116 - Rules of Engagement Party

1. Think about what you will be like over the next 10 years. Tell us about how you are similar and how you differ from your future self. Describe your future self as vividly as you can.

2. Imagine a typical day, five years in the future. Think about what it may be like, things you may do, places you may go, and people you may meet. How might you might feel about your day's experience? Describe your future day as vividly as you can. Include any specific details that come to mind.

3. Tell us about the career and/or your job you may have 10 years. How does that compare with what you hope and/or fear your career may be?

4. Think about your friendships and familial relationships over the next 10 years. How do you expect to feel in your future relationships? What about safe, supported, valued? What about afraid and/or like a burden? Do you feel your future friends and family will respect and be accepting of you? Why? What role will you play in these relationships? Describe your future relationships as vividly as you can. Tell us why you think your relationships will look this way.

5. Is there a community or communities (or group/organization of people) you see yourself being part of in the coming years? Tell us about the role or roles you may play. Will you feel like you belong to this group? What about you will add value to the group? Please describe this in as much detail as you can.

6. Think about what your personality will be like several years in the future. Tell us what you like and dislike about your future personality. Describe each trait clearly and explain why you like and/or dislike those traits in particular.

7. Think about some things you will do over the next 10 years. Think about your future accomplishments and/or hobbies. Tell us what you like and dislike about your future actions. Describe each clearly and explain why you like and dislike those actions in particular.

8. Think about what your beliefs and values will be like over the next 10 years. Tell us about how your current beliefs and values are similar and how they differ from your future self.

9. In general, how do you feel about your future self? Do you like who you expect yourself to be in the future? Why? How will you feel about yourself several years in the future from now? Please describe this in depth and explain why you think you will feel that way

10.How do you see your life overall 10 years in the future? What are your expectations and/or hopes for the future? Can you describe your future life?

11. What do you want to achieve in the next 10 years? Why? What are your major goals for the next 10 years of your life? Please describe them in detail and explain why you selected these.

12. Describe your ideal life in 10 years. Please explain this in depth and with details.

13. What do you think will be the biggest change or event in your life over the next 10 years?

14. Describe the life you fear you may have over the next 10 years. Please explain this in depth and with details

15. What do you think will be the biggest challenges to achieving your life goals over the next 10 years? Please describe them in detail and explain why these are your biggest challenges.