She’s Not Built for Me: Lessons on Love, Growth & Standards

In Episode 4 of What I Learned Today, Michael and I dive into the evolving dynamics of relationships — not from a place of blame, but from a desire to understand. We reflect on growing up, becoming young adults, and what it means to be a young aunt or uncle with a front-row seat to life’s changes. Michael opens up about past relationships, the kinds of women he’s encountered, and how they often haven’t aligned with the man he’s becoming.

This episode unpacks the contrast between how men and women “build” — emotionally, mentally, and relationally — and how those differences can either divide or deepen our connections. It’s honest, thought-provoking, and grounded in mutual respect. Michael even has a few breakthroughs of his own, including new clarity about his worth and what he’s no longer willing to compromise on.

This is not just about relationships — it’s about self-awareness, growth, and learning how to ask better questions of ourselves and others.