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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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the Double A Club and this is
your host, ny Boom, and myco-host, big Daz.
We'll be talking about trendingtopics and healthcare and
basically just as a disclaimerjust to let the listeners know
that this is just basically onour opinions and speculations
(00:24):
and I hope you guys enjoy theshow.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Let's start off and
kick off with our first topic it
started, I was reading somestuff on the internet and I ran
into a topic that was somewhatinteresting.
The topic was about weddingtraditions and it's basically
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women who have come forthtalking about what part of the
wedding tradition they wouldlike to exclude or take out of
the tradition.
And you'd be surprised some ofthe topics that they similar
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topics that they brought up thatis interesting.
Yeah, so one of the things thatthey brought up was an obvious
one is the bachelor party.
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They definitely state thatthey'd rather not have.
They can do without thebachelor party.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Hold on, hold on.
You're breaking up BlakeRobotically.
Bad I.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Said that they
Bachelor party.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
They can do without
the basketballs, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yes, okay, that was
one of the things that they
picked to do without that theydidn't need in the wedding, and
the reason why is they don'tlike the whole idea of someone
getting drunk and using thealcohol as an excuse for making
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one of the biggest mistakes intheir life.
Okay, I just got to hear this.
This is an interesting story.
So the second one is that theywould like to take out of the
wedding.
Is the bride being given awayby the father?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Oh really.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
That's interesting,
yeah, and when I was reading it
it just sounded really fuckingstupid.
It just sounds like to me.
Well, let me tell you thereason why.
They don't like the idea ofbeing a procession of somebody
and then being given to someoneelse.
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So, okay, it kind of would liketo do it's a whole.
It's a whole thing with justmale figures.
It's a whole thing with justthe idea of male figures.
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I think what women are trying todo is eliminate male figures in
a lot of the stuff that they'rethat have involved.
And then the other thing isthat it's it's a tradition,
because back in the days, maleor female, you was the
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possession of the parents andthe parents would have to give
you away to someone else in thewedding and they're lucky that
the parent doesn't pick who youmarry.
That is one tradition that theykind of did without.
So I mean like just to besaying that, hey, I don't like
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the idea that I'm my father'spossession.
Well, guess what, You're yourfather's and mother's possession
.
You know what I'm saying.
If they put you in this life,they can fucking take you out.
You know what I'm saying.
I agree with that.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
You know what I'm
saying you know that's funny
that you say that because?
Well, go ahead, continue, I'llbring it up, because mine is a
different topic.
Okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
So the third one is
the bride's family changed for
the wedding.
They don't want to continuedoing this one.
They believe that it should bepaid for by the couple in itself
.
By who?
By the couple.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Okay, I mean, you
know I don't disagree with it.
Actually that's one I canactually agree with.
Go ahead to agree with Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
I think more couples
are doing this just because they
simply cannot afford, or theparents can't afford, these type
of weddings.
So the couples, the people whoare marrying them, are more
responsible towards this.
So I think, in that aspect,they've Jason do it for years.
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So they do not like the wedding, the wedding vows, and the part
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of the wedding vows that theydon't like is the phrase Let me
guess, go ahead, why don't you?
Guess Steve.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
No, go ahead.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
No, no, no, Guess,
guess guess.
I want you to guess.
Hello, yeah, guess guess.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Don't call him Go
ahead.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I want you to guess,
guess what that is.
Hello, yes, hello.
Can you hear me?
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Hold on, give me two
seconds.
I don't know technically, Hello.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
There we go Much
better.
Sorry about that, that's allright.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
So, yes, what phrase
of the vows that women do not
like?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
The possessive part.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Uh, no, no.
The part of the vows that theydislike is when the pastor or
the priest says the wife, submitto your husband.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah, the progressive
part, yeah, they don't like
that.
And I bet all these studies arehere in America.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
And the last thing
that they dislike about the
weddings and they would chooseto do it out is the ending of
the ceremony, when the pastor orthe priest says I now pronounce
you, man and wife.
They dislike this.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
What?
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Well, it sounds
stupid.
And the reason why I say thatis, if you listen to it, listen
to the word I say I nowpronounce you man and wife.
The man and wife part is thedumb part.
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Why not state man and woman?
Or if you're gonna use the wordwife, why not state I pronounce
you husband, wife.
Well, I believe that a lot ofthey have made some changes,
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because when I got married, Ibelieve the guy, the pastor,
said husband and wife.
