You're Not Stuck—You're Looping: The 'Jessica' Effect (Ep 79)

Host Kelly Jackson unpacks the viral “Jessica” trend—where a tantruming child instantly stops when an adult says “Jessica”—as a real-time example of a nervous system pattern interrupt that breaks an automatic loop and brings awareness back online. She connects it to the invisible loops adults still live in, including overthinking, anxiety spirals, repeating relationship patterns, self-doubt, avoidance, and burnout cycles, and argues that awareness is the interruption that creates a pause and restores choice. She also introduces her new virtual space, the Reset Room, designed to help people interrupt patterns in real time, and teases a guest episode coming next week on 4/20.

From the Episode:

• " I am seeing pattern interrupt. And it made me realize how much of our lives we spend in loops that we don't even realize we're in."
• "Overthinking can look like replaying a conversation from earlier and thinking of 10 different ways you should have responded, or having a conversation and feeling really good about it at the time. Maybe you met someone new, or maybe it was even somebody you know already, when you had this great talk and it was deep and then you get home later and you're like, did I say too much? Did I overshare? It felt good at the time, and now I wish I could take it back."
• " We get stuck in avoidance loops, like knowing exactly what needs to be done, but then suddenly feeling the urge to clean or to scroll or to do anything else instead of what needs to be done."
• "  Most people think that they are stuck, but they're not stuck. They are looping and the moment you interrupt the loop, even if it's for a second, you realize you were never trapped, you were just unconscious."

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• Click Here to explore Kelly's offerings: The Reset Room, Self-Love Uni, workshops, in-person experiences, coaching containers, and opportunities to go deeper into this work together
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