand men.

(52:31):
It's like that woman's a badperson.
Oh, but she's pretty.
She's a bad person.
Like, you gotta reverse theways, you gotta um, I don't
know.
But some people, some peoplemight settle, but I think that
the term settle is kind of likeit has a bad connotation.

SPEAKER_01 (52:51):
Cause I think when people hear the word settle, it
means that you're dropping alike um what's it called?
Standard of just like, oh, don'tworry about his money.
Like go for go for someonebroke.
Like, no, don't go for somebodybroke, but you don't need to go
for a millionaire, you know whatI mean?
Of just like you could settledown for just like take a step
back from the lifestyle that youwant right now and understand

(53:15):
that it's something that youguys can build to in the future.
But I think it's the game of payof like impatience because of
social media, because what whatyou want is to get in a
relationship, and all of asudden, like one month later,
we're traveling the world andwhatever, toasting over
mountaintops, and she's like,This is like girl, I love that
for you.
It's like fantastic.
You that that guy is horrible.

SPEAKER_00 (53:36):
You ever see a girl's comment section?

SPEAKER_02 (53:39):
Man, I like the dreadweirds dudes that they'll
post a picture of themselves andthen guys, pretend like this is
a girl's comment section.

SPEAKER_01 (53:46):
Oh, I love it.

SPEAKER_00 (53:47):
I want to do one, but if it does not go that way,
it's really dependent on thealgorithm.

SPEAKER_02 (53:54):
You have to you have to have have faith in the
algorithm.
We'll we'll start it.

SPEAKER_00 (53:58):
You've got to have faith because the dudes start
cooking you.

SPEAKER_01 (54:00):
No, they won't.
It depends on as long as yourpicture isn't zesty, like it
just has to be like a regularpicture that we hype up for no
reason.
If you put effort into whatyou're doing, yeah, all right,
dog.
Just a normal picture, and it'slike hype me up like the girls
do.
Exactly.

SPEAKER_00 (54:16):
All right, we got you.
I'm gonna do that trend.

SPEAKER_01 (54:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I love that trend because it'sjust like uh women support other
women to a almost likedisgusting degree of just like
it's it's over the top.
But for men, we don't really dothat outside of just like I'll
see you, big dog.
Like that's that's the most yougot.

SPEAKER_00 (54:33):
I wonder who's at fault.
It's like it's like, do we needto do that more?
Or is actually I saw one theother day and um the men were
hyping up the the guy who postedit, and obviously it's in the
it's like a joke for us, but thewomen were in there too.
It's like it would world wouldbe a better place if y'all did
this more.

SPEAKER_01 (54:50):
But they oh no, no, no, no.
They they also hate it becauselike uh I watched the trends of
just like oh uh icks, and onewas if a guy dances in the gym
in between sets, that's an ick.
Oh, and I was like, bro, if youcan't get hype with you and your
boys in the gym, like we can'tdo nothing.
You gotta sit like this.

(55:10):
I'm done.
Back to it, and then that that'sthat's what you want.

SPEAKER_00 (55:16):
I'm like, I'm like, I'm like this in between sets.
Like, y'all, y'all are.
What's the point of me havingthe headphones on?

SPEAKER_01 (55:22):
Gotta be listening to Beethoven's fifth.
It's just like I'm unlocked.

SPEAKER_00 (55:27):
Bro, it'll be sometimes.
You know, we talk music on here.
I'll be I have some JustinBieber on.
Bro, every time.

SPEAKER_01 (55:34):
But it's uh there's the Justin Bieber song with
Drake.
That's like number one on my uhWhich one's that?
Um Here.
Cause I'm here.
What song was that?
I'm here, yeah.
Do, do, do, do, do, do.
Uh why is it not hitting?

SPEAKER_00 (55:53):
I think it's called I'm Right Here.
Oh, yes.
Oh.
Not gonna lie, your singing waspretty bad.
It wasn't hitting.

SPEAKER_01 (56:01):
That was unnecessary.

SPEAKER_00 (56:03):
I'll play.
I'm playing.
Auto-tune it.
Make it we good.
Fix it up, fix it up in my post.

SPEAKER_01 (56:09):
Fix it up in post, thank you.

SPEAKER_00 (56:10):
No, I'm gonna play.
I know what you're talkingabout, though.
I think it is right here.

SPEAKER_01 (56:13):
No, it like even just like ding, ding, ding,
ding, ding.

SPEAKER_00 (56:17):
Yeah, yeah.
Anyway, it's something likethat.

SPEAKER_01 (56:19):
Um yeah, even throwing on some like Mary J.
Blige playing love in in thegym.
Banger, banger.
Bro, I would do it all.
Yeah.
I would do it all.
No problem.
I could also listen to like uhsome like music scores, like
movie scores.
Like, sure.
I'll I'll listen to uh um HanZimmer.

SPEAKER_00 (56:38):
Uh I don't know if I'm talking over your head, but
just like uh he did uh I'mactually picturing my myself in
the gym listening to that.

SPEAKER_01 (56:45):
Oh, go Han Zimmer, play Flight from Man of Steel.
Okay, unmatched.
Anything off of Interstellar,unmatched.

SPEAKER_00 (56:52):
Are you a movie guy?
Yeah, I'm a movie guy.
Alright, we're gonna get intothat because I saw the Green
Lantern ring.
See?
I was like, I didn't notice thatat first and I was like, okay,
okay, okay.

SPEAKER_01 (57:00):
Most people, see, this is my guy.

SPEAKER_00 (57:04):
So are you DC or Marvel?
I'm DC till the dad died.
You gotta be DC if you got thering on it.

SPEAKER_01 (57:09):
Because it's the issue is if you go the crazy
transition, but we're here.
Um we're here now.
If you take away the 15-year runthat MCU had, that's that's all
I'm asking you.
Take away the movies that Marvelput out.
You can keep the TV shows, youcan keep the comics, you could
keep the animated uh shows,whatever.
It don't matter.

(57:29):
Y'all don't have an argument.
It really does not matterbecause in the 90s, the
household names from Marvel,Spider-Man, The Incredible Hulk,
Wolverine, those are your guys.
Congratulations.
But if you got go to any personin particular, like any kid, and
you're saying, oh, who's yourfavorite superhero?
You're gonna get Superman,you're gonna get Batman, like

(57:51):
you're gonna get the Flash,you're gonna get those before
I'll give it to Spider-Man.
Spider-Man is up there.
He's always been that goat, he'salways been that guy.

SPEAKER_00 (57:57):
Spider-Man's my goat.
Yeah, he's up there.

SPEAKER_01 (57:58):
I'm not I can't even hold that.
Spider-Man is is he is the goat.
Number, like, number two,because Superman is just the
picture perfect superhero.
It's whatever he's born, I don'tlike him.
But either way.
But you know, we're gonna ratehim in this minute.
Sure.
Once Marvel came on scene anddid movies right and created
this one timeline that justexploded in something like

(58:19):
beautiful, for sure.
Marvel was just taking itcinematic.
That was the they were takingthe biggest poop on DC.
No, no question.
Avengers came in.
Yeah, but if you go comic bookruns, like when an actual DC
comic is like superhero comics,y'all can't have a conversation
because you can take the averageMarvel, the average Marvel fan,

(58:42):
and go just like name a seriesfrom give me a run from
Spider-Man, they don't got it.
Give me a storyline from X-Men,they don't got it.
Okay, uh Incredible Hulk namethree of his like villains, his
his uh antagonists, they don'tgot it.

SPEAKER_00 (59:00):
I can't even name one.

SPEAKER_01 (59:01):
Exactly.
So it's just like because youguys aren't Marvel fans, you're
MCU fans, rightfully so.
What they did was amazing, butwhen it comes to the argument of
just like what is better as aproperty, DC or Marvel, it's DC
all day.
Not even close.

SPEAKER_00 (59:16):
Okay, yeah.
Hey, we're gonna open the pollup.
We're gonna open.
I like DC though.
I see.
I'm a Marvel guy because ofSpider-Man.
Sure.

SPEAKER_01 (59:24):
Spider-Man.
Rightfully so.
I'll give it to you.
I was like, Toby killed it.
Toby killed it.
He did.

SPEAKER_00 (59:28):
I also love the Flash though.

SPEAKER_01 (59:30):
Not Ezra.

SPEAKER_00 (59:31):
Not Ezra.
No flash.
More so.
Um more so I just like superspeed characters.
Yeah, I love speed shirts forsure.
I just I fell in love with that.
But like you just said, youknow, Marvel went crazy.
I don't even I don't know whenit started.
I forgot it was around 2010s, Ithink.

SPEAKER_01 (59:51):
Uh I think it was technically speaking, I think it
was like 2004 was the launch ofIron Man, which like kind of
started it all.
That was the first one.
Okay.
Yeah.
I was waiting for that.

SPEAKER_00 (01:00:02):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (01:00:02):
When did when did the Avengers series start?
That was like 2012.
Okay.
If I will, if I were to make aguess.
Yeah, because they had the runsof Iron Man, which still Iron
Man by itself with its ownproperty was fantastic.
We can I'm not gonna go likeone, two, and three were solid,
but they were fine.
As superhero movies, they werefine.

(01:00:23):
Captain America, Captain America1 was cool, Winter Soldier.

SPEAKER_00 (01:00:27):
I wasn't a wasn't a Captain America fan.

SPEAKER_01 (01:00:29):
Not even Winter Soldier?
That's like that's like numberthree on the list, dog.

SPEAKER_00 (01:00:32):
I couldn't get in.
That's nuts.
You know what I think I'm notreally a Superman fan either.
So when when the powers arebasic, I don't like it.

SPEAKER_01 (01:00:40):
He's he's very, like I said, I'm not a Superman fan
either because he's very justlike cookie cutter of just like
I'm all American.
I need the struggle.
I like that that's what I needbesides.
I like the Peter Parker stuff.
I have a rock.
He's like, oh now I'm weak.
And I'm like, no, no, no, youneed to have flaws from this and
that.
Like, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 (01:00:55):
So who you got?
Let's go top five superheroes,uh, both Marvel and DC.
Oh, at the same time.
Same time.

SPEAKER_01 (01:01:03):
Number one is we'll go five.

SPEAKER_00 (01:01:05):
We'll go five up to one.

SPEAKER_01 (01:01:06):
Okay.
Oh, okay.
Five.

SPEAKER_00 (01:01:10):
Booster gold.
I don't even know what that is.
Exactly.

SPEAKER_01 (01:01:14):
So Booster Gold in uh my introduction to him was uh
uh Justice League Unlimited, sowhich is an animated series TV
show.
Yeah, so it was on CartoonNetwork shout-up.
Uh but Booster Gold, he was uh aboy from the future who came
back and he had like a littlerobot sidekick, and he just has
that man has aura.

(01:01:34):
He just he just like that.
But when he first came in, hewas just looked down and he's
just like, Who's dude?
Who's whose man is this?
Go clean up some stuff, and thenhe proved himself.
So it's like booster gold numberfive.
I'm gonna go.

SPEAKER_00 (01:01:53):
This is tough.
This is tough.
I've if you wanted to do it, Imight have to pull up like a
little a little list.
Yeah, or like a picture of justall of them.

SPEAKER_01 (01:02:06):
That's a lot.
And not only did you go like, Ithink it would have been easier
to go from one, because you'relike, oh, I could go through my
one in the middle.
Okay.

SPEAKER_00 (01:02:14):
You can start it easy.
Or it could be any order.
Sure, sure, sure.
Let's just go five.

SPEAKER_01 (01:02:20):
Okay.
So I think for my favoritesuperheroes, from I'm gonna go
top to bottom, right?
Number one, I'm gonna give it tothe Green Lantern.
He's just I yeah, it's just whoI identify.
It's it's who I identify with.
I think the flash will go numbertwo because it's like I played
sports and I ran track, andthat's like was the epitome of

(01:02:41):
there's nobody faster than him.
It's just like that's just whoyou wanted to be.
Um after that, I'm gonna have togive it to Spider-Man.

unknown (01:02:50):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (01:02:51):
Not Miles, Spider-Man, Peter Parker, he got
it.
Um four, I will probably go.
It's like a tie between Stormand Wolverine.
Because I feel like Wolverine ishis own like entity.
And Storm was kind of just likethis secret champion on X-Men.

(01:03:13):
Like she is a a top tier, she'sa she's a god, like whatever.
Just you could try to give it toCyclops as the leader, but it's
like we know who ran it.
It was Black Queen Magic, shehad it.
And then after that, I'dprobably go Booster Gold, yeah.
Okay, and and Booster Gold'sfrom uh like I said, my
introduction was from JusticeLeague.

SPEAKER_00 (01:03:34):
I gotta look that because I used to watch that
show, so I'm sure I recognizehim.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:38):
Did you have yours?
Solid, solid.

SPEAKER_00 (01:03:39):
Yeah, I want yours.
Um top three for sure.
Spider-Man, Flash.
Um I like Storm.
Well, I I fell in love with herfor other reasons.
Yeah, for other reasons.
Oh my gosh.
Oh, Storm.
But then I'm like, oh, the eyeslight up and it's damaging.

(01:03:59):
She deserves better.
Um I'm looking at a couple now.
I'm just crossing off the list.
I never really cared for Hulk.
Over you know Deadpool was toomodern for me.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:15):
Um maybe Iron Man.
There's no way you believe thatin your in your heart.
Okay, hold on.
You know what?

SPEAKER_00 (01:04:25):
Let me this was MCU.
Let me let me look at DCcharacters.
I've I haven't really I likeSuperman and Batman, but they
never really like fell in lovewith it.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:33):
It's just like you have to watch those those are
the originals, but I feel likethe only thing where like people
are so grasped so hard ontoBatman is because he's a human
being doing superhero things.
So it's like you see the most ofyourself in him because to some
toxic degree, delusional degree,you think that you could do what

(01:04:54):
he does bent in a thousandpounds.
Some people got close.
Yeah, oh you know what?

SPEAKER_00 (01:04:59):
Okay, yeah, it's a good last two.
I can't believe I forgot aboutRobin.
Which Robin?

SPEAKER_01 (01:05:04):
Batman's psychic or whatever.
No, I get that, but it's likelike you're talking about Damian
Wayne.
Do you talk about like TimDrank?
Because Nightwing, Red Hood,like there's levels to Robin.
I think there's like sevenRobins.

SPEAKER_00 (01:05:16):
Okay, you know what?
I'll just go all the above.
That's a hard one.
That's fine.
I like that one.
That's a hard one.
That's a hard one.
Yeah.
Um, and how can I forget myother baby, Wonder Woman?

SPEAKER_02 (01:05:26):
I like that answer.
I like that answer a lot.
I do like that answer.

SPEAKER_01 (01:05:31):
See?
But I feel like you know WonderWoman.
At any time, uh like I hate theterm performative, I really do.
But when you talk to a woman andit's like, oh, what's your
favorite uh like superhero?
And it's like they go WonderWoman.
I don't know if it's becausethey see themselves in there or
just like it's just the firstfemale superhero I could think
of.

SPEAKER_00 (01:05:50):
Well, that's that's kind of how I felt with you
could say the same about us, Iguess, with well for me like
Spider Man and Flash.
I was like, man, I'm sure.
Every kid, I truly, especiallyplaying sports, I truly believe
I could achieve that speed.
Yeah.
I truly believe I can jump intothe speed force.
I'm sure.

(01:06:11):
Like I was young, like maybe sixyears old.
So I knew the average human doesnot have that.
But I thought I had a gift.
Yeah.
And I was like, any day now, mygift is gonna come out.

SPEAKER_02 (01:06:26):
The fastest human alive with like 28 months.

SPEAKER_00 (01:06:29):
I was like, there has to be other people like me.
I know my gift.
And then I fell in love withSpider-Man.
I never did nothing crazy, youknow, but I was like, man, I
feel like if I jumped off thiswhatever right now, like
something, I don't know, yeah,it's gonna come out.
You never picked border skin?
Yeah, like you know when theytried in the movies and and like

(01:06:49):
all of a sudden, like, oh, Ididn't even know I had this
power.
I was gotta be brave enough totake it.
I was so confident.
I was so confident.
No one ever stopped me neither.
No one told me the difference.
That's crazy.
I was like, it's it's still myto this day, to this day.
I still believe it.

SPEAKER_01 (01:07:02):
But no, I can I respect all those choices 100%.

SPEAKER_00 (01:07:05):
But we can um end on I'll let you let you have the
anime talk.
I honestly I'm not good with theanime.

SPEAKER_01 (01:07:11):
That's perfectly fine.

SPEAKER_00 (01:07:12):
I'm not good with anime.
So maybe you could do like uhlike another ranking, like top
top anime shows.

SPEAKER_01 (01:07:18):
Uh sure.
So first and foremost, I I knowthat you hear a lot of audience
members hear the term anime andthey plug it into just like it's
a cartoon.
Like, oh, it's a grown man stillwatching cartoons.
Actually, I know that you don't,but there's a large audience out
there that will never give animea try because it is a cartoon in

(01:07:41):
in their head.
And to me, I I watch a lot offilm, like I I this is my
industry.
So for them to be able to tell astory using a different method
is all that's why I watchanimes.
It's just like you could do alot more in a cartoon than you
could do in live action, whichis why live ac live action

(01:08:01):
adaptations are so like awfulbecause you can't do what you
could draw, right?
Like there are humanlimitations.
So I'm just gonna say that firstand foremost.
Um, I'm gonna go, I'm gonna giveyou five that I think everybody
should watch.
Hunter Hunter.

SPEAKER_00 (01:08:17):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (01:08:18):
Death Note should be watched only because of how
compelling the story is and howshort the story is.
It's like 33 episodes.
So it's like you could watchthat in like two days, and it
it's a good way to like dip yourtoe into the water.
Um I don't want to put anythinglike too new, like solo

(01:08:38):
leveling, because I only likesolo leveling season one.
Same with like One Punch Man,season one.
Those two, if you watch thefirst season of it, you'll get
it it'll compel you to want towatch more of just like, oh, I
could watch this type beat.
Um Berserker is a very darkstoryline, but man, it is so

(01:09:01):
good.
I love that season.

SPEAKER_00 (01:09:02):
Alright, you're like lighting up when it's like,
yeah, man.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:04):
It was because literally just like from the
jump, it starts off as them askids, and some some stuff goes
down immediately that that turnsthem into this, like this, this
whole adventure that he's goingon to, and it's beautiful.
Um I'm a nerd, so I love Dr.
Stone.
And though there's a lot of justlike inaccuracies on just like

(01:09:26):
what actual chemical elementscan go into do this, it's fun to
think that people could getexcited in science in this way.
I would say put your kids on Dr.
Stone.
Uh and then like a deeper cut.
I'm gonna go.
I think it's called like uhMushu Kobe Jobless Reincarnated.

(01:09:50):
Um man, it's they're coming outwith a fourth season, I think
like this October.
And the the one thing that'skind of just like it's an
Isekai, which means thatsomebody died and gets reborn
into a different world.
What happens is it's a guy who's34, he dies, gets reborn as a
baby, and which which is it'ssuch a deep thought because it's
like when people are just like,Oh, I want to get reincarnated,

(01:10:12):
blah blah blah.
I'm like, as a baby?
Because now you're sittingthere, it's like your mom is
gonna nurture you, which meansyou're sucking on a nipple.
And it's like, luckily for him,like this is a stranger's
nipple, go off.
But at the same time, like ifyou restarted your own life,
this is your mom, you're gonnasuck on her teeth, or you're not
gonna get milk, and you'reconscious of it all, yeah.
So and all of this is in here,it's just like you make your
decisions, but either way, sohe's 34, goes through this, uh,

(01:10:35):
and he the beginning is kind ofweird because it is kind of
those those real-time decisionsthat you don't want to think
about of just like your mom'sboob.
You hear your like you're ababy, you hear your parents
hooking up in the back room.
This kid pleasured himself toit.
Crazy choice, but at the end ofthe day, those are strangers.
I could kind of write you off,but at the same time, I

(01:10:56):
understand just as the as as aplank, as like in in this new
world, a child beat off to hisparents having sex.
That's weird.
Oh man, right, you know what I'msaying?
And then he falls in love withlike a girl who's like eight
because he's eight, but he's 34.
You know what I mean?
So it's just like weird.
So it's just like that's whereit gets a lot of just like slack

(01:11:18):
from of just like, oh, this isbut if you once you get past him
being a kid and when he becomeslike which is like the first
season.