He didn't say man and wife, butI have heard man and wife
before.
So, okay, the things that theywould like to do without.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Why not leave?
Why not pronounce husband andwife?
Yeah, yeah, it's because of LGT, that's why.
But you just say wife and wifeor husband and husband yeah, I
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mean it could be.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
It doesn't make sense
saying man and wife.
You should be saying man andwoman or husband and wife.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Like it should be
well, I don't even think it
should be male or woman.
I think it should be husbandand wife, because that's exactly
what Jesus is right.
You know, pronouncing them ashusband and wife, I could have
sworn that well when I gotmarried.
I've never been married, soyeah, you're right when I got
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married, that's what it was.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
For me, it was
husband and wife yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I have heard man and
wife before in in ceremony, so
it's not like so many weddingsI've been through and I've never
paid attention to that partwell, I mean, you know a lot of
shit.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
This is us men.
You know what I'm saying.
Yeah, yeah.
So you, you said you wanted toMention something about the vows
, or something like that.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
No, it's funny
because the choice is that Women
Are Okay.
So you were talking about,about a way I'm gonna bring up
first date, which is a listingof first state of not.
(11:28):
The place is not meant for mento not take women on first dates
places too.
These are women recommendingmen not to do these first date
places.
And this is the list.
So Cheesecake Factory, appleTree, chili's, chipotle, olive
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Garden, the Movie, your House Imean your House.
I could actually agree withthat.
But everything else above that,and there's way more, I'm going
go, keep going.
But what's wrong withCheesecake Factory, like what's
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wrong with looking at a big menuand having a conversation for
half an hour or 40 minutesbesides your men meal?
Speaker 2 (12:26):
to be honest with you
, for me, first date or any date
unless I'm already like I'mtired of talking to you and I
kind of already know enoughinformation about you, I would
never do a movie that has likemusic or dancing or anything
like that.
I wouldn't do that because infact I can't sit and concentrate
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on you and they can'tconcentrate on me.
You know what I'm saying.
So that date is out the window.
But like, for example, anyrestaurant I don't give a fuck
if it's Starbucks you know whereyou can sit down and have
coffee.
I can sit down and talk to youand not get distracted and not
have a lot of noise in thebackground where I have to over
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talk, over the noise that wouldbe me as a first date.
I mean, that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
but I mean, yeah,
you're right, A nightclub, I
don't think that would be normal.
But yeah, a nightclub is a badclub.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
I don't know why they
picked Cheesecake Factory.
The only reason why I canassume that they picked
Cheesecake Factory is because ofthat dumb chick that's been
trending online on TikTok orwhatever, about her reaction
towards being taken toCheesecake Factory.
And then she Stated that she,they all, she planned that and
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that that wasn't really her.
But that's bullshit.
She's just trying to cover upbecause she's being blackballed
at work.
She's probably about to loseher job and everything.
You know what.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I'm saying she's an
idiot, she is.
It's a self-title Diddy, butyeah Going back to yeah going
back to.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
I don't see any
problems with those listings.
I mean even the house.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Hold on, hold on.
There's still more.
There's way more.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
I know, but again,
depending on what you just gave
us.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
I got two, I got two,
I got two.
So there's also Eddie's Flash,eddie's Flash 2 Chain Buffalo
Wings, buffalo Wild Wings sorry,stop.
Red lobster, a buffet, I hopDates, family Functions, movie
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Night, netflix, hulu Okay,somewhere, somewhere that
requires A long drive.
I don't know what was wrongwith that one.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
So they eliminated
Everything.
So what is it?
Nightclub.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't even exactly.
I think, I think that that Likein that article.
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Well, no, it's just a list ofwomen to recommend men not to
take on first dates.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Okay, so did they put
a recommendation on where to
take people for the first date?
No, of course not, because theybasically eliminate everything.
They eliminate fast food, cheapfood, depending on the person's
economic status.
No, they just want to fucking.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
They want a rich
nigga to fucking close down a
whole goddamn arena and have onetable with two plates of
fucking candy.
Huh.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Yeah, or go to
fucking Rusk.
Get the fuck out of here.
Kiss my ass, your pussy isn'teven worth that shit.
Out of here.
Kiss my ass, your pussy isn'teven worth that shit.
If I have to go, if I have todrop three, four, five hundred
dollars to feed your ass on afirst date, I'd rather just not
feed you.
I'll call girl anything, oh,anything, yeah I you know, I
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remember, um, there's, um,there's a cruise, a special
cruise.
It's a man's cruise, right?
And what they do is that theyput like 10, they bring in like
10 to 15 men, right, and eachman.
I don't know how much the feeis, but it's not cheap, right.
And they have all these modelchicks, like these Instagram
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influences, right on that boatand each man gets to have two,
and one man each day of thecruise will have a night with
three.
They'll just be rotating theguys to have three, but in
general they'll have one or twogirls.
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And, yeah, I mean, I know it'snot ideal to be, you know,
sleeping with somebody who doesthis for work.
But guess what, if I have tofucking drop four or five
hundred dollars on a date withyou, I might as well just go on
something like that you knowwhat I'm saying?
A cruise like that, and havesex with three girls.
You know what I'm saying?
That shit would be way moreenjoyable for me than fucking
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taking you out to Ruth's Chrisand not possibly not getting any
.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Yeah, yeah,
absolutely that's fucking nuts.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
And it's sad to say
that I don't want to say that,
hey, if I'm taking you out, Ineed to have sex.
No, I'm not saying that.
But what I am saying is that IfI gotta go to, If I gotta take
you out to a place that's gonnabe over Over 100, 200, 300, $400
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, then I'm not wasting my timewith that.
I'm going to go and get theshort thing that.
You know what I'm saying.
I'm not going to deal with youand then and then fucking go
with the possibility that shemight sleep with me at the end
of the night.
You know what I'm saying.
Like there's no point.
You know what I'm saying.
Like there's no point.
You know what I'm saying.
Like, unless we're doing ittogether and we're building a
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family, I'm not fucking spendingthat type of money on you.
You know what I'm saying youknow what I mean.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
I don't even spend
that.
I don't even spend a dollar,unless I got that type of money.
Is I ain't spending that kindof money, like the whole point
of the first date is to impresssomebody, right?
Speaker 2 (19:37):
you're there to make
a first impression, right?
Speaker 3 (19:39):
but no, I think the
whole point of a first date
exactly what you said in thebeginning is to get to know the
person, not to impress them but,but, but.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
A lot of times in the
first date you're trying to
impress somebody.
You know what I'm saying, andbut most of the time the
impression is on the manfinancially.
You know we have to try to takeout the date, make the plans,
do all this shit.
You know what I'm saying.
That's how the man is.
That's how the man is.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
As a man.
Let's look back at our position.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
The security and all
I'm saying is that in the first
couple of days, there's noreason for me to go out my
pocket like that.
I'm not, you're not, you're not, you're not anyone as of right
(20:38):
now for me to invest on.
You know, saying we haven'teven got to the point where I
know you're gonna be that person.
You're saying so I'm not gonnablow, I'm not gonna put that
type of investment on you.
What I wanted is for you andfind out if you're worth the
investment.
And how do you find that?
By watching the stocks.
So I got to watch you andevaluate you.
(21:01):
You know what I'm saying?
The same thing is, she's doingthe same thing with you, she's
evaluating you and all thatshe's not coming out of her
pocket in the first date.
Listen, if the woman had to payfor the fucking first date,
there would be no list.
This would not exist.
Any place.
Any place that they would liketo go is acceptable.
(21:23):
Yeah, so fuck it.
That list is bullshit.
I don't give a fuck what theyhave to say.
If you're making the list, thenyou fucking pay for it.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Yeah, no problem, I
ain't got no problem Person the
true about themselves or walk upa fuck off.
I don't care, I really don'tgive a fuck, but I hear you.
To me it's getting to know theperson.
(21:56):
Like you said, watching thestock You're trying to figure
something out.
You find out, let's see whatyou got, let's see how you can
help things out.
What can we do, however?
It doesn't necessarily.
To me it doesn't necessarilyhave to be.
You know, we fucking or wedidn't do nothing.
I could be a business partnerwith you.
(22:19):
You'd be cool, like we couldfigure things out, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
So how many times
have you been on a date and
nothing happened?
It was just great conversation.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Yeah, well, that's
just that's the life of a man.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
So, like I said, even
going to the park is acceptable
for me because I have I've beenan area where I can solely
concentrate on getting to knowyou as a person.
Yeah, solely concentrate ongetting to know you as a person.
Speaker 3 (22:54):
Yeah, that's the way
I see it.
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