Healing, Real Love, & Modern Dating with Stephan Speaks

What if your heartbreak wasn’t a failure but a wake-up call to finally heal? In this incredibly raw episode of Harder Than Life, Stephan Speaks, relationship coach, bestselling author, and emotional intelligence expert joins Kelly to break down modern dating struggles, self-sabotage, intimacy, and the exact process for finally healing your heart. This isn’t your typical dating talk. It’s a spiritual reset disguised as a relationship podcast. “We don’t attract what we want. We entertain what we are and who we tolerate.” In This Episode, You’ll Learn: 🔥 Why modern dating feels so broken 🔥 The “illusion of options” and why it ruins real connection 🔥 Why most breakups are blessings in disguise 🔥 Stephan’s healing blueprint: The “Who Hurt Me” method & emotional detox 🔥 How to know if someone is actually ready for love 🔥 Why men often get unfairly labeled and what no one says about it 🔥 What real intimacy feels like 🔥 Questions to ask on a first date that actually matter 💬 What part of this conversation cracked something open for you? Drop your truth in the comments—we’re all healing forward together. 🔔 Subscribe now for real, raw, radically healing episodes with today’s boldest voices on relationships, healing, and growth. Connect With Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelly.siegel.71/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71 Connect With Stephan: Website: https://www.stephanspeaks.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/# YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MeetStephanSpeaks Join My Coaching Program: https://coaching.harderthanlife.com/join Subscribe To The Podcast Here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/harder-than-life/id1725989697 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/29NOnhItmCLkZ9sLswABKS?si=d81915ddabc0420a YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices