Divorce etc... podcast hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. & Jessica)

Don't you want to feel like you're in control of your divorce? Are you tired of hearing people tell you how bad your divorce process will be? In this episode we talk to attorney and Certified Life Coach Meaghan Norris about being the CEO of your divorce (and your life). You'll hear tips and ways to get into the right mindset, which will ensure you are making the best choices and decision for you and your family. Hear ho...

A common fear in women getting divorced is whether they will have enough money to support themselves and their families. Many women have been out of the workforce for years and don't know where to start when it comes to looking for a job, and this episode can help! We spoke to Heather Black, who runs an organization dedicated to helping women get back to work in well-paying jobs they could never have imagined. This episode can ...

For anyone who's dealing with a high-conflict legal battle, it's important to know that the term "legal abuse" is a real thing. There is a time when all the back and forths, and briefs and motions can become part of a pattern that lawyers and judges recognize as legal abuse. The intention is to try and wear you down, both emotionally and financially, and it is not ok. It is extremely important not to give in just ...

One of the hard truths about divorce is that if you have kids, you're not done with your ex once the divorce is final. You now have to transition into the next phase, which is coparenting together. For many couples, finding common ground and being able to coparent peacefully is as hard as getting through the divorce negotiations - and for some couples, coparenting ends up being years of additional arguing and toxicity. We spoke...

Talking to your kids about your divorce is one of the hardest parts for many parents. When do you tell them? What should you say? What shouldn't you say? What's the best way to handle their emotions - anger, sadness, fear? We talk to Grace Casper from Divorce Tips From Kids, who has suggested answers that are a great guide for any situation. Anyone who has kids should listen to this episode! (Guest: Grace Casper, Podcast Ho...

Have you felt that your ex is trying to smear you during your divorce, whether it's to your kids, your friends or even to the lawyers and court? Dealing with a smear campaign is a highly emotional situation, but it happens far too often. In this episode, we speak to Matt Phifer all about this version of toxic abuse and how to handle it. This is a must-listen for anyone dealing with a high-conflict divorce. (Guest: Matt Phifer, ...

Once you know you're getting divorced, you need to start watching what you say. Nowadays, so many things can be used against you, that you really want to be careful about your communications with everyone in your life. Your texts, your emails, even your social media posts - these are all things that you have to be aware of. And it's not just your messages to your ex...even communications you have with friends and family may...

Feeling like you've lost your identity after getting divorced is so common because divorce often brings about feelings of "who am I?" now that you're no longer part of a married couple. From changing your name to going back into the corporate workforce, major changes are happening in many ways. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen - the Divorce Doctor - explains that there are ways to reset how you think so you can embrace the new...

Money is a main concern in divorce, and there are many common pitfalls that occur that you can avoid if you know what they are. In this episode we speak to Sara Chevere, Financial Coach and Founder of Finance Babe, to learn what you need to know and how to prepare and protect yourself financially during your divorce. (Guest: Sara Chevere, Intuitive Financial Coach & Founder of Finance Babe)

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Who doesn't want to become better at Advanced Adulting? In this episode, one of our signature male exEXPERTS, Bradley Richardson, gives us the lowdown on what exactly "Advanced Adulting" is and means, and why is essential for everyone - both men and women. The concept is based on life lessons and learning from mistakes we've made, and how to move forward productively and positively. As Bradley says, he's all a...

When getting divorced, most people just don't know what they don't know. They also don't know what they need to know. In this episode, we speak to Family Law attorney Dennis Vetrano, who deals with a lot of high-conflict cases and tells it like it is. From when is the right time to start meeting with lawyers, to understanding that every time you're in court you are "on stage", so how you act (and even dres...

Divorce from a narcissist is one of the most challenging types of divorces a person can go through, and we know it's not always easy to talk about. Getting out of a toxic relationship that includes trauma and emotional abuse is extremely difficult, but with the right support, you can move on and find joy - and love! - again. In this episode we hear a first-hand account of divorcing and moving on from a narcissist, so if this is...

What do parenting apps do and how can they help divorced parents? And are there certain features you should be looking for if you want to use one, like GPS locator or the ability to upload photos and documents? In this episode we speak to Michael Daniels, Founder of the co-parenting app FAYR. Hear about what makes Fayr different than other apps out there, and why this might be the right choice for you. (Guest: Michael Daniels, Foun...

Father's Day should be a happy day for dads, but when you're divorced, there are a lot of emotions that may come along with it. Plus, wrangling the kids and trying to set up the day can sometimes end up leading to disappointment. We've all been there! But there are some ways you divorced dads can set yourself up for success, and we get some of the best ideas and tips from parenting coach Jay Skibbens. This episode can h...

When you think of getting divorced, you may not actually realize how many options you have for the kind of divorce you might want. Back in the day, litigation was the norm, and sometimes mediation was an alternative. But today, due to the fact that so many couples - and most lawyers - want to avoid litigation, you have a lot of choices. And the great news is, there is an organization whose whole mission is to help divorcing couples...

For everyone divorced with kids, talking to your children and trying to figure out how to approach the tough conversations are some of the hardest parts of the whole process. How to bring it up, what are the "right" things to say and what are the kids even thinking? As parents, we want to help our kids process without doing further damage or causing additional emotional stress. This in an inside conversation between the f...

Fears about money are one of the biggest concerns of divorce, and learning how to strategize for financial success can have an enormous impact on every part of your process. In this episode, we talk to a Certified Divorce Financial Advisor all about the best formula for successful negotiations and how to look at your own situation to determine whether or not you feel ok, and what changes you will want to make. (Guest: Rhonda Noordy...

The stress of divorce takes a toll not only on your mind, but on your body. That's why it is so important to prioritize your your own health and wellness and make sure that doesn't fall to the bottom of your to-do list. Easier said than done, we know, but this episode sheds light on 12 lifestyle factors and how these different pieces need to fit together to be balanced in order to move on past stress, trauma and divorce. (G...

Sometimes we have to just hear the straight truth, no matter how much it hurts. Why? Because being honest with ourselves, especially in a hard situation, is going to help us be prepared and get through it in the best way possible. But if you can get all of that with a few laughs along the way, even better. NY Times Bestselling Author Sarah Knight gives us an inside look at her newest book, how it relates to everything in life (incl...