SPEAKER_00 (01:11:24):
Wait, which show which show was this?

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:25):
Uh it's like uh sounded like it's it's it's
jobless reincarnated.
If you chop, if you type injobless reincarnate, it'll pop
it'll pop up.
But once you get past like thefirst season and he goes to
school, and now he's like ateen, young adult, and he's
doing real things where it'slike cool, now life is life.
The story gets so cold.

(01:11:45):
Like, bro, this man like can'tcatch a break, and he has to
overcome every challenge in hisway.
And he's just trying to findlike uh because like his his
whole family gets split up, hismom, his dad, his little sister.
They there's something happensin the world, and everybody goes
to different corners of theworld.
He's trying to get back, and hefinally meets up with his dad,
and he's like trying to tell himlike the story of just like

(01:12:07):
these are all the adventuresthat like of him trying to be
proud.
It's like, look at the man Ibecame, and the dad just sits
there and he's like, You did allthat playing around, he didn't
find your mom, and it's like itcrushed him, and it's like the
story is just like so realbecause it's like you can think
you're doing the right thing,and then when you actually go to
your dad, who isn't even yourdad, it's it's it's someone who

(01:12:27):
kind of raised you, but now youhave this connection that you
didn't have in the past life,and you didn't even meet his
standards, and you get just shotdown like that.
Man, there was layers to thatshow.
I loved it.
I will forever stand by that.

SPEAKER_00 (01:12:41):
Forever stand by that show.
I'm gonna I'm gonna go back, I'mgonna review the footage.

SPEAKER_01 (01:12:46):
I'll send you all of it.
No problem.
You can have my crunchy rolllogin.
Go, go watch till your heart isall right.
Yeah, I mean, crunchy, we willnever do that.
I will get you your own crunchyroll login and happily pay for
it.

SPEAKER_03 (01:12:57):
I'll send you everything, give me right, give
me a second.

SPEAKER_00 (01:13:02):
Nah, but yeah, I appreciate that, man.
That was um bro, it's uhrefreshing to have a talk like
this.
You know, haven't had guy talkin a while.
So between the music, thesports, the anime.
Well, we didn't get fully intosports, but anime, uh movies,
dating.
Modern man.
Yeah, we we covered a lot too.
You know what's crazy?
I I always avoid modern mantalk.

(01:13:23):
Always avoided.
Yeah, yeah.
But I was like, you know what?
I feel like you could do it in ahealthy way.
It's done in the healthy smallideas, yeah.
We have the same mindset when itcomes to that.
Um still not going to war, butyou know.
But uh, yeah, anything you wantto share, promote, anything
coming up?

SPEAKER_01 (01:13:39):
Um, I would say just buckling because the next couple
years I'm gonna stay active,gonna stay busy, have a lot of
stuff in the in the works.
And if you're a creator whowants to get into the space of
filmmaking, please tap in.
We're developing an app uh inwhich we are giving creators a
budget and a platform toshowcase your projects in front

(01:14:02):
of studios to get it picked upin real time.
So no more hoping that the righteye see it on YouTube or TikTok
or whatever, it needs to goviral.
It's going straight to source.
So if that's you, shoot me a DMand let's work.

SPEAKER_00 (01:14:16):
Beautiful.
I love that.
Yeah, I love that.
But yeah, I appreciate youagain.
Like I said, this was wayoverdue in the works.
So I feel like this is uh let meknow anytime you're here.

SPEAKER_01 (01:14:25):
I can meet you in in Texas.

SPEAKER_00 (01:14:27):
I'll be back.
Hey, actually, we'll we'll be inTexas, we'll be in Texas soon.
But yeah.
Vibes always maculate.
Go check us out.
YouTube, Spotify, ApplePodcasts, TikTok, IG, all that
good stuff.
We love y'all.
Appreciate y'all.
